People just can't help themselves smh. Like you said people assume if you young and in a relationship why do you not have kids! I got married later in life 42, we struggled to conceive then it finally happened and loss the pregnancy 💔. I too have hypothyroidism. So, I can relate. I recommend a book called it starts with the egg if you guys still want to try. Great book for women trying to conceive 💜
Oh no, I'm so sorry that you and your husband had to go through that. 🙏🏾♥️ But yes they automatically assume you are supposed to go make a baby immediately. After you have been with someone for a while. And you can relate to me about dealing with thyroids. I hate it so much and always wonder why I had to end up with it. And we are getting married next year and people have something to say about that as well smh! But I will go check the book out because we are still trying for one. Thank you so much for the recommendation and comment.
I once said life sometime plays some cruel jokes on people. I see why there’s people out there who put up a wall to protect themselves against the universe. You can be dreaming of having something then suddenly life wants to be cruel then for some reason, it doesn’t happen. Thank you for sharing your story.
I told my mom when I was 10 that I didn’t ever want children. I’m 35 and still don’t. Everybody always said I’d change my mind. In my late 20’s people felt “sorry” for me. But I didn’t have kids because I never tried for them. I’m so glad I didn’t have children. And I still don’t want them. There is nothing wrong with that. People need to mind their own business. 😂
@@heatherstiara8033 exactly there isn’t anything wrong with not wanting kids. But people will try to make you feel bad by saying you should have some and kids are a blessing. No one never said they weren’t. But everyone chose different paths in life. And it might not include having children. And right people definitely need to mind their own business. And worry about themselves!😂😂
People just can't help themselves smh. Like you said people assume if you young and in a relationship why do you not have kids! I got married later in life 42, we struggled to conceive then it finally happened and loss the pregnancy 💔. I too have hypothyroidism. So, I can relate. I recommend a book called it starts with the egg if you guys still want to try. Great book for women trying to conceive 💜
Oh no, I'm so sorry that you and your husband had to go through that. 🙏🏾♥️ But yes they automatically assume you are supposed to go make a baby immediately. After you have been with someone for a while. And you can relate to me about dealing with thyroids. I hate it so much and always wonder why I had to end up with it. And we are getting married next year and people have something to say about that as well smh! But I will go check the book out because we are still trying for one. Thank you so much for the recommendation and comment.
I once said life sometime plays some cruel jokes on people. I see why there’s people out there who put up a wall to protect themselves against the universe. You can be dreaming of having something then suddenly life wants to be cruel then for some reason, it doesn’t happen. Thank you for sharing your story.
Yes this is so true. At times life is not fair at all. And you are welcome! 🤗♥️
I told my mom when I was 10 that I didn’t ever want children. I’m 35 and still don’t. Everybody always said I’d change my mind. In my late 20’s people felt “sorry” for me. But I didn’t have kids because I never tried for them. I’m so glad I didn’t have children. And I still don’t want them. There is nothing wrong with that. People need to mind their own business. 😂
@@heatherstiara8033 exactly there isn’t anything wrong with not wanting kids. But people will try to make you feel bad by saying you should have some and kids are a blessing. No one never said they weren’t. But everyone chose different paths in life. And it might not include having children. And right people definitely need to mind their own business. And worry about themselves!😂😂
Some people need to mind their business.🙄🙄
@@SaveWithMeLaShondaD I agree and they are too invested in mine! 🙄