Noel Jones Whole Proposal to Loretta with Commentary | Lessons On What NOT To Do

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  • @TBoogie76
    @TBoogie76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Best video yet! I don't even know who you are but I love you! I would never let a man dishonor me like that 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😁🥰 Awww thank you, Tia!
      You know what I already know about you, you know you deserve more. 😉🥰
      People who settle for less, get exactly what they believe they deserve. Loretta has gotten comfortable with less. 😏
      Sending you love. 🌹

    • @barbarawhite744
      @barbarawhite744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true on national TV

    • @Side2Side_Side-Ology
      @Side2Side_Side-Ology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thezaragreen this is so sad and sooo true, God have mercy on them and us because now we'll be inundated with this and young women will see this. Just perhaps it will set the stahdard for women going forward that we will RUN!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Some of these folks seriously trying to justify this raggedy church MESS and want other THINKING folks to just go along with it.
      This is some messy Pulpit Pimpin Patriarchal Phoolery! I've said my piece about it for all to hear, and I'm at peace with what I've said.
      Everybody's gotta work out their own salvation but when it's public and messy I'M TALKING ABOUT IT! 😁🤭

    • @marciarucker9825
      @marciarucker9825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He expressed no loving sentiment whatsoever! I would have expected more Man of God…I’m not judging…just saying…

  • @kareb2210
    @kareb2210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    This is what happen when you don't let a man know you have values.

  • @1lovelyblack
    @1lovelyblack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Loretta reeks desperation for accepting this disrespectful proposal. Noel thinks he’s the prize…

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      💯...he really does! And it appears that she thinks so too.
      ...couldn't be me. 😏

    • @deborahfigures945
      @deborahfigures945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This man seems so egotistical…. He needs a nurse wife now😫. It’s hard to believe this woman waited so long for this man offering such a pathetic proposal after all these years🧐

    • @lisastevens4194
      @lisastevens4194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN!!!!!!!!!

    • @debralee7681
      @debralee7681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sister Loretta is doing excellent what she wants to do and that is marry Bishop. Can people be happy for others anymore? How is your love life?

    • @paulap365
      @paulap365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@debralee7681 "Intoxicated by his own Verbosity "😂🤣😭🤣😂

  • @user-rv9qx9sp1y
    @user-rv9qx9sp1y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    From freedom to a straight jacket. Pushing his wheelchair, wiping his drool. Oh now he needs a Nurse. He’s ready to get married. The whole proposal was about his needs & wants. This personality type is Narcissistic. Intoxication with his exuberance!?? If waiting 28 years & this is the reward. I would run 🏃‍♀️ Fast!!!! He’s totally self absorbed & needs to be Single. He already disrespected her for 28 years. It will continue because she settled and allowed him to drain her of self respect & commitment.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      💥
      💯
      🎯
      👏🏽
      You got it!!!
      🌹

    • @sharonpatterson6630
      @sharonpatterson6630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That's exactly what this is!!!! And she's standing up there all gigglely like a high-school girl that have no idea. Just tragic.

    • @tonyamontgomery2733
      @tonyamontgomery2733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly...he is too old to stroll and needs to be taken care of...yamp behind!

    • @shewearsmanyhats377
      @shewearsmanyhats377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen my sister. God bless you. I watched P O L A. I didn't know she was still waiting on his ring. 😢😢😢

    • @lamentation0078
      @lamentation0078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not only that but within that 28 years he was documented to have been dating LISA RAYE the actress after her failed marriage....Lord Jesus please help us see and discern your spirit better.. Help us Lord we living do far OUT the WILL of your WILL.

  • @lisastevens4194
    @lisastevens4194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I AM EMBARRASSED FOR LORETTA!!! I WOULD HAVE LET HIM TALK AND THEN SAID.....NO!!!!!
    THEN WALKED OUT OF THE PULPIT!!!

    • @elizabethgriffin6183
      @elizabethgriffin6183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Naaaaaaaa, she's to desperate with very little self love and self worth. She love him more than herself.

    • @dr.b.3888
      @dr.b.3888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @rykishadouglas328
      @rykishadouglas328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Man what this is pitiful he so cocky before this fool even called her up im getting married like yeah it want be to me though I would of definitely said no!!!!!

    • @mjo486
      @mjo486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elizabethgriffin6183 agree

  • @deborahprater6004
    @deborahprater6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    My HEART truly goes out to Loretta!! Her self esteem is not very high CAUSE ain't NO WAY IN HELL I'D wait that long on any man!! Especially an old ass man!?

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🎯

    • @direne6558
      @direne6558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I don’t feel sorry for her because after 28 years, I know the Holy Spirit said RUN! She wanted the material things in life.

    • @Side2Side_Side-Ology
      @Side2Side_Side-Ology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

    • @margueriteporter3760
      @margueriteporter3760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop hating..

    • @direne6558
      @direne6558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@margueriteporter3760 nobody hating.

  • @erritonfuller9706
    @erritonfuller9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I'm gonna tell you something when you're grown and you've aged you do what you want to do they do what for me I'm not waiting 28 years for nobody If you can't marry me within 2 or 3 you can forget it And anybody that pulls out a ring out of a cracker jackbox look out Well God-bless Because that's what you gonna need the blessings of God

    • @melodystrong8953
      @melodystrong8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Leave him alone he needs to respect and and love her God's said treat your wife like your self

    • @mariejohnson4381
      @mariejohnson4381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was embarrassed for her!! I was looking for the word love, did I miss it? I'm so hurt for this sister who is truly in love with this man (I can't say Bishop I don't know why) it's not a judgement call either. Because it's a marriage I have to trust that "GOD" would be at the helm for her sake. 28 years of waiting and that's all she gets is disgrace. While Loretta was waiting how many others went before her? This has personally hit me. All who care pray that he realizes how he has hurt her and will use the good years he has left to make it up to her.

    • @MrsGrinnaside
      @MrsGrinnaside 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      10 Karat. It was joke to use the cracker jack box

    • @mariejohnson4381
      @mariejohnson4381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bad!!! joke

    • @mariejohnson4381
      @mariejohnson4381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A man knows if he wants a woman from the moment he sees her, it's just what does he want her for. Now he has to convince her that he's the right one for her. (One year max) to give him time to tie up his loose ends. He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. A man is looking a woman is waiting.

  • @jackiewalker1956
    @jackiewalker1956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    THERE'S AN OLD SAYING, IF SHE LIKE IT , I LOVE IT.

  • @crispinw9216
    @crispinw9216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    If his proposal is no bodies business. Then why did he do it publicly?
    When you do something publicly then it becomes everybody's business.

  • @dianesims6241
    @dianesims6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    My heart is saddened for Loretta. To think that she don't deserve better is disheartened.

    • @daisybenton7784
      @daisybenton7784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What really

    • @deboraha4908
      @deboraha4908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I don't feel sorry for her. She has very low self-esteem to allow this to go on for over 20 years.

    • @vadamsable
      @vadamsable 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't feel sorry for anybody who won't use their brain. They're sinners just like any common street thug.

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She settled for position and title. He said nothing about her character. He did not say that he loved and appreciated her. Not me!

    • @CreativePower.
      @CreativePower. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She knew exactly what she was doing. The entire wayyyy she was benefiting financially.

  • @melissataylor6304
    @melissataylor6304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Lol.... I am on the floor laughing. You said it all girl...
    When I saw it I couldn't believe it. And he didn't wait for her to say yes before he jabbed the ring on her or kiss her. It was a mess!!!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😃😃🤭🤭 I still can't believe it...yes it's a MESS! 😂😂
      Thank you for watching, Melissa! 🥰🌹

    • @emilystevens6335
      @emilystevens6335 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am angry at the American Black men Pastors for not protecting Loretta and supporting this. They had to know he didn't have honorable intentions. What is going to happen when he fills Loretta with disease and she goes down first?

  • @homecookteresagreen
    @homecookteresagreen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I was younger, I had this extraordinary idea of what marriage was. As I have gotten older, I have realized that there are a lot of people that are just wasting their time. When marriages go right, it is truly a beautiful thing but when it goes wrong. . . .

  • @crystalhill7663
    @crystalhill7663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    When I was a young woman, My mom would always tell me that a man will only do what a woman allows him to do . She also told me that as a woman I was special, and it was imperative that I love myself and never let a man waste my time...I hate to say this but Loretta ALLOWED this man to string her along for 30 years!!! I'm sure she wasn't held hostage, and had the option to walk away many years ago, yet she CHOSE to stay. She obviously lacked the confidence and self worth to know that God always has something better in the works....and what one man won't do another one will! Many woman stay in dead end situations because they don't believe that they can get any better. I just hope she's happy with her decision.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯 It was my Daddy teaching me those same lessons. I agree wholeheartedly. I hope she's happy too.
      Thanks for sharing.

    • @sheilathompson7613
      @sheilathompson7613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I believe that Loretta was complicit in this fiasco. She obviously has an agenda. It could be quite entertaining to observe how this little drama plays out. Blessings!

  • @avalonpark1574
    @avalonpark1574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This was so sad on so many levels.

    • @kyjahnihodge415
      @kyjahnihodge415 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      these man ain no they place fr pamella patricia fb pg

  • @alicelewis8152
    @alicelewis8152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This is why the Lord said he is going to start at His house of Faith first!! With his judgment

    • @harvest-min1825
      @harvest-min1825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes and soon!!!!!!

    • @iveniaa
      @iveniaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh yes, it's coming.

    • @moneewright5696
      @moneewright5696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly!!!

    • @margaretcartwright3706
      @margaretcartwright3706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This man and this woman is sick. As a Bishop he supposed to have one wife only. That's Bible.

  • @fashun008
    @fashun008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Total disgraceful !!!!! His body language says it all. She hugs him after that awkward moment, but he stands there with his arms at his side. Then, he walks away from her and leaves her by herself. Can you say..." separate living quarters" !!!!!!!!!!! But i have to also say... she seems down for it. Poor thing

  • @rhone793
    @rhone793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    First let me say Loretta’s hat is terrible. This is the worst narcissistic messy proposal I’ve ever seen. Someone that loves her should warn of the coming heartache she can look forward to at the hands of this man.

    • @Side2Side_Side-Ology
      @Side2Side_Side-Ology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Shes been with him a lifetime she knows what she's getting into.

    • @Klgray7373
      @Klgray7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She knows & love starts with self. If you don’t love self, you can’t love ANYONE. She THINKS she loves him. It’s not possible

    • @marylhuggins7292
      @marylhuggins7292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Klgray7373 WHAT is needed is prayer .And support. It seems as if she is a faithful loyal Christian woman .Who knows this could work out. Maybe God is the Answer.We need to. give. them our love and. support. Wish them the best .She seems as if she j

  • @cherylhunt5891
    @cherylhunt5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    In total agreement with you. That was shameful, especially a preacher. Never mentioned anything about love.

    • @Madisonchasefitness
      @Madisonchasefitness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      None of it was about her, it was all superficial stuff, his car, his traveling without asking her ( did he even say her name?) it was all about him. But after 28 years she’s use to it being all about him. I can’t knock her because I don’t know her life and she’s enabled his behavior and his treatment of her.

    • @mjo486
      @mjo486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      exactly; after all of those years; so sad

    • @reneejohnson7677
      @reneejohnson7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not one thing about 💕 love

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @angelacarter1775
      @angelacarter1775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NO, HE DIDN'T. 🤔 THERE WAS NO MENTION OF LOVE. WOW

  • @kecia4603
    @kecia4603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Unbelievable! 😳She just stood there and listened to this man. 😩 You had me hollering. 😂😂

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😅🤭 Guuuuuurrrl, the ways in which I censored myself! 😅😅

  • @tamikalove2658
    @tamikalove2658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    PURE RELIGION would never have a woman of GOD subjected to such stupidity! I truly Pray that this don't turn people away from The TRUE LOVING GOD and what Marriage was designed for in Christiandom. The woman of GOD idolized a man and marriage more than GOODNESS of GOD😢 Sad EVE was also deceived to BELIEVE that the fruit on the tree was more desirable than GOD and we all are paying that price. SAINT'S WE HAVE TO PRAY AND STAY AT THE FEET OF JESUS 🙏🏾🙌🏿 WE LIVE IN A FALLEN WORLD WITH FALLEN PEOPLE THIS FOOLISHNESS WILL BE HAPPENING UNTIL JESUS COME BACK!

  • @paulap365
    @paulap365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Your Commentary had me cracking up, " he wants a Nurse"🤣 😂

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I found my people! 🤣🤣

  • @jonnisesmith5680
    @jonnisesmith5680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Wow! His so-called proposal gave me a headache! That was so sorry, no expressions of love at All!!! My heart goes out to her, I really don’t understand what she saw in him to make her hold on so long. No one should allow themselves to be put through that much crap! My Dad thought I would never get married because I took no crap from men! It paid off too, I have a wonderful husband of 37 yrs now. I really wish Loretta had more self esteem.
    Ms.Zara ( no disrespect) I heard you say several times you don’t do religion, people are so flawed, I’m not perfect, I don’t do religion, but I do have a relationship with Jesus Christ, i’ve seen some crazy things and dealt with some crazy people and pastors in the church, it was enough to make me want to leave the church, But God is still God, and in my 60 yrs of life and 40 of them being Saved, despite ALL the crap I went through, And I went through it!I can honestly say that God has been extremely good to me. I refuse to let these crazy people, including my dad and crazy situations keep me from having a relationship with the One and Only True and Living God! Religion is not important, but a relationship with Christ is a true blessing! I say this in love Ms.Zara! 💜

  • @shawnainthekitchen8011
    @shawnainthekitchen8011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My guess is that they've been sleeping together for 28 years and he felt like God's long-suffering was about to run out.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      🤣🤣🤣
      He's trying to straighten up and fly right before he meets his maker!

    • @jessica.7777
      @jessica.7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thezaragreen 😭😭😭

    • @debralee7681
      @debralee7681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The Bible tells us it is wrong to assume anything about others.

    • @darlenesmith5086
      @darlenesmith5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely he is a man of god and she is a man of woman however the flesh is weak and aint no way they refeained from touching each other for 28 years. Noel boy bye

    • @Klgray7373
      @Klgray7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It makes me wonder does she have a child? Did she ever want kids? Did they have any pregnancy “accidents”. I mean since they putting business out there

  • @faithhealingandself-care8972
    @faithhealingandself-care8972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is one of the saddest situations to happen to anyone. I am a licensed therapist and have a JD and I wish that I could counsel this precious woman. He loves himself more than even God, based on his comments. She is beautiful and I assume accomplished and intelligent and this doesn't appear to be a proposal based on the covenant of marriage that our God teaches in the Bible. The proposal, such as it was, was foul, disrespectful, unloving, uncaring, and ignorant. He is supposed to love her as God loves the church, his bride. He needs a care giver to be there pending his aging decline or maybe he has health news that he hasn't shared. I pray that Ms. Loretta has a revelation from God about a marriage with him and how negatively it will impact her life. When a man truly loves a woman he covers her, will do anything to make her happy, will not disrespect her or allow others to mistreat her, and will do his best to honor her and is proud to have her on his arm. This poor lady

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @emilystevens6335
      @emilystevens6335 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you believe he can cheat her out of a wife's part upon his death?

    • @emilystevens6335
      @emilystevens6335 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am wondering if she is a foster child or orphan? How did she get such low self esteem?

  • @monicajackson1926
    @monicajackson1926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sis You told the truth here! You all have to remember that Loretta has been allowing this off and on relationship with this man Bishop or not for a long time. I saw them on The Preachers of LA and didn't know she was still waiting around for this man. I feel so sorry for her because she acts as though Noel Jones is God himself.

  • @The1CareerChic
    @The1CareerChic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    An engagement doesn't necessarily mean marriage, reality tv has taught us all that or at least it should have. Put God 1st and there is no question

  • @StaceyNelsonTVNetwork
    @StaceyNelsonTVNetwork 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I agree wholeheartedly Sis ❤️🙏🏽🕊️
    If I got a proposal like this I would refuse it. This is not only cringe-worthy but especially embarrassing for her. 🙏🏽 This proposal, it's so full of pride.
    Did you say 28 years waiting???? That's an insult!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      28, Sis...28!!!! 😳😳😳

    • @StaceyNelsonTVNetwork
      @StaceyNelsonTVNetwork 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@thezaragreen Lord have mercy! Well I pray that she is happy.

    • @kp6042
      @kp6042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She fkn crazy!!!! 28 yrs of waiting on a heathen to make everything thing abt his old ass? His old ass can't is old and a need a nurse in place. Chile please.

    • @conniemclain788
      @conniemclain788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would've left him on stage talking crazy. He's making a joke out of it. Run Loretta!!!

    • @latonyajohnson9768
      @latonyajohnson9768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is very very sad for this Queen😥

  • @Jyromi
    @Jyromi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm starting to believe she knows some dirt and she manipulated him to marry him, and thats why she took the humiliation like nothing because she will be entitled to half of everything UNLESS he made a prenup.

  • @pollywilliams6623
    @pollywilliams6623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I Hope she doesn’t Marry Him!! He just want her to take care of him, he is getting feeble and looks sickly.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎯

    • @commoncore49
      @commoncore49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s had some medical issues for quite a while now-swelling legs and more for more than twenty years. Very sad!

  • @raynettelockhart2434
    @raynettelockhart2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Sis! I have seen a few commentaries on this, BUT YOU had me laughing sooo hard! THE FACES 🤣🤣🙂😝

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😃😃🤭🤭 I was trying not to CUSS! 😂😂
      Thank you for watching Raynette!
      🌹

  • @ladya3838
    @ladya3838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    He didn't even declare his love for her, speak to how Blessed he is that God brought such a lovely woman into his life-- it's all about him!! Run Sister!! Run!!! Are you not understanding the assignment??

    • @JulJac12
      @JulJac12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He didn't even say he Loved her! Self explanatory. Nothing about her just his proud self! So shameful

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆😆 RUN!!!

  • @MsDera81
    @MsDera81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's not a whole lot of people whom GOD has given the GIFT of singleness. It's only a gift if being single is not bothering you at all. If you are blessed enough to have that gift, then don't string someone else along. Leave the supply for someone who actually wants, needs, and maybe deserves a real commitment.

  • @bernitacollins1528
    @bernitacollins1528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don’t know whether to say congratulations or condolences 💐. The Bible says, Whosoever finds a wife, finds a good thing. Not a bunch of should of’s. Noel Jones…that proposal was a classless act and lacked taste!!!

  • @Side2Side_Side-Ology
    @Side2Side_Side-Ology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It was sad and it made her seem desperate, which she probably is waiting around 20-30 years for a man to propose to you.
    She replied yes instantly, and I'm sure she or no other woman has ever imagined it this way, certainly I haven't.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @vernettaclarke6375
      @vernettaclarke6375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have no problem that it is GOD'S time for her to get married no matter how long she has waited.💖 And eventually she has been in love with Bishop. 💖Hallelujah!!! It's time for him to be married. He has probably been bothered by a lot of💖 ladies for a lot of years. He acted like💗 he was bashful so he tried to make it funny. And he let all the💗💖 ladies that have been after him know he is not available.💖 Congratulations Bishop Noel Jones.👑 💖💗💖🎉🎊😅🙏🏽🙌🏽💃🌹🥳🥂🍾🎈🎁💖💖

    • @Side2Side_Side-Ology
      @Side2Side_Side-Ology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@vernettaclarke6375 I hear you however there 1as nothing funny about it at all.
      It was sad, desperate and embarrassing to a queen.

    • @wendyvalerie6624
      @wendyvalerie6624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lord help us ladies. Please do. There is a time our bodies can have kids and there is a time it can't A man can always be a father.
      Was it worth it. ?????

    • @saralee5660
      @saralee5660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Side2Side_Side-Ology Agree

  • @deeone3922
    @deeone3922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I saw that mess, I immediately visualized the scene from Diary of a Mad Black Woman when she pushed her husband in his wheelchair str8 in the jacuzzi!! Furthermore, he didn't handle her, she allowed him to do so

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣 I did TOO, especially when he was acting like he was pushing the wheelchair. 😂
      And YES she's a willing participant! 💯

  • @susannahwhite7561
    @susannahwhite7561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    We need mature discerning women in our lives to help us on the right path! The New Testament talks about "silly women led astray" LORD help us!

    • @angelabaldwin9889
      @angelabaldwin9889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it does. A foolish woman is not pleasing to him.

  • @nwilliamsist
    @nwilliamsist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He's going to always remind her that he told her so. I would have liked to see what he would have done if she would have said no. She's better than that.

    • @dianadukes9636
      @dianadukes9636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're right. She IS better than this. She just doesn't know it herself. SMDH.

    • @dingakakemp4552
      @dingakakemp4552 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This post is not ok! This lady is very unhappy and this is a very slippery slope like you said. THIS IS NON OF YOUR BUSINESS! AND YOU SHOULD Also BE VERY CAUTIOUS ABOUT SPEAKING ABOUT ONE OF GODS OWN CHILDREN. WHY YOUR CHOOSING TO PICK THIS MAN APART BECAUSE YOU DONT LIKE THE WAY HE PROPOSED IS BEYOND ME. YOU DONT UNDERSTAND HIM OR THE WAY HE SPEAKS BUT SHE DOES. MAYBE That's WHAT MAKES IT WORK. SO GOD IS NOT PLEASED WITH YOU MY SISTER. YOU DONT LIKE WHAT HE DID BUT I THINK THIS POST IS MORE DISRESPECTFUL TO OUR SISTER LORETTA! THAN HIS PROPOSAL.. KEEP YOUR MOUTH OFF OF PEOPLE!!! I PRAY GOD SHOWS YOU YOURSELF. WE ARE TO LOVE RULE NUMBER ONE NOT JUDGE... IT IS NOT OUR PLACE SO BE CAREFUL.

    • @nwilliamsist
      @nwilliamsist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dingakakemp4552 excuse me, I am a woman of holiness and men will remind a woman of what they said, truth or facts? Who are you to tell me it’s none of my business, it’s everyone’s business when it’s on line. I would have liked to know how he would have handled it, if she said no. You so self righteous in your own eyes and protecting your Bishop that you no longer think Bible? I have my own opinion regardless of what you think. First of all a Bishop is the husband of one wife. You need to have knowledge of what you’re standing for or sit down. Question! What made me YOUR business? Caution: don’t be deceived!

    • @dingakakemp4552
      @dingakakemp4552 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nwilliamsist unfortunately I thought you would respond this way ...God bless

    • @nwilliamsist
      @nwilliamsist 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately, you just can’t distinguish right from wrong.

  • @krystingrant6292
    @krystingrant6292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just no words. I waited 7 years I sure did by the time he spoke of marriage I ended it immediately I just couldn't see it with us for longevity so many warning signs I refused to see earlier. I know it took me long to wake up yes but I got out of there fast. I learned one of the best lessons. 28 years she laid up with that man he never valued her and the proposal was just tacky.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are a smart COOKIE! 😁😁 YES, Yes. and YEEEES Honey!!
      ...to ALLLLL of this! Always love you more...that was a FABULOUS lesson so nothing loss. Only gains. 🥰

  • @patricemcdee1587
    @patricemcdee1587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I never been married but if I had to wait that long to get a man to marry me I will never marry.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @marcelladavis8222
      @marcelladavis8222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you 100 percent to be with a man that long then finally he decides he want to get marry that's strange but who are us to judge some women's self esteem is to low and they accept whatever they can get you give yourself to a man and he accepts then he should think more of you to make it finalize to make you his wife I'm not waiting on no man except my Lord and savior Jesus Christ woman's wake up love yourself and say to yourself that you is worthy not useless

    • @patricemcdee1587
      @patricemcdee1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marcelladavis8222 I do not think we are judging her decision we are saying what we would do or not do. We can judge but righteously judge and that is what we are doing. Did he have her living in sin all these years as he is preaching the word of God or was they both celibate or are we women more devoted to men than we are God? Just asking

  • @thezaragreen
    @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    DO YOU SEE WHAT I SEE?
    I decided to do commentary between the clips so that you could hear him in his own words. It's less about The Proposal itself rather the BLARING patriarchy. This is all about him and the role he now needs her to play. DO YOU SEE WHAT I SEE?

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is selfish. He doesn't care about her. But she accepts this disrespectful behavior.

  • @peni2cents215
    @peni2cents215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I’m with You on this……”I”, “I”, “I”, “I”, “I”, “I Can’t, The Verbosity……. We must learn to Value Ourselves More. Blessings Everyone.

  • @judithosborne559
    @judithosborne559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Just sad!!!
    As a " man of God" it's very disappointing to watch.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "SAD".
      That's the word, Judith.
      Just sad.

  • @bishop1shox
    @bishop1shox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Have you ever worked on the radio? You have a voice of clarity.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰 Thank you! Yes I have and still a voiceover talent. Thanks for noticing.😊

  • @naomidavisoffeelngoodthera5995
    @naomidavisoffeelngoodthera5995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, that is a lot of negative energy directed towards this couple. I wish them as much happiness as they can find, buy, and endure. Life is much too short and often too difficult to wish anything less on most.

  • @erritonfuller9706
    @erritonfuller9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You heard what he said pushing a wheelchair he Is want a nurse She waited 28 years to be his nurse It is so sad No matter what in life you have to stand up for yourself man or woman and nor woman and know what you want for you not for what somebody else wants you to be he wants her to be his nurse

  • @yvetteconrad9095
    @yvetteconrad9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everything you said! That was the weirdest proposal I have ever seen and she stood there!!!! MERCY, women YOU first!

  • @andrewwright8623
    @andrewwright8623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Some women really know how to play the game. She played it, with him, for 20 years or more. I hope they are happy together. His proposal seemed unnatural.

    • @normae853
      @normae853 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They're as bad as each other😡

  • @georgeandrews4228
    @georgeandrews4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The "church" put up with so much garbage from these so called self professed pastors, bishops, apostle etc. Who ordained them.

  • @Jay-mw2cn
    @Jay-mw2cn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Would have been so nice if she had shouted a big NO in his face! That would have caused the uproar of the century!

  • @MsMonie65
    @MsMonie65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is foolery to the second power. I wouldn't even look at his old butt. I'm just sick to my stomach at the disrespect....

  • @rosemaryglover9119
    @rosemaryglover9119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This proposal was so disgusting and demeaning that I could not stand to finish watching it!

  • @lisastevens4194
    @lisastevens4194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He didn't even say, I LOVE YOU!!! Loretta run!!!

  • @sherrywright9139
    @sherrywright9139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Dont do it LORETTA run baby run

    • @deh7712
      @deh7712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's dumb, he's taking her to hell with him. I don't think he believes in God just like that ugly Detrick.

  • @timewithdee9025
    @timewithdee9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That was a looooong wait....😥 I wouldn't have been around for 28 years ! 🤔 Thank you for sharing .. Blessings to you ! 💞

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sure was...I neither! 😏
      You're welcome, Dee! Thank you for watching. 🥰
      🌹

  • @tawainahollis4770
    @tawainahollis4770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This has absolutely NOTHING to do with the Bible, religion, believing in YHWH or anything of the sort. This is alllllllll on Noel Jones!

  • @shazzygirl6595
    @shazzygirl6595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great commentary and you said what a lot of us are thinking! I am soooo disappointed in Bishop. The buffoonery was too much! I’ll sip this tea, but I hope the spell gets broken for her real soon!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "The Spell"...that's the most accurate description I've heard for them yet! 🎯
      Thank you for watching and interacting, Shazzy Girl! I'm a straight shooter! 😁 Glad my commentary resonated.

    • @shazzygirl6595
      @shazzygirl6595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thezaragreen 🙌

  • @kathytaylor4999
    @kathytaylor4999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He was very transparent. I guess the financial reward out weights the humiliation for her ....she likes it....I love it......she knows what it's going to be like....she been dealing with it for 28vesrs...God bless HER!

  • @ShonnaD48
    @ShonnaD48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She has waited 28 yrs. I expect nothing less from him or her-sadly.

  • @charlenelee8178
    @charlenelee8178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Maybe Loretta knows him alot better than we think. I noticed that after the proposal there was no hugging no embracing. He kept looking at the crowd more so than her. A man should look into the woman's eyes that he is proposing to. Loretta remember the queen that you are. Go with God.

    • @ladys5289
      @ladys5289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Look again 12:24. They hugged but she's settling.

    • @charlenelee8178
      @charlenelee8178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ladys5289 yes they did hug, it wasn't a bride to be hug but yes it was a hug. I have one question. He needed help opening the crackerjack box? Lol

    • @angelabaldwin9889
      @angelabaldwin9889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I bet he has her signing some papers before marriage, lol.

    • @lamentation0078
      @lamentation0078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She should get to know herself better.

  • @tuletumgudlwa-co6pw
    @tuletumgudlwa-co6pw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is sooooo...sad in many ways. He really is looking for someone to retire to. She will definitely be pushing his wheelchair soon by the look of things. Narcissists to the core and she could do way better that this nonsense.

  • @vadamsable
    @vadamsable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you for sharing your story. Loretta and Noel are distracting and disgracing the kingdom of God at a time when people need it the most. We DON'T have time for this. She's walking up smiling as if she's getting something great. This is why the country and the world are under judgment. "If judgment begins at the house of the Lord, what shall be the end of them be that are not saved?"

  • @brendawatkins2173
    @brendawatkins2173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All these negative comments have you all asked Almighty God to reveal what's going on in your own lives because if you did you wouldn't have time to even think about no one else business of any kind, all these perfect people in the comments that's what you are saying and the one who is doing the commentary please get a life of fulfillment and I can promise you you want be doing this and you must be feeling really bad about yourself and the only way you can feel good about yourself is finding fought in someone else's life, how about you all read the Holy Bible,no that's too much like right but I'll just keep praying for us all to get it right, Love don't want us living like this how about doing what will please Almighty God, living out the Fruits of the Spirit and His Commandment.Amen.All honor glory and praise to God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah glory hallelujah amen

  • @imsooo504
    @imsooo504 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amen Sister you are absolutely correct. I really feel bad for her.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      W'her'yat homegirl you son504! 😉 Me too, when I get back around my folks. 😁
      ...as for this video...she made of something different. 😏

  • @josephohene3362
    @josephohene3362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All was 'I thought about' 'I thought about' , 'I thought about' should I. This was all about himself. What was Loretta thinking standing there??

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎯
      I'd love to know her REAL thought process.

    • @alicewashington220
      @alicewashington220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Looking 😦 All those women wasn't happy for her.. like she think they were.. I promise you they wouldn't never waited that Long to get marry.. why waist money on a wedding after 20 years... They been marry..

  • @PTLV-xv3xs
    @PTLV-xv3xs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These people are grown, he asked the way he wanted and she accepted. No sympathy or feeling sorry for anyone. It is what it is.

  • @iveniaa
    @iveniaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Despicable, despicable, despicable just as you said. Shameful. I would reply with such a resounding NO! NO! NO! NO! So disrespectful. I've been single for quite a while and loving it, living my single life for the Lord. Happy serving the Lord.

    • @iveniaa
      @iveniaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Time is so valuable to be wasted.

  • @msmewiththat7532
    @msmewiththat7532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He did a lot of "should I" to talk his way out of this long suffering marriage proposal.
    Those mention of trips was his mention of trying to find options to match his status which is not Loretta. Unfortunately, she didn't catch it because she wanted to be first lady and settling choice in his later years because his preferences cannot be bothered.
    Pulling a ring out a Crackerjack box is all too telling of how invested he is in giving her his best. We all know what prizes come in the original Crunch&Munch and Fiddle Faddle sweet tasting popcorn...and she is okay with that.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He sure did! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 There are layers to each problematic statement. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ardriap.isreal766
      @ardriap.isreal766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A ring don't mean anything without the commitment I rather have a cracker jack ring and faithful man than an expensive ring and he expects me to go along with all kinds of induced conversations with other women who may become emotionally attached.

    • @msmewiththat7532
      @msmewiththat7532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ardriap.isreal766 well she has gone the distance. Hence her Crackerjack ring with her pseudo faithful until golden years having husband to be.

    • @ardriap.isreal766
      @ardriap.isreal766 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. he did admited to his ego problems and that's what makes him a man of God 🙏 it's different when a man doesn't see his flaws that needs to be delivered from. That was the prize 🏆

    • @msmewiththat7532
      @msmewiththat7532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ardriap.isreal766 ...and it took him years and God giving him a glimpse into what his future looks like and to prepare, propose to the last woman standing...a prize indeed.

  • @peachtree997
    @peachtree997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl I remember the show yes she waited 28 years and I been married 26 years I remember when he used to come to are church bragging 😑😑😑😑 that he was not married and he was married to the ministry so I was wondering my self what happened with that you probably are so right 👍🙂🙂🙂 but I hope she will be happy but I would not have married him I would have made him wait for me now 😆😆😆😆

  • @lamentation0078
    @lamentation0078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are so very right 🏆🏆🏆This is pure foolery...N o t of GOD at all..

  • @discerningtruth6848
    @discerningtruth6848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such foolishness self imposed humiliation thinking about marriage with a man who is taking as long to propose..is ludicrous.

  • @mikerobinson549
    @mikerobinson549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Bishop Jones always be using them big words that he doesn’t even know the meaning of…just keep things simple and pure

    • @paulap365
      @paulap365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Got that right ✅
      ....."intoxicated by the exuberance of his own verbosity" 🤣😂😭

    • @ItsMeHer2266
      @ItsMeHer2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulap365 🤣🤣😅🤣🙃

    • @debralee7681
      @debralee7681 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't hate because he is educated.

    • @paulap365
      @paulap365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMeHer2266 Whooiiee 🤣😂😭

    • @paulap365
      @paulap365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@debralee7681 "intoxicated by the Exuberance of his own Verbosity" educated alright 🤣😂😭

  • @anniegooding2407
    @anniegooding2407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He's an old man, and she is not young she looks to be in here 60's so I guess they won't to spend there golden years together.

  • @maryalicebynum1136
    @maryalicebynum1136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He’s lost his good looks, his youth, memory isn’t what it once was, attractions aren’t as interested as they once were, energy is waning, the best years are behind him, ability to earn respect has just left the premise, so my question to him is why propose marriage to Loretta now after she asked him for years to marry her and he didn’t want to. So again, why now? This would now be my turn before God and his devoted congregation to let him know that as far as she is concerned he should go find someone else that will wait as long as she did to see if he’ll still be around by the time she says yes! And the exit left! This show is still for and about him so I’d leave him to himself!

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I LOVED, "Preachers of L.A., even though it was criticized by many, in and out of the church. Perhaps rightfully so, but, it was entertaining. However, I did not like how Noel treated Loretta, and, I was bewildered as to why she kept allowing him to do so. A pretty woman! She wasted so many good years on that messy nonsense. I like your channel..good video. Thank you for sharing! 🤗❤️🌹

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rosey, I AGREE he wasn't considerate...I watched it then and did commentary on it. I liked it too! 😁
      Thank you for stopping by Rosey and I'm glad you like my channel. 🥰
      🌹

    • @ladybug9274
      @ladybug9274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, even Bishop Ron urged him to marry her.

    • @EnubeeStyle
      @EnubeeStyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The retirement package better be good 😊

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😉

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @krystingrant6292
    @krystingrant6292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That throne quote is what made me wake up. WOW!!!! So powerful

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They really be out here on some "bow to me 'cause I'm the king" BS! 😅😅😅 And way too often the older they get the more they need women who will bow.
      SHIIIIIIIID...not me. 😏

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thezaragreen soooo true. I experienced a very low point in my last and final relationship what you said made me feel even better about my decision to end it.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@krystingrant6292 I'm proud of you. 😉

  • @Dadoux869
    @Dadoux869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Bible says man who finds a wife finds a good thing … but what did she find?

  • @blessedhighlyfavored5309
    @blessedhighlyfavored5309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That’s what low self esteem will do

  • @donnajaemoon
    @donnajaemoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He betta pull that wheelchair up to the bumpa, and hope “(G)grace” will carry him. 😂

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😄😄😄 Your double entendre game is TIGHT!!! 👏👏🔥🔥😍😍

    • @donnajaemoon
      @donnajaemoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thezaragreen 😂 I can’t help myself, sometimes. I knew you’d get it. 😊 Loved your commentary.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Got it, IMMEDIATELY! 😃And I love that you couldn't help it...I know the feeling!😄
      Keep being, you!🌹

  • @Citrussun755
    @Citrussun755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tiktok brought me here! I’m the one who commented “NARCISSIST “… whew child this too much

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅😅😅 I just saw your other comments on TikTok. Girl, I TOLD YOU! I'm glad you saw for yourself.

  • @Wl5134
    @Wl5134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great commentary!

  • @yulandamaynor7649
    @yulandamaynor7649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gurrrrrl this is such a disgrace he is already laying out the foundation of what's to come of this relationship. She is standing looking so sad & embarrassed. I guess she feels like this her 1 shot after so many years. I'm not tryn to be a dream killer but we gone wait to see how this plays out. Thx 4 sharing.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're my kinda independent thinker...WE GON' SEE!! 😏😏

    • @yulandamaynor7649
      @yulandamaynor7649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes dear

  • @qb1823
    @qb1823 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What are we celebrating? It don't take this long to marry someone. She just held on. He decided to get married after all those years of whoring around. Really, really! This is not how God plans work. This man went from popular to just about irrelevant. Now he wants to get married. And she is happy about what? She must have been the only one left. 🤨🤔

  • @barbaralewis8157
    @barbaralewis8157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It was Soo Horrible ...She Thought she was going to have the Best Proposal a Woman Could Have ....She stuck around for This Omg !!! I know She Feels Embrassed ....As She looked on U could tell The look on Her face ....Who waits for Someone for 28yrs if you Do This is the Treatment U will get & More Messy & Tacky going to play with her on Engagement Day with A Cracker Jack Box. Wow !!!!Wow!!!! He Got All His Playing Out ....His Money is Stash Away so Yes He is Ready For Missy .....No One is in Their Business are Jealous This is Awful ....Sad .. Disgusting...He played for 28 yrs & Still Playing This kind of Prospal Goes On in Church My God ...I seen Gangster get Better Proposal than This Mess...He Never said Once I Love U to her ...Damn Damn

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YEEEEEEEEES! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @lisagoldsmith7435
      @lisagoldsmith7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I said the same exact thing and she was just holding on to him and he had stopped holding her.

  • @christinacabbil9170
    @christinacabbil9170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If he dies before her I hope she gets EVERYTHING!! IF he has anything of value left. I honestly feel sad for her.

  • @TailoredbyGod
    @TailoredbyGod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your commentary had me rolling... I mean laughing out real LOUD!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😁😁 The whole thing was a MESS!

  • @irissanders7487
    @irissanders7487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No way in hell I would still be with a man 28 years and not married to him.

  • @Msfruity44
    @Msfruity44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I agree with you Sis!! This was on a whole other level of self grandeur. Smh
    Keep it coming Queen! Thank you!🥰👍🏽💯

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🥰 Thank you, Sis! I appreciate you being here! 🌹

  • @terririchmond8700
    @terririchmond8700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yasss you are totally right ..he has never said he loves her

  • @gemmab8626
    @gemmab8626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She could've already seen the will prior to this train wreck of an announcement 😆 You never know! I'm kidding! Honestly, 28 years is a loooooong time to wait on someone to make a decision. And Noel is nearly ancient now. This is sad for him but mostly for her. I think he is drunk off the charismatic elixir of his church culture, which has made him think he is catnip. He is indeed "intoxicated with the exuberance of his own verbosity" 😆 🤣! 🤣 Love your commentary!

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅😅 You had me HOLLERIN'!! Thanks for watching and interacting. I don't get it, I hope she finds him worth it. 🤷🏽‍♀️...I. Don't. Get. It! 😏

    • @gemmab8626
      @gemmab8626 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thezaragreen 😄 🤣 😂 exactly 💯

  • @pinkyjudithngxulelo5055
    @pinkyjudithngxulelo5055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maybe she just doesn't know her value. Goodness he is so full of himself

  • @shellydegraffinreed9096
    @shellydegraffinreed9096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There's more red flags than the Indy 500. She better get in that Ferrari and go and don't look back.
    Please . Noel Jones is to self absorbed.

  • @GigiSxm
    @GigiSxm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t know why the algorithm showed me the original proposal vid today. Before I clicked on it, I said ‘after 30 years?’ Well it turns out it was only 28🙄. Couldn’t be me, but I saw in her and in the response from the congregation that this was an answered prayer. Your video showed on the side and I couldn’t wait to be done with the other one to click on over here. You said it all. Woooooo there’s a certain type of man that waits until he’s old and decrepit to wed the one waiting in the wings for a caretaker. The relationship the black church has with its female congregants is an abuse one. Let’s see how long he drags out the engagement

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "The relationship the black church has with its black women is an abusive one". YOU SAID A MOUTHFUL! And until the black woman recognizes how she has internalized (accepted and continues to allow it) nothing will change. The black men are part of the good Ole boys club.
      Very insightful.
      Thank you for sharing

  • @lovevioletflowers3442
    @lovevioletflowers3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I remember when I wanted to listen to something by Noel Jones. The Holy Spirit kept telling me not to, and that something was wrong with his spirit. As I watched the proposal, that warning kept coming to my mind.
    With all the talk about 7 single women for each available single man, it can lead to men feeling free to devalue women, treat them like toys they play with when they want to, and throw on the ground when they're not interested. Maybe she thought he was her last chance at marriage, despite having been strung along for almost 3 decades. I am unable to see any sign that he values her. Is she in a situation of wanting a person who may partially meet some of her emotional needs but does not truly cherish her? Perhaps she thinks this is the best that's left from which to choose. From the outside looking in, it really makes me feel like she's been treated like a leftover. Is this all a woman can expect from marriage from today's adult male?

    • @rhone793
      @rhone793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There are still good men out there. Ask the Lord for help and “Take the cookie off the table.”

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
      There's A HUGE difference in being wanted for the purpose you can fill (in this case, nurse) and being valued and respected for who you are.

    • @barbarawhite744
      @barbarawhite744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes it's so sad especially looking at her smiling while being belittle by someone who say they love her this is truly sad

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @rodneymcneil7925
      @rodneymcneil7925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not fair to group all men together like that because of a few bad apples because with every man that is perceived to be wicked by others there are just as many women that are just as bad let's face it Satan delivered a horrible blow to God and all of creation when he was successful at introducing son to the world thru Adam and Eve that's where the bafoonery originated in the garden of Eden all the church should be praying instead of glorifying Satans work
      because all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God Satan is very very influential so much so that all spiritual victories must come thru God himself.
      The body still has not been redeemed and will not until
      1Thessalonians 4:16
      We need to pray the enemy respects nothing else there are many women that have been waiting longer than Loretta to get married what about them I don't agree with how things were done but we all are supposed to be reading the same Bible including Mrs Loretta Jones God is the only one that can
      judge unless your spiritual.
      He that is spiritual judges all things yet he him self is judged by no man how do you think it feels when Satan destroys a man or woman the devil is our enemy and believe it he gunning for your marriage as well Ephesians 6:12

  • @JoWyrick
    @JoWyrick ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She does not have a voice, They have been together so long I
    Suppose she is use to him being him. Today’s woman would never tolerate that behavior, No I would NOT!!! But if they are satisfied that is All that MATTERS 😏🙏🏾

  • @carmengreenwood5369
    @carmengreenwood5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If I were her I would have walked out, went home and start packing and left the residence.

  • @inarcidyeastrail5265
    @inarcidyeastrail5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LOOK AT HER SMILING ,NOT REALIZING HOW SHE LOOKS STANDING UP THERE NOT TAKING A HINT .He really don't wan't to marry her and he has the disrespecting words to prove this .For every dysfunctional man ,there is a dysfunctional woman .

  • @robinchandler3589
    @robinchandler3589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Reminds me of the first time Martin proposed to Gina.

  • @mosheobadiyahisrael6032
    @mosheobadiyahisrael6032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The hypocrisy, and the wickedness blows me away in christianity and other man-made religions I guess it’s too hard to just follow the Bible. Where is having the mind of Christ? The father is not pleased with this. Salute to my sister right here she said it all. He ain’t nothing but an old goat and selfish! Shalom to you all.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😄😳😄 The way I laughed throughout your comment! This is a MESSI don't care what anybody says to the contrary.
      ...old goat! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @deboraford1549
    @deboraford1549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She was the only one who sat back and waited in the foolishness of it all, so he had no choice to keep from looking bad, after the TV show, and probably fronting her businesses she probably was already being more financially successful because he was probably in those businesses together, especially the restaurant they have been business partners in for years, and money front $$ man, that's probably why she held on. She was getting everything else, but a signed document of marriage. She waited, because she had everything else. She was a kept woman. They probably rehearsed all this before it happened. I bet they dated for all them 20 to 28 years, but she knew in the end she would win $$$$$$$

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can agree with much of this, and "kept" for sure, but it was a gamble because who won? If she's been kept all along but he's been choosing others all along, I don't call that winning. In my book, the default is never chosen, even in marriage . The default is needed now. That is not the sane as wanted.

  • @violabailey5527
    @violabailey5527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Girl you are the best this man
    Is consume with self love I hope she will get an Epifany soon

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯...me too!
      ...and thank you! 🥰

    • @tawainahollis4770
      @tawainahollis4770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If she didn’t get one in 28 years, it’s not coming.

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tawainahollis4770 🤣🤣🤣 You're probably right!!!

    • @naomihanna7028
      @naomihanna7028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tawainahollis4770 she has been conditioned....

    • @thezaragreen
      @thezaragreen  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@naomihanna7028 🎯 For sure!