100 Year-Olds' Guide to Living Your Best Life | Allure

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  • @anevay6157
    @anevay6157 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1075

    “If you give up on yourself then shame on you”💕💕💕

    • @holysteeze1194
      @holysteeze1194 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @milkbread5036
      @milkbread5036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I keep replaying that. I need to have it ingrained in me haha.

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hit me hard

    • @hard-truthsbetter-than-swe6543
      @hard-truthsbetter-than-swe6543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      no compassion or care or help....cold af.

    • @hannahpickles4825
      @hannahpickles4825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hard-truthsbetter-than-swe6543 I thought the same, it's kind of just a rude, empty thing to say

  • @nazkh3291
    @nazkh3291 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    That black Grandma is an ICON!

    • @MostPowerfulPMofIndia
      @MostPowerfulPMofIndia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes I also felt so

    • @sotowags
      @sotowags 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nazir Khawaja and I guess you are a black persons too

    • @gingerjuniper3814
      @gingerjuniper3814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      FR!!

    • @4evabluegirl
      @4evabluegirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She's absolutely gorgeous! I'm naturally so drawn to her 😍

    • @quadirmonroe1018
      @quadirmonroe1018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My first reaction to her: umm she's a little rude.
      After the video: Oh she is Iconic!

  • @Lele2892
    @Lele2892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    "When you go thru the tough time. Know that that will pass."
    "Never give up on yourself."
    Word 👊😌

    • @Lele2892
      @Lele2892 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      3:20 🤣😭

  • @YThates
    @YThates 6 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    "think back to when you were younger and if you can do what you did then then keep doing it, but if you're going to me like 'oh i'm too old to do this and too old to do that' then go sit in the park and watch your birds then YOU'RE A LOSER and I don't hang out with losers."
    YESSSSSSS PREACH WOMAN PREACH!

  • @Callidoravampira
    @Callidoravampira 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1226

    100 and still seem so young and healthy, how I'm tryna be at 100

    • @saraalshamsi929
      @saraalshamsi929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i wanna die young tho

    • @unlimitedperseverance1706
      @unlimitedperseverance1706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@saraalshamsi929 Me 2

    • @radwooah
      @radwooah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@unlimitedperseverance1706 same i dont want to be old and invisible to others

    • @bettyism_
      @bettyism_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How I'm tryna be at 19

    • @sipstea153
      @sipstea153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sara Alshamsi- why do you wanna die young? If you don’t mind me asking

  • @weepdoll
    @weepdoll 7 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    “Don’t let anyone beat you down , stand on your two feet.” I love that ♥️♥️

  • @whosjoe8889
    @whosjoe8889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    *Take risk and when you're old don't take risk* This is my motto now

    • @Dman9fp
      @Dman9fp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I mean that's part of it. Even though I'm "only" 28 I've definitely had an 'interesting' life to say the least. Educate yourself when you're young. Look up how the subconscious mind works, amygdala hijacks (Yeah I know sounds like some kind of foreign computer hacking term but actually it happens everyday all the time), self-compassion, what really gives you fulfillment, what really provides happiness or not and what the research says. Because I can just say it outright but you're not going to believe me or anybody because some of it is just so counterintuitive. But giving others the option, don't have to listen, to trust me to enjoy a more full life and this complicated AF world-- is absolutely worth it

    • @matiasjack6842
      @matiasjack6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Joe how are you doing hope you are having a wonderful time?

    • @calustevex9735
      @calustevex9735 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true

  • @billlevins7460
    @billlevins7460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    My grandma lived to be in her early 90's and in the last few years she was alive she told me not to carry anger around. She told me you have to get over things and move on. The calendar moves and you have to live your best life..

    • @scarletwarlock3261
      @scarletwarlock3261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wise woman she was.

    • @nailsbymaz7214
      @nailsbymaz7214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But it’s so hard to forgive 😭 I wish I could get over this pain

    • @nadeygmail944
      @nadeygmail944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wise words

    • @Wacholderwald
      @Wacholderwald 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nailsbymaz7214 I know. Ask God to help you to forgive.

    • @Claritza_Leon
      @Claritza_Leon ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thelemonboy6233
    @thelemonboy6233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    “It’s not easy to be happy all the time but you have to try.”

  • @whimsicalaubrey1413
    @whimsicalaubrey1413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    These ladies are so sweet. I would love to sit down with any of them and have a conversation. Also, none of these people are bitter people because bitter people don’t live to be 100.

    • @covfefe1787
      @covfefe1787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      its sad that not many men are over 100 and its mostly women

    • @nukepizzaa
      @nukepizzaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      truth

    • @nickelwindow53
      @nickelwindow53 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@covfefe1787 men are always the bread winner. More stress so they clock out earlier. 🥲

  • @DrCarr-nb1tf
    @DrCarr-nb1tf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    She is a singer, Francis Friedman opening show ,simply delightful

  • @oc3607
    @oc3607 7 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    I needed this, thank you. They are so sweet and intelligent!

    • @kieraflowers9928
      @kieraflowers9928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jackson Park I’d hope so with 100 years of life experience

    • @AndreaS-jc8lp
      @AndreaS-jc8lp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jackson Park u

  • @nothatgxrl
    @nothatgxrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The grandma in the colorful sweater (2:50) is everything! I don't know if she's still around, she was already quite old but I hope to be like her.

  • @erikaalise3046
    @erikaalise3046 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    2:00 is my favorite part

  • @Miche-
    @Miche- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    "Breath" "if you give up on yourself shame on you"
    I really needed this

    • @ForFifty17
      @ForFifty17 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      wassup cutie

    • @patregehr6735
      @patregehr6735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can be your own best friend or worst enemy.

  • @z-max9033
    @z-max9033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    And here I am at 18 with the overwhelming fear of dying... I'm sure these women could care less and are living their lives the best they can. Meanwhile I sometimes dont see the point in doing anything. But I guess this helped a bit. Live my best years while I can.

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As another 18 year old (even though you’re 19 now) in our lifetime there will be life extension, immortality that comes with life extension and we will eventually prove the afterlife within our lifetime, plus suspended animation. So don’t fret. Try to live long enough to achieve your life’s ambitions and purpose and you will be prepared to die whenever that is.

    • @chriswilliams7824
      @chriswilliams7824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's a common fear trust in God and ask for his protection. What are you doing with your life nowadays?

    • @Mahadonation1
      @Mahadonation1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you might have depression, seek therapy

  • @anacepeda2085
    @anacepeda2085 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The lady singing in the beginning reminded me of my grandma when she would sing all the time her old songs it was beautiful 😊

  • @NarsFromMars
    @NarsFromMars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    They all look amazing for that age. And that talk about "peace" made me tear up

  • @hotdogwater9580
    @hotdogwater9580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    So many of them look 20 years younger than they are wow

  • @hypermangi8265
    @hypermangi8265 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    2:30 That statement of hers, IS true. And it was funny of how she reacts to being old.

  • @auliarakhma
    @auliarakhma 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    The woman in a colorful knit cardigan: YOU'RE RAD! Keep healthy, ladies ❤️

  • @mariakonstantinova7606
    @mariakonstantinova7606 7 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    It was interesting to hear about the life experience of these people.

  • @octavili
    @octavili ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The grandma with the colorful sweater kept it so real and straight to the point

  • @porpedroiiebertrand
    @porpedroiiebertrand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    longevity kinda runs in my family: my great grandpa died at 108 (according to my grandpa) my great aunt is 102, she’s the best neurologist at her hospital and plays tennis every day and my grandma is 97 and runs 7 miles a day

    • @scarletwarlock3261
      @scarletwarlock3261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God bless your family. Whatever they are drinking I’ll have

  • @sophiadavenport3959
    @sophiadavenport3959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love talking to elderly people and spending time with them so many wonderful lessons to learn.💫

  • @f0nszik
    @f0nszik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    0:17 Woah, this Lady is 100 years old and her sing sounds better than hundred artists

    • @chestnut4860
      @chestnut4860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ofc she had more time to practice.

    • @scarletwarlock3261
      @scarletwarlock3261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would listen to this woman sing over 80% of modern musicians

  • @debbierobinson5404
    @debbierobinson5404 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I love these ladies they are an inspiration

  • @beverlysanders5228
    @beverlysanders5228 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was beautiful. I see that it was six years ago. I wonder if some are still around. Thanks for the advice.

  • @natashatumie7566
    @natashatumie7566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Dont let any beat you down, stand on your feet" yaaaasssss queen

  • @cranberrywb100
    @cranberrywb100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I love these women! So great

  • @_estecate_
    @_estecate_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Take risks now while you’re young and you won’t have to take risks when you’re that old” I think that was the most best one! That’s like what I tell people do what’s easy now and life will be hard later but if you do what’s hard now aka taking risks life will be easier later when you’re older because you only go up in age so the logical thing to do would b to be grinding and setting yourself up for life later on .

  • @imyong7983
    @imyong7983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You are what you are,thats all" amazing

  • @Koshijapan53
    @Koshijapan53 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    WOW!! Francis was amazing!!!!

  • @amelianac6498
    @amelianac6498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Strong souls. Strong women. Beautiful

  • @The-bi5ry
    @The-bi5ry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Something bad happened to me today. I wanted to stop thinking about it but couldn't. So I'm here trying to put life into perspective.

  • @jess3318
    @jess3318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "If you give up on yourself shame on you" "i never gave up on my self" i love the black woman she is my hero❤

  • @vladislavpetkov2271
    @vladislavpetkov2271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the Ma' with the American-Italian attitude... 100 and a gangsta!

  • @iancrystalchloe
    @iancrystalchloe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love listening to their life lessons 💕.
    I needed this.

  • @ched7
    @ched7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    that “and keep singing” scene at the end gave me chills that was beautiful

  • @sonnypearce5279
    @sonnypearce5279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I took the lady's advice about finishing school so I went back this year to get my nursing degree.

  • @SuperCabrito14
    @SuperCabrito14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hearing old people share wisdom and tell stories is my favorite asmr ❤❤❤

  • @ImTheCrew
    @ImTheCrew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hey guys, Francis Freeman passed away in a lawnmower Incident in early 2019. RIP and prayers to her family. She had an amazing life.

  • @ivy6179
    @ivy6179 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ♡ Peace and not giving up on oneself

  • @sarakhayami999
    @sarakhayami999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She can sing so well I’m impressed

  • @AChagoyen
    @AChagoyen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i miss old NYers

  • @cal1forni_a
    @cal1forni_a 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    old ladies are the sweetest

  • @muntashirbinsolaiman9976
    @muntashirbinsolaiman9976 ปีที่แล้ว

    'Everybody has to look for peace and peace is hard to find anywhere' - True about the world.

  • @scrubzmakeup
    @scrubzmakeup 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    they all look so pretty!! i love their vibe! BEING OLD DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN'T BE PRETTY AND FUN !!!

  • @justforfun.6946
    @justforfun.6946 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soo sweet when lolas/grandma/abuela sings.

  • @Jadenclemens
    @Jadenclemens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I smiled through the whole video. Thankyou.

  • @thecitizenjoan
    @thecitizenjoan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is so beautiful, I’m sitting here crying at my desk 😭

  • @tanyalahies
    @tanyalahies 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video really made my afternoon 😊😊

  • @pineapplemsp2271
    @pineapplemsp2271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is why my grandma is my inspiration 🙏🏻❤️

  • @joebaumgart1146
    @joebaumgart1146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My best friend just turned 99. Coolest mf'er around!

  • @chamomile08
    @chamomile08 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2:00 "everything you do to help yourself makes you stronger and if you give up on yourself, shame on you" ♥︎

  • @TrendingStory
    @TrendingStory ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you

  • @seekinghimdaily92
    @seekinghimdaily92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her singing sounds so sweet 🎶 💕

  • @rd3914
    @rd3914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That black grandma the realest

  • @patregehr6735
    @patregehr6735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People say to them your lucky to be alive, I say to them we are lucky to still have you with us, their precious 😘

  • @libelibetrue
    @libelibetrue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:56 “You're all what you want. That's all.”

  • @secretdaysco.6933
    @secretdaysco.6933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unique people to be 100. You must be very special. Thanks to share it with us and worldwide. Your legacy will be prevailed...

  • @nikoflow_fm9541
    @nikoflow_fm9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    jeez Francis' singing at the start is beautiful!

  • @carolinehersman
    @carolinehersman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    That vibrato tho 😂❤️

  • @ashishreshmi6487
    @ashishreshmi6487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love old people they are just beautiful

  • @mospiritual6471
    @mospiritual6471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome vibrato skills , great singing

  • @sofiah.5820
    @sofiah.5820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I want to sky dive, bungee jump, get a heart break, get bankrupt, have a near death experience, get humiliated in front of a huge crowd, realize that the world never accepted me, make the world accept me, be reckless, regret everything I have ever done, die a peaceful death, have lots of people miss me, and get what I deserve.
    I'm eleven, and God, bring it on! Everything has yet to come. Conquer the world, guys! Make the universe remember your name.

    • @Picca65
      @Picca65 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But don't forget to finish school in the meanwhile🤪

    • @robotchips6982
      @robotchips6982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You do not want a heart break

  • @ultimatedijo7058
    @ultimatedijo7058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:08 is the most energetic, sadly not much video footage.

  • @cherrycreamypie
    @cherrycreamypie ปีที่แล้ว

    this was genuinely beautiful and inspiring 🤍

  • @Uckertay
    @Uckertay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Francis Friedman's song was absolutely heart-lifting. 💚 Loved this video!

  • @dianamayfield5615
    @dianamayfield5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these ladies!!!

  • @ItsCl0udy
    @ItsCl0udy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great mindsets and great advice. Very motivational.

  • @tonylopez-russell2631
    @tonylopez-russell2631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful words and wisdom!!

  • @Megadriver
    @Megadriver 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Black grandma is a legend... 100 years old and doesn't give up on herself. That right there is motivational stuff.

  • @GroundhogDayisAWESOME
    @GroundhogDayisAWESOME 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You never get "Older"..... You just get BETTER!

  • @juliannaritson6385
    @juliannaritson6385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can tell she had a beautiful voice.

  • @kieraflowers9928
    @kieraflowers9928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    They’re all so cute ! God bless you all 😘❤️

  • @nathanielatfield5706
    @nathanielatfield5706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are all amazing god bless their soul's.

  • @namaste91
    @namaste91 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The lady in the blue blazer with the glasses looks radiant beautiful and sophisticated.

  • @whimsicalaubrey1413
    @whimsicalaubrey1413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “You a loser” 😂😂 2:46

  • @deepakguled809
    @deepakguled809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    one this common in all of them is they don't hate others, not angry, always laughing some tips i learned if you also learnet something comment down and help others that important

  • @drecool85
    @drecool85 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That black lady was AMAZING!

  • @deem132
    @deem132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love that black woman omg hilarious & wise 😂

  • @csereklyegabor
    @csereklyegabor ปีที่แล้ว

    They all are hawe beautyful soul, my eyes are wet for some happy tears now.❤ Thank’s 🙏

  • @SilverDreamer62
    @SilverDreamer62 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Francis, and the woman in the multi-color sweater, and really all of them made me laugh and think and hope. Multi- color sweater is funny as stand-up and mentally sharp as a razor blade. Inspiring!!!

  • @rickydugan8490
    @rickydugan8490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2:29 damn straight up 😂

  • @batagamez2579
    @batagamez2579 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Old people are the best there so nice for no absolute reason

  • @metheanimallover
    @metheanimallover 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the black lady, she is so adorable and hilarious. Also I love her sweater, Id honestly wear that

  • @CanadianDreamer
    @CanadianDreamer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved it!

  • @deriangranthon918
    @deriangranthon918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Try different things, see what you really like - take risks. I love that! ♥️💕💗

    • @pixiepalasmr6881
      @pixiepalasmr6881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I loved that as well, so nice to hear that you don’t have to have it all figured out right away. 😊

  • @MostPowerfulPMofIndia
    @MostPowerfulPMofIndia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great. I want to have good money, health, people around me, family, everything when I become old. I am 32 now.

  • @nishagiri7314
    @nishagiri7314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Standing on your own feet is amazing❤❤❤❤

  • @11secbug
    @11secbug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If there’s one thing i regret in this life, it’s not asking my great grandma more about back then and asking for her wisdom

  • @anjalijha5014
    @anjalijha5014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:04 when she said do i have advice for 20 years old? i said yesyesyes PLEASE! I had hope.. and then she said oh oh oh

  • @mary-ks4pz
    @mary-ks4pz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The black lady I think she had a great stories 😍

  • @BT.318
    @BT.318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love old people advice

  • @lilpoohbear653
    @lilpoohbear653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that one gal is 107!!! what the???? bless her heart

  • @vince_unemployed
    @vince_unemployed 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you grandma!

  • @thisisacrappyusername892
    @thisisacrappyusername892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They all have more life than me at 18- BLESS I LOVE THEMMMM

  • @sorpy6972
    @sorpy6972 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    WOW!!AMAZING 💜

    • @matiasjack6842
      @matiasjack6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello sorpy how are you doing

  • @nguyenquangtv49
    @nguyenquangtv49 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for sharing