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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 มี.ค. 2023
- We asked you to ask the guys ANYTHING that you would want answered from a male perspective, and they DELIVERED.
We are so excited for you to watch this episode and know that you'll love it.
Let us know what surprised you most about their point of view in the comments below.
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We asked you to ask the guys ANYTHING that you would want answered from a male perspective, and they DELIVERED.
We are so excited for you to watch this episode and know that you'll love it.
Let us know what surprised you most about their point of view in the comments below.
Thanks to Brian, Patrick, Ben and Mathew for the awesome show!
With love from Bump Love 🤣
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Bestest episode!
Everything was on point👌
Please don’t allow them there unsupervised again. Please. Thanks.
Please don’t allow them there unsupervised again. Please. Thanks.
Rach Mwine wesibe biiri, ur man is not so easy. Mukowu nyooooo eeeeeehhhh
Woooooow I like the episode
Mulondo has matched very well as the wife
Mathew as Angie 😅
Salvador has shared both Pumla and Rosette's character.....😀 Very lively....
Ben as serious as the wife😅😅😅😅😅😅😅. Enjoyed and learnt.
I was a student mother..my mum was the toughest in the area we lived in..everyone knew her..when I came home pregnant n crying..she broke down with me..she hugged me n told me we shall get through it..and indeed we did get through it..
Ben properly explained grace on this. It is the grace that puts us in line
I wish i had amother wen i became astudent mother
Aww and I bet she is the bestest grandma too
"...and indeed we did get through it." Love this. Hugs. P
@@NOTANOTHERTH-cam yes she is the best..and my number one fan
The Spouses to these men, Bambi forgive them if you feel like they over-shared. We needed it raw.
Ben showed the best poise,Mulondo was the most joyous,Mathew was the most calm and ofcourse Salvador was there to stir fun😂😂😂😂but kudos guys it was alllllll intriguing and actually straightening at the same time
Brian, there could not have been a better host 🥳
Mathew is an empath, love that. If all men could relate like him
Brian seems mindful in his interventions, which is nice. I also get vibes that his marriage to Manuela is founded on partnership and friendship. I see it in the way they interact, which is a better approach as opposed to expectations around holding just a title of wife and husband. Doesn't mean they dont have problems, seems they are comfortable being vulnerable around eachother. Most men in Ug mistake being vulnerable to being weak. They are OK being vulnerable everywhere else but at home, which is why they dont feel taken care of by their spouses. I know women we are not innocent in all this but men do set trends on how they get treated at home.
What a time to be alive...men getting to express themselves,giving their PoV, being vulnerable & honest. This is a facet of equality,allowing all sides to be heard. Thank You!
I agree 1000 percent
Loved this panel ,they should be the one talking to our young boys ,they should be used as the face of our men in our generation,all married ,hard working ….
I loved the part Salvador talked about men being supported during pregnancy too so they better support their spouses
The chemistry between the men is 👌🏾
Away from the show. They are close friends.
Cuz thy a close friends even off camera 😂😂😂
Mwine still upholds the traditional gender roles 😂. It's not just a woman's responsibility to keep the fire burning. Are you providing her emotional needs. Most men think it's all about the money and the woman should be the nurturer to everyone else in the home, displinarian, do the homework, work outside the home, etc. All these things take an emotional toll on the woman making sex the last thing on her mind. I think you should treat your spouse as a friend not a servant. Why not grab that juice from the fridge? Is it such a herculean task? Imagine if your able bodied wife asked you to remove her shoes every single day. Would you do it? Culture should evolve. Many of the so called gender roles are just skills and responsibilities that should be done by all people. 🤷🏽♀️
The way Nabwiso cleaned up his face and put the katambala aside😂😂😂. He was prepared for this question
I love that y'all came out so real. And i keep talking to my fellow women about the man's ego. Also I speak about how most of the things are natural instinct to women especially parenthood but unfortunately are not as obvious when it comes to men. And this can strain the relationship.
This show was so 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 i laughed from the begining to the end. Naye the discussion was on point. Please bring them back😊😊
If there's anything this episode has taught me, it's that women and men are very different. I have always known this fact, but this episode has confirmed it so firmly. And whereas some of the opinions expressed were honestly hard to swallow, I am glad men are opening up and as women, we need to listen with open minds. One thing surely stood out for me, the roles of husbands and wives in the bible need to be honored for marriages to work. The more we fight them, the worse it gets. If the man pays the bills and provides and protects, what's hard about giving him juice when he gets home and understanding what mood he's in so as to know when to pick a fight and when not to. Whereas we can wear the pants at work and be boss babes, let's leave those pants at work and not carry them home.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I love bumplove and was excited for the men take over but I couldn’t get myself to watch till the end. There was a lack of accountability for the most part. There was visible evidence of a lack of communication but very high expectations of women in marriage. I personally lost it when the “ men being friends with their wives and women forgetting their place “ statement was made. It felt as though women are more like servants and men are some where in a high place that women shouldn’t have access to. I understand men rarely speak up and we don’t want criticize what was said but this also feels like we gaslighting each other into not expressing how it felt listening to this conversation. I think expressing ourselves should start a conversation of self examination. Now there could have been better points that I missed because I couldn’t finish the show. I really hope there was. Otherwise, this shows our men need to be more intentional with working on their self awareness, communication and understanding when it’s healthy to feed the ego and when to not. Thanks!
I am sorry but I think you approached this with too much of emotions. And I hope this is not how you address all your issues. Because when you want to have an objective conversation, should be able to listen to even things that sit well with you, and listen to them with an open mind, not biases.
@Pac Isco I would appreciate if you addressed the rest of the points i mentioned because they explain why I was unsuccessful with finishing the video. You can’t just address an effect and ignore the cause.I would like to hear your perspective on those points. Thanks!
Your response shows clearly that you got the message.
There’s lack of accountability and justification of abuse from some of these men (and all those they are representing here). This constant reference to “…as a man, I should … because I’m a man” and “... women should do a, b, c, …z because they are women …” etc is very problematic. Many women cannot stand toxic masculine behavior anymore (and if they are doing so, they are tolerating you), and honestly women shouldn’t carry that burden. Men should positively contribute to changing this narrative concerning gendered roles and practice. Women should start unlearning tolerating some things that no longer serve them. Traditional gender roles are a thing of the past and that’s just the truth. Let’s make the world better by creating better systems that serve the current societal needs. Toxic masculinity behavior is alive and well in this conversation, unfortunately.
Yes, like when Mathew said the man is financially stressed because of pregnancy and the woman carrying triplets has to chip in..uuum how? Abandon the new borns and go to work?
Absolutely to fantastic to have balanced the boat on this forum!!!! Thank You!!! Great insight from our Gentlemen!!! Tubebaza xx
What an episode! 🙂Please bring these guys to the show more often
Yes bring these guys to the show more often
This episode is worth going globally viral. "Is it a premier league"😂😂😂😂😂 the things we take for granted.
This one was world cup for me..We need these men back @Bump love
But Brian you have a naughty face, the laugh and facial expressions of when you did that slay queen mimicking, eyeroll and finger up - I died😆😆😆
Oh my God this was so beautiful! The urge to type my comments here kept up but the zeal to watch the next minute of the MEN's discussion overpowered me. Watched till the end and kept my phone on do not disturb! What a show that was! What a realistic discussion the men gave us. It is such a beautiful segment of bump love and I hope we often get them on the show. You all women to these MEN are married to exciting husbands. Your families are lucky to have you both as husbands and wives.
This was a great episode. Men sitting and openly sharing out their experiences. I'm certain this has been of great benefit for both men& women.
Loved it!! Thanks for considering bringing this guys. Salvador made me laugh when he found out about PND on his show. 😂
wowww....this was fun. need to be done more frequently and thanks for bringing the right selection of men. They exhibited Godly values and character plus respected each other. 🥰
Loved every bit of the show. Thank you for serving something different. It was an absolutely great choice of the hosts
Thank you gentlemen for sharing this was worth it #can't wait for another episode featuring you
Salvador, thank you for your transparency.
Never commented on anything ever but couldn't resist.
This conversation can run you up a wall with the patriarchal attitudes, excuses,and sense of entitlement, but the fact is we need to celebrate the fact that men can finally share their honest(even when unpleasant) thoughts and feelings. That's the beginning of dialogue, which will hopefully bring about mutual understanding.
I feel you on this!! I was so surprised that these so-called ‘modern’ men still cling to old patriarchal norms and view the advancement of their wives and maybe their mothers as the norm in Uganda. The upper-middle class woman has much more access to a great education, and a great career. She can easily afford househelp which allows her to advance in her chosen career. This is not the case for majority of the Ugandan woman. I never heard any of them sympathize with the woman in rural Uganda who needs an ally to improve on her state. Acknowledge your position of privilege when everyone around you has an easier life than the majority.
The men were too sympathetic to men who get ‘trapped’ by women. Men can provide for a family in many ways other than financially, if that’s not possible. He can protect his home, offer direction, discipline and nurture his children even when he is not employed. It was refreshing hearing their honest perspectives though.
Mothers of boys, do better for the next generation, please 😅
I think negative Patriarchy is not good, unproductive and not needed. Same as negative matriarchy. But Patriarchy also has a positive side. Women always ask me to be leaders when it comes to provision, protection and etc. That's also part of Patriarchy. The challenge is also notice is that Women want men to be who women want them to be which is unrealistic.
@@kiizajohnson8684 there is no such thing as negative or positive patriarchy or matriarchy. Please read more on those terms before you use them
Hello bump love gents...as a married woman i have learnt alot about men i can can relate with everything that has been discussed.
Sincere thanks to these men n host.
Special one to ben mwine great guy last met him in 2015 in bugolobi dissecting the ugandas budget at the time
Wow...in listening to these men in detail am starting to have a different perspective on marriage. It's about tolerance, it's about respect, support and effort. Thank you gentlemen and the incredible women beside each of you
Love how honest Salvador is. By the way we miss those couple shows when are you resuming?
Love hearing from the men's perspective
Wow wow! It's amazing to hear from men, Fabulous 4, please come back again. Maximum respect to all of you, thank you for enlightening us.
Very solid panel. Ben's submission on finances should be every woman's take home
I have loved the maturity and right judgement with which all issues are discussed! Keep it up🙏
Exactly what my mother told me. Whenever you accuse a man of cheating when he is not cheating, he will actually think or wish he had cheated. Men men!
woooooh, Good communication skills and relationship skills has really been a key point in family and society .Thank you bump love ❤
What a vibe! Ben's accent sounds perfect but bring them often pleaseeeee..i have enjoyed every inch of it
Just create a show wit the men . I think people need such an honest conversation 👏🏾
Salvador and ben are the most honest and raw…..legit🤜🏾
That's true 😘😘
So educative and funny at the same time. I loved this episode, thanks
This got me smiling throughout, very insightful interaction. Thank you!
We should have this more often
I honesty learnt a lot…
But salvador’ story of the lockdown was so relatable 😂😂😂😂Great job guys👍
Watching this very late (11pm) I even don't want to sleep this is too good y'all. These should be done more often please
Nedda Nedda we need a part 2... Wisdom.. Not married yet no baby yet but am glad to be a family here on bump love... Salvador was just so honest bambi
Yeah,we tend to judge people so quickly based on hear say and public opinion, yet in reality...someone just needs a tight hug! and assurance that they will be okay😊
This episode was both hilarious and informative. Thank you gentlemen.
Fantastic episode! I learnt alot from this. Please organise another for us to be better wives and wives-to-be😊
A very enlightening episode. So good to hear the men's perspective. And so funny
Wow, I learned and laughed through it all. Thank you gentlemen. Please do return for more episodes
Men take over has killed me today.. thanks bump love, i have failed to even ask my question because of laughter🤣
This was so beneficial and interesting, thank you guys for the amazing show
I was smiles althrought... what a show! thank you guys🙌. you're legit👏...
It was so informative. The best session is when they talked about how men like to be treated.... respect....serving them etc....
This is really productive, hopefully we have more of men on bump love
This was awesome! Thanks guys for the insight on those pertinent issues.
Great show! married and those planning to get married NEED to watch it. Both women and men. Thank you guys.
True, not yet married and am really learning a lot so that when that time comes it won't be a surprise to me.♥️🇿🇲.
Kindly note that no one knows when they are at depression. please don't blame anyone for the aftermath, you men need to observe the character change, even with other people like our parents, you cannot blame anyone for not telling you that they are getting in to depression, they just don't know or they are in denial. its never easy for anyone
Well said!!!!
I agree with you! I think women invest alot in understanding men and their emotions. They will ask, read and attend seminars but you hardly see that kind of effort from men. I think it's time for men to put some effort. Read and ask about pregnancy, motherhood etc. It will may be increase your empathy and compassion towards women and improve the communication.
@@winnienassazzi4484 Facts!!!! Many men focus just on the financial aspect ( which is great by all means) but all the other areas are Equally important. They will not want to go to therapy, they too have childhood trauma that is not dealt with etc. They always refer to the woman of those days, but guess what, she was just as stressed but hid it well from her children. If you look at many photos, you will see a sadness in their eyes. Secondly, many gave very harsh punishments to their children. Part of that was the marital stress they were bottling up 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
This is true Juliana. People really don't know that they are depressed. The ones around them should do the work and support when they see the signs. P
Very educative program.
Thank you guys for putting up a nice show.
I pray we have a part 2 and 3. This conversation was very informative. As women we surround ourselves with only voices that sound and agree to us, this was good
Well done
It was good hearing it from the men themselves. This helps. Thank you guys.
I actually normally enjoy the men on this show but this one has grated my soul cos patriarchy is all over this episode. The entitlement is very very wildddddd. I just have one question for these men, if ur doing what ur providing as u say u are why are ur women still working ? They should be ladies of leisure retired off and enjoying life. Men expect women to work just as hard as them then come home and pamper the men ??? Not a single conversation was had about collaborative working in relations. I hateeeee it here sooo much.
Noreen honey. I do agree that some remarks were giving - patriarchy. I also think that there was so much to learn. We live in a culture where men dont speak up. When they do, we shun them for being medieval and regressive. I thought they were just being honest. So personally, I shut out the regressive parts and listened to the key messages. Otherwise, if you feel too triggered by any content, it just means the conversation isn't for you...and that's okay. P
98% of the comments are highlighting how good the conversation was and yet your opinion is otherwise
I am so so grateful for this show Bumplove. I have discovered my mistakes in marriage and are determined to do better. I hope though that it is not too late......
But thanks. The men made every effort to be honest...
This is interesting 😁
It's always nice knowing the men's perspective.
The show was 🔥 🔥. Let them come back 😂😂😂
This was really life teaching and fun. thank you Bump love
U all nailed it....Ben,where is yo ring? Well,I love this version of bringing the men to the table so that we can understand how they feel about the whole thing of women's feelings in any rshp but it all takes COMMUNICATION-its key
Lots of love from Kigali Rwanda. Big up to yourselves great minds. It's my first time to see Mbokoro like this serious.
This thing of married people looking alike is sooo true. I see it in the men.
Nice one i loved this and i think all young men should be looking out for such talks 🎉🎉🎉
Very informative and interesting show.
If emotions are put out of the way (woman emotions), there's truly a lot to learn and accept especially when it's coming from men themselves.en really think way differently than we do.
Thank you Bump Love for this edition.
I have thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Thank you for bringing the guys, please bring them back
I have learnt so much from these men. The show is so informative and educative. Thank you so much for this show.
This is really good. When men have it. It helps a young father like me grow up. Whoever put it together thank you.
This has been very insightful...pliz plan to come back with part 2...amazing episode its been
Kudos to y'all wives bantu mwe, yr the men of our generation n surely yr so different 🙏🏼kudos to the Mwine', mulondo',idring'& Namwiso'..Bambi, bakyaala, mmwebale🙏🏼thanks for yr contribution era mwalonda bulungi🙌🙌🙌🙌
Thank you for being real and honest....I have learnt alot....Thanks to the team for bringing this episode....keep bringing the men so often.....
Mr Mulondo thanks for moderating so good! Questions were answered satisfactorily…
I have been laughing from the start till
Hey bump love, we need more episodes of the sort🤗
Great perspectives. From this insightful tete - a- tete, I come to the conclusion that men want the same thing. A Nigerian- man from Malaysia.
wow.....I've enjoyed this show so much. The men should return soon
Loved the show with the bump love Men. Thanks for sharing openly.
wow, hallelujah thank you so much bump for the men , am inspired encouraged taught and equipped as a young adult, God Bless YOU All l love you, long live bump love👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I’ve watched this in three bits and I must say wow 😮 “in Manuella’s voice😂” These gents here have made this vlog so fun and educative as well. Big up guys✌🏽 bumplove forever
I have really enjoyed and learnt alot from this show especially on the financial bit of it can you please bring these interesting gentle men again
I love the fact that Salivordor is learning together with wife.....
Thanx guys for bringing yr ladies along on the finances
This is so touching, educative from men show. Kindly this shouldn't stop
Wow great insights and dissipation here on qtns asked.Cant wait for the next episode cheeeiii this was it.
This was very insightful and fun to watch! ❤
Loved seeing you guys here sharing experience of real life♥️♥️
It was a great one! Please make a point of having the men more on the show.
Wow, definitely waiting for another segment, gentlemen, great show
What an episode 😍😍😍😍great job men
We need another session
Kudos to you gents. I was in class taking notes at the same time laughing out loud👏👏
I enjoyed this episode, just laughters
Thank you!!
Thank you for this beautiful perspective. Please encourage men to form support groups that they can all access and utilise
Wow ,❤️❤️❤️bump lovers
Good to see you guys ♥️
It was fun today thx bump love 💝
Its so good to see fellow men vet it makes us know we are not alone
Indeed comedian Salvador. Great words and pieces of good wisdom from the men