Attempting Suicide and Escaping Death: The Story of Serene Ho

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  • @MothershipSG
    @MothershipSG  2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    If you or someone you know are in mental distress, here are some hotlines you can call to seek help, advice, or just a listening ear:
    SOS 24-hour Hotline: 1-767
    Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800-283-7019
    Institute of Mental Health: 6389-2222 (24 hours)
    Tinkle Friend: 1800-274-4788 (for primary school-aged children)

    • @_YAMEIRU_
      @_YAMEIRU_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Okay! Thank you… But I don’t have a friend or family member in mental distress…

    • @G0RR.
      @G0RR. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@_YAMEIRU_ ok? No need to comment

    • @beaconlight4720
      @beaconlight4720 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@3xcsPerience but what methods did you try out? Lol

    • @3xcsPerience
      @3xcsPerience 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beaconlight4720 jumping, suffocating, hanging

  • @rachelho9715
    @rachelho9715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Hello Serene, I remember you from junior college. Although I do not know you personally, I really admire you for being brave despite all the difficulties you have encountered. No one will look down on you but instead, everyone will admire you for your courage. Please stay strong and live life to the fullest. You are stronger than anyone of us and i wish you all the best in life.

  • @aventurine-7387
    @aventurine-7387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    “This life is not my own”. Thank you for sending out a beautiful message. We don’t just live for ourselves, but for our loved ones as well

    • @xxy5757
      @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But when they see u as a burden🙄😭

    • @xxy5757
      @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually who are they even when u wanted to die?🙄👀

  • @delphinegoh9598
    @delphinegoh9598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I totally feel u. To some suicide attempts, it's not a resolution to die, but rather a shout out for help.
    We don't want to die, yet we do not know how to live on.
    Many times in these dire circumstances, divine intervention
    Is the only hope to save on time.

  • @paliisthebestthankyew3141
    @paliisthebestthankyew3141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is a strong woman with a powerful story. Always surround yourself with reasons to live! God bless! 😁

  • @MrMissAwesome
    @MrMissAwesome 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    What a powerful story, she’s such a strong woman.

    • @diei4040
      @diei4040 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      she used to be my tution teacher

  • @CoolPandamon
    @CoolPandamon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Hugs ❤️ thank you for sharing this with us 😊

  • @celestinetan9397
    @celestinetan9397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Serene used to tutor me science quite a long time ago, when I was in primary school. I remembered she is very kind and patient, never scolded once before. I loved the lessons and always look forward to it. I never really knew her story until now... It is very inspiring to all. Suicide is never a solution.

  • @cjkoh8227
    @cjkoh8227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank u for sharing your brave journey in life. U are many times stronger n braver than most people like me. I wish u all the best in the future.🙏🙏👍

  • @olivialau5229
    @olivialau5229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Serene, thank you so much for sharing . So brave to tell your story with an invisible audience. Thank you once again. Have the best life ahead!

  • @inmininsingapore1624
    @inmininsingapore1624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for sharing:) you are giving strength to soo many people who are struggling daily to survive
    Lots of love for you

  • @jag4064
    @jag4064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing your story! 🙏🏻

  • @ongsl2992
    @ongsl2992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being so brave. I will show it to my pupils to help them cope life better...

  • @jeanettelim1688
    @jeanettelim1688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for sharing Serene 🙏

  • @sarahlim75
    @sarahlim75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    😢 Thank you for sharing your story

  • @iangoh5366
    @iangoh5366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this amazing story. If anybody is feeling depressed or wants to talk to somebody - please please please seek professional help. I lost one of my best friends last year and it completely broke me, I pray that nobody will ever have to experience losing someone to depression.

  • @x3EmoGuy
    @x3EmoGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great coverage. People who came to watch this probably at least half of us (hope it is lesser) had intention to kill ourself before.
    If you are reading this, probably you had overcame it or still hesitating about it. Speaking is always easier than actions. Like just move on! Or just forget about it! But we all know it isn’t or else there wouldn’t have people dying from suicide.
    Most of us seek for relief, peace and etc..
    As the lady said we should treasure our lives as there might be hope the next day. And to add-on for me, life is already short enough at times we might not feel motivated in living but death is a no way out. So even if it is hard, struggles and sufferings just hang it there. Clear our mind live like you has never live before. Appreciate the fact that you are able to see, touch or even breath! Then life can be “easier” for us…
    I hope you feel better! Bless you.

  • @homygawd3407
    @homygawd3407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thankyou for this inspiring story, it really motivated me to keep pushing on. Thankyousomuch and ure a strong woman , god bless you

  • @hoyoke896
    @hoyoke896 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So heartbreaking n touching... Thanks for sharing this... It encourages people to face life in a positive way... 😊👍👏💕💕

  • @brassmonkey84
    @brassmonkey84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Proud of Serene! She was in my church! I've signed up to be suicide intervention.

  • @andrewkokkengsiong106
    @andrewkokkengsiong106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are very brave ! You have my admiration.

  • @Love.RoslynnAria
    @Love.RoslynnAria 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Serene! I'm working in retail and i saw you a few times in the shop. Thank you for sharing your story to us. You're such a strong person. Take care!

  • @Joii0805
    @Joii0805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My highest respect and salute for you.💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻.
    Keep up your good spirits 💝

  • @Evangelinec
    @Evangelinec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bless your heart. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your inspiring story 💖 sending virtual hugs your way 😊

  • @limweidejonathan
    @limweidejonathan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Serene for this wonderful sharing. God bless ❤️

  • @officialcoronavirus3237
    @officialcoronavirus3237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    💞💞💞💞 thanks for sharing ur experience with us.

    • @valtunacat
      @valtunacat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Corona , why u affect my school

    • @officialcoronavirus3237
      @officialcoronavirus3237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@valtunacat hey sorry to hear mate, wanna meet up i will send u some flowers 💐.

  • @jenjiaying6445
    @jenjiaying6445 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Serene.

  • @Bu5es
    @Bu5es 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Singapore treats mental health like its a Joke...I dont mean philosophically, i mean literally.
    Around 5.8 Million people live in Singapore, and the government expected that
    ONE single mental instituition was sufficient which cant even hold more than 1000 people.
    In fact, we closed our 2nd mental instituition in the late 2000s.

  • @mandroid-rb4uy
    @mandroid-rb4uy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello Mothership Women sharing their stories with other women is very powerful and the men could learn something too😁 great video 👍

  • @user-oi4fo7ln6x
    @user-oi4fo7ln6x ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing and your advice. You just reminded me…. Of what I would tell myself when my mind is clear

  • @anglophoned
    @anglophoned 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is so real

  • @franciscasundah4378
    @franciscasundah4378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be strong and happy,Serena...God loves you .....

  • @serynetong4928
    @serynetong4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I too was a suicide survivor...

    • @whitedaisies9355
      @whitedaisies9355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you for being brave and not giving up, you give the rest of us hope and strength!

    • @_YAMEIRU_
      @_YAMEIRU_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I guess I agree…

    • @bec3993
      @bec3993 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad ur still here

  • @kensim8378
    @kensim8378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RHANK OU SERENEFORYOUR THOUGHTS ON SUICIDE whi myself a 73 .o. single retirree livingalpne without anyfamily support andastroke survivor hvealso thoughtaout endingmy ownlife but yourthoughtshas encouragedme to hng on till a sunny day withsomehopethat mylonely lifecan get better

  • @mrmelon8490
    @mrmelon8490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be strong my dear, ❤️

  • @_YAMEIRU_
    @_YAMEIRU_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    All of this disease aren’t a disability, its a special ability to us.. It doesn’t make us different, we’re all the same… ❤️

    • @youcantseelim1751
      @youcantseelim1751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I kind of disagree. Being different is really different. We are never the same. What we can do is to ack the different and live the life we want within our means. It is selfish to stop or blame people from suicide. But what you can do is to show them other possibilities of life in their means.

    • @_YAMEIRU_
      @_YAMEIRU_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your choice...

    • @Bob-bw6to
      @Bob-bw6to 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@_YAMEIRU_ Paralympics would disagree. Thinking there's no difference is foolish thinking, there is a difference and it's the harsh reality many would rather not embrace. Now.... what you choose to do with your disadvantaged life, that's a choice.

    • @_YAMEIRU_
      @_YAMEIRU_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah yeah okay, I don’t even mean to hurt them…

  • @sheryihng690
    @sheryihng690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    we love you💕💕

  • @Kira121086
    @Kira121086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish people would stop saying suicide isn't a solution.
    To the one in distress, suicide is always an option. One that is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
    Why add on to the stress by telling people what they should or should not be doing?
    Sometimes all you need is someone who will listen and not so much a solution.

  • @sweetbabylips1488
    @sweetbabylips1488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stay strong 💪

  • @raymondchew8894
    @raymondchew8894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks for sharing. Think of your mum as a blessing, God sent to you as an angel. Do not live in a life of self pity and misery. Pray to God and l live your life as normal and share your story, encourage yourself and others. I am sure your father and siblings would like to reach out to you as part of family member and people would like to befriend with you. Why don't you attend a Sun church with a christian friend and sure you will be surprise you will have many friends reaching out to you.

    • @brassmonkey84
      @brassmonkey84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's in my cell, very full of life now.

  • @Potomacstud
    @Potomacstud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Respect salute

  • @hi-qg1ji
    @hi-qg1ji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dont do that to yourself love yourself ❤

  • @user-bv8bk9ni7j
    @user-bv8bk9ni7j 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cryyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!! All the best...

  • @einsomniumkm
    @einsomniumkm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If u only know how strong u are

  • @FOOD-742
    @FOOD-742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please be strong.. we can..

  • @ritayeo1138
    @ritayeo1138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WHO ELSE HAS/HAD HER AS A TUTUION TEACHER?!

  • @yoloyolo1307
    @yoloyolo1307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    suicide is a solution to some. I m not encouraging suicide but sometimes when suffering is too much to bear and every second is painful, why bother to even stay alive? No one knows what happens after death but if being alive is pain, sometimes the alternative is suicide....
    Though I wish there was a better way to end our life, instead of jumping down high building, throw ourselves on mrt tracks.. its painful experience for the loved ones. But if we can die peacefully ,at a time we decide,surrounded by our loved ones...that would be best.

  • @eileenseah4973
    @eileenseah4973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know her she is a very bubbly lady

  • @Sayonara301
    @Sayonara301 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many people are in trouble and problem now. It is only the problem not same. In the countries of war, citizens don't have shelters or food to eat.

  • @yuansongho6128
    @yuansongho6128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when my turn but i dont survive

  • @xxy5757
    @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I guess yea i guess not many people seen or experience death. If they knew how scary it was maybe they would just never want to die in the first place?👀

  • @yeopaul3829
    @yeopaul3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To God Almighty and His Son , Jesus Christ be the glory.

  • @miadelle528
    @miadelle528 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait ..is this the Serene Ho who is very mean and cruel to a lot of people on FB?

  • @tatyanaz5622
    @tatyanaz5622 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those who think of themselves as Christians, should never celebrate Halloween. Especially make their kids part of the celebration. Kids have very fragile nervous system, they have very tender hearts, they get scared really easily. They are very vulnerable to the spiritual world. Kids can have nervous outbreaks after encountering the unclean spirits. Its very dangerous to let kids participate in something devilish.
    Kids can have depression, anger outbreaks, crying spells... long after the incident.. Unclean spirits can have control over kids and force them to be out of control. When kids brains and hearts are damaged like that, its very hard to make them normal. Only God can heal such kids.
    Parents need to go to a church that is in very close relationship with Jesus Christ. They need to ask a pastor to anoint their kids with oil and pray over them in the name of Jesus Christ and God will heal their kids, and make them calm. The Holy Spirit of God will be protecting such kids from everything evil, but parents have to stop forcing their kids to participate in gruesome holidays.
    Hallow is a root of Halloween.
    Hallow means to honor as holy, as sacred, to make holy, basically... to worship
    Only God is Holy, only God is sacred, only God can be worshipped.
    "Our FATHER in heaven,
    HALLOWED be YOUR name..."
    Mathew 6:9
    When people celebrate dressing up in devilry, in unclean spirits , and in all sorts of demonic creatures, they DISHONOR GOD. When they decorate their houses with all sorts of abominations, clothe themselves and their children in the costumes of posessed spirits, they DO NOT HALLOW the name of GOD. Such people voluntarily worship devil and let the demonic spirits into their homes and in their families.
    If a person desires and finds attractive blood, gruesome images, murder, death, magic, horror movies, sorcery, divination, witchcraft , wizardry, and such....that person DISHONORS GOD. Those who participate in evil, WILL NOT inherit the Kingdom of God.
    When people celebrate Halloween, they DISHONOR GOD'S NAME and give honor to devil. In other words; they sacrifice their money, their time, their interests, their kids and their families to devil. Their heart desires are with devilish and spiritually unclean things. They participate in pagan idolatry.
    "Abstain from every form of evil."
    1 Thessalonians 5:28
    "Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them." Ephesians 5:11
    ""You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons." 1 Corinthians 10:21
    Please, think about it, open your eyes, and see how evil we became toward our God, who created us in His image, who wants us to represent heaven, be peaceful, be just, be righteous and holy. PLEASE REPENT OF THIS SIN, turn to God and worship Him only. Don't dishonor God with the evil deeds, because He will blot out from the earth all who love evil. Psalm 34:16
    "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." James 4:7
    "Control yourselves. Be on your guard. Your enemy the devil is like a roaring lion. He prowls around looking for someone to chew up and swallow."
    1 Peter 5:8

  • @resha8166
    @resha8166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    AGED 10-29? so heartbreaking to think young children would think of suicide😔

  • @xxy5757
    @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg so scary sia😱

    • @xxy5757
      @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The hotline is really useless one🙄👀

  • @xxy5757
    @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Zzz all the hotline literally rubbish sia🙄🤮

  • @johannsebastianbach7248
    @johannsebastianbach7248 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha so funny

  • @xxy5757
    @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Find someone to rant online lol

  • @xxy5757
    @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't want to die cause haha theories but my siblings or father don't really care. U hv a good family?👀

    • @xxy5757
      @xxy5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unselfish?🙄👀

    • @insomnibox328
      @insomnibox328 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You okay? Want to talk?