These thoughts can not come to one mind without facing life challenges. Hats off to you to jotted down correctly all these learning and sharing with us to feel motivated
Nh m avi bhut tension m hu bhut akele v hu to mujhe khuch banaya hn rat var nind nh ati kiya kare khuch samaj m nh arehi hm .. isliye rat var apki video dakh k motivet hoti hu
Great mam❤❤ aap ek bahut achchhi teacher or motvator hain...mam m bhi ek teacher hoon....par 8 months se ghar par hoon..ab interview ka conference bilkul nhi h...kya karoon....please reply
Watch a lot of yt videos on interviews. And before going say " what's the worst thing that is going to happen - they will reject me" And sometimes facing the real fear is the only option. So face it and after 2 or 3 you will be fine.
Hey nia.. I want a suggestion from you.. m a new mom aur mujhe apni life me kuch b achh anhi lgrha.. Aisa lgra h k sb ruk gya h.. Mera kahin bhi Mann nhi lgta.. depressed feel hota h.. lgta h k sb kuch phle jaisa kb hoga.. m kb wapis job join krungi.. I luv my baby bt m khush feel nhi kr parhi... Plz suggest k m kya kru... Hoping for ur rply
It's normal to feel like that. Being a mom is not a Bollywood movie. It's tiring, long, and sometimes you just want to give up but its not an option now. You can't have a routine . So whenever you feel like this just remember your kid is not going to be in your arms for long. He/she is going to grow up really fast. So its not permanent. Learn something on yt or online, try to work on some skill that you wanted before or may be can help you in future. Reading is going to help a lot, spiritual reading also helps a lot. Prayers to help you raise a decent human being is going to help a lot. Stop watching parenting tips and videos, they are bullshit( unless its from an child psychologist). You have max 2 to 3 years of struggle but you will be ok. Take rests , if possible have 2 to 3 hours outside alone without the baby in a week. And believe me "mom guilt" is real. But you are not a bad mom if your child is ok, breathing, fed and you are not giving him any trauma. Don't forget your self take breaks without guilt.
If you feel like you need help please don't wait and see a therapist. Please because for your kid a happy and healthy mom is more important than anything.
@@NIYAHOODA Thnku so much Nia .. Ur words r really encouraging.. n yes m seeking help from a psychologist bt I dnt hv any1 else to help me dts y sb bhot tiring hogya h... Husband bhot helpful h bt wonsham ko aate h 4 bje... Tb tk akele rhna bhot ajib sa lgta h.. phle yhi akela rhna blessings lgta tha pr ab isse ghbrahat hoti h.. i hope sb jldi thik hojae
Make some friends in your neighborhood, Indian aunties are a blessing. We are living in India, padosh me agr koi aunty hai to she will really help you. Try to talk and ask for help.
Same condition mam khuch ni hai mere pass lln main fashion designer ka course kua hai tu vhi kam krte hu main silai ka lkn ek income sw do bcho ko palna bhut difficult ho rha hai😢
Than start thinking 🧐 what is the other source of income i can generate. Focus on this thought and you will find many options. Try some and you will find what works for you.
You are amazing this video helped me a lot.thanks dear God bless you
Glad it helped.... 😊
All advices are really fruitful ❤
You are the best ❤️
Thanks 😊
I am your new subscriber and liked your video.
Excellent video. Excellent advice by u. I love u Niya. I am Bindu Rao
Thank you so much 😁😊
V nice motivational video.i need it🎉❤.
Superb❤
Bhut badiya❤❤
Isse achcha advice koi nahi de sakta hai! It's perfect and ultimate advice for needy people. 👌🌹❤
Thank you so much 🤗
These thoughts can not come to one mind without facing life challenges. Hats off to you to jotted down correctly all these learning and sharing with us to feel motivated
Thanks a ton for your support and love. 🥰🥰😍😍😍
Di hi m avi apki video dakh rehi hu😂rat ki 1.30 baje😂
Why itna late. So jaya kro dear.... Din me dekh lo.
Nh m avi bhut tension m hu bhut akele v hu to mujhe khuch banaya hn rat var nind nh ati kiya kare khuch samaj m nh arehi hm .. isliye rat var apki video dakh k motivet hoti hu
Love u nia again❤❤
I really needed that video. There is so much i need to fix in my life. Thank you so much.
Thank you 😊
Very different video from another video
Hope you enjoyed it! Thank you so much 💕
thank u mam
You are more than welcome 🤗
Great mam❤❤ aap ek bahut achchhi teacher or motvator hain...mam m bhi ek teacher hoon....par 8 months se ghar par hoon..ab interview ka conference bilkul nhi h...kya karoon....please reply
Watch a lot of yt videos on interviews.
And before going say " what's the worst thing that is going to happen - they will reject me"
And sometimes facing the real fear is the only option. So face it and after 2 or 3 you will be fine.
Hey nia.. I want a suggestion from you.. m a new mom aur mujhe apni life me kuch b achh anhi lgrha.. Aisa lgra h k sb ruk gya h.. Mera kahin bhi Mann nhi lgta.. depressed feel hota h.. lgta h k sb kuch phle jaisa kb hoga.. m kb wapis job join krungi.. I luv my baby bt m khush feel nhi kr parhi... Plz suggest k m kya kru... Hoping for ur rply
It's normal to feel like that. Being a mom is not a Bollywood movie. It's tiring, long, and sometimes you just want to give up but its not an option now. You can't have a routine . So whenever you feel like this just remember your kid is not going to be in your arms for long. He/she is going to grow up really fast. So its not permanent.
Learn something on yt or online, try to work on some skill that you wanted before or may be can help you in future. Reading is going to help a lot, spiritual reading also helps a lot. Prayers to help you raise a decent human being is going to help a lot.
Stop watching parenting tips and videos, they are bullshit( unless its from an child psychologist).
You have max 2 to 3 years of struggle but you will be ok.
Take rests , if possible have 2 to 3 hours outside alone without the baby in a week. And believe me "mom guilt" is real. But you are not a bad mom if your child is ok, breathing, fed and you are not giving him any trauma.
Don't forget your self take breaks without guilt.
If you feel like you need help please don't wait and see a therapist. Please because for your kid a happy and healthy mom is more important than anything.
@@NIYAHOODA Thnku so much Nia .. Ur words r really encouraging.. n yes m seeking help from a psychologist bt I dnt hv any1 else to help me dts y sb bhot tiring hogya h... Husband bhot helpful h bt wonsham ko aate h 4 bje... Tb tk akele rhna bhot ajib sa lgta h.. phle yhi akela rhna blessings lgta tha pr ab isse ghbrahat hoti h.. i hope sb jldi thik hojae
Make some friends in your neighborhood, Indian aunties are a blessing. We are living in India, padosh me agr koi aunty hai to she will really help you. Try to talk and ask for help.
@@NIYAHOODA I will.. n thnx for understanding my situation... Lots of luv n light to u..
Same condition mam khuch ni hai mere pass lln main fashion designer ka course kua hai tu vhi kam krte hu main silai ka lkn ek income sw do bcho ko palna bhut difficult ho rha hai😢
Than start thinking 🧐 what is the other source of income i can generate. Focus on this thought and you will find many options. Try some and you will find what works for you.
Lekin ap English Jada bolte hm Etna mujhe nh ati hm so please hindi boliye Kiku ki ap mere guru ho to ap ko flowers 🌹 karna hm isliye
Well me mix bolti hu to islie aapko difficulty aati hogi.
Han niya Tum Mujhe Apni bahan Jaisi Lagti Ho because Tumhare thinking aur mere thinking same hai☺
Yes dear. We are a digital family here. We are making a community of the same kind of people here.