A pastor counseled my husband and I. He said when you deal with conflict, always lead from a place of love. If you cannot then be silent until you can. It changed my entire perspective. I no longer feel the need to win the argument nor does he have to accept and validate what I share. my husband is still struggling with this concept however his inability to chnage does not disturb my peace. Only God can chnage him and its in his time, not mine. 🙌🏾👋🏾
My brother Isaac, you parked at my house and went in every room with this message. The least I can do is provide lunch lol. You're talking to me and at me. Love you my brother.
Thank you Lord for delivering me form having to win the argument. So much peace in this place. We must unlearn unhealthy behaviours. Our parents gav eus what they had and sometimes it was not good. Forgive them becasue they couldn't give what they didn't have. Break the generational pass down.
My brother! This has been the most revelatory message I have heard in some time, and I am a Therapist! Thank you to our Father God for using you as a vessel to share this message. It was definitely much needed and I have already been sharing this with my clients. God, please keep these messages coming! God bless you! #TherapyThursdays #RedefinedTV #PastorIssacCurry #GodLessons #PowerOfCommunication #WhenGodSpeaks
I agree whole heartily about the Arguments in a relationship because once the Arguring stop you still haven't came to an agreement or a compromise because no one is understanding what each other has said
Sir, I tell you this came for my ENTIRE soul and I was in my feelings listening to it LoL!!! THANK YOU, I say that as tears roll down my cheeks. Much work must be done, God help me! I will listen to this a couple more times because once is just not enough. God bless you!!!
I LIVE to avoid! I will blatantly lie to your face, completely fold, fold into myself, quash the issue simply to kill the bad vibes and then try to find ways to never be close to you again. I would move away to avoid a tough conversation instead of just using my words. I hateeeeeeee conflict.
Yes. Please discuss this in more depth. This may need to go on for a couple of months at least. Lol. Seriously, though. The Holy Spirit has helped me with this a lot over the past few years. Thank you, Lord Jesus. Thank you, LORD. AMEN.
This is for me!!! My wife and I have 0 Communication with one another.. All we have done for the past 3-4 years is fuss and put each other down.. Now we are separated
I am going to disagree better with others! Great video! It helped me to do self-reflection. As a therapist, I help others daily with relationship conflict and often it all boils down to communication styles. I want to lead by example, so I can lead my clients to see improvements in their relationship dynamics. Blessings to you and your family Pastor Curry! 😇
Thank you for choosing to be humble and obedient and for sharing what the Holy Spirit led you to share in Jesus' name. AMEN. WHEW. THANK YOU FIR THE PRAYER/PRAYERS IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN.
These types of communicators can overlap. I've also learned that we communicate differently with different people. Usually we will give more grace to friends, co-workers and not our spouse/children. We breaking these chains of bondage and tearing down these strongholds. I'M GOING TO ARGUE BETTER. DISAGREE WELL
This was like a running a mallet over an xylophone-it hit every wound. I saw myself from beginning to end. I think this should def be a series so we’re not all just walking around wide open after admitting to our communication problems or at least can you drop some helpful resources?
I'm a mix of avoider, accommodator and often defender - it's an ugly combination. Was necessitated from childhood trauma and later an emotionally abusive marriage. I'm learning to argue constructively thanks to God, my partner and healing. I'm not there yet, but each time is a little move in the right direction.
A pastor counseled my husband and I. He said when you deal with conflict, always lead from a place of love. If you cannot then be silent until you can. It changed my entire perspective. I no longer feel the need to win the argument nor does he have to accept and validate what I share. my husband is still struggling with this concept however his inability to chnage does not disturb my peace. Only God can chnage him and its in his time, not mine. 🙌🏾👋🏾
This is a word within itself! Thank you for sharing!
This is a WORD I'm living in right now. Amen! Thank you for sharing ❤
i’m the avoider and the accommodator. i didn’t even realized it until i watched this wow.
My brother Isaac, you parked at my house and went in every room with this message. The least I can do is provide lunch lol. You're talking to me and at me. Love you my brother.
_You may not experience disagreement a lot because people have chose to stop disagreeing with you_ . 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Pastor Curry.... good good good stuff Man of God!! 🥲🫣😬🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾🙏🏾💪🏾.
I want to stop sinning against people arguing everyday it cost me head aches
I love the way pastor Isaac break it down every time!
Jesus I thank you for this clarity of the blindspots I have .ThAnkyou for correcting me in love
Thank you Lord for delivering me form having to win the argument. So much peace in this place. We must unlearn unhealthy behaviours. Our parents gav eus what they had and sometimes it was not good. Forgive them becasue they couldn't give what they didn't have. Break the generational pass down.
My brother! This has been the most revelatory message I have heard in some time, and I am a Therapist! Thank you to our Father God for using you as a vessel to share this message. It was definitely much needed and I have already been sharing this with my clients. God, please keep these messages coming! God bless you! #TherapyThursdays #RedefinedTV #PastorIssacCurry #GodLessons #PowerOfCommunication #WhenGodSpeaks
I'm going to argue better. Please continue this conversation. It's definitely needed
I agree whole heartily about the Arguments in a relationship because once the Arguring stop you still haven't came to an agreement or a compromise because no one is understanding what each other has said
watching from Canada 🇨🇦 been watch this church for 4 months 💕been so blessed by all the teachings and revelation
THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL, PRECIOUS, ANOINTED, POWERFUL HOLY SPIRIT. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN.
Sir, I tell you this came for my ENTIRE soul and I was in my feelings listening to it LoL!!! THANK YOU, I say that as tears roll down my cheeks. Much work must be done, God help me! I will listen to this a couple more times because once is just not enough. God bless you!!!
Yes Pastor Isaac powerful 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I LIVE to avoid! I will blatantly lie to your face, completely fold, fold into myself, quash the issue simply to kill the bad vibes and then try to find ways to never be close to you again. I would move away to avoid a tough conversation instead of just using my words. I hateeeeeeee conflict.
This is it 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯
This message making me feel some type of way, must be meant for me, glad I tuned in
Yes. Please discuss this in more depth. This may need to go on for a couple of months at least. Lol. Seriously, though. The Holy Spirit has helped me with this a lot over the past few years. Thank you, Lord Jesus. Thank you, LORD. AMEN.
Dis whole session is literally a summary of my lyf&ALL my relationship problems.
Congratulations, Brother Issac, on your new baby. God bless you and your family. You are a blessing! Thank you!
I’m here in Atlanta, Georgia. Currently binge watching redefined tv.❤
This is for me!!! My wife and I have 0 Communication with one another.. All we have done for the past 3-4 years is fuss and put each other down.. Now we are separated
Thank you pastor, I needed this especially TODAY!
I am going to disagree better with others! Great video! It helped me to do self-reflection. As a therapist, I help others daily with relationship conflict and often it all boils down to communication styles. I want to lead by example, so I can lead my clients to see improvements in their relationship dynamics. Blessings to you and your family Pastor Curry! 😇
I loved this, saw myself in some of it. Need to change, this is worth listening to again.
Maitland, Fl 🌴 Welcome everyone 🙌🏼✨Be ready to be Blessed🙏🏼♥️
Wow!!! Arguments are not meant to be won, but to be understood… come on now🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
We Argue Too Much. I needed this.
😢😢😢 Lord Jesus, Thank you!!!
You need to gain UNDERSTANDING. It’s not always about winning.
Thank you for choosing to be humble and obedient and for sharing what the Holy Spirit led you to share in Jesus' name. AMEN. WHEW. THANK YOU FIR THE PRAYER/PRAYERS IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN.
These types of communicators can overlap. I've also learned that we communicate differently with different people. Usually we will give more grace to friends, co-workers and not our spouse/children. We breaking these chains of bondage and tearing down these strongholds. I'M GOING TO ARGUE BETTER. DISAGREE WELL
wow! what a word, thanks pastor 🙏🏼 🙌🏼
Watching from Nashville TN. Thank u for pouring into us. Much needed teaching. God bless u & keep u 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏾!!
Looking forward to hearing!! Unlearning and relearning!! Yellowknife Northwest Territories Canada 🇨🇦
Streaming from Trinidad and Tobago.
Powerful word!!!
Soooo good!👏👏🙏
Thank you for this it really came on time!! I an going to argue better, communicate well, & listen more.
😔 this hit home. Thank you
Thank you, Pastor Isaac. Loved this and please do a part 2. 😊
I need this word
Amen🙌
Amen 🙏🏽
This was a great word! Thank you
Great message that is teaching me valuable information for my next marriage thank you
I’m gonna argue better 🙏🏾. Thank you for this word ❤. God bless you and your family pastor Curry 🙏🏾
What a great word! I shared this with so many people especially my married friends, thank you!
Arguments are not be won, arguments are meant to be understood
I communicated exactly what God told me
Amen 🙏🏾
I needed this video also sent this to my boyfriend.
This was sooo gooooood! You blessed me Pastor!
Thank you Lord, I needed this message. Watching from KY. Blessings 👏🏽❤️
This was like a running a mallet over an xylophone-it hit every wound. I saw myself from beginning to end. I think this should def be a series so we’re not all just walking around wide open after admitting to our communication problems or at least can you drop some helpful resources?
Hello brothers and sisters 👋🏼 👀🇦🇺👍🏼
First time
You are right about the filter due to childhood trauma and hurt
This was part of an answer to prayer I made just today. Lord thank You for clarity. God bless you brother and Pastor Jerry for this platform. 🙏🏽
Amen. I needed this today. Thank you
Phoenix AZ. FIRST TIME❤
This is soooo good!
Thank you so much for this msg
I’m in Springfield Illinois and this is the first time
Great message
Love it! Can’t wait for Part 2!
I'm a mix of avoider, accommodator and often defender - it's an ugly combination. Was necessitated from childhood trauma and later an emotionally abusive marriage. I'm learning to argue constructively thanks to God, my partner and healing. I'm not there yet, but each time is a little move in the right direction.
I'm listening from littleton colorado
This is fire Sir!
This is good 👏🏾 thank you 🙏🏾
Replay We argue to much
we argue to much!
I am going to argue better. This session was amazing and I'm definitely here for a part 2!
I'm going to collaborate better in Jesus name 🙌🏾
This has me weeping 😪😪😪
From Springfield Massachusetts
Wow this was awesome
Watching from Tarrs, Pa
We argue too much!!!!!!
Amen
This was so good!
Whew I was trying avoid this topic 🤯😅😬 you are so on point 💯💯🎯
Greetings to all from Denver Colorado 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
This has been very helpful and I am only 25 minutes in
Become a better LISTENER to grow SPIRITUALLY.
Wow! 10min in&i am guilty as charged
Sending love all the way from LV , Nevada!
North Carolina ❤️🙏
In Jesus name Amen 🙏
We argue too much 😢
Great evening from Jax Florida! 🤩🙌🏾🙏🏾
We argue too much!!
I need communication everyday
❤🤔 Im suspicious and deduce that since Isaac did #TherapyThursday The Flowers must have had their King. 😅
You’re correct about that! Congratulations to them
I believe they did but doesn’t he do these sometimes?
@@86Kera it was Jerry's turn and he announced the previous Sunday that Mrs. Flowers was expecting any day.
Cleveland Ohio
Ouch
We argue too much 🤐
Malawi. Not my first time though 🤭
This is my first time