BOYS TO MEN : Growing up without a father with Xola & Solo S1:E9
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2023
- On this episode, Chim, Xola & Solo dive deep into their experience growing up in a single parent household. The men talk about challenges faced, highlights and offer solutions as well.
Funny how the fatherlessness can affect us in a 2 parent household as well. I actually realized as you guys were talking about things you missed because of growing up without your dads, that some of us relate fully despite having an ever physical father, just absent in all the ways from emotionally not feeling safe with them or them not being engaged, financially them refusing to contribute, spiritually not leading the fam, and physically them not showing up for you be it school visiting, parents day by choice, basically functioning as a 1 parent household with a man who clocked out.
I'm glad we are choosing to do better and change the narrative.
Enjoyed the 2 episodes. Good job 👏
Your comment has not only been eye-opening but a blessing aswell.
So happy to have you here!
Dear Xola,
You will slowly but SURELY heal. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us!
Seeing men owning their narrative and being vulnerable while at it is such a GREEN flag! This is good!
Crib sheet podcast is the best podcast in Kenya right now!!
Staki kujua nishasema😂😂😂😂
Ushasema! We appreciate you!
Xola. Am so proud of the man you have become and the support and love you have for Mellissa and ypur mum. You are the one dude.
XolA. MAD LOVE
I just realized the privilege I had to have a strong African father who later became my only true best friend. Let’s go the crib sheet!
You're blessed :)
The vulnerability here is so refreshing. We can all learn so much from each other once we put aside our egos - both men and women. Thanks for this 🙏🏼
That second wife comment..... How about you bring guests who grew up in such a dynamic so we can hear about their experiences.
Awesome feedback.
We'll definitely look into doing so in the next season.
Absolutely!!
This was a needed conversation. Bring more sober men on set, its refreshing listening to their wisdom
Life is a balance.
Two parents. Family values. Good job in this episode.
Thank you!
Very good content. Keep up the good work👌
Thank you 🙌
Does Xola have a social media handle? Asking for myself 😊
Lol
Chims mom, a single mom, advised him that leaving is an option.
I'm responsible for what I say, not your comprehension level.
Gems to swine and all that jazz.