Wow, very relatable, sometimes it’s hard when you think you have a real friend and pour everything into your relationship with them and they end up turning their back on you in the end. It’s kinda depressing how little people actually care about you. I understand how you are feeling completely.
if they're pickin on you they probably jealous cus they aint doin anything with they're life bedsides picking on people and being assholes, I hope you find a good friend fr
Struggling with this in school. They only liked me because I was good at shooter games and I carried them, then I got worse at the game and they ditched me.
Yeah, it sucks, I think it’s because you’re too kind and don’t realize when people want you for what you give them and not for you. I know for a fact my friends are real cuz I’m cheap (broke) asf and I’m not the guy to call if you need me quick, but my friends still invite me and get mad when i can’t be there. Martin, you need my type of friends: people who accept who you are and want you around even if you’re far from perfect. Love you Martin ! Hope you doing good !
This was honestly perfect timing for me. There's so many times that I think I have real friends and it always just gets thrown back in my face. Like I am truly Their friend, but I figure out the hard way that they aren't mine, and I've just come to the realization recently that the 'friends' I have right now, are not real either. It feels like I'm just not capable of having somebody who cares about me as much as I care about them.
Ngl, your videos are starting to really inspire me to keep posting on my channel. So many sleepless nights of editing just for it to flop. I was feeling down about it then your video popped up in my recommended. Funny, cause now i listen to your videos in the background while I edit. Thanks for being a motivator my friend! Stay Legendary!
I have a friend that I have known for more than a decade now, and today my friend always has my back and always supports me. I would rather have 1 true friend over 100 fake people who only care about money, or only asks me for favours where quality >>>> quantity. I am really glad that I have someone who is genuine.
I find it really relatable. I see the greatness in people, I became friends with them, did my best every day and then they just betray me over nothing. People are strange.
I feel this quite a bit, as I don't really have much of anyone to call a friend. Mostly just an acquaintance, especially being in school. I dap some people up, but don't even really interact with them. What's the point of dapping up when it's very small. Or someone just roasts you or always doing stuff to make you mad or to get a reaction out of you. To get anything out of you. It's annoying, I mostly stay to myself in most of my classes eith some small talking. That's why I'm a bit on edge if someone might consider me their friend, as the word "friend" can't be used so loosely. That's how people been using the word friend for a long time. Which is the wrong definition, a friend is kinda like family. Not always as close, but someone who cares, respects, loves, and is there when they can. To be honest, some of the people I have to sit with and deal with, probably would be smoking on the pack if I died tomorrow.
so fucking relatable, i kinda still have my fake friend and i really cant let down the friendship... i knew this guy since 3rd grade and i feel like hes kinda stupid and weird ngl. he would always blame me for when i got in trouble and we would fight almost every fucking day
What I learned from my journey with messed up friendships.. Firstly, dont take online friendship breakups seriously or rather deeply in most situations they didn’t see your face nor you did see theirs and you made up this fantasy in your head about them that could be wrong if you were to meet them in real life . Try not to depend on them as real friends that is what im trying to say. Secondly, a friend who’s personality changes when with other people or pretending they are someone else not like when you guys alone one to one is a bit hmmm just be careful of them . Thirdly, put the effort dont be too egotistical and self absorbed life is more than yourself if you want someone to be a friend be a friend know about them their life and then expect them to know and care about yours And with the right people you wont feel that push and pull or feel used in a way . Fourthly, make friendships with common interests or mainly values religion so you don’t feel like you are not being real with them 100% because you are hiding part of yourself due to clashed values in the long run . Lastly, friends like season they come and go to serve a purpose wither in school or uni or job or event etc and if you lose them along the way doesn’t mean they or you are bad or fake its just means you grew out if it it wasn’t really a close bonding friendship more like there was something which brought you together now it’s not and that is okay because then you put out a space for real friend to come by . And yeah don’t forget to enjoy the moment create memories learn something from them :3
very relatable. especially the part where you said you distanced yourself to them and NOT ONE message or text asking you how you're doing. i hate people that are like that. i had a friend where i was there for him during his worst breakup, i'd listen to his rants, offer advice then when it was me that was dealing with a breakup, i got left on read. it really upset me that i just ghosted the motherfucker and never talked to him. he'd tag me in facebook posts and i'd straight up just ignore the fucker.
It's sometimes very hard to tell who your friend is and have strict boundaries, since everyone needs someone to talk to... I've met better people now and over the years I have been trying to talk to all people I had any class with or activity... sometimes out of 30 people i got 2 avg friends, sometimes 1 funny, but otherwise salty dude... I just hope you will never lose faith and find better people to be around, who actually care about you as much as you care about them. Who actually lift you up. I really enjoy your channel, because you are sharing your experiences very eloquently and smoothly and I enjoy watching minecraft lol
When you mentioned going ghost and none of them reaching out that just reminded me; Anytime you are unsure about a friendship just stop messaging them for like 2 weeks. If they keep hitting you up they are genuine. If they don't then that means your the one carrying the friendship and its probably best to let it go. If you have a genuine friendship yall should both be messaging each other back to back. Not 1 side constantly having to start the conversation.
yeah, i've felt that before too. but i'm always grateful to find out later that others prove me wrong. sometimes the genuine ones are the ones i underestimated the most, and i always feel guilty about it, but i keep my head up cuz at least they're there for me.
This is too fucking relatable. Get rid of those people. If you meet these people, give them a chance to be better, but if there is no improvement and they just stay toxic leave. There is no mutual good coming out of that situation. Those people just want a scapegoat person they can get kicks out of, they don't really care who it is. All the meanwhile, you're wishing the best for them, and want to take care of them or helping out when they need it, and all that. Over time it will drag you down, make you bitter, and corrupt you. People like this are why I became such a loner. Eventually if you keep meeting new people and gauging their vibes you will meet some great people that can be lifelong friends. After meeting so many people like the ones you are talking about, I feel so blessed to have my homies.
Hits hard. My friend group changes a lot, with the exception of a few people in it, but honestly it feels like I'm pretty disposable in the group. recently I've had this person that backtalks another friend of theirs to me, and confirming things with how he tends to cut either of us off when speaking. However, I feel the opposite also happens to me, where literally just before I had to deal with these two people - these same two people, doing things like cutting me off whenever I talked. I'm certain that right now they're doing the same thing to me as they did to him. In fact when I just went and left they just didn't even notice aside from a "oh" so I think it's pretty obvious that i'm just disposable in that group. I feel bad for that person too, since I'm certain it's gonna happen (and has happened!) to him too.
Feel this one bro, a lot of my homies from where ive lived for a major amount of my life dont message me at all, then i got homies from when i lived abroad who text me more, and check in on me more often, people suck
For your friends telling you to quit TH-cam, like you’ve said you’ve got a passion for it which is great already but even if there’s one person out there willing to watch every video, that’s great. Honestly your in my top ten TH-camrs, I find comfort and feel I’m not alone since often times I can relate, the only video I haven’t watched or yours was the how to cure anxiety because I just can’t do what those videos usually say, I’ll probably watch at somepoint though. Your not a buzzkill though, just need to find the right people or person, hopefully for you that’s sooner than later. And don’t worry I was some guys only friend, he never bothered to talk to me though, and the beginning of this year he flat out ignores anything I say to him irl to the point I did wonder if I couldn’t be seen, of course that wasn’t the case, he just didn’t want to be around me I guess. Wish you the best of luck, don’t get discouraged! (Btw sorry I haven’t talked in the discord server, just haven’t found a point I felt I could appropriately jump into conversation with anyone yet, but you seem like a very nice guy and I appreciate you a lot!) hope your having a great day/night and good luck
I had some friends in freshmen year and my number of friends quadrupled in sophomore year and we all had amazing moments. I’m halfway in Junior year and it feels like I’m being left out and they tease me more, which they never did before. I was always nice to everyone and I consider their feelings, but like you said, it feels like no one has my back. I realize I was never even close with them because they all hangout with each other outside of school but I just stay home all day, and they all have such better lives and relationships without me. I still have that one true friend at school and we’ve had each other’s backs since preschool.
Last night I was thinking about a very similar topic, funny how these coincidences work out and relate to each other. Not just for me but for everyone else here too. It’s also kinda ironic how everyone doesn’t want to have fake friends but are not real or authentic towards those around them. Causing a fake friendship.
Dude, it’s been 1 month and you’re already at 26k subs and 527k views. You’re gonna blow up especially since you’re genuine and like you put in your name low key bro keep it up. ❤👍
icl, i cant really give super advice on this because ive always had a group of good friends, i guess what id say is that keep in mind that they are supposed to be your friend as well as you being their friend, dont keep doing more for them than they are for you
I’m not really an out going person. Most of the time im retracted. Don’t like to be around people much, nor accept gifts or anything. Part of it is because my friends would condition it in my mind that im needed in their group because they care and giving me stuff was a way they would do that, they take and take from me and when I start to speak out, I either become a target for their jokes but then they buy me things. I left them fortunately and found help in places that gave me the help I needed. I know it’s a weird thing to say but, if you ever need a friend too, I’m always happy to make new friends. I’ll have your back if you need it bro.
Im alone. Everywhere. I tried to makes friends, they started ignoring me. My best friend was my majority of happiness and now I feel like our time is running out. He is fixing his life and having things outside the screen which means it will less time for us. I feel so scared, he says he'll make time for me but I don't trust it at all. I feel extremely alone
Remember It's understandable to feel scared and uncertain about the future of your friendship, but it's important to communicate your feelings openly with your friend. Let them know how much their friendship means to you and express your concerns about feeling isolated. It's possible that they may not realize how their actions are affecting you and may be willing to make more time for you. In the meantime, try to focus on activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment, and consider reaching out to other friends or family members for support. You're not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help you through this difficult time.
now im 17 i have nobody to play with and i would literaly play anything and i wouldn t leave anyone and i have this sensation of loneliness because in don t have real friends my mental health it s not that good but a good thing is that i go to the gym it s the only thing that s saving me and i was always a good guy that was different from anyone helped a lot of people with problems and without problems. Being a nice guy that cares about others it s difficult
Love your vids Martin, we need more TH-camrs like you man. Love how down to earth your videos are, you’re a super genuine guy. Keep up the amazing vids
Being a nice person is about courtesy: you're friendly, polite, agreeable, and accommodating. When people believe they have to be nice in order to give, they fail to set boundaries, rarely say no, and become pushovers, letting others walk all over them. -Adam Grant You gotta set boundaries or you’ll just be a push over. It’s better to be kind than nice. There are genuine people out there just watch out for snakes in the grass.
That sounds like people pleasing, a projection of when you were ignored at a young age so you thought the only way to make friends is to please people, but all this does is make people see you as a servant
damn dude i'm almost 20 and hearing someone close to my age talk seriously is refreshing, I've had a lot of similar experiences. I have one epic friend who looks out for me, at I'm grateful for that
This video is very relatable. I have had many friends who have been like this. The main thing you need to do is not let them affect you once they do these things. Life can try to get you down, but you cannot let it stop you from winning. 'Forgive not 7 but 77 times' - Jesus Christ
I thought about talking about this myself, but I have just one person who reaches out to me. For the first time in honestly months we actually went and did something, was kind of fun lol I didn’t know I missed doing that. Rotting away in your room is something else for sure
2:56 Damn... if I had someone checking my social media... they'd be like "you're down bad" cause I keep posting shit online that insinuates the expectation of people responding, and people keep ignoring me or something... cause the stuff I post is a bit overly personal... 6:58 God... such a dick move... even if the other person doesn't care... it's fishing for spite essentially. 8:07 Clearly the "please don't be a bigot" stuff didn't reach them, or they just didn't care... bigots be bigots I guess. 9:02 SAME. 9:28 They're not cynical, they're more like... just blissfully cynical/cruel... I don't know how that works actually... I wouldn't call it cynisim 10:58 I wonder... maybe the internet has made it so we don't need to care about other people, cause we've got all this content we can consume... but that might just be overly cynical, plus it isn't what's happening herein your video. 11:26 Absolutely. Criticism is like tearing someone apart, and feedback... well... it's more to the point I think? 11:32 Oh yep, for certain! 11:48 They're just a hater I think... or if they're not a hater, they got a kinda way of thinking that is... impossible to... I'm not sure... 12:35 SAME! 12:48 YEAH!? Why do fake people just... group together like that? 14:04 O damn 18:44 It's true. I also want something to gain... but it's cause I like to learn stuff, maybe get to know someone, but I have ADHD so I gotta note stuff... and do stuff when I'm in the mood sortof... 20:46 God I wish there was a better way to care and show that caring online... although if it's in person, well... too much for me... 21:32 God doesn't do Jack shit, but that'd be anti-religion of me to say... 22:42 Yeah it's ironic that when you joke it's not okay, but when they do, it's "fine"... I have the same thing too! Same edgy dark/sus humour...
Man your really right. I watched some of ur content and u even replied to my comment, but this one hits the hardest. None of my friends directly text or call me. I considered my closest friends siblings, but they're only there for my brother. I dont know if they are joking or being genuine. Whether they respect my boundaries, etc. it sucks and im goin thru the shit. Gl to you and me, brother
recently a person I thought was one of my closest friends - a person I knew for over a decade - a person I hanged out with almost every single summer day for the past four/five years I thought I could trust him and I tol;d him something serious that was bothering me - something that I didnt want anyone else to know and he told it to everyone in my old high school class I genuenly lost all hope and expectations for everyone at this point now I'm just trying to be the best person I can to the others around me, not expecting anything ever in return
Bro, you sound like such a genuine person AND a Christian. I feel like it's hard to find people like you. You're super down to earth and tell it how it is, and i really appreciate that. And bro, I know you're in your feels, but I relate. It's hard for me to be around people that are (or at least seem) foolish or don't care, you know? Regardless, I'm praying for you and your journey through life with God. Please stay safe bro, I enjoy your videos so much. And do you still have a discord up? I clicked the link and it didn't work.
Before you judge me I am currently watching the video and listening to your story but I also appreciate the fact your full diamond but taking care of the village road 🔥 Also your videos are good I know in your MOT recent one you feel like you failed at life but trust me bro it's just started
I had a friend like that, ditched him like 2 days ago. He was literally talking to my ex and going out with her a ton when we were still dating, when we broke up he was like "MANNNNNNNN SHE A WITCH ANYWAY" and tried to play like he prioritized me over her.
i had fake friends before at school like i dont meet a lot of people now days if i happen to make a friend i always know that someone could a fake and predending to be my friend it did not have that mindset high school
I moved a couple years ago but before that I had someone I called "best Friend" but I never read the signs when he never wanted to work with me no more and didn't invite me to his birthday party's anymore, He had my number I had his i never received a call from none of my so called friends. Then years later (2023) i walk into a store looking for something and as i turn around i immediately recognized him see i walk towards him and he didn't even notice me. ( i still looked the same) instead of calling him out and telling him it was me i was to heartbroken to say anything and left the store. Ever since then i lost all emotions towards others
i feel you man, im in a friend group where im considered the stupidest and get bullied by them frequently, and thats just because im fat and im trying to be funny, and they treat me like a fucking clown and curse at me and punch me for no apparent reason
Act like a clown and u will be threated like one, they dont care about u cause u need to connect with people more deeply not by just making them laugh. Its personal experience
@@elperles8440yeah ik but i cant connect deeply with those people anymore, they just laugh at me even if i dont do anything, most of the times im just sitting and minding my own business and they just start laughing, also i have a strange breathing thing i do with my nose which i cant stop and they are immitating me and bullying me because of it. im not even trying to make them laugh anymore and im not trying to be funny and they still laugh at me and bully me, i can punch back when they do but im not that kind of person
Once i finished middle school with all my old friends, no one came to my house to ask me to hang out exept only one person and he was the one i did not expect........... Its like we were never friends and when i saw one of my old friends like 2 months after middle school ended, we just said hi to each other and that was it, like he's my 80yr neighbor, like we havent done the craziest things ever, like we havent known each other since kindergarden like our families didnt know each other. Its crazy Makes you question yourself some things and its pretty mindblowing too and keep in mind im gen z, but not like the other crazy people at my age if u know what i mean
First minute is 100% me sometimes. I'll edit this after im done listening to the entire video Edit: so, finished the video, wow. I'm sorry you had to go through shit friendships like that. In my case, I only made "real" friends through online, because at least there, people usually are unfiltered and honest, because no once cares at first. But once I got to know some people, I can safely say that I have a true best friend, finally. After 2 years we managed to meet up irl last december, and at the end of this month I'm able to visit him again! We may be far apart, but I'm more than just happy to have him in my life. I couldn't call anyone else a true best friend like him. Have a nice day, everyone reading this message.
Ay man, where can I hit you up? I'm going to be honest, I seriously prefer in person bonding, but I do like to call, just not big on texting. Being a senior and only having one close friend, I realize this having connections thing really matters for when I'm out of high school. Your message resonates pretty well with my own feelings, so I think I'd be cool if we could be friends
Whats up my man, i never commented on one of your vids expect for one time, but i know that march 13th is a depressing day foe you because of Nick so i wish you the best today and hope that you feel okay, even if it is a very bad day for you. Keep it up❤
Bro, you need to get yourself better friends, I hate seeing real ones like you not being around the right type of people gang, you deserve some real ones.
i can tell you are passionate about your religion, so perhaps a way to try to make more genuine friends and meet good, moral likeminded people would be to go to young people focused church events, thats also a great place to meet right kind of woman
You throw the word “friend” around a lot. It’s like “yeah, my friends never stop making fun of me and everyone around them and encourage me to give up at every turn.” What you are describing are your enemies. Don’t expect them to change and don’t try to gain their respect. Don’t help them, don’t be their floor mat.
man its actually not you. your a great guy. some people just have this mentality and genuinely dont care about anyone. you dont need them, your was better than that
I've been faked by a TH-camr in my class, he's called "BlueDrop" I thought me and him were a nice duo until he summoned few of his friends and they laughed at my face..
Nah fr man thats reality dude nobody does care for you no more i found out the hard way man and yup exactly i do everything i can for them but get screwed over
i hope you get more subs one day. your videos are kinda depressing, tbh... but you talk about topics that everyone struggles with, and it makes me, and probably everyone else watching this video, like they aren't the only one's with that problem. i also had fake friends, that i just had because i was alone. and they weren't on the level that your "friends" were, but they still never cared about me, never called me to hang out, never helped me, and only used me. and it hurt, knowing i was alone.
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Wow, very relatable, sometimes it’s hard when you think you have a real friend and pour everything into your relationship with them and they end up turning their back on you in the end. It’s kinda depressing how little people actually care about you. I understand how you are feeling completely.
if they're pickin on you they probably jealous cus they aint doin anything with they're life bedsides picking on people and being assholes, I hope you find a good friend fr
I feel that too sometimes brother. Some people are just born with no loyalty
Struggling with this in school. They only liked me because I was good at shooter games and I carried them, then I got worse at the game and they ditched me.
I hope you find genioune friends
@@Orphic.Scholartf that mean, if i had cancer we’d all laugh 💀 and i ge5 beaten up all the time 💀💀💀
@@culan_SCP you get beaten up by your friends? you're so cool
Maybe it’s a you problem delusional LMAO
Yeah, it sucks, I think it’s because you’re too kind and don’t realize when people want you for what you give them and not for you. I know for a fact my friends are real cuz I’m cheap (broke) asf and I’m not the guy to call if you need me quick, but my friends still invite me and get mad when i can’t be there. Martin, you need my type of friends: people who accept who you are and want you around even if you’re far from perfect.
Love you Martin ! Hope you doing good !
This was honestly perfect timing for me. There's so many times that I think I have real friends and it always just gets thrown back in my face. Like I am truly Their friend, but I figure out the hard way that they aren't mine, and I've just come to the realization recently that the 'friends' I have right now, are not real either. It feels like I'm just not capable of having somebody who cares about me as much as I care about them.
A normal youtube video without ads and plugs bro im constantly being sold something
i used the title as a comeback in a arguement with RATHER on discord ☠
Crazy
Ngl, your videos are starting to really inspire me to keep posting on my channel. So many sleepless nights of editing just for it to flop. I was feeling down about it then your video popped up in my recommended. Funny, cause now i listen to your videos in the background while I edit. Thanks for being a motivator my friend! Stay Legendary!
I have a friend that I have known for more than a decade now, and today my friend always has my back and always supports me. I would rather have 1 true friend over 100 fake people who only care about money, or only asks me for favours where quality >>>> quantity. I am really glad that I have someone who is genuine.
real. i never been the type to make new friends so i consider myself very lucky have someone i've known since i was in kindergarten
i feel like i can never open up to people because they would think im werid or disgusting and would not want to talk to me anymore
I find it really relatable. I see the greatness in people, I became friends with them, did my best every day and then they just betray me over nothing.
People are strange.
I feel this quite a bit, as I don't really have much of anyone to call a friend. Mostly just an acquaintance, especially being in school. I dap some people up, but don't even really interact with them. What's the point of dapping up when it's very small. Or someone just roasts you or always doing stuff to make you mad or to get a reaction out of you. To get anything out of you. It's annoying, I mostly stay to myself in most of my classes eith some small talking. That's why I'm a bit on edge if someone might consider me their friend, as the word "friend" can't be used so loosely. That's how people been using the word friend for a long time. Which is the wrong definition, a friend is kinda like family. Not always as close, but someone who cares, respects, loves, and is there when they can. To be honest, some of the people I have to sit with and deal with, probably would be smoking on the pack if I died tomorrow.
so fucking relatable, i kinda still have my fake friend and i really cant let down the friendship... i knew this guy since 3rd grade and i feel like hes kinda stupid and weird ngl. he would always blame me for when i got in trouble and we would fight almost every fucking day
drop tht shit bro
What I learned from my journey with messed up friendships..
Firstly, dont take online friendship breakups seriously or rather deeply in most situations they didn’t see your face nor you did see theirs and you made up this fantasy in your head about them that could be wrong if you were to meet them in real life . Try not to depend on them as real friends that is what im trying to say.
Secondly, a friend who’s personality changes when with other people or pretending they are someone else not like when you guys alone one to one is a bit hmmm just be careful of them .
Thirdly, put the effort dont be too egotistical and self absorbed life is more than yourself if you want someone to be a friend be a friend know about them their life and then expect them to know and care about yours And with the right people you wont feel that push and pull or feel used in a way .
Fourthly, make friendships with common interests or mainly values religion so you don’t feel like you are not being real with them 100% because you are hiding part of yourself due to clashed values in the long run .
Lastly, friends like season they come and go to serve a purpose wither in school or uni or job or event etc and if you lose them along the way doesn’t mean they or you are bad or fake its just means you grew out if it it wasn’t really a close bonding friendship more like there was something which brought you together now it’s not and that is okay because then you put out a space for real friend to come by .
And yeah don’t forget to enjoy the moment create memories learn something from them :3
10 seconds in, hit me hard. good shit bro.
aye thanks bro
@@LowkeyMartinWasTaken For some reason the pause at around 14:40 made me creeped out.
very relatable. especially the part where you said you distanced yourself to them and NOT ONE message or text asking you how you're doing. i hate people that are like that. i had a friend where i was there for him during his worst breakup, i'd listen to his rants, offer advice then when it was me that was dealing with a breakup, i got left on read. it really upset me that i just ghosted the motherfucker and never talked to him. he'd tag me in facebook posts and i'd straight up just ignore the fucker.
It's sometimes very hard to tell who your friend is and have strict boundaries, since everyone needs someone to talk to... I've met better people now and over the years I have been trying to talk to all people I had any class with or activity... sometimes out of 30 people i got 2 avg friends, sometimes 1 funny, but otherwise salty dude... I just hope you will never lose faith and find better people to be around, who actually care about you as much as you care about them. Who actually lift you up.
I really enjoy your channel, because you are sharing your experiences very eloquently and smoothly and I enjoy watching minecraft lol
When you mentioned going ghost and none of them reaching out that just reminded me; Anytime you are unsure about a friendship just stop messaging them for like 2 weeks. If they keep hitting you up they are genuine. If they don't then that means your the one carrying the friendship and its probably best to let it go. If you have a genuine friendship yall should both be messaging each other back to back. Not 1 side constantly having to start the conversation.
Your a real won Mart, somehow I tought I was the only one who felt like that.
yeah, i've felt that before too. but i'm always grateful to find out later that others prove me wrong. sometimes the genuine ones are the ones i underestimated the most, and i always feel guilty about it, but i keep my head up cuz at least they're there for me.
This is too fucking relatable. Get rid of those people. If you meet these people, give them a chance to be better, but if there is no improvement and they just stay toxic leave. There is no mutual good coming out of that situation. Those people just want a scapegoat person they can get kicks out of, they don't really care who it is. All the meanwhile, you're wishing the best for them, and want to take care of them or helping out when they need it, and all that. Over time it will drag you down, make you bitter, and corrupt you. People like this are why I became such a loner. Eventually if you keep meeting new people and gauging their vibes you will meet some great people that can be lifelong friends. After meeting so many people like the ones you are talking about, I feel so blessed to have my homies.
Bro, this made me realize how lucky I am with some of my friends. Keep it pushing, Martin. Love your vids.
You don't deserve those friends and they don't deserve you. I'm sorry. I definitely feel you man.
im actually about to cry 1 min in, i love your videos. Grateful for god recommending your vids to me
Hits hard. My friend group changes a lot, with the exception of a few people in it, but honestly it feels like I'm pretty disposable in the group. recently I've had this person that backtalks another friend of theirs to me, and confirming things with how he tends to cut either of us off when speaking. However, I feel the opposite also happens to me, where literally just before I had to deal with these two people - these same two people, doing things like cutting me off whenever I talked. I'm certain that right now they're doing the same thing to me as they did to him.
In fact when I just went and left they just didn't even notice aside from a "oh" so I think it's pretty obvious that i'm just disposable in that group. I feel bad for that person too, since I'm certain it's gonna happen (and has happened!) to him too.
Brooo honestly i have discovered your vids since a few days and i love watching it and u say real things.
Keep it bro !
Greetings from France 👌🏼🇫🇷
Feel this one bro, a lot of my homies from where ive lived for a major amount of my life dont message me at all, then i got homies from when i lived abroad who text me more, and check in on me more often, people suck
I’m tired of fake friends and being lied to, it sucks ass
i can relate, its really sad but i dont believe everyone is like that
I also dont have any friends anymore. Im just so disapointed in people man. Just cant trust anyone
I've been in a similar situation and came to conclusion that having no friends is far better than having bad friends.
One of the realest creators on this platform.
I don't have friends but this still hits hard.
For your friends telling you to quit TH-cam, like you’ve said you’ve got a passion for it which is great already but even if there’s one person out there willing to watch every video, that’s great. Honestly your in my top ten TH-camrs, I find comfort and feel I’m not alone since often times I can relate, the only video I haven’t watched or yours was the how to cure anxiety because I just can’t do what those videos usually say, I’ll probably watch at somepoint though. Your not a buzzkill though, just need to find the right people or person, hopefully for you that’s sooner than later. And don’t worry I was some guys only friend, he never bothered to talk to me though, and the beginning of this year he flat out ignores anything I say to him irl to the point I did wonder if I couldn’t be seen, of course that wasn’t the case, he just didn’t want to be around me I guess. Wish you the best of luck, don’t get discouraged! (Btw sorry I haven’t talked in the discord server, just haven’t found a point I felt I could appropriately jump into conversation with anyone yet, but you seem like a very nice guy and I appreciate you a lot!) hope your having a great day/night and good luck
Sorry for the paragraph
dude i love these down to earth, unedited videos. please keep making these! I hope you were right and youtube does go back to this kind of content.
I had some friends in freshmen year and my number of friends quadrupled in sophomore year and we all had amazing moments. I’m halfway in Junior year and it feels like I’m being left out and they tease me more, which they never did before. I was always nice to everyone and I consider their feelings, but like you said, it feels like no one has my back. I realize I was never even close with them because they all hangout with each other outside of school but I just stay home all day, and they all have such better lives and relationships without me. I still have that one true friend at school and we’ve had each other’s backs since preschool.
Last night I was thinking about a very similar topic, funny how these coincidences work out and relate to each other. Not just for me but for everyone else here too. It’s also kinda ironic how everyone doesn’t want to have fake friends but are not real or authentic towards those around them. Causing a fake friendship.
Dude, it’s been 1 month and you’re already at 26k subs and 527k views. You’re gonna blow up especially since you’re genuine and like you put in your name low key bro keep it up. ❤👍
icl, i cant really give super advice on this because ive always had a group of good friends, i guess what id say is that keep in mind that they are supposed to be your friend as well as you being their friend, dont keep doing more for them than they are for you
Word bro i was never the one being asked to get on and nowadays everytime i ask i get sidelined
I’m not really an out going person. Most of the time im retracted. Don’t like to be around people much, nor accept gifts or anything. Part of it is because my friends would condition it in my mind that im needed in their group because they care and giving me stuff was a way they would do that, they take and take from me and when I start to speak out, I either become a target for their jokes but then they buy me things. I left them fortunately and found help in places that gave me the help I needed. I know it’s a weird thing to say but, if you ever need a friend too, I’m always happy to make new friends. I’ll have your back if you need it bro.
By the way you've described them I imagine your friends look a lot like Sumo from Clarence
Im alone. Everywhere. I tried to makes friends, they started ignoring me. My best friend was my majority of happiness and now I feel like our time is running out. He is fixing his life and having things outside the screen which means it will less time for us. I feel so scared, he says he'll make time for me but I don't trust it at all. I feel extremely alone
Remember It's understandable to feel scared and uncertain about the future of your friendship, but it's important to communicate your feelings openly with your friend. Let them know how much their friendship means to you and express your concerns about feeling isolated. It's possible that they may not realize how their actions are affecting you and may be willing to make more time for you. In the meantime, try to focus on activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment, and consider reaching out to other friends or family members for support. You're not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help you through this difficult time.
Really relatable about the girls thing. Its hard for some people to reciprocate the love you gave them.
now im 17 i have nobody to play with and i would literaly play anything and i wouldn t leave anyone and i have this sensation of loneliness because in don t have real friends my mental health it s not that good but a good thing is that i go to the gym it s the only thing that s saving me and i was always a good guy that was different from anyone helped a lot of people with problems and without problems. Being a nice guy that cares about others it s difficult
Love your vids Martin, we need more TH-camrs like you man. Love how down to earth your videos are, you’re a super genuine guy. Keep up the amazing vids
Being a nice person is about courtesy: you're friendly, polite, agreeable, and accommodating. When people believe they have to be nice in order to give, they fail to set boundaries, rarely say no, and become pushovers, letting others walk all over them.
-Adam Grant
You gotta set boundaries or you’ll just be a push over. It’s better to be kind than nice. There are genuine people out there just watch out for snakes in the grass.
That sounds like people pleasing, a projection of when you were ignored at a young age so you thought the only way to make friends is to please people, but all this does is make people see you as a servant
damn dude i'm almost 20 and hearing someone close to my age talk seriously is refreshing, I've had a lot of similar experiences. I have one epic friend who looks out for me, at I'm grateful for that
Love the shit you do brother ❤ Along with that I would love some different sort of content than the usual but its on you. ✊
This video is very relatable. I have had many friends who have been like this. The main thing you need to do is not let them affect you once they do these things. Life can try to get you down, but you cannot let it stop you from winning.
'Forgive not 7 but 77 times' - Jesus Christ
I thought about talking about this myself, but I have just one person who reaches out to me. For the first time in honestly months we actually went and did something, was kind of fun lol I didn’t know I missed doing that. Rotting away in your room is something else for sure
2:56 Damn... if I had someone checking my social media... they'd be like "you're down bad" cause I keep posting shit online that insinuates the expectation of people responding, and people keep ignoring me or something... cause the stuff I post is a bit overly personal...
6:58 God... such a dick move... even if the other person doesn't care... it's fishing for spite essentially.
8:07 Clearly the "please don't be a bigot" stuff didn't reach them, or they just didn't care... bigots be bigots I guess.
9:02 SAME.
9:28 They're not cynical, they're more like... just blissfully cynical/cruel... I don't know how that works actually... I wouldn't call it cynisim
10:58 I wonder... maybe the internet has made it so we don't need to care about other people, cause we've got all this content we can consume... but that might just be overly cynical, plus it isn't what's happening herein your video.
11:26 Absolutely. Criticism is like tearing someone apart, and feedback... well... it's more to the point I think? 11:32 Oh yep, for certain!
11:48 They're just a hater I think... or if they're not a hater, they got a kinda way of thinking that is... impossible to... I'm not sure...
12:35 SAME! 12:48 YEAH!? Why do fake people just... group together like that?
14:04 O damn
18:44 It's true. I also want something to gain... but it's cause I like to learn stuff, maybe get to know someone, but I have ADHD so I gotta note stuff... and do stuff when I'm in the mood sortof...
20:46 God I wish there was a better way to care and show that caring online... although if it's in person, well... too much for me...
21:32 God doesn't do Jack shit, but that'd be anti-religion of me to say...
22:42 Yeah it's ironic that when you joke it's not okay, but when they do, it's "fine"... I have the same thing too! Same edgy dark/sus humour...
Man your really right. I watched some of ur content and u even replied to my comment, but this one hits the hardest. None of my friends directly text or call me. I considered my closest friends siblings, but they're only there for my brother. I dont know if they are joking or being genuine. Whether they respect my boundaries, etc. it sucks and im goin thru the shit. Gl to you and me, brother
Bro, this is very relatable... If you need something we are always here and supports you! ❤
Idk why anyone would talk bad about you you're such a real one
recently a person I thought was one of my closest friends - a person I knew for over a decade - a person I hanged out with almost every single summer day for the past four/five years
I thought I could trust him and I tol;d him something serious that was bothering me - something that I didnt want anyone else to know
and he told it to everyone in my old high school class
I genuenly lost all hope and expectations for everyone at this point
now I'm just trying to be the best person I can to the others around me, not expecting anything ever in return
Bro, you sound like such a genuine person AND a Christian. I feel like it's hard to find people like you. You're super down to earth and tell it how it is, and i really appreciate that. And bro, I know you're in your feels, but I relate. It's hard for me to be around people that are (or at least seem) foolish or don't care, you know? Regardless, I'm praying for you and your journey through life with God. Please stay safe bro, I enjoy your videos so much. And do you still have a discord up? I clicked the link and it didn't work.
I got use to it by now and now I don’t trust anyone
frrr
Before you judge me I am currently watching the video and listening to your story but I also appreciate the fact your full diamond but taking care of the village road 🔥
Also your videos are good I know in your MOT recent one you feel like you failed at life but trust me bro it's just started
I had a friend like that, ditched him like 2 days ago.
He was literally talking to my ex and going out with her a ton when we were still dating, when we broke up he was like "MANNNNNNNN SHE A WITCH ANYWAY" and tried to play like he prioritized me over her.
i had fake friends before at school like i dont meet a lot of people now days if i happen to make a friend i always know that someone could a fake and predending to be my friend it did not have that mindset high school
I moved a couple years ago but before that I had someone I called "best Friend" but I never read the signs when he never wanted to work with me no more and didn't invite me to his birthday party's anymore, He had my number I had his i never received a call from none of my so called friends. Then years later (2023) i walk into a store looking for something and as i turn around i immediately recognized him see i walk towards him and he didn't even notice me. ( i still looked the same) instead of calling him out and telling him it was me i was to heartbroken to say anything and left the store. Ever since then i lost all emotions towards others
bro understands me on another level (keep ts up i love it)
Bro i just love how your videos are so genuine ❤
Also i wish you best of luck finding someone true, you deserve it.
I’ve been on this earth many many years I have learned one thing don’t trust and don’t rely on people.
bruhhh if they wrong me again after the first time, they aint a real friend
❤️ dude which mic do you use ????
I've got an idea lets make a Minecraft server for all the ones who feel like that
i feel you man, im in a friend group where im considered the stupidest and get bullied by them frequently, and thats just because im fat and im trying to be funny, and they treat me like a fucking clown and curse at me and punch me for no apparent reason
Act like a clown and u will be threated like one, they dont care about u cause u need to connect with people more deeply not by just making them laugh. Its personal experience
@@elperles8440yeah ik but i cant connect deeply with those people anymore, they just laugh at me even if i dont do anything, most of the times im just sitting and minding my own business and they just start laughing, also i have a strange breathing thing i do with my nose which i cant stop and they are immitating me and bullying me because of it. im not even trying to make them laugh anymore and im not trying to be funny and they still laugh at me and bully me, i can punch back when they do but im not that kind of person
also i have almost nothing in common with them, we dont have the same topics to talk about and are just assholes
thanks for making these videos, i admire how real you are
You’ll always find a friend at church
Once i finished middle school with all my old friends, no one came to my house to ask me to hang out exept only one person and he was the one i did not expect...........
Its like we were never friends and when i saw one of my old friends like 2 months after middle school ended, we just said hi to each other and that was it, like he's my 80yr neighbor, like we havent done the craziest things ever, like we havent known each other since kindergarden like our families didnt know each other. Its crazy
Makes you question yourself some things and its pretty mindblowing too and keep in mind im gen z, but not like the other crazy people at my age if u know what i mean
ill be ur friend but sometime you invest into people and they take you for granted and sometime person and you just grow distance just part of life
Martin, thanks for lowkey giving us high key great lessons 😌
First minute is 100% me sometimes. I'll edit this after im done listening to the entire video
Edit: so, finished the video, wow. I'm sorry you had to go through shit friendships like that. In my case, I only made "real" friends through online, because at least there, people usually are unfiltered and honest, because no once cares at first. But once I got to know some people, I can safely say that I have a true best friend, finally. After 2 years we managed to meet up irl last december, and at the end of this month I'm able to visit him again! We may be far apart, but I'm more than just happy to have him in my life. I couldn't call anyone else a true best friend like him. Have a nice day, everyone reading this message.
Ay man, where can I hit you up? I'm going to be honest, I seriously prefer in person bonding, but I do like to call, just not big on texting. Being a senior and only having one close friend, I realize this having connections thing really matters for when I'm out of high school. Your message resonates pretty well with my own feelings, so I think I'd be cool if we could be friends
Whats up my man, i never commented on one of your vids expect for one time, but i know that march 13th is a depressing day foe you because of Nick so i wish you the best today and hope that you feel okay, even if it is a very bad day for you. Keep it up❤
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Bro, you need to get yourself better friends, I hate seeing real ones like you not being around the right type of people gang, you deserve some real ones.
Looking back, I’ve only had three real friends.
I was binge watching ur vids and then u posted lmao
Amen lord Jesus Christ bro you got this
i love these videos. Your videos dont feel staged like other yt videos
i can tell you are passionate about your religion, so perhaps a way to try to make more genuine friends and meet good, moral likeminded people would be to go to young people focused church events, thats also a great place to meet right kind of woman
2:30 no way you just did that 💀
Well yes way he did that theres nothing we can do to stop him 😂
Man that sucks. I wish you can find better friends.
You throw the word “friend” around a lot. It’s like “yeah, my friends never stop making fun of me and everyone around them and encourage me to give up at every turn.” What you are describing are your enemies. Don’t expect them to change and don’t try to gain their respect. Don’t help them, don’t be their floor mat.
man its actually not you. your a great guy. some people just have this mentality and genuinely dont care about anyone. you dont need them, your was better than that
I've been faked by a TH-camr in my class, he's called "BlueDrop" I thought me and him were a nice duo until he summoned few of his friends and they laughed at my face..
Nah fr man thats reality dude nobody does care for you no more i found out the hard way man and yup exactly i do everything i can for them but get screwed over
Bro your definition of "friend" does not seem to be right
Nice video. Also upgrade that damn house bro
i hope you get more subs one day. your videos are kinda depressing, tbh... but you talk about topics that everyone struggles with, and it makes me, and probably everyone else watching this video, like they aren't the only one's with that problem. i also had fake friends, that i just had because i was alone. and they weren't on the level that your "friends" were, but they still never cared about me, never called me to hang out, never helped me, and only used me. and it hurt, knowing i was alone.
You said you have a really bad imune system. Have you ever thinked of doing a carbivore diet and fasting?
I starter to fast and limiting my carbohidrate intake and some things I had on my feet/hands disapeared and I didn"t get sick either from then.
I also tested, that when I ate bread, the thing on my hand would appear again.
So yeah, I encourage you to search about that topic, it could make healthy. Just by the fact that humans have eaten 99% meat diets for millions of years, so our bodies are able to absorb almost all nutrients of meat.
The vegetables,no doubt, have lots of minerals and vitamins, but theyre not bioavailable to us, because we are not herbivores.
Nah Bro just ditch them
Just hearing you describe how they treat you pisses me off man
You deserve better friends
same thing happens with me sometimes :(
Martin I love you, your subscribers love you, we all love you bud. You need someone or people to talk to we’re all here. “Life goes on” - Oliver Tree
aye thanks bro love you too
Hey dude: just know that while we, your audience, may not know you 1 on 1, we here for you, and to support you.
You're awesome, never forget that.