People don't understand that it's harder for men in China to find Chinese women to marry because of the "one-child" policy they had from 1980 to 2016 due to China's over-population. By 2016, they were allowed to have 2 children. With the one-child policy many couples had to make a choice and keep a son and give up a daughter because boys were and still are important to carry their family name etc. That's why so many girls had been given up for adoption, and most of these girls were adopted by people outside of China. I think it was one of the most cruel policies in Chinese history. So by the time these men (the "sons") grow up and their time to find a wife, there isn't enough Chinese women in China to find. So they look outside of China. And many of these interracial marriages work because it's really who you marry, not the colour of their skin. Respect for each other and cultures is important. And you can love anyone no matter how they look, what the colour of their skin is, what their social background is, their education, etc. It's life. There are good and bad people in every culture, and I can tell this couple are meant to be together.
@@gladyslin Yes, the 3-child policy came about in 2021. But for those born in the 80s, 90s, 2000s, when it's time to find someone and marry, it's rather hard to find enough women in China around the same age as them. I think this is why more and ore Chinese men are looking outside their culture to marry. By the way, good job in opening your husband up into showing affection in public. I'm sure you know that's not always easy for Chinese people to do.
It's a pleasure to enjoy your beautiful experiences of both unique special cultures...The Food.. Scenery..the interaction. etc .and the fun..Looking forward to enjoying more of your videos...In Trinidad (where I am from ) & Tobago there are many Chinese Nationals
OMG !!!! A lot of these comments are absolutely outrageous, how can people be so rude, Gladys please don't let these negative people affect your love for your husband, there are so many of us loving your marriage, stay strong and stay in Prayer that God will grant you peace from all this negativity, we love you dear ❤
Why does he seem a bit off? I may be wrong. Cultures are different when it comes to affection. No eye contact , less verbal communication , no kiss 🤔🤔🤔 You are such a beautiful soul ❤. Anyway all the best
It’s a cultural thing. She’s always forgetting until he pulls away and then she remembers and puts distance between them. He must be very affectionate behind closed doors because she always leans in for a kiss. According to their customs signs of affection in public is considered porn.
@@thamixelelo400 oh is that so? The guys are so cold🤔.I can’t feel any love for such a person who is not affectionate , therefore this kind of love is not for me🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Just seen your videos. On this one comments are off cause many men arent outward affectionate. But that smile or catch him looking at you with love is just amazing thats how my husband was!!!
Sweet heart ❤️ don't listen to people's negative comment concrete on learning your husband's culture more I had a Chinese boyfriend he loved be but he didn't want to kiss me I thought he was playing me lol 🤣 we part ways bse I was ignorant he tried to tell me about the culture and public kissing but I was so impatient
Different cultures act differently but, it's sad. I don't know why she's leaving him. When will he see her again strange marriage. But God know I pray it last.
safe journey dia. Naye sweetheart omulesemu lock, but lets pray your love continues despite the distance. He seemed a very nice caring man, nyweeza mukwano.
Iwas wondering if this guy realy love you..bcos he seems a bit off to me!! His gesture sold him out to me🤷♀️...I wish u both all d bess in whatever direction u take.
Which is good. It's a choice. Cultures differ by the way. The guy seems he is very cool and an introvert. Language barrier can also play a part. Only extroverts can find expression in their actions.
Well...affection is one thing and just to smile and talk is another thing...he doesn't have to hug and kiss her all the time but just to look in her eyes and to smile and show her that she is around
@@gladyslin Ignore people like this. They're just haters. They probably have a miserable life and taking out on other people. Love your family and videos. ❤️
I don't know how you connect with your husband, I am Asian but I felt like there is some barrier between you and your husband. He just keep distance, sorry to say that. You are nice and good woman, I saw one clip of yours that you are so nice to your mother in law and you tie up with her nicely. Doesn't matter make yourself happy so you can overcome it.
Well...affection is one thing and just to smile and talk is another thing...he doesn't have to hug and kiss her all the time but just to look in her eyes and to smile and show her that she is around.
Why your husband didn’t go farther with you knowing you didn’t understand the language and signs.He is a very very quiet and shy .And you are totally the opposite in a good 👍 way .
Chinese usually don't show affection but it doesn't mean they love you less. It's just how it is in that culture. So, seeing him put his arm around her is rare to see and so nice.
Anybody can see I’m sorry to say, baby girl but that man don’t love you the way he just did. It made me feel uncomfortable. It’s too late now I see that you married him and getting ready to have a baby. I pray it will work out that he would love you,as his wife 😮
I CANT SEE OR DECERN ANY FORM OF LOVE IN THAT SO-CALLED RELATIONSHIP! YOU NEED TO REPENTTTTTTTTT AND SEEK YE FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD AND ALL THINGS WILL FILL IN THE RIGHT PLACES! #WE ALL SHOULD MAKE JESUS CHRIST OUR FIRM FOUNDATION AND SOLID ROCK THEN ALL WILL NE PERFECT THROUGH HIM! Be baptized live a holy and righteous life.
People don't understand that it's harder for men in China to find Chinese women to marry because of the "one-child" policy they had from 1980 to 2016 due to China's over-population. By 2016, they were allowed to have 2 children. With the one-child policy many couples had to make a choice and keep a son and give up a daughter because boys were and still are important to carry their family name etc. That's why so many girls had been given up for adoption, and most of these girls were adopted by people outside of China. I think it was one of the most cruel policies in Chinese history. So by the time these men (the "sons") grow up and their time to find a wife, there isn't enough Chinese women in China to find. So they look outside of China. And many of these interracial marriages work because it's really who you marry, not the colour of their skin. Respect for each other and cultures is important. And you can love anyone no matter how they look, what the colour of their skin is, what their social background is, their education, etc. It's life. There are good and bad people in every culture, and I can tell this couple are meant to be together.
But I now China accepts 3kids tho many families now prefer 2. Thanks for sharing cocateen
@@gladyslin Yes, the 3-child policy came about in 2021. But for those born in the 80s, 90s, 2000s, when it's time to find someone and marry, it's rather hard to find enough women in China around the same age as them. I think this is why more and ore Chinese men are looking outside their culture to marry. By the way, good job in opening your husband up into showing affection in public. I'm sure you know that's not always easy for Chinese people to do.
Certain African and Asians cultures don’t show PDA, so I guess Gladys is use to it!
My family are the same but the love is there
Beautiful girl, look after yourself and I pray God to guide you and cover you. You are beautiful 💕
It's a pleasure to enjoy your beautiful experiences of both unique special cultures...The Food.. Scenery..the interaction. etc .and the fun..Looking forward to enjoying more of your videos...In Trinidad (where I am from ) & Tobago there are many Chinese Nationals
So nice of you
you are humble & a good lady keep it up this is African nature.
Thank you, I will
OMG !!!! A lot of these comments are absolutely outrageous, how can people be so rude, Gladys please don't let these negative people affect your love for your husband, there are so many of us loving your marriage, stay strong and stay in Prayer that God will grant you peace from all this negativity, we love you dear ❤
I don’t take them at heart dear thanks 😊 for this
Why does he seem a bit off? I may be wrong. Cultures are different when it comes to affection. No eye contact , less verbal communication , no kiss 🤔🤔🤔 You are such a beautiful soul ❤. Anyway all the best
It’s a cultural thing. She’s always forgetting until he pulls away and then she remembers and puts distance between them. He must be very affectionate behind closed doors because she always leans in for a kiss. According to their customs signs of affection in public is considered porn.
I noticed from all ladies married to Asians on TH-cam they don't become affectionate in public❤
@@thamixelelo400 oh is that so? The guys are so cold🤔.I can’t feel any love for such a person who is not affectionate , therefore this kind of love is not for me🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Most Asians don't show their affection in public but behind close doors they are no different from westerners ...
He loves her,the way he puts his arm around her,I think it's culture similar to Africa PDA is frowned upon
Just seen your videos. On this one comments are off cause many men arent outward affectionate. But that smile or catch him looking at you with love is just amazing thats how my husband was!!!
Sweet heart ❤️ don't listen to people's negative comment concrete on learning your husband's culture more I had a Chinese boyfriend he loved be but he didn't want to kiss me I thought he was playing me lol 🤣 we part ways bse I was ignorant he tried to tell me about the culture and public kissing but I was so impatient
I hope you do not take the negative feedback you receive about your marriage to heart. People are just clueless. Enjoy your marriage
Thank you dear
Lovely.❤❤❤❤
God Bless you all don't listen to negativity, they are the ones who really don't understand human nature LOVE
Thank you dear I won’t listen
he doesn't look share fully , but he looks cool
Different cultures act differently but, it's sad. I don't know why she's leaving him. When will he see her again strange marriage. But God know I pray it last.
safe journey dia. Naye sweetheart omulesemu lock, but lets pray your love continues despite the distance. He seemed a very nice caring man, nyweeza mukwano.
😂😂😂😂😂naye Christine
No PDA even between husband and wife. Would it be the same in Africa?
How long is the ride? Thsnk you for posting
Iwas wondering if this guy realy love you..bcos he seems a bit off to me!! His gesture sold him out to me🤷♀️...I wish u both all d bess in whatever direction u take.
That is so sad that you would question Gladys husband's love for her, that is so wrong 😞
Some people don’t show affection in public
Which is good. It's a choice. Cultures differ by the way.
The guy seems he is very cool and an introvert. Language barrier can also play a part. Only extroverts can find expression in their actions.
Well...affection is one thing and just to smile and talk is another thing...he doesn't have to hug and kiss her all the time but just to look in her eyes and to smile and show her that she is around
It was like part time love
Your make-up looks nice.
Thanks dear
Lovely 🥰
Honey where are you going now?
How are you...greetings from suriname ( south America) You two are a married cople now..when do you gonna have baby's ...😍😍
No need to rush baby. See how they get along before baby take time to get to know each other first.
Where travelling to?
N'expose pas ta belle vie cela attire le diable profite
C est vari ma chérie mais personne ne comprend ça aujourd'hui oooo,hmmm
He does not want to kiss her. I think de doesn’t like to be shown on video
Hahaha congrats on that bus nze mbadentide
😂😂😂
Shem the guy seems to be off ,not happy about everything,maybe not used to be romantic 🤷🏾
Nga watsapp yo teliiko
Oli how
It’s off munage
sis how to the first time meet your soulmate
Staged like hell!
😳😳😳are for real who has that time and money to waste on staging things
@@gladyslin Ignore people like this. They're just haters. They probably have a miserable life and taking out on other people. Love your family and videos. ❤️
Votre culture afro usa il ne la connaît pas et votre famille Mme gladys
From Georgia USA, We are watching, hope you are happy and well, you and husband ❤
I don't know how you connect with your husband, I am Asian but I felt like there is some barrier between you and your husband. He just keep distance, sorry to say that. You are nice and good woman, I saw one clip of yours that you are so nice to your mother in law and you tie up with her nicely. Doesn't matter make yourself happy so you can overcome it.
Well...affection is one thing and just to smile and talk is another thing...he doesn't have to hug and kiss her all the time but just to look in her eyes and to smile and show her that she is around.
Not showing affection doesn't always mean they love you less. Some people just don't do public display of affection, which is common among Asians.
Why your husband didn’t go farther with you knowing you didn’t understand the language and signs.He is a very very quiet and shy .And you are totally the opposite in a good 👍 way .
Aaawww, he's so caring. Making sure you travel correctly😍
Your hair is so beautiful!!!
So lovely to see his arms around you. He should be more affectionate🫣😀😘
Chinese usually don't show affection but it doesn't mean they love you less. It's just how it is in that culture. So, seeing him put his arm around her is rare to see and so nice.
God bless you guys
Its not good to judge anyone
as long as shes happy its fine
So true. How many loving couples on TH-cam sadly end in murder, domestic violence and suicide? Don’t believe the hype you see.
My goodness! It's so good to see him put his arms around you.😂❤
Thanks for updating us
❤be blessed
Always
Lin is an amazing man, thanks for taking us along, really love is k I nd❤❤❤❤
Gladys, may I ask if you speak Chinese? How did you and your husband meet? Thanks. Just saw this video as it suddenly appears on my TH-cam screen.
Thanks for watching dear ❤️
She doesn't care to answer
🎉Safe travels dear
Thanks Veronica
🎉🎉🎉I love you girl shine cause u kno wassup
He is not affectionate with you,is he shy 🤔,if he loves you he must show us How much…..i couldnt accept that sort of coldness from the man i love
May God bless your marriage 💑
Interracial marriges demand much more understanding, patience, and giving from both man and woman. Hope this man is matured enough to understand that.
Am really great full of him. His so understanding
@@gladyslin
It's a blessing💕
He must give her love nd make her happy orense she wouldn't be with him(or else)
Please where is baby boy
Sorry but it is well, take courage.
God bless u guy
Thank God
My niece is married to Nigerian.HARD LIFE.WHY DID SHE MARRY THIS GUY...CLOWN
i wish you safe trib sis
Nyabo kati oliisa buti
dead🤣
Naye Erinah 🤣🤣
Why would you be in a place and you don't speak there language? He should have walk her to the train.
The same as me I do panic sister just calm down
That feeling ooh it kills me
Safe journey ,may the almighty God be with you always ,may you be coverd in the blood of Jesus Christ,Amen
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Byron Gff 💐💒💍💍👰🤵
He seems offish
Anybody can see I’m sorry to say, baby girl but that man don’t love you the way he just did. It made me feel uncomfortable. It’s too late now I see that you married him and getting ready to have a baby. I pray it will work out that he would love you,as his wife 😮
Love is felt what’s important is I feel loved thank you
Enjoy my dear clan mate obulamu bumpi
😂😂😂 kasita oyogela
Hi Gladys .How are you and your family. I love your family.
We are well dear thanks
Thanx for takingbus along
Il est timide pas un ptit 💋💋💋💋
🥰😍😍🇿🇦👌
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This is a strange marriage. What s going on? If this is a Hollywood movie, I would say something fishy is going on.
Where is she
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i dunno he's a bit cold, you seem to love him so much
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Like your VDs but many times confusing, bye!
I CANT SEE OR DECERN ANY FORM OF LOVE IN THAT SO-CALLED RELATIONSHIP! YOU NEED TO REPENTTTTTTTTT AND SEEK YE FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD AND ALL THINGS WILL FILL IN THE RIGHT PLACES!
#WE ALL SHOULD MAKE JESUS CHRIST OUR FIRM FOUNDATION AND SOLID ROCK THEN ALL WILL NE PERFECT THROUGH HIM! Be baptized live a holy and righteous life.
You know what's missing in this whole thing ? Love😢😮
Stop projecting your mess on people you do not know
Can we talk on watsup