Tbh she looks dead inside 😢 it’s so sad for her to be so young. And it’s also so sad to see so many people laughing at her in the comments. Y’all talking about the money but her soul is in distress. I pray she takes Ashley’s advice seriously she needs help.
She said she spent 30k traveling last year. These women who prioritize traveling tend to be reckless with money and want a man with money, who loves to travel, so that they can spend HIS money on trips.
This young lady has the wrong energy. Not every man who spends money on a woman or gives her an allowance is a trick. She has only had one Suga Daddy. She doesn’t understand her role as a Suga Baby. There are rules to this, young lady. She doesn’t know how to play the game. She is the type of woman you can give $120,000 a year to for 4 straight years. Leave her in year 5 and she is broke. I want to take some of you to school. I don’t think you are all bad. You ladies need a financial advisor to mentor you.
I don’t think that’s it. I didn’t get that she’s broke per se, moreso that she wants to appeal to a different market of man but can’t. She likely has savings/investments but doesn’t really know how to level up her look. In order to change the man she attracts, she would need to change her identity from trick to real estate investor. Basically upgrade everything and get a formal education to be a certain kind of educated sugar baby. They’re out there!
I’m so happy that Ashley specified “sex work” because a lot of women will hear $10k/mo, want it but not know (in addition to the other things) what the exchange might be (not always, but might be)
Nothing wrong with women having different standards than men. Men want a cute face small waist. Cool. Women want financial stability and support. Cool.
Well it ain’t bad instead of you giving it to Dusties and you get heart broken and cheated on. Men are doing it for free why can’t she add some financial value to hers
Moving like a jezebel will leave you eaten by dogs..... spiritually, mentally and emotionally and physically for a $, or using people for personal gain and compromising principles. Read the Bible.
Sounds like engagement and moving in was the beginning of the end. She could have hung in there if she continued to live separate and enjoy her allowance.
8:33 lol with this an Kendra you don’t need Netflix, Hulu or any of that. Isn’t it telling that men valuing themselves is us being “aware of the game” social media may have ruined lots of good things but boy am I glad it exposed sooo much.
Don't be surprised. A lot of people have hygiene for other people, not themselves. Since he has the bag already, there's no incentive to perform for anyone, or perform hygiene. Also, it's about time people do away with the halo effect bias. Being wealthy doesn't mean being hygienic as well.
CEO or street thugs, you need basic hygiene to be taken seriously by your peers. This type of validation from the Internet is becoming sad! So many holes in her "StoryTime"-- Nasty old man life
Me too. It’s giving embellishments. He probably gave her 10k per year lol. Or 1k per month. Or he paid her bills and she’s saying he gave her cash. What rich man has such poor hygiene?
And that's probably why he was paying her so much because of his hygeine. He knows that most women aren't going to deal with this. Hence, the comment you have to eat my ish.
Mamita get a job, or get better at the game Honey. Definitely take a financial class or workshop my Dear with some of that Money. Also some counseling. Self Love needed. Postive Energy going your way 👑🙏🌹
I see exactly what’s going on. She wants to level up and get a certain caliber of man that will spend money, but has STATUS. Plenty of guys have cash to spend but don’t have status. Based on her look, she was savvy enough to get a diary with money to waste. Maybe a drug dealer idk. But not a Daddy Warbucks type. She might need a coach to level up her look to qualify for maybe a white man with long money. She seems like she knows how to be clever to get cash, but there’s more to it than that. Now she wants to get out the game but she is way too used to being tricked on to even like the average guy. She started this as a kid, so she’s never leaving the lifestyle. She needs to accept that it’s all she knows, and she will never be with a regular man. She should invest in a sugaring coach who can help her secure the POSITION as a long term girlfriend/wife to a certain type vs being a trick
6-10k a month??????? What was she doing for that????? Sometimes when I hear these girls stories I’m like where are these men bro? What are you doing for the money? Girls be like… We just have conversation and I keep him company 🤔🫤😑
10k a month and you couldn't get an African net and soap and have a spa night to clean him ? But more importantly Go to school ladies learn skills to make your own money. Who wants to go through all this for 120k a year.
Upwards of 10K a month, you can deal with that hygiene. You could've built something for dealing with that pain in your nostrils... A business, a down payment on a condo to rent out. You ain't smart ma
I call 🧢 😂 Ain’t no way some guy was paying her 10k a month . For THAT?! Naw , ain’t no way , he could’ve gotten an actually cute girl . This girl isn’t ugly but she’s not “10k” worth.
I think for her to have stayed, she may of done a lot more on the regular that most young ladies will not. The hygiene was probably not even the worst. Most self respecting people might do something once and say never again. The worst of society might just continue till they have enough money to feel comfortable to leave, ie this lady.
If she was a Latina you would believe and call her beautiful. What is ugly about this girl with her Afrocentric beauty? Big nose, full lips, bold eyes. How is that ugly ?
She probably dressed and looked differently with him they broke up. And there is a chic on tic Tok who makes 30k a month from her SD so it's definitely possible
10k a month bih I’m brushing his teeth fah him!😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 over time that shit will get on your nerves!! If you are living with him💯😭
🤣🤣
Poor misguided girl. Hope she moves in a new direction.
Tbh she looks dead inside 😢 it’s so sad for her to be so young. And it’s also so sad to see so many people laughing at her in the comments. Y’all talking about the money but her soul is in distress. I pray she takes Ashley’s advice seriously she needs help.
Yes the eyes she needs to spiritually cleanse
You can see it when she stops looking around...it's sad.
4 years…… didn’t save a dime….is what I’m hearing….JESUS SAVE THESE GIRLS!!!
She said she spent 30k traveling last year. These women who prioritize traveling tend to be reckless with money and want a man with money, who loves to travel, so that they can spend HIS money on trips.
I hope she own a home out right somewhere
Exactly... I was thinking I hope she was saving money ... but apparently she didn't
She was also very young. Most young people don’t think about saving til they are broke. But she did manage to save at least 60k. Better than most
Ashley you were so gentle with her. 🙏🏾🫶🏽
This young lady has the wrong energy. Not every man who spends money on a woman or gives her an allowance is a trick. She has only had one Suga Daddy. She doesn’t understand her role as a Suga Baby. There are rules to this, young lady. She doesn’t know how to play the game. She is the type of woman you can give $120,000 a year to for 4 straight years. Leave her in year 5 and she is broke. I want to take some of you to school. I don’t think you are all bad. You ladies need a financial advisor to mentor you.
Facts
School the young ladies King Arthur! 👏🏾
I don’t think that’s it. I didn’t get that she’s broke per se, moreso that she wants to appeal to a different market of man but can’t. She likely has savings/investments but doesn’t really know how to level up her look. In order to change the man she attracts, she would need to change her identity from trick to real estate investor. Basically upgrade everything and get a formal education to be a certain kind of educated sugar baby. They’re out there!
I'm team Ashley on this one! She been busting open for four years while smelling his odor. MONEY MAKE EVERYTHING OK! DRIZZLE DRIZZLE
🤣
Chile it’s women out here bustin it open for dusty dirty nasty men for Free.99!! Some women just don’t have no self respect or boundaries!!
Drizzle, Drizzle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m so happy that Ashley specified “sex work” because a lot of women will hear $10k/mo, want it but not know (in addition to the other things) what the exchange might be (not always, but might be)
Nothing wrong with women having different standards than men. Men want a cute face small waist. Cool. Women want financial stability and support. Cool.
Well it ain’t bad instead of you giving it to Dusties and you get heart broken and cheated on. Men are doing it for free why can’t she add some financial value to hers
@@Iamnotyourregularside Not giving it to anyone is an available option.
Moving like a jezebel will leave you eaten by dogs..... spiritually, mentally and emotionally and physically for a $, or using people for personal gain and compromising principles.
Read the Bible.
6-10k a month?? Better deal with it.
She better wash and brush him herself! 🤣
😂😂😂
For real though! But bad hygiene is a turn off
Sounds like engagement and moving in was the beginning of the end. She could have hung in there if she continued to live separate and enjoy her allowance.
ashley gave solid advice. this young woman needs therapy and a new path in life. the opposite of being a SW isn’t being a pick me. smh
In 4 years she should have a bag of 480,000 thousand dollars
So she should not spend any of thw money at all. She gets the money to take of herself, so u are bwing very unrealistic
8:33 lol with this an Kendra you don’t need Netflix, Hulu or any of that. Isn’t it telling that men valuing themselves is us being “aware of the game” social media may have ruined lots of good things but boy am I glad it exposed sooo much.
So she's been in the "game" since she was 16. Wow
She did say 18
i caught that lie as well. she didn't want it to sound bad so she said 18 but we know 8 years ago she would be 16. no wonder she's feels dirty now.
How can someone of that caliber not have good hygiene 😭😭
Boys will be boys
You’d be surprised 🤢😂
You will be surprised 😢
he might be yt
Don't be surprised. A lot of people have hygiene for other people, not themselves. Since he has the bag already, there's no incentive to perform for anyone, or perform hygiene. Also, it's about time people do away with the halo effect bias. Being wealthy doesn't mean being hygienic as well.
She sold her soul for a cheap price...now she wants to get it back...smh.
How much do you earn per month?
@@Iamnotyourregularside 8k after taxes
She was a child when she entered the game. There’s childhood trauma there and a story
Some kids wanna be grown n move secretly and manipulatively
I just have a hard time believing some of these stories...10k a month?😂
CEO or street thugs, you need basic hygiene to be taken seriously by your peers.
This type of validation from the Internet is becoming sad!
So many holes in her "StoryTime"-- Nasty old man life
It is possible, there are money pigs that can give out more than 10k a month
Most are scammers
Me too. It’s giving embellishments. He probably gave her 10k per year lol. Or 1k per month. Or he paid her bills and she’s saying he gave her cash. What rich man has such poor hygiene?
@@mrs.w8193a lot of people have bad hygiene irrespective of their money
And that's probably why he was paying her so much because of his hygeine. He knows that most women aren't going to deal with this. Hence, the comment you have to eat my ish.
It's Ashley's facial expressions for me lol 😂
Why can’t she just find a job like a regular adult
😂 exposed to A certain lifestyle
She’s talking about men her age living with their parents etc. as if she isn’t in the same position without those rich men.
Ashley, you’re truly gifted…. That’s all I’m gonna say.😏
I think she saved pretty well. She didn’t say 10k she said between 6 to 10k . Plus, she spent a lot on travel.
For 4 years, she added no value to that man.
Ashley has a lot of patience, some of these women are missing a few screws.
If you are a SW, you are not in a position to ask him to change anything about himself.
Yea but he was about to marry her which changes things
@@noirefit5954 “about to marry her” …so she says
Mamita get a job, or get better at the game Honey. Definitely take a financial class or workshop my Dear with some of that Money. Also some counseling. Self Love needed. Postive Energy going your way 👑🙏🌹
I see exactly what’s going on. She wants to level up and get a certain caliber of man that will spend money, but has STATUS. Plenty of guys have cash to spend but don’t have status.
Based on her look, she was savvy enough to get a diary with money to waste. Maybe a drug dealer idk. But not a Daddy Warbucks type. She might need a coach to level up her look to qualify for maybe a white man with long money. She seems like she knows how to be clever to get cash, but there’s more to it than that.
Now she wants to get out the game but she is way too used to being tricked on to even like the average guy. She started this as a kid, so she’s never leaving the lifestyle. She needs to accept that it’s all she knows, and she will never be with a regular man. She should invest in a sugaring coach who can help her secure the POSITION as a long term girlfriend/wife to a certain type vs being a trick
☝️- 🎯
She has been a sugar baby for 8 years ?? huh. ...So she started at 16
She should’ve saved the money and then left.
I’m surprised that ppl think 10k a month is unfathomable to get from someone….that’s on the lower end, my love.
Mrs Ashley got such ah nice voice
Macy Gray twin ? 😂😂😂 ALL THAT MONEY & THAT WIG???
Hard wig, soft life
Rich men seem to love the ugly wig girlies
She confused! Lol
And lying
6-10k a month??????? What was she doing for that????? Sometimes when I hear these girls stories I’m like where are these men bro? What are you doing for the money? Girls be like… We just have conversation and I keep him company 🤔🫤😑
Best advice ❤Ashley
Sis plz get help for you. Your soul needs to heal. ❤❤
lol it must have been that bad if she left that $6k a month
I don’t believe it. How can someone have all that money and have bad hygiene. You can notice foul breath a mile away lol
You better believe. Observe many rich men, look inside their mouth and you will see. Being rich doesn't mean u automatically have good hygiene
Ashley was like what
First time I’ve seen her facial expression tell what she was really feeling
10k a month and you couldn't get an African net and soap and have a spa night to clean him ? But more importantly Go to school ladies learn skills to make your own money. Who wants to go through all this for 120k a year.
He also had really bad breath
This post made me like Ash.
No disrespect, but 10k a month and that’s the best she can do for a wig 😳😳😳😳
Natural hair , just a little bit of foundation.. sheeeshhhh she's amazing 😏💗
I love a trick and treat ❤❤❤😂😂😂
10k a month . She should be up almost a half a mill . Something is not adding up
She is capping
Ok so what's her question?
not brushing is crazy
A wealthy man that doesn’t take care of his hygiene. Interesting
🤔🤔🤔
Ew that’s soo nasty 😅
Cap 🧢!
Upwards of 10K a month, you can deal with that hygiene. You could've built something for dealing with that pain in your nostrils... A business, a down payment on a condo to rent out. You ain't smart ma
she pissed me off.
I know for sure wouldn't be able to do it. No amount of money could ever get me to talk to a man with bad breath just for money
Not sure it was that much, but okay.
This is just sad
What’s a trick I’m so confused hahahaah
A man or woman who LOVES to spend money on someone and does it willingly
It's prostitute and pimp lingo/terminology for Johns who pay for sexual access from a hoė selling herself.
It's a word from pr0stitute & pimp lingo/terminology; used in thrir trade to describe a John who pays for sexual access from women/sex workers.
It's a word from pr0stitute & pimp lingo/terminology used in their trade to describe a John who pays for sexual access from women/sex workers.
@Rochelle hi how are you doing?
She reminds me of Meg
Meg who??
@@tinawalker5335 the rapper
I also got Jennifer Hudson vibes from her lol
I can deal with stank for 6 k 😊
Lmao!! 😂
I would deal with it until all my debts were paid off and then I’m out 😂😂
Nasty omg
I call 🧢 😂 Ain’t no way some guy was paying her 10k a month . For THAT?! Naw , ain’t no way , he could’ve gotten an actually cute girl . This girl isn’t ugly but she’s not “10k” worth.
100% agree
Big cap…
I think for her to have stayed, she may of done a lot more on the regular that most young ladies will not. The hygiene was probably not even the worst. Most self respecting people might do something once and say never again. The worst of society might just continue till they have enough money to feel comfortable to leave, ie this lady.
If she was a Latina you would believe and call her beautiful. What is ugly about this girl with her Afrocentric beauty? Big nose, full lips, bold eyes. How is that ugly ?
She probably dressed and looked differently with him they broke up. And there is a chic on tic Tok who makes 30k a month from her SD so it's definitely possible
When you get that disease inside n out , you choose the price of your worth
🤮🤮😷
She's hitting the wall. its over for her to get a SD.
Hitting the wall? She’s 24?
@@zinabstartake one look at his subscriptions, that’s all you need to know why a mf thinks a “wall” is at 24 years old lol
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Minus Corinne Bailey Rae, yeahh you’re completely right 🚩🚩🚩
@@zinabstar I love Corinne Bailey Rae. Definitely minus her.😂
@@Tessy29k 😂😂😂 same!!! We gotta leave her out of it; that’s the only green flag about this guy 😂