What the Wild 1990s Taught Me About Love and Glamour

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  • @pliant75
    @pliant75 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a historian, I’m captivated by your channel. Thank you for the content.

  • @artvandelay7236
    @artvandelay7236 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Your natural charm is off the charts

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!

  • @thechicanes
    @thechicanes 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love l these pre and post soviet stories from you're point of view as an english speaking Russian expat. The youth from your era have lived through some extreme changes; and to what it seems now to have reverted back too.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      More stories coming!

  • @Bran08Eman
    @Bran08Eman 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Enjoy the unique perspective of a Russian writer/ historian. Sharing your life stories is very relatable, you got me hooked.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Glad you enjoy it!

  • @LSeverusPertinax
    @LSeverusPertinax 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Still a pretty woman.. very smart, too!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you!

  • @mattk3926
    @mattk3926 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loving this channel! You have such a cool way to explain how people felt

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you and I hope you like my other videos as well! :)

  • @AliHussain-s4d
    @AliHussain-s4d 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love your stories and personal insights !
    Thank you !

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AliHussain-s4d thank you!

  • @bradleyhalfacre7992
    @bradleyhalfacre7992 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Charming!

  • @rickgreco9415
    @rickgreco9415 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I stumbled upon your show a few days ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. I subscribed and look forward to watching your future shows.Thank you!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you and welcome!

  • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
    @GerFarrell-tm2ee 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    "Step softly under snow and rain, To find the place where man can pray, The way is all so very plain, That one may lose the way"

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Beautiful

  • @flecktrain
    @flecktrain 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very sweet! As well as you looked back than... BTF*

  • @alicefreist318
    @alicefreist318 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for this story. Your friend/mentor sounds like a delightful woman!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She is amazing.

  • @johnbecker5213
    @johnbecker5213 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i love your hair , looks great!!!!!!! neat story!!!!!!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you!

  • @egrintarg230
    @egrintarg230 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was in my 20's back in the 90's. That Vampire Slayer look really worked for you. It must have been a big trend in Cali.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you, however I don't think the Vampire Slayer phenomenon got to Russia until the 2000s. :)

    • @egrintarg230
      @egrintarg230 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@elvirabary But didn't you live in California in the late 1990's?

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I didn't get to California until the 2000s. :)

    • @egrintarg230
      @egrintarg230 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@elvirabary When I saw the photo of you in the black dress I thought it was from the Buffy show at first glance. You could have been a stunt double for Buffy. But you lived on the other side of the planet and had no knowledge of this show. Yet you looked very similar to her. Did I miss something here?

  • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
    @GerFarrell-tm2ee 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello Elvira, my name is Ger, I'm from Ireland. I wish you well with your channel, you have a captivating voice and you really feel the emotions behind the words. You will have many subscribers.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your kind words.

  • @paulbreen8533
    @paulbreen8533 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The 1990s was a great time to fall in love. I sure did. In those days anything seemed possible but I left her before she could break my heart too.

  • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
    @GerFarrell-tm2ee 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    "What is love? I have met it on the street, a weary, poor man who was in love, his hat was old, his coat worn, the water passed through his shoes, and the stars through his eyes"

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      So beautiful!

    • @katsanddoggies9904
      @katsanddoggies9904 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      What is love?
      Oh, baby, don't hurt me
      Don't hurt me, no more
      Oh, baby, don't hurt me
      Don't hurt me, no more

    • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
      @GerFarrell-tm2ee 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      "love want to own nothing, it only wants to love"

    • @paulbreen8533
      @paulbreen8533 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@elvirabaryThat nice phrase is from Victor Hugo, Les Miserables.

  • @ricktownend9144
    @ricktownend9144 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I look forward to reading your translations of Tata's stories ...

  • @anna_b11
    @anna_b11 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow incredible story 😂

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you!

  • @johngorentz6409
    @johngorentz6409 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm going to guess $30/month, in U.S. equivalent dollars at the time. In the mid-late 90s a young woman postdoc researcher from Russia came to our department on some sort of Yeltsin fellowship. It was U.S. money that went to Yeltsin to pay for this sort of thing. She said she came, not completely sure if the fellowship money would even be in an account for her, Yeltsin being Yeltsin and all, and was pleased upon arrival to learn that it was. She said her father was an army colonel who was making about $30/month, so that's where I get that figure. My memory may be faulty, though. And, of course, army pay could be very different from anything else.

    • @johngorentz6409
      @johngorentz6409 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Actually, the figure of $28/month sticks in my mind, but it was a long time ago so I don't quite trust my memory. I figured there had to be more to the story, , but I heard similar stories elsewhere and I didn't press for details.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It was $100 / month. $50 was rent another $50 were spent on food and fun.

  • @markcollins730
    @markcollins730 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    You are still an incredibly beautiful woman

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you!

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Still very pretty. New subscriber. This is the second video of yours i am watching

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you and welcome!

  • @raycarnis9540
    @raycarnis9540 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Regards from Scotland.

  • @76629online
    @76629online 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It's too bad that most love stories these days usually come to an abrupt and ugly end. I blame social media and the rampant narcissism that it breeds. I wish I had been born 50 years sooner.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I have another love story, with happy ending. My husband and I are married for 22 years and still in love.

    • @sweetdrreemz
      @sweetdrreemz 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@elvirabary красивая!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sweetdrreemz Thank you!

  • @Incirlikcdi
    @Incirlikcdi 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have an appreciation of the algorithm suggesting your site. Not quite sure why you do not have more followers...will be picking up your books. Actually in the USSR the year you were born, 1975, so your perspective is interesting to me. Your salary in 1990's? My guess about $125.00 to $150.00 monthly--but I could be way off. Definitely subscribed...

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      My salary was $100, and I spent $50 to pay my rent and the rest to buy the cheapest pelmeni (dumplings) for myself and my friends, who were way poorer than me.

  • @vafkamat
    @vafkamat 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like ur channel

  • @katsanddoggies9904
    @katsanddoggies9904 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The Scorpions-
    "Wind Of Change"
    I follow the Moskva
    Down to Gorky Park
    Listening to the wind of change
    An August summer night
    Soldiers passing by
    Listening to the wind of change
    The world is closing in
    And did you ever think?
    That we could be so close?
    Like brothers
    The future's in the air
    I can feel it everywhere
    Blowing with the wind of change
    Take me to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night
    Where the children of tomorrow dream away (dream away)
    In the wind of change
    (Mmmmmmm)
    Walking down the street
    And distant memories
    Are buried in the past forever
    I follow the Moskva
    And down to Gorky Park
    Listening to the wind of change
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow share their dreams (share their dreams)
    With you and me (you and me)
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow dream away (dream away)
    In the wind of change (wind of change)
    The wind of change blows straight
    Into the face of time
    Like a storm wind that will ring
    The freedom bell for peace of mind
    Let your balalaika sing
    What my guitar wants to sing (sing)
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow share their dreams (share their dreams)
    With you and me (you and me)
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow dream away (dream away)
    In the wind of change (wind of change)

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Oh I love this song.

    • @katsanddoggies9904
      @katsanddoggies9904 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@elvirabary I don't know you, but listened to your story. I became fascinated. You said; Gorky, I thought of the song and it's true meaning.
      I was in Germany before the wall came down. We do have a few things in common, but in the meantime take care, and stay in touch.

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Young lawyer salary then $120 USD per month

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I had $100

  • @thereisnosanctuary6184
    @thereisnosanctuary6184 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    MMMBOP, UMM UMM-BOP, MMM-BOP, UH-MOW, MOW

  • @drawingmomentum
    @drawingmomentum 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sad that u felt the need to harshly judge a man that did u no harm.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He never knew about it. And I believe he didn't care.