It has been a while since the judge has gone after someone like that. Sometimes people don't represent themselves well early on, but they get better. This dude started at rock bottom and then started digging.
This is this the ONLY time i wish the judge would channel that judge Judy energy. They both need their life read. I can't believe this dude has a father figure... goes to show you just b/c a man is in the home means he's a father...
Right and at the end he said I ain’t been a boy since he moved out his momma house ummmm that does not make u a man 😂😂 one day they will get it they can grow they just have to want to..pray for the kids y’all .!
You want your kids to have a two parent home but you have to pick someone who wants the same! Pay attention to the signs when picking your mates that shit can haunt you lol
This is the realest life lesson that needs to be taught in schools... I learned the hard way now I'm a single father or twin boys raising these young men on my own. I will write a book as soon as I find the time to. SMH it's all fun and games until the baby drops then shit gets real and true colors start to show up
She will learn. If she don't she won't be showing her kids, especially her daughter anything on how to have standards, morals and values of being a woman.
If he wanted to marry her he would have said so. He does not want to marry her, he didn't even want her to have his children. He will never change and she's going to waste her time if she continues to stay with him.
He will continue to cheat for who knows how long...I really hope this girl finds it within herself to RUN...if not for you (because it's not about you anymore) than those children....please make a better life for them
This is why I don't feel bad for girls like this. All the signs are there. When you first got pregnant he suggested you have an abortion. That right there should've been the end of that relationship. But no what does she do. She Get a pregnant by him again. And she comes to divorce court for the judge to tell her what she's know all along
This girl is gonna wait forever and he's never gonna marry her and he's gonna keep cheating all because she's allowing it. I always say this quote. When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them. He's shown her who he is since the beginning and she's making excuses
She’s insecure. She with him because she think she cannot get another man since she already with children (Only Nice men would be willing to look after another mans child, but it’s rare). She need to work on herself. Her sacrifice will teach many young girls not to make the same mistake🙃
After The Show: Tatianna is still waiting for a marriage proposal. BREAKING NEWS: Tatianna, you're not going to get one! Why should he marry you when you've already given him everything? He has the "wife", the kids, you're taking care of the home, you cook and clean - what does he have to do? Exactly what he's been doing! There's no reason for Andre to "grow up" and ask you to marry him because you didn't make that a requirement 5 years ago. He's comfortable the way things are, why would he change it by getting married? Here's the order: 1 - pick a mature partner that has direction and goals that work with yours 2 - don't move in together 3 - if everything is going right, then insist on the ring 4 - establish a job/career and save your money to build something together 5 - get married THEN move in together 6 - when you're established, then you can have kids These two did it almost completely in reverse. And 5 years from now, they'll either still be together as they are right now with the same issues... or she'll finally have gotten fed up and moved on.
Moving in after marriage is dumb! I can’t live with most of the people in this world just dirty, nasty and no pride in their property. And no you can’t know how someone lives without playing house first.
I disagree with the insist on the ring part because if everything is going right and y'all been together for a little while he'd ask you to he his wife you wouldn't have to insist. When a guy is getting wife benefits he's not gonna be interested in getting married
Folks, here's why one insists on the ring: if you don't make it clear that marriage is a *requirement* for the relationship to progress, it will never happen. Not in today's world. If the partner balks at that, guess what... they don't want what you want, and you can move on. Not getting married gives "an easy out" - as soon as times get tough, an unmarried couple will claim that "taking a break" nonsense, and that just kills the children. We have enough broken kids out there. You want to build a strong family from the ground up? Put a ring on it, and don't settle for anything less.
MdniteEagl I get what you're saying but it should be known in the beginning that marriage is a must and you won't have to insist on marriage. You have to make it known what you want from the beginning. If it's kids and marriage then make it know that that's what you want
Life is a joke for him. He feels he's a man because he's out on his own. But he doesnt THINK like a grown man. If she only get the opportunity to find a real man n not raise this boy she will know.
And ok with it! Let's wait 5 years and see if they don't have at least 3 kids and this fool ain't still saying "Like I'm a grown man, I can do what I wanna do"
One thing women fail to understand is that we have all the power. Men will only go as far as we ALLOW them to go. You want to keep getting preganant ...that’s on you. You want to keep getting cheated on...that’s on you. ITS all in your HANDS !
I hate when people say "I didn't think that person could have kids" without any real reason or proof. Me and my ex were together for 6 years. We never used protection and I never got pregnant. After the split I went on to have a daughter and he has 5 kids. Sometimes it could just be the combination of the two people who r in the relationship. It could also just not be the person you're meant to have a child with.
People always say woman trap the man with babies, forget that women trap themselves!! I love my freedom rent a baby, borrow one, babysit but Lawd Gawd hold on to your freedom. have children when you're ready and able
I LOVE JUDGE TOLER!!! She could sit there for about 10 more minutes with those folks and change their lives forever...She has a serious gift with words..
So how unfortunate how these young ladies have multiple children children with these dudes that aren't marriage (commitment) material. Hes showing you his intentions!!! Get an abortion?! Cheating?! Honey wake up
Three minutes in, and I can tell her, He is Not Going to STAY.....!! My mom used to tell us, " don't have any more babies than YOU can take care of", be/c you can't count on the man!!!!...
This is pathetic... Her self esteem is a 0. The fact that you allow someone to mistreat you, sleep around on you, and just treat you like a door mat is pass wrong it's disgusting. What is she waiting for? Him to bring her a incurable disease! OMG! I give it to the judge for not going off! I was trying not to get mad just watching this mess! OMG! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😕😤😐😑😒
Just because you do not live with your mom anymore does not make you a man, i feel sad for the girl but that is who she chosed, and judge said a mouth full she is right.
His response at the end is why our community is in such disarray. Being a father is not just about financially supporting a child/family you must be emotionally and spiritually mature to raise and lead a family. Working a steady job isn't the only thing that makes you a man.
2 kids in and you still haven’t figured it out no ma’ am. I’m leaving hell I would have left before the first baby. Dudes don’t expect drama they drop you in a minute. Why should I have to deal with the drama. We have to want more and not just hope for it and accept less. Plus he sounds stupid. She just wants to have a baby no matter who it is with. She wants the picture of family but not the structure. I feel so sorry for her because she ain’t there yet. This why you need to live and learn.
Right.... Because young kids in their 20s don't make mistakes. Good thing the judge has compassion enough to guide them in the right way so they can learn. Smh. Nobody wants to help but judge and complain and wonder why there is no change.
Willing to be engaged for a few years? Then you’re not ready to get married. He’s not ready. He does not want the same things and the signs are so obvious. It’s sad the things we chose to ignore for the sake of a relationship
Sometimes, the people on the show come to the comment section and defend themselves. Almost always, they start out with "shut up, you don't have any room to talk because you're not perfect." When I see that, I almost always respond with "but I didn't put my business on TV."
The first 30 seconds into the show I knew this wasn't going to work, she did the cardinal sin of giving him the sex up without protection and thinking having his babies was going to make him want to marry her. Gurl, you played yourself on that account. You thought you were going to trap him, but you the one that got trapped. He could dip at anytime and leave you high and dry and then you'd have nothing, but your kids and hopefully enough money to make it work for you. That's why these women need to get a clue and fast. He's trash and you didn't want to see the signs that he was trash, it's on you now. Best of luck!
So he didn't want the first child he asked you for an abortion. Yep, that definitely means it's a great idea to have another one. People who feel trapped rebel.
The judge told her the truth. These women want a good foundation for their kids, but they conceived them on a very rocky foundation no marriage, fornicating is not a solid foundation. Then she gets pregnant again on this same rocky foundation. Women often think if they have children with the man this will make him stay with her and they will come to love her. Look at how many black women are left raising their children without the support of their family. Black men in my opinion are not as responsible and dedicated to their children or the mother of their children. He told her clearly that he does not plan to get married for about six years and she says she can wait for him for six years. Pitiful.
I honestly just feel bad for kids like this man.. people in general don't believe In moral foundation does he or she have qualities of a good man or woman faithfulness trustworthy somebody who actually wants to be around you !? Women have the power they let a man have all the goodies and then by then that's all he wants from you! Time and time again 🤦♂️
Ash O lol I don't get it? If you let an immature man between your legs to satisfy him. To me you've sealed your own fate. But if a woman makes a man prove his self worth that he's generally interested in taking care of you and making you his wife to have and to hold. Point being a man can't get through closed legs.
Derrick Mason Men can choose not to make children until they are ready. But they want a woman to tell them whether or not they're ready rather than realizing it for themselves. Guess what, women aren't perfect and they are not mind readers. Women look up to MEN for guidance and safety. If you can't provide that, why put yourself in a position to make children who are even MORE needy?
Ash O lol I guess what I'm saying is a Man cannot make a child unless the female is willing I don't get where your saying men have the power? This woman allowed this man to sleep with her when he never came correct. Not saying he's not copable. But she had the power
AT this point, I'm prone to blame the women. You're giving a man "wifely benefits" without being a wife. Whatever you get from these clowns is partly your fault for giving too much too soon.
Why stay with a man that wanted you to kill your baby, tf. That would have been it for me. If a woman chooses to get an abortion that is her choice, but for a man to even suggest that is not okay. It’s not his body, he has no say to that!
Mimine Ren I dislike that man, but I have a different opinion. I believe that a mother and father are BOTH responsible for pregnancy. Therefore, a father should have a right to at least suggest an abortion, but never force it. I don't like it when people think only mothers should have the right to abandon parenthood. Let fathers have at least something like equal rights, geez.
She's a in a horrible position. 2 kids and he won't commit to her and she's in a position where she's trying to force and beg him into a commitment. That never works.
Let him go he needs to go up childish and immature don't let a man tell you or show you more than once you're not his number one priority you are a queen you deserve better
this is why we need to have more sex education in schools, abstinence ain't cutting it anymore...and apparently relationship education, this situation was sad and frustrating to watch...we got to do better
so you keep a sex strike on a man known for cheating........ she should have gotten the first abortion. why be with a man who ask you to get an abortion? then you got pregnant again? you ignored the signs..........
xxPanterxx xoxo I can't believe i actually agree. Im not for abortion but if im in a relationship & a man raw dogs me for 2 yrs then has the NERVE to let that pass his lips, i know everything i need to know. I stopped trying to attach myself to ppl who don't want to be bothered- it saved my life
xxPanterxx xoxo I wouldn't have had the abortion but would've cut him off immediately if he wants to be on the baby's life then that's fine but if he don't then BYE. The fact that he even ask is something else because they were not using protection
Oh my I can't believe she seriously still want to marry this boy I mean does she not hear what he saying I'm sorry I'm ashamed for her have some self respect and dumb this fool. He need to go back to his mum and I can't believe he smiling as if the judge is giving him compliments seriously they have no shame to publicly share there business with the world. pointless relationship this women needs to learn this quote don't judge a person by their words but judge them by their actions and patterns
This girl.....sigh. She doesn't want to be lonely. She talked about him cheating, yet she stayed with him....and she wants to teach her daughter that this is how a man is supposed to treat her. I'm really disappointed by her statement. Dude may be there financially, but he has no business in a relationship. He's not ready to commit. Hell...he didn't want to be a father! That should tell this lady something right there, but she's too blind to see it. He's already said he's not ready to get married. She's gonna hang around like a wet dish rag. That's sad....really sad. She thought having kids was going to make him want to commit....she was ALL WRONG!!!
See, he's not gonna marry because he doesn't want the commitment. He wants all the benefits of a marriage, just not the title. And it's sad because she said that she'll settle for being engaged for a FEW YEARS! That's insanity! Like someone once said, it's easy to be loyal when you feel as if there are no other options. I hope she sees that she's of more value than she's putting herself as and find someone's who is mature and has the moral capacity to fulfill not only her wants and needs but also her children.
Could it be any clearer, girl what is your problem? You don't need to marry him ever. She's too nice that's why he runs all over her and does what he wants. Goodness she had two kids with this boy.
This whole thing made my head hurt he ain't ready for nothing he still thinks he's in high school and she want him to be something that he's not even ready for
Why are people so ignorant when it comes to birth control today? I’ll never understand. If you’re not ready for kids don’t have them. It’s not that difficult.
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The moment the judge said, "Good God have mercy you're a basic brotha and I don't like it", I almost choked on my water😂😂😂 I felt her pain
It has been a while since the judge has gone after someone like that. Sometimes people don't represent themselves well early on, but they get better. This dude started at rock bottom and then started digging.
This is this the ONLY time i wish the judge would channel that judge Judy energy. They both need their life read.
I can't believe this dude has a father figure... goes to show you just b/c a man is in the home means he's a father...
@@BruinPhD2009 yes Lawd; i like the way you worded that one!
😂😂 For real! I can't stand stupidity too!!
and he’s so stupid he don’t understand the shade thrown his way
Don't make a man tell you that he dont want you more than once.
The Brideseed Love okay!
And he's actually telling her. Not just acting but telling her he doesn't want her.
Amen to that!
"You're a basic brother, and I don't like it." Took the words right out of my mouth.
Ikr! 👍
Right and at the end he said I ain’t been a boy since he moved out his momma house ummmm that does not make u a man 😂😂 one day they will get it they can grow they just have to want to..pray for the kids y’all .!
You want your kids to have a two parent home but you have to pick someone who wants the same! Pay attention to the signs when picking your mates that shit can haunt you lol
Mrs. Baldwin 🗣yessssssssssss👏🙌
Mrs. Baldwin you read my mind. She can do better
This is the realest life lesson that needs to be taught in schools... I learned the hard way now I'm a single father or twin boys raising these young men on my own. I will write a book as soon as I find the time to. SMH it's all fun and games until the baby drops then shit gets real and true colors start to show up
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Amen
Having unprotected sex for over a year and not expecting to get pregnant? Are you trying to send Judge Lynn to the mad house?
SweetTea742 😂
😂😂😂 I'm DEAD!!!!
SweetTea742 factzzz not only the judge but me too
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Look at him. I'm doubting he ever had any sex ed. Likely he was a virgin. 😂😂😂
Girl the answer is no. He is not ready to be a father nor a boyfriend. He won't be ready to be a husband. He will continue to cheat on you.
Aurora thats what i'm saying, im like your wasting your time on a boy and not a man. Take care of your kids, co-parent and move on!
Aurora Beauty it's a bit too late about not being ready to be a father.
She will learn. If she don't she won't be showing her kids, especially her daughter anything on how to have standards, morals and values of being a woman.
If he wanted to marry her he would have said so. He does not want to marry her, he didn't even want her to have his children. He will never change and she's going to waste her time if she continues to stay with him.
He will continue to cheat for who knows how long...I really hope this girl finds it within herself to RUN...if not for you (because it's not about you anymore) than those children....please make a better life for them
“He’s just not that into you”
Boy, some women just force themselves into terrible situations! 🤦🏽♀️
I wish I could like this comment a million times!
He stupid.. 🤦🏽♀️... and she know better...just throw the whole relationship away... it is NOT going to get better... been there done that ...
Phoebe Monet 😂😂😂😂 throw the whole relationship away!
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The whole thing?
Charles Merchant yes love... EVERY LAYER OF IT... it won’t be a lot because it doesn’t seem that deep... at least not on HIS behalf..
Phoebe Monet sometime us men are very childish as we mature
He’s been doing this way before they were together she just stuck around for the mess.
This is why I don't feel bad for girls like this. All the signs are there. When you first got pregnant he suggested you have an abortion. That right there should've been the end of that relationship. But no what does she do. She Get a pregnant by him again. And she comes to divorce court for the judge to tell her what she's know all along
Esther Jean facts
This girl is gonna wait forever and he's never gonna marry her and he's gonna keep cheating all because she's allowing it. I always say this quote. When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them. He's shown her who he is since the beginning and she's making excuses
Esther the only thing she going to get if she stay waiting on him is more kids, more cheating, more excuses and a possible std! smh
jarvis thomas Exactly and he's gonna keep asking her for abortions. She's just dumb asf.
Yeah watching that episode i lost a few brain cells!
She’s insecure. She with him because she think she cannot get another man since she already with children (Only Nice men would be willing to look after another mans child, but it’s rare). She need to work on herself. Her sacrifice will teach many young girls not to make the same mistake🙃
Esther Jean he gonna meet some other chick n marry after a month. If he really wanted to be with her n marry her he would have already.
After The Show: Tatianna is still waiting for a marriage proposal.
BREAKING NEWS: Tatianna, you're not going to get one! Why should he marry you when you've already given him everything? He has the "wife", the kids, you're taking care of the home, you cook and clean - what does he have to do? Exactly what he's been doing! There's no reason for Andre to "grow up" and ask you to marry him because you didn't make that a requirement 5 years ago. He's comfortable the way things are, why would he change it by getting married?
Here's the order:
1 - pick a mature partner that has direction and goals that work with yours
2 - don't move in together
3 - if everything is going right, then insist on the ring
4 - establish a job/career and save your money to build something together
5 - get married THEN move in together
6 - when you're established, then you can have kids
These two did it almost completely in reverse. And 5 years from now, they'll either still be together as they are right now with the same issues... or she'll finally have gotten fed up and moved on.
MdniteEagl YEEEEESSSSSSSSSSS PREACH!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Moving in after marriage is dumb! I can’t live with most of the people in this world just dirty, nasty and no pride in their property. And no you can’t know how someone lives without playing house first.
I disagree with the insist on the ring part because if everything is going right and y'all been together for a little while he'd ask you to he his wife you wouldn't have to insist. When a guy is getting wife benefits he's not gonna be interested in getting married
Folks, here's why one insists on the ring: if you don't make it clear that marriage is a *requirement* for the relationship to progress, it will never happen. Not in today's world. If the partner balks at that, guess what... they don't want what you want, and you can move on. Not getting married gives "an easy out" - as soon as times get tough, an unmarried couple will claim that "taking a break" nonsense, and that just kills the children. We have enough broken kids out there. You want to build a strong family from the ground up? Put a ring on it, and don't settle for anything less.
MdniteEagl I get what you're saying but it should be known in the beginning that marriage is a must and you won't have to insist on marriage. You have to make it known what you want from the beginning. If it's kids and marriage then make it know that that's what you want
Life is a joke for him. He feels he's a man because he's out on his own. But he doesnt THINK like a grown man. If she only get the opportunity to find a real man n not raise this boy she will know.
The scary part is that they were being completely honest but this is really how some people think nowadays. It blows my mind
"I don't feel comfortable having an abortion".....but you don't wrap it up either or take both control...makes sense to me. ugh...
Apparently someone failed biology...🙄
Preach!
Lmaoooooo
He’s an absolutely no😒!!!
Broken Pieces u right she should not b with aguy who prefers abortion than having kids with her
" I'm grown I can stay out as long as I want to" I'm sure you'd have that same energy if she did the same
Esther Jean he would have to have that same energy when he's finding another place to live if it was me
So basically she's a single mother.
And a statistic... because she is What poverty looks like. Single mother’s and their children...
And ok with it! Let's wait 5 years and see if they don't have at least 3 kids and this fool ain't still saying "Like I'm a grown man, I can do what I wanna do"
One thing women fail to understand is that we have all the power. Men will only go as far as we ALLOW them to go. You want to keep getting preganant ...that’s on you. You want to keep getting cheated on...that’s on you. ITS all in your HANDS !
Shaakeeiiaa Salem Women don't have all the power. Submissive men GIVE women the power so they don't have to have any self control.
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I hate when people say "I didn't think that person could have kids" without any real reason or proof. Me and my ex were together for 6 years. We never used protection and I never got pregnant. After the split I went on to have a daughter and he has 5 kids. Sometimes it could just be the combination of the two people who r in the relationship. It could also just not be the person you're meant to have a child with.
I know looks aren’t everything. I just have too much pride to let someone that looks like him disrespect and embarrass me!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 facts
There's more to "being a man" then going to work and paying the bills.
THIS GIRL IS IN DENIAL..God go with her😂
Nah ...she just dumb!
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Yes' GOD, Go with ME TOO! That little boy, "Banks" gives a WHOLE New Meaning to Trifling, Tragic & Tired!
Amazing how judge Lynn can insult you with a smile😂
People always say woman trap the man with babies, forget that women trap themselves!! I love my freedom rent a baby, borrow one, babysit but Lawd Gawd hold on to your freedom. have children when you're ready and able
Amara Gill
Rent a baby 😁
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Say it again! She couldn’t hear you over her stupidity. It was turned up too high! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Amen my sista
Lesley Bennett sometimes you have to get creative. test things out before you can fully commit
Honey do you really want to married this guy? Hell to the naw.
Angelic Morrison this made me cringe
I didn't even watch the episode and I'm already hoping she leaves. He's cheated before and she doesn't trust him. So why is she still there.
Esther Jean she not going to leave.
Larry S. I know. I be saying that sometimes your heartbreak is your own fault. And this is the type of thing I'm talking about
Esther Jean having more babies so she thinks she can keep him smdh
Judge Toler trying so hard not hurt their feelings 😄
I LOVE JUDGE TOLER!!! She could sit there for about 10 more minutes with those folks and change their lives forever...She has a serious gift with words..
That guy is a damn fool lol
So how unfortunate how these young ladies have multiple children children with these dudes that aren't marriage (commitment) material. Hes showing you his intentions!!! Get an abortion?! Cheating?! Honey wake up
and basic!!lmao
T.E.D. tech there's nothing funny about it.
Judge Toler said you don’t think often and he said “nah” 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I just CANT!
Omg! We have a generation of women who have low self-esteem and are willing to put up with anything just to say they have a man! What a shame....
Three minutes in, and I can tell her, He is Not Going to STAY.....!! My mom used to tell us, " don't have any more babies than YOU can take care of", be/c you can't count on the man!!!!...
Not2old2rocit real talk
That "basic brother" smile disappeared real quick when Judge Toler gave him her perspective. lol
....I just feel bad for their kids, this is going to be online forever and they will see this one day and that's a damn shame....
I hope these two stay together so nobody else in the planet world universe earth solar system will have the misery of being with them
I was thinking the same lol
Y e s....match made in their own little universe! Hunni Chile' #KnowBetterDoBetter #HeIsABadGuy
#ShowYourDaughterBetter...PLEASE
This is pathetic... Her self esteem is a 0. The fact that you allow someone to mistreat you, sleep around on you, and just treat you like a door mat is pass wrong it's disgusting. What is she waiting for? Him to bring her a incurable disease! OMG! I give it to the judge for not going off! I was trying not to get mad just watching this mess! OMG! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😕😤😐😑😒
Keep us together? These two need to stay as far away from each other as possible, with their pants zipped up
Easy big guy! Let them stay together.. hahahahaha save the rest of us!
Just because you do not live with your mom anymore does not make you a man, i feel sad for the girl but that is who she chosed, and judge said a mouth full she is right.
I love her message to both of them at the end! It was nothing short of the truth. Couldn’t have said it better!
The guy smiled throughout the subtle darts coming from the judge
This guy is 24 skipping through life EARLY thinking everything is a joke... If I was judge Lynn I would have asked for Joe's belt to beat his ASS!!
cantusee1 then tell her to hang her self with it because she has ruined her life with having kids with him
Ikr
His response at the end is why our community is in such disarray. Being a father is not just about financially supporting a child/family you must be emotionally and spiritually mature to raise and lead a family. Working a steady job isn't the only thing that makes you a man.
Both side is what wrong stuff talking to f boys
2 kids in and you still haven’t figured it out no ma’ am. I’m leaving hell I would have left before the first baby. Dudes don’t expect drama they drop you in a minute. Why should I have to deal with the drama. We have to want more and not just hope for it and accept less. Plus he sounds stupid. She just wants to have a baby no matter who it is with. She wants the picture of family but not the structure. I feel so sorry for her because she ain’t there yet. This why you need to live and learn.
Why do ppl play with human life ? I feel bad for those kids gahhh they both are ignorant and immature.
I'm so pissed with both of them.
She is going to be waiting for a long time.....
Finding your way, is what you do prior to having children.
“You don’t think often do you?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Judge Lynn's face in the thumbnail says it all
People treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated... She deserves everything that she gets from being with him
FullofSouthernCharm Exactly what I been saying
Esther Jean thanks beautiful lady
YAAASSSSS He does whatever he wants to do because he's ALLOWED! She's going to waste the next 5 years waiting for him to propose. Po thing.
Right.... Because young kids in their 20s don't make mistakes. Good thing the judge has compassion enough to guide them in the right way so they can learn. Smh. Nobody wants to help but judge and complain and wonder why there is no change.
🤣🤣🤣blonde white lady in the back left side at 16:24🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Willing to be engaged for a few years? Then you’re not ready to get married. He’s not ready. He does not want the same things and the signs are so obvious. It’s sad the things we chose to ignore for the sake of a relationship
Look at these fools, not ready for the first kid yet they get a second...too sad
I wonder do this people ever look at the comments and say damn I must really be ugly because so many people saying it.
Sometimes, the people on the show come to the comment section and defend themselves. Almost always, they start out with "shut up, you don't have any room to talk because you're not perfect." When I see that, I almost always respond with "but I didn't put my business on TV."
I see that at times. They come on and defend themselves. Nevertheless, why be hostile at the viewers' opinions? We didn't send you to court.
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17:30 to the ending yesss the judge told they ass 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The first 30 seconds into the show I knew this wasn't going to work, she did the cardinal sin of giving him the sex up without protection and thinking having his babies was going to make him want to marry her. Gurl, you played yourself on that account. You thought you were going to trap him, but you the one that got trapped. He could dip at anytime and leave you high and dry and then you'd have nothing, but your kids and hopefully enough money to make it work for you. That's why these women need to get a clue and fast. He's trash and you didn't want to see the signs that he was trash, it's on you now. Best of luck!
This episode hurts my heart
“You don’t think often, do ya?”
“Nah”
Lmao says it all.
😕 does anyone feel like this young lady is delusional ?
So he didn't want the first child he asked you for an abortion. Yep, that definitely means it's a great idea to have another one. People who feel trapped rebel.
He tells you to abort your baby, and you get pregnant again?!?!? Sis, noooo. 🤦🏾♀️
The judge told her the truth. These women want a good foundation for their kids, but they conceived them on a very rocky foundation no marriage, fornicating is not a solid foundation. Then she gets pregnant again on this same rocky foundation. Women often think if they have children with the man this will make him stay with her and they will come to love her. Look at how many black women are left raising their children without the support of their family. Black men in my opinion are not as responsible and dedicated to their children or the mother of their children. He told her clearly that he does not plan to get married for about six years and she says she can wait for him for six years. Pitiful.
Cheating throughout the relationship and you want to stay with him? Girl after the first pregnancy, I would have been done with him.
I honestly just feel bad for kids like this man.. people in general don't believe In moral foundation does he or she have qualities of a good man or woman faithfulness trustworthy somebody who actually wants to be around you !? Women have the power they let a man have all the goodies and then by then that's all he wants from you! Time and time again 🤦♂️
Derrick Mason women don't have the power. Men GIVE women the power so they don't have to make difficult decisions.
Ash O lol I don't get it? If you let an immature man between your legs to satisfy him. To me you've sealed your own fate. But if a woman makes a man prove his self worth that he's generally interested in taking care of you and making you his wife to have and to hold. Point being a man can't get through closed legs.
Derrick Mason Men can choose not to make children until they are ready. But they want a woman to tell them whether or not they're ready rather than realizing it for themselves. Guess what, women aren't perfect and they are not mind readers. Women look up to MEN for guidance and safety. If you can't provide that, why put yourself in a position to make children who are even MORE needy?
Ash O lol I guess what I'm saying is a Man cannot make a child unless the female is willing I don't get where your saying men have the power? This woman allowed this man to sleep with her when he never came correct. Not saying he's not copable. But she had the power
Derrick Mason But a woman can't make a child unless a man is willing. If a man refuses to put his sperm in a woman, what could she do about it?
I’m just so shocked that some of these men find women to cheat with 🤢
AT this point, I'm prone to blame the women. You're giving a man "wifely benefits" without being a wife. Whatever you get from these clowns is partly your fault for giving too much too soon.
Why stay with a man that wanted you to kill your baby, tf.
That would have been it for me. If a woman chooses to get an abortion that is her choice, but for a man to even suggest that is not okay. It’s not his body, he has no say to that!
Mimine Ren I dislike that man, but I have a different opinion. I believe that a mother and father are BOTH responsible for pregnancy. Therefore, a father should have a right to at least suggest an abortion, but never force it. I don't like it when people think only mothers should have the right to abandon parenthood. Let fathers have at least something like equal rights, geez.
Mimine Ren no abortion. . that will come back on you.
Tinyfată completely agree with you. Both parents have rights.
You should also take care of it by yourself with no assistance from anyone including the government.
Sturm breakers don’t start with the bullshit
She's a in a horrible position. 2 kids and he won't commit to her and she's in a position where she's trying to force and beg him into a commitment. That never works.
Buy him a Bra then leave him girl ... no good dude!
She will never leave him. He's gonna marry another woman and still, she'll be waiting for him to want her. Smh.
Marriage THEN baby! Why is that such a hard concept!
Let him go he needs to go up childish and immature don't let a man tell you or show you more than once you're not his number one priority you are a queen you deserve better
He looks like the type when he take his shoes off he lights up the whole room with funk he's corny
How does the concept of using protection never cross your mind.
Everything is a joke with him.
On a side note, this is my favourite makeup look for the beautiful Judge Lynn. It's light and not too much heavy bronzer.
The girl in the back is exactly how I was looking the whole time 😂 😂 😂.
There is a mental disconnect here! Girl!!! He doesn’t want to marry you
I hate the sound TH-cam makes when you like a comment.
You're annoyed for the first pregnant, how come did you knock her up again. Grow up dude, it's time to take care of your babies.
this is why we need to have more sex education in schools, abstinence ain't cutting it anymore...and apparently relationship education, this situation was sad and frustrating to watch...we got to do better
He doesn't even realize that list he rattled off at the end is the "basics". SMH
so you keep a sex strike on a man known for cheating........
she should have gotten the first abortion.
why be with a man who ask you to get an abortion?
then you got pregnant again?
you ignored the signs..........
xxPanterxx xoxo
I can't believe i actually agree. Im not for abortion but if im in a relationship & a man raw dogs me for 2 yrs then has the NERVE to let that pass his lips, i know everything i need to know. I stopped trying to attach myself to ppl who don't want to be bothered- it saved my life
xxPanterxx xoxo I wouldn't have had the abortion but would've cut him off immediately if he wants to be on the baby's life then that's fine but if he don't then BYE. The fact that he even ask is something else because they were not using protection
Only people I feel sorry for are the little girls. They have 2 horrible role models raising them as she has no sense and he's just pathetic.
Oh my I can't believe she seriously still want to marry this boy I mean does she not hear what he saying I'm sorry I'm ashamed for her have some self respect and dumb this fool. He need to go back to his mum and I can't believe he smiling as if the judge is giving him compliments seriously they have no shame to publicly share there business with the world. pointless relationship this women needs to learn this quote don't judge a person by their words but judge them by their actions and patterns
This girl.....sigh. She doesn't want to be lonely. She talked about him cheating, yet she stayed with him....and she wants to teach her daughter that this is how a man is supposed to treat her. I'm really disappointed by her statement. Dude may be there financially, but he has no business in a relationship. He's not ready to commit. Hell...he didn't want to be a father! That should tell this lady something right there, but she's too blind to see it. He's already said he's not ready to get married. She's gonna hang around like a wet dish rag. That's sad....really sad. She thought having kids was going to make him want to commit....she was ALL WRONG!!!
Seriously plaintiff? Really? Come on! Hes not even remotely.....well anyway
Thank u judge for the guidance speak to all the youth
#STOPabortion
#NObirthcontrol
#Controlyourself #Nosexb4marriage
#Besmart
#Fidelity
#Putaringonit
#maturity
Catherine Ford 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amen!
Tinyfată amen
no offense,you using hashtags on youtube is more disappointing than your opinions. just wanted to point that out.
Catherine Ford Amen! People don't understand how much easier life would be!
Why do women feel the need to move in and have a baby before being married ? Why should he marry her if he gets everything without marriage.
Girlll.....
See, he's not gonna marry because he doesn't want the commitment. He wants all the benefits of a marriage, just not the title. And it's sad because she said that she'll settle for being engaged for a FEW YEARS! That's insanity! Like someone once said, it's easy to be loyal when you feel as if there are no other options. I hope she sees that she's of more value than she's putting herself as and find someone's who is mature and has the moral capacity to fulfill not only her wants and needs but also her children.
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Could it be any clearer, girl what is your problem? You don't need to marry him ever.
She's too nice that's why he runs all over her and does what he wants. Goodness she had two kids with this boy.
This whole thing made my head hurt he ain't ready for nothing he still thinks he's in high school and she want him to be something that he's not even ready for
Why would anybody be willing to be his side chick????????????
Why are people so ignorant when it comes to birth control today? I’ll never understand. If you’re not ready for kids don’t have them. It’s not that difficult.
This women is foolish he cheats on her has no respect for her. Hes' not attractive I doubt if he has good hygiene.
How can she stay with a man that wanted her to have an abortion 😒
Twice!