[ASMR] Falling asleep on mommy’s lap [hair play] [comforting] [doting]

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  • @kamsyaka
    @kamsyaka ปีที่แล้ว +620

    my lord, this is more peaceful than meditation

    • @saucecollector
      @saucecollector ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Real, also can’t ruin the 69 👍🏻

    • @AzaleaZxZ
      @AzaleaZxZ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saucecollectorsex is significantly better than this

    • @blacksepikseye7300
      @blacksepikseye7300 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Meditation is more peaceful than everything

    • @Peacefrog88
      @Peacefrog88 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is meditation, of a sort

    • @_Kuromo._
      @_Kuromo._ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sir you don't understand what meditation is , may the same lord save you

  • @casualjacob776
    @casualjacob776 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Every "it's okay" melted my heart even more. So simple yet so effective

    • @YouGotCAGEDyt
      @YouGotCAGEDyt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Because this is the term us like to hear

  • @daanbos5918
    @daanbos5918 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Because of this I fell asleep feeling cute and comfy, when I woke up I realised school started 5 minutes ago

    • @AzerTheBaijan
      @AzerTheBaijan ปีที่แล้ว +24

      At least on the bright side, you don't have to go to school

    • @bloodlist826
      @bloodlist826 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@AzerTheBaijanhow

    • @chweazepweatzya5267
      @chweazepweatzya5267 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@bloodlist826he has an excuse idk

    • @bloodlist826
      @bloodlist826 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@chweazepweatzya5267 lmaooo his excuse be "I was listening to mommy asmr and overslept" 😭

    • @chweazepweatzya5267
      @chweazepweatzya5267 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@bloodlist826 see this guy gets it

  • @smolchungus9213
    @smolchungus9213 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    This is literally the "what men actually want" meme

    • @YouGotCAGEDyt
      @YouGotCAGEDyt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      As a male, Agreed

    • @YouGotCAGEDyt
      @YouGotCAGEDyt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      More than dreams actually

    • @leandganie7714
      @leandganie7714 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      “Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting”

    • @Integritys_Sum
      @Integritys_Sum 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      >Love
      >closeness
      >dOmMy mOmMy

    • @i_bite_white_things
      @i_bite_white_things หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We wanna be loved and treated like human beings dude why is it so hard 😭😭

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Hope your doing well Bumble. Ty again for giving us these lovely audios and making us feel better inside. ❤️‍🩹

  • @111paolo2
    @111paolo2 ปีที่แล้ว +1523

    Dog, im a 6'2 200 bodybuilder and if anyone knew I listen to this kind of audios my whole image would crumble, why does it feel so wrong to let your emotional guard down?

    • @frag1l33
      @frag1l33 ปีที่แล้ว +355

      bro i just want to be loved

    • @111paolo2
      @111paolo2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @@frag1l33 same

    • @FrogEnthusiast_TheOneAndOnly
      @FrogEnthusiast_TheOneAndOnly ปีที่แล้ว +183

      Because of you’re a guy you have to be the big strong and secure one, and apparently showing emotions means you’re weak. Sadly it’s unavoidable

    • @111paolo2
      @111paolo2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FrogEnthusiast_TheOneAndOnly not entirely, I've been with women who allowed me to be emotionally vulnerable that had no issues with it, sure that's not most girls and I can understand that since I'm a good looking guy, that's considered generally attractive both socially, and physically I have an easier access to them, but you're right, most of the girls that I've hooked up with were only interested in me as an idea or just physically, not me as a person, and that's the difference, bad women judged me for being "weak" while the good women I found, treated me with kindness and helped me find the help I needed, whether in them or with professionals, and that's not me saying I want them to fix me or needing them to be my second mom. What I'm trying to say with all of this, is I want to return home to someone who loves me for me, sadly the few times I've had this privilege I've always ruined it, but I'm not about to give up now. So yeah thanks for coming to my Ted talk, also if you need gym advice let me know would love to help

    • @ppaattuu
      @ppaattuu ปีที่แล้ว +104

      if my friends will know what am i watching bro im doomed

  • @sansslippers2
    @sansslippers2 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    I’ve reached an all time low in my life, so now I’m here listening to these audios in an attempt to mimic human affection

    • @ashykn33s
      @ashykn33s ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Me too!

    • @sansslippers2
      @sansslippers2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@Iwokeupinanewbu thanks man, just it’s strange that I listen to this stuff, I really shouldn’t, but it’s nice having something like it

    • @asmrlover8320
      @asmrlover8320 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      _First time?_

    • @XRTVanish
      @XRTVanish ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashykn33s boo hoo, in coming for you

    • @ashykn33s
      @ashykn33s ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@XRTVanish the what 🫠

  • @applemgee1235
    @applemgee1235 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Why did this make me cry 😂 I want something like this so so so so bad. Don’t feel bad for making me cry, Dee. This was a TERRIFIC audio and you did great. Attention like this is something that I just crave so so so heavily and if I was presented with an opportunity to have something like this with a woman, oh my god I’d take it in a heartbeat

    • @Kiwegamer
      @Kiwegamer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same bro

  • @brookiejai
    @brookiejai ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My mom died when I was a child and now I am a mom. I never really had a relationship with her. I love hearing this because I get to have an example for my babies 🥹🩷

    • @ErnolDawnbringer
      @ErnolDawnbringer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My mom also died, in my 20s. I wonder when I will become a father myself.

    • @atomelosange8080
      @atomelosange8080 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @brookiejai That’s like the cutest and the saddest comment I ever read good luck with your children.

    • @brookiejai
      @brookiejai 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@atomelosange8080 thank you 🩷 luckily my grandma was heavily involved in my life but she wasn’t very affectionate with me

  • @Agsaturn
    @Agsaturn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I listened to this and like 3 others while doing my project. Keeps my bad thoughts away so I can focus on my work for once and not get super depressed.

    • @HarperEh
      @HarperEh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So real, but if people knew I listened to this while drinking coffee and working on projects, I’d be cooked

  • @kimpossibruh
    @kimpossibruh ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Listened to so many ASMR, but this one is the most beautiful voice I’ve ever heard 😭 been listening to your audios for weeks and once I felt a little bit pessimistic that you’ll upload another video again 🥺 but you finally did it! Thank you so much! Hope you’re doing well, Dee ❤
    Edit: and thanks for making another video about a mother. I miss my mother a little bit more lately 🥹

  • @CottonMouthJoe
    @CottonMouthJoe ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Most heart warming tear inducing audios ever. Lose all the weight in my body and manage to shut brain off with these. Feels refreshing and encouraging in the end. Angelic affirmations, blissful voice, lovely cuddle sounds and serene sweet nothings.
    What more could a guy want from a heart warming asmr audio.
    Thank you hun

  • @MR_Angelgd
    @MR_Angelgd ปีที่แล้ว +76

    A mommy audio😮, you just made my sleep 10x better and I aight even sleep yet

    • @XRTVanish
      @XRTVanish ปีที่แล้ว

      You lonely bastard

  • @aaronchristian9920
    @aaronchristian9920 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These videos ground me during my panic attacks and keeps me afloat during my depressive episodes. The absolute release of tension in my chest I get from her whispers

  • @21STGBLOCK_KARTELYT
    @21STGBLOCK_KARTELYT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this always calms me down when im stressed

  • @Notmecookie
    @Notmecookie ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really appreciate all the audios you work on and put out for us. This right here is helping me fall asleep at night when i’m having a tough time. Thank you!

  • @MattsThere
    @MattsThere ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your voice never fails to put me in a trance Dee... Sending nothing but good vibrations your way!!

  • @oddyssi
    @oddyssi ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i was just listening to some of your videos last night. thank you so much for these uploads Bumbledee ; this is a blessed day

  • @SatyamKumar-pv1yq
    @SatyamKumar-pv1yq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bumbledee is really one of my favorites in asmr and especially sleep aid content 🥰😍😘❤️🧡💛💜🤎

  • @asmrlover8320
    @asmrlover8320 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this 💙
    The experience feels truly authentic, in a way that very few asmrtists achieve
    Wish you the best in life 💙

  • @31SonicSuper
    @31SonicSuper ปีที่แล้ว +3

    all your audios are the definition of cozy and warm

  • @marieihara
    @marieihara ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your voice is unbelievable comfortable, soothing and relaxing.
    Marvelous, lovely audio, I enjoyed every single second of it, just fantastic.
    Thank you so much for your hard work.

  • @DylaDev
    @DylaDev ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I love the fact that I'll never be able to experience this

    • @what3424
      @what3424 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Real

    • @itz.mageee
      @itz.mageee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      real

    • @___xvr___
      @___xvr___ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      real

    • @zellenny1784
      @zellenny1784 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      real

    • @rhinoboi8816
      @rhinoboi8816 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It hurts😔

  • @masonalke3375
    @masonalke3375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every time you post it makes my day 20 fold

  • @Terrifyger
    @Terrifyger ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these Mommy audios, and the doting just makes it even better. I don't often get that to the extent that you give it in Mommy audios, but it really helps in making me even more calm and relaxed. Truly the kind of serenity that only a maternal figure can bring. ❤

  • @matthewsheridan4642
    @matthewsheridan4642 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your audios might be the most gentle I've ever heard. Very well done

  • @MyHeartIsHer.
    @MyHeartIsHer. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Dee. I’ve been feeling a bit stressed over the days, Your voice is so calming. Have fun!

  • @gaffclant
    @gaffclant ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i started college 3 weeks ago, and it has been really rough on me. your videos have always been a nice little escape for me to help me cool off and relax for even a few minutes. i really appreciate your videos and all that you do, keep it up. thank you :)

    • @NathanaëlAnstadt
      @NathanaëlAnstadt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im sorry dude, college is terrible ahaha I’m 2 years in and starting on my 3rd and wow

  • @takensteak4485
    @takensteak4485 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ive listened to this over ten times already help

    • @XRTVanish
      @XRTVanish ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't let me catch you lacking again

  • @xawesome4x30
    @xawesome4x30 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for being here for us Dee 💙

  • @BallisticWolfey
    @BallisticWolfey ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought you added a heartbeat sound but it was literally just so peaceful that I tuned into my own dang heartbeat..

  • @stirlingj6109
    @stirlingj6109 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Super lovely video BumbleDee, hope you’re having a great day and that you have a wonderful week 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @wejdan5134
    @wejdan5134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your voice and your kind words it’s relaxing I’m listening to your video because I get to have an example for what is kindness feels like

  • @user-ub2ly7me4k
    @user-ub2ly7me4k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your voice helps me sleep so easily, thank you alot

  • @squward
    @squward 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cried to this thank you bumbledee☺️🙏😭

  • @ckycodyh
    @ckycodyh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please never stop making content. It helps so much.

  • @ElSuguKen_69
    @ElSuguKen_69 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Started to feel sleepy at 4:00
    Your voice is like a caress to my brain 😊

  • @lol-2247
    @lol-2247 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is where the fun begins 😊

  • @jesuslover4436
    @jesuslover4436 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Profound gratitude for this

  • @crimson6340
    @crimson6340 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for these Bumble~. I really appreciate it.

  • @MrAwsome697
    @MrAwsome697 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've never heard someone get this roleplay quite right, but you fucking nailed it, this is amazing! I need a longer one!!

  • @michaeleller6555
    @michaeleller6555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    S-tier mom rp, thank you

  • @LatvianLarper
    @LatvianLarper 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I ain't even sad or lonely, this just really helps me fall asleep.

  • @Emerardo
    @Emerardo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the only thing i have ever wanted

  • @tyresehartze1085
    @tyresehartze1085 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ma'am... you and Afterglow ASMR would make one dangerous duo.

  • @Moon10216
    @Moon10216 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never thought I’d ever listen to these types of audios…but here we are.

  • @lordofthebushesrp
    @lordofthebushesrp ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Dee, your audios are some of the absolute best to put me to sleep ❤

  • @Greenbug110
    @Greenbug110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why does this make my heart melt

  • @worldstereo1100
    @worldstereo1100 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I missed your videos Dee, i am glad that you re okay.

  • @Rochey0
    @Rochey0 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay she has blessed us again!!

  • @ash-gs3qj
    @ash-gs3qj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you, its the next morning now and i slept really well

  • @iqozoid
    @iqozoid ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had a horrible headache but somehow this video made it go away

    • @XRTVanish
      @XRTVanish ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a unique and interesting profile

  • @DevilsRose321
    @DevilsRose321 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was so beautiful. Your voice is so beautiful, cuddly, sweet, warm, heartwarming, gentle, comforting, lovely, soft, peaceful, calming, soothing and very relaxing. Keep up the beautiful work.
    P.S I just realized this was posted 2 days after my birthday…. Thanks for making it a little more special

  • @ooglyboogly4048
    @ooglyboogly4048 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gang can't know I fw this
    😭🙏

  • @ZBlab443
    @ZBlab443 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just can't feel anything anymore. I don't remember what affection was like so I just try to find a mimic in such audios...

  • @postingm5comp
    @postingm5comp ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it hurts knowing nobody will ever care for me like this. it’s not like i’m ugly. i just want to be loved.

  • @thesonicenthusiast
    @thesonicenthusiast ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I came here to relax but ended up crying my eyes out.

  • @Ko-Rail7382
    @Ko-Rail7382 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've burned through at least 10 videos while drawing trains. After careful consideration with calculations so precise that a digital caliber won't be enough to check-I think I'm cooked 😭😭🗣🔥🔥

  • @Kazuya_theMishima
    @Kazuya_theMishima ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ever since Jun passed….i’ve never had rest. Heihachi gave me too much trauma to life with…..thank you, mommy dee, with this, i can find Kazama Jin and finish the bloodline for good.

    • @willfomes406
      @willfomes406 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry for your loss Kazuya. And I'm sorry about what Heihachi did to you.

  • @MrAmongus1231
    @MrAmongus1231 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This with a weighted blanket makes me cry my eyes out

  • @soupcrow
    @soupcrow ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this!!!!!!!!! I have been super anxious today and this is just what I needed ❤

  • @stevenislas6459
    @stevenislas6459 ปีที่แล้ว

    Going to sleep on her lap, this is the best sleep.

  • @conduhmann
    @conduhmann ปีที่แล้ว +5

    please more mommy stuff 🙏

  • @Bbone-
    @Bbone- ปีที่แล้ว

    3 seconds in and that microphone quality I’m hooked

  • @highongas
    @highongas 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    man I thought I was the only one who listen to these hope y'all get better

  • @whiketttt
    @whiketttt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this bumbledee!!❤

  • @bill6
    @bill6 ปีที่แล้ว

    glad you’re back !

  • @J_GB
    @J_GB ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i hope so bad to have someone like this at some point in my life im literally begging

  • @ohyesacreativone7250
    @ohyesacreativone7250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10 seconds in i already am crying

  • @momentarymalaise
    @momentarymalaise ปีที่แล้ว

    this is amazing and perfect and everything 🥲

  • @grandadmiralthrawn.gaming7355
    @grandadmiralthrawn.gaming7355 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Are Bumbledee Audios the cure to male loneliness ?!

  • @aimes__
    @aimes__ ปีที่แล้ว

    i wanna give you such a big hug, this is so lovely

  • @WyssonPeru
    @WyssonPeru ปีที่แล้ว

    You are saving my life tysm

  • @xi0n13
    @xi0n13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mommy dee is back for my sleeping meds ty

  • @synmade
    @synmade ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i havent cried so hard in a long, long time

  • @POEMATIX
    @POEMATIX ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oddałbym wszystko, aby choć raz w życiu, chociaż ten jeden raz, móc poczuć się kochanym, zostać przytulonym, ułożonym do snu, nie marzę o niczym innym❤

  • @worldbruh1540
    @worldbruh1540 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this one was magical

  • @Light-wz6tq
    @Light-wz6tq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you from the bottomless pit of my ❤

  • @iminlovewithecstasy
    @iminlovewithecstasy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    cant let gang know i fw this

  • @bong8008
    @bong8008 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    had an ex who gave me so much comfort and words of affirmation for the first and only month we were together, we would fall asleep on call, stare at pictures of each other, and we would send voice messages back and forth because his voice was like a lullaby to me. he made me feel wanted and validated for the first time in all my years of dating. when we finally got the time to hang out and cuddle, we did exactly that. it was supposed to last three whole days and on the first he held me, kissed me, put my head close to his chest so i could hear his heart beat, called me pretty, played with my hair, and was super affectionate but the next day he just stopped. he stopped giving any hint of affection, no kisses, no hugs, he wouldn’t even let me touch him. we both consented to the kissing and cuddling the night before and he was pretty sober so i don’t think i did anything non consensual. this continued to the last day where he finally left and later that night he shot me a paragraph explaining how he jumped into the relationship and that i made him realize that he might’ve been aroace. i wasn’t blocked or anything it’s just that after he made me the happiest i had ever felt in a relationship i just didn’t feel like talking to him after he shattered my heart. months afterwards i still thought about him despite being in another relationship (which didn’t last). i thought i got over him 2 months ago but here i am, still thinking about him.

    • @kage6232
      @kage6232 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      damn...

  • @J_GB
    @J_GB ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg YES i only wish it was longer

  • @caloocanboy5800
    @caloocanboy5800 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    BRO DROPPED A BANGER🗣️🗣️🗣️📢📢🔥🔥🔥

    • @duckingpotato
      @duckingpotato 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She posted this 11 months ago 😐

  • @nathanthestrawberryshortca3765
    @nathanthestrawberryshortca3765 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Can’t let the homies know i watch this

  • @sqweeps.03
    @sqweeps.03 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel so cold and alone at night without her guys. It hurts so much. 😖

  • @WWFTagTeam
    @WWFTagTeam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the birthday present, Dee 💜

    • @XRTVanish
      @XRTVanish ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The fact that you listen to this on your birthday is sad

  • @almond187
    @almond187 ปีที่แล้ว

    Certified BumbleDee banger as per usual.

  • @symmetric_al
    @symmetric_al ปีที่แล้ว

    i wish i could find someone like this

  • @Muskuley07
    @Muskuley07 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OHHH MYYY GOOOOD. THIS IS BEUTIFULLLLLL.

  • @NaranxciaAlt
    @NaranxciaAlt ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just want to be loved

  • @ArcadeAzrall
    @ArcadeAzrall ปีที่แล้ว

    It's times like this where you lie down and embrace how incredibly alone you are.

  • @plurcamandarinabordillomad7242
    @plurcamandarinabordillomad7242 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No puedo dormir sin estos videos, ayuda

  • @boomynote
    @boomynote ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a certified hood classic 🔥

  • @Sim23.
    @Sim23. ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank I bumbledee I’ve been feeling pretty stressed cause off school but hearing you again will make me feel better thx 🌸🌟(*^o^*)

  • @benjaminchavez1614
    @benjaminchavez1614 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn I’m hella sorry to the 20 thousand of y’all that got mommy issues 😭
    (yes including me ☠️)
    Edit: it’s got a lil more than 20k views now 😭

    • @theinvinciblewinner
      @theinvinciblewinner ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sometimes I wonder if there really are girl out there who want a boyfriend who’s more like a son like we want a gf who’s more like a mom.

    • @anomaly1289
      @anomaly1289 ปีที่แล้ว

      benjamin please man

  • @thyme1
    @thyme1 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is really sweet, thank you

  • @WhimzyPrivate
    @WhimzyPrivate ปีที่แล้ว

    i need this so much idk if i can handle being an adult i barely make it through my day of high school without holding in an emotional breakdown ;;

  • @ajax4887
    @ajax4887 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Why do these videos always end...?😢

    • @Alf_onti
      @Alf_onti 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😢

  • @overlorddoge1952
    @overlorddoge1952 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish someone actually loved me and cared about me.

  • @POEMATIX
    @POEMATIX ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Całe życie tego potrzebowałem...❤

  • @slyeihn
    @slyeihn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    it'll be okay in the end.. right..?
    (no)
    [crush didnt like me]
    [school work pressure]
    {forgetting everything}
    {forcing energy out of myself}
    (bad sleep)
    ("i should kms/ i hate myself")

    • @flurit
      @flurit 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Calm down, play rdr 2 you’ll be fine

    • @funkymonkey1958
      @funkymonkey1958 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@fluritdo NOT finish rdr 2 if you wish to be happy