I don't know who you are but I am so sure Tami gives exactly zero effs about you "feeling sorry for her". Tami has been on reality TV since it's beginning and has made a name for herself outside of this genre. Did I like some of the things she did on BBW's? Absolutely not. However, Tami has found her Peace with her husband and Family and has grown leaps and bounds beyond most of those ladies. She's admitted and apologized for her errors and has moved on. I'm sure she's not walking the floor at night concerned about your unsolicited opinion.
So you decided to wait 3 months LATER to come on my brother page and say some shit? Girl fuck you and your life, you obviously have too much got damn time on your hands to sit up here and comment on something that is 3 months old. Go about your business and shut the fuck up or it can be a knock out drag out verbally or physically.
@@YourLocalHoodooLady you can get the fuck out like who tf are you to bring you stupid ignorant ass fuckn comment on here like stfu get laid and step off my brother page!
@@CatherineLatriceTheeQueen girl that wasn’t even a complete well formed sentence. Please suck a dick on your way to get the rest of your education. Like i said, men out here gossiping about women and it’s corny. Now bye
I'll say this, I don't think Tami wanted to be friends with Shaunie and Evelyn as much as she wanted to make sure her role on the show was secured. Tami was a single mother whose kids and mother relied on her income. If she had to kiss a little ass she was willing to do that in order to maintain and improve her family's financial situation
Shaunie was never a good friend to anyone. People didn't speak up against her because she is an executive producer. Shaunie would always run from any situation that would get her entangled. Evelyn is a liar. I believe Tami. I never liked Shaunie she always seemed fake from the beginning.
Me either! Both of them were fake and fake to each other. Don't think Shaunie didn't talk about Evelyn & vice versa...but Shaunie held all the card being ED of the show, so they all kissed her butt in some way, shape or form. Trust me!
She was not there to be friends with bitches she was getting her bag an was getting them bags to fuck a good friend. You can be cordial and have fun with people without be best friends
Tami said that Shaunie wasn't right YEARS ago, when she was still on the show. She has said in BBW confessionals that Shaunie & Evelyn weren't her friends. I think Tami played her role to continue getting the BBW bag plus that platform created other opportunities for her. I think she played it smart. I don't think she's whining or complaining about it... I think she's just truthfully answering questions in an interview.
My thoughts exactly! Tami just trying to rewrite history. She was a bully and lets not forget what she did to David on the Real Word! To be honest I've liked Tami since Real Word.
It doesn’t matter who started the mess or who throws rocks and hides hands, as a grown ass woman you’re still responsible for your actions. When you get mad with somebody you can’t mash them in the face. There are several choices to make and nobody forced you to make the wrong one
Thank you, with TAMI it is always someone's else fault. Don't put your hand up, don't call me a bitch, don't talk behind my back, TAMI DOES ALL OF THE ABOVE. Tami you are the only one that still talks about it.
Tami doesn’t want anyone to feel bad for her, she’s past that; she just wanted to get the truth out there and she did take responsibility for her part in things maybe not right away or when people felt she should have but, she eventually did and has since moved on with her life.
I believe EVERY SINGLE WORD that Tami has said about that show,she took accountability and responsibility for HER PART in what she did on the show which is why she is continuously to be blessed and highly favored!!!!
100% Team Tami! Tami is out of her contract and the gag order for this show so she can spill. Tami has moved on to bigger things in her acting and has all the success she ever wanted
Right and that's why I'm questioning why is she still talking about shunie and bbw's cause shunie don't even mention ta.i name shunie and evelyn are very good friends tami let it go and move on
Tami's whole attitude changed only after she found out Shaunie laughed at Evelyn mocking her walk. She looked extremely hurt and her entire attitude towards Shaunie changed at that moment. She became withdrawn supposedly because she wasn't about the mess any more. Clearly she wanted and felt she had a real friendship. I 100% believe she is just hurt (hence the reason she's still talking about it)
@@kokowalker8679 Tami has moved on. She is living her best life as an actress on TV. She spoke about a show she was asked about. This was only a piece of the interview as she spoke about other things
I agree. Tami played her part knowing what they were doing. Whether she was the victim or not, she was competing with Evelyn spot on the show. Let’s not forget she was coming for Duffy too. Tami not innocent at all!
17:51 Tammy was praised for bullying Meeka but attacked for "bullying" Keisha is a GREAT EXAMPLE in Pop Culuture where we actively participated in collective colorism. The laughter at Meeka but the defense of Keisha who both experienced the very same thing, from the very same "abuser", on the very same show. Both were messy, like all of the other girls were messy smh. But Light Skin ambiguous looking Keisha was seen as defenseless for a purse versus Dark Skin Meeka getting laughed at for getting physically violated.
Keisha just came off so weak and defenseless in that scene. I think that's the difference but Tami was right that if we saw the clips shaunie showed her of Keisha talking all that shit about her then most people probably would have looked at things differently.
@@DChillen2011 Keisha did not lmaoo. That is bias....we are made to look at lighter skinned women to be "softer" then dark skin woman. Keisha was a shit talker that didn't know the producers were going to air her out for a storyline with Tami. And they caught Tami while she was drunk. They created that moment. But she participated until she realized she could get her ass dragged across a TV screen.
@@higherprincipalities6412 no I Woulda felt the same regardless…I recognize things those kind of things but didn’t see it I that situation…can’t always use that
Right, I am glad someone said it, people act like they were afraid to tell Tami the truth, Tami needs to move on, the ladies are NOT talking about her in interviews.
@@kymberlipomerants5520 what are you talking about? If you don’t like Tami just say that instead of trying to do the most. At the end of the day Tami is only answering questions that people are constantly asking her.
@@PrettyEyesThickThighs why are YOU taking this so personally, it has nothing to do with whether I like Tami or not, it is a conversation. Do you actually think that Tami's coins are going to stop if I say what I feel? You people need to grow-up and learn that people will have different opinions, sweetie, IT IS ENTERTAINMENT!!!!
Scotty you are literally the only person I've heard call it like it is on Tammy's behavior when she THOUGHT she was part of the "popular girls" crew. I love Tammy but she was a bully and had to finally come to the realization that they didn't f with her like that. It's hard for me to feel bad for her as well. She was boohoo crying when she had to admit it on the show. I can't stand Shainie.. ugh 🙄 nothin but a big a** troublemaker
I don't feel it's about any of us giving her sympathy or her even seeking any, she's just giving one hell of a BTS breakdown of past experiences that we never really got and why things went the way they went on this aint worth a dam of a show lol.
I believe every word Tammi spoke. And let’s keep a buck. If you anything about Tammi Roman she doesn’t care if ppl feel bad for her. She gave closure on that topic. Tammi is BIGGER than basketball wives!
@@ScottyByNatureTV As you should!!! As do I! I’m never about trying to change any one’s feelings. As it’s been said “ Last week they loved me, this week they hate me. Either way I still got paid!!” 😊🥰
Speak your truth Tami , I believe EVERY SINGLE WORD! I honestly don’t think she’s playing the victim, I think that she’s being honest. She has never talked about this and I see why lol. Who wants to still be questioned about something they are being vulnerable about.
@@lovelygivan1442 well shes told that Keisha story multiple times on her channel. And it has not changed at all. She also doesnt have a track record of lying. & I havent heard anybody come out and negate anything.
I agree. I don't think she wanted any sympathy or excusing her behavior, I think she was just explaining/exposing what occurred while she was on the show. I enjoyed the informational nuggets.
I listened to the whole interview, I believe what Tami is saying. Everybody believe every other conspiracy theory about these reality shows, why not😂. I don't think Tami was looking for sympathy. She's no longer on the show so she can tell her truth. That's what she did and left it at Carlos King table. Now, I could see if Tami didn't take responsibility for her part in things or make efforts to change her behavior, but she did. And I think leaving the show helped her do that. It takes self reflection and hindsight for growth. It don't happen in those moments. Evelyn on the other hand refused to changed. Even after Fix My Life and all of that, she still refused to see the error of her ways. And that's why Evelyn is stuck with that rep today.
Team Tami she took accountability for everything good bad and ugly makes me wonder about these other shoes and what else is fabricated..Tami was asked to come on this podcast..Starting to understand what Nene was saying
Tammie should be quiet and count her Blessings. Tammie has not faced any consequences for her violent bullying behavior. Tammie opening her mouth to talke B-wives is not in her best interest. Tammie was slapping, taking Handbags, threatening young women young enough to be her daughters. Tammie is very fortunate.
This is an example of the rumors and speculations behind Martel and Sheree - the reality shows are not fully based on reality, the producers are producing, that’s why I take all of the info posted with a grand of salt
Why is it NEVER Tami's fault? Tami, was the one that always said "don't put your hand up, don't talk behind my back, don't call me a bitch" all of things that TAMI did. Even IF Shaunie showed Tami the video, it did not warrant all of that.
We as the viewers have BEEN saying for YEARS that Va'Shaundya was not Tami's friend! She was there to be Va'Shaundya's mouth piece and Pitt Bull.It finally took her several years to see it.Va'Shaundya was always going to have Evilyn's back over hers.
Shaunie knew what she was doing..Evelyn was the Beauty, so she wanted to be associated with that & Tami was the brawn & she also wanted to be associated with that as well…she a condescending culture vulture(.)
I think Tami was simply talking about how the show had some parts that was actual reality and parts where everyone knew that they had to put on a show to keep the viewers attention. She played a character; like most do when they are acting. She wasn’t looking for anyone’s sympathy or understanding. She was answering the questions that Carlos was asking her. Everyone on the show played their part and we’re well aware of what production wanted out of them.
Whether she was looking for it or not, i don’t feel it for her. She allowed herself to be exploited thinking Shaunie was really her friend and alienated herself from people off the strength of that fake friendship. Yeah l believe everything she said but l don’t care because she allowed it
Its NOT all reality!!! I know, because I've seen filming in a restaurant in DC back in Jan. and they were being told what to do and they had several takes before the scene was over! That's when I realized, that a lot of reality TV is fake! The issues may be real,but the blow-out scenes are terribly exaggerated! These castmates know that they MUST bring it,or they will not be asked back for another season. Toxicity sells!
BEST VIDEO EVER!!!!!!! So happy you someone finally held Tami and the rest of dem broads accountable. You didn't miss a crumb and touched on ALL da thangs👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This show got sooooo toxic to watch after a while with the bullying shenanigans. GREAT JOB!!!! and looong overdue😣👍🏾
Thank you Scotty for calling like it is ! The fact that people dislike Evelyn for what she’s done on tv but tami can rebrand and do shows. Tami should be glad people don’t hold her accountable for things she did on basketball wives.
As much as I agree with this, the difference between Tami and Evelyn is that you did see a change and some growth in Tami later down the line. Evelyn came back and was still the same nasty person.
The interview didn't come off as "whining" to me. It just sounds like she was answering the questions about reality tv and her time on the show that he asked her. She seems to own up to all the crap she's done. Doesn't come off to me like she wants sympathy.
I just saw that episode and the first two seasons of BBW on Netflix and I do feel like Shaunie O'Neal did set them up by telling Evelyn Lozado to "tell Tami Roman that she slept with her ex-husband years ago!!" Shaunie O'Neal told her to "please go out there and tell Tami Roman!!!" Which, I thought was very strange!!! I would have just kept that information to myself at that point! I mean, what good would that information do, but cause a GRAVE wedge between these two women??!!!
She really wasn't. She was a fragile, insecure narcissist who bullied whomever she perceived as her enemy. She's doing what she always does; lighting people up when her relationship with them is no longer beneficial to her. She's now been put on to her own thing, and good for her, and doesn't care if she torches that bridge. Not to mention this season of BBW has the worst ratings ever & it's already going down in flames. T just jumped on a hot topic to keep her name out there.
Tami did it for a check. And when she got her come up she dipped. Im proud of her for that. She is in movies meanwhile Evelyn is still needing bbwla to be relevant.
I don't 100% believe Tami, and the reason why I can't, is that scene where she tried to fight Duffy, Yeah, she amplified her personality but some of that was her.
Tami is doing her own PR work and trying to "clean-it-up". I created an instagram account (which I never used) just to comment on Tami's atrocious behavior. I have never gotten so emotionally bent out of shape over a t.v show however Tami really took me there! All of this "betrayal" by Shaunie.....I vividly remember the look on Tami's face, her expression, she looked as if a part of her died when someone told her that Evelyn was mocking her walk. Tami asked if Shaunie laughed too (along with the other women). It was that moment that Tami was "DONE" with Shaunie, clearly hurt and felt betrayed. Never mind the trash talking and mean jokes she made about others to Shaunie ALL OF THE TIME! It was that moment that did it for Tami. All of a sudden the change of heart and turning over a new leaf and not being about the mess (yeah right). If that's what it took to change her, then so be it. All of them were messy. Tami was clearly hurt, mad and upset because Shaunie chuckled at Evelyn mocking her. Tami's whole demeanor and attitude on the show changed AT THAT MOMENT. It was that moment that she became withdrawn and exited "left stage"
Exactly. She is trying to play victim after years of bad behavior. She was sitting cool as hell when she was in the mean girl's crew and was happy and laughing when brandi was fired. Now suddenly the chips have fallen her way and its oh production this, oh evelyn and shaunie this. They were ALL messy and bullies.
the bully's on the show is there cuz there paid to be! & its on every episode & season & even if the name change...like love & hip hop & all the rest.. Its gonna be fighting & shit cuz its gonna sell to the masses!😳😱
I agree. I never felt sorry for Tammy. She was a bully! Heck! A paid bully. Oh well. She got what she deserved. Concerning Royce and OG I couldn’t agree with you more. I kept saying the same thing. Why even bring them on the show. That was so cruel. But OG and Royce gave them the business and I’m sure they wasn’t excepting that.
Tammi did what she did on her own for a check! Period. Production can ask you to do something, but it is up to you to smack, fight, throw things, I am not buying it. I felt for OG and Royce
Tami is corny to me…why is this story even important? It’s like she always wants ppl to be on her side. It’s reality fking TV, so your admitting to lying about stories to keep shit going. Being malicious saying Ev slept with Shaq and Jen told her 🙄 she’s way too old for this they all are honestly. How is this interview helping her career now? I’m so over the entire basketball wives saga…
Tami you still won’t admit you did LIE , you did not say popular people. You were always on the outs. You smacked meka because she called you out on your B.S.
It was disgusting watching Tami bully the other women trying to become a part of the "clique" The ALWAYS looked down at her from day 1. It was obvious Shaunie was only using her rude aggressive behavior for ratings.. Kept an alcoholic beverage and a cigarette in hand and drunk. Tami shoulda kept the same energy she came on the show with towards the so called clique, which wasn't even all that. How u don't know what a food stamp is, let alone shade someone for having to be on them😒 Hell these days I wish I had some😂
Bingo 🎯💯 she did any & everything to be in “the circle” she wanted to be down with shaunie and Ev so damn bad I seen right through her ass from the beginning she corny ass hell & I bet she wouldn’t speak out at all if she still had their approval.
Tammi at the beginning, middle and end of the day YOU have talent. Look at how you career has blown up. Not to mention your short fuse will never allow you to go along to get along. Keep shinning!🥇🏆🌟💫⭐️
Tammie needs to STOP... no one told her to do that to that girl Keisha. I don't care how mich Shaunie showed her... her antics were purely disgusting... also, Keisha didn't even say anything too bad... Tannie was bullyish from jump and talking about that girls ethnicity. Etc... Tammie did waybtoo much. And if we all had it wrong, why apologize?!
Omg I love you ... you said all that I've said when I watched the shows... Don't play victim now as far as the situationship of the show.. you betta speak
I wish Tammi would have talked about the Shaq and Evelyn rumors and who really brought it up. I honestly believe that since she was so hurt early in the seasons that it makes perfect sense for her to drop that bomb out of spite. Especially when Evelyn came back on the show and Tammi felt neglected
Shaunie said that she and Tami were NOT friends, Shaunie said that more than one time. Tami really needs to leave that alone, TAMI is the only one of them that constantly talks about these girls in interviews, just like she is STILL doing with KENNY. Tami did know how reality TV, she was on the real world.
@@Kornbread04 it's YOU'RE, not your, but no I am not Team Shaunie nor am I Team any of the rest, I just see what I see, it is reality tv. You people can differentiate what is real and not so real, it is ENTERTAINMENT.
I'm not buying Tami's story. Because why is she even still talking about BBW when she has so much other stuff going in? And listening to her, she knew Vy'Shaundia was a snake and she repeatedly let her bite her....over like 10 years. And I still feel like she's not fully taking responsibility and she's still making excuses. Tami looked like a bully because she absolutely acted Ike one. Her MO always with the new girls was to kinda establish her dominance. She did it with Meeka, Keisha, tried to do it to Brandy and Malaysia, and finally with Duffey. So naw, I'm not sitting with Tami because no amount of money is worth your integrity
Because tami expected Shaunie to chase after her and she didn’t because at the end of the day both of them hurt each other . Shaunie was getting tired of Tami . Tami is fun but an exhausting friend. She wants to throw her Weight around but don’t want people to say anything to her . That’s not fair game. Because everyone so concerned about how Tami will react or show up. Women like Tami are dangerous. Provoking people is not okay.
Tami and Shaunie weren’t friends because there’s no way a “friend” would let you be homeless with two little girls. I liked Tami. In my opinion, she didn’t start stuff, she reacted to it. I always wanted to know why she and Ev fell out the last time. They had made up. I believe her about how production sets ppl up. They just set up Malaysia. Kesha has alllllll the mouth in the world and tried to make herself look sweet and innocent. I didn’t feel sorry for her. SN: I loved Gloria on the show because she didn’t give a damn. She wasn’t scared of them. They need to bring her and Laura back.
I know Tami said she would never EVER address any Basketball Wives-related topics again, but man, would it be a Boston tea party if she did an episode-by-episode review/reaction/commentary on what really went down behind the scenes. I know for a little while, she WAS reviewing the show each week to talk about what happened in the episodes. But now with the show being years behind her, and her really having nothing to lose, she could seriously expose each and every scene that she was involved in (..and maybe even the ones she was not involved in). 🤭
It’s not hard to believe Tami stayed so long…sometimes it take awhile to rap your mind around things before making a move. She made it, and she seems very happy.
I’m watching all the old episodes for the first time from London-as a Media Culture and Identity Scholar as part of some research. I am completely appalled by the behaviour. I’m watching a scene in season 4 -episode 13, about the bag, where Tami says Keisha is immature for not coming for her bag?? What mature person takes someone’s bag?? This is by far the strangest thing I have ever watched.A complete and utter embarrassment to “black” people worldwide. I believe that Evelyn was crying in the car because of guilt. That episode was one of the hardest to watch. All they were thinking about was money. I would never put myself in harms way or hurt anyone for views. Sickening. I wondered how was no one in jail for this level of violence on TV?
Shaunie and Evelyn was always the snake. Kudos to Tami for speaking her truth u don't need Basketball wives they need u. That's why the rating is down. It's over that show needs to go...Facts!😘
Shaunie got you Tami and Evelyn to do her dirty work Shaunie is sneaky as hell that husband of hers is gonna find out what she's really all about hello
I am also beginning to believe Jennifer with the whole scandal with Tami throwing her under the bus about Jennifer gossiping about Evelyn. Maybe there were some truth to what Jennifer was saying.
Scotty, how would you feel if someone said “ you need to be slapped” and someone responds with “yea he needs to be slapped”? Putting your hands on anyone for words coming out of their mouth. Is wrong. Fight with words.
Clearly you didn’t listen to anything l said. I said that’s how l felt YEARS ago but years later not so much. A clear example of hearing what you want versus what l actually said
I don't know who you are but I am so sure Tami gives exactly zero effs about you "feeling sorry for her". Tami has been on reality TV since it's beginning and has made a name for herself outside of this genre. Did I like some of the things she did on BBW's? Absolutely not. However, Tami has found her Peace with her husband and Family and has grown leaps and bounds beyond most of those ladies.
She's admitted and apologized for her errors and has moved on.
I'm sure she's not walking the floor at night concerned about your unsolicited opinion.
An unsolicited opinion that got you pissed and me paid. Fuck you, signed sincerely
So you decided to wait 3 months LATER to come on my brother page and say some shit? Girl fuck you and your life, you obviously have too much got damn time on your hands to sit up here and comment on something that is 3 months old. Go about your business and shut the fuck up or it can be a knock out drag out verbally or physically.
Men don’t be acting like men nowadays! Sitting around talking about and being rude to women! Smh
@@YourLocalHoodooLady you can get the fuck out like who tf are you to bring you stupid ignorant ass fuckn comment on here like stfu get laid and step off my brother page!
@@CatherineLatriceTheeQueen girl that wasn’t even a complete well formed sentence. Please suck a dick on your way to get the rest of your education. Like i said, men out here gossiping about women and it’s corny. Now bye
I'll say this, I don't think Tami wanted to be friends with Shaunie and Evelyn as much as she wanted to make sure her role on the show was secured. Tami was a single mother whose kids and mother relied on her income. If she had to kiss a little ass she was willing to do that in order to maintain and improve her family's financial situation
I agree
Nahh she was genuinely Shaunie friend lol
Bingo!
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@@emayan06 she probably was at first
Shaunie had a lot to do with a lot of those arguments, she throws rocks and hide her hand.
That part
That part
Yes she do 💯😂🤣scary ass
Yes, she plays both sides of the fence.
Yeah because it's her show so it's probley for the ratings
Shaunie was never a good friend to anyone. People didn't speak up against her because she is an executive producer. Shaunie would always run from any situation that would get her entangled. Evelyn is a liar. I believe Tami. I never liked Shaunie she always seemed fake from the beginning.
I never liked her or Evelyn
Me either! Both of them were fake and fake to each other. Don't think Shaunie didn't talk about Evelyn & vice versa...but Shaunie held all the card being ED of the show, so they all kissed her butt in some way, shape or form. Trust me!
She was not there to be friends with bitches she was getting her bag an was getting them bags to fuck a good friend. You can be cordial and have fun with people without be best friends
She had a position to maintain. She was not messy, always professional and carried herself accordingly.
@@loismartin9634 exactly shaunie is the worst of them all to me
I don't watch BBW anymore & I hate the way they treated OG. I realize Shaunie O'Neal wasn't cool.
Exactly I stopped watching it slso
Yes they bullied her like they bullied Royce
Yep, All Scripted! All scripted!! 👍🏾
Yeah that was the last season I watched as well!!!
OG WAS THE FREAKING BULLY
Tami said that Shaunie wasn't right YEARS ago, when she was still on the show. She has said in BBW confessionals that Shaunie & Evelyn weren't her friends.
I think Tami played her role to continue getting the BBW bag plus that platform created other opportunities for her. I think she played it smart.
I don't think she's whining or complaining about it... I think she's just truthfully answering questions in an interview.
#FACTS
I don’t think she complaining …just telling her story. And since when do anybody don’t “perform” for THEIR job…I’ll wait
I love Tammie atleast she is real.
Right
Facts
I’m with you Scotty. She was 100% down with everything until the tables turned on her lmao
True!!!!
YES Tami went along with it
YES Tami went along with it
Ain’t that how it usually goes 🙄
My thoughts exactly! Tami just trying to rewrite history. She was a bully and lets not forget what she did to David on the Real Word! To be honest I've liked Tami since Real Word.
It doesn’t matter who started the mess or who throws rocks and hides hands, as a grown ass woman you’re still responsible for your actions. When you get mad with somebody you can’t mash them in the face. There are several choices to make and nobody forced you to make the wrong one
Thank you, with TAMI it is always someone's else fault. Don't put your hand up, don't call me a bitch, don't talk behind my back, TAMI DOES ALL OF THE ABOVE. Tami you are the only one that still talks about it.
Tami doesn’t want anyone to feel bad for her, she’s past that; she just wanted to get the truth out there and she did take responsibility for her part in things maybe not right away or when people felt she should have but, she eventually did and has since moved on with her life.
I believe EVERY SINGLE WORD that Tami has said about that show,she took accountability and responsibility for HER PART in what she did on the show which is why she is continuously to be blessed and highly favored!!!!
Your statement was very well wrote.
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Exactly. He wasn’t listening. only to respond.
Right, Tami said this is THE LAST time she'd discuss BBWs and she left it all on the table and accepted her parts in the fuckery
The way she did Royce was heartbreaking. Royce really liked Tami!
I thought they said they were still friends ?
Royce wasn’t scared of Tami! She stood her ground.
@@RealNaturalHairGuru Not the way they use to be. When Tami threw her over for Vashondya & Evelyn.
100% Team Tami! Tami is out of her contract and the gag order for this show so she can spill. Tami has moved on to bigger things in her acting and has all the success she ever wanted
Right and that's why I'm questioning why is she still talking about shunie and bbw's cause shunie don't even mention ta.i name shunie and evelyn are very good friends tami let it go and move on
Tami's whole attitude changed only after she found out Shaunie laughed at Evelyn mocking her walk. She looked extremely hurt and her entire attitude towards Shaunie changed at that moment. She became withdrawn supposedly because she wasn't about the mess any more. Clearly she wanted and felt she had a real friendship. I 100% believe she is just hurt (hence the reason she's still talking about it)
@@kokowalker8679 Tami has moved on. She is living her best life as an actress on TV. She spoke about a show she was asked about. This was only a piece of the interview as she spoke about other things
Yea I don’t understand why he keeps say8ng he doesn’t feel sorry for she isn’t asking for that, where s OG
Yes and I love Haus of vicious
I agree. Tami played her part knowing what they were doing. Whether she was the victim or not, she was competing with Evelyn spot on the show. Let’s not forget she was coming for Duffy too. Tami not innocent at all!
Tammy was a Puppet on a string and Shawnee controlled the string with Evelyn on the side rooting it on
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17:51 Tammy was praised for bullying Meeka but attacked for "bullying" Keisha is a GREAT EXAMPLE in Pop Culuture where we actively participated in collective colorism. The laughter at Meeka but the defense of Keisha who both experienced the very same thing, from the very same "abuser", on the very same show. Both were messy, like all of the other girls were messy smh. But Light Skin ambiguous looking Keisha was seen as defenseless for a purse versus Dark Skin Meeka getting laughed at for getting physically violated.
Very good point.
Keisha just came off so weak and defenseless in that scene. I think that's the difference but Tami was right that if we saw the clips shaunie showed her of Keisha talking all that shit about her then most people probably would have looked at things differently.
@@DChillen2011 Keisha did not lmaoo. That is bias....we are made to look at lighter skinned women to be "softer" then dark skin woman.
Keisha was a shit talker that didn't know the producers were going to air her out for a storyline with Tami. And they caught Tami while she was drunk. They created that moment.
But she participated until she realized she could get her ass dragged across a TV screen.
@@higherprincipalities6412 no I Woulda felt the same regardless…I recognize things those kind of things but didn’t see it I that situation…can’t always use that
Meka wasn’t lying and Tami still making excuses. Tami was dying to be in the clique and insecure about it trying to impress Evelyn Shaunie and Jen
Meeka isn’t exactly a person to believe. SHE herself was dying to be down with Shaunie, Evelyn, and Jen
Right, I am glad someone said it, people act like they were afraid to tell Tami the truth, Tami needs to move on, the ladies are NOT talking about her in interviews.
@@kaipena3515 yes, Meeka did, but she was telling the truth about Tami.
@@kymberlipomerants5520 what are you talking about? If you don’t like Tami just say that instead of trying to do the most. At the end of the day Tami is only answering questions that people are constantly asking her.
@@PrettyEyesThickThighs why are YOU taking this so personally, it has nothing to do with whether I like Tami or not, it is a conversation. Do you actually think that Tami's coins are going to stop if I say what I feel? You people need to grow-up and learn that people will have different opinions, sweetie, IT IS ENTERTAINMENT!!!!
Scotty you are literally the only person I've heard call it like it is on Tammy's behavior when she THOUGHT she was part of the "popular girls" crew. I love Tammy but she was a bully and had to finally come to the realization that they didn't f with her like that. It's hard for me to feel bad for her as well. She was boohoo crying when she had to admit it on the show. I can't stand Shainie.. ugh 🙄 nothin but a big a** troublemaker
I don't feel it's about any of us giving her sympathy or her even seeking any, she's just giving one hell of a BTS breakdown of past experiences that we never really got and why things went the way they went on this aint worth a dam of a show lol.
I believe every word Tammi spoke. And let’s keep a buck. If you anything about Tammi Roman she doesn’t care if ppl feel bad for her. She gave closure on that topic. Tammi is BIGGER than basketball wives!
Ok. I still feel how l feel
@@ScottyByNatureTV As you should!!! As do I! I’m never about trying to change any one’s feelings. As it’s been said “ Last week they loved me, this week they hate me. Either way I still got paid!!” 😊🥰
Tami is a real one & I love her authenticity!!! Her story is real!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Speak your truth Tami , I believe EVERY SINGLE WORD! I honestly don’t think she’s playing the victim, I think that she’s being honest. She has never talked about this and I see why lol. Who wants to still be questioned about something they are being vulnerable about.
And people are weird, first it’s a bunch of questions why she left the show, then it’s “Tami needs to get over it”
@@TiaNichole17 EXACTLYYYYYYY
She spoke her Truth. But is she telling the Truth?
@@lovelygivan1442 well shes told that Keisha story multiple times on her channel. And it has not changed at all. She also doesnt have a track record of lying. & I havent heard anybody come out and negate anything.
I agree. I don't think she wanted any sympathy or excusing her behavior, I think she was just explaining/exposing what occurred while she was on the show. I enjoyed the informational nuggets.
OG ended all that bullshit…she was ready to kick all they ass(.) …y’all see how Tami became her friend real quick cuz she knew she couldn’t bully her
I listened to the whole interview, I believe what Tami is saying. Everybody believe every other conspiracy theory about these reality shows, why not😂. I don't think Tami was looking for sympathy. She's no longer on the show so she can tell her truth. That's what she did and left it at Carlos King table. Now, I could see if Tami didn't take responsibility for her part in things or make efforts to change her behavior, but she did. And I think leaving the show helped her do that. It takes self reflection and hindsight for growth. It don't happen in those moments. Evelyn on the other hand refused to changed. Even after Fix My Life and all of that, she still refused to see the error of her ways. And that's why Evelyn is stuck with that rep today.
I just made the same points lol.
Team Tami she took accountability for everything good bad and ugly makes me wonder about these other shoes and what else is fabricated..Tami was asked to come on this podcast..Starting to understand what Nene was saying
Be Team yourself.
@@autumn_b905 if the video was ABOUT ME i would be team myself but since I had time like you do .. I voiced my opinion.. 😬
Tami moved on and I'm happy she let it all go and didn't look back. She told her truth and that's all she can do.
Tammie should be quiet and count her Blessings. Tammie has not faced any consequences for her violent bullying behavior. Tammie opening her mouth to talke B-wives is not in her best interest. Tammie was slapping, taking Handbags, threatening young women young enough to be her daughters. Tammie is very fortunate.
Exactly!!!
Girl pipe down, she's only answering the questions she's being asked
Right
Tami just told u it was asked of her and it was scripted for the show. I believe her💯
Tammi is trying to clean up
Her image for her career. Tammi was always a mean girl. She is trying to say that a lot of her actions were scripted.
So this explains Jackie’s crazy tail self 😂
Shaunie Finna start a preachers wife reality show
Who is Shaunie Finna?
@@ladiesfirst4715 Lmaoooooo
Been done before and didn't last
Please don’t 😩
This is an example of the rumors and speculations behind Martel and Sheree - the reality shows are not fully based on reality, the producers are producing, that’s why I take all of the info posted with a grand of salt
Why is it NEVER Tami's fault? Tami, was the one that always said "don't put your hand up, don't talk behind my back, don't call me a bitch" all of things that TAMI did. Even IF Shaunie showed Tami the video, it did not warrant all of that.
She did take accountability an said she was wrong and apologized.. did u hear the whole thing
Absolutely!!! No accountability for her actions.
Tami has always taken accountability and went back and apologized to those people what is everyone talking about
We as the viewers have BEEN saying for YEARS that Va'Shaundya was not Tami's friend! She was there to be Va'Shaundya's mouth piece and Pitt Bull.It finally took her several years to see it.Va'Shaundya was always going to have Evilyn's back over hers.
Because Evelyn was always Shaunie’s friend. She knew of Tami but they were never friends. Wouldn’t you be closer to your real friend?
@@Tee-fz4mf Va'Shaundya was a enabler to Evilyn.She never called out her behavior.
Facts
Not Va’Shaundya 🤣😂😂 never knew that was her real name
Va-who?
Never trusted Shaunie as far as I could throw her. I knew Evelyn was snake from the gate. I know her "kind"
Shaunie knew what she was doing..Evelyn was the Beauty, so she wanted to be associated with that & Tami was the brawn & she also wanted to be associated with that as well…she a condescending culture vulture(.)
Oh Jesus I can't take his voice. I can't.
Who?
I think Tami was simply talking about how the show had some parts that was actual reality and parts where everyone knew that they had to put on a show to keep the viewers attention. She played a character; like most do when they are acting. She wasn’t looking for anyone’s sympathy or understanding. She was answering the questions that Carlos was asking her. Everyone on the show played their part and we’re well aware of what production wanted out of them.
Whether she was looking for it or not, i don’t feel it for her. She allowed herself to be exploited thinking Shaunie was really her friend and alienated herself from people off the strength of that fake friendship. Yeah l believe everything she said but l don’t care because she allowed it
@@ScottyByNatureTV that’s understandable. I can always agree to disagree. I love absolutely love your channel.
Shaunie talked Evelyn into telling Tami Roman Evelyn didn't want to tell her there
Never liked Tami. Her mean girl persona turned me off.
Its NOT all reality!!! I know, because I've seen filming in a restaurant in DC back in Jan. and they were being told what to do and they had several takes before the scene was over! That's when I realized, that a lot of reality TV is fake! The issues may be real,but the blow-out scenes are terribly exaggerated! These castmates know that they MUST bring it,or they will not be asked back for another season. Toxicity sells!
True I saw something like this from love and hiphop
BEST VIDEO EVER!!!!!!! So happy you someone finally held Tami and the rest of dem broads accountable. You didn't miss a crumb and touched on ALL da thangs👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This show got sooooo toxic to watch after a while with the bullying shenanigans. GREAT JOB!!!! and looong overdue😣👍🏾
Tammy was a bully she bullied all the new girls that came on the show
Remember Meghan said she didn’t know Jackie although Jackie “brought” her on the show and it caused a blow up between the 2 of them?
I believe Tami was really like that and she did all that to boost her career. If she didn't do that she would probably not be as far as she is today
Exactly...Once she was one of the girls she was a bully.Tell her Scotty!
Tami was having a conversation with Carlos King & never whining. Lol
She simply stated many facts. #teamtammi
They treated og like that because she looked so different and was a football player and they felt she was unpleasant looking.
Thank you Scotty for calling like it is ! The fact that people dislike Evelyn for what she’s done on tv but tami can rebrand and do shows. Tami should be glad people don’t hold her accountable for things she did on basketball wives.
💯Agreed! Tami was so nasty and such a big bully. I will never support anything she does.
As much as I agree with this, the difference between Tami and Evelyn is that you did see a change and some growth in Tami later down the line. Evelyn came back and was still the same nasty person.
The difference between Tami and Evelyn is that Evelyn is a RACIST!!!
Same dislike for them both. Just nasty bullys
That’s bc Tami held HERSELF accountable for the stuff she did
The interview didn't come off as "whining" to me. It just sounds like she was answering the questions about reality tv and her time on the show that he asked her. She seems to own up to all the crap she's done. Doesn't come off to me like she wants sympathy.
I agree. She wasnt whining at all.
I always wanted to know how come there are women casted as wives who aren’t even married
I just saw that episode and the first two seasons of BBW on Netflix and I do feel like Shaunie O'Neal did set them up by telling Evelyn Lozado to "tell Tami Roman that she slept with her ex-husband years ago!!" Shaunie O'Neal told her to "please go out there and tell Tami Roman!!!" Which, I thought was very strange!!! I would have just kept that information to myself at that point! I mean, what good would that information do, but cause a GRAVE wedge between these two women??!!!
Tammy is not a nice person. Why? Is she talking about this now.
She really wasn't. She was a fragile, insecure narcissist who bullied whomever she perceived as her enemy. She's doing what she always does; lighting people up when her relationship with them is no longer beneficial to her. She's now been put on to her own thing, and good for her, and doesn't care if she torches that bridge. Not to mention this season of BBW has the worst ratings ever & it's already going down in flames. T just jumped on a hot topic to keep her name out there.
Most of the women on that show are horrible!
Just like Brandi said, it’s everyone’s’ fault including the dog’s fault for Tami’s behavior, except Tami herself
They definitely treated Royce and OG differently because of their appearances 100%
I knew it was Shaunie being messy. I noticed every time an incident occurred Shaunie was there in the midst of it.
Misery loves company. Meanwhile Shaunie is enjoying her new husband while the grinch looks like she’s drying up.
Tami did it for a check. And when she got her come up she dipped. Im proud of her for that. She is in movies meanwhile Evelyn is still needing bbwla to be relevant.
This is so old and tired. Why is she still going on about it years later it's weird.
It's a interview hun.....Carlos asked her the questions and Tami responded.....
@@LaughingGemini thank you... people act like they are so above it but be the main ones listening to ever word.
@@LaughingGemini exactly
@@rudeness3789 right
@@LaughingGemini and she can decline to answer hun it's been years she's been answering move on!
Always team Tami 💯‼️
I don't 100% believe Tami, and the reason why I can't, is that scene where she tried to fight Duffy, Yeah, she amplified her personality but some of that was her.
I can't stand Shaunie and her nostrils 😂
Tami is doing her own PR work and trying to "clean-it-up". I created an instagram account (which I never used) just to comment on Tami's atrocious behavior. I have never gotten so emotionally bent out of shape over a t.v show however Tami really took me there! All of this "betrayal" by Shaunie.....I vividly remember the look on Tami's face, her expression, she looked as if a part of her died when someone told her that Evelyn was mocking her walk. Tami asked if Shaunie laughed too (along with the other women). It was that moment that Tami was "DONE" with Shaunie, clearly hurt and felt betrayed. Never mind the trash talking and mean jokes she made about others to Shaunie ALL OF THE TIME! It was that moment that did it for Tami. All of a sudden the change of heart and turning over a new leaf and not being about the mess (yeah right). If that's what it took to change her, then so be it. All of them were messy. Tami was clearly hurt, mad and upset because Shaunie chuckled at Evelyn mocking her. Tami's whole demeanor and attitude on the show changed AT THAT MOMENT. It was that moment that she became withdrawn and exited "left stage"
Preach,🙏👍👍👍
Exactly. She is trying to play victim after years of bad behavior. She was sitting cool as hell when she was in the mean girl's crew and was happy and laughing when brandi was fired. Now suddenly the chips have fallen her way and its oh production this, oh evelyn and shaunie this. They were ALL messy and bullies.
You know something cuz everything was cool up until that rumor came about with Shaq and the relationship between Evelyn & shaunie
That was the moment for sure.
THANK YOU!
TAMI WAS JUST AS BAD AS EVELYN! But now she wanna call it acting? 🥴😂😂😂
Right 😂😂😂
the bully's on the show is there cuz there paid to be! & its on every episode & season & even if the name change...like love & hip hop & all the rest.. Its gonna be fighting & shit cuz its gonna sell to the masses!😳😱
So what Tami's excuse at the reunion when she was crawling across the table hollering MEEEEEKKAAAAA!
I agree. I never felt sorry for Tammy. She was a bully! Heck! A paid bully. Oh well. She got what she deserved. Concerning Royce and OG I couldn’t agree with you more. I kept saying the same thing. Why even bring them on the show. That was so cruel. But OG and Royce gave them the business and I’m sure they wasn’t excepting that.
Agree Kimmy ,Tammy is a bully!
My thoughts exactly!
Tammi did what she did on her own for a check! Period. Production can ask you to do something, but it is up to you to smack, fight, throw things, I am not buying it. I felt for OG and Royce
Agree strongly
Yes! OG & Royce were treated really bad!!!
My thoughts exactly!
Tami is corny to me…why is this story even important? It’s like she always wants ppl to be on her side. It’s reality fking TV, so your admitting to lying about stories to keep shit going. Being malicious saying Ev slept with Shaq and Jen told her 🙄 she’s way too old for this they all are honestly. How is this interview helping her career now? I’m so over the entire basketball wives saga…
Tami you still won’t admit you did LIE , you did not say popular people. You were always on the outs. You smacked meka because she called you out on your B.S.
👏👏👏👏👏
Exactly. They removed that convo from vh1 because Meeka told the truth
Evelyn slept around basketball, baseball n football associations
I’m commenting as I listen… so as it goes for the beginning, hell Evelyn knew how to keep her check 😂
Tami is lying about the Meka and Keisha stuff. I know what we saw and that’s not just production. Don’t gaslight us.
Tami was the lead mean girl and bully. She stood on it...so I am not changing my mind about it.
Cancel the show
It was disgusting watching Tami bully the other women trying to become a part of the "clique" The ALWAYS looked down at her from day 1.
It was obvious Shaunie was only using her rude aggressive behavior for ratings..
Kept an alcoholic beverage and a cigarette in hand and drunk.
Tami shoulda kept the same energy she came on the show with towards the so called clique, which wasn't even all that. How u don't know what a food stamp is,
let alone shade someone for having to be on them😒
Hell these days I wish I had some😂
Bingo 🎯💯 she did any & everything to be in “the circle” she wanted to be down with shaunie and Ev so damn bad I seen right through her ass from the beginning she corny ass hell & I bet she wouldn’t speak out at all if she still had their approval.
Before them slute evelyn shaunie Before their got rich their was poor on welfare to how them tramp got rich their marry basketball players
Why you puzzled Scotty?! Lol. She wanted those checks! Lol
Tammi at the beginning, middle and end of the day YOU have talent. Look at how you career has blown up. Not to mention your short fuse will never allow you to go along to get along. Keep shinning!🥇🏆🌟💫⭐️
Tammie needs to STOP... no one told her to do that to that girl Keisha. I don't care how mich Shaunie showed her... her antics were purely disgusting... also, Keisha didn't even say anything too bad... Tannie was bullyish from jump and talking about that girls ethnicity. Etc... Tammie did waybtoo much. And if we all had it wrong, why apologize?!
Tami should've apologized in public the same way she embarrassed her🤷🏿♀️
Omg I love you ... you said all that I've said when I watched the shows... Don't play victim now as far as the situationship of the show.. you betta speak
Shaunie was always messy period ✔️✔️
A pastors wife who had alcohol for these women like Tami to go buck wild.
Shaunie never talk about Tami after Tami left. Tami constantly talks about Shaunie . She could just say no comment and move on
I wish Tammi would have talked about the Shaq and Evelyn rumors and who really brought it up. I honestly believe that since she was so hurt early in the seasons that it makes perfect sense for her to drop that bomb out of spite. Especially when Evelyn came back on the show and Tammi felt neglected
It’s already been established Jennifer was the one who started that.
Jen did. All I care about if it’s true or not
I agree that show did not break you. Tammi keep doing your thing. Girl you are a Rock Star. A little twinkles are always going to be jealous.
Shaunie said that she and Tami were NOT friends, Shaunie said that more than one time. Tami really needs to leave that alone, TAMI is the only one of them that constantly talks about these girls in interviews, just like she is STILL doing with KENNY. Tami did know how reality TV, she was on the real world.
They ask her questions and she answering them. What’s wrong with that? Shaunie phony af.
@@Kornbread04 u won't get what I tried to convey, so let's leave it alone.
Whatever I see your team Shaunie. We will never agree so it’s all good.☺️
@@Kornbread04 it's YOU'RE, not your, but no I am not Team Shaunie nor am I Team any of the rest, I just see what I see, it is reality tv. You people can differentiate what
is real and not so real, it is ENTERTAINMENT.
I'm not buying Tami's story. Because why is she even still talking about BBW when she has so much other stuff going in? And listening to her, she knew Vy'Shaundia was a snake and she repeatedly let her bite her....over like 10 years. And I still feel like she's not fully taking responsibility and she's still making excuses. Tami looked like a bully because she absolutely acted Ike one. Her MO always with the new girls was to kinda establish her dominance. She did it with Meeka, Keisha, tried to do it to Brandy and Malaysia, and finally with Duffey. So naw, I'm not sitting with Tami because no amount of money is worth your integrity
this is the truth. Tami is a NO GOOD bully..
Because tami expected Shaunie to chase after her and she didn’t because at the end of the day both of them hurt each other . Shaunie was getting tired of Tami . Tami is fun but an exhausting friend. She wants to throw her Weight around but don’t want people to say anything to her . That’s not fair game. Because everyone so concerned about how Tami will react or show up. Women like Tami are dangerous. Provoking people is not okay.
This was a good video! Thanks Scotty!
Tami was a mean girl and a bully.
Yes she was, a big bully and she loved to fight.
Tami and Shaunie weren’t friends because there’s no way a “friend” would let you be homeless with two little girls.
I liked Tami. In my opinion, she didn’t start stuff, she reacted to it. I always wanted to know why she and Ev fell out the last time. They had made up.
I believe her about how production sets ppl up. They just set up Malaysia.
Kesha has alllllll the mouth in the world and tried to make herself look sweet and innocent. I didn’t feel sorry for her.
SN: I loved Gloria on the show because she didn’t give a damn. She wasn’t scared of them. They need to bring her and Laura back.
shaunie always was a undercover instigator
I don't think that she wants people to feel sorry for her, she's just telling what was really going on.
I like the video. Thanks for the commentary
Tami didn't ask for no one to be sorry for her,she gained wisdom an left them alone.
Meeka is not lying. They edited the part where Tami said fake or phony
I know Tami said she would never EVER address any Basketball Wives-related topics again, but man, would it be a Boston tea party if she did an episode-by-episode review/reaction/commentary on what really went down behind the scenes. I know for a little while, she WAS reviewing the show each week to talk about what happened in the episodes. But now with the show being years behind her, and her really having nothing to lose, she could seriously expose each and every scene that she was involved in (..and maybe even the ones she was not involved in). 🤭
It’s not hard to believe Tami stayed so long…sometimes it take awhile to rap your mind around things before making a move. She made it, and she seems very happy.
I’m watching all the old episodes for the first time from London-as a Media Culture and Identity Scholar as part of some research. I am completely appalled by the behaviour. I’m watching a scene in season 4 -episode 13, about the bag, where Tami says Keisha is immature for not coming for her bag?? What mature person takes someone’s bag?? This is by far the strangest thing I have ever watched.A complete and utter embarrassment to “black” people worldwide. I believe that Evelyn was crying in the car because of guilt. That episode was one of the hardest to watch. All they were thinking about was money. I would never put myself in harms way or hurt anyone for views. Sickening. I wondered how was no one in jail for this level of violence on TV?
Yea. I saw few episodes too & they all were real messy. Looking back..its all a carry a bone & ill bring it back type trouble..🤡😳😱
Tami is doing bigger and better things other than throwing drinks and stupid high school antics!!
Shaunie was behind most of that drama
Shaunie and Evelyn was always the snake. Kudos to Tami for speaking her truth u don't need Basketball wives they need u. That's why the rating is down. It's over that show needs to go...Facts!😘
Shaunie got you Tami and Evelyn to do her dirty work Shaunie is sneaky as hell that husband of hers is gonna find out what she's really all about hello
Babeeeeee, OG is nobodies victim, she literally snatched Evelyn’s SOUL!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I am also beginning to believe Jennifer with the whole scandal with Tami throwing her under the bus about Jennifer gossiping about Evelyn. Maybe there were some truth to what Jennifer was saying.
Tammy played her part, TRUE fans of Tammy know she aint no bully, she working so she seems to be good to me
I loved Tami sense the real world
Since the real world
Scotty, how would you feel if someone said “ you need to be slapped” and someone responds with “yea he needs to be slapped”?
Putting your hands on anyone for words coming out of their mouth. Is wrong. Fight with words.
Clearly you didn’t listen to anything l said. I said that’s how l felt YEARS ago but years later not so much. A clear example of hearing what you want versus what l actually said
@@ScottyByNatureTV you getting that itch again boo, I love ya but it’s that Aquarius in you ♒️ she didn’t miss understand she wants a fight.