How To Talk To Girls If You're Shy

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  • @dario5302
    @dario5302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5882

    *me flirting at school with a girl*
    Me: sooo what school you go to?

    • @xnjoe8036
      @xnjoe8036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Dario Martinez 😂😂😂

    • @plsdontbeahero
      @plsdontbeahero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Dario Martinez F

    • @kyoi7568
      @kyoi7568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Fr

    • @samirsaleem4868
      @samirsaleem4868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      😂🤣😂🤣😎

    • @Synsey-l3h
      @Synsey-l3h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Bro same

  • @itshasee7435
    @itshasee7435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2084

    Me trying to flirt with a girl
    "Dont book a cover by its judge"

    • @astorz1269
      @astorz1269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂

    • @eddygci8
      @eddygci8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That’s how it works though right?

    • @m4rt1n66
      @m4rt1n66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Don't cover the judge by a book.... Don't judge the the cover judge the book.... Don't book the cover book the judge

    • @galacticgladiator8550
      @galacticgladiator8550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loll🤣🤣

    • @tommi7904
      @tommi7904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@m4rt1n66 aight man just dont do it

  • @jotarokujo1317
    @jotarokujo1317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1339

    Girl: Wow it is nice weather today
    Me: thanks
    Also me: brain spontaneously combusting

    • @shianemi7595
      @shianemi7595 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Monkey D. Luffy brain: Initiating self destruction

    • @Jesusislord.405
      @Jesusislord.405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey same profile!

    • @arcadewinner5825
      @arcadewinner5825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This made me laugh so much

    • @ekene4886
      @ekene4886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jesusislord.405 no but your luffy got the drip drip

    • @Jesusislord.405
      @Jesusislord.405 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ekene4886 he dis must if changed it thx lol

  • @lilarabia342
    @lilarabia342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Me talking to my crush:
    "Did it heaven when you fell from hurt?"

    • @RgIIIII
      @RgIIIII 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That my friend is the best way to get a girl 👌

    • @yozura.957
      @yozura.957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      HAHAHA

    • @netmeister999
      @netmeister999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do date want go out on a you?

    • @joshuawalker8585
      @joshuawalker8585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@netmeister999 y
      Are u single

  • @yesanal1409
    @yesanal1409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1425

    I just realized How desperate i was when i looked up on youtube "how to talk girls"

    • @willbb
      @willbb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      hahahah same bro

    • @yesanal1409
      @yesanal1409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@willbb glad im not the only one

    • @dukenukem7043
      @dukenukem7043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      same!!!

    • @just_some_gay
      @just_some_gay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same

    • @winnerama7574
      @winnerama7574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Same 18 years old never had a girlfriend

  • @parikshitjog4542
    @parikshitjog4542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2789

    Was in a desperate need of this

  • @gustopher6500
    @gustopher6500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1486

    Congratulations on your engagement
    Also we need an updated shoe collection

    • @hoodyk7342
      @hoodyk7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I can't wait to see his divorce video

    • @hitmancoza9991
      @hitmancoza9991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hoodyk7342 🤣🤣

    • @edwardsoh6503
      @edwardsoh6503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@hoodyk7342 dude not cool

    • @hoodyk7342
      @hoodyk7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@edwardsoh6503 neither is getting married in your twenties

    • @edwardsoh6503
      @edwardsoh6503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@hoodyk7342 well its his choice, we can't control him, if he thinks he's ready then he's ready

  • @rakzplayz
    @rakzplayz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    Congratulations Jose. Great wishes for you and Karla

  • @Geekytech34
    @Geekytech34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    Talking to my crush
    Her: "hi,how are you"?
    Me: "thanks"

    • @ConnexRR
      @ConnexRR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Speech 100

    • @WilliamMoscato-jw4hx
      @WilliamMoscato-jw4hx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Grammar 100

    • @yo4877
      @yo4877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Quotation 100

    • @Heatwave9000
      @Heatwave9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YEET!

    • @brittanyhana7724
      @brittanyhana7724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @TylerFloydFilms
    @TylerFloydFilms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +817

    Go to hot sale lady at clothing store
    Me: “Hey have any deals on your clothing?”
    Her: “25% off everything”
    Me- “Well at my house your clothes can be 100% off”

    • @starz1265
      @starz1265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      😂😂😂

    • @cr3ation992
      @cr3ation992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Speech 100

    • @孫悟空-f9b
      @孫悟空-f9b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Pls give me your talking skills

    • @unknownguy9061
      @unknownguy9061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Epic

    • @freya2166
      @freya2166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Don’t do this

  • @michaelscott5145
    @michaelscott5145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Me: *holds the door for a girl*
    All my boys: *S I M P*

    • @Emeraldian
      @Emeraldian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh my god it's Michael Scott. By the way how's Dwight

    • @clumsycaden5708
      @clumsycaden5708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chivalry is dead since 2020 because of that word

    • @pavankumarp3240
      @pavankumarp3240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @100inchdestroyergodBull
      @100inchdestroyergodBull 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clumsycaden5708 Don't let that stop you from opening a door. People don't even know the TRUE meaning of simp. Simp originally was a word used to call people Stupid back in the day until some stupid ass kids decided to make that word a new trend. Chivalry shall never Die.

    • @mariovazquez4436
      @mariovazquez4436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hold the door for everyone lol

  • @dr.aarishali903
    @dr.aarishali903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +727

    Jose the type of zuniga to taper his engagement ring...

  • @dxdvilla7650
    @dxdvilla7650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2240

    1. Engage with strangers - cashier, waitress, ask for name, opinions. Interact daily.
    2. Build a plan - lifestyle, fitness, shyness to confidence, improve your appearance (ad, dollar shave club - ends 3:30). Everything needs to be planned.
    3. Practice in front of the mirror - look at yourself and try to have a conversation with you, see gestures, facial expressions and adjust.
    4. Remove thought of what's next - no one knows whats next, ask open ended questions, have 3 open questions.
    5. You aren't a fortune teller - don't second guess, no one can predict the future. (Tf is this "tip")

    • @zonefication
      @zonefication 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      7 can i have ur number

    • @cletakeover7429
      @cletakeover7429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      5 is basically saying dont not shoot your shot because your afraid you might miss.. Theres a chance you can make it if you shoot.. you miss 100% of the shots you dont take.. man up and if you really want her you gotta approach and leave no regrets of not talking to her

    • @splashpont
      @splashpont 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Trinder3467 Whose? There are two!

    • @manvir4671
      @manvir4671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Who else read this in his voice 😂

    • @sam-wm2dd
      @sam-wm2dd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He almost excactly copied the wikihow article on this

  • @You-om2zt
    @You-om2zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    Me: “what’s up?”
    Her: “nothing”
    Me: “oh nice”
    *awkward silence*

    • @Geekytech34
      @Geekytech34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      It's the awkward silences man

    • @milanemiltanjoy5612
      @milanemiltanjoy5612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      such a loser get a life

    • @Djjdjdjdks123
      @Djjdjdjdks123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@milanemiltanjoy5612 lol 😂

    • @yurine477
      @yurine477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Been there done that 👍

    • @You-om2zt
      @You-om2zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@milanemiltanjoy5612 ur watching this vid too...

  • @adrian21339
    @adrian21339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Being to shy to talk to girls is why I'm single now

    • @adwaithbabu85
      @adwaithbabu85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your age?

    • @EduardoSalamanca1960
      @EduardoSalamanca1960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@adwaithbabu85 103

    • @saartjeh
      @saartjeh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@EduardoSalamanca1960 nah he is 46,7

    • @Cashouttfrmda903
      @Cashouttfrmda903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@adwaithbabu85 300

    • @george8443
      @george8443 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I used to be u as older I get I just became better looking am 21 I just started talking to people so I can break my habit am not sky anymore but sky about asking the questions to go out even though she really into u well the reason why cause long time ago I just got rejected lol

  • @TheLifeFormulaa
    @TheLifeFormulaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Once you start approaching more girls, it gets easier every time. Keep practicing

    • @SenkaBandit
      @SenkaBandit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What happens if they don’t want to talk?

    • @hauptfachhauptfach6202
      @hauptfachhauptfach6202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@SenkaBandit happens to me with every girl thats why i dont have friends or girl friends 😖

    • @SenkaBandit
      @SenkaBandit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hauptfachhauptfach6202 same bro

    • @hauptfachhauptfach6202
      @hauptfachhauptfach6202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SenkaBandit after of years i gave up i just imagine me having friends and stuff

    • @SenkaBandit
      @SenkaBandit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hauptfachhauptfach6202 I usually just talk to people on discord or to myself :/

  • @haseebrafan2848
    @haseebrafan2848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    Do how to get clear skin in 2019
    And congratulations on your engagement

    • @paulallenscard8553
      @paulallenscard8553 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      He's legit done about five videos on that. Or more.

    • @haseebrafan2848
      @haseebrafan2848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Daniel thanks

    • @jaytera
      @jaytera 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haseeb Rafan what I do that’s sorta been working is just washing your face more often (splash it with water in the bathroom if it feels dirty). Then the only other thing I really use is a exfoliating scrub. It clears dead skin cells.

    • @haseebrafan2848
      @haseebrafan2848 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      fenris thanks

    • @jaytera
      @jaytera 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haseeb Rafan yeah and if you go over the top and do what Daniel said then you will have really good skin.

  • @chrissterpas3513
    @chrissterpas3513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Jose the type of guy to stop his wedding for an ad and then continue

    • @bassboostmusic7977
      @bassboostmusic7977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U the type of guy to take aegean macedonia and say its greek

    • @peterg.998
      @peterg.998 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      FuzeGG a salty fyromian or whatever you ppl called? Or another unhistorical whatever guy that thinks Macedonia is actually not Greek?

    • @NIKOS_GEROSIDERIS
      @NIKOS_GEROSIDERIS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Makedonia-Μακεδονία -Μακεδονός-Μακεδνός=ψηλός άνδρας=the Greek etymology and translation of the word macedonian means" the tall man" in Greek language.I think there is no debate.I could bring facts in this conversation but I am bored.Skopians are just Slavs not proud of their history

    • @cqptainbear
      @cqptainbear 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      this wedding is sponsored by: RAID Shadow Legends!

  • @shreykulshrestha5283
    @shreykulshrestha5283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I can’t be considered shy, i can talk to anyone any stranger except girls. I don’t know i just become speechless in front of girls...

    • @outking4twty650
      @outking4twty650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same here bro

    • @mikehawk9762
      @mikehawk9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I cant talk to my relatives properly

    • @mightyc3313
      @mightyc3313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@mikehawk9762 had the same problem, its mostly overthinking so try to just go with the flow

    • @mikehawk9762
      @mikehawk9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@mightyc3313 I am like hi how r u doing then I don't know wtf to say and I cant even remember their names and it becomes hella awkward

    • @lollol-ie7gr
      @lollol-ie7gr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mikehawk9762 i can relate 😭

  • @beanza_
    @beanza_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    i got this one girl in my science class and she’s kinda cute and i’m starting to like her a bit, this video kinda just told me everything i’m already doing and now i just gotta approach her and talk to her

    • @hamzasalama6639
      @hamzasalama6639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Good luck bro

    • @beefboss7712
      @beefboss7712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Same here bro. It’s honestly so tough

    • @jonathangross2905
      @jonathangross2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I just started going back to my college in person again. I have social anxiety disorder but I really want to make friendships before I graduate. I only have this semester and the next one left there. I know I have to get over my shyness and talk to people.

    • @grozniac
      @grozniac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What's her name?

    • @thatboiiijay3338
      @thatboiiijay3338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me to bro to just started school this week this girl in my class she cute I like her but I’m a little shy to talk to her

  • @veeramanikonduparthi7710
    @veeramanikonduparthi7710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    Jose please make a vedio on weight gain and daily hair cair routine please..

    • @arjhun27
      @arjhun27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Poda thevidiya payya

    • @Claymore1235
      @Claymore1235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Find any calorie calculator get your measurements and everything filled in there, they will give you approximate amount of calories to eat through out the day for maintenance, weigt loss or weight gain, continue following the caloric goal through the day and weigh yourself daily to be able to manage weight if you still lose weight bump your calories a bit more or vice versa.

    • @muhammadgaber5939
      @muhammadgaber5939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You india you lose

    • @AshOP901
      @AshOP901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pearlygate3564 Better have some lasagna 🙃

    • @teddyliketoswim6327
      @teddyliketoswim6327 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi T-series

  • @Omega_258
    @Omega_258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    *Today's ad ends at **3:30*

    • @nick1720
      @nick1720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Justin Y. Ahh here we go again another Justin "cringe"

    • @willsmich506
      @willsmich506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Justin Y. Seriously who do you watch I see you on every TH-camr I watch

    • @mitchellh-
      @mitchellh- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IT Sundae issa fake

    • @ieattidepodz4fun140
      @ieattidepodz4fun140 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You guys should check out Joey Saves

    • @mennehgambia1962
      @mennehgambia1962 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mitchellh- i got baiteddddddd

  • @the.zabrak
    @the.zabrak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +595

    4:37 earrape😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

    • @ChadTMD
      @ChadTMD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I looked in the comments 4 someone to mention this. THX YOU

    • @thomaslamar1945
      @thomaslamar1945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No it's not tf

    • @the.zabrak
      @the.zabrak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TChadio 🤣🤣

    • @Hcocali
      @Hcocali 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahahahahahaha holy shit!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tomaspetro4966
      @tomaspetro4966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *YOU CAN ASK STUFF LIKE...*

  • @praneethb8037
    @praneethb8037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    "Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and been like..damn!! I'm so good looking"
    Me looking at myself in the mirror: Oh no!!

    • @25_kylie16
      @25_kylie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Praneeth B I looked myself in the mirror lol. I wouldn't say I'm very beautiful or pretty. I would just say I'm like cute-ish in a sense. I guess it's just my eyes lol

    • @Spooklton
      @Spooklton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought the Chernobyl explosion was a real tragedy then I looked in the mirror.

  • @papoopa5800
    @papoopa5800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Over the past couple of years I’ve watched a ton of videos on grooming and style. They’ve helped me to an unbelievable extent. However, one critical flaw that persists in me is my poor conversational abilities. I hope to tackle this problem before 2020. Thanks for the content José and congrats on the your engagement!

    • @RgIIIII
      @RgIIIII 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      New problems came in 2020.

  • @MosesEmmet
    @MosesEmmet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +682

    I like the idea of starting convos with random people... it really works because it helps you have more natural convos on the spot... after awhile you will get really good at it.

    • @dagan8659
      @dagan8659 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      is training like everything.

    • @lmeonliver1864
      @lmeonliver1864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      How do I get comfortable doing it because I’ve been doing that but every time I feel so awkward and run out of things to talk about or I end the convo awkwardly.

    • @jamesmonto9562
      @jamesmonto9562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lemon Lover Keep a few subjects that aren’t shallow like family. Anyone can go on about their family and how that is. Of course, with strangers that you just practice with, it isn’t really the best to use personal subjects. And if they’re with strangers, they shouldn’t be that long, as is the case with women. If you talk for too long, it becomes shy or she friend zones you. You shouldn’t jump into it but walk into it knowing what the purpose is. To avoid those awkward goodbyes, simply say something like “Look at the time, I got to run. I’ll see you later”. Whenever asking a girl out, never end that way. If you do plan to, say something specific like “I got to ...I’ll see you later. Thursday night. Drinks at .... are on me. Wait do you remember my name ?” And by using a distracter, she’s more likely to say yes because she’s focused on remembering your name. In short, use deeper subjects, keep it nice and simple by staying calm, and end it on a good note if the conversation becomes stale.

    • @unitedhunterzz3768
      @unitedhunterzz3768 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

    • @makkoi4478
      @makkoi4478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have no problem talking to men, but not women

  • @hassanhaq3570
    @hassanhaq3570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just want to take my time to thank you for how much you helped change me and my self esteem in 2018! Looking back at my pictures from 2017, I look like a completely different person but this channel inspired me to take care of and improve myself and I cannot thank you enough! 👍

  • @dannyduncan6964
    @dannyduncan6964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It takes a long time to be confident there’s no shortcuts

  • @xing1143
    @xing1143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey thanks for this stuff man. I talked to myself in the mirror with the scenario of talking to my crush in between classes and such. I realized I had awkward poses and such during the conversation, and so I fixed them up during talking to myself in the mirror. When I was done, I felt more comfortable and confident. I am thinking of practicing this even more.

    • @limit.1554
      @limit.1554 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely gonna try this!!!

  • @spitz_official
    @spitz_official 5 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Me ready to talk to a girl after days of practice
    Me when I finally get the guts to talk to her: “He- *voice crack* -y” *face turns red*, throat so dry i can’t spit out another word. “Nvm” turns around walks and trips on my shoelace

    • @ekene4886
      @ekene4886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      F

    • @Dado609
      @Dado609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      F

    • @bumvox8795
      @bumvox8795 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I broke your 69 likes im so ebil

    • @patrikprotulipac2501
      @patrikprotulipac2501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You think all day and then just say something stupid you didn't even think of

    • @ajc2032
      @ajc2032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

  • @Ax69sxxds
    @Ax69sxxds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congrats on the Engagement brother Jose!!! I wish u happiness and success in ur relationship.

  • @Soupraaaaaa
    @Soupraaaaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    It’s not even the fact that I can’t talk to girls I just don’t know how to keep a convo going after I’ve asked every question under the table

    • @roopealho1515
      @roopealho1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Say something hilarious you've done that you loved recently and say you'd love it if they joined.

    • @jaimeduarte1515
      @jaimeduarte1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If you keep asking questions, but she doesn’t try to keep the conversation going by either asking you questions or talking about her interests or experiences, she’s not interested.

    • @roopealho1515
      @roopealho1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaimeduarte1515 Work on being the prize, make her make time for you. You can't have her in your life when she's happy single and working on her happiness and you're starstruck making her a priority when you're just the guy from that thing she doesn't go to anymore. There's no point showing her beta energy and liking everything she does when she hasn't taken any steps to get closer to you.

  • @everxvi
    @everxvi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Jose needs to teach us how to DM girls, since just writing "hey" doesn't work

    • @salmanapon5899
      @salmanapon5899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If she is interested hey will work

    • @Thechino231
      @Thechino231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just send 500 girls a dm, 50 wil respond

  • @mig_miller
    @mig_miller 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I was shy until I got a job 2 years ago. It helped my shyness and also really made me have better eye contact. Talking to a lot of strangers really does help. You build up communication skills too.

  • @NoahTheNoble13
    @NoahTheNoble13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Have you ever looked in a mirror and thought ‘damn, I look good, if only I could talk to girls’?”
    No. Not once. Never. I’m a dud, not a stud.
    Help

    • @monke4752
      @monke4752 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you bro. I wish I could talk to girls without turning red and sweaty

  • @InvestingHustler
    @InvestingHustler 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    If u have a cute puppy you won’t have to do much talking 😅

  • @Meninfluencer
    @Meninfluencer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Jose Congratulations with you engagement and Best Wishes for this year!

    • @hoodyk7342
      @hoodyk7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hes gonna get cheated on and have a divorce, he is so dumb thinking that will work out

    • @zuko803
      @zuko803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hoodyk7342 you will get rejected all girls

    • @nick1720
      @nick1720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hoody K Are you jealous of him?

    • @hoodyk7342
      @hoodyk7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Joydeb Das because im realistic and there is no way any person is actually in love in their twenties with some chick hes only been with for a couple monthes, she will cheat ir it just wont work out, and we will get some divorce videos

    • @aqfunderscore
      @aqfunderscore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aaisharashid3895 That info was on his Instagram. From what I've seen, she seems like a genuinely nice and loyal girl, but yeah, a couple of months is pretty short before engagement.

  • @lachlanattard1427
    @lachlanattard1427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I think we need a video on how to propose to a girl.

  • @Zapatozi
    @Zapatozi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Video was published in January 1, 2019.
    Still watching the video in January 1, 2020.

    • @ewin4212
      @ewin4212 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zapatozi I already mastered it

    • @Heatwave9000
      @Heatwave9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      almost jan 1 2021 still tried nothing he said in the vid 😔

  • @michaelengelmann1877
    @michaelengelmann1877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” so I already know my future

  • @wrnch-kn3od
    @wrnch-kn3od 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Main Point is YOU GOT YOUR GIRL! ❤️ Happy for ya.. 😄 Congrats 🎉

  • @codythecloutmachine3140
    @codythecloutmachine3140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Instructions were unclear, got her dog pregnant.

  • @loveyourselfbts9782
    @loveyourselfbts9782 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Always Love yourself💜💜

    • @jatingrover7050
      @jatingrover7050 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Self doubt while reaching out to girls? Watch this th-cam.com/video/WHCHLHfoG48/w-d-xo.html

  • @george5677
    @george5677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    1:38 “approach your crush”
    Yeah 1 problem, my crush already has a boyfriend...

    • @limit.1554
      @limit.1554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😬😂😂

    • @v1ncebutacowboy353
      @v1ncebutacowboy353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey, here’s the plan, we meet on a friday night behind the jc pennys, then we got to your crush’s house, but, before that, we need to buy duct tape, rope, gloves, masks, multiple mre packages, and rent a car, then we go, when we get there we climb trough a second story window with the rope, then we wake your crush and duct tape her hands, feet, and mouth, then we take her out the window and put her in the car, we speed off. Then we use the rest of the rope and duct tape to tie her to a pipe in the basement, where we feed her mre s every other day, we say she ran off, return the car, and boom you got a girlfriend

    • @rocket-spnx-1980
      @rocket-spnx-1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I swear we got the same problem mine too got a bf

    • @george5677
      @george5677 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rocket-spnx-1980 yeah and I’m in my exam year so in 5 months I probably never gonna see her again😢

    • @rocket-spnx-1980
      @rocket-spnx-1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@george5677 well this prob one of the hardest things u will face but trust me take your shot

  • @rishabhverma5848
    @rishabhverma5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    REMOVE THOUGHT WHAT'S NEXT
    APPROACHES MY CRUSH FIRST TIME
    ME : hi u are my crush let's hook up
    SHE : GOES AWAY

  • @Lewis24hrs
    @Lewis24hrs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Let's hop into the new year! Wish you more success for 2019

  • @williamghazal
    @williamghazal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My boy got engaged!! Congrats man, a way to welcome 2019💍🙏🏻

  • @thestoryofjoe
    @thestoryofjoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    0:35 Bruh flexing already about being engaged talking about ' *engage* with strangers'

    • @abderrahmane1840
      @abderrahmane1840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn Messi looks good in that juve Jersey.#messigoat#ViscaElBarca

    • @VictorTeodoro-h8j
      @VictorTeodoro-h8j 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like kevin hart in ride along 2

  • @beanienclogs
    @beanienclogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’m legit so bad at talking to girls, I’ve been trying to hang out with more recently, and it gets a little easier each time, but I was actually so scared at first.

    • @victoraraujo815
      @victoraraujo815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Follow these tips strictly, when you first see this, it's gonna look a sorta hard, but it isn't though. Go to her and look up and down, then u say "how YOU doing?". They'll automatically feel attracted.

    • @Wolverine2532
      @Wolverine2532 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Victor Araújo you want him to do the Joey?

    • @victoraraujo815
      @victoraraujo815 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Wolverine2532 don't you think it's gonna work out? Think 'bout how many girls Joey ever made out with, only using this infallible technique.

    • @Wolverine2532
      @Wolverine2532 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Victor Araújo cant argue with that.

  • @thorbenlockenvitz3686
    @thorbenlockenvitz3686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not entitely scared of her saying no, but about my School Talking about it.

    • @brfc_sm
      @brfc_sm 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @victoraraujo815
      @victoraraujo815 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There will be no one who's gonna be able to please everybody. People will always be complaining about other people and stuff. If somebody donated their whole money for charity, there'd be people saying they made it just to get some attention, while others would applaud and congratulate for their good acting. Whether things going 100% well or 100% bad, at least you can that you tried, cause if you never do, you will never ever know just what you're worth. Let people talk, they'll do it anyway.

  • @mostafashalaby6338
    @mostafashalaby6338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1 day into his engagement and he's already calling us single 🤦‍♂️ dat type of Zuniga tho ❤

  • @Dekkard5
    @Dekkard5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    How to be more comfortable talking to strangers: Work in retail. Those jobs force you to talk to strangers.

  • @SaifTutorials
    @SaifTutorials 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ad interruption from 2:18 to 3:30.
    Btw, Congratulations for your Engagement and A Happy New Year.!!

  • @prathameshaiya2146
    @prathameshaiya2146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Jose on you engagement. And secondly, I just love your jacket !! The colour is absolutely amazing.

  • @purrsolus
    @purrsolus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Sooo.. you come here often?~"
    "Uh yes, sir this is a McDonald's"

  • @ArjunKumar-bn9qz
    @ArjunKumar-bn9qz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Woah first😍💕💗🔥💞💗💞💗💞happy new year Jose zuniga

    • @zr2725
      @zr2725 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are u gay

  • @bangtan5tv910
    @bangtan5tv910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congratulation Jose you are now engaged

  • @nathan9828
    @nathan9828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Feels bad when this is in your recommendation

  • @aphilip8266
    @aphilip8266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy engagment man congrats

  • @logankluting7380
    @logankluting7380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "You're overweight? That's a problem"

  • @mr.blueshyguy3408
    @mr.blueshyguy3408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I tried to talk to this girl once and she just stood there and ignored me even though I was standing right beside her

    • @aricella5610
      @aricella5610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stand in front of her instead 😂 if I was that girl I would probably think u were talking to some else lmfao

  • @veeramanikonduparthi7710
    @veeramanikonduparthi7710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Jose congo fot yout successful engagement .. nice proposal dude.. all the best for your futurr life...

  • @jmojo
    @jmojo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Don't bring your girl around based zeus😂

  • @wockhardtsyrup
    @wockhardtsyrup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Should i start the conversation?
    If yes, then how?
    Please help this girl is so cute.

    • @toma3447
      @toma3447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Jachy just go introduce yourself. Ask her questions about her. Talk about yourself as little as possible. Then set a date on the spot. Get her number and bounce. If she try’s to reject you use a witty comeback.

    • @lilroy5438
      @lilroy5438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sebz u need hitch

    • @uncle4334
      @uncle4334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just call her Fat....Instant rage you will receive

    • @yeetsquad3813
      @yeetsquad3813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@uncle4334 thats a bad idea :/

    • @yeetsquad3813
      @yeetsquad3813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @I like colors • 69 years ago naa bad idea also

  • @devinfuego9631
    @devinfuego9631 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONGRATS JOSE !!!

  • @jonathanwynn4454
    @jonathanwynn4454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Me trying to start a conversation
    “Sooo you come here often”

    • @25_kylie16
      @25_kylie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jonathan Wynn If I was her : Come where?

    • @jonathanwynn4454
      @jonathanwynn4454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      itsdoggyok PUBG school

    • @phatballzz1792
      @phatballzz1792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I say that as if its a joke lol

  • @dc.become
    @dc.become 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Jose the type of Zuniga to tell his future wife what to wear to his wedding and how not to get cold feet. 😂😂

  • @UnboxingCouple
    @UnboxingCouple 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    How about making a video of yourself talking to a random stranger while filming with a hidden Camera,that way we'll get a clearer picture of what you're saying and learn from a live demonstration

  • @hugoobrien3073
    @hugoobrien3073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Saving all guys, once again

  • @sajwitahdub5520
    @sajwitahdub5520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me talking to a girl in class
    Also me: soo what class you got?
    🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @dionisio9845
      @dionisio9845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You gotta ask em what school they go to while your in class

  • @allthingssounds3993
    @allthingssounds3993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So u just got proposed and the dropped this video like....heh nothing special happened. Way to go Jose. We dont get any engagement vlog???

  • @gavalant366
    @gavalant366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Instructions unclear: I got a heart attack.

  • @Patrick-lp5pt
    @Patrick-lp5pt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Where to buy your jacket?

    • @JosecZuniga
      @JosecZuniga  5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      It’s a design we made for an upcoming collection dropping 4/2019

    • @emiliom4009
      @emiliom4009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Teachingmensfashion YESSSSSSSSSS

    • @kidenigma1400
      @kidenigma1400 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JosecZuniga fie shit

    • @tomswiss7128
      @tomswiss7128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JosecZuniga man, I was wondering the same thing and your answer hit me hard hahah, awesome :)

    • @MrFizzery
      @MrFizzery 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Teachingmensfashion need that jacket

  • @shaynesmith8940
    @shaynesmith8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    it really works i saw this girl at the gym but never had the courage to speak to her and also shes way out of my league. but after watching this vid i started talking to her in small amounts 2 weeks later she asked for my number and weve been texting none stop ever since. and i know im punching way way above my weight with her shes like a female god we are 1 step away from being a couple. if i can do it anyone can.

  • @yazeedhjibreel7896
    @yazeedhjibreel7896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Jose can you do a video showing how to make your hair stay stylish for a WHOLE day. My hair looks good at one point, then maybe half and hour later I have to do it again. It will be greatly appreciated if you do a video like this. Thanks! :)

  • @xandersilver228
    @xandersilver228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Him: they have a ton of grooming products for dudes
    Me: *is a girl*

    • @Heatwave9000
      @Heatwave9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well this video is for guys...

  • @em-ys8nd
    @em-ys8nd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why doesn’t it work

  • @Boss-wg8ju
    @Boss-wg8ju 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    #1 *ENGAGE WITH STRANGERS*

  • @lesegorock6156
    @lesegorock6156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For some reason I think this was my favorite video

  • @lucabalaita2974
    @lucabalaita2974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Talking to people cures shyness , litteraly worked for me

  • @mohitgoswami4076
    @mohitgoswami4076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Jose the type of zuniga to be friendly with other girls just to make her gf jealous 😂😂

  • @Patrick-lp5pt
    @Patrick-lp5pt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Who else waiting for meninfluencer?

    • @syedmuhammadabdullah4852
      @syedmuhammadabdullah4852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      brooo 😂😂 where is he?

    • @a1acran
      @a1acran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He's already here

    • @Alexander-rl1lx
      @Alexander-rl1lx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s already here...

    • @Meninfluencer
      @Meninfluencer 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL I was in The Netherlands for New Year so that’s why I wasn’t that active. Appreciate the love guys. Hope everyone had an amazing holiday season and lets smash 2019 :)

  • @crisd_
    @crisd_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Woww. Every curly guy wants straight hair but c'mon, I would love to have curly hair. Look at Jose, he looks a lot better with curly hair, and it's difficult to look better than himself (no homo)😂😂 Like if u wish u had curly hair. Plus u don't even have to style it...

    • @Snowsboarding
      @Snowsboarding 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you do have to style it, i got a perm and you still have to style it, just do it

  • @thaddeusanderson5944
    @thaddeusanderson5944 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's direct and I'm going to try.

  • @alexandrucristian4480
    @alexandrucristian4480 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did some stupid shit in the past few days. This video was more than welcome

  • @brunchboiiz2997
    @brunchboiiz2997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *loses 50lbs and then asks her out.*
    Her response: “Sorry, I’m into fat guys.”

  • @rndmpinkiepie64
    @rndmpinkiepie64 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Host: "do you feel average or good looking"
    Welp, done with this video

  • @magaara8310
    @magaara8310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    0:08 no but I have thought: "Damn I'm so fucking ugly, maybe that's why I don't have the courage to approach girls", any solutions for that? Yeah, I don't think so 😅

  • @chapstickwarrior9277
    @chapstickwarrior9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm back to videos like this. It's good because that means I'm motivated and wanna improve...

  • @dramaticexperiment144
    @dramaticexperiment144 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your engagement

  • @dannyv-cq2lm
    @dannyv-cq2lm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm above average looking but my problem is that even through I'm ok talking to anyone, I can't seem to keep a conversation 😔

    • @25_kylie16
      @25_kylie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Denilson sv Think of things related to the topic or start a new one when the current one ends.

  • @ablewarrior-pl6lh
    @ablewarrior-pl6lh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There’s this girl in my history class, gorgeous, and I’m so scared to say something to her because I don’t wanna make myself look like a loser

    • @grozniac
      @grozniac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      talk to her like a friend and slowly build confidence

    • @grozniac
      @grozniac 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      then shoot your shot

  • @hamiltonkenny629
    @hamiltonkenny629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aii boys Imma ask her out by the end of this month hopefully by the end of this week, my plan will be to make small talk during class to other girls as practice and to build confidence in keeping a conversation cuz I lowkey slack on that and once I master it then I'll talk to her in my science class cuz ik we been looking at each other for the longest but I be shy and don't talk to her been going on since the longest

  • @rayeedchowdhury8314
    @rayeedchowdhury8314 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your engagement

  • @ivantorres6173
    @ivantorres6173 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats Jose

  • @patrickernst4596
    @patrickernst4596 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well I'm screwed.....I don't love myself😓

    • @devinroebuck2311
      @devinroebuck2311 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Patrick Ernst same

    • @CL0UD143
      @CL0UD143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that's what I think at first but I love myself now cuz no one will 😅

  • @pearlygate3564
    @pearlygate3564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congratsss boii!!! I mean ma man🌚👏

  • @charlieball1707
    @charlieball1707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m ugly that’s the only reason I don’t have a girlfriend is because I’m ugly but I’m actually a kind and genuine person to hang around

  • @peytonnethery7420
    @peytonnethery7420 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    For all of us shy people THANK you

  • @gizmocrue73dw
    @gizmocrue73dw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you can go up to a girl and say hi , what's your name? Then you're not shy to begin with. I'm a shy guy who usually gets tongue tied as soon as I open my mouth..

    • @aricella5610
      @aricella5610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if you’re from her school and u know her name?