NPD Series |Ep 31| : Narcissistic and Supernova Empath
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- NPD Series: Narcissistic and Supernova Empath
Language: Manglish (a combination of Malayalam & English)
Dr Susan shares the wisdom from her therapeutic experience working with narcissistic personalities and Narcissistic victims through her NPD vlog series. In this video, she explains how a victim should develop the abilities of a supernova empath when dealing with a narcissistic person in their life. A supernova empath is a person with high self-esteem, emotional intelligence and self-esteem. They possess a balanced form of cognitive and affective empathy. They can best manage the narcissistic personalities by diffusing the narcissistic abuses. Watch the video to know more.
Dr Susan Koruthu is a multifaceted life psychologist and mind wellness coach. She brings 28 years of professional experience in the field. She speaks wisdom from the experiences she had working with individuals, businesses and over 40 nationalities.
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Disclaimer: The information shared in this video is for educational purposes only. You are encouraged to seek professional help for guidance on your specific issues. This video provides general information about narcissistic personality disorder. This does not refer to any specific person or group and should not be used to refer to anyone specific to prove having narcissistic traits or related disorders. Permission is not granted to prove any allegation that a specific person is a narcissist by using this video and related videos.
Mam ന്റെ ഈ speech കേട്ടുകഴിഞ്ഞപ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് ഉറപ്പായിട്ടും പറയാൻ പറ്റും ഞാൻ ഇപ്പോൾ ഒരു super nova empath ആണെന്ന് . എന്റെ വിവാഹം കഴിഞ്ഞിട്ട് 29 വർഷമായി.എന്റെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ ഉണ്ടായ വിഷമതകൾ ഞാൻ എന്റെ ദൈവത്തോടു ചേർന്നു നിന്നുകൊണ്ട് സഹിച്ച് സഹിച്ച് മൂന്ന് വർഷമായി ഞാൻ independent ആയി നിന്ന് husband നെ മാനേജ് ചെയ്ത് പോകുന്നു. ഞാൻ ഒരു മാസമേ ആയിട്ടുള്ളൂ Mamന്റെ ഈspeech കേൾക്കുവാൻ തുടങ്ങിയിട്ട്.Mam എത്ര വ്യക്തമായിട്ടാണ് ഓരോ കാര്യങ്ങൾ പറയുന്നത് എല്ലാം എന്റെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ അക്ഷരം പ്രതി സംഭവിച്ചു കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നവയാണ്. Mamന്റെ ഓരോ speech ഉം കേട്ടപ്പോൾ ഞാൻ ശരിക്കും പറഞ്ഞാൽ അത് ഭു തപ്പെട്ടു പോയി. ഇങ്ങനെ ഒരു program ചെയ്യുന്നതിന് ഒത്തിരി നന്ദി.
Glad that you found it useful. Thank you
I am an empath and I have been abused mentally by a narcissist. It took me years to develop the triats you mentioned above. Now I know what made me strong and confident about myself. Thank you Doc. And pease make a video about Heyoka empath.
Change the play by developing yourself as an a super nova💪
Me toooo supernpva
A month ago, a Cat came with 3 kittens at my home. From then, my narcissistic mom is busy with them. She complains often and dislikes it , asks me to accompany her to throw these cats at some market place. But at the same time, she buys fish and catfood especially for it. The boon is that, I'm relieved from her narcissistic attacks to a great extent since a month ! I must thank the mother cat ! Neither of my narc parents actually like pets , they always complain and blame each other for cats being here . I think pets can help the victims to a great extent to survive at the narc's home.
Yes, pets found to be a great tool to manage the narcissistic victimisation as well as to deviate the narcissistic validation process towards the pet behaviour.
@@DrSusanKoruthu That's so true ma'am. All talks are about the cats behavior now. I feel so grateful to it for choosing this home.
Thank you so much for your videos ma'am
But narcissist hates pets.Similar thing happened to us ( a cat with 3 kittens)
My N father in law killed them all.
Please
Help
Me
I salute You Ma'am for articulating this complex subjects in a very caring and compassionate way. I am a supernova, we are seperated as he found a new supply. 🙏
Thank you Nazeema.
Thanks a lot ma'am for your efforts❣️❣️..NPD series helps me to be in peace with my childhood....
ഞാൻ ചെറുപ്പം മുതൽ ഒരു blaming n shaming atmosphere il ജീവിച്ചതാണ്..... എനിക്ക് എപ്പോഴും doubts um confusions ഉം മാത്രമേ ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നുള്ളു......എന്റെ amma എപ്പോഴും എന്നെ ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾക്ക് shame ചെയ്യും.... എന്നിട്ട് പറയും shame ചെയ്താലേ കുട്ടികൾക്ക് ആരേലും എന്തെങ്കിലും പറയുമ്പോൾ പെട്ടന്ന് feel ആകുന്ന സ്വഭാവം ഒക്കെ മാറു....എന്നൊക്കെ
ഇപ്പൊ എനിക്ക് മനസ്സിലാകുന്നുണ്ട്.... ആ ഒരു ചിന്ത തെറ്റ് ആണെന്ന്... ഞാനും അത് വിശ്വസിച്ചിരുന്നു അന്ന്....unless നമ്മൾ ഒരു കുഞ്ഞിനെ validate ചെയ്യാതിടത്തോളം ആ kunju emotionaly strong ആവില്ല.....
ശരിയല്ലേ ma'am?
Validation, criticism, comparison, appreciation, motivation everything must be given to a child in the right combination. A parent can build or break a child. no parent has the control on what their child will become but they have control in developing a healthy ego, confidence, self-esteem, character and personality of a child.
@@DrSusanKoruthu thanks a lot mam
Very useful session today I have.
But I was very late in this narcisstis relation of my husband.
In 6 yr of subdue marriage, last 1yr, I am trying to confront that with unsafe measures.At last I fail, and return back with deep heart hurt.
I couldn't identify him earlier& during the relation.The unidentification of him made my (victims)failure. The Narcisstis identify we at the earliest time.FaceMasks of them are actually causing failure.making confusing mind also causing failure.family background of them also failure of victims
This narcisstiss concept is
a new for nowadays ladies .In a
Narcisstis spectrum, spoting the grade,how victim can ( tasteing the curry) at the begining stage of this marriage relation or other relation
Thank you so much madam🙏
Your all sessions are very helpful.If I weren't watching you, would have been in mental hospital.I am at a negotiate with a convert spiritual narc.
Yess it will help people to realize when to let go of such personality before it is too late but definitely when we give lots of love❤❤ may be they will change but by keeping a little distance so that you are not harmed in anyway
Being a Empath I'm learning now to managing the narcs . Just keep them in boundry and don't react to their rage or humiliation. Maintain cool .👍👍
Madam ur video guides a super Empath
Looks beautiful Dear Dr Susan Koruth
A good effort. Very very informative useful advice. Thank you. Continue helping to overcome such problems. God bless you. 🙏🏻👍💖🌷Got so much self confidence and strength to go forward in life managing him.
Madam what a beautiful picture 😍 you draw .May God abundantly bless you for your desire to empower the helpless Victims.
Supermove should have strong mind and sharp emotional intelligence. Yes mam what you said is correct they don't like teasing, and criticising.
Mam ,I am watching ur vedio s recently, very informative & useful. However , views r limited may be it's tittle not getting enough attention.every episode is a medicine for victim.since it's a family matter ,have to suffer lonely. Dr god bless u.
Thank you❤️
I will try ma best to become a supernova empath,
Ente father in law nalla oru npd ayirunnu
Mother in law varshangal sahichayirikkum nalla oru super nova empath ayirunnu
Very well message 👌👌👌❤
ഒന്നും പറയാനില്ല മാഡം... 🙏🙏🙏
You are great 👍👍👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
എനിക്കറിയാവുന്ന ഒരാൾ ഇത് തന്നെയാ...
പുള്ളി 100% വും മാഡം പറഞ്ഞ ക്യാരക്റ്റർ തന്നെയാ... 😊😊
Thank you Sunil
Can u do a video on addiction on narcissistic relationship. Especially sexual Addiction which cauese the trauma bonding???
Yes, I will.
@@DrSusanKoruthu thanku
Thank you soo ...much maam, for this informations.
Very good.Congratulations
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Grateful towards your valuable response.
Mam please put a video on How to attain supernova empath character.
I am struggling a lot . Heart breaking incidents. My 4 children are suffering. I am trying to be independent. Help me please....
Thank you🙏
Thanks mam lama victim
Thank you mam for your information
ഈ പറഞ്ഞത് എന്നെ പറ്റി ആണെന്ന് തോന്നുന്നു 😒✌️
Good information👍
I am Supernova empath😁😇
They will ask for making joint bank account, your property details, etc etc..ask to move from your home...try to distance you from your family...they bully you and strip you of your confidence....she has co occurring disorder and was malignant, so I had to leave.. turned to supernova...and escaped!
Practically supermove should follow , otherwise it will be failure. Naracissit should not know that the victim is attending therapy, if they come to know, they willblame us that we arenotnirmal, and they do not attend therapies. Throught their life, supermove had tobe vigilant, and act artifically, otherwise it is failure.
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Super empathetic vdo cheyyamo
Ma'am I'm living with a narcissistic husband. I need a training to be a super empath.. i know its difficult but i need it. If you are giving any online classes it would be appreciable.
Thank you so much 🙏
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yaaah
INFJ യെ കുറിച്ച് പറയാമോ
I will
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Mam...njanoru super nova empath aanu...but ente mind heal aakunneyilla...sankadam,paka,prathikaaram...iva nirayunnu...
You feel those emotions because you have not healed from the abusive treatment from the NPD person. I would suggest seek good therapy to overcome them and rebuild your life confidently.
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Thank you mam
What if he is an alcoholic also.?
Problems aggravated
Ma'am are you an INFJ? Can INFJ tend to be supernova empath? Since they usually are empaths?
An INFJ personality type in the Myers Briggs personality test alone will not make you a supernova empath. INFJ can be people pleaser, or overly caring about helpless ones. I have worked with NPD victims who are INFJ. Supernova empath is a consciously tailormade component of an effective personality.
ഇതൊരു രോഗമാണോ? ചികിൽസിച്ചാൽ മാറുമോ?
This is an antisocial personality disorder. The narcissistic persons are reluctant to seek treatment. so not possible to change such personalities. but some types are more manageable than the others.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍
🙏Ma'am, I would like to meet you in person, please let me know the possibility. I need your support/help.
You can email me on drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
yes madam,I was a super nova empath. I could mange this introvert narcisst.Getting things in my way and always with boundaries.
But my kids paid for it horribly.They became the victim and I didnt even know.Sexually and physically abused very very cruelly....So actually I didnt gain anything being a supernova empath...Anyways exposed him to whole world ....hmm poor kids, his mother also narcisst,extrovert.Also kids undergone cruel physical and sexual...father in law is another victim, he undergoes very cruel physical abuses and he was made to abuse kids...horrible...anyways my question is this even is a supernova empath is there and able to manage, are they really safe??????coz without my knowledge he used to do lots of things and pretend very well infront of me and others
I dont think your story is real.. If you were an empath,or a real mom you would have saved the children
A supernova empath will be able to handle a narcissist presence in their life. You should be able to help your kids from such abuses.
@@DrSusanKoruthu maybe am wrong in thinking my husband and mother in law as narcissist... But they project themselves as the best and manipulation in its peak... Coz not even in dreams I thought they have a dark image like this... Husband used to abuse children when I go near my parents to help who stays 3kms away and when I clean fish all, according to kids.. But I used to manage him never provoking and I used to do things in my way... I was happy for 5year without knowing kids were paying other end... Inlaws not staying with us.. Kids used to go near them on vacation... Son never revealed it, but my daughter
@@DrSusanKoruthu then maybe am not a supernova empath... I knew in mind, my husband is not as he pretends to me.. I knew his eyes is behind pretty woman.. But never never never never I thought he would sexually abuse children.. Actually I stay very closely to dysp... Like in a same compound. Even the boundary wall is not high... Even he had a shock and never believed it😁😁😁.. His wife is an advocate.. But now they have seen lots of statements and lots of supporting evidences, now he knows it's true.. He was a crime branch and vigilance dysp for many years.. I still remember him recommending my husband to someone as genuine person... 😄😄even he's manipulated.. .... Hmm what to do fate... Soooo gud, so well behaved, but true, no emotions and no empathy to people.. Just a cover up... Anyways thanks to your class... Lots of flying monkeys are created by them... They couldn't refer the case just like that... I complained to many people, president of India, prime minister, central home minister.... Omg, lots of really crazy foul plays happened in case... Anyways I don't get all the papers am supposed to get from court.. What to do my own uncle is playing.. He introduced a lawyer to me, who is another I suspect... Coz I don't get the papers am supposed to get in two weeks time even after several weeks hmmm... Even if get something also give half.. If I approach court, I think police need to answer court for suppressing materials.. In Short many enemies if I approach court... Anyways this is life... I thought am really lucky to get a gud husband, never consume alcohol, not greedy, never fight or any kind of disagreement, never talk to woman.. Always praying... Omg, and kids are saying all these...
@@luciaphilip9942 unbelievable.. Are you still with a sexually abusive father ( your husband )?if so, you are not a good mother. How can you do that. Why dont you file case and move out