Not really, she's leading him on after all, hence the confusion. Either the girl already thinks they're already in a relationship, she's avoiding the topic, doesn't have the guts to cross the line, or she's just keeping him for convenience sake. The guy should man up and confront, no point keeping it vague for so long, he'll just get hurt more if he delays it further.
@@Colopty in this very specific case she could be socially awkward enough that she’s been avoiding an answer. Though that would also make the answer she’d give unknown as she could be too socially awkward to formally reject him and turn down the dates they’re going on, or just hoping that they start dating without dealing with the awkwardness that is accepting his love. Either way, he does need to confront her about this and get an answer either way, and if she still isn’t willing to give an answer, after 3 years and going on Christmas dates, then he should move onto someone else.
@@Treviisolion ya, it's also unknown who keeps asking to go on Christmas dates, or if it's just by mutual agreement / a habit at this point lol. Nothing wrong with platonic dates, as long as it's confirmed that's what it is...
Otaku, Fujoshi, Brocon... Man is living anime life xD *"I'm not close to him"* only people who's close with their siblings can say this, so wholesome lol Yep definitely should confess to her one more time. Definitely a good advice from Suisei and KoroAzu. They're truly the love masters 🤣
Well I hope you get better at drawing too Noniki. That Suisei cringe part was priceless. It's amazing how you evolved from being initially what seemed to be a general HoloClipper to a Hoshimachi to specializing exclusively on this radio show between Sui and Azu.
Hit her up with "Are we an item? Girl, quit playing! We're just friends? What are you saying? Said there's another and looked right in my eye." cue dance and crying saying "baby baby baby oohh"
Without much more information on the two love birds, yeah I agree he should just confess one last time. I mean if he confessed before and she said “I don’t know” and then still went on a Christmas date, I would be a bit confused as well. Also 3 years is quite a while to wait for someone. Just confess again and take her answer as a finality. Any answer that isn’t “I like you too” would be a “no” at this point.
Yeah, if I were him I wouldn't wait 3 years stuck in a strange relationship that might not even exist. And if she didn't see eye to eye with him, at least he can move on.
@@hainsmades3911 Ugh, I saw too many times this happening. It's inevitable when you deal with otaku stuff, you meet some guys in similar situations. Unfortunately, for them getting strung along is waaaay more attractive than having no resemblance of a romance at all. So they cling to whatever gives them some romantic comfort, even if it's not there, but just hinted. It's very sad to see it happening
@@hainsmades3911 Lmao, a friend of mine(not me, no joking. I though he was gay at first too) also stuck in this kinda relationship except the fact that he just want that girl to pass the university exam first.😂 Truth be told, she got diarrhea last year on the exam day so... good luck on them, i guess? This long struggle as his friend has been going for 7 years now.
@@TheDorianTube They also too scared to confirm it as it might break w/e they currently have and rather let that shit state go on even though its very unhealthy.
So I did manage to come up with an optimistic possibility: she might be hoping she can find someone better but realistically she is expecting to settle and thus is trying to keep that option open. More likely though the dude just needs to clear things up so at least he can be free.
Cool story fellow hoshiyomi, but I must admit I am more into the class-rep style outfit in the thumbnail. Here is hoping we get something along that line down the road.
She goes to christmas date with you. No way she doesn't see you. At the minimum she will think of you as a close enough friend with possible romantic implication. Christmas date is a popular trope for relationship in Japan, after all. If she only see the man as a best friend situation, her "christmas date with them will be to hang at their place playing games or watching anime, at best (since these 2 are otakus). I think the issue here is that she's too shy to ever show her affection... in a way that a guy can ever understand, if you get what I mean? That or she simply doesn't know how to. I think the best way will be to do it direct like what Suisei said yeah. The answer is prob either "yes" they have been dating, or "no" bcs it turns out she forgot the guy had confessed, but from there you can just reconfess without much difficulty, bcs she's prob serious either way. If it turns out the answer is neither, and she doesn't see you that way and it blows up at your face instead... well you can just cut her off. Why? bcs that would mean all these 3 years she's been playing you around without any real intention of dating you. Confessing again directly without confirming the current status... well, if you can play it off later (in case it blows up onto your face, in a way that offend her bcs it turns she's been seeing you as dating for 3 years), then I guess it's okay? KoroAzu might see it as a roundabout, but personally I see it as being speculative. It has like 2 possible bad blows: 1) if she's offended by the confession, bcs she has answered it bfr; and 2) if it turns out like what I said before: she's just been playing with the guy. The option to confess again without confirmation basically will give the girl all the steer in the relationship. That's... not something I think the guy will enjoy. The worry of the questioner is the confirmation of his and his girlfriend's status, after all. So I think just asking it is the best way. ps.: That being said: I'm sure these 2 (the questioner and his gf) have actually been going out for 3 years. It's just that bcs they're otakus and, from their self description, are prob quite introverted. So they just suck at confirming each other's existence lol
i think the girl simply want to inspect him if he is someone good for her by holding up the confession from 3 years ago. if they go as far as xmas date, she might already have no problem with his preference on yuri and waiting for him to do the second confirmation on another confession. theres so little words in here that it can easily falls into misunderstanding
Sui-chan out here with the high risk, high return strats Is this what Japenese situationships are like tho? I’m very confused because in those three years some “relationship like” stuff must’ve happened. If none of that happened you’d know you were just being strung along and left, right? ….Right??
"Maybe she already forgot whether she said yes or no..." LOL. If it's not a BIG YES, then it's no. Poor guy got friendly-zoned. I will go for another. Don't linger too much. I think if a relationship needs confession, if not at the beginning, then it probably goes bad. When ppl get used to that distance, they usually don't break it. So get close on 1st day or 1st month, if not, no chemstry! The best thing I could say is: even otaku girls fall in love with ppl irl, but it's just not you. Move on. It's no one's fault.
When Sui-chan gives love advice I can't help but remember the "Sui-chan you have never been in a relationship so you wouldn't understand" burn lol
I need to know the sauce XD
To be fair giving that Hololive is literally filled with Otaku, Fujoshi, and Brocons her advise might be very sound.
"I learn from the mistakes of people who take my advice"
@@areskoo yikes lol...
@@areskoo Frankly that seems like a really good way to learn, all the benefits of learning from your own mistakes but without the risk.
"I confessed three years ago, but she didn't give me an answer..."
Bro, you got your answer already.
Not really, she's leading him on after all, hence the confusion. Either the girl already thinks they're already in a relationship, she's avoiding the topic, doesn't have the guts to cross the line, or she's just keeping him for convenience sake. The guy should man up and confront, no point keeping it vague for so long, he'll just get hurt more if he delays it further.
@@leon5472 Frankly, leading someone on is just a "no" with extra steps and less respect for their time.
@@Colopty in this very specific case she could be socially awkward enough that she’s been avoiding an answer. Though that would also make the answer she’d give unknown as she could be too socially awkward to formally reject him and turn down the dates they’re going on, or just hoping that they start dating without dealing with the awkwardness that is accepting his love.
Either way, he does need to confront her about this and get an answer either way, and if she still isn’t willing to give an answer, after 3 years and going on Christmas dates, then he should move onto someone else.
@@Treviisolion ya, it's also unknown who keeps asking to go on Christmas dates, or if it's just by mutual agreement / a habit at this point lol. Nothing wrong with platonic dates, as long as it's confirmed that's what it is...
"To me, an only child who's into yuri. . . . . "
*I see that Mirinano's a listener of culture as well*
Well isn't being fan of hololive basically watching daily yuri ?
Homie's living a manga style life
Hot damn.
Riajuu go explode!
Otaku, Fujoshi, Brocon... Man is living anime life xD
*"I'm not close to him"* only people who's close with their siblings can say this, so wholesome lol
Yep definitely should confess to her one more time. Definitely a good advice from Suisei and KoroAzu. They're truly the love masters 🤣
Well I hope you get better at drawing too Noniki. That Suisei cringe part was priceless.
It's amazing how you evolved from being initially what seemed to be a general HoloClipper to a Hoshimachi to specializing exclusively on this radio show between Sui and Azu.
this guy is being absolutely played move on bro she's for the streets
Right? 3 years of your attention and time
Hit her up with "Are we an item? Girl, quit playing! We're just friends? What are you saying? Said there's another and looked right in my eye." cue dance and crying saying "baby baby baby oohh"
Without much more information on the two love birds, yeah I agree he should just confess one last time. I mean if he confessed before and she said “I don’t know” and then still went on a Christmas date, I would be a bit confused as well. Also 3 years is quite a while to wait for someone. Just confess again and take her answer as a finality. Any answer that isn’t “I like you too” would be a “no” at this point.
Thanks Nonkini ❤
0:14 good name for Light Novel
Nonkini thank you for all of your hard work on these videos. Your drawings and other effects add a lot to the video.
gonna be real honest... dude sounds like he's been strung along for a long long time >>;
can he pls go and confirm the relationship status...
Yeah, if I were him I wouldn't wait 3 years stuck in a strange relationship that might not even exist. And if she didn't see eye to eye with him, at least he can move on.
@@hainsmades3911 Ugh, I saw too many times this happening. It's inevitable when you deal with otaku stuff, you meet some guys in similar situations. Unfortunately, for them getting strung along is waaaay more attractive than having no resemblance of a romance at all. So they cling to whatever gives them some romantic comfort, even if it's not there, but just hinted. It's very sad to see it happening
@@hainsmades3911 Lmao, a friend of mine(not me, no joking. I though he was gay at first too) also stuck in this kinda relationship except the fact that he just want that girl to pass the university exam first.😂 Truth be told, she got diarrhea last year on the exam day so... good luck on them, i guess? This long struggle as his friend has been going for 7 years now.
@@TheDorianTube They also too scared to confirm it as it might break w/e they currently have and rather let that shit state go on even though its very unhealthy.
I think its better if he has a closure on his feeling tbh
Seriously, even if it is a rejection at least it is confirmation.
worst thing she could say is no.
Suisei: I beg to differ
Proceeds to say, "What? ....ew... creep."
Sound like he being keep as backup plan
sounds like a new light novel title in making lol
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Brother complex? Yaoi lover?
Easy. Date her brother.
Boom. You're in.
So I did manage to come up with an optimistic possibility: she might be hoping she can find someone better but realistically she is expecting to settle and thus is trying to keep that option open.
More likely though the dude just needs to clear things up so at least he can be free.
Cool story fellow hoshiyomi, but I must admit I am more into the class-rep style outfit in the thumbnail.
Here is hoping we get something along that line down the road.
She goes to christmas date with you. No way she doesn't see you. At the minimum she will think of you as a close enough friend with possible romantic implication. Christmas date is a popular trope for relationship in Japan, after all. If she only see the man as a best friend situation, her "christmas date with them will be to hang at their place playing games or watching anime, at best (since these 2 are otakus).
I think the issue here is that she's too shy to ever show her affection... in a way that a guy can ever understand, if you get what I mean? That or she simply doesn't know how to.
I think the best way will be to do it direct like what Suisei said yeah. The answer is prob either "yes" they have been dating, or "no" bcs it turns out she forgot the guy had confessed, but from there you can just reconfess without much difficulty, bcs she's prob serious either way. If it turns out the answer is neither, and she doesn't see you that way and it blows up at your face instead... well you can just cut her off. Why? bcs that would mean all these 3 years she's been playing you around without any real intention of dating you.
Confessing again directly without confirming the current status... well, if you can play it off later (in case it blows up onto your face, in a way that offend her bcs it turns she's been seeing you as dating for 3 years), then I guess it's okay? KoroAzu might see it as a roundabout, but personally I see it as being speculative. It has like 2 possible bad blows: 1) if she's offended by the confession, bcs she has answered it bfr; and 2) if it turns out like what I said before: she's just been playing with the guy. The option to confess again without confirmation basically will give the girl all the steer in the relationship. That's... not something I think the guy will enjoy.
The worry of the questioner is the confirmation of his and his girlfriend's status, after all. So I think just asking it is the best way.
ps.: That being said: I'm sure these 2 (the questioner and his gf) have actually been going out for 3 years. It's just that bcs they're otakus and, from their self description, are prob quite introverted. So they just suck at confirming each other's existence lol
i think the girl simply want to inspect him if he is someone good for her by holding up the confession from 3 years ago. if they go as far as xmas date, she might already have no problem with his preference on yuri and waiting for him to do the second confirmation on another confession. theres so little words in here that it can easily falls into misunderstanding
Dawg look at my Hoshiyomis, we ain't ever getting a Sui-chan world tour.
Sui-chan out here with the high risk, high return strats
Is this what Japenese situationships are like tho? I’m very confused because in those three years some “relationship like” stuff must’ve happened. If none of that happened you’d know you were just being strung along and left, right? ….Right??
The best course of action is to dress like a schoolgirl.
Damn their replies have a lot of emotional damage dealt
Yo 2:08 is peak
bro got hanging
So its Wotakoi irl then, they just need to be separated and work in the same company afterwards xd
Nice thumbnail 👍
"Maybe she already forgot whether she said yes or no..." LOL. If it's not a BIG YES, then it's no. Poor guy got friendly-zoned. I will go for another. Don't linger too much.
I think if a relationship needs confession, if not at the beginning, then it probably goes bad. When ppl get used to that distance, they usually don't break it. So get close on 1st day or 1st month, if not, no chemstry!
The best thing I could say is: even otaku girls fall in love with ppl irl, but it's just not you. Move on. It's no one's fault.
can anyone make this story become an anime or a book i want to know the continue of this story
Did the girl give him choco on Valentine day? That should be a cleat hint
See, this is what's so great about relationships in Japan, everyone is either a hikikomori or living an anime life.
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Now im kinda curious if there'll be a follow up to this story
Is the outro song Ghost or Last Frontier? It's similar but not exactly the same...
It's Andromeda
0:14 are you a guy or girl? If guy, try getting into a relationship with her brother, thereby combining Yaoi and Brocon.
Big brain moves