This has already been implemented by the ones that know the drill… Well good some know it’s a valid point to use in other to get them 😅. Be grateful she spilled the tea @RealtalkwitIJay
If you're honest with yourself, you should admit that ladies hate rejection thats why they don't approach a man first. Why should a man risk rejection and his pride for an entitled ladies to have the fun and pride of rejecting him? So called attractive ladies always have out of reach expectation and opinions about themselves.
I did all this with a friend yet she said no after I took her on a date, (from my observation, I think because she thinks she earns more than me, she thinks I am broke, but in actual sense, I earn more than her but because I practice frugal living, it's hard to notice). She didn't directly tell me no, when I asked her, she said she was in a relationship, so I just backed out. But I broke all touching barriers with her, she would even let me touch her in ways that a boyfriend would but she doesn't want to have anything serious with me cuz she thinks I can't afford her lifestyle. Am 24, trying to build my financial future, so I just let her go. What do you think I should have done in this case IJ?
You did the right thing, dump her and move on, don’t ever try to approach her again. Keep her on the friend zone, just hi , how are you whenever you runs into each other
Don’t be a simp my gee, since she wants the lifestyle she couldn’t afford herself rn or can still tho, just saying, knowing fully well you can take good care of her genuinely without too much burdens and pressure when she knows you still building yourself up. Then let her go it’s all love man.
Let her go, you are the price. Mutual affection is better in any relationship, sexual or otherwise. At least for mature girls, beauty is important but that's not everything you need in a woman.
Grown women who are ready to settle down do not play these games, it's either they like you or they don't so just be yourself... A man's energy should be directed towards creating wealth, not chasing tail #Peace
Even if you haven't won relationship therapy Grammy Awards, we fans will create one for You. Ijay you are simply the Best among your contemporaries! Where I know that your talent is beyond gift is when I noticed that I could listen to you even for an hour without getting bored. I doff my cap for you for sharpening our intellect and critical awareness. Take your 👑!!!
Oga you're the only one feeling that way . She has not said anything new or extraordinary , rather she has been lifting things from other people's pages
Fr mehn I approached a 36 yrs old beautiful lady last year wit too much boldness and I was 24 lol, after couple of moments she told me my courage was top tier 💯and she trippin fr... also she let me into her space, slept in her crib 5times despite no kissing + sexual intercourse yet buh cuddling and flirting was all the time😇 So y’all learn how to flirttttt in ijay’s voice😹✊🏼
This woman makes me laugh tire I swear . She said if you are a mechanic and sees a beautiful woman go and talk to her as if her herself will date a man that’s not financially stable . Nne keep manipulating men for views 😂
Hello dear I met this girl recently, like two weeks ago and I really like her but I was scared initial, but it's as if she noticed and she just watchs me to see how I talk to her above all she makes me feel comfortable around her infact I was shocked she let rouch her the way I feel like, but my question is it possible she's into me already because she said she just wants us to be friends for now, kindly help a brother please 🙏🙏
Her disrespectful attitudes stop the approach, interest and marital blessings, not chop and go matter.. Beautiful with disrespectful attitudes will not work out. 😂😂😂😂. I will approach somebody daughter.😂
Well nice Ijay sometimes even if you're bold enough to approach her and she reject you omo that hurts differently I guess you don't know how it feels because you're a girl
What if you have made her like you and obviously she likes you and she's already comfortable with you but she's still saying No. And despite saying No, she's still coming close to you and enjoying your company. What should I do?
Lol, I am the price. That's my mentality with women, since ya'all want gender equality, I usually talk to any girl like I am talking to a friend and I almost prefer she shows interest first and then we keep things mutual, anything other than this. Not interested!
Don't you think by doing so you are actually misleading yourself. If you go for a guy who just happened to be lucky to project the kind of confidence that will turn you on, don't you think he might just want to make you one of his conquests? He might even be a man who has no respect for women, but just because he has the skills to connect with you at a deeper level and you fall for him, is that not the reason why many such relationships end up in disappointment? Think about it. If you truly like a guy who is not projecting the kind of confidence that you are expecting, I think you ladies should help to make things easier. After all you need the conference to let him attract you, but in this case you already like him, why do you have to put him through a test that will cause you to write him off unnecessarily? The truth is, in most cases, beautiful women subconsciously get attracted to the wrong men, which is why disappointment is common and divorce rates are high nowadays.
You're quite right but in our current society where poverty and peer pressure are confusing girls of this generation it might not apply in all situation. But just like you said if she rejects you for any reason, kindly move on.
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Great video, as usual! I wouldn't recommend talking to women in the workplace though 👋
5:26 you dey hypd this thing. 😂
Nice..thank u ij.. solid stuff here..God bless u and your program..
Ijay ❤ I love you so much, thank you for your deep revelations, I'm addicted to your account, keep pressing Bby your going far, we appreciate ❤
8:24 maddtt! 😂
Ijay if i take this risk, and they slap me, e no go funny ooh.
This video is awesome…I really learn a lot from it
I like the angle of the camera
Very helpful video,wow you have really helped a lot of guys on your channel
Glad to hear that! Thanks for watching ☺️
Na only you she help oh
These tricks 👏Powerful video 👏
Thank you ijay - infact I really enjoyed this vedeo but I want to ask if One don't have that opportunity to build,can he approach a girl directly?
Hello❤ you really know the real stuff
Facts
True
Ijay,u're very correct, it's an explicit fact
Ijay, you are such a star 😂❤❤😅. Thank you so much. 💖 You are perfectly right ✅️. It's so true and works. ❤❤😅. I will eat pancakes 😅😅. Thanks so much.
This has already been implemented by the ones that know the drill… Well good some know it’s a valid point to use in other to get them 😅. Be grateful she spilled the tea @RealtalkwitIJay
It was awesome, I love this video 🥰🥰🥰
Very great content. Keep it up Dear
If you're honest with yourself, you should admit that ladies hate rejection thats why they don't approach a man first. Why should a man risk rejection and his pride for an entitled ladies to have the fun and pride of rejecting him?
So called attractive ladies always have out of reach expectation and opinions about themselves.
❤keep it up I love this video
You need to start a podcast
Offset is a very fine man not average Abeg
Its possible you were male in a former life.
Hello please can make a video on how to create flirt moment with new girl
What of after going up to her and she turned you down
Like you bae .what you say is trulth.
How do you build sexual connection with her?
Are you single?
Sweetheart I got my looks on you beautiful lady ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
I did all this with a friend yet she said no after I took her on a date, (from my observation, I think because she thinks she earns more than me, she thinks I am broke, but in actual sense, I earn more than her but because I practice frugal living, it's hard to notice). She didn't directly tell me no, when I asked her, she said she was in a relationship, so I just backed out. But I broke all touching barriers with her, she would even let me touch her in ways that a boyfriend would but she doesn't want to have anything serious with me cuz she thinks I can't afford her lifestyle. Am 24, trying to build my financial future, so I just let her go.
What do you think I should have done in this case IJ?
You did the right thing, dump her and move on, don’t ever try to approach her again. Keep her on the friend zone, just hi , how are you whenever you runs into each other
@@egenabaronyou’re correct dawg
Don’t be a simp my gee, since she wants the lifestyle she couldn’t afford herself rn or can still tho, just saying, knowing fully well you can take good care of her genuinely without too much burdens and pressure when she knows you still building yourself up. Then let her go it’s all love man.
Let her go, you are the price. Mutual affection is better in any relationship, sexual or otherwise. At least for mature girls, beauty is important but that's not everything you need in a woman.
Every woman likes attention.
Better to dump her because you'd be getting nothing in return.
Grown women who are ready to settle down do not play these games, it's either they like you or they don't so just be yourself... A man's energy should be directed towards creating wealth, not chasing tail #Peace
Even if you haven't won relationship therapy Grammy Awards, we fans will create one for You. Ijay you are simply the Best among your contemporaries! Where I know that your talent is beyond gift is when I noticed that I could listen to you even for an hour without getting bored.
I doff my cap for you for sharpening our intellect and critical awareness.
Take your 👑!!!
Oga you're the only one feeling that way . She has not said anything new or extraordinary , rather she has been lifting things from other people's pages
1:35
Lo
Franklly,sister l love you because you're helping a lot population 😮😮😮
Some of these beautiful women even lack self confidence. They don't even see their self as too fine
Facts.
Hey Guys IJ is speaking the real thing, no sleep on it.
My Africans Brohers! ZOOM TO THAILAND, ZOOM TO SOUTH AMERICA, AND ZOOM TO CENTRAL AMERICA! AMEN-RA!
Fr mehn I approached a 36 yrs old beautiful lady last year wit too much boldness and I was 24 lol, after couple of moments she told me my courage was top tier 💯and she trippin fr... also she let me into her space, slept in her crib 5times despite no kissing + sexual intercourse yet buh cuddling and flirting was all the time😇
So y’all learn how to flirttttt in ijay’s voice😹✊🏼
Nice one bro
@@DivinityWonderful might clap em cheeks soon who knows.... no disrespect😹
wat are u doing..,ijay i touched her waist after watching this n she didnt resist.i joined ur tem asap
This woman makes me laugh tire I swear . She said if you are a mechanic and sees a beautiful woman go and talk to her as if her herself will date a man that’s not financially stable . Nne keep manipulating men for views 😂
Thanks as always ij
Have learnt a another........ hummm
Today
Appreciate you greatly
This happened to me Today, I saw this beautiful girl, but was so scared to approach her.
I enjoyed this video…. I’m an older man and very confident but I still could do better. Thanks.
Is not about her rejecting you, it's about her unending bill's and maintenance after she accepts
Examples of how to make her fall in love with you mentally?
@2:52 What do you expect?! DUH the CELEBS will have pretty women! They a CELEB and they RICH! 🤔🤯
This girl is smart. Ijay you are indeed my girl! This is the best video yet I like all your videos.
Babe you can spin ooo, I like that. Thanks for your encouragements.
Basically, what you are saying is, JUST FLIRT! The worst that can happen is she says, "No!" You won't die, just move on.
Hello dear I met this girl recently, like two weeks ago and I really like her but I was scared initial, but it's as if she noticed and she just watchs me to see how I talk to her above all she makes me feel comfortable around her infact I was shocked she let rouch her the way I feel like, but my question is it possible she's into me already because she said she just wants us to be friends for now, kindly help a brother please 🙏🙏
She hasn't trust you enough to be her guy yet that why she keeps you in the friend zone .many girls are like that
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Her disrespectful attitudes stop the approach, interest and marital blessings, not chop and go matter.. Beautiful with disrespectful attitudes will not work out. 😂😂😂😂. I will approach somebody daughter.😂
All this one don't concern me. My problem right now is my house key is missing.
Well nice Ijay sometimes even if you're bold enough to approach her and she reject you omo that hurts differently I guess you don't know how it feels because you're a girl
Love that topic very key ...jay you're totally right
Attracting woman is all about how the guy looks in the face , anything else is a waste of time unless that girl needs money .
Perfect I grab point number 3 ❤
Sister you are keeping it real,
I need this confidence ooo.. ijay thank you 👍
I love this video, that has been my problem I am not bold enough to ask her out most times
Cool 😎, me nah make dem 3 mistake here, thank you so much for showing dem to me, pull upp🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You sound like me lol "you look edible" my words exactly
The Best way to get attracted to a woman is to lie to her immediately you meet her
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You are teaching us how to flirt and na so ashawo work take start 😂😂😂
Who is the the pretty one between cardi b and offset?
Ijay I'm falling for you already
OMG.........................❤❤❤beautiful.
All this work. Men suffer oo 😂
Wow nice one good to hear thanks, and more grace.
Congratulations for the 100k subs
Point number one attacks me straight away 😂
How can I send you an email I am a number 1 fan of your podcast
I would like to thank you very much for for educating us and opening our eye in our relationship.
How to remedy point number 3 😊?
I dey tell you 😅, you are fucking right ..
😝 Hahaha, madam!
3:07 for this nigeria? 😂💔
What if you have made her like you and obviously she likes you and she's already comfortable with you but she's still saying No. And despite saying No, she's still coming close to you and enjoying your company. What should I do?
Pull away don’t give her attention anymore stop texting her let her chase you, let her fall for you more too build attraction
Women phobia 😢
Beautiful mama ❤️
Hi baby, happy heroes day 😘😘
The ladies kill our confidence by being over complicated. Amin.. if you really like a guy why should you make it too difficult for him?
Facts, real talk🔥🔥🔥
Thank you
You re too good
Apt
Thanks for sharing sister'
❤
Well spoken 👏
Lol, I am the price. That's my mentality with women, since ya'all want gender equality, I usually talk to any girl like I am talking to a friend and I almost prefer she shows interest first and then we keep things mutual, anything other than this. Not interested!
I have learnt a good technique from you.
Thank you.
That's a CRACKER! trust me,the third point is straight what happened in my situation. Big fan from Nairobi Kenya though.
I go for my class, if hers is above mine, it's natural to lockup unless she'll be dishing out attitudes.
Don't you think by doing so you are actually misleading yourself. If you go for a guy who just happened to be lucky to project the kind of confidence that will turn you on, don't you think he might just want to make you one of his conquests? He might even be a man who has no respect for women, but just because he has the skills to connect with you at a deeper level and you fall for him, is that not the reason why many such relationships end up in disappointment? Think about it. If you truly like a guy who is not projecting the kind of confidence that you are expecting, I think you ladies should help to make things easier. After all you need the conference to let him attract you, but in this case you already like him, why do you have to put him through a test that will cause you to write him off unnecessarily? The truth is, in most cases, beautiful women subconsciously get attracted to the wrong men, which is why disappointment is common and divorce rates are high nowadays.
When u have money you don’t go through none of this.Self care and Status symbol is very important
Can I start learning to build my charisma and confidence by talking to you, and tell you how much I like you, hopefully you will not reject me, lol
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 thanks so much for sharing,I always appreciate your vibe.
You're quite right but in our current society where poverty and peer pressure are confusing girls of this generation it might not apply in all situation. But just like you said if she rejects you for any reason, kindly move on.
IJ this is very expository an eye opener, Thanks-and Thanks
Its not that we afraid to get slapped we scared to catch a secual harassment charge at work 😂😂😂
That's not the problem women always change moods and women also should take initiative to talk to men