Eish, my ex husband of 8yrs also had a licenced gun which he bought using my stolen bank card. He once chased me with a gun all night long, I was lucky to escape
@@ketaviopinion8083 That's silly & does not make sense. Every body knows that not all women are gold diggers! However many women are hypergamous which is natural any ways.
@@sbonzama7013 😒i know that. But movements like “men are trash” bash all men. They font name them specifically! My point is we get labelled as a gender. Its facts
Another thing I don't like when you married they give advice that you should not inform your family when you have problems its a problem cos when the wife is killed her family end up not knowing what happened only to found out there were problems there're marriage and remember the in laws they will always tell you ukuthi kuyabengezelwa where else you are being abused, so please as a wife put your family at the picture of what is happening in your marriage
Dear Women please speak to someone, tell somebody, tell church, tell friends. To those that are told please please take action on behalf of the person who told you
Unfortunately church and family tell you to bekezela emshadweni ... they'd rather you die than be umabuy' emendweni and it's disgusting because they are meant to be safe havens
A female neighbor was tracked by her fiance when she attended umemulo ( traditional zulu celebration) to make sure she didn't talk to males at the function because the 'fiance' has paid lobola for the lady. The signs are there
But truth of a matter is that the only people who can get these women out of the situation is themselves as they keep going back even after talking to them as friends
Honestly ladies need to put their lives first. Those advices such as mosadi o swara thipa ka bogaleng has killed many of our fellow ladies. The moment a man raise his hand on u you , you should know one day you are going to die. How can someone who loves you abuse u.
What hurts is that I expected his "burglar" story. Even before Oscar I grew up believing those stories because as a child I didn't think someone was evil enough to intentionally shoot their gf or wife. My wakeup call was when I was 13 and heard gunshots kanti it was nextdoor, a man shot my neighbour when he found her with another man. Her 5 yo son's last picture kamamakhe was her with bullet holes. The shooter and my neighbour were not even in a relationship, it was casual. I remember abogogo blaming "ukufeba" kwakhe. Someone even sang "uzovuna okutshalile" at the cemetery. I'll never look at my grannies the same way. This is why I'll never tell my family about my molestation and sexual assault
women please dont stay in abusive relationship for the sake of keeping or having relationship your life comes first please. Iam a man and ashamed of what other men are doing to our fellow sisters.thia is painful.walk away as early as possible please.
Girls if you see a man qith a gun run for dear life why wait till there is a baby or even think of getting to reside in the same place with such a person amantombazana lathi silendima nxa ngaubebulale omunye umuntu lo sgebenga uyamvikela kusasa uzabulala wena. Its very rare that an abuser explodes on the first instance without showing signs of abuse yet we choose to be victims by showing tolerance
THE WOMAN IS MOTHER EARTH....ALL THE WOMEN ARE CREATORS AND THEY BRING NEW INTO THE WORLD AND CONTINUE TO CARE FOR THEIR CHILDREN UNTIL THEY ARE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES...
Go to your family, protect your life. If he can't protect your life, he will take it from you. Your life is precious, please don't allow anybody to abuse it. If you loose it, u will never get it back, we only live once. Contact me for support
If your partner, boss or anyone abuses you physically, emotionally, financially pack your bags and leave. Go to the nearest hospital if police cannot help you. Do not be embarrassed about being a victim of abuse. To friends and family if you see something, say something. This wifey and Boss should have said something. Victims stop 🛑 being quite. The African culture says be quite about marriage affairs. Married or not, Speak up or just run, leave everything behind and run away. POWA does not help women in rural KZN. I personally begged POWA to help me they refused to help. A man had a gun waiting for another person at the store , when do you call the police? When someone is killed? Say something,report such incidences.
You are not helpless love. You have people who loves you alot, who would do anything to keep you safe. Leave before it's too late I know you probably think he loves you but hun he doesn't but he's obsessed and manipulative.
Dineo Mokele...please my sister....get out now. Talk to someone. Even if you don't know them say something. You cannot be living in fear like this. You can talk to me if you want🙏🙏
If you want to live a happy life, loved and appreciated then Leave. If you want to die, then stay. We aren't helpless victims, truth is we choose everything in life.
Rest in peace Hlengiwe,According to my view this ladies failed hlengiwe because they already know what was happening at hlengiwe marriage but the decide not to take action
Did you just say every 3 hours women are killed in RSA..? So that means 8 women are killed daily, 248 monthly and 2 976 yearly. Report accurately please. We know a killing of 1 women is one too many. But let's be accurate so that we tackle GBV in an honest strategy
Hai iyooooo banna ha ke batle Monna ke right ke le one.kwasane boyfriend or whatever ke sharp.modimo o mphile mosebetsi ke ya I tshebelletsa Monna ke sharp.le ha o ka siya le bana ba hundred ba tla hola or wa siya le aids ke sharp re la tella mathata ke love you love you.
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Poor parents I feel for them 😭😭😭💔💔💔they look so humble
😭😭😭😭😭😭So sad I was in a abusive relationship and I quickly left before I got harmed. It's not easy to be free from abuse. May her soul rest in peace
It really isn't easy leaving glad you left in one piece
Eish, my ex husband of 8yrs also had a licenced gun which he bought using my stolen bank card. He once chased me with a gun all night long, I was lucky to escape
Eish!nkosi yam what a trauma bakithi.im soo 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 watching this in 🇬🇧
Women can't even be safe in their own homes, where did we go wrong as men 💔
my sister not all men are the same
Who's "we" count me out! Stop simping bro!
@@sbonzama7013 like it or not you all get grouped like how we women get grouped as gold diggers. Doesnt mean all men are murderers
@@ketaviopinion8083 That's silly & does not make sense. Every body knows that not all women are gold diggers! However many women are hypergamous which is natural any ways.
@@sbonzama7013 😒i know that. But movements like “men are trash” bash all men. They font name them specifically! My point is we get labelled as a gender. Its facts
As a mother myself it hurts😭😭😭😭💔
Another thing I don't like when you married they give advice that you should not inform your family when you have problems its a problem cos when the wife is killed her family end up not knowing what happened only to found out there were problems there're marriage and remember the in laws they will always tell you ukuthi kuyabengezelwa where else you are being abused, so please as a wife put your family at the picture of what is happening in your marriage
100%
True
We all know that even if she left him, he still would’ve killed her. 💔
Dear Women please speak to someone, tell somebody, tell church, tell friends. To those that are told please please take action on behalf of the person who told you
Unfortunately church and family tell you to bekezela emshadweni ... they'd rather you die than be umabuy' emendweni and it's disgusting because they are meant to be safe havens
A female neighbor was tracked by her fiance when she attended umemulo ( traditional zulu celebration) to make sure she didn't talk to males at the function because the 'fiance' has paid lobola for the lady.
The signs are there
I couldn't help but to share some tears... I pray and hope her family finds peace in their hearts to forgive
What a lovely family. Hoping they find peace and comfort with the loss of their beautiful daughter May her soul rest in peace
💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔heartbreaking. I knew hlengiwe. May her soul rest in peace.
I did as well.. through Makhosi.. what a tragic moment 😔😔
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What a sad story! 😥 may her soul rest in peace.
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What becoming of Soth African men, as a woman im really scared, may her soul rest in peace
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So heartbreaking😢😔
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We are going to loose our loved ones in the name I'm in a relationship stay home stay safe
This is so heartbreaking 😭😭😭😭
@ole Moropa, thank you so much for taking time to show your care. Honestly I need help but I jut don't know what to do
Government is not acting enough or protecting women and children .Dreadful
Then vote them out, simple!
Yhuu wakhala lobhuti😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
So sad, may they all rest in peace..
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This is sooo sad... Rest in Peace Hlengiwe ⚘
Ngenelela Jehovah
Our souls will fight in death, i felt it😭
That was so deep
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I have no words it's so sad
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May her soul rest in peace 💔💔
This is so sad..What was the outcome of this case?
Women stop taking back these abusers, and excuse yourself with they're manipulative.
I don't know if it is boldness or just stupidity, but to use the Oscar Pistorious excuse makes it even more SAD?????
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I have no words
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Breaking my hrt. Ur soul may rest in peace hlehle, ndith nixole nani zizalwane thixo abenani💔😭
ALL PRAISE TO THE MOST HIGHEST OF THE HIGH ALMIGHTY CREATOR OF ALL IN ALL OF HIS ALL..
But truth of a matter is that the only people who can get these women out of the situation is themselves as they keep going back even after talking to them as friends
I won’t share my recent lived experience but then again killing is deplorable at all levels. I thank you
He Oscar-ing this🙈😱
May her beautiful soul Rest In Peace ☹️🙏🏽
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Yizwa imithandazo yethu...
Honestly ladies need to put their lives first. Those advices such as mosadi o swara thipa ka bogaleng has killed many of our fellow ladies. The moment a man raise his hand on u you , you should know one day you are going to die. How can someone who loves you abuse u.
What hurts is that I expected his "burglar" story. Even before Oscar I grew up believing those stories because as a child I didn't think someone was evil enough to intentionally shoot their gf or wife.
My wakeup call was when I was 13 and heard gunshots kanti it was nextdoor, a man shot my neighbour when he found her with another man. Her 5 yo son's last picture kamamakhe was her with bullet holes.
The shooter and my neighbour were not even in a relationship, it was casual. I remember abogogo blaming "ukufeba" kwakhe. Someone even sang "uzovuna okutshalile" at the cemetery. I'll never look at my grannies the same way. This is why I'll never tell my family about my molestation and sexual assault
This is painful guys
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this was painful yho
Am sorry fo wt has happened
Can we please get progress with the stories
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He was sentenced to life . He was out in bail ,tracked her grave and put a grave stone that he was the husband, lol
So uthwele ngaye???
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Amadoda ayahlanya yini? Ubani ovele ashise umuntu bakithi
Not all men who can do that thing
women please dont stay in abusive relationship for the sake of keeping or having relationship your life comes first please.
Iam a man and ashamed of what other men are doing to our fellow sisters.thia is painful.walk away as early as possible please.
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YHOOO HAYI
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Uma ungasayifuni ingani yabantu, kungani ungayishiye nje, kunokuthi uyibulale!!! Umbulalelani??? Ubugwala nje lobo!!!
😭😭😭yhuuu😭😭may her beautiful soul rest in peace. This monster🤬🤬🤬🤬
8 months no 3 years hawe ma😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is very sad
So so sad.
Time is never on our side. Let's act now against women,men and child abuse.
Mmmmmmm this is sad
Girls if you see a man qith a gun run for dear life why wait till there is a baby or even think of getting to reside in the same place with such a person amantombazana lathi silendima nxa ngaubebulale omunye umuntu lo sgebenga uyamvikela kusasa uzabulala wena. Its very rare that an abuser explodes on the first instance without showing signs of abuse yet we choose to be victims by showing tolerance
I switched my mind.even nou I deploy at DRC I'm worried about my mother and my kid only.ho bohloko when you looked this thing it happened
Kwaze kwabuhlungu
THE WOMAN IS MOTHER EARTH....ALL THE WOMEN ARE CREATORS AND THEY BRING NEW INTO THE WORLD AND CONTINUE TO CARE FOR THEIR CHILDREN UNTIL THEY ARE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES...
Hlengiwe 💔 Nurse 💔 Asithandile 💔 Tshilidzi 💔 Smangele 💔 and many more 💔! Rest in eternal peace Queens!
Make me numb Lord, please make me numb! 💔💔💔
Yaaa neeh
Safa saphela!! Enough is enough!
AMANDLA AMANDLA AMANDLA::::::::::::::::::::::::APARTHEID MUST GO
What do you do when the person who is the perpetrator is your friend ? And the partner doesn't want to leave?
Tell their families dear. I actually wouldn't even call that person a friend.
Go to your family, protect your life. If he can't protect your life, he will take it from you. Your life is precious, please don't allow anybody to abuse it. If you loose it, u will never get it back, we only live once. Contact me for support
UMusa uzofa ejele but angasinda if besebenza kuhulumeni...ei my wife's name is Hlengiwe,💔💔💔
If your partner, boss or anyone abuses you physically, emotionally, financially pack your bags and leave. Go to the nearest hospital if police cannot help you. Do not be embarrassed about being a victim of abuse. To friends and family if you see something, say something. This wifey and Boss should have said something. Victims stop 🛑 being quite. The African culture says be quite about marriage affairs. Married or not, Speak up or just run, leave everything behind and run away. POWA does not help women in rural KZN. I personally begged POWA to help me they refused to help. A man had a gun waiting for another person at the store , when do you call the police? When someone is killed? Say something,report such incidences.
That's why the bible say better NOT to mary.
Better not involve 😛😜
Why did it say so?
@@sonofsoweto to keep us safe
@@armandojohanna6000 safe from who? Men?
Which bible is this
Ibuhlungu ke le😥😥
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Bebengatshatanga mos abantu.
Hiyhooooo.....amadoda ethu eMzantsi Africa bawo yini sisono santoni esi sasenzayo kuwo singamanina yini Bawo 😭😭😭🙆ulale kakuhle Hlengiwe ubakhumbule abangani bakho cc bayabonakala bebekuthanda
Ayabulala imagine usakhulula uve ngesbhamu
I see this and I fear for my own life. I'm trapped in an abusive relationship and I feel helpless.
You are not helpless love. You have people who loves you alot, who would do anything to keep you safe. Leave before it's too late I know you probably think he loves you but hun he doesn't but he's obsessed and manipulative.
Phuma cc. There organisation like POWA, the one that lady was referring to. They'll help you. They are on fb , Twitter. Itswa kgona jwale.
Dineo Mokele...please my sister....get out now. Talk to someone. Even if you don't know them say something. You cannot be living in fear like this. You can talk to me if you want🙏🙏
Awukho helpless,there is life out there without him.....help yourself kusase early or else!
If you want to live a happy life, loved and appreciated then Leave. If you want to die, then stay.
We aren't helpless victims, truth is we choose everything in life.
I worked with Mosa for 5years i am still shocked to this day
He had sever mood swings....but nothing hectic....@ work atleast
That's sad. He probably needed help himself.
I lost my little sister 3months back she was killed by her baby daddy and umbulali azange wabanjwa usengaphandle kunanamhlanje💔.
I'm really sorry💔💔whybis he not arrested
I'm really sorry💔💔whybis he not arrested
It is our justice system in S.A, he is freely roaming around
Fiance.Ngumkipito mos lowo
Rest in peace Hlengiwe,According to my view this ladies failed hlengiwe because they already know what was happening at hlengiwe marriage but the decide not to take action
How exactly did they failed her? I would like to know.
Imagine blaming the friends instead of the man who killed her nxa
Yena o kae mosadi a matha leyena oreng ha o le tjee.lerona basadi
Did you just say every 3 hours women are killed in RSA..? So that means 8 women are killed daily, 248 monthly and 2 976 yearly. Report accurately please. We know a killing of 1 women is one too many. But let's be accurate so that we tackle GBV in an honest strategy
Pistorius 2.0
Hai iyooooo banna ha ke batle Monna ke right ke le one.kwasane boyfriend or whatever ke sharp.modimo o mphile mosebetsi ke ya I tshebelletsa Monna ke sharp.le ha o ka siya le bana ba hundred ba tla hola or wa siya le aids ke sharp re la tella mathata ke love you love you.
South African Man what went wrong coz if you don't feel loved or you find someone better than your wife or girlfrnd just GO then kill me
This is sooo sad... Rest in Peace Hlengiwe ⚘