【Apple】My ex-husband might be dying and he wants me to help him. The thing is I loathe him.

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  • @bjthomas1215
    @bjthomas1215 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The first time he called me trash would have been my reason to say no!

  • @Anonymous98766-e
    @Anonymous98766-e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Paul: Do you want me to die?
    Faye: Is this a trick question?

  • @rb.6322
    @rb.6322 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Me as a nurse listening to the first half of this: And you want her to... give you a kidney after that? Are you aware that she has total power over your life? Are you crazy?

  • @jonmendelson1104
    @jonmendelson1104 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I'm not positive if it's true, but I've heard that if you tell the doctor you're being pressured to be tested for organ donation and don't want to do it they're supposed to just tell the people you're not a match.

    • @spoosieoopsie1616
      @spoosieoopsie1616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That is true.
      I recently retired from a Transplant Center and that was standard practice.

  • @DjGacha2006
    @DjGacha2006 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Paul is living proof that hurting others will always come back to bite you.

    • @Gazing-09
      @Gazing-09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Unfortunately no. Some people manage to take their evil with the grave and had a somewhat happy life. However it may affect other people in their surroundings or their descendants.

  • @foodieyumiko5593
    @foodieyumiko5593 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We all know where Paul's going👿

  • @rakiahbaker5589
    @rakiahbaker5589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I bet both of their parents feel bad and really ashamed.

  • @milliesantiago5563
    @milliesantiago5563 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    No kidney for you, Paul. 😂

  • @rolfsinkgraven
    @rolfsinkgraven 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rest in peaces dear Paul.

  • @Eevie361
    @Eevie361 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    OMG, does Faye have a death wish? YOU DO NOT TELL YOUR ABUSER THAT YOU ARE FILING LEGAL CHARGES! YOU DO NOT FURTHER ANTAGONISE THEM BY SAYING YOU ARE GETTING A RESTRAINING ORDER! You make a plan to escape, you follow through with that quietly, then you file what you need to when you are in a safe space to do so. Telling your abuser that you plan on leaving them and that you are filing things with a lawyer, including a restraining order gets abuse victims killed.

  • @darlap2724
    @darlap2724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Happy Friday everyone! 🤗
    Paul is horrible to Faye and deserves what he is getting in return. What a jerk!

    • @bridgetdebourgh5698
      @bridgetdebourgh5698 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy Friday!! Have a great weekend 👋🤗

  • @paulredinger5830
    @paulredinger5830 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Paul has a funny way of asking for something nicely.

  • @HelenMcCallister
    @HelenMcCallister 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How were they married for so long?! Paul is just vile!

  • @Hippiechick11
    @Hippiechick11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hate to tell you, but they do ask if you are being pressured into donating an organ.

  • @emilysclone
    @emilysclone 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Um, he's not her ex. They're still married. He also treated her like crud before the kidney thing and even cheated, but she stayed with him. She could have left him ages ago but didn't until now? Wtf!

    • @Gazing-09
      @Gazing-09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Probably wanted to hit him when he was already down.

    • @Eevie361
      @Eevie361 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      If this is a cultural thing where arranged marriages are common, you can't file for a divorce as easily as others can. I know somebody from school that has attempted to flee and divorce her husband that she was forced to marry many times over the years. Due to their culture and beliefs towards divorce, getting one is difficult, especially when you have an abusive husband... and this woman's husband is abusive. The value of girls and women in their society is so low that they aren't even considered human beings, they are considered the property of their husband... and if they don't have husbands, they are the property of their fathers, brothers, uncles- etc.
      So just because you have a woman who is forced to stay with her husband, it doesn't mean she's weak or stupid. Did you not hear how this was an arranged marriage? This definitely can be a cultural thing where she feels she's got no other options but to stay married to this monster.

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You can still be married and call your spouse an ex, especially in the process of going through a divorce and separation. Ex is just a label, not a legal term.

  • @kelleywheeler7980
    @kelleywheeler7980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow..damn. Paul is an a$$hole for how he treated her. Faye can sue him for defamation, along with that idiot that helped spread the rumors

  • @alejandracabrera1637
    @alejandracabrera1637 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I almost DIED of apendicitis and medical negligence, i was a kid and the doctors said "its just a stomach virus", my mom fought that it wasnt and threatened to have to be escorted out by the police, guess what, my appendix was about to EXPLODE

    • @jaclynsanture6643
      @jaclynsanture6643 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Gosh!, Im sorry that happen to you!, I know you found a better doctor, ad sued those others which you can do.

  • @youmadhuh6375
    @youmadhuh6375 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wouldn't give Paul of cup of water if he was dying of thirst... he'd be dead waiting on me to donate a kidney... I would've divorced him during the appendicitis incident.. that would've been when it sinked in Paul didn't love or care about me..

  • @gluttonouswolf980
    @gluttonouswolf980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That is a creepy conversation starter. “How many kidneys you got?” Why, you think I’ve got some extras in the fridge?

  • @freyasslain2203
    @freyasslain2203 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Why doesn't she file a defamation lawsuit .

    • @ladylunaginaofgames40
      @ladylunaginaofgames40 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She did

    • @freyasslain2203
      @freyasslain2203 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@ladylunaginaofgames40 I saw that she filed for divorce .
      To file a defamation suit requires immense labors. Far more than she said . The biggest burden is establishing the burden of proof that what he did caused her professional hardships . That the slander prevented her from earning money.
      As for emotional damages , the burden of proof is also very difficult because she would have gone to a psychologist or some mental health expert , who would have to conduct an assessment . She would have to prove beyond " A preponderance of doubt " that his slander caused some mental health issues .

    • @Eevie361
      @Eevie361 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@freyasslain2203 If she made the decision not to go forward with filing a defamation lawsuit, I feel that her reasoning not to do so would be exactly what you said in this comment. She would have had to do a lot to prove that defamation occurred... and since Faye is an abuse victim at the hands of this man, she probably wanted to get as far away from him as possible when she got her divorce. Sometimes these court proceedings take some time and she probably had to go through hell and back just to get a divorce from her abuser.
      I assume that at the end, she decided not to follow through with getting damages for the defamation? A lot could have gone into this decision. I know that if I was married to an abuser like Paul, I'd want to be done as quickly as possible with the divorce so I could run away as far as I could from this man. People like Paul have the mindset to commit murder out of revenge and it doesn't matter that he's sick.
      There's so many girls and women out there that are fleeing abusive relationships that are ruthlessly murdered by their partners... and it doesn't even matter how sick these men are, either.

    • @freyasslain2203
      @freyasslain2203 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      To prove Defamation is a far standard of burden of proof . You only have to establish Beyond a Proponderance of doubt not Beyond a shadow of a doubt . Big difference . The only burden a plaintiff would have to establish , is proof that the Defamation hurt her professionally and that the Defamation caused her financial damage .

  • @sakilynn
    @sakilynn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There's a reason God put Paul through all that, He is just as vengeful as He is merciful.
    And for those of you who are of a different religion, or follow none, I'll put it this way because it's just as true: Karma's a b*tch!

  • @teddymanguerra
    @teddymanguerra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Paul: I’m your dying husband, what do you want from me?
    Faye: duh!!! 😂😂😂

  • @Mehp2
    @Mehp2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m tired of doormat OPs. Why didn’t she leave him ages ago? What were his redeeming qualities?

  • @peachesrambo4037
    @peachesrambo4037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Nobody is as demanding as this guy.
    Soooo,wait. He was given the death sentence for being cruel? Oh wow,not good.

  • @Catperson11
    @Catperson11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Do you remember the ad of years ago (with George Clooney) "no martini, no party"?➡️
    No kindness, no kidney...... Yeah, life can be harsh.... especially when you are a you-know-what.

  • @_Carmen_28
    @_Carmen_28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Make the stories more believable. If someone talked to their wife that way the wife would tell them to f off asap.

  • @BecauseWhyNot660
    @BecauseWhyNot660 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Paul: You need to give me a kidney.
    Me (if I had such an idiot in my life): 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅🫠🙃🤣🤣🤣

  • @ladylunaginaofgames40
    @ladylunaginaofgames40 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Why the hell he assumed that his own wife has a suitable Kidney to begin with. Its always possible they don't match and it results in the operation being useless. Does he have no family he can ask?

    • @ange0919
      @ange0919 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Knowing his personality, they probably broke ties with him cause he’s trouble.

    • @spoosieoopsie1616
      @spoosieoopsie1616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      All she actually has to do is tell the doctor that the recipient is trying to coerce her. The doctor will write up that she is not a suitable donor.

  • @thehertzman
    @thehertzman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Paul has a lot of nerve demanding Faye for her kidney for a transplant caring less for the her well being.

    • @Eevie361
      @Eevie361 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Most definitely views Faye as less than human. There's so many girls and women that are trapped in marriages with men that view them as less than. Which seems to give them the excuse to treat these girls/women like crap. People like Paul view women as their property to do with as they please.

  • @bridgetdebourgh5698
    @bridgetdebourgh5698 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Have a great Friday and a wonderful weekend everyone 👋🤗
    From Louisiana 🐊

    • @lorannamoody7011
      @lorannamoody7011 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Bridget and group. Happy Friday and weekend. 🏝🐇🦎

    • @bridgetdebourgh5698
      @bridgetdebourgh5698 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lorannamoody7011 Hey Loranna! Hope you are enjoying your weekend. I've been busy and haven't been on my phone. Have a fun filled weekend 👋🤗🐊

  • @WandaHadley
    @WandaHadley 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    How does he know that she is a match for him?

    • @ange0919
      @ange0919 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He doesn’t, it’s his pride driving him to believe it

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He knows she still has to be tested to find out, but he still believes she will be regardless because they have the same blood type. He lives in delulu land and chooses not to do his research on this. Unfortunately, most people know others like this in real life.

  • @davidprice86
    @davidprice86 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Make this more realistic you can't call somebody a fat cow and they have the reactions that you guys have them have. Okay honey with a smile🤬

  • @Kris_sy
    @Kris_sy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Another example on how these vids can shave off those 20 minutes: Faye *doesn't* give a kidney. Paul dies and goes to hell. Faye collects the life insurance that Paul wanted to do to her. The End.

  • @lindahill7315
    @lindahill7315 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good morning, everyone from a hot Alabama. Just remember, you can always tell the doctor that you arent willing and they will take care of the rest. Guys, quit the cussing

  • @audreygoode9321
    @audreygoode9321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Paul NO!!!!

  • @michellethompson4001
    @michellethompson4001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I want does not get without a pse. Basic manners 101

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Entitled much? He’d leave her when she loses her hair and gets sick like the last story after saving him

  • @ZelinkSupporter
    @ZelinkSupporter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How else did Paul expect this to go after threatening someone and slandering them because they wouldn't do what he wanted

  • @ernestinemarr3485
    @ernestinemarr3485 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Paul can go to dialysis

  • @azuuria
    @azuuria 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    👍

  • @AnaMella1X
    @AnaMella1X 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ugh, I just cant believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. Ive tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him Im frustrated I dont see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I dont know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him

    • @LiamaraSantos1
      @LiamaraSantos1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm really sorry to hear that. I went through something similar not too long ago. My boyfriend and I broke up and I felt completely lost. I tried everything, but it just seemed hopeless. Well I ended up reaching out to this incredible spiritual adviser. He helped me in ways I never thought possible. After working with him my husband came back to me and now we are happier than ever really.?

    • @AnaMella1X
      @AnaMella1X 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A spiritual adviser, that sounds interesting. What did you do? How can I get in contact with him.?

    • @LiamaraSantos1
      @LiamaraSantos1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His name is Owen Abiola,and He's a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex.

    • @AnaMella1X
      @AnaMella1X 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I just searched his name, and I found him, the reviews look amazing, and I m feeling hopeful now. I really believe I can get him back. I’m so happy to have found this.

  • @marianphelps3673
    @marianphelps3673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's with all the cussing

  • @earnest1212
    @earnest1212 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    stop cussing and i did report it , no i dont care what anyone says i will not responde.

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Telling adults what they can and can't say on their own videos is ridiculous especially when it's not against YT's rules! Just stop watching these videos if you can't stand adults talking normally. Get over yourself.

  • @SandraBagans
    @SandraBagans 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Paul actions have consequences and acting like a selfish entitled jerk gets you absolutely no where