How to Prevent Separation Anxiety in Pets | WIRED

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 พ.ค. 2022
  • During the pandemic, 23 million American households adopted a pet. But now that owners are leaving animals home alone to go to work, are pets stressing out? Veterinarian Dr. Molly McAllister draws insights from data collected from hospitals and pet visits in 2021 to determine just how our pets may be feeling once we leave our homes.
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  • @alexanderhikel2350
    @alexanderhikel2350 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    I think I need advice for MY separation anxiety for my dogs lmao 🤣

    • @KarolsCorner
      @KarolsCorner ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LMFAO right where’s the human expert!!

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      After 8 long years of battling with insecurities, low self-esteem, with constant fear of the knowledge I could infect someone with HSV 1&2 was a nightmare to me. I'm so glad/grateful that I am over Herpes and its stigma! All thanks to Dr. Aloha th-cam.com/channels/_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww.html ❤️🙏🏻

    • @PickledAmericano
      @PickledAmericano ปีที่แล้ว

      Just take a load of Xanax and drool at your desk til it's clockout time 🤣

    • @lillyfox2537
      @lillyfox2537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg same lololololol

    • @memyselfi2005
      @memyselfi2005 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Samesies

  • @elcasho
    @elcasho ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Going to to grocery store for 15-20 minutes. On what planet is this possible?

    • @katja6332
      @katja6332 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      In Europe :)

    • @marceelino
      @marceelino ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't you have a groceries store like 50 m away?

  • @TheElusiveReality
    @TheElusiveReality ปีที่แล้ว +25

    its so hard not to give my dog a big greeting because i am also super happy to see him and i love how happy he gets

    • @nataly4426
      @nataly4426 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!

    • @onkelpappkov2666
      @onkelpappkov2666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ignoring a dog is hard for me, too. I notice how much harm we're doing when we engage the dog first before greeting the owner and of course: The dog probably thinks its their job to alert everyone and engage first and their privilege to be greeted first. And the louder and wilder they are, the more aggressively they jump at humans, the more attention and affection they receive.
      I love petting dogs to infinity but I've started treating them as low ranked pack members in situations like these. Friend of mine has a beautiful Belgian Shepherd, all black, and it's such an effort to walk past her and ignore her until I've greeted the alpha. But it works when I envision what behaviour I'd want to see.

  • @BatCaveOz
    @BatCaveOz ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The real miracle is that she said "walk time" and her dog didn't start going nuts with excitement.

    • @elin_
      @elin_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dog doesn't go crazy when I say that. He just tilts his head and listen attentively. But he doesn't run to the door and go bananas haha.. When I say "godis" (candy in swedish) then he starts to expect something 😂

  • @BEERBOMB113
    @BEERBOMB113 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I really need to help my pitbull with his separation anxiety. My mom leaves him in the other room he will start crying like he's going to perish right there. It makes me sad and he needs to know it's ok if he's not always accessible to her.

  • @chrisdeangerous
    @chrisdeangerous ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I, personally, would advise against associating treats with departure., especially in dogs already prone to separation anxiety.
    They might associate the treat with being left alone and it will not be a reward any more.
    The only thing that works is practice, practice, practice. Leave, come back. Leave again. Don't congratulate the dog for being alone. Your departure and arrivals need to become a natural occurrence and not a "special moment". Don't involve treats in this equation.

    • @renardchaton
      @renardchaton ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yup. I tried just about everything on this list for months - unfortunately real separation anxiety isn't that simple. What you described is exactly what happened to my dog. She began to realize that the Kong = me leaving. She stopped eating altogether when I left.
      The only thing that helped was desensitization training and medication. And time. It takes a decent amount of time. She is doing a lot better but not 100%...
      Some people don't realize that our dog's mental health is a bit like ours. Sometimes we need meds and therapy (training) to help. Sometimes they do too.
      I really wish that I read more comments like this when I was starting - I wasted ages trying these "tips" that aren't actually that helpful for most dogs 😭 I'm surprised she didn't mention medication at least for severe cases or at least desensitization training.

  • @fireinateacup89
    @fireinateacup89 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The stereotype of cats being antisocial is the opposite of reality. They are extremely social animals and they need company!

  • @sxerosie
    @sxerosie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good tips & Jack is so cute

  • @tombpunk
    @tombpunk ปีที่แล้ว +4

    15-20 minutes?! Did she assume we are all mutants and simply teleports to the grocery store, steals some stuff and then teleports back?

  • @Jennifer-nq4yw
    @Jennifer-nq4yw ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow!

  • @anikamaynard8132
    @anikamaynard8132 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’d simply quit my job after seeing that face 🥺

  • @PrincessDenyse
    @PrincessDenyse ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'd REALLY like to know what the best pheromone for cats might be. I've tried several and man are they spendy!

  • @KatDJZ
    @KatDJZ ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lord....I dogsit and let me tell you, pandemic dogs (and owners) are NUTS.

  • @lovinglife8966
    @lovinglife8966 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks imma send this to my sis

  • @IzzySalami
    @IzzySalami ปีที่แล้ว

    Jack the Jack Russell 😂 Cute.

  • @okhera1
    @okhera1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Nice Bro! Get Good People!

  • @msrainbowbrite
    @msrainbowbrite ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The thumbnail is a boxer and i'm watching this because of my needy "pandemic baby" boxer ... funny

  • @purrhearts
    @purrhearts ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just want to say whoever you are that you are a beautiful human being ♥.
    Did you know that watching cats videos cause significant reduction in cortisol (a major stress hormone) ?? :)

  • @W_-sr5pn
    @W_-sr5pn ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Would I be able to mix both cat and dog pheromones together for them both have a calming environment? Or would one interfere with the other, and completely cancel each other out?

    • @michelleborchardt199
      @michelleborchardt199 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, each is species specific, thus the can be used together and have no effect on each other (won’t cancel each other out).

    • @W_-sr5pn
      @W_-sr5pn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michelleborchardt199 Thank you! 🐾

  • @kunatip7
    @kunatip7 ปีที่แล้ว

    im worry. I never leave my cat alone more than a day

  • @fireinateacup89
    @fireinateacup89 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who can do an entire trip to the grocery store in 15 minutes? Lol

  • @pokelover02
    @pokelover02 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are the comments all copies?

    • @elin_
      @elin_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bots

    • @onkelpappkov2666
      @onkelpappkov2666 ปีที่แล้ว

      TH-cam doesn't really want to deal with spambot posts. Probably because they drive up numbers and thus create ad revenue at the expense of advertisers.

  • @makeracistsafraidagain
    @makeracistsafraidagain ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A parent can't just disappear!
    You have to say good bye so your kids know everything is fine and you will be back.

  • @SKLL3TR
    @SKLL3TR ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanos i miss you man

  • @gus473
    @gus473 ปีที่แล้ว

    What....?!! Nothing about wolverines? 🤔

  • @aftab277
    @aftab277 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Recording them without their consent is breach of their privacy lol

  • @realSimoneCherie
    @realSimoneCherie ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not sign up for banfield pet insurance

  • @dannytran7075
    @dannytran7075 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh yea ahh oh yeah yeah yeah

  • @nopago9068
    @nopago9068 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr. MDMA

  • @savageone8931
    @savageone8931 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s one hot veterinarian🥵

  • @okhera1
    @okhera1 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALHAMDULILLAH(SWT), ASTAGHFIRULLAH(SWT)

  • @Molimo95
    @Molimo95 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bro, having a dog that's happy when you leave defeats the whole point of having a dog to begin with.

  • @othmanhamdan8608
    @othmanhamdan8608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You care about dogs and cats more than we care about humans in my country

    • @kunatip7
      @kunatip7 ปีที่แล้ว

      not true bud. Depend on personality. We aren't that insane, but yes I agreed a little bit

    • @othmanhamdan8608
      @othmanhamdan8608 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kunatip7 the problem is not you the problem is us it's fine if you care about animals health but it's not fine if you don't care about humans health

  • @luci338
    @luci338 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lies

  • @horushyperion76
    @horushyperion76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cats are more likely to get Separation
    Jesus they are Tsudere of the pets world

  • @marshallcierovola376
    @marshallcierovola376 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just another reason not to have a dog. Pets are for the weak. =)

    • @Kyenta
      @Kyenta ปีที่แล้ว +2

      To each their own :) personally love my pet reptiles.

    • @elin_
      @elin_ ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a strange way to look at it.

  • @grlnexdoorable
    @grlnexdoorable ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have zero confidence in any squeaky voiced McVeterinarian has to say.