A Conversation On Godly Dating | Lessons We've Learnt From Dating as Christians ft Sharon Ng'ang'a

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  • @njeri_odipo
    @njeri_odipo หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    what people should know about Godly/Christian dating? That the man or woman that God has for you will love you in the same way that God loves you, He will mirror the character and behavior of Jesus Christ. You get to experience the fruits of the Holy Spirit within the relationship ,that is love, joy, peace ,kindness ,gentleness, faithfulness, patience in how they handle you, goodness and self control when it comes to protecting and guarding your sexual purity. That man or woman is not a cheater(faithfulness),a narcist, and emotional and physical abuser ,a liar, lacks integrity all those negative things we experience in worldly relationships because God has taken time to set them apart for you by working on their character and behavior by having an intimate relationship with them also.Its starts with us having an intimate relationship with God before we can have a relationship with the people around us.
    I'm loving this season of the podcast Sharon,very edifying. ❤Thank your for this episode.

    • @faithmugendi9774
      @faithmugendi9774 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so profound ❤
      Thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @Valwangila
      @Valwangila หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sooo good

    • @serahwamaitha5160
      @serahwamaitha5160 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow ❤

  • @maureencharagu
    @maureencharagu หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    We need Sharon Kate again, on all topics, marriage, motherhood, christianity zote tu please. Thank you for hosting a gem!

  • @augustinakamau7357
    @augustinakamau7357 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    PART TWO NOW 🥹
    I loved every second of this and my God 😭 Sharon needs to start a podcast or a TH-cam channel if she doesn't have one, I can listen to her talk all day....there is wisdom and a certain elegant grace about her that is just wow ❤
    Thank you Sharon for bringing her on 🥹❤️......now where was I? 😭 Oh yea
    PART TWO NOW 😭

  • @EdelAmbogo
    @EdelAmbogo หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    If you're really dating as a Christian you're using the time to get to know the person.. you're not sleeping with them coz that's fornication&we know what God says about sex b4 marriage, it's possible that you're not a virgin but that's not a reason to keep sinning abstain till you marry the one.. You can't block the space with a placeholder& still be praying for a kingdom spouse be for real 🤦As soon as you like someone always pray "Lord if this isn't the one confuse everything"Aki He answers immediately accept the answer.. God also gives promises of marriage but it can take years before it happens,be patient.

  • @lynnokumu9159
    @lynnokumu9159 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    God uses our deepest desire to make us while the devil uses this to break us

  • @nicoleoduya2213
    @nicoleoduya2213 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow!! This conversation has me thinking of what I’m doing, coming from a relationship of six year.. wow it really is important to involve God

  • @miriamwanjiku7461
    @miriamwanjiku7461 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow!, a friend sent a snippet of this conversation and here I am, I see myself in all your life experiences, I am at that point of total submission to God and I now know there's so much more to life than relationships

  • @MargaretWanjiku-i5w
    @MargaretWanjiku-i5w 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every moment I watch the show I just want to keep going on without stopping ❤

  • @Moniqueshee89
    @Moniqueshee89 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am grateful watching this conversation on the first day of the year. I got answers to so many questions that I have been asking myself in relation to dating and relationships. Also looking back I get to reflect on the role I prayed in most relationships leading to breakups. Today I got to think of the fact that God had given me a good man but I couldn't see it until today due to my own brokenness, insecurities, trauma and fear. I am a victim of coming to God when things go south yet didn't involve him from the beginning. @Sharon Kate where can I purchase a copy of your book because I definitely want to purchase it.

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s real what Sharon Kate said about the consequences of the fornication and pre-marital sex we have. Even the future generations can suffer from your lack of patience and lack of self-control.

    • @bestkeptsecretspod
      @bestkeptsecretspod  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching ❤

    • @carolmutua5266
      @carolmutua5266 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true. Like David, who was a man after God's own heart and even Jesus came from his lineage but he suffered the death of his son with Bathsheba because of his sin of lust and murdering Uriah. The spirit of lust and death followed his children as well. We cannot run away from consequences, for every action there is a an equal and opposite reaction is a spiritual law as well, not just physics.

  • @mercyann86
    @mercyann86 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This episode has been one of the best, some much to learn. I thank God for you both

  • @glorynjeri421
    @glorynjeri421 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Indeed, he is a loving God. Towards the end, Sharon, you shared something so profound. I had to pause and just comment. This podcast is on the right track.

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am here and am so in love with this season Sharon...... Unapologetically Jesus❤❤❤

  • @lizsonia3913
    @lizsonia3913 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You look so beautiful you both and you Kinder look alike as well❤❤❤

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been so blessed just by listening to the conversation. I had tears, introspection and laughs all through. Who is like our God? God bless you both❤

  • @hakayi9130
    @hakayi9130 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah we definitely need a part ii, this was a great conversation. It is easy to tell someone God has processed. 💕

  • @MargaretWanjiku-i5w
    @MargaretWanjiku-i5w 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very true in that space of being someone who is not patient
    I am one of them

  • @bernicerogo9190
    @bernicerogo9190 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wowappreciate that this conversation allowed for more of introspection which leads to self awareness🤗as opposed to playing victim

  • @_gathecha
    @_gathecha 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This episode spoke to me in so many ways🥹🙏🏽!!

  • @isaacmwondi3724
    @isaacmwondi3724 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice talk. Waiting for the book link.

  • @mercylynirungu9531
    @mercylynirungu9531 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watched from start to end!Relatable stories for sure😄😄✨

  • @Valwangila
    @Valwangila หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much both Sharons for having this conversation and shout out to City lighters😊. I have had the same experiences as you ladies and i totally agree with everything you said. The last part really got to me because healing has to start from us so that when the man God has for you comes you are ready for them.

  • @janemumbi4417
    @janemumbi4417 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really love this ❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you Sharon ❤.I also recommend this 💯. Dating and marrying right ❤

  • @sharonanyona8742
    @sharonanyona8742 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love this episode😍 Was like listening to my big sisters assuring me it’s gonna be okay❤️

  • @julietmoraa5106
    @julietmoraa5106 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a delight to watch! God bless both ladies ❤

  • @deeywamuya3191
    @deeywamuya3191 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a timely conversation. Thank you Sharon !

  • @ngonyonjora7558
    @ngonyonjora7558 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Waited for this spiritual twins 😢😊

  • @deborahmetto4547
    @deborahmetto4547 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Take aways God first and God all the way and God has everything to do with

  • @talesofkiki5099
    @talesofkiki5099 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This episode is so timely😢😢❤❤Thankyou God because you really wanted me to learn this

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Indeed God is the best kept secret about every topic

  • @Carol.Lynn_
    @Carol.Lynn_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was such an amazing episode. Thank you both Sharon's

  • @Kareh_l
    @Kareh_l หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vouching for Sharon to be back 🎉

  • @florencembaabu
    @florencembaabu หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sharon you have beautiful hair

  • @_gathecha
    @_gathecha 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God has everything to do with it✨

  • @jeniferaswine4370
    @jeniferaswine4370 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Right on time 🥳❣️ ...taking notes 📝

  • @yv_mwendwa
    @yv_mwendwa หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow very insightful!

  • @atuyanyamusi2596
    @atuyanyamusi2596 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow thank you ❤ ...i just stumbled on this podcast and it is a blessing I just have to subscribe to continue learning ❤

  • @marymwangi6888
    @marymwangi6888 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOVED THISSS

  • @naliakameldine4351
    @naliakameldine4351 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think this conversation was meant to be mine.thank you friends you`ve changed a life

  • @beckylynch205
    @beckylynch205 หลายเดือนก่อน

    such a masterpiece thank you so much for this what i needed

  • @kerenwasike9888
    @kerenwasike9888 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have really been blessed by this

  • @washera_k.
    @washera_k. หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    🎉😂i can't stop laughing because why just last week did I think how before I didn't know the difference between both Sharon K's and I thought it would be nice to see the both of you on the same set...what a God-incidence truly

  • @lizbeth1119
    @lizbeth1119 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God indeed has everything to do with it

  • @peritaachando5133
    @peritaachando5133 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We thank God for you sharon

  • @BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi
    @BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thats so cool, i wish we had that openness growing up on sex manze.

  • @whatoftoday1530
    @whatoftoday1530 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Am the fiiiiiiiiiirst ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JustDerrickk
    @JustDerrickk หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    for the longest time i guess since 2019 i thought you guys are sisters

  • @makenacn7598
    @makenacn7598 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved every second of this episode❤,,I pray that God will come through for me,'cause love! Eeey😭

  • @Small_Girl_Big_Faith
    @Small_Girl_Big_Faith หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Someone please shed light about how a divorced woman can have a Godly courtship. I feel like there’s no man who would want to date me because I’ve been married before and already have kids. I’m obviously celibate and wouldn’t want to compromise that because of the possibility of someone new 🤷🏽‍♀️. I still believe in love and marriage but what does God say about us

    • @seekingpurposepartnership
      @seekingpurposepartnership หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’ve seen previously divorced women with three kids get married, not once but twice. Ask God for His guidance and if that’s what He wants for your life.

    • @BlessedKenyan_555
      @BlessedKenyan_555 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your feelings are justified but not true. God’s purpose for marriage is not about whether you have kids or not or even about your past but it’s about your purpose. Once you come into alignment with his purpose for you, He will order your steps to the right person who together you will fulfill that purpose.
      You must know your purpose which will enable you identify your partner. The pattern to follow is that of Eve and Adam. They were both in the field when they met. A field is a place of purpose.
      The stronger your relationship is with God, the more clarity you’ll have about your purpose. It takes alot of sacrifice though. Committing to spend an hour daily with God for eg should help you accelerate into what God has in store for you. You’ll also need to stick to being obedient lest you fall into the hands of a counterfeit 😅.

    • @Small_Girl_Big_Faith
      @Small_Girl_Big_Faith หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ wow I couldn’t have asked for a more fitting reply, thank you so much 🙏

  • @HarrietMoraa-il6oy
    @HarrietMoraa-il6oy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How can I get the book?

  • @dianaoracha5157
    @dianaoracha5157 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God led me here, I feel so blessed ☺

    • @bestkeptsecretspod
      @bestkeptsecretspod  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww 🥹🥹 Thank you for watching ❤

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very beautiful convo! ❤️
    How do I get the book in Ug?

  • @lolgy2565
    @lolgy2565 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best❤

  • @_gathecha
    @_gathecha 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How can He use such a broken vessel to bring about amazing things🙏🏽

  • @JasonRomellTresvan-o4r
    @JasonRomellTresvan-o4r หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're sorry to me spiritual awakening awareness awake aware dwelling realms through God in Heaven Bound Assembly you are healing me spiritually connected to my physical flesh of the truth that my 5 senses of I Experienced saw truthfully I Bless I Praise I Worship your Higher Highly Highest of worthiness to become truthful seen of evidence through and concerning me

  • @kalukimutua582
    @kalukimutua582 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gold!

  • @VALEENALICE
    @VALEENALICE หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yaaaaaaas 🎉

  • @RisperLadema
    @RisperLadema หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you please add me to the program.. kindly let me know the requirements..🙏..I feel like I can tell you a story ushangae

  • @joekconceptsfilms2864
    @joekconceptsfilms2864 หลายเดือนก่อน

    mnatoa wapy pesa

  • @Kaay_T
    @Kaay_T หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where can one access the book?

    • @bestkeptsecretspod
      @bestkeptsecretspod  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check out Sharon Kate’s Instagram

    • @faithmugendi9774
      @faithmugendi9774 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ​@@bestkeptsecretspod

  • @Mss_glorious
    @Mss_glorious หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @KamikaziNinon
    @KamikaziNinon หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @_gathecha
    @_gathecha 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why is there so much pain in love🥲!!
    Felt that😮‍💨

  • @tamaratarerobert4018
    @tamaratarerobert4018 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello Sharon....been following here for a minute. I love what you're doing with your channel. It's amazing and pls can I get your IG handle? From Nigeria with love!😚

  • @_gathecha
    @_gathecha 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A generational curse worker🙏🏽!!
    When I tell you how much this episode has moved me you won’t believe it😮‍💨