Girls, Tell Me About A Time Where Your Quick Thinking Saved Your Life? | Part 2

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  • @miapdx503
    @miapdx503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5798

    "I felt nauseous, uncomfortable." Ladies listen to your instincts! Even your body will tell you when something isn't right.

    • @ViolentKisses87
      @ViolentKisses87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      These stories gave me chills.

    • @ink3539
      @ink3539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I wish instincts always happened like, the day shit happens is like any other day most times...

    • @miapdx503
      @miapdx503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@ink3539 I was a pedestrian hit by a car, age 19. That morning I couldn't walk down the road. Every time I tried I felt sick, and my knees went weak. Someone gave me a ride...I got hit by a car. Everything in me tried to warn me.

    • @ink3539
      @ink3539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@miapdx503 I sincerely hope you're ok. I never felt any sense of foreboding - might be my own way of dealing with stuff I guess, I tend to think that if I imagine something happening, it wont. It is when I'm not thinking about it that it happens - I was caught completely unaware when a man assaulted me on the street a few weeks ago. No feeling, no incentive of looking over my shoulder. And I'm pretty cautious, sometimes paranoid.
      The only times I felt something was when there were obvious clues around me - people arguing, being the passenger of a drunk driver. It was like being in front of an obvious wave.

    • @miapdx503
      @miapdx503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@ink3539 I've always been very sensitive, spiritually speaking. I was 19 when that happened, I've learned to listen to warnings.

  • @cawingcrows2072
    @cawingcrows2072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2305

    The last person, goodness the amount of luck they had on that day for someone to be on the bus who spoke the same language
    I'm very glad they are safe

    • @baileysmith7273
      @baileysmith7273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Not only lucky for finding someone that speak the same language but also that person being willing to help.

    • @cawingcrows2072
      @cawingcrows2072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@baileysmith7273 yes yes, that too

    • @Icyy7k
      @Icyy7k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      111 like and i ruined it

    • @suhebmalek1890
      @suhebmalek1890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@baileysmith7273 those who have went through Worst thing know whqt it feels like. They wont Refuse to help any1.

    • @loser-q4i
      @loser-q4i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@suhebmalek1890 exactly !!

  • @thepeacefulhappyandbountif2041
    @thepeacefulhappyandbountif2041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1706

    this tactic saved me even before i heard About it. i was 14 and alone at a park when a man in his 50s approached me and talked me into going somewhere private. i pretended to be nice & stupid and that im going along with it so i wont be dragged or hurted but as soon as i saw a group of women walking on the other side of the street i screamed for my sisters name as if i was calling her and thank God one of them has the same name and all of them looked to my direction. i ran to them quickly and asked them to pretend that they really knew me. they were kind enough to help me reach a safer place away from that creep.

    • @tankgirl9324
      @tankgirl9324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @Alexandra Adamczyk smart move, no question about it.

    • @blackpoisontears
      @blackpoisontears 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Things that never happened

    • @tourmelion9221
      @tourmelion9221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@blackpoisontears bruh

    • @BigRedShadevil
      @BigRedShadevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@blackpoisontears
      Things that never happened? Oh, like how you finding a woman to spend time with you for free has never happened

    • @chocolatechip7137
      @chocolatechip7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@blackpoisontears shut your mouth, no one asked for you to open it in the first place

  • @wanderingbelle7
    @wanderingbelle7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2705

    “I’d rather be paranoid than dead.”
    Words to live by, ladies.

    • @hellohowareyou8396
      @hellohowareyou8396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So true
      I have way to much paranoia though even in the safest room I still have it

    • @yespls4184
      @yespls4184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Also "I'd rather be seen as rude than dead"

    • @manirai3299
      @manirai3299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @SomethingIDon’tReallyKnow exactly why do we have to be paranoid to just walk by our selves it’s wrong that boys hurt and traumatise girls this is NOT right

    • @leahweinberger583
      @leahweinberger583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yespls4184 THIS!!

    • @_tofuu
      @_tofuu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same vibes as “better safe then sorry”

  • @aljannah8805
    @aljannah8805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    This is why I hate hearing men say "NOT ALL MEN". I mean, yeah we know that, of course! But times like these, us women have to stay as vigilant as possible to avoid these types of unfortunate occurrences. I was taught how to defend myself at such a young age. There's enough evidences/cases provided for us to learn how dangerous SOME men are. I hope men would understand that this is why women generalize. We don't want to experience these kind of situations first-hand before doing something about it. Parents, please teach your sons as early as possible to be better, for future generation's sake.

    • @link2442
      @link2442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I find your response kind of odd since most of the men who commit such crimes are from single mothers

    • @ValYourFav
      @ValYourFav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@link2442 well atleast i’m not a evil guy cause i’m froma single mom

    • @link2442
      @link2442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@ValYourFav I believe you missed the word *"most"* from my first comment.

    • @ValYourFav
      @ValYourFav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@link2442 yeah I saw it

    • @alloradora
      @alloradora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@link2442 hey, not all men are from single mothers
      but seriously maybe their mom's single cuz the dad taught them to be a pos by example. cite me a study that says otherwise

  • @hopemooketsa1867
    @hopemooketsa1867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5058

    These are quite scary tbh.

    • @_hallway_ghost_3305
      @_hallway_ghost_3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Ikr gosh...

    • @argentumflow8318
      @argentumflow8318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah but like bruh u really got them likes lol

    • @fel1xow
      @fel1xow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah bro everyone thought it was really funny😐

    • @sunshineblues4424
      @sunshineblues4424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This kinda happened to me in the mall this dude was following me and my cousin and we sped walked to some where with lots of ppl. (Idk if he was stalking us but i went with my gut feeling)

    • @anonymoususer3888
      @anonymoususer3888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ikr? Scary as hell, people gotta be careful out there

  • @rezuanachowdhury6073
    @rezuanachowdhury6073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1078

    I was never afraid about my safety until one day I was walking through a very populated road at evening (I don't have to go out at that time very often but I had to go to dentist that day & it became kinda late) and someone grabbed my bu৳৳. I called him out and he made it like he never touched me and everybody (all of them were men) were defending him.
    Since then I kinda understood that no ones gonna help me if I ever need it. I'll have to be responsible for my own security.
    I'm also grateful that this realization came with a low price. You can never be too afraid

    • @inmarcesible_sonrisa
      @inmarcesible_sonrisa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      I'm very sorry that happened to you! I hope you are doing okay now! 👍❤️

    • @wrendum286
      @wrendum286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Gemma Dann Absolutely girl. Wait for haters to pour in.

    • @IDontCare39
      @IDontCare39 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @Gemma Dann why did you assume that? US is also among the countries with a high rate of rape. I have heard stories of women being sexually assaulted or harassed in bars, workplaces, parties, etc.

    • @kaicygomez2037
      @kaicygomez2037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I’m so sorry this happened to you, if it was me I would’ve punched them and ran honestly. I hate it how some men think they can do whatever they want to women just because they think they’re superior and nothing will happen to them. I’m glad you spoke up even if it made no difference. And this goes for boys/men too! Because males can be violated too whether if it’s by another male or a women.

    • @barbie3139
      @barbie3139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      in some Arab countries, women cannot travel without their husband or male relative with them. The USA is light years ahead of those countries

  • @chocolatechip7137
    @chocolatechip7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Not really an “intuition saved my life thing” but definitely similar. I was fourteen at the time, going to Costco with my mom, and I was wearing just a regular tank top and shorts, and I saw this man look me up and down. I immediately knew he was checking me out. I told my mom about it and was in tears on the way home. It was the first time something like that had ever happened. The man must have been in his late thirties/early forties and I just could not handle the thought of him looking me up and down. My mom took the chance to give me a few lessons about creeps. I had to use the things she taught me not even a month afterwards. It is the most terrifying thing to be followed or looked at up and down. I don’t care who the hell you are, I don’t care what you have, if you are a man of any kind, mind your business and keep your eyes to yourself. It is so scarring for a young teenager to know immediately that she is being checked out, watched, or followed. Some men may think that we don’t notice but I can assure that we do.
    PS: My advice to any girl who thinks she’s being followed in a public area, get a good look at him. Check him up and down so that you can describe him clearly, walk with your head held high, and find someone who can help. Never ever go through that without letting someone know.

  • @hannahmillner764
    @hannahmillner764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "I'd rather be paranoid than dead." Words to live by

  • @gaia6215
    @gaia6215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    thank you for cropping the videos so that the question doesn't keep repeating!

  • @ashlynnholder8577
    @ashlynnholder8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +495

    To the girl who filmed the last video: that man, is a life saving keeper. I love him. Praise him. Like bro- that’s… the nicest thing I’ve ever seen out of humanity.

    • @meh6131
      @meh6131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cateatpasta5990 She didn't say anything about it other than what he did lol

    • @humairaa226
      @humairaa226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      what's your pfp from?

  • @ariakingsleye6271
    @ariakingsleye6271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Anyone else worried about whether you have a sixth sense that could save your life at a critical moment?

    • @naylisyazwina6836
      @naylisyazwina6836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I sure am. I hope to have that gut feeling if something like this happens

    • @Aruna2012
      @Aruna2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      We all have it but sometimes it happens so quickly that we miss it

    • @addiemiller9677
      @addiemiller9677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I have had the gut feeling before...
      I was walking to my car with my mom and little sister, from a park. There was this guy who was just lounging around on the side of the road, and I had some red flags go up almost as soon as I saw him. In one of his hands he had a knife, now, my brother makes knives, so I'm not scared of just a pocket knife or whatever, but this man had a knife that serves no practical purpose, only to hurt people... he kinda brandished it while looking at us. I dont know if he was just trying to scare us, or had worse intentions... we stayed as far away as possible, and when we crossed the street he started to follow us... we went a different way, and didnt see him again.
      These red flags, and gut feelings are important to keep us safe! But I think that we need to find the balance between staying safe, and not living our whole lives in fear.

    • @carlahaiduk1878
      @carlahaiduk1878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I've had it. Idk what would happen. I just felt the urge to suddenly get out of a place. At the same time that my friend did. The boy with us felt nothing. We got in the car and left. I have felt this urge sometimes since. I never stayed to see what would happen. But I have felt this thing telling me to leave. Once I was in the bus and I started having images of blood and assault and guns. I couldn't stop thinking about something bad happening to me. I am usually pretty chill. So I just took notice I got out of the bus two bus stops before. Changed the way I would usually take. I was extra careful. Nothing happened. Who knows. I just respect my intuition.

    • @heyomeyo3020
      @heyomeyo3020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pray to God

  • @YourMsRightHere
    @YourMsRightHere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    This series needs to be retitled "why women are afraid men may kill them"

    • @Mistymorning614
      @Mistymorning614 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or a better title could be "why people are afraid strangers may kill them"
      Remember this video is only about women who were in bad situations. The person who made this video purposefully filtered out men who were in dangerous situations

    • @gordonramsayateyourgrandma
      @gordonramsayateyourgrandma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Mistymorning614 bruh men disturbing men again, women doesn't rape, kill, follow men. men do bad things to men and this video is about male terror.

    • @gordonramsayateyourgrandma
      @gordonramsayateyourgrandma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Yue797 it isnt sexist i just spitting facts.

    • @gordonramsayateyourgrandma
      @gordonramsayateyourgrandma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Yue797 so I badly phrased then? Sorry if i acted rude but im living in a sexist country that where there is a woman who was sentenced to life imprisonment for saving herself and her two little girls by self-defending herself (Melek İpek). Whenever a male passes by me, even if he is a teen, I immediately change my way. I'm only comfortable around women because I know they don't have bad thoughts.

    • @gordonramsayateyourgrandma
      @gordonramsayateyourgrandma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I learned about Melek İpek is free now. Thank god. You wouldn't want to know her story. It's very terrifying.

  • @Remhad
    @Remhad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Instinctually saying, “I’LL SHOOT!” Is probably the best thing you can ever do. That was epic.

  • @seigedrakonera5689
    @seigedrakonera5689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Actually running for my life is how I met one of my best friends. I had been walking home from the store an this guy asked for change Infront of the store but I declined an went on my way. About a block down I got a dreadful gut feeling an saw he had started fallowing me but with a hat one pulled low. They next street down I saw he was a lot closer an this to me saw that I saw him an started power walking into a sprint as I dropped my bags an ran. I knew he was close an the only way ahead lead into a very secluded road that dead ends into trees. But luckily I saw a low fence with people an I scaled the fence just in time to hear the man slam the gate yelling insults at me but in turn bolted when he saw how many people were there. I had landed into some families BBQ party. They were shocked an upset at first till they saw my face and the guy. In a heartbeat the guys went into super protection mode an the girls came to check on me. I was so incredibly lucky. After filling them in an calling cops an my family. When stuff died down we became freinds ever since. The ass took near all my stuff though but stuff's replaceable.

    • @Gabriela-x2t
      @Gabriela-x2t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Omg that must've been so scary!! Glad you're okay and made new friends!!!

  • @sabrinaarteh7084
    @sabrinaarteh7084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    The last one tho....

    • @user-xz9fj8jj5u
      @user-xz9fj8jj5u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ikr

    • @myboiwoody8015
      @myboiwoody8015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thank god the man was there to help them!

    • @spam1418
      @spam1418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@myboiwoody8015 yeah!

    • @giorgia4456
      @giorgia4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It made my cry 🥺🥺✨ such a sweet person

    • @Icyy7k
      @Icyy7k 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      111 likes and i ruiend it!
      this is the second comment i did

  • @cryptcr3ature81
    @cryptcr3ature81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Most men will never understand the fear of just existing we women live with sometimes (not all the time...thankfully)

  • @teierabollente3642
    @teierabollente3642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I was 11 years old I remember going to the local supermarket to buy some ice cream with my cousins. While heading back home I noticed a guy in the dark following us. He kept looking at me while approaching us with his arms crossed. Idk why but I immediately screamed "hey guys! The last one who gets home will pay for the ice cream next time", my cousins start running and I make sure to be the last one in order to make sure that no one was left behind. The guy immediately starts swearing and throws a fit. Later I learned that in our area in Morocco a man was going around robbing people and molesting girls by threatening them with a huge knife he hid his jacket.

  • @lohannynielsen7903
    @lohannynielsen7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    When I was 8 years old, I was walking home from one of my art classes. My art teacher was really good friends with my family and was only like around to block. I lived on the edge of the street and so did she on the opposite side. I just had to walk around a bend to get to and from her house. So as I'm walking home, I see this tiny, old, beat up truck with two guys inside. I couldn't see them that well and didn't look into their eyes because my neighbors willow tree was covering most of them, but I could tell they were both staring at me. As far as I could tell, it was two mexican guys with a lot of tattoos, one very heavy, one very skinny. It would be kind of like an iconic henchman duo from any movie. They had long stringy black hair and thin mustaches. There was also loud music blasting and the heavier one had his window rolled down with his arm hanging out the window. I thought that I could just walk by and act normal because it would be dumb to turn back and ask for a ride from my teacher (she had young kids). Again, we lived so close and a ride would almost be pointless. I couldn't decide whether to press on or go back. I was just crying my eyes out but making no noise because I didn't want them to know I was scared. If I walked by the truck, the guy could have very easy stretched out his arm, grabbed me, and drove away really fast. They also had a very noisy engine. I had lots of art things in my arms and a painting I had done that wasn't completely dry. No one was around and there were fences everywhere. I also didn't want them to know where I lived. As i stood there indecisively bawling, I got the biggest feeling ever that I should turn back. I had been doubting it this whole time because I didn't want to look stupid, but I eventually decided to turn back to my art teachers house. I walked fast because I didn't want them to follow me. I knocked on the door and was still crying because I was so scared she wouldn't answer, they would call my bluff, and come around the corner and grab me. Luckily, she answered and when I asked for a ride, she must have seen the fear in my eyes because she agreed. Her husband took me home and literally just had to drive around the corner on a very calm street. By then, I'm sure she thought I was home, but still agreed to take me. Her husband drove me back to my house and as we passed the corner where the truck was, I realized it was gone. They had driven away because they undoubtedly knew I was either doing back home or getting help. I walked into my house and told my mom all about it, but she said I was being a scaredycat and those were the construction guys. I didn't believe her because there was no construction anywhere near my street and they looked nothing like construction workers. I was annoyed with her for not believing me, and ever since then, I have been deathly afraid of getting kidnapped and what could happen to me. Im still working through it and to this day, I'm so glad I pushed past my fear of looking foolish to ask for a ride. If I hadn't, who knows where I'd be today? But that experience has my scarred for life. At least now I know not to ignore my feelings and impressions. Please stay safe everyone.

    • @FG-bu3jp
      @FG-bu3jp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its good to llisten to your gut but they were most likely harmless.

    • @syasyaishavingfun
      @syasyaishavingfun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fu(k anyone that try to invalidate your feelings. You are doing great, get a pepper spray and learn how to stand the reaction if you got it on your face.

    • @lohannynielsen7903
      @lohannynielsen7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FG-bu3jp ya probably. Just scared me a lot as an eight year old

    • @lohannynielsen7903
      @lohannynielsen7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@syasyaishavingfun thanks! And I will try!

    • @cosmicmuffin322
      @cosmicmuffin322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@FG-bu3jp you don't know that. She did the right thing, no question.

  • @doreydavidson
    @doreydavidson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    These stories are giving me chills. Glad that everyone is safe.

  • @neveharrop7244
    @neveharrop7244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love the women who help out other women when they need help or just people who care

  • @rawdausaireem7945
    @rawdausaireem7945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Piece of advice: if you ever see a girl walking randomly up to you and act like they know you, DON'T TURN HER DOWN.

  • @ellerj641
    @ellerj641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A few months ago, I was chased and stalked by a man in an older vehicle while I was walking my dog in broad daylight. It didn't matter what street I went down or what building I hid behind, he found me and continuously followed me. Being deaf, I had to rely on all my other senses to keep an eye on him and make my escape. It was absolutely terrifying. Thankfully, I was able to make it to a neighbor's house who I knew and he was able to get me home safely. There was no one else around as it was a Sunday morning and I still cannot get over how it was around 11am, broad daylight, and I was walking my dog and he decided to come after me. I now have a fear of going for walks and of any vehicle that gets too close to me. I now keep a hidden knife on my keys, a small pocket alarm on me, and a pepper spray/knife combo that straps to my hand. I am hoping to someday get training and a license to carry a gun for extra safety.

  • @sarah-nk9vo
    @sarah-nk9vo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    "it doesnt matter where you are if you are a girl, your always ✨ in danger ✨"
    🖐️🙂FACTS

    • @destroymennardshippers1701
      @destroymennardshippers1701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not really, in my country, most women you see are some buffed 45+ yr old Helgas who would Hulk smash any creep they'd see.

    • @thefridge7335
      @thefridge7335 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No..

    • @mewesquirrel6720
      @mewesquirrel6720 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So basically humankind

  • @bluebirdie4118
    @bluebirdie4118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Shoot, I remember going to the club one time with a couple of friends. I know I was a bit tipsier but not drunk yet, but even then I knew better than to wander off my own. We were making our way back to the dancefloor before one of my friends grabbed my arm and instantly said "HIDE ME". I found out later that this guy seemed to be stalking her. Not sure if he still is, but we're always on the lookout.
    Anyway even if she wasn't someone I knew, if someone told me "HIDE ME" with panic in their eyes, you better believe that I'll do what is necessary to keep them safe.
    All I remember was not saying anything but I instantly placed her in front of me (so that way the dude could only see my back and not her) and used my height to my advantage (I was taller than her). Point being, ladies (and gentlemen!) ALWAYS be on the lookout for someone who needs help, regardless of where and when!

  • @demaaghimareez
    @demaaghimareez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I remember once in pakistan i was going to my grandmas house and when i was about to knock on the door this random guys said "do you want chocolate?" And i froze bc i always saw this in movies and not irl. My cousin ran in to me and told me to quickly get into the house, she literally saved my life.

  • @beachviqxbesroadto7513
    @beachviqxbesroadto7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Honestly it makes me feel so much safer knowing there are kind ppl out there who will play along and pretend they know you

  • @420blazeht3
    @420blazeht3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    These are straight up survival stories of girls who saved themselves from being kidnapped never to be seen again maybe. Y’all are survivors 💪🤛💯💯💯

  • @Grace-kq1wv
    @Grace-kq1wv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ok here is one of my stories : I love to go hiking and I live near a huge forest with lots of hiking trails, but I don’t like taking the trails because I hike alone or with a dog (at the time) it was a golden retriever dog. (Now I have a huge Turkish Kangal dog that wouldn’t hesitate to protect me that I hike with). Anyway I like to walk through the water in the creek for miles instead of a trail because I never run into people that way. One day, it was mid November and the temps outside were about 55° F so the water was freezing but I got used to it. At some point I had this really weird feeling and turned my head around to see this big guy walking through the creek with sunglasses on and leather boots (LEATHER BOOTS!!!) he was about 50 yards away and it seriously creeped me out because I’d never seen anyone walk through the creek since we were in the middle of nowhere, especially with leather boots that aren’t waterproof/ aren’t supposed to get wet and in November when it’s freezing outside. I didn’t really know what to think or thought maybe it was just a coincidence so I kept going but after another mile he was still following and had gotten closer too so by that time I was freaking out and my wimpy golden retriever was freaking out and running ahead in front of me. Also I was getting worried because the creek has really steep banks that were almost 10 foot walls so it would be really hard to get out of the water unless I turned around and went back. But thankfully the creek had a bend in it where the guy couldn’t see me for a small gap of time and my dog found an area on the banks that he could climb up and he ran up and out of the water away from the creek and so I was able to follow my dog by grabbing roots and climbing through the mud and then I put my tennis shoes on and we ran like heck for miles until I got back to civilization. The end lol

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't believe you allowed him to follow you for a MILE!!! DON'T EVER FUCKING DO THAT AGAIN!!! Glad you're safe!

    • @serpentinewolf7085
      @serpentinewolf7085 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And yet people will call us crazy to carry a gun while on trail. “You don’t need it. It’s statistically not likely to happen in the woods.”
      And I’m always like. “But the chance ain’t zero now is it you dick?”

  • @kikizuli7813
    @kikizuli7813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have a story from when I was around 7 years old and almost got kidnapped.. or worse- in my own house.
    So one night my parents and I were in the car, driving my sister to the train station so she could attend a party with her friends. As we arrive back from dropping her off- my mom notices the gate leading into the backyard was open. My dad went ahead of us and looked around to make sure it was safe and nothing was amiss. At the moment- it seemed like everything was fine. So my parents and I went out separate ways in the house- my father stayed in the living room to watch a game, my mother went to their bedroom to watch her own show and I went to my bedroom to change into my pajamas/grab a toy before I crashed my parents room (I didn’t like sleeping alone). As I finished dressing and approached my toy table- I noticed a pair of big brown shoes hiding beside the table. I got curious as to why they were there and thought maybe my dad misplaced his shoes. As I round the corner of the table- I slowly realize the shoes were connected to a pair of legs… and the legs were connected to the body of a large man, seemingly in his late 40s- staring dead at me. In that moment I screamed and sprinted as fast as my legs could carry me to my parents room since it was the closest to my room. I screamed to my mother “THERES A MAN IN MY ROOM”. At first my mother was confused and thought I was being weird but then she saw the man run out of my room in panic and my mom immediately bolted and shut the bedroom door before the man could barge inside. We heard the footsteps speed away from the door before my dad started yelling profanities. Crashing and scuffling sounds boomed from the other side- letting us know they were fighting. My dad was yelling for my mom to come help him or call the police- and since mom couldn’t leave me alone she decided the latter. Things got quiet on the other side and my mom tentatively peeked out as she had the police on the line. Eventually my dad came trudging back inside with a busted lip, torn shirt and the police by his side. The police questioned each of us on the incident and the mysterious man. But they never found him. He disappeared. We don’t even fully know why he was there. My dad says that when he had the guy pinned down- he demanded to know why he was in our house. The man was silent for a few long moments before he finally uttered he was there to rob us. But if that were the case- then why would he hide in my room? And later that night when my sister heard the news and decided to come rushing back home- she admitted to feeling like she was always being watched for the past couple of weeks from her bedroom window (her room is right next to mine- and both our windows face the front of the house). So it may not have been his first time. I really hope he’s paying for his sins.

  • @allytrevino6
    @allytrevino6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My story: (I was 11 in this story btw)
    So me and my friend where walking from my house to her house. She lived down the street from me and we did this all the time. Our neighborhood is on the edge of a super small town and the road to get into the neighborhood was so hidden you couldn’t see it driving by unless you where looking for it. Due to a small town and a small neighborhood we knew everyone in the hood and even what cars they drove. We where about half way to her house when an unfamiliar white Toyota slowly enters my neighborhood. We’ve never seen the truck but we assumed someone’s friend or relative was visiting. The truck was slowly driving towards us and we could see a dude from the front window. All the other windows where blacked out (which is illegal in my state). We shrugged it off as he was probably trying to find a friend or relatives house. It was like that till he drove around and then drove past us a second time. This second time though he came to a complete stop right next to me and my friend. By now me and my friend where 3/4ths the way to her house and a knot was building in my stomach. Without second though, as the man started rolling down his blacked out window I yanked my friend’s hand and darted down the street. We made it to her house and while she was typing the garage code we saw the Toyota slowly drive by her house and pull out of the neighborhood. If I hadn’t had done that right then and there who knows what would’ve happened-? Now that I think of it my eleven year old self was too dumb to know I shouldn’t have shown him where my friends house was but it was better then getting kidnapped on the spot.

  • @MsTifalicious
    @MsTifalicious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is by FAR my favorite TikTok compilation video.
    It's actually full of very crutial info and tips.
    Ladies, if some random chick comes up to you talking as if they haven't seen you in quite some time, or sparks up a random convo as if they knew you, GO ALONG WITH IT!!
    You just might save their life.

  • @My-kf9tv
    @My-kf9tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    So I have a story.
    I was with my sister, ( cami ), and my best friend, (Alyssa ) we were walking from the front of our neighborhood to the park in our neighborhood, and at a stop sign in our neighborhood, before the park, I noticed that a beige colored vehicle was stopped for a long time, and I just brushed it off. But then I looked back again and noticed him following us. And I was a little freaked out. So then as we got to the park, he rolled down his window, and came to a stop, this is the conversation we had. Him: “How old are you guys?” Me: “Uhm.. why would you need to know that?” Him: “nonono it’s not like that” ( all of us stood silent for a second ) Him: “So I have a daughter that is ( I’m not sharing the age ) “ My sister: “Is she..lost? Or something?” Him: “nonono, it’s just she needs friends, so I would like you guys to be here at noon, tomorrow” Me: “Uhm.. okay?”
    Afterwords I told my sister and my friend “Yeah, fuck no.” And I tell you, we RAN to my house. I told my mom about it, and we looked out the window, and that same car, drove by. ( We didn’t go to the park, at noon, tomorrow, by the way. )

    • @lostillusion8683
      @lostillusion8683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Did you saw him the next day tho? Like from the window or sum?

    • @ROSIE-sp1wx
      @ROSIE-sp1wx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You should've sent the cops their

    • @My-kf9tv
      @My-kf9tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lostillusion8683 I was not there the next day since my sister, me, and my dad went to a water park with his side of the family.

    • @gner8466
      @gner8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I wish you held his car's number and gave to to the police station, sure he won't bother again

  • @s0ftk1ss3s
    @s0ftk1ss3s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a boy, i apologize for these creeps.

  • @genesis6425
    @genesis6425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Once I was at a park just sitting around it was next to a school right by my house, I decided to start walking home and a car parked ahead of me started driving slowly (even slower than school zone speed so I freaked out), I started to turn back to the spot I was at to sit down and act like i changed my mind to watch them (dumb move) they stopped in their tracks. I freaked out once I saw this, panicking at this point. I got up ever so slowly walking forward towards the sidewalk thinking of my next move, then the car makes a full u turn, I panic more and call a friend, talking loudly making a fake conversation “hey mom I see you I’m on my way over” stuff like that, I keep it up as I speed walk across the street from them and straight to my house, it was two men, I don’t know what they were doing but I really feel I was just lucky they didn’t jump out of the car and take me and that it wasn’t visible to them which house I entered. I was 14 at the time and I made so many mistakes that could’ve been fatal if the situation were different. I hope to prepare myself for the future and refine my instincts .

  • @benny_0999
    @benny_0999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:36 tip for the girls: if someone IN A CAR is following you, rotate and run as fast as you can BACK,not on the way you were going. They are in a car, so it wil take a bit more to go on the other direction, and it will give you time to run somewhere to stay safe.
    hope this helped❤️

  • @PuffyWuzHere
    @PuffyWuzHere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This makes me feel emotional thank you so much for all the advice and hints to look out for. Lovely to see other helping these woman in need

  • @midnight_rose2337
    @midnight_rose2337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Some people don’t understand how terrifying it can be to simply be a girl.

  • @raeguzman6145
    @raeguzman6145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That just reminded me- today at school I was with my friends on the sidewalk outside (we’re allowed to go off campus with our passes) and one of my friends dad came to pick her up. He was just talking with us a little bit when this young woman pulled up and asked if we were okay. I was very tired so I was like “yeah?? Of course??”. She says okay and pulls up a bit further and puts her hazard lights on. It’s pretty far away (like 30 feet) but I was pretty sure she was watching us in her mirrors. My friend leaves with her dad and the lady drives away. I realized a minute or so later that she was asking if we were okay because my friends dad looked creepy talking to three youngish girls. Thank you random lady :]

  • @dimweet
    @dimweet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i have a story that was honestly pretty scary and like i feel i should say it because why not
    so when i was around 9 or 10, i had this friend and i was staying over at her house for a sleepover. the next day (around probably 2pm or something) her older brother left with his friends to go to the park that was nearby her house, and a few minutes after they left, we decided to go to the same park as we were home alone and sort of bored.
    the trip to the park was actually fine- nothing out of the ordinary happened we just saw this old / faded blue pickup truck pass us. we didn’t think anything of it and we continued to bike all the way to the park and we chilled there for a while until it looked like it was gonna rain. her brother and friends left first and we started following about 30 feet behind, they were still in our line of site and we were just biking slowly. then the blue truck appeared again and drove slowly behind us. we found it strange and started biking faster, trying to catch up to her brother. the man then started shouting and yelling at us and started trying to park his car near where we were biking, so we basically sped off to her house.
    i was picked up a few hours later and it turns out the guy snuck into their neighborhood and had to be escorted out of the condominium by police after harassing other children and younger teenagers that were also in the neighborhood. to this day i’m really glad we go out away really quickly and hope that the security has gotten better since then 😭

    • @widCr_Kd
      @widCr_Kd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh god that’s so creepy I hope everyone that he harassed is ok. And thank god you got away fast enough

  • @arfalites8870
    @arfalites8870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seeing the comments and ofc the videos make me so sad...and hurt...im so sorry from all of those animals who even made u feel unsafe even for a second...i live in Pakistan...and the harrasment cases are climbing up NUTS nowadays...just this month 400 men actively participated in se*ually haRrassing a tiktoker on our independance day (while some ppl blatantly objectified her and blamed her)....idk whats going to happen in future but i only know that today when i walk outside my home with my full family....i feel unsafe...all..the..time...im always looking behind and being aware of my surroundings just cuz it might be my last day...i don't get out of my house more often just bcuz of the immense fear..i hope incidents like these never happen to me cuz idk if i will be able to survive but....sending love to all precious women in this world💖💖💖💖

  • @sorayashawki2073
    @sorayashawki2073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When i lived abroad on my own as a woman, i got a security briefing at work (the country was undergoing a revolution) and they gave me a few tips so for anyone who might need this:
    1) when you walk on the street, always walk with purpose and be alert. Don't look like someone who doesn't know what's going on around them because that makes you an easier prey.
    2) TRUST YOUR GUT. Avoid deserted places or alleys that are not well lit. Also if you ever feel like you have to run, RUN. If you're wearing heels and you can't run. Take them off and RUN. Better paranoid than unsafe.
    3) let someone know about your whereabouts when you're out alone.
    They also advised to pick up self defense lessons or training in which you train to undertake action, instead of stiffen with fear when something dangerous happens to you.

  • @skybueg469
    @skybueg469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always trust your spiny senses. That’s your gut and intuition. How many stories star w “well, I didn’t want to hurt HIS feelings?”
    Ladies Run. Be smart. Be safe.
    In my mid-20s I was at the grocery store. Next in line and a “normal looking Middle Aged man” got behind me.
    All he did was SMILE and it creeped me out so badly I pulled my huge cart worth of stuff off the belt and walked over to a line isles away, behind a family w a husband and wife. We spoke no words just all looked at each other and they looked at him.
    This couple waited til I was fully checked out, walked me to my car and didn’t leave til I drove off.
    DUDE WAS WAITING OUTSIDE THE WHOLE TIME!!

  • @gabrielle.g9285
    @gabrielle.g9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a stalker in college, he was a man in his 60s and I think it lasted for a week or two. At first he seemed normal, he would be chatting with my gran and mum when I met them for dinner but after a few times of him doing this on the last day I arrived to see my gran looking pissed and my mum immediately said 'right, we going for dinner' as soon as I arrived so I knew something was up just from their behaviour. When we got away from him they explained how he'd been asking a load of questions about me like do I have a boyfriend, do i want one, do i like music, would i like him to make me a song, would i like to see his studio. They also mentioned how some days he'd wait for me to arrive and as soon as i sat down he would walk up like he just arrived when he'd infact been waiting for 10-20 minutes.
    We avoided that place for like a year afterwards and even now when I go into it I still keep my guard up.

  • @BigRedShadevil
    @BigRedShadevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was about three or four years old and living in an apartment with my mom. She let me go to the playground alone (this was the late 70s when parents didn’t care) and there was an old man that would push the kids on the swings. I didn’t trust him. He kept trying to talk me into letting him push me on the swings. I told him, “Don’t you get behind me! I don’t want you behind me touching me! You can push me only if you stand in front where I can see you and you can only touch the bottom of my shoes and push me that way.” Again, this was the late 70s when kids did NOT talk to adults like that and we were taught to always respect your elders. My gut said, “Nope, not today, Aqualung.” I was the only kid on the playground that wasn’t groped.

  • @ashlxy1810
    @ashlxy1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's just honestly terrifying, cuz in my understanding almost every single one is about just some random creepy dude trying to kidnap them or something that isn't good at all. So at this point I'm like scared in a lot of situations like in a taxi or just something at night.

    • @ariadne0w1
      @ariadne0w1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      well, if it makes you feel any better, I've managed to go 20 years so far without getting in any situation like this. Some areas are a lot safer than others (and also I don't get out much, that probably helps, lol)

    • @ashlxy1810
      @ashlxy1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ariadne0w1 Yes I know that not every place is like that but I mean to think that some people have experienced it is like a disturbing thought that maybe it'll happen to us someday. But thanks also!

  • @poressianparrapio3957
    @poressianparrapio3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some of these stories in which strangers helped them touched my heart....
    Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @vashappenin2820
    @vashappenin2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love photography, especially wildlife, so when my family and the families of 2 of my other friends decided to have a small vacation near a forest reserve, I was super happy and excited. On reaching there, my friend and I decided to explore around on our own. Our parents gave us the permisson, with the conditions that we can't go beyond the hotel premises, and if they call any one of us, they expect the other two as well, and we've to pick the call on the first ring.
    We agreed and started exploring within the hotel premises, but we got bored soon, and wanted to go out. We walked out of the gate (the security guard wasn't there) and we were walking. We were laughing, cracking jokes, while we walked. It was a fairly secluded road with a car passing us once in a while, with forest on either side of the road.
    While returning back, me and one of my friends were cracking some jokes and laughing, when my other friend nudged us pointing towards a black car which was a few metres behind us. At this point, the hotel was in our sight but it was too far to just run without the car catching upto us.
    And first instinct was to call my Mum and I spoke loudly to her while we walked back towards to hotel, saying stuff like that "Yeah, I can see you", "Yeah right, yellow dress, right?". My Mom was super confused and she kept on asking what I was saying. But instead of replying to her, I just spoke loudly. Since it was really quiet around us, I'm sure the poeple in the car were able to hear.
    I was trying to imply that there are people standing near the gate watching us, although there was not a single soul around. Once we were a few metres of the hotel, I just cut the call, and all three of us bolted inside the premises. While returning back to the room, we saw the car zoom past the gates.
    We got severely scolded by our parents and I feel like all of three of us deserved it. I don't know what could have happened that day. Probably, it was just us being paranoid about it. Maybe the driver was just lost. But I think being paranoid was better than being kidnapped.
    Sorry this is too long. I just wanted to share the experience.

  • @maryannturton9830
    @maryannturton9830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ALWAYS trust your instincts! Pray to God for help, and a way out! Be aware of your surroundings.Walk to your car with a friend or coworker whenever possible.Carry made if you must walk alone anywhere.

  • @praytothehellokittygodsorelse
    @praytothehellokittygodsorelse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girls (and guys and everyone else) stay safe! Please trust your insinces! Something like in the video almost happened to my sister, and IDK what I would do if she had been kidnapped (thankfully she had our loud and scary dog with her at the time) but please, stay safe!

  • @avoirlafoi2580
    @avoirlafoi2580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless all the people that helped these girls out. I was sitting in the front part of a bus and a middle-aged guy was sitting next to me. He kept trying to touch my boobs by crossing his arms. I got up, started shouting at him, asked for his phone/wallet to get his details. And during all this, everybody in that jam-packed bus ignored me, averted their eyes, pretended I wasn't there. Even people with their little girls, even the conductor. So then I forcefully called the conductor and got this guy to get down from the bus then and there

  • @melodiaxx8723
    @melodiaxx8723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I was younger about 7 I would walk home from school alone(I lived close to school) My parents were still working at that time btw,so I had a key.Anyways I’m almost at my house my neighbors are walking,but I see this guy that I’ve seen follow me almost the entire way.So eventually I look over my shoulder and he notices me and he says “Hey,wait up” so I stop,and I’m scared “Uhm.Hello?Do you need something” and he starts talking to me he’s just like “Hey want me to walk you home and blah blah blah” And at this point I’m infront of my house and I’m terrified.And guess what I can’t find my key.So instead I go over to my neighbor there were these 2 ladies and I mouth “help,he’s following me” and then I said “Omg hi Auntie Sarah and Marie how are you” and they just played along with it,the man left,I found my key and I’m still safe till this day :)

  • @MsLaurenPanda
    @MsLaurenPanda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This compilation video is actually really hard not to cry at... Attempted kidnapping, stalker men.. ugh why must some men be creepy predators?

  • @ceciliaj3148
    @ceciliaj3148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Does anyone relate?:
    • When a car drives slowly towards you on the road, you get SO scared? One time a bunch of men decided to make a sick joke, so they drives, and then drives for like 10 seconds beside me with the windows up, and then i started running the opposite way, and they rolled their windows down and screamed ”it was a joke, calm the fu k down” and then laughed and drived away….
    • When a man walks off the same bus station and then walks the same way as you, even just for a minute. This is especially scary at night, or in remote areas of course.
    • Parking lots. Yeah, just parking lots….
    • Mini vans. Idk why, but i feel like kidnappers always has a mini van lmao.
    • Walking past cars in the middle of the night. It feels like someone is gonna sit in the car and just grab you. I also live in a more scetchy area in Sweden, and often, men just sit in their car at night in the parking lot balow my apartment. Idk if they are sleeping there or just selling drugs or whatever, but its really scary.

  • @unstablegingy6755
    @unstablegingy6755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought this would cure my anxiety about man, but it’s actually confirming me to not talk to man

  • @theoceanskyesystem9463
    @theoceanskyesystem9463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Similar story, I was out with my daughter on a Saturday and a lass around 15 and started making conversation, I went along with it, funnily enough, there was a lad following her, she then stayed with us for the entire time we were in town because we were both very paranoid.

  • @TheMariangel95
    @TheMariangel95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The van walking with her dog story something sort of similar has happened to me plenty of times when there are suspicious vans when I'm out walking in my neighborhood so now I don't go out to walk at all anymore

    • @animalkingdom2871
      @animalkingdom2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, but not same. Those things happen to me...
      I still walk outside...
      Feels like paranoia at that point. Don't let your fears run your life🤷

    • @TheMariangel95
      @TheMariangel95 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@animalkingdom2871 yeah, I'll do what I want.

    • @animalkingdom2871
      @animalkingdom2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMariangel95 k

  • @janicebeatty7553
    @janicebeatty7553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Story where the woman was being followed by those men I could only think that was the power of God saving you she sent those angels cuz them girls didn't even know you and they tried to write in God can protect us in ways we never expected and just because it seems like sometimes he's not there he's there and he's got you

    • @serpentinewolf7085
      @serpentinewolf7085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got me. I don’t like pretending someone’s there to “protect” me. Such logic and false belief could make your comfortable… comfortable gets you killed or worse.

  • @noellebirr4178
    @noellebirr4178 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was actually more so my dog’s quick thinking than mine. But a few months ago, I was out on a walk with my dog and we had just walked right past the church just around the corner from my house. As soon as we walked past the church, I noticed a grey car turn in my direction and then slowing down to go at the same speed as me. I thought that they were just trying to find an address at first because there are quite a few houses that live next the church. But I had a gut feeling that something was not quite right about the driver. About 30 seconds into the incident, the car speeds up just a little bit to where the back passenger seat was perfectly parallel to me and pulled over right next to me and my dog. I stop in my tracks and I can literally see the guy in the drivers seat staring at me, waiting for me to keep walking. I was trying to run the other way but instead of following after me, my dog lunges at the car window, teeth bared, snarling, and barking. The guy got scared and sped off almost blowing through the stop sign and my dog then attempted to chase after the car. Normally, my dog is very loving and welcoming with strangers, so it was very very unusual for her to react that way. I showered her with extra treats and cuddles that night lol because she literally saved me from a creepo. Stay safe out there everyone! :)

  • @zayna6661
    @zayna6661 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear the amount of courage these beautiful girls have is amazing

  • @darriennemartin4083
    @darriennemartin4083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was at a bar with friends (in a college party town). I was pretty far gone and was dancing with friends and another group next to us. Randomly these two guys walk up to me and say they’re security and they have to escort me out the party. I’m an assault survivor and my parents just always taught me about these dangers… I’m always on high alert especially if I’ve had drinks. So I tapped a guy’s shoulder my group was dancing with and told him hey they say I have to leave. Him and his friends take those two guys to security who had no idea who they were and escorted them to the police officers that patrol outside the bars. It was very obvious sex trafficking

  • @SunBunz
    @SunBunz ปีที่แล้ว

    That gentleman in Turkey was awesome. What a sweetheart. Good deeds like that are NEVER forgotten.

  • @CarolineJuliette57
    @CarolineJuliette57 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The people who went along with stories are amazing! Like the guy in the last story who pretended to be their brother.

  • @fireygaby
    @fireygaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I honeslty never had an intense story like these woman had but i remember when i was a little kid about 9 years old i was going home right after school and this old woman came to me and offered me a candy... but what was the creepy thing is that the woman had her FINGER inside the candy bar! and i clearly saw that! i freaked out and remembered what my mom used to say about strangers so i ran away, the next thing i knew i saw some people around that old woman dressed in black talking or something and i just ran and got home, i honestly dont know if i was in real danger but i was scared shitless

  • @kviana
    @kviana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I use my scary dog privileges when by myself or with friends going out🌝

    • @jazberrybear
      @jazberrybear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want scary dog privileges now…

  • @cassandrathomson9791
    @cassandrathomson9791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I was 18 I went to Guyana which is in South America. My friend and accidently booked our return flights one day apart and found out at the air port I couldn't get on the plane with her. She had something important to deal with back in canada so I told her I would just wait at the airport for 24 hours and be fine. She left and forgot to give part of the money for the taxi so I paid in full and had no more Guyanese dollars left, only Canadian which wasn't accepted often. I ended up asking around where I could change canadian dollars to American which was more accepted and staff took me to the head of the airport. Alone in his office he asked me a lot of questions and told me I could come spend the night in his "guest house" and he could make sure a staff member was with me to keep me company so I wasn't uncomfortable. I contemplated the offer but frankly it sounded sketchy... he took me that day to a meeting with another airport in a different part of the country and because it was a security meeting I waited in vehicle with his driver for like 2 hours. While driving the head of the airport guy tried to suggest he could take me to nice clubs he knew of. I told him I don't go to clubs or wild partying because of my Christian lifestyle (that was ture becasue he knew I was in Guyana for missionary type work) Thankfully my friends living in guyana drove 2.5 hrs back to the airport to get me and find safer accomadations until my flight departed. The head of the airport was hesitant to let me go but knew I had already told my friends where I was and what happened. Later the local friends told me it was a real threat for a "white" person to be abducted and sold in sex trafficking. I was naive and definitely didn't save myself but I think my friends and speaking about my Christian lifestyle really saved me.

  • @jesszz3162
    @jesszz3162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi girls! Even males listen to this
    If ANY girl walks up to you and says something like
    “Hi, Sally! How is Kayla's foot?”
    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE go along with it
    It means that somebody is following them and they are pretending that a friend is nearby
    no matter HOW WEIRD IT IS
    in the end, you have SAVED SOMEBODY's LIFE!
    Make sure to also get them home safely!
    S P R E A D

  • @piniatafullofblood
    @piniatafullofblood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The sad part is that I don’t doubt any of these are real stories.

  • @leenmaher2641
    @leenmaher2641 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless the man she talked about in the last clip. Humanity needs more of these dudes

  • @vampyretime177
    @vampyretime177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember the time I was walking from work home from work alone and they had a group of guys following me and I was scared, but this cab driver pull up to me pretended I requested his cab. He picked me up for 3 years without paying until I got my own car and I still speak with him daily. Bhuvan is a good man and many men should be like him.

  • @goldenlamb777
    @goldenlamb777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I travelled alone in Milan. I’m Russian. I got off at a wrong station. A man quickly started approaching me. There was nobody around. I speak many languages. But for some reason I decided at that moment I was going to use Russian language and yell at him in Russian. He said come to me my princess in Italian. I yelled at him and instead of running away to where I had no clue where I was going I ran towards him in a very aggressive manner!! Like I had a weapon and I was very determined. Those two things saved me.
    My language and my assertion.
    Have a good and safe day.
    Get vaccinated.
    Don’t listen to propaganda.
    And please remove negative people out of your life even if they are your family.
    ❤️❤️❤️

    • @melody-cz2ly
      @melody-cz2ly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      how would you remove people?

    • @goldenlamb777
      @goldenlamb777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melody-cz2ly lol 😂 who do you need to remove ?

  • @zuzuwu.
    @zuzuwu. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not really a life or d3ath situation but
    Always whenever I get out of the car alone to pick up my little brother (it’s new, my mum never let me go around on my own, I’m only in my mid teens rn)
    I’d go to the crossing and cross the road but there’s always a couple men who cross with me, but walk behind me
    I’m literally next to the school on a very open and public road and I’m still scared
    But yesterday some boy crossed behind me and idk I just stopped, ig he took the hint and quickly walked to in front of me and I stayed behind him until we got to the school gates but doing that gave me lots of confidence I never knew I needed

  • @dontsettle4243
    @dontsettle4243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Personal Personal Stuff is like a hug. Don't let nobody hug you without permission. Especially if you are not feeling it. Listen to your "tummy buzzer" it will tell you if something is off or not. More importantly if something normalized does not feel normal to you, then don't do it. Fxxk what everyone else thinks. Remember that if it bothers you, then it bothers you. Its really as simple as that. Also keep researching people who listened to their intuition and it paid off. The stories could be a paragraph and/or 10-15 seconds long. Listen to them. Listen to a whole bunch. It will stop you from going nose blind to ignoring it. Hope this Helps!!!

  • @tomorrowbytogether6594
    @tomorrowbytogether6594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was about nine me and my sister had holidays and went with my mom to bring our brother to kindergarten.
    My aunt lived near that kindergarten so since my mum was caught up in a convo with someone there, she told us we could go ahead and visit our aunt who was about a three to five minute walk away from the kindergarten.
    And it was a little town in daytime everyone here knows each other so it's usually pretty safe there.
    So me and my little sister start waking and on our way there, I notice two men.
    They were dressed in casual suits, one of them was wearing a hat and they both wore black shoes that made sort of a clacking sound when they walked.
    However as we kept getting closer to my aunt's house I kept seeing those guys more often.
    They weren't actually following behind us but also walking through streets next to us as if they were trying to cut our way. So I got a bad feeling and felt scared.
    I told my sister to walk faster and went through other streets to avoid them.
    When we were just about a street away from the house we heard the steps of their shoes again and I was sure we were being followed.
    So me and my sister ran the last steps to the door and rang the bell like crazy.
    Just when our aunt opened the door for us and we went in, the guys had reached the street and came around the corner.
    I closed the door behind me really fast.
    And I actually heard them come up and knock at the door.
    I told my sister to not open the door and we waited a bit till the steps moved away.
    When I tell you I've never been this scared in my life!
    My aunt lived in a flat of that house so we went up and told her about those men.
    She looked for them out of the window but they were gone.
    And that's why I think being a woman in this world is so unsafe and I hate that. I know so many girls whose life had been at risk just because of men. Please be safe ladies. And never go out alone at night since we're not even safe in daytime!!!
    Sending hugs byee

  • @brandyyolidio4213
    @brandyyolidio4213 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad people are in tune with their instincts and can sense danger, but PLEASE be extra careful if you must go out at night, it socks that it is that way but it is. If it can wait, let it or take a sibling, friend, and a weapon that you are comfortable using

  • @ni-kinotniki
    @ni-kinotniki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is not my story, this happened to my sister three years ago.
    She was coming come back from visiting her boyfriend, she was just walking alone and a boy approached her, he put his arm around her shoulder pretending to be friendly and as if they're friends casually meeting and then he told her that a van is parked near them, that he wanted her to stay calm, get into the van and follow everything he tells her without trying anything or he'd shoot her right there, he gave her indications of what to do when she gets in so they just keep walking towards the van and when she spotted an small street food shop she quickly ran towards it and hide behind the bar, when she was calmed enough she explained what happened and the owner told her to wait for his older son to come back so they can take her come in the car and they did, they drove her safe to our house and she told us everything what happened.

  • @freepalestine7097
    @freepalestine7097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my advice would be for girls never EVER to walk alone, specially at night or in areas that don't have much movement going on. Please walk in groups or have a male accompanying you. You can also take self defense classes. Be safe sisters.

  • @evangeline77x
    @evangeline77x 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless the Syrian gentleman for helping the last girl and her sister in Turkey! What a kind and considerate person he must be to have not only taken control in that situation and told off the creepy man, but to have also gone the extra mile to ensure the girl's arrived safely to their destination and even carried their suitcase on his back?! Love that ❤ I hope he is well and thriving wherever he is!

  • @hobistinyheartbag
    @hobistinyheartbag 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg that “NOT TODAY” gives me chills!! 😭

  • @gritsonamission
    @gritsonamission 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last story was lovely. It's so great to see stories that call out men for stepping up and being the good guys, even when so many of our stories like these start off with men who frighten us. Wish I knew what she was saying in Arabic, though.

  • @fluff3226
    @fluff3226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The entire van story made me feel so bad. Because my family tends to go to places for like parties or to pick up things they've bought off like Facebook. Every single time, we end up doubling back at least once, on occasion 3 maybe even 4 times to the same street, driving slower each time. The amount of people we've probably given heart attacks. Last time, we went out to party with my dad's friend and on that same street was this maybe 30 yo guy mowing his lawn. And while yes, probably a lot less paranoid than a girl, still freaked him out. Could tell because every time, with out fail, he would either slow down or come to a full stop and just watch until we drove away.

  • @nahnau6680
    @nahnau6680 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When someone who bullied me trys acting like they know me to get away from a stalker: OH HOW THE TABLES HAVE TURNED

  • @reever_r
    @reever_r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a story: one time when I was like 9 I weant to a ice cream truck that was in my neighborhood and got ice cream but as I walked back this guy parked in front of me and he look really scary like it was this balding old man with dark shaggy hair and said can you get me a ice cream I’ll hand you some money get me some ice cream so my first instinct I said “oh my mom needs me back to help her with work she is a police officer and if I’m gone for too long is gonna track me with her crew” and this dude looked kinda scared cus at that point he though my mom was gonna look for me cus she was a “over protective police officer” which wasn’t true at all my moms a flight attendant but than I ran away and told my mom what happened and she was proud.

  • @denalihedgehog
    @denalihedgehog 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was once standing at a bus stop in front of a shopping mall. It was not particularly late but it was winter and pretty dark. So, there's no one around me except for one car that goes forward, stops, goes back, stops near me, goes back and forth, etc. Then he drives to me and asks if I need a drive, or help or whatever. At this point I notice a taxi that ls going along the street, i stop it, jump in and ask the driver to take me out of there. He took me to a safer place from where I could take a bus home, even though he was supposed to get his passenger, and didn't even ask for money

  • @smileyone1612
    @smileyone1612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Driving with my 4 year old and was cruising on the far left side of a school bus towards an intersection. My senses immediately went into super hyper awareness realizing a loaded semi truck pulling two trailers, was sitting in the turning lane to turn my direction, and also in the right side of the intersection, probably can't see me hidden behind the bus. The bus then turns on his right turn signal, and my senses are telling me that the truck I saw in the turning lane, to come this way, is going to turn and he can't see me! I had already started to slow down realizing all this, and sure enough, the truck came into my view in the middle of the intersection after the bus turned right! We would have T-boned him at 55 mph right between the two trailers! I'm sure my daughter & I would be dead if I hadn't paid attention to those feelings. And I truly believe it was the Holy Ghost.

  • @Not.Soph938
    @Not.Soph938 ปีที่แล้ว

    the last guy is AMAZING, also, as a woman i get so anxious when a man so much as walks my way in public, once again as that girl said, id rather be paranoid then dead.

  • @tianajensen7224
    @tianajensen7224 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU ARE ALL HEROS AND SO VERY WISE AND BRAVE! I knew I should've watched this before bed cause this is terrifying!

  • @Seevawonderloaf
    @Seevawonderloaf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That guy in the last story! What an angel seriously

  • @adrianazashen
    @adrianazashen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't remember where I read this one, but a woman was at a subway by herself. She noticed the guys in the back were eyeing her and slowly getting closer. They were the only 3 on the ride, so she started mumbling to herself, laughing, rocking back and forth. Not sure if "acting crazy" works all the time, as some people see an easy victim, but it worked for her.

  • @sedameansstrong
    @sedameansstrong 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also got almost kidnapped in Turkey by a Taxi driver. He sexually harassed me in the car, he told me he would bring me somewhere else to buy me food, asked me intimidating questions….. Nothing saved me, I was just lucky he decided not to kidnap me for some reason, but he realized I knew what he was up to.. and he said „you‘re lucky, I don‘t do THAT anymore“- funny to think this was the ONLY TIME I took a taxi by myself in istanbul and I was just going from airport to the haven located 8 minutes by car from there.

  • @venessafergo2586
    @venessafergo2586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the fact that there is a whole series of videos of just women feeling unsafe is pretty sad! and here we say we live in a modern world...

  • @GalactiKez
    @GalactiKez 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    when i was 14 i was late for school and it was about a 15-20 minute walk to get there depending on which route i took, i was annoyed at being late already but by the time i would get to school roll call would be half done so i decided to leave a little later so i could just go straight to the office to sign in instead of stuffing around with roll call so i took a different route to school using a main road.
    about 5 minutes into my walk i noticed an older man walking about 30 metres behind me, i was like “eh probably just a normal person commuting somewhere” but i couldn’t shake this weird feeling that something was off. so i crossed the road and the dude followed. now i was like “okay that’s weird” so i crossed back over again and he did the same.. again. this is when i started to freak out, so i took a side street and BOLTED down until i saw another street i could run up, before i did i turned around and he was walking very quickly down the street i just ran down, so i turned up the next street and ran until the next one and just kept turning into different streets until i got to school. thankfully i lost him, when i got to school i told the office i was scared because someone was following me on my way to school today. they ended up calling police to surveil the area for a while during school zone hours.

  • @goglurt428
    @goglurt428 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That nausea and stomach feeling everyone described is actually a evolutionary response humans developed during the Neolithic period to helps indict when dangers near by, all animals have this instinct in a unique way.

    • @goglurt428
      @goglurt428 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always listen to it, it’s there for a reason

  • @lc4life369
    @lc4life369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I get really creeped out by someone, (wich has only happened a few times in my life) I was taught to go to the very first house you can and act like you live there by just walking into the driveway as though your going to a back door. I did this like twice and the person kept going. Of odviously if its real you might need to hide or run if they follow you. Another idea I have when I'm creeped out that I haven't tried yet, is to pull out my phone and pretend I'm talking to someone. And I'd say something like "hey I'm on this street" (say Street name) and be like "ok see you in a second then " so the creepy person thinks someone is right around the corner to get me. The first thing I mentioned is kinda good now that so many people have cameras pointing on there property these days but sometimes you don't have a home close enough to go to. Also I think some of these stories are just people who were wrong and there was no creep. One time I was walking far behind a little boy (I'm female btw) and I saw him looking back at me several times. you could see he was nurvous. As I got closer (I was just walking normal speed but he was slower) he looked back one last time then booked it running. I knew he was scared of me because he did exactly what I did when I was a kid and had a grown man walking behind me. I felt so bad for the boy but I'm glad he knows not to trust everyone atleast.

  • @ebbryant
    @ebbryant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a scary world. This makes me think of this sci-fi novel & i wish it was real life! It's called The Power by Naomi Alderman. 'Its central premise is women developing the ability to release electrical jolts from their fingers, thus leading them to become the dominant gender.'

  • @Nyxiedoesstuffig
    @Nyxiedoesstuffig 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless the guy who helped the sisters who were being watched on the bus(the ending story)

  • @downtherabbithole9143
    @downtherabbithole9143 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You know if you asked men this question, they’d talk about near misses with car accidents or extreme sports or feats of heroism.
    With women, we all have ‘these’ stories to tell.
    That’s why we choose the bear.

  • @FloraMecha
    @FloraMecha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a story.
    So, when I was 15 or 16, I was riding my bike to the gas station. It was snowing and there's a few people walking their dogs and one guy says Hi to me, I say hi, while I'm riding. He tried to have small talk as I'm riding, and eventually I peddle away. I get my things, start peddling back home, and the same guy comes up to me from across the street and introduces himself. I start to get a bad feeling, then he asks me for my number and if I want to go to the movies. He's a 30 year old man and I was 15 or 16 years old, so that was a sign that I needed to go. So, I say no, he keeps insisting, I say no again, and I ride off as fast as I can. I didn't go back outside for a long time. I'm 18 now, and I learned from this. Also I'm a girl. Which makes this worse.

  • @nilanjana1901
    @nilanjana1901 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's true we do have a sixth sense that tells us to be ready to either face the danger, scream or just run as fast as possible.

  • @jazwhoaskedforthis
    @jazwhoaskedforthis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And men wonder why women say men are trash. Every single woman I know has an experience like this.