Dealing w/ Toxic People, Balancing It All, Healing Journey + My Trick To Conceive Twins?

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  • @donnamck8324
    @donnamck8324 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I love that you’re open but so protective of your family’s identities and share only what’s necessary.

  • @ruthiemill
    @ruthiemill 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    Hi Kim! I’ve been a subbie since BackSyncFan 🤭. I have seen (and truly proud of) your growth over the years. I’ve really never seen any negative comments, or at least I haven’t bumped into any. And I believe it’s because you’ve been authentic and consistent through it all. And I (we) appreciate you for that. I wish you more blessings and continued growth 🙏🏾

    • @brittanijohnson7399
      @brittanijohnson7399 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      I second this comment. I've been following Kim for years. She is so genuine, and her energy is pure. Love her to life!!!

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      I appreciate you immensely for this comment 🤗

    • @ruthiemill
      @ruthiemill 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brittanijohnson7399 True!

    • @brittmar538
      @brittmar538 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me too lol

    • @helenogbonna3361
      @helenogbonna3361 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So their is someone I am scared of from my childhood I don’t wanna say why or how she is a bad influence to me but I wanna see through it I wish she never existed in my life I am older than her and fell like I have to uplift

  • @sunshinekay6700
    @sunshinekay6700 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    There are no tricks to conceiving twins it is the grace of God! 🙏🏾

    • @tyvette5414
      @tyvette5414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly

    • @djidjine5082
      @djidjine5082 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. But there’s tricks on how to conceive a specific gender

    • @Princessfrmalmighty
      @Princessfrmalmighty 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree

    • @mandeeqahmed9225
      @mandeeqahmed9225 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯

  • @TheExWife
    @TheExWife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Hi Kim! I always enjoy a good Q&A. I'm 52 yrs old and I still find your advice very helpful. Especially, the part about taking risks. I'm not per se a BIG risk taker but I do believe it's sometimes necessary. I don't like feeling stagnant.

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Hey! I always love seeing you show up! 🤗 And as long as you are intentionally growing no matter how much, that is success in itself! ❤️

    • @TheExWife
      @TheExWife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@thechicnatural , agreed! 😊

    • @KenyaG.
      @KenyaG. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm 50, and I've been following Kim for 11 years when I began my natural hair journey back in 2013. 💇🏾‍♀️ I have been inspired, especially with veganism lifestyle. 😊

  • @tiaraking1301
    @tiaraking1301 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    To breastfeed two you can feed both and use a pillow to assist holding them. Make sure you switch them to each side because one side holds more milk. Have snacks to help with energy and milk supply. The more skin contact you do the more likely you will produce enough milk for babies needs. Bumping is a whole other process

  • @MsWillita8
    @MsWillita8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    You’re lucky to have a supportive spouse ❤

    • @helenogbonna3361
      @helenogbonna3361 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My dad has been passive aggressive to my family for years but besides I love my life

    • @mtjohn125
      @mtjohn125 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Super blessed!

  • @nicolehill8265
    @nicolehill8265 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I like how you incorporate motivation talks in your videos. Its natural for you. ThankYou

    • @helenogbonna3361
      @helenogbonna3361 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I only have one bad parent but everything is ok I honestly imagine my life without them 💔

  • @tashascornerkitchen
    @tashascornerkitchen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Definitely been following you for YEARS and your overall growth is absolutely AMAZING! Keep shining! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💕

  • @shamoyabruce712
    @shamoyabruce712 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Always love your videos, your openness while still maintaining privacy. You truly inspire me. This hair is so cute on you, hope to see a tutorial soon.

  • @DenayTheDiva
    @DenayTheDiva 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’ve always enjoyed watching your content over the years! Your tenacity for growth and self-development is always so refreshing! ❤✨

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That’s true Kim , I remember feeling the same way about all 5 of our children !
    Our twins are our last 2, they are 19 now!! We have 32,30,28, 19,19!
    I heard that about having the kids at different times in your life is definitely a blessing!!
    I agree , our 28 year old is really close to the twins, she was the most helpful and willing to spend time with them when they were little!
    All of them have special relationships!
    Our 12 and 10 year old was soooo excited to find out that I was pregnant with twins!!

  • @angeliaF2622
    @angeliaF2622 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was really good! I dont usually last throughout Q&A's. Been following you for a quite a while, since you were still working in corporate and doing a lot of hair tutorials. You've always had a spirit of excellence I can definetly see the growth. Wishing you continued success.

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Based on a lot of the questions, I think a lot of people think that Kim is single. She clearly has a very supportive partner, as well as an adult child to help her. I think that makes a big difference.

    • @aesinam
      @aesinam 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think they know she has a partner. Unfortunately, many people don't have supportive partners hence they don't know how that works. They only know situations where the new mum does everything more or less by herself. It's sad but true for many

  • @misunderstoodkj
    @misunderstoodkj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Hi Kim, how are you able to stay so private in your personal family life but still be public with yourself on social media? This is my dilemma. I want to keep my family life private but still be public enough where people can relate to me and be my actual target audience.

  • @rondas7772
    @rondas7772 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I just wanna say, you appear to be very kind and genuine. Some of the influencers are a little nice nasty and "snappy" to their commentors. Thx for being energetically nspirited, kind, and helpful. I love all of your videos. Much appreciated ❤

  • @kayvee3345
    @kayvee3345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love that you have a supportive partner..wishing the same for me and other single mothers . Thank you for sharing tips and advice, I always look forward to your videos!

  • @veliciawilliams1018
    @veliciawilliams1018 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great sit down chit chat Kim. You have evolve over the years beautifully. Your knowledge and confidence really shines through. Keep up the amazing content creation. Would love a tutorial on this hair style and where do you get your hair? Thanks Kim. 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @FallonMyers
    @FallonMyers 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hi Kim! You look amazing ✨ you are a light and a motivation. Thanks for being you!

  • @IAMElsLife
    @IAMElsLife 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh wow, this is a really cool life coaching video. I so enjoy how you let your devine light shine so bright. Thank you so very much for sharing so much valuable information on just a wide range of topics. Abundant blessings to you and your gorgeous family.❤🙏🏽

  • @MsEmpressneka
    @MsEmpressneka 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s nice to see your growth and success. Congratulations to you and your family and on all your accomplishments 😊

  • @myebonytower
    @myebonytower 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Elevation requires separation!! Yessss! I've been working on growing my TH-cam Channel and literally have gotten tunnel vision and had to quiet all the naysayers and haters...in my family, etc!! I am growing slow and steady and sooooo proud of myself!! Thank you for this, I'm going to pick up the book. 👏🏽

  • @tracyrizo8925
    @tracyrizo8925 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i believe its so thoughtful of you to be committed as you are to your followers. it shows how much you care and honers yourself and the people who honestly care about you. thank you so much for keeping me in you thoughts -Tania Charles

  • @dominique2o06
    @dominique2o06 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for the general personal stuff we should focus on it's good to remember to push the toxic things out of your life. I don't have babies but I still enjoy hearing you experience anyways. 💕

  • @NYCAppl3
    @NYCAppl3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a set of twins, and that double stroller frame was theeee absolute best! I really loved mine, and yes, nursing was a challenge for me as well (supply and demand) 😊

  • @Lena_Hill
    @Lena_Hill 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Good morning, Kim! Always great to see you pop up!! So awesome!❤👌🏾

  • @candiblue9280
    @candiblue9280 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Kim I love that u are still willing to educate yourself more especially in a new language is really hard keep being a beautiful person in mind and spirit ❤❤❤

  • @tsnell80
    @tsnell80 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey lady, quick video suggestion. Can you do a week meal prep series using recipes from your book only? I am trying to cook through your cookbook challenge before the end of the year. I am determined to try every recipe in this book.

  • @tammypatterson7354
    @tammypatterson7354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good morning, Kim!
    Thanks for your encouraging words today.😊

  • @shizzy7362
    @shizzy7362 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for all the wisdom you pass down to us Kim❤

  • @Kellytania972
    @Kellytania972 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Kim. C'est vraiment super de ta part de continuer à apprendre le français (une fan de France). You are truly inspiring to women for all ages 🙂!

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember being a few weeks pregnant when I found out I was pregnant with our twins, I was soo nervous.
    On the ultrasound they were literally dots in my womb.
    I had a miscarriage a few months before getting pregnant with them.
    They are definitely a beautiful blessings!!

  • @shejustwantsout2694
    @shejustwantsout2694 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are such a beautiful person, Kim❤Inside, and out! Loved this video❤️

  • @alona724
    @alona724 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love that… in the form of a book. I honestly feel that’s how I’ve been able to best digest this type of info. Coaching can be extremely powerful… but it can also be another job… that is kind of why it works I think because you have to commit. But, I think change can also happen by reading and digesting it at your own pace. I also know some coaches feel drained… but, I’m sure there’s a way to do it where you can reach many without depleting yourself… probably a course. But, that’s dope that you would even consider something like that in this stage of the game. I would def pay for it… even if it was just to pay for an hour of time to chat and get advice off top… lots of ways to do it. I’m excited to see what might come of this.

  • @michelarosier1918
    @michelarosier1918 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 Thanks for your encouragement words, and also sharing the book titled with us. I will look into it myself to help me on my journey 2024.

  • @katrinathompson1132
    @katrinathompson1132 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Kim congrats on the family additions and very good informative video Please do a video on the style you are rocking in this video. Thanks

  • @courtneylovely111
    @courtneylovely111 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you please share the details on your hair in this video? This is a perfect summer style ☀️

  • @rjsmiley89
    @rjsmiley89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just got to the middle omggg I needed to hear this love 💕 your words that truly reshaped somethings

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed this video! Your mindset and work ethic is amazing. I love your sit down chit chat videos so much, I always learn something new. I’m going to purchase that book too.💛

  • @isobelandianabakah-phillip8611
    @isobelandianabakah-phillip8611 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hey Kim could you do a wash day routine i cant find ur old one thank you ! you are amaizing ! have a great day.

  • @Narsha43
    @Narsha43 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your make up looks so beautiful, you look amazing!

  • @IshaMar
    @IshaMar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You got me into thrifting!!!!! I didn’t even know that was a thing!!! I aspire to be as driven as you!!!

  • @shuntayswanson6197
    @shuntayswanson6197 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello there kim.. Love the Real of it all❤ Blessings on top of Blessings and more.. God come first always Love, Hugs 😊

  • @jeneliddell2681
    @jeneliddell2681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Having a doula helps with a birth plan, I really enjoyed my doula and I was able to give birth to my 3rd child without any drugs.

  • @lenessaclark2032
    @lenessaclark2032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every mom should & must do what is best for her child. Info just came out about sleepsacs, and retailers like Amazon & Target are discontinuing sales due to safety concerns.

  • @gloriaharrison6346
    @gloriaharrison6346 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello there! Thank you for sharing this information. I really appreciate the growth I've seen in you as a person. Keep being you. 😀

  • @tamoumoune1
    @tamoumoune1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kim you have to come to Quebec and be surrounded with french canadians!! Its closer to the U.S and cheaper to go 😉 You'll be able to practice your french more !! There's a big black community there (specially carribbeans ,haitians) ! Bonne Chance 😊

  • @SpiritLives
    @SpiritLives 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Honest and truth for sure 10:02. ❤I appreciate your channel and your spirit.

  • @VANESSASBLESSEDLIFE
    @VANESSASBLESSEDLIFE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great tips you are always so informative

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you my dear!

  • @lwanelemathebula461
    @lwanelemathebula461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hi Kim❤ please give us an update on how you're growing back your edges

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      OK! Will try to remember to include that in next video!

  • @sunamethyst283
    @sunamethyst283 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You look so beautiful ❤❤ The hair here can we do a tutorial please cause I need this look ❤❤

  • @mickeydiam7387
    @mickeydiam7387 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good morning, Keep up the good work. Excellent video.

  • @missterri8207
    @missterri8207 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Greetings Kim, thanks for sharing your experiences, etc. Although, you were a little vague in answering the question of what a birth plan looks like (more examples)😉

  • @shanitatravis3525
    @shanitatravis3525 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The was such a BEA-U-TI-FUL video
    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @pamelagordon8072
    @pamelagordon8072 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Kim, Enjoy your videos, so inspiration, God bless you 🙏🙏

  • @seygra20
    @seygra20 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love your hairstyle did you do it yourself? if yes, do you have a tutorial?

  • @Mztonyg
    @Mztonyg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a professor who offers life-coaching classes and she is here on TH-cam. Her name is Dr. Carletta Artis. She is awesome!

  • @Stacie_for_real
    @Stacie_for_real 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved this video great question selections. Kim I really enjoy your videos

  • @sandybeach176
    @sandybeach176 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You always have good & positive advice & information.And u r blessed 2have great scructure & support👍🙏💛💕

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m with you on breast feeding. I am pumping and formula feeding. It’s said you should pump 8xs a day if you’re not bringing baby to breast. I’m barely doing pumping twice a day. It’s not easy

  • @chocnass
    @chocnass 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My son HATED his swing. We returned it so fast 🤣

  • @AnnAdeva1
    @AnnAdeva1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Treating these like a podcast while I clean. So much to take away from this!!

  • @tomecamuir6185
    @tomecamuir6185 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your content. All the best to you and the family. You are amazing ❤❤.

  • @nicolehill8265
    @nicolehill8265 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    looking good luv the hair

  • @jocelynford4209
    @jocelynford4209 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great Q&A! Thank you!❤

  • @lelliesosa7039
    @lelliesosa7039 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family.

  • @KettasCoils_After50
    @KettasCoils_After50 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Happy early Mother’s Day, everyone.
    Is your jewelry site no longer up? I can’t seem to get to it. It’s very possible that it’s a user error 😂

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much!! 💕 Here is my jewelry site link: secondandc.com/

    • @KettasCoils_After50
      @KettasCoils_After50 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thechicnatural Thank you!! I’m going on a special trip soon, and I KNOW that your jewelry is going to be perfect for it. Love you, Kim

  • @Nesha2799
    @Nesha2799 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A fed baby is a happy healthy baby ❤ I tried breast feeding and tandem nursing and you're right it's alot and I had to do what was best 🥰

  • @ItsallaboutBee
    @ItsallaboutBee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy Sunday beautiful!! ❤

  • @MBeezy12
    @MBeezy12 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    NEED the hair tutorial!

  • @peakpotentialwithjulia
    @peakpotentialwithjulia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Mother's Day Queen

  • @DesCoop
    @DesCoop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You would be a great life coach

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So Kim I almost relaxed a patch beneath the crown of my hair😁😁😁it was terribly matted and formed a dreadlock. It was a nightmare 😓😰😥😢 and i decided to brave it out and put some avo and a conditioner that had some aloe, then i went to a store where i usually buy cheap hair products and bought a detangler. I couldn't even do my hair. Had to ask my sister, after a day where i put all i thought would help and had it overnight with a plastic cap. I though id have a bald patch😅😂😁 But i did lose a lot of hair. Was struggling to get the right detangler and have no natural ingredients like aloe and all that good stuff even in-store. It was a nightmare❗❗❗😭😭😭Im still emotionally and mentally recovering. Hope my scalp and hair recovers too. I couldn't even go to the salon coz i hate how they treat people with natural hair from my area and how they dont even bother to research and give a better service. Phew!!! I just need to catch a breathe after all that. Imagine, it was days ago but im still recovering 😬 i actually feel like laughing and crying at the same time 😅

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always great to see you❤

  • @krystlemaes4400
    @krystlemaes4400 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love your vlogs!

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you do a body care products from head to toe video? Please

  • @judidavistube
    @judidavistube 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent as usual 👌🏽

  • @fitnesswithyou
    @fitnesswithyou 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen, Amen...and Amen again!

  • @mzmeshelle
    @mzmeshelle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Elevation requires separation. Need that on a Tshirt

  • @rosebrendahkatusiime7117
    @rosebrendahkatusiime7117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Kim! I enjoyed ur Q & A. Very inspirational and educational. I liked the hair too 😊. Is it possible to share the link for the hair 🥰.

  • @anisa2851
    @anisa2851 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this!!!!! Amazing content.

  • @Vanessa-qy3lt
    @Vanessa-qy3lt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video, thanks for sharing. 🙂

  • @chanikamcclinton1146
    @chanikamcclinton1146 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you so much for this video. I love your hair. Can you do hair tutorial.

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have a great week 😀

  • @kdogg1372
    @kdogg1372 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just love your vibe❤❤❤

  • @rjsmiley89
    @rjsmiley89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you and I’m proud of you

  • @YellowDiamond646
    @YellowDiamond646 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love The Parisian Agency on Netflix! I know very little French so I watch with English subtitles but I can still tell the translation is still slightly off

  • @jalyssagray8070
    @jalyssagray8070 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really love your hair! Hair tutorial please ☺️

  • @khalilah1160
    @khalilah1160 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9:39 There is a saying that goes...First they ask, 'Why'..then they ask 'How'

  • @mustardseedfaith
    @mustardseedfaith 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your hair Kim! Can you provide the name of the style?

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Looks like butterfly locs of jumbo locs or twist

  • @teshekarobinson4827
    @teshekarobinson4827 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video, hair tutorial please on this style please

  • @tmofori
    @tmofori 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

  • @lillianmawile2465
    @lillianmawile2465 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loving the hair is there a video on it

  • @Reynoldsgirlsx2
    @Reynoldsgirlsx2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What’s the hair details?

  • @deirdrethompson4508
    @deirdrethompson4508 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonderful video. You look gorgeous 💐

  • @chachakrystal4693
    @chachakrystal4693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Use shea butter on belly to avoid stretch marks while you pregnant.

  • @Ty_keepliving
    @Ty_keepliving 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your hair. What are they called? I would like to get this style.

  • @truebelieversallarewelcome7876
    @truebelieversallarewelcome7876 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    blessings 🙂 🍼🍼🍼🍼

  • @Voyer97
    @Voyer97 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently saw a news report about the weighted sacks for babies being hazardous for babies because in can affect their breathing. There may have also been a recall of these items. I’m sorry, that I don’t recall the news outlet source, but please check it out.

    • @bbgirl800
      @bbgirl800 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Second this. They improved my babies sleep so much!!!Was really annoyed that they were recalled but i stopped using them.

  • @shannonlee1070
    @shannonlee1070 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're amazing!

  • @dricee8
    @dricee8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video. 😊♥️