Kasal | Payaman Talks | Episode 10 (Full)

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  • @pusanggala2697
    @pusanggala2697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I like carding's thought when he said na you need to be stable before even entering in a relationship. Like parang you date to marry.

  • @sheialipio
    @sheialipio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +588

    ANG GALING MAGISIP NI CONG ABOUT DUN SA PAGTRAVEL NILA. "INFLUENCER KA TAPOS PANAY PA ANG TRAVEL MO, PARANG MASAKIT KA SA MATA".

    • @kingbiii2492
      @kingbiii2492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tama ka crush

    • @metro2079
      @metro2079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love you crushie ganda mo nmn istalk kta sa fb

    • @hehe3941
      @hehe3941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ang galing tlga ng Grilfriend ko ❤️❤️❤️

    • @sheialipio
      @sheialipio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hehe3941 HAHAHAHAHAHAH

    • @jang5901
      @jang5901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bat nyo ako inaagawan?

  • @jobellecalolot4143
    @jobellecalolot4143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "Wag kang papasok sa isang relasyon pag di ka pa ok. "
    -Baby Carding😍

  • @heicandjpeg
    @heicandjpeg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Health worker here, tiis lang po. 🙏 Matatapos din to. Tiis lang na minimize ang travel. Since maraming nakatingin sa inyo, yung actions nyo, sinusundan ng milyong viewers nyo. Again, great PAWER comes with a great RESPONSIBILITY. 🙏 Love you guys.

  • @rediv2397
    @rediv2397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    sarap magbasa ng comments, wala kasing hate comments HAHAHAHA

  • @clarisaragit4985
    @clarisaragit4985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +877

    Im 55 yrs. Old pero gustong gusto ko kayong panoorin lahat ng team payaman god bless you all

    • @sagi_tar_rius9736
      @sagi_tar_rius9736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Relate ako sayo hahaha 45 yr old here and my kids as well idol ang team payaman

    • @adriansunburn
      @adriansunburn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mabubuting impluwensya po sila sa mga kabataan. Kaya sila sobrang sikat at madaming tagahanga.

    • @geoffbrianaguila2830
      @geoffbrianaguila2830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sagi_tar_rius9736 ooo

    • @mkfc7588
      @mkfc7588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me too, 46yo. But a big fan of team payaman.

    • @fatimaquimora9442
      @fatimaquimora9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same 48 yes old, at may 5 na mga binata at dalaga, idol Nila lahat ang team payaman,power🎉

  • @yourstrulykaye8300
    @yourstrulykaye8300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Share ko lang:
    You will know if you are emotional ready pag di kana nag papadala sa emosyon mo. Kaya mo ng kontrolin ang emosyon mo. Ikaw na ang komokontrol sa emosyon at hindi ikaw ang kinokontrol ng emosyon. 😍 Yun lang po God bless! 🤗

  • @frankph8717
    @frankph8717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the one of reason why i admire this kind of person like Cong why? because he never forget God for everything he did

  • @wenasayoc5891
    @wenasayoc5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Sana one day mameet kau Ng mother ko 60yrs old na sya Pero every night nya Kau pinanunuod sobrang idol nya si viy at Cong taga paranaque Lang po kame kau Lang nag papasaya sakanya hope to see u all godbless u all❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @evtubera
    @evtubera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Pero actually yung mga taong naglive in before kasal like me, usually may unspoken or spoken commitment na sa isat isa. Hindi ka naman makikipaglive in sa mababaw na relasyon. Iba narin kasi panahon ngayon compared nung bible times, people are smarter nowadays with their big decisions like marriage. And for me, living in or testing the waters is an act of respect parin sa sanctity ng marriage at pangako sa diyos kasi you wanted to make it sure before doing the sacrament. Alam mong sure na sure ka na. Noong naglive in kami sobrang kinabahan din ako parang kasal na dating sakin, siyempre babae ako. And totoo yan iba talaga pg kasama mo na sa bahay, parang hindi ko kakilala yung kasama ko sa bahay. Ultimo tissue sa banyo pag hindi pinapalitan napagaawayan. Pero natuto kami magadjust at makilala ang isat isa throughout our time together in one house. Swerte namin na isa kami sa mga couples na naging stronger because of live in. Btw kasal na kami ngayon, twice, civil and church. 6 years na kaming kasal at wala naman kaming pinagsisisihan ☺️

    • @Hachikok
      @Hachikok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hindi ok ang paglilive in kung sa mata ng Diyos hindi nya desenyo sa atin yan lalo't may nangyayaring mga makamundong bagay sa inyo sa loob ng isang bahay. Kung magbase kayo sa na dahil "ginawa rin naman magulang nyo ay gagawin nyo na" hindi dahil nauuso gagawin nyo na, hindi dahil ginagamit ko muna utak ko bago magpasakal "kung hindi mo pa pala ka kilala yung aasawahin mo in the future edi bumilang kayo ng years hanggang maging kumportable kayo sa isat isa bago magsama. Tandaan hindi desenyo ng Panginoon ang ganyang gawain.
      Nasasayo nalang kung sasaway ka dahil sa pangangailangan at kagustuhan mo sa Kalooban ng Diyos.

  • @mariadonnasanandres3295
    @mariadonnasanandres3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    For me po: Wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it.
    Right is right even if noone is doing it.

  • @mr.greenflag771
    @mr.greenflag771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    "Kahit hindi ka man emotionally ready, we'll figure out along the way" -Dudut
    This is the GOLDEN KEY 🔑 super lupet din nyan mindset na yan dudut. If there's a will, there's a way. Kung sino man maging asawa mo napaka swerte niya. Kung ganyan lahat mindset, for sure mas maeenjoy ang marriage life💖

  • @angelynevistar7387
    @angelynevistar7387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    Mapapansin mo na ingat na ingat si Cong sa mga sasabihin nya eh. Kaya lab na lab ko yan at lahat ng team payaman eh! Always considering the consequences of their actions. More paaaawer! God bless sa lahat.

  • @dreyfreud5680
    @dreyfreud5680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    sino rin ba ang naghihintay sa payaman talks girlfriends and ladies edition? ako lang ba?

  • @dandanbidam
    @dandanbidam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    I felt bad for Venice because of Yow’s answer. Ang mga lalaki hindi nila naiisip na ang time ng babae is a bit limited when it comes to child bearing. Kasi ang lalaki kahit tumanda na pwede pa din sila makabuntis eh. But kaming mga babae, by the time we hit 35yrs old, we are very at risk to develop complications kapag nagbuntis. I hope Yow figure out his intentions before Venice realize she deserves better. Wala sa tagal yan. If a guy thinks like this, matagal pa yan magmamature talaga. Goodluck.

    • @jonadechi139
      @jonadechi139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hindi rin natin alam yung side ni tyang venice.

    • @gelaivillaluna2168
      @gelaivillaluna2168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree. Nakakasad lang sa side ni venice, na for so many years hindi pa pala emotionally ready yung partner nya. Sorry i hate how yow say that.

    • @belledpx
      @belledpx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true.

    • @jomaicabarrientos6785
      @jomaicabarrientos6785 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 🤦😩

    • @jendeukie717
      @jendeukie717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      anong time stamp po yun? hehe

  • @giselletablate3291
    @giselletablate3291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sobrang layo ng thinking ni Cong kay Junnie Boy. Nakita ko lang yong maturity difference nila regarding sa pag iisip sa mga bagay bagay lalo na don sa part na opinion nila sa pandemic protocol.

    • @akitareyes6105
      @akitareyes6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi naisip ko din po ito. While listening to him sinasabi ko na pano si Mavi. Sumunod nga kayo sa protocol but that doesn't guarantee you na magiging safe ka from the virus lalo na may bata na maeexpose din. No hate kay Junniedad, may dahilan din siguro sya why gusto nya lumabas kasi before medyo na depress sya nung nawala si Emman.

  • @geloumorales172
    @geloumorales172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +915

    Suggestion: Payaman Talks with Girlfriends/Fiancée edition

  • @a-game7640
    @a-game7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    38:09 "College days ata ni Keng 'to kung tama pagkakaalala ko, 1st year college si keng tapos grade 3 si patpat" - Cong tv.
    POTA LAFTRIP 🤣

  • @rouen1111
    @rouen1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    cong is kind of the “leader” pero mannnn let others finish expressing their thoughts

  • @AdeeandOdeeBlanco
    @AdeeandOdeeBlanco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Pangalawang podcast na nila tong Kinilabutan ako. Sobrang galing ng utak ni Cong, ang galing niya magbitaw ng sagot, tanong, umako ng mali, etc. At alam mong yung pressure sa kanya ng society, family, ay talagang hinaharap niya. At alam mo din na pinag iisipan at pinaghahandaan niyang mabuti yung papasukin niya buhay may asawa with Viy.

  • @lyn2081
    @lyn2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I love how Cong emphasized the importance of putting God at the center of one's relationship. 😍 Hands up to you Cocon! 😘💕

  • @richemilpaiton4885
    @richemilpaiton4885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    EMMAN WE MISS YOU🕊😢

  • @marydevilla1555
    @marydevilla1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Carding's word of wisdom is so lit!! 😇 grabeeeee iba mag isip. Malalim at hindi basta basta! 😊

  • @jamescarltamayo943
    @jamescarltamayo943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    May tanong lang ako sa mga TH-camr noon na nasa TH-cam padin hanggang ngayon.
    "Kung sakaling walang pera/sahod/kita sa TH-cam, tingin nyo tuloy padin kaya ang pag-upload nyo ng mga videos?"
    Gusto ko marinig yung sagot ni Cong dahil matagal na siya sa TH-cam e, wala pang sahod nasa TH-cam na siya. Sana mapansin tong tanong to😅

    • @nicoamarilla2939
      @nicoamarilla2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nasagot na ni cong yan sa mga unang epi ng payaman talks. mag vi video pa din sya kasi yan yung passion nya.

    • @ellacruz3525
      @ellacruz3525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kung talagang nakakanuod ka ng mga vlogs niya dati malalaman mo kung pano siya umangat ng HINDI MONEY INVOLVED kung hindi dahil sa gusto niya lang magpasaya

  • @jamessioson4228
    @jamessioson4228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    "PAG MAGTATRAVEL, CHANGE OIL"
    - JUNNIE BOY 2021😂😊😂

  • @emelubeljancavan315
    @emelubeljancavan315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Yess, agree kay kuya Cong! Base on experienced na rin, yung malalaman mo lang talaga ang ugali ng iyong partner once you live in a same roof.

  • @s2pidsz
    @s2pidsz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1.Sobrang ganda ng cnbi ni Cong na you put God in the center of the relationship kc live in o kasal wala c God magkakaproblema tlga kahit gano nyo pa kamahal ang isat isa..
    2.Hand up ako kay Boss Keng for putting into right way ang relationship nla ni Pat ibig sabhin ganon nya kamahal si Pat pra gawin nya ang tama 🤚🤚🤚
    3. I like also yung sagot ni Dudut..no need emotionally ready kc kht gano ka kaready may mga bagay na hindi mo maasahan..patatatagin na lang tlga kyo ng pagmamahalan nyo at kung pano nyo pinapahalagahan ang relasyon nyo..Maturity is a key..u should know your priorities kung nsa ibang level na ung relationship nyo..ang swerte nyo n lng kung sobrang understanding ng partner nyo kht gano ka kaimmature

  • @sanzangelo8188
    @sanzangelo8188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    for me kasal muna talaga once na nagpakasal ka kasi u are ready to give the trust sa PANGINOON whatever the results sa mga darating na panahon kasama ang asawa mo kahit may mga negativity dyan isasaalang alang mo na sa PANGINOON lahat yan kasi nga married na kayo at sya na ang ilaw ng tahanan mo even tho wala pa kayong mga anak the last word na mag eenlighten dyan is ISINUKO mo na sa PANGINOON lahat ng TIWALA mo para sa future nyo!

  • @josephgallardo661
    @josephgallardo661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    As an influencer you if you will promote to stay at home as much as possible, that is 8 million people less to worry about and at the same time you are fulfilling your ultimate role which is to influence your followers.

    • @villaruzkarylleaubrey5256
      @villaruzkarylleaubrey5256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ONE OF THE BEST AND HELPFUL COMMENT.

    • @josephgallardo661
      @josephgallardo661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@villaruzkarylleaubrey5256 salamat po 😊

    • @avh4436
      @avh4436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactlyyy

    • @anaesmereil4008
      @anaesmereil4008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's easy for them to say to stay at home because they don't need to work outside because they earning money kahit nasa bahay lang sila. Paano yung mga kailangang magtrabaho sa labas?

    • @archiesagayaga3633
      @archiesagayaga3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anaesmereil4008 👌👌

  • @ryandacles3500
    @ryandacles3500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    habang tumatagal gumaganda na nang gumaganda ang flow ng usapan sa Payaman talks lalo na ung may magandang take aways sa last part. Good job Cong and TP Team. Keep it up! Kasalanan mo 'to Dexty! Hahaha

  • @hilariopepero9663
    @hilariopepero9663 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sobrang nakakabusog ng isipan tong episode na to. Madaming kulitan + may aral na iniwan. Kahit sa comment section madaming makabuluhang opinyon kang makukuha. Kudos TP! Keep it up po! 😍😍😍

  • @candyjwon
    @candyjwon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    grabe. andami kong natutunan lalo na sa part na kung kelan mo ba talaga masasabi na ITS TIME. I also love their way of defending both sides. Talagang pinag-iisipan muna. TEAM PAYAMAN!

  • @twinxmontecillo8059
    @twinxmontecillo8059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love Cong how he think before he talks. Anyway, everyone Naman e like KO..
    Godbless.

  • @sgsv25
    @sgsv25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    UYYY JANINA VELAAAA AAAAAAAH SANA MAREACH NIYA NA 1M KASI DESERVE NIYA. KAYO KAYO MGA OG DATI EH

  • @charlottetomada
    @charlottetomada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ito yung magandang pakingan everyday. Naglilinaw ng mga questions sa utak natin. The decision we should and shouldn't make. Thank you Team Payaman

  • @maeavegail325
    @maeavegail325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you So much Team Payaman. I'm happy and grateful that I am in the right influencers❤️. MORE PAWERR SA INYO LOVE YA'LL

  • @enix0053
    @enix0053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    ganito pansin ko kay cong:
    gusto nya lumabas at ivlog yung lugar, although kahit mag safety protocol kun-todo pa yan, marami pilipino na pasaway na maiinggit na gumala sa ibang lugar, at nininja sa safety protocol gaya ng simpleng byahe man lang e grupo2 na.
    at dahil sagana tayo sa cancel culture lalo mga damang dama pagiging judge sa twitter, e baka sila cong ang mapag initan.
    ngayon yung ibang members sa payamansyon, pansin ko din gusto talaga mag aalis, pansin naman sa mga recent vlogs nila na swimming sa ganitong lugar, uwi sa ganitong probinsya, etc. ehh gusto nga mag unwind.
    so for short, *ANDAMING ANAK NI CONG NA KAPAG NA ISSUE E DAMAY SYA* sa ayaw man nya o hindi.
    dyan ngayon papasok yung sinabi nya kanina na "darating yung panahon magkakamali kami" at maaaring may mapalayas ng totoo sa payamansyon pag nag pasaway and/or may maling magawa

    • @gunnerplay7462
      @gunnerplay7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Satingin ko walang mapapalayas sa payamansion matalino si cong tv sa palagay ko ipupublic apology nya lang kung sino yung nag kamali

  • @jayacruz7064
    @jayacruz7064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    For me, you will know na emotionally ready ka na pag nakikita mo na yung sarili mong kasama yung other half mo. For example, may anxiety ka, may depression ka, nakikita mo na yung sarili mo na nilalabanan yung battle na yan kasama yung mahal mo. Ganun naman yun diba? Thru ups and downs dapat? Yung tipong hindi mo na lalabanan mag isa, yung lalabanan mo na kasama sya. And of course the same goes with your partner dapat handa na din syang samahan ka sa lahat ng battles nyo sa buhay. Anyways, you save my anxiety again team payaman! Thankyou for this podcast, kumalma ulit ako. Continue doing this please!

  • @purplelei
    @purplelei 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    sobrang laki ng impact ng payaman talks to know Team Payaman better, behind laughtrip ng vlogs nila mas deep and ang laki ng differences nila with ideas and mindset about different topic pero ang solid.... sobrang talino ng mga utak nitong mga to

  • @anggeabiera-roxas4076
    @anggeabiera-roxas4076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Team Payaman. Sobrang naappreciate ko yung conversation niyo towards the end. Not because it personally appeals me but because it encompasses reality. Eto yung talagang "real talk." The human that we are, may tendencies talaga tayo magkasala. It all boils down to our own values, personality and virtues as individuals. What could be ethical or immoral to someone may not be in your case and vice versa. Pwede tayo bumalik sa hierachy of needs ng tao and nasa top nga yung self-actualization. And dun nag-iiba ang bawat isa. May ibang considerations ang bawait isa to be able to meet our actualized self.
    Kudos Team Payaman! :) More conversations like this.

  • @CheriDae
    @CheriDae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ganun talaga.. as an adult we all know what is right pero hindi rin naman natin ginagawa...
    Parang kapag broken hearted ka..hihingi ka pa ng advise eh in reality you know exactly what to do but you are not doing it.

  • @kimbap6196
    @kimbap6196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Ganito ang tamang usapan pag nagiinom ang mga lalakeng magtotropa. Hindi puro pambababae at pag chechange oil! Nagiisip para sa ikagaganda ng mga future ng mga karelasyon natin. It improves the way of thinking, mas nakikilala nyo ang isat isa at mas nagiging close kayo. Kaya girls wag nyo pigilan mag inom mga jowa nyo kasama mga tropa nila! hahaha

    • @suvierd9018
      @suvierd9018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eh kaso d sila nag iinom sayang

    • @arturmeric7892
      @arturmeric7892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ano yung change oil?

    • @joulesmendoza52
      @joulesmendoza52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      legit

    • @zee8387
      @zee8387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@suvierd9018 pwede ring naginom muna sila bago magpodcast haha madaming bote sa labas ng pool

  • @tagacalayo
    @tagacalayo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Law of Attraction : Lahat ng nakakabasa nito aasenso balang araw😍

  • @aypad
    @aypad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great topics today! Nice to see this side of you guys that we often dont get to see in your individual vlogs. Nakikita namin paano talaga kayo mag-isip, and nagiging topic na din namin sa house yung topics nyo. Good job 👏

  • @jaydeendelacruz83
    @jaydeendelacruz83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Naaamaze talaga ako kay Carding
    Mga sagutan nya e may substance
    Lahat naman sila meron pero minsan kasi siya magsalita pero solid

  • @arzelrugas9860
    @arzelrugas9860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Bilang isang vlogger at influencer malaki kasi ang impact ng lahat ng ginagawa nyo at pinapakita nyo sa bawat content nyo mahirap man sa part nyo pero kailngan maging good sample kayo sa viewers... if you will show na kahit nasa labas kayo but still sumusunod sa protocol walang masama na ienjoy nyo din ang sarili nyo kasi tao pa din kayo at may sariling buhay

  • @kathron2090
    @kathron2090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Team Payaman the Best talaga !!
    Sana lalo pa kyo maging Happy and Blessed !!

  • @zjrg24
    @zjrg24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Boss Cong very well said, "Putting God's centered in every relationships, i love it!

  • @gelayyy2932
    @gelayyy2932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    For me Kasal talaga muna dahil nga sa sinabi niyo one of the reasons why you want to have a wedding is you have to be "emotionally ready". The meaning of that for me is you should be ready for the behavior of your partner na hindi pa nakikita, you have to be ready to embrace it and find solutions on how you should deal with it. Because being with someone on the same roof is not just a testing, yes there are people na hindi nagsu-succeed but it is a commitment that you must stand for.

  • @marisoldurana9162
    @marisoldurana9162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Next time invite nyo din payaman girls lalo na si Viy at father nya.. malalim sila sumagot at marami kaming matututunang mga viewers

  • @allenangela01
    @allenangela01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the topic! That's one of my struggles as a Christian. My parents are CFC leaders and it's not easy to be scrutinised by the public. There's so many things that you can't do because of what others may think. I agree with what Cong said about being a torn Christian

  • @apriltejerero4360
    @apriltejerero4360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For me, Kasal dahil yun ang tama. Maliban sa pagmamahalan, nagpakasal ako bilang pag galang sa kautusan ng Diyos, bilang respeto sa sarili ko bilang isang babae at bilang respeto na din sa mga magulang ko. Walang perfect marriage, walang perfect na pagsasama. Lahat dadaan sa iba't-ibang pagsubok sa buhay. Totoong madami pa kayong malalaman sa isa't-isa pag nagsama na kayo. Pero kung talagang mahal niyo ang isa't-isa, kailangan willing kayong magadjust.

  • @taalatv1669
    @taalatv1669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Totoo.. never mgiging basehan ung pera sa pagppakasal. Babae ako at totoong nangarap ako ng bonggang kasal kahit cno nmn cguro un ang pngarap. Pero kc nun andun n ikakasal n kmi yung pkiramdam n mgiging mgasawa n kmi sobrang sarap. At ang ngastos lng nmn is araound 5k lng. 😊😉

  • @strayve
    @strayve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Seeing that Psychology book on the side and what you guys are talking about. How I wish I could have a talk with everyone on this group. Solid talaga kayo. Been a fan of Cong ever since 10 utos. Never missed a single blog ever since. From rags to riches, di lang financially, iba talaga to sila Cong. Keep it up sir. Truly an inspiration.

  • @buenoemmanuel07
    @buenoemmanuel07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This needs part 2! With Payaman Talk Girls naman and their perspective on KASAL! Also in line with women's month!

  • @raisaneithsalvador8587
    @raisaneithsalvador8587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nagiba tingin ko kay Boss Keng! I’m so speechless! 🙌🏼

  • @modernhomesbyantel5357
    @modernhomesbyantel5357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If God is the center of your relationship, lahat ng aspeto na nabanggit ng TP will never be an issue. Maaring sabihin na "test" ang pag-lilive-in para makilala mo ng husto ang partner mo. Pero ang commitment at pag mamahal is never naging test. We marry the person, dahil sumumpa ka sa batas at sa Diyos na sa hirap at ginhawa kasama nyo ang isat isa, in sickness, and in health. You have to accept kung ano mang ugali ng partner mo, all the good and the bad, because you are committed to each other. May factor din talaga if you have been with the person for a long time kasi kilala mo na siya. But only God could tell when is the RIGHT TIME. :)

  • @yenofw7891
    @yenofw7891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pag sila pinapanood ko.. Nakakalimutan ko talaga mga problema ko sa buhay.. Naka ngiti lang ako. ❤️

  • @jerryronquillo1609
    @jerryronquillo1609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sa opinyon ko cong about sa kung bakit kahit gusto mo ng kasal muna pero hindi mo pa din nagawa, and nauwi pa din kayo sa live in. I think the answer is, it what's "CONVENIENT" para sa inyo. Siguro nung umpisa, gusto nyong abutin yung mga individual na pangarap nyo ni Viy, pero you want to do it ng magkasama pero at the same time di pa kayo ready magpakasal since may mga pangarap pa nga kayo individually. That's when you decided na maglive in, kahit alam nyo both na mali sa mata ng diyos. But still you made a choice na magsama kahit hindi pa kasal and abutin yung pangarap nyo. I think Nature na ng tao maglean towards "CONVENIENCE" regardless of what is right or wrong. No judgment, but i think yun yung situation nyo nila madam Viy and sila keng/pat and junnie/vien. Kami rin naman ng wife ko live in muna then nagpakasal.

  • @christiantitodelossantos9222
    @christiantitodelossantos9222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    More power to you cong and the rest of the team payaman! God bless you always! Iba ang saya na bnibigay nyo sakn na isang ofw .

  • @marimora6903
    @marimora6903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    IGuest nyo c kuya jobert dto na ulit sya sa pinas.

  • @stellamarriesbroncano8190
    @stellamarriesbroncano8190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Ito yung pinaka gusto kong pinapanood e. Bawat minuto hindi nasasayang oras mo kasi may matututunan ka.

  • @kennethegreat_brrr4377
    @kennethegreat_brrr4377 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me iba talga tama ng tp sakin sobrang helpful, the way they give their ideas to us tlagang meron kang maiisip, mapapaisip at iisipin pa na para sayo, although bata pa namn ako pero ang makinig sa kanila it makes you think like a real talker and think like a real thinker

  • @faangelareboton8355
    @faangelareboton8355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Payaman Talks - one of the best talks in town ❤️

  • @josed7481
    @josed7481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Ang nice magsalita ni Carding, ang lakas bawat bitaw. Pang quality na speaker ang dating

    • @samsalvo5997
      @samsalvo5997 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wala ding nag spam ng pasubscribe channel 🤣

  • @ranielalimpuyo2202
    @ranielalimpuyo2202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Eto yung pinaka payaman talks na nakangiti lang ako ng 1hr hahaha

  • @riznabigante6822
    @riznabigante6822 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Payaman Talks. Katatapos ko lang pannorin lahat ng episode and I enjoy listening to them. Sobrang natural na usapan lang. pag nakikinig ka sa kanila it feels like na part ka ng barkada nla. Love them specially cong.

  • @trishgon97
    @trishgon97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super commendable ung pagiging honest ni Cong weighing his answer vs his situation regarding live in. Tama or mali. Yun lang tlga ung tanong dun. Feel ko ung agony mo dun to answer, Kuya Cong :))

  • @leandrobeltran7560
    @leandrobeltran7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    isa ito sa mga topic ng Payaman Talks na very informative and very lighting yung usapan at isa pa ang gaganda ng sagot nila lahat pati ung pag basa ni Yow dun sa libro ng Psychologist which is book collection ng isang author or publisher ng libro you can all check it out and true na sadyang walang malinaw na sagot sa usapan nila ang kailangan mo lang ay yung mga bagay na papasok sa buhay mo na makakatulong sa inyo or sa iyo at sa kanya para sa relasyon niyo ng partner niyo

  • @sloppygamer5121
    @sloppygamer5121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Tama si Burong, "case by case" although commonly used ang "case to case" pero mas grammatically correct ang case by case. English savvy Burong.

  • @JThrdT
    @JThrdT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tama po yung sinabi mo cong, as much as possible iwasan niyo (Team Payaman) na mag travel di lang dahil sa public scrutiny, para din po sa kalusugan niyong lahat. Atleast healthy po kayo lahat, kasi nakakatakot na ngayon, tumataas nanaman at andami nang ibat ibang variant yung virus. Magingat ho kayo lahat, madaming nagsusuporta sa inyo. Paawer!!

  • @princessimeechavez4564
    @princessimeechavez4564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you team payaman.
    I'm currently watching your blog while printing modules 😍❤️
    Thanks for the good vibes 🤗
    -maam imee

  • @joseph5673
    @joseph5673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Sa last part, put God at the center of the relationship.
    Amen!
    Everything happens for a reason🙂

    • @mercurial3252
      @mercurial3252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love how majority of Filipino remained conservative even sa mga 20s.. kung pwede lang i spread out sila sa buong mundo sa mga bansang liberated na and nagiging isang LARO na lang ung KASAL and marriage life(example majority of people in hollywood)

    • @lizdomingo4554
      @lizdomingo4554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For me kasal muna, kc how can you put God at the center of the relationship kung mismong idea nya which is marriage ay naiisantabi.

  • @iamengkats
    @iamengkats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Sino single jan? 😅😆 nakikinig sa usapang kasal 😂😂

    • @justincharlespia950
      @justincharlespia950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Akoo hahahahaha

    • @bodied7140
      @bodied7140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@justincharlespia950 ulol

    • @jamchavez3330
      @jamchavez3330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gusto mo ng partner? Pm is the key haha

    • @iamengkats
      @iamengkats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beke magkaka jowa ako ditu! 😂 issaaprank!

    • @limmuel28
      @limmuel28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me

  • @rhacysantos2739
    @rhacysantos2739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tinapos ko talaga tong video nato 😅😅😅
    Dyan papasok ung kaylangan magcocompromise both partners , and most specially lagi mong isipin bakit mo pinakasalan itong tao nato, simple ang sagot dahil sa LOVE ❤❤❤ and Always put GOD at the Center of your Relationship , nice one Cong!

  • @pluk_mariadiana
    @pluk_mariadiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    No need to test the relationship kasi eh. Choice nyo naman yon on how you will handle the problems you'll encounter sa marriage. Kahit naman bf-gf pa lang kayo, nandon na rin yung problems eh. And yung years na magjowa kayo, yun na yung test eh. It depends on both of you nalang if you wanted to stay or not in the relationship. Or if ilelevel up niyo relationship niyo o wag na kasi nafoforsee mo na what will happen kapag kinasal kayo. BASTA CHOICE NYO NAMAN YAN. Balakayojan. HAHAHAHHAHAHHA
    Edit: IF YOU REALLY LOVE THAT PERSON, MAG-AADJUST KA KUNG ANO MAN YUNG DIFFERENCES NIYO. But not all the time need mag-adjust, you have to respect din sa differences natin. Yung mga bagay na kaya naman magmeet halfway, yun yung pag-usapan. Yung hindi, respect lang. Embrace it. Ganon.

    • @johnmanuelm.escueta6987
      @johnmanuelm.escueta6987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Up

    • @kimberlyamayo3984
      @kimberlyamayo3984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sa akin totoong totoo itong point ni ate, kami ng bf sobrang higpit ng parents namin pero more on akin. Dunating sa point na naisip kong suwayin na lang tlga lahat ng gusto nila pero you know what ramdam ko na sa bawat pagsuway ko hindi tlga maganda yung mga nangyayare, may mga pagkakataong napapahamak kami ng bf ko. So from then on nagdecide ako na sundin na lang yung kung anong tama... Example is sa paglilive in though hindi pa namin nagagawa pero for me kasi importante yung respeto ko kay Lord at sa mga magulang namin. Hindi ako banal pero ayoko nang dagdagan pa yung mga kasalanan ko kay Lord at sa mga magulang namin. Saka sa haba ng relasyon namin (7 yrs) marami na rin kaming nakikita sa ugali ng isat isa na alam naming magiging issue someday kaya pinaguusapan na namin ng maayos paano ba pwedeng iadjust. Oo nagaaway pero again lagi lang naming tinatanong sa amin na "mahal mo ba ako? Willing mo bang iwork ito?" and luckily as of now sa dami ng malalalang away namin ang lagi lang naming sagot is "oo mahal kita at iwowork out natin toh". Kaya mas naniniwala ako sa sinabi ng mama ko before na "relasyon ang pinatatagal hindi ang ligawan" pero syempre dapat bago kayo pumasok sa isang relasyon bigyan nyo rin ng sapat na panhon yung mga sarili nyo para makita if worth it ba maging jowa yung tao... Kumbga dapat mahal nyo rin muna mga sarili nyo bago kayo magmahal ng iba kasi kapag nagmahal kayo ng iba tas d niyo mahal sarili nyo pwede kayong maubos kasi bngay nyo na lahat dun sa isa.

    • @pluk_mariadiana
      @pluk_mariadiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kimberlyamayo3984 I agree ate. Thankyou sa pagshare ng story nyo! ☺️ Stay in love! Everything will come at His perfect time. Wait lang talaga. Godbless you both po ni jowa! ❤️

    • @mariaerica6573
      @mariaerica6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @yt prem iba pa din kase ang ugali ng isang tao kapag nasa loob ng bahay. Kaya ang live in hindi ako sang ayon pero tama sila test ito na makakapag palabas ng totoo kayo ng totoong ugali ninyo. But if u want na mag live in kayo ng partner mo sana hindi lang para sa "sex" kasi tbh karamihan ganon mindset (hindi ko nilalahat) but sana talaga hindi lang para sa ganong bagay. Kumbaga bigyan natin ng malaking purpose o malaking dahilan kung bakit nga ba tayo/kayo nag live in. Masakit sa pandinig ng iba kapag nalaman na "ay live in na sila di pa kasal" bigyan mo nalang ng magandang purpose kung bakit kayo nag live in para yung mga nagsasabe ng ganyan ay malinawan kung ano nga bang dahilan mo o ng partner mo kung bakit kayo agad nag live in.

    • @mariaerica6573
      @mariaerica6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At sana nakipag live in ka hindi lang para itest yung partner. Sana at same time may side don na gusto mo sya mapang asawa kaya ka nakipag live in. And kung may makikita kang mali sa kanya habang live in kayo imbis iwan mo baguhin mo nalang para in future pag kasal na kayo maayos lahat. Like yung mental health ng partner mo or mental health mo. Ayusin nyo yung mindset na mali sa inyo habang mag kalive in para pag ikakasala na ready na kayo, totally ready.❤️

  • @libscuesta1283
    @libscuesta1283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Love is not just a feeling but also a decision. So in every and all relationship, you have to learn to compromise. Just my 2 cents 😉😊✌️

  • @marisoldurana9162
    @marisoldurana9162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Current situation namin ngayon ng boyfriend ko.. sa kanila ako nakikituloy dahil work at home ako, dun ko nakilala ung tunay na ugali niya kahit na 6 yrs na kami.. mapepredict mo ang future mo sa isang tao pag kasama mo sya sa bahay..

  • @demieneo4138
    @demieneo4138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sobrang ganda talaga makinig sa mga pinagsasabi ng Team Payaman yung tipong may makukuha ka talaga. Aminin natin iilan na lang yung may mga ganyang mindset ngayon. Kaya if you support them the way they think and act dude I love you HAHAHAHA

  • @blessylcuento6787
    @blessylcuento6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really loved these guyssssss ❤❤ my stress reliever ...💕

  • @christiinejoy
    @christiinejoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Payaman talks with team payaman north and south

  • @christiangonzales1542
    @christiangonzales1542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Payaman Talks with Kuya Jobert
    Epic yun.. Mga kumedyante na malalim mag sagisip pag seryoso usapan

  • @nikkoletaguba7316
    @nikkoletaguba7316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    napaka wholesome grabeee!!! saludo talaga ako sa team payaman

  • @quioel94
    @quioel94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ang ganda lang nang ganitung usapan na puro open minded talaga gets ko lahat nang mga thoughts nila.. .. Pero not for me nor for the people around us na nakakapagpabagabag (nagamit ko rin tung word nato😂) sa ating isip about sa live-in because sa kasal po talaga is dapat first lahat... you should preserve ourselves for that very important event and person of our life... Kaya po merong "you may kiss the bride" tapus "open mo yung belo nang girl" kasi its a sign of wala pang nangyayari sa inyo like, you are the first and only gift for your husband/wife. Hindi po dahil sa (kung anung sasabihin) ng mga tao kundi sa Dios po mismo... Gift po natin yung sarili natin sa ating asawa🎁❤️

  • @shaniahfrancisco1162
    @shaniahfrancisco1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Kaya sobrang gustong gusto ko ang buong team payaman. Hindi lang dahil puro kalokohan sila, dahil kahit maloloko sila nakakapag advice sila maaayos at maiaaply mo talaga sa buhay mo. Sana makita ko kayo sa mga susunod na araw, Team Payaman! More power sa inyo!

  • @moonclayground
    @moonclayground 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cong and Viy's Christ centered relationship made them stronger over years ❤❤❤ CongViynation sakalam!

  • @reginesallan3342
    @reginesallan3342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my opinion I think ang Live in ay para sa mga taong ayaw magtake ng risk, when you love, trust, respect each other enough and when you hold on the blessing of the Lord na once na ikasal kayo ay mgkasama kayo sa hirap at ginhawa regardless sa differences nyong dalawa, you will still choose each other, well this was just my opinion , thank you.. but most importantly be happy forget other people na wala namang ambag sa relasyon nyo :)

  • @vergaracherrylee3899
    @vergaracherrylee3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Iba dito si Carding!💙 Malaman yung sinasabi niya. More in wisdom! Napakaganda💙

  • @PAPIBRAD
    @PAPIBRAD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pwede man mag travel as long as you follow their protocol and requirements.
    Sa kwentuhang kasalan. Everyone can be ready basta alam nyo how to manage yung mga priorities nyo as married couple.

  • @nickojohnodtujan2795
    @nickojohnodtujan2795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Check nyo yung "The meaning of marriage" by Timothy Keller. A must read for all couples 😊

  • @ojajoveleniab.423
    @ojajoveleniab.423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dabest talaga team payaman. Salamat sa pag papasaya at pag bibigay ng aral sa iba. Ingat po kayo Godbless 😇

  • @mojosjoh
    @mojosjoh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Na-amaze ako nung nakita kong may Psychology book silang binabasa. Meaning, ndi nila kinukulong mga sarili nila sa mga napag aralan lang nila noon. Oo mukha silang walang kwenta pero in reality, may KWENTA sila. Lalo kapag nag usap usap na. Malalim pala silang tao. Mas lamang lang ang pagka-kwela pero may mapupulot ka pa ring aral. God Bless TP, PAWER!

  • @badzlife69
    @badzlife69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Usapang Kasal at Live-in.
    Mentos be like “ewan ko sa inyo. Wala naman akong jowa” jowa muna bago kasal o live in. 😊😂

  • @cocotb594
    @cocotb594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "ang bahay at kayamanan ay minamana sa magulang, ngunit ang mabait na makakasama sa buhay ay Diyos ang magbibigay

  • @sweetibie
    @sweetibie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    im 43 but im an avid fan of team payaman dahil naimpluwensyahan din ako ng 19 years old daughter ko kasi chicken feet p lang lagi ka nya kinukwento so i tried na panuorin ang mga vlogs nyo noon kaya aun! sobra kami natuwa nung 2019 nung nakita namin cna viy cong at junnie sa MOA at nagpapicture talaga kami mag ina hinabol nga namin c viy sa watson hehehe sobrang down to earth kahit team payaman na! i love u all and goodluck sa lahat ng team payaman

  • @gelynsamson8347
    @gelynsamson8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the best talaga ang team payaman kasi nag gugol sila ng gantong oras pala sa mga fans❤️❤️❤️

  • @rhenzosadiangcolor207
    @rhenzosadiangcolor207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    REQUEST : PAYAMAN TALKS WITH THE GIRLS 😅

  • @shainnajane412
    @shainnajane412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Team payaman is such an inspiration to every Filipinos They only shows that if you surround yourself with positive people who's goals are to help and support each other in every possible way is a key to everyones success!☝️TRUE TEAMWORK
    pawer 2 all
    Chick'n feet gang
    👇

  • @tinnebautista
    @tinnebautista 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eto yung pinaka favorite kong Talk ng TP. Based on my experience kasi yung topic and talagang mapapaisip ka. Pero masasabi ko lang, depende talaga sa sitwasyon ng mga involve sa relationship yung magiging choice nila. Like example, ako mag isa nalang. Hindi ko kasama parents ko so parang ang nangyari is kinupkop nalang ako nung family ng boyfriend ko. And mas masasabi ko ngayon na mas okay nga talaga na nakikita mo muna yung difference nyong dalawa na nasa relationship. Yung mga attitude, then kung pano ba yung turing ng family sayo. Ganon sya. Pero ang hindi talaga mapipigilan is yung masasabi nga ng ibang tao. Hindi lang ng mga hindi mo kadugo, pati na din ng mga kadugo mo. Pero dapat mag stand ka sa naging choice mo. Hindi mawawala na masasaktan ka sa sasabihin ng iba pero as long as nasa iisang bilog lang kayo ng partner mo at pareho kayo ng pananaw, I think he/she is the one na talaga. Kasi pinoprotektahan ka nya and nag sstand din sya sa decision na ginawa nyong dalawa. Power TP!

  • @bellagapuz8053
    @bellagapuz8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love all Payaman teams, GOD BLESS U all.🙏🙏🙏