TOP 5 THINGS CHINESE GIRLS HATE: 1. man with low salary 2. man with no house 3. man with no car 4. man who has mistress (although will accept this if numbers 1-3 are met) not hating, just an observation...
Jonny Just to remind, every girl including your mom would “hate” these losers.... Well no car is fine for me because I have carsick since born, but at least an annual subway card...
婧琳张. in western society, it was seen as disreputable to marry or date someone for financial reasons, they are often refuted to as gold diggers. It is viewed negatively because in western traditions that are rooted in Christian ideals of etiquette. They state that when a man starts a relationship with a woman who is financially dependent on the man, it is the same as grating her as a prostitute. So to a westerner, the idea of a girl wanting any and all relationships she has to be rooted in financial gain is equivalent to calling herself a whore. In our society the idea of arranged marrages, and clan like alliances between powerful/wealthy families family have died off. But in China, where gender roles and familial expectation are clearly defined, it makes sense that this is the norm.
In western society, LOOKS of men are given more importance. It is important for the man look good. White women are shallow as fuck. They need men to be tall, mascular and basically be blessed with good genes. I like the Chinese idea because money reflects real Alpha trait and not good genes. White women are too obsessed with looks and sex appeal. Fuck that.
Hey man, after watching some of your vids with Winston, I thought I'd check out your channel. Liking what I'm seeing so far, subscribed and I'm gonna crack on and watch some more! There is a strong possibility I might be making the move to China soon from Thailand, both your channels are invaluable resources of what to expect, and also pretty interesting to see the similarities and subtle differences between them being that they are relatively so close. Peace!
I love your husband and wife videos. They relate to real life as you live it in China and we can compare with the western world. Keep it up - great work
exercise isn't just about weight--that's a bad thought process many people (especially women) have. it's about a healthy heart, healthy respiration and circulation, healthy skin, and mental health too. exercise is proven to elevate your mood, help you sleep better, and generally have a more positive outlook on life. i used to eat badly and never exercise, i got 30 lbs. overweight, and i was just a depressed, lazy mess. once i started doing cardio boxing and changing my diet i lost those 30 lbs. and started feeling 20 years younger. i'm a lot more active, my digestion is amazing (no more heartburn or need for pills), my skin is clear, i sleep like a log, and i have plenty of energy. now i love getting outside and being active, and life seems to be full of possibilities instead of full of dead ends. humans are meant to be active. this sedentary sitting around in front of the computer or TV shit is totally unnatural. it's the reason for all the depression, chronic pain, obesity, anger, anxiety, and fuck knows how many more chronic conditions people struggle with today. balance is great--i love youtube and video games too, but i balance it out with daily exercise, lots of water, and doing something outside every day of the week. speech over. take from it what you will.
If you check out another girl in Europe:" a Dutch girl won't react, German girl won't react, Belgian girl won't react, English girl will get grumpy and get very insecure, French girl will get verbal telling you she can do better, Swedish girl won't react, Danish girl won't react, Spanish girl will react and become verbally very loud with hand gestures mixed in, Portuguese girl will walk away from you giving you the finger in the process while mumbling stuff, Austrian girl will get grumpy in some cases kick you, Italian girl will kill you after she's done yelling at you, Irish girl will get loud and bad mouth your sexual performance and how you hold you alcohol in public very loudly, Greek girl will beat you to death while yelling at you, Russian girl will attack the woman your looking at and then you" (FYI;) . Ahh,...Europ, fun times 😆, so many cultures and languages to get your ass kicked by a girl/woman 😇 .
It's true about Chinese girls being materialistic but I think if you are a principled man and stick to your guns you can just tell them where the front door is when they start that shit and that they're easily replaceable (they are). Relationships or marriage are are a kind of arrangement based on what two people bring to the table. NEVER build a relationship on spoiling a girl- you'll regret it later on. I had a Japanese gf like this..she'd say "buy me X"...I'd say "yeah next time". Eventually she walked but wouldn't want that kind of long term person anyway. Plus I'd hit it enough times anyway. Remember guys- getting older, your value increases and theirs depreciates. Always negotiate from a position of sticking to your principles.
+katty kleo I could get into a sarcastic exchange with you, but let's just save that and discuss facts. Biologically, women are attracted to signs of strength, confidence, and the ability to gather resources. This indicates that he can provide for a family and take care his wife and kids. Men are attracted to signs of beauty, Health and youth , which indicates she can have healthy offspring. This is why you see beautiful women with ugly yet successful men and never the other way around. Something tells me you already know this and are just salty about it.
+katty kleo further on that point, me tend to have more resources (money) and higher positions In their careers as they get older. So yes , they often are more desirable with age. This obviously doesn't mean you want to make out with a geezer, but the point still stands
Here's my question... At what point do we stop worrying about how to impress Chinese girls and allow them to worry about what Western men like? I mean... who's trying to impress whom? If I found myself in China and single (which I am) I would be very tempted to not chase any Chinese girls or even try to ask them out. I think I would rather see which Chinese girls came dropping hints or asking me out - showing attention to me instead of the other way around. Does that make sense? I would feel the same way about those girls as I do girls here in the U.S. and that is that, when we guys try to get our acts together in such a way that we play to what the girls like, we give up a lot of power in our relationships and get the dynamic off on the wrong foot. This "knight in shining armor" syndrome has caused men to become way too servile to their women. By showing this same deference to Chinese girls, I think that we expose them to a new arrangement whereas Chinese men may have not been doing it this way. I just see a number of potential pitfalls. The last thing that I would ever want is to find myself in a relationship with any woman that constantly breaks my balls the way my American bitch ex-wife did for too long. Ok, that's what I think anyway.
Can I just clarify that this video mostly apply to Chinese girls from China, HK, Taiwan. My ethnicity is Chinese but I'm not from China. I know lots of mainland Chinese girls who are like that and a lot of Chinese girl who are not like that too. Every culture, country, race have whiny people and nice people just that China is currently under a magnifying glass due to the sheer amount of Chinese, therefore it seems more that way.
Hello, Vivi and sorry I don't know your name! 68 yr old guy here in Michigan USA. Obviously I'm too old to ever think about exploring the world the way you and your friend have done. I really enjoy your videos though because it allows me to see, hear things that I would otherwise not be able to. Have fun and know that I wish you and Vivi all the best in life! George
I finally bought an expensive car and the Chinese girl that friendzoned me for 3 years now is trying to hook up with me. Lol. I'm like... i helped you with your life every weekend for 3 years and been with you through your thick and thin. Now.... you like me because i have money and a nice car now? F you...
Hi guys. I’m An America-Chinese lady and I find your videos extremely informative and interesting. Keep them coming. I also married a causian man. Been married for 20+ yrs and have 2 children.
Well, that's what happen when you don't have feminism. I don't understand why mgtow think traditional women are better when they follow their ancient beliefs on how men should be rich and provide everything for them.
On the other hand, feminists say the darndest things, like marriage being sexist, focusing on women as someone to birth a child is sexist (let's face it, that's the number one use of men and women to each other; having kids), etc. I mean, if you stick with the "legal equality" definition they're not necessarily bad, but the self-identified feminists...
And what's the deal with bra burners saying they are rebelling against male dominated society where males want them to wear bras. I prefer seeing their pointy little nipples poking out at me when I talk to them, which bras don't allow. Burn them bras, bitches! ;-P
Had a chinese girlfriend, she was definitely not interested in gifts, she did want to marry me though but things turned out problematic due to work, eventually we both agreed to each seek our own paths. When it comes to chinese women go for intelligence, they have a lot to offer and are usually more tolerable of the small quirks we all have. Its true though, mainstream Chinese chicks want pretty much the same as any other girl.
I don't like Drama and that's probably why i'm currently single. I don't think I want Chinese Girlfriend or Canadian Girlfriend for that matter. I'm striving for my own pursuits to add value to my life.
Congratulations on the developing Hai Zi! Vivi is so cute and has such a remarkable sense of humour. I think she is wrong though about Chinese girls not liking exercise, possibly a feeling due to her current condition and weight gain. Parks at night in every major city I've visited in China, North and South, are full of happy women and men doing synchronized exercises, dancing, marching in groups, playing badminton, table tennis, and basketball.
+David Wood for sure, but those are old people for the most part. I think she is referring to more strenuous exercise like running, going to the gym etc...
When i was in china when i was 16 with a large group of student, me and three other girls were trying on dresses one girl was very tall and broad , and picked up a dress that was a size small, the shopwoman grabbed the dress of her and said "no no no ! You too big for this ! These wont fit you ! " i was like :O
This hatred of getting black, being black, getting with blacks or having black babies has got to stop. We know what the white man did in China. ( what is the real name of the country, i know its not fucking china ) Being light is not a good thing. We DO have a sun. Disliking others for their color...wrong. Bad white man, bad dog!
It's not just Chinese women that are like this. It just depends on the individual. I was with a Chinese women for awhile and she was nothing like that.
Was that a cameo of Sasha near the end? Just catching up on your older videos now. You two are a great couple, your humour complement each other well. Baby-Milk is going to crush men's hearts when she gets older with those genes.
I find your channel helpful and informative but a bit scary!! I am having a long distance relationship with a Chinese woman I met last year here in America. Most everything you said in this video applies to my girlfriend!! I guess having this information in my pocket will help me avoid some pitfalls and set my expectations too. Thanks!!
One of my wife's primary complaints about Canada: "Your Canada sun is too big". Of course in much China you rarely get direct exposure to the sun because of constant smog. So one good thing about smog is it lowers the rate of melanoma. (but probably increases every other kind of cancer).
OMG, those thick metal doors in apartments in Canton! ~~~ So familiar! "You want to die?", LOL! ~~ I can imagine Vivian having the Cantonese phrase in her head "你想死啊?", LOL! So Cantonese! From the healthcare standpoint, starving will actually make you binge eat later and gain all that weight back. It's best to cut the carbohydrate (rice, noodles, bread, potatoes, etc.) as excessive intake will result in carbs turning into fat in the body. To lose weight effectively without exercising although it's better to have a combination of both, eat protein (white lean meat like chicken) and fiber (vegetables and fruits) because they actually make a person feel fuller and more satisfied than eating carbs (no Danish cookies as in this video). Chicken or tuna salad is my favorite whenever I want to lose weight. Besides, extensive and prolonged starvation will end up forcing your body to convert proteins (such as muscles) to energy (ATP) resulting in people losing muscle mass, which is not good. So to lose weight effectively, exercise to burn the fat and eat a healthy protein and fiber rich diet. I personally have been gaining great results from such combination as well as drinking oolong tea (pour out the first cup which is 95% caffeine to prevent caffeine overdose) after the births of my babies. This is the scientific way to effectively lose weight. =)
Matt B hey man, I post daily content about China and life on the community tab only for sponsors basically the stuff I can’t post normally on the channel. You get a badge next to your name, and rewards and emojis thanks so much.
+laowhy86 Okay awesome, definitely something I’ll be considering along with Patreon. I’ve been considering Patreon for awhile now. Feel free to use some high pressure sales tactics and close me out bro!!
please help. my brother married an Asian girl and she is extremely snobby and snotty to me. I'm Caucasian and I'm wondering if it's because she's jealous I'm Caucasian or because I'm her husband's sister. She hates the sun and tries to lighten her skin and even got a nose job to make her nose look more Caucasian and is obsessed with her nose. any ideas? thanks.
teakertown - Sorry to hear you sister-in-law is treating you poorly. I believe that she is jealous of you and your white skin. I teach Chinese children and that jealousy of white skin is real. Just keep being nice to her but don't let her issues make you feel down or upset. Maybe she will come around, maybe she won't. Either way, it's her issue. Best wishes!
Tara Crain .... thank you very much. it really upsets me because I think she is turning my brother away from me too. it really messes up the dynamics. do Asians get less jealous as they get older? she is 27.
I have been in a similar situation where my best friend's girlfriend doesn't like me and she won't let him hang out with me anymore. And my best friend obviously doesn't want to lose her so he stopped seeing me completely. Your brother has to step in and tell her that it's not cool with the way his sister is being treated.
Asian girls are not special unicorns, she is just a girl. She has insecurities like her nose and skin like most girls out there, there's nothing wrong with it. Just treat her like a girl instead of an Asian girl if you get what I mean.
I don't think this should be said that ALL Chinese girls are like this. Everyone is different. I'm sure that there are Chinese girls who don't care about money this much, maybe have a different value system. Not everyone is materialistic.
Elana Vital yep I agree that.the that girls type didn't only Chinese girls. I knew what I hate or love.any one it's different.and I am a Chinese girl too
Princess is a control game; basically a person who wants to rule, but isn't qualified. They do that because the man has not exhibited Alpha Male qualities.
Bad generalization. Vivi came from the kind of culture in Canton that was materialistic (no criticism). There was this certain group of people there that focus a lot on meals and wealth. They may treat you generously but they expect the other way round, too. Girls else where or from different cultures in China may buy you a meal and do not care too much for that. I had a 1-year relationship with a Han Chinese from Xinjiang. And if I remember correctly the first meal between us was paid by her, happily. She was a big spender on herself and on me. I also spent for her, sometimes lavishly. She focused on the feeling that I took care of her instead of taking financial advantage out of me. We were just two spoiled college students who just did not care for wealth management (we should). But the result was the opposite as you would expect on my end. Because I was happy with her, I did not really find the need to spend that much on fancy stuffs (most costs on my end were simple hotels and restaurants). She did overspent on her clothes though and her mum was furious. I also had a relationship with a girl from somewhat the Northeast, she did not mind spend on me and I likewise. Girls from the northwest and northeast seem to care less on financial advantages over their partners, and are more financially independent. It is more of a feeling being taken care of thing. So for westerners, the northern girls are pretty perfect: they have the kind of extrovert open-mindedness that the west is used too. On the other hand, they don’t seek to rip you off as often as western metropolitan girls. Northern girls I guess have more of a small-town vibe (despite there are big cities in the north, too) because of the open landscape and scarce population. You may say the real China is small town China, too.
How do you go about asking permission to record in stores and theaters and so on? I was going around a 大润发 once trying to record to show family and I actually got harassed by the staff to stop.... And it wasn't dirty or embarrassing or anything so I didn't get what the deal was@.@
Nooni Doodi Yeah I recently came to know that thanks, so trying to understand -If a tanned skin person goes to their country they will think that person is low-class?
+Soujanya V I think the most important reason for Chinese girls to keep white is that they believe white skin is more attractive for them, just like a lot of western girls think tan skin is really hot for them. I am Asian, and I personally think white skin asian girl is more attractive. So it is all about the aesthetic view.
Elana.. are you Chinese? I'm sure Chinese women do not need you feeling some way on their behalf. This information is coming from a Chinese woman... I'm sure she would know better than you, and obviously these are generalities.
I spent 3 and a half years in China and dated 6 women in that time, these are true for 90% of the mainland girls you meet. HK and Macau (mostly HK) are more westernized in their values and are less "materialistic" from the mainlanders.
hahahaha face kiny ahahahaha thats awesome! Also in America, about half the time, the girls check out other girls with the guy or way more than the guy, haha. True story.
Send her a payment notice and inform her that you will set her in debtor's delay if she does not pay back within a certain time. Inform her that you will initiate a foreclosure on her home should she fail to repay. Also notice her that you will press charges for fraud and have her extradited to wherever you live to be tried and prosecuted. Good luck :)
I met a Chinese woman on a dating site. We emailed each other for a couple of weeks and then she disappeared. Five years later , she emails me out of the blue. I did not even remember her. Then she reminded me. We video Skyped for a year. I went to China to live with her for 2 months. Actually , she still lived with her ex-husband - separate bedrooms. So she rented us an apt. Her city was dirty, polluted and too many cars. I was at home all day when she went to work. No books in English, no stereo and crappy internet connection. She would not let me cook. If I met an English speaking friend , I could not invite back to our apt. She was stingy with money. Her bike was crappy old and a death trap. She borrowed another crappy bike from her brother for me to ride. She would not introduce me to her family. I could not go to a work related social function with her. I could not meet any of her work mates. She was controlling. If I went outside for ten minutes, she would follow me. She insisted on holding my hand before crossing the street so I would not get hit by a car. She took me along with her 2 other friends to the south of China. Train ride was 45 hours one way. First hotel would not let me stay because of no Chinese I.D. Second hotel would not let me stay either. Thought I was going to have to sleep in the streets. Her girlfriend told her to send me home back on train alone because travel in small towns was going to be difficult for me. I am home alone and bored. Got drunk, fell in the street and woke up in ambulance. Doctor who stitched my head was her friend, called her and she came back. She was pissed that she lost her bed on the train for changing schedule at last minute. I was so bored in her town that the only thing to do was buy liquor and get drunk. I've been talking to Chinese women on another dating site and it seems that most are looking for a rich American to take care of them. Most on the site are dressed like princesses. Seems Chinese women are trying to look and dress more like western women. Seems like Chinese women are more materialistic than American women. Most Chinese I have met could care less about the pollution or what we humans are doing to the environment. NOT SURE I EVER WANT TO HOOK UP WITH A CHINESE WOMAN AGAIN.
TOP 5 THINGS CHINESE GIRLS HATE:
1. man with low salary
2. man with no house
3. man with no car
4. man who has mistress (although will accept this if numbers 1-3 are met)
not hating, just an observation...
Jonny Just to remind, every girl including your mom would “hate” these losers.... Well no car is fine for me because I have carsick since born, but at least an annual subway card...
婧琳张 only poor mom thinks that way. he mean many chinese girls act like gold diggers. put money first before personality.
婧琳张. in western society, it was seen as disreputable to marry or date someone for financial reasons, they are often refuted to as gold diggers. It is viewed negatively because in western traditions that are rooted in Christian ideals of etiquette. They state that when a man starts a relationship with a woman who is financially dependent on the man, it is the same as grating her as a prostitute. So to a westerner, the idea of a girl wanting any and all relationships she has to be rooted in financial gain is equivalent to calling herself a whore. In our society the idea of arranged marrages, and clan like alliances between powerful/wealthy families family have died off. But in China, where gender roles and familial expectation are clearly defined, it makes sense that this is the norm.
In western society, LOOKS of men are given more importance. It is important for the man look good. White women are shallow as fuck. They need men to be tall, mascular and basically be blessed with good genes. I like the Chinese idea because money reflects real Alpha trait and not good genes. White women are too obsessed with looks and sex appeal. Fuck that.
I fail to see the benefit coming back the man's way.
Another great video! Fun, entertaining and so true.
+Dallas Powwi thanks!
Hey man, after watching some of your vids with Winston, I thought I'd check out your channel. Liking what I'm seeing so far, subscribed and I'm gonna crack on and watch some more! There is a strong possibility I might be making the move to China soon from Thailand, both your channels are invaluable resources of what to expect, and also pretty interesting to see the similarities and subtle differences between them being that they are relatively so close. Peace!
+IMN69 thank you so much dude!
+IMN69 I don't think you are going to prefer living in China compared to Thailand. Unless you like noise, crowds, shopping etc. .
I love your husband and wife videos. They relate to real life as you live it in China and we can compare with the western world. Keep it up - great work
+cdn soul cool. thanks bro!
I think after this video, you should do a video entitled: "Why in the world would I want a Chinese girlfriend??"
I think because he live in China that's why
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+Renzhi Wang 笑尿
+TheMotorick If you have to ask, you don't deserve one.
Well most native asian women are much more of a women than western women are. You can't trust a western woman. The love the d.n.a too much.
These videos are one of the best things about my week
exercise isn't just about weight--that's a bad thought process many people (especially women) have. it's about a healthy heart, healthy respiration and circulation, healthy skin, and mental health too. exercise is proven to elevate your mood, help you sleep better, and generally have a more positive outlook on life.
i used to eat badly and never exercise, i got 30 lbs. overweight, and i was just a depressed, lazy mess. once i started doing cardio boxing and changing my diet i lost those 30 lbs. and started feeling 20 years younger. i'm a lot more active, my digestion is amazing (no more heartburn or need for pills), my skin is clear, i sleep like a log, and i have plenty of energy. now i love getting outside and being active, and life seems to be full of possibilities instead of full of dead ends.
humans are meant to be active. this sedentary sitting around in front of the computer or TV shit is totally unnatural. it's the reason for all the depression, chronic pain, obesity, anger, anxiety, and fuck knows how many more chronic conditions people struggle with today. balance is great--i love youtube and video games too, but i balance it out with daily exercise, lots of water, and doing something outside every day of the week.
speech over. take from it what you will.
Awesome job on doing a joint video guys. You two look very good together - more positive stories and less haters is what we want to see :)
If you check out another girl in Europe:" a Dutch girl won't react, German girl won't react, Belgian girl won't react, English girl will get grumpy and get very insecure, French girl will get verbal telling you she can do better, Swedish girl won't react, Danish girl won't react, Spanish girl will react and become verbally very loud with hand gestures mixed in, Portuguese girl will walk away from you giving you the finger in the process while mumbling stuff, Austrian girl will get grumpy in some cases kick you, Italian girl will kill you after she's done yelling at you, Irish girl will get loud and bad mouth your sexual performance and how you hold you alcohol in public very loudly, Greek girl will beat you to death while yelling at you, Russian girl will attack the woman your looking at and then you" (FYI;) .
Ahh,...Europ, fun times 😆, so many cultures and languages to get your ass kicked by a girl/woman 😇 .
U know a lot
+ThatDutchguy you should write an E book
laowhy86 But then they will find me,...barely got away from the Italian one with my life 😲.
+ThatDutchguy Dude! You should try standup comedy!
What a ''man of the world''...
As always fascinating , Keep them coming !
It's true about Chinese girls being materialistic but I think if you are a principled man and stick to your guns you can just tell them where the front door is when they start that shit and that they're easily replaceable (they are).
Relationships or marriage are are a kind of arrangement based on what two people bring to the table. NEVER build a relationship on spoiling a girl- you'll regret it later on.
I had a Japanese gf like this..she'd say "buy me X"...I'd say "yeah next time". Eventually she walked but wouldn't want that kind of long term person anyway. Plus I'd hit it enough times anyway.
Remember guys- getting older, your value increases and theirs depreciates. Always negotiate from a position of sticking to your principles.
Finally some man who has grown a pair instead of being a p*ssy-boyfriend. I salute you Mister Dixon.
+G-Dragon Slave much appreciated, sir. Don't despair, there are others like us out there
Are men still telling themselves that their value increases with age? You guys are funny! ;)
+katty kleo I could get into a sarcastic exchange with you, but let's just save that and discuss facts. Biologically, women are attracted to signs of strength, confidence, and the ability to gather resources. This indicates that he can provide for a family and take care his wife and kids. Men are attracted to signs of beauty, Health and youth , which indicates she can have healthy offspring. This is why you see beautiful women with ugly yet successful men and never the other way around. Something tells me you already know this and are just salty about it.
+katty kleo further on that point, me tend to have more resources (money) and higher positions In their careers as they get older.
So yes , they often are more desirable with age. This obviously doesn't mean you want to make out with a geezer, but the point still stands
It is so nice to put a face to the voice. Keep up the good work. Do a video on Chinese holiday's. Besides New Years, what floats their boats?
Chinese culture is more materialistic than Western. It's also more conservative and traditional.
Funcuz Chris actually this is a period that the developing country has to experience
Ha ha ha this video is so good. You both are so great together . Love the interaction and comedy .
After watching this video I like Japanese girls better.
Here's my question... At what point do we stop worrying about how to impress Chinese girls and allow them to worry about what Western men like? I mean... who's trying to impress whom? If I found myself in China and single (which I am) I would be very tempted to not chase any Chinese girls or even try to ask them out. I think I would rather see which Chinese girls came dropping hints or asking me out - showing attention to me instead of the other way around. Does that make sense?
I would feel the same way about those girls as I do girls here in the U.S. and that is that, when we guys try to get our acts together in such a way that we play to what the girls like, we give up a lot of power in our relationships and get the dynamic off on the wrong foot. This "knight in shining armor" syndrome has caused men to become way too servile to their women. By showing this same deference to Chinese girls, I think that we expose them to a new arrangement whereas Chinese men may have not been doing it this way. I just see a number of potential pitfalls. The last thing that I would ever want is to find myself in a relationship with any woman that constantly breaks my balls the way my American bitch ex-wife did for too long.
Ok, that's what I think anyway.
Can I just clarify that this video mostly apply to Chinese girls from China, HK, Taiwan. My ethnicity is Chinese but I'm not from China. I know lots of mainland Chinese girls who are like that and a lot of Chinese girl who are not like that too. Every culture, country, race have whiny people and nice people just that China is currently under a magnifying glass due to the sheer amount of Chinese, therefore it seems more that way.
amazing video as always
+Noah Jvano thanks Noah!
Dude, China doesn't sound very nice to be in.
Never go living in China !
Oh man I've been in China for a week and its a trial by fire with these birds I tell you what mate. Fun to find out all the little niches though.
That, ladies and gentlemen, is the face of a dude that's TRAPPED. YOU DONE MESSED UP NOW A-ARON!
Hello, Vivi and sorry I don't know your name! 68 yr old guy here in Michigan USA. Obviously I'm too old to ever think about exploring the world the way you and your friend have done. I really enjoy your videos though because it allows me to see, hear things that I would otherwise not be able to. Have fun and know that I wish you and Vivi all the best in life!
George
They want to be white because the worker class is dark from working outdoors (fields ect) so pale is considered a sign of wealth and success.
love your you tube educational information!
So in short they want money
Robin Soo Ha Yes, have to make over $70k average just to talk to them. :(
TheSushiandme are you fucking kidding me . That’s to much
Ajinkya Ubale that's the truth. I work with and are friends with Chinese women. No money no honey.
I finally bought an expensive car and the Chinese girl that friendzoned me for 3 years now is trying to hook up with me. Lol. I'm like... i helped you with your life every weekend for 3 years and been with you through your thick and thin. Now.... you like me because i have money and a nice car now? F you...
haha, amazing. Top Comment of the year. Sounds like speaking from experience. ;)
Hi guys. I’m An America-Chinese lady and I find your videos extremely informative and interesting. Keep them coming. I also married a causian man. Been married for 20+ yrs and have 2 children.
dude from everything you've said in other videos and in this one, dating Chinese girls sounds like a MGTOW nightmare that's come to life
Well, that's what happen when you don't have feminism.
I don't understand why mgtow think traditional women are better when they follow their ancient beliefs on how men should be rich and provide everything for them.
On the other hand, feminists say the darndest things, like marriage being sexist, focusing on women as someone to birth a child is sexist (let's face it, that's the number one use of men and women to each other; having kids), etc. I mean, if you stick with the "legal equality" definition they're not necessarily bad, but the self-identified feminists...
And what's the deal with bra burners saying they are rebelling against male dominated society where males want them to wear bras. I prefer seeing their pointy little nipples poking out at me when I talk to them, which bras don't allow. Burn them bras, bitches! ;-P
You guys are hilarious! I'm beginning to love Chinese women after watching these vids. Also love that you accept btc, Hope all is well.
Seems like I would never date a chinese girl. Treat her like a princess? spoil? they hate exercise? get me out of hereeeee
Great series. Good job.
Had a chinese girlfriend, she was definitely not interested in gifts, she did want to marry me though but things turned out problematic due to work, eventually we both agreed to each seek our own paths. When it comes to chinese women go for intelligence, they have a lot to offer and are usually more tolerable of the small quirks we all have. Its true though, mainstream Chinese chicks want pretty much the same as any other girl.
Love it, great video.
So basically they want you to buy them.
Not if the woman is more wealthier than you, or if she wants to mother you
Dude, I swear to god I have the bell clicked on, suscribed and everything and still its been months since I received a video notification from you :\
YAWN! this is pretty typical in most all females around the world
great vids just subscribed!!
I don't like Drama and that's probably why i'm currently single. I don't think I want Chinese Girlfriend or Canadian Girlfriend for that matter. I'm striving for my own pursuits to add value to my life.
Congratulations on the developing Hai Zi! Vivi is so cute and has such a remarkable sense of humour. I think she is wrong though about Chinese girls not liking exercise, possibly a feeling due to her current condition and weight gain. Parks at night in every major city I've visited in China, North and South, are full of happy women and men doing synchronized exercises, dancing, marching in groups, playing badminton, table tennis, and basketball.
+David Wood for sure, but those are old people for the most part. I think she is referring to more strenuous exercise like running, going to the gym etc...
When i was in china when i was 16 with a large group of student, me and three other girls were trying on dresses one girl was very tall and broad , and picked up a dress that was a size small, the shopwoman grabbed the dress of her and said "no no no ! You too big for this ! These wont fit you ! " i was like :O
+Katerina P lmao that sucks!
Hey Cait, you're clearly a very brave man.
This hatred of getting black, being black, getting with blacks or having black babies has got to stop. We know what the white man did in China. ( what is the real name of the country, i know its not fucking china )
Being light is not a good thing. We DO have a sun. Disliking others for their color...wrong. Bad white man, bad dog!
I recommend a new series..." Don't Cheap it out". Tips and suggestions for dating Chinese girls. Great video. I have watched several times.
It's not just Chinese women that are like this. It just depends on the individual. I was with a Chinese women for awhile and she was nothing like that.
Was that a cameo of Sasha near the end?
Just catching up on your older videos now. You two are a great couple, your humour complement each other well.
Baby-Milk is going to crush men's hearts when she gets older with those genes.
Chinese girls would last two seconds with me... hahahah
Happy New year to you both!!! :-)
+carlos ogura you too!
Great series and the two of you make a cute couple. Best,
+Vincent Fulco thanks Vincent!
I love your videos!! You two are so cute!!
My wife is definitely one of those Chinese girls that hate the sun. She had those driving sleeves and a mask while driving her car.
😂difficult to understand
I find your channel helpful and informative but a bit scary!! I am having a long distance relationship with a Chinese woman I met last year here in America. Most everything you said in this video applies to my girlfriend!! I guess having this information in my pocket will help me avoid some pitfalls and set my expectations too. Thanks!!
One of my wife's primary complaints about Canada: "Your Canada sun is too big". Of course in much China you rarely get direct exposure to the sun because of constant smog. So one good thing about smog is it lowers the rate of melanoma. (but probably increases every other kind of cancer).
This is my favourite video,please keep them coming. Don't cheepitout!
5, 4, - All girls.
3 - I just had a business idea.
2 - most girls.
1 - All girls.
The pic in the background of her about to bet you up . You are my hero .
So, the men are vain and women are materialistic... yeah, huge differences. :eyeroll:
Ianoodin Did I hurt your feelings, Mary?
Ianoodin Straight over your head, I see... shocking.
I love your videos .I am happy to see how much progress China is making !
LOL, loved the "rapist masks".
Congratulations !!!! Can't wait to see your Baby !!
The eternal child, basically!!!
these are great videos!
High maintenance women.
I’m 6ft tall 145 lbs would I be considers too thin or fat ?
No wonder they look thin but flabby as hell nothing tone about them lol.
OMG, those thick metal doors in apartments in Canton! ~~~ So familiar!
"You want to die?", LOL! ~~ I can imagine Vivian having the Cantonese phrase in her head "你想死啊?", LOL! So Cantonese!
From the healthcare standpoint, starving will actually make you binge eat later and gain all that weight back. It's best to cut the carbohydrate (rice, noodles, bread, potatoes, etc.) as excessive intake will result in carbs turning into fat in the body. To lose weight effectively without exercising although it's better to have a combination of both, eat protein (white lean meat like chicken) and fiber (vegetables and fruits) because they actually make a person feel fuller and more satisfied than eating carbs (no Danish cookies as in this video). Chicken or tuna salad is my favorite whenever I want to lose weight. Besides, extensive and prolonged starvation will end up forcing your body to convert proteins (such as muscles) to energy (ATP) resulting in people losing muscle mass, which is not good. So to lose weight effectively, exercise to burn the fat and eat a healthy protein and fiber rich diet. I personally have been gaining great results from such combination as well as drinking oolong tea (pour out the first cup which is 95% caffeine to prevent caffeine overdose) after the births of my babies. This is the scientific way to effectively lose weight. =)
Aye, C-Milk...You left your indicator on.
+Tansuo93 whoops. sorry mate
Yo C-Milk my man! Can you explain what this TH-cam Sponsor thing is and what benefits we can get with it maybe on the next video? That'd be awesome.
Matt B hey man, I post daily content about China and life on the community tab only for sponsors basically the stuff I can’t post normally on the channel. You get a badge next to your name, and rewards and emojis thanks so much.
+laowhy86 Okay awesome, definitely something I’ll be considering along with Patreon. I’ve been considering Patreon for awhile now. Feel free to use some high pressure sales tactics and close me out bro!!
Hey Vivi..feel free to smack 'you know who' around as often as you can. Us subscribers don't mind one little bit!
+Moto Gnome i thought we were friends... :(
If I have to sell you out to witness another Viv slap, I'll do it!
XD hahaha
Does the gift thing even apply to just regular friends? That would explain a lot actually...
please help. my brother married an Asian girl and she is extremely snobby and snotty to me. I'm Caucasian and I'm wondering if it's because she's jealous I'm Caucasian or because I'm her husband's sister. She hates the sun and tries to lighten her skin and even got a nose job to make her nose look more Caucasian and is obsessed with her nose. any ideas? thanks.
teakertown ......it could be she is jealous of your eyes
teakertown - Sorry to hear you sister-in-law is treating you poorly. I believe that she is jealous of you and your white skin. I teach Chinese children and that jealousy of white skin is real. Just keep being nice to her but don't let her issues make you feel down or upset. Maybe she will come around, maybe she won't. Either way, it's her issue. Best wishes!
Tara Crain .... thank you very much. it really upsets me because I think she is turning my brother away from me too. it really messes up the dynamics. do Asians get less jealous as they get older? she is 27.
I have been in a similar situation where my best friend's girlfriend doesn't like me and she won't let him hang out with me anymore. And my best friend obviously doesn't want to lose her so he stopped seeing me completely. Your brother has to step in and tell her that it's not cool with the way his sister is being treated.
Asian girls are not special unicorns, she is just a girl. She has insecurities like her nose and skin like most girls out there, there's nothing wrong with it. Just treat her like a girl instead of an Asian girl if you get what I mean.
I love your videos!
damn, chinese girls are diggin the gold pretty hard eh
Rockn Rolla *jade diggers
Really good video.
No Chinese girlfriend for me. Too expensive.
I don't think this should be said that ALL Chinese girls are like this. Everyone is different. I'm sure that there are Chinese girls who don't care about money this much, maybe have a different value system. Not everyone is materialistic.
Most of the time, it is true, if you meet a Chinese girl that is not like this, congratulations, you meet a rare species
LMAO
Elana Vital yep I agree that.the that girls type didn't only Chinese girls. I knew what I hate or love.any one it's different.and I am a Chinese girl too
raygun gothic not all
Thelondonbadger what no
Great video
Woman. Woman never changes.
Snake? Snake??!!! Snakee!!!
eug3nius best comment
excellent...and funny to watch
+brandywell44 thank you!
Princess is a control game; basically a person who wants to rule, but isn't qualified. They do that because the man has not exhibited Alpha Male qualities.
mark eaves it's common to see ugly high maintenance Chinese women with a wimpy westerner like the guy in the video. It's common where I work at.
Bad generalization. Vivi came from the kind of culture in Canton that was materialistic (no criticism). There was this certain group of people there that focus a lot on meals and wealth. They may treat you generously but they expect the other way round, too. Girls else where or from different cultures in China may buy you a meal and do not care too much for that. I had a 1-year relationship with a Han Chinese from Xinjiang. And if I remember correctly the first meal between us was paid by her, happily. She was a big spender on herself and on me. I also spent for her, sometimes lavishly. She focused on the feeling that I took care of her instead of taking financial advantage out of me. We were just two spoiled college students who just did not care for wealth management (we should). But the result was the opposite as you would expect on my end. Because I was happy with her, I did not really find the need to spend that much on fancy stuffs (most costs on my end were simple hotels and restaurants). She did overspent on her clothes though and her mum was furious.
I also had a relationship with a girl from somewhat the Northeast, she did not mind spend on me and I likewise. Girls from the northwest and northeast seem to care less on financial advantages over their partners, and are more financially independent. It is more of a feeling being taken care of thing.
So for westerners, the northern girls are pretty perfect: they have the kind of extrovert open-mindedness that the west is used too. On the other hand, they don’t seek to rip you off as often as western metropolitan girls. Northern girls I guess have more of a small-town vibe (despite there are big cities in the north, too) because of the open landscape and scarce population. You may say the real China is small town China, too.
Philipinas are hotter
Your wife is cool, it is nice that she helps you with your video.
Your wife is adorable lol
Capt.Nebulace yup
How do you go about asking permission to record in stores and theaters and so on? I was going around a 大润发 once trying to record to show family and I actually got harassed by the staff to stop.... And it wasn't dirty or embarrassing or anything so I didn't get what the deal was@.@
+MeshiYoko i've been ok thusfar, but sometimes people tell me not to film
Not sounding rude but not getting this extreme obsession with white skin
+Soujanya V In china black skin is seen to indicates you being poor, farmer and lower class person.
Nooni Doodi Yeah I recently came to know that thanks, so trying to understand -If a tanned skin person goes to their country they will think that person is low-class?
+Soujanya V I think the most important reason for Chinese girls to keep white is that they believe white skin is more attractive for them, just like a lot of western girls think tan skin is really hot for them. I am Asian, and I personally think white skin asian girl is more attractive. So it is all about the aesthetic view.
how did you come to go there from america
This makes me very uncomfortable to paint with a broad brush like this. You can't generalize people like that.
The mainland chinese girl who hate the poor man.it was the chinese ' s custom of the nasty conception of the ideology.
The mainland chinese girls were the money slavery of love with a sweety speech and tenderly gentle manner in order to hide the hypocrisy.
Elana.. are you Chinese? I'm sure Chinese women do not need you feeling some way on their behalf. This information is coming from a Chinese woman... I'm sure she would know better than you, and obviously these are generalities.
I spent 3 and a half years in China and dated 6 women in that time, these are true for 90% of the mainland girls you meet. HK and Macau (mostly HK) are more westernized in their values and are less "materialistic" from the mainlanders.
She's just an ultra-PC liberal who thinks everything is offensive to everyone.
Both of you are so awesome!
take a girl from russia
I am not sure it is a good idea. Russian girls are also known to be spoiled, very materialistic (and snobby).
hahahaha face kiny ahahahaha thats awesome! Also in America, about half the time, the girls check out other girls with the guy or way more than the guy, haha. True story.
Heiiiii... I was also thinking about buying those extended anti UV sleeves!!! 😁😁😁 I am Indonesian but I also didn't want to have dark skin 😁😁😁
you guys are so funny! luv ya guys.
+Martin Humphrey Thanks Martin
Good. Thanks for sharing :-)
High Maintenance nightmare
Dude, she is freaking hilarious!!! Great catch!! When she said "wanna die", I was dying !!!!
Was that a robot working the concession stand at the movie theater? If not, she barely moved. Either way, impressive!
a lady from China asked me money Nd she is not returning to me it's being 8months, how can I complain her..she lives in Kunming. can anyone help me.
Send her a payment notice and inform her that you will set her in debtor's delay if she does not pay back within a certain time. Inform her that you will initiate a foreclosure on her home should she fail to repay. Also notice her that you will press charges for fraud and have her extradited to wherever you live to be tried and prosecuted.
Good luck :)
Do men get hassled to marry as well? As a foreigner will you get hassled to marry?
+Mediocre-Motorcycle-Modifications yep
So, what exactly is the upside of dating a Chinese girl?
I met a Chinese woman on a dating site. We emailed each other for a couple of weeks and then she disappeared. Five years later , she emails me out of the blue. I did not even remember her. Then she reminded me. We video Skyped for a year. I went to China to live with her for 2 months. Actually , she still lived with her ex-husband - separate bedrooms. So she rented us an apt. Her city was dirty, polluted and too many cars. I was at home all day when she went to work. No books in English, no stereo and crappy internet connection. She would not let me cook. If I met an English speaking friend , I could not invite back to our apt. She was stingy with money. Her bike was crappy old and a death trap. She borrowed another crappy bike from her brother for me to ride. She would not introduce me to her family. I could not go to a work related social function with her. I could not meet any of her work mates. She was controlling. If I went outside for ten minutes, she would follow me. She insisted on holding my hand before crossing the street so I would not get hit by a car. She took me along with her 2 other friends to the south of China. Train ride was 45 hours one way. First hotel would not let me stay because of no Chinese I.D. Second hotel would not let me stay either. Thought I was going to have to sleep in the streets. Her girlfriend told her to send me home back on train alone because travel in small towns was going to be difficult for me. I am home alone and bored. Got drunk, fell in the street and woke up in ambulance. Doctor who stitched my head was her friend, called her and she came back. She was pissed that she lost her bed on the train for changing schedule at last minute. I was so bored in her town that the only thing to do was buy liquor and get drunk. I've been talking to Chinese women on another dating site and it seems that most are looking for a rich American to take care of them. Most on the site are dressed like princesses. Seems Chinese women are trying to look and dress more like western women. Seems like Chinese women are more materialistic than American women. Most Chinese I have met could care less about the pollution or what we humans are doing to the environment. NOT SURE I EVER WANT TO HOOK UP WITH A CHINESE WOMAN AGAIN.
lol wtf did you get yourself into, and why you even stayed in that apartment more than a day boggles my mind ( sorry for being direct)
Your wife's beautiful, you're a smart and funny guy. Keep up the videos. I'm learning.
Love you guys! :)
Vivi is such an asset to these videos.