I wish this guy the best. There is just so much sadness in this man. Thanks for the interview series. I appreciate that you give the guests the space to tell their own story in their own time.
This interview was like opening PANDORA'S BOX: saddest most upsetting experience of abuse, manipulation and terrible vulnerability. Heart breaking tale of abandonment on every level. I wish him well on his journey....
I didn’t know who Cole was but seeing his interview and his expression when he’s going into more detail about his health and personal life you can just tell he so much wants to be in a better place than where he is both mentally and physically. Being so self aware of where you are and where you know you could be is hard pill to swallow. Cole shows a lot of strength and vulnerability to put that out there and keep pushing forward. Depression and other things that can keep you from being your best self can be very heartbreaking and discouraging and id imagine a lot of young gay men who didn’t have emotional available parents that showed them how to be loved go through that a lot.
Thank you for featuring one of the most beautiful men who seems as sweet and kind as he is handsome. I appreciate leaning about Cole's journey and am grateful that he shared his story. I wish him all the best and am glad he has a chosen family who support him and cherish him. As one of his fans I just have to say, I love you Cole, you are wonderful and amazing.
I sense so much sadness in this beautiful man. I hope he can heal those deep wounds he is living with. It sounds like LeGrand is a stabilizing force in his life.
A friend of mine has worked for Le Grand (and has met Cole) and tells me that Le Grand is a really great guy. And believe me in the Gay Porn World there are not that many great guys. But Le Grand is definitely one of the real good guys. Also Cole is a really nice guy (according to my friend).
Agreed. IMHO, there is lots of trauma(s) here. Also, (IMHO), it seemed that even Collins was uncomfortable at times with what was being revealed and where the interview was going. I don't know what type of counseling/therapy that this young man would need (and if it could help because the damage is so deep) but definitely some type of mental/therapy treatment could be helpful on some level.
Super sexy guy. He strikes me as a bit lost. I hope he, and the people that support him, focus on his mental health. I think a lot of good awaits this young man if that is prioritized.
I admire Cole even more after watching this interview. I struggled with the same tiredness, anxiety and losing my train of thought.. it always messed things up for me. Even if I really wanted them to succeed. For me it turned out to be ADHD (and a repeat cycle of ADHD burnout). I can't possibly diagnose anyone based on an interview, but I do recognize A LOT of my struggling earlier self in him. Cole seems like a smart and resilient man and I am sure he's going to live his 4K life. Maybe instead of adding new things to your wish list (or to be list), based on things that others do or are, try to strip away what is not actually that important. Get clear who you are and what lights you up. Then build from that. And accept that this process can take a while. Just finally allow yourself to really rest.
I've admired Cole Blue since I came across his content, but had absolutely no idea of his disturbing and traumatic past. He's a lovely and brave man to have been able to move forward with his life and live a life he's enjoying. I commend him for sharing his story.
What a beautiful person after the issues growing up.😘 I truly hope that you find the cause of your chronic fatigue and can discover how to at least minimize its effects.
I've seen some of Cole's work but never connected with him. This video, however, revealed that like me, his upbringing taught him to anticipate failure. I am so happy to see that he has a plan for his future and is saving his earnings in order to achieve it!
Fibromyalgia and its comorbitities is nothing to sneeze at. Dealing with them is a full time job, on top of all those other issues. Coles story is humbling. The humanizimg of a public figure is always inspiring. Thanks for sharing
I've enjoyed his work and will continue to do so - a very beautiful boy. But the sadness other have noted - it sounds as if he's never felt or been loved. Seems that Legrand does care for him but it appears all of Cole's relationships have been transactional and/or exploitive. Hope he gets to the bottom of his health issues and engages to address his emotional and mental health.
This interview has a gazillion red flags on it. Cole's non-chalant attitude about his year being exploited and sex trafficked was kinda cringe. Cole might have thought it was "hot" or "fun" to be prostituted or forced to have sex, but someone else in that group might very well have had a terrible experience -- one that they couldn't escape. It's one thing to have these arrangements be portrayed as fantasy. Hearing about the reality of it is another. I hope beyond hope that the sex trafficker was arrested. Where there is smoke, there is usually fire. The sex trafficking may only have been the tip of the iceberg. Going to the police to report this incident doesn't seem to have crossed Cole's mind. This all points to a real lack of self-esteem that some good therapy might help Cole learn to stand on his own two feet and overcome his inner anxiety and depression that may underlie the resulting fatigue issues. I wish this man all the best.
Its really remarkable how much he was fighting and keeping it together. The whole time he was talking about his health issues I was just screaming in my head that probably none of it comes from actual physical problems. Its so apparent that he has neurodivergencies and mental health stuff that cause this, like honestly I wish him a good recovery and the best life could possibly offer him.
From the get-go, he seems so sad, so very sad. I wonder if he he has ever gone into therapy? Not judging but therapy really does work, I promise you. It really does.
Turns out Cole and me share some major issues- the chronic fatigue and the low self-esteem and intimacy struggle due to absent fathers who were not affectionate with us. As a result we as adults will always feel rejected, unwanted and incapable of/not deserving love so we cannot form a healthy relationship. Cole, do you sleep well at night, is your diet healthy and what about the covid vaccines not tested enough timewise? Even if we know our problems that does not mean we are capable of solving them- you said so yourself. They say therapy works- try it before the problems ruin your life. You know there is a pattern in your choosing guys- always have that in mind. Your parents' rejection and abandonment scarred you so deeply the first and most important quality in a guy you search for is financial stability/the promise of security and maturity/finding the father figure at last. But were you ever in love for real with any of the guys you've been in relationships with- not in lust and enamored but in love? It's one thing to avoid intimacy with someone you are not emotionally into and completely other to have difficulties with the one you are in love with. Not everyone is into drinking a stranger's spit too. You know best how you feel about Legrand- when you say you are fine with not being the primary in the triangle because you don't want to be responsible for meeting the emotional needs of your lover,- ask yourself again are you in love with that man in the sense that if you are and you are bottling up your feelings and not showing jealousy or having bigger demands and expectations and being petrified of another failure- what this repression would cost you one day? If not- maybe when you achieve your own financial security you'll search one day for a partnership based on being in love? Legrand has his own issues and I hope he is decent enough to help you with your problems. Seems to me you underestimate depression- maybe there are things that make you unwell and affect your health and you need to solve them too? I don't buy that high libido could erase jealousy- one could convince themselves it can when there are not a lot of feelings involved. And does not chronic fatigue dampen your libido in any case? You know showing jealousy is a key to failure in a relationship and maybe you are choosing guys subconsciously you can apply the "I am beyond that"? Or maybe it is possible no matter how for some people it is impossible- to erase jealousy? You show a brave front and try to laugh away the trauma and scars- we all do that. Search for the answers- what really bothers you and makes you depressed not what is expected of you or how you are supposed to behave. Don't let unfulfilled cravings make you a bitter and cynical tired man one day. I think you are rarely pure at heart and beautiful- especially inside- and that you deserve to be loved madly, to be appreciated and put first by a deserving man and to find a man to love as deeply in return. Or in the capacity and a way that fills your heart.
I wish this guy the best. There is just so much sadness in this man.
Thanks for the interview series. I appreciate that you give the guests the space to tell their own story in their own time.
This interview was like opening PANDORA'S BOX: saddest most upsetting experience of abuse, manipulation and terrible vulnerability. Heart breaking tale of abandonment on every level. I wish him well on his journey....
I didn’t know who Cole was but seeing his interview and his expression when he’s going into more detail about his health and personal life you can just tell he so much wants to be in a better place than where he is both mentally and physically. Being so self aware of where you are and where you know you could be is hard pill to swallow.
Cole shows a lot of strength and vulnerability to put that out there and keep pushing forward. Depression and other things that can keep you from being your best self can be very heartbreaking and discouraging and id imagine a lot of young gay men who didn’t have emotional available parents that showed them how to be loved go through that a lot.
Thank you for featuring one of the most beautiful men who seems as sweet and kind as he is handsome. I appreciate leaning about Cole's journey and am grateful that he shared his story. I wish him all the best and am glad he has a chosen family who support him and cherish him. As one of his fans I just have to say, I love you Cole, you are wonderful and amazing.
I sense so much sadness in this beautiful man. I hope he can heal those deep wounds he is living with. It sounds like LeGrand is a stabilizing force in his life.
A friend of mine has worked for Le Grand (and has met Cole) and tells me that Le Grand is a really great guy. And believe me in the Gay Porn World there are not that many great guys. But Le Grand is definitely one of the real good guys. Also Cole is a really nice guy (according to my friend).
Oh my gosh! This young man needs counseling.
Please help this young man get psychological help before it’s too late.
Super dark stuff.
Agreed. IMHO, there is lots of trauma(s) here. Also, (IMHO), it seemed that even Collins was uncomfortable at times with what was being revealed and where the interview was going. I don't know what type of counseling/therapy that this young man would need (and if it could help because the damage is so deep) but definitely some type of mental/therapy treatment could be helpful on some level.
Super sexy guy. He strikes me as a bit lost. I hope he, and the people that support him, focus on his mental health. I think a lot of good awaits this young man if that is prioritized.
I admire Cole even more after watching this interview. I struggled with the same tiredness, anxiety and losing my train of thought.. it always messed things up for me. Even if I really wanted them to succeed. For me it turned out to be ADHD (and a repeat cycle of ADHD burnout). I can't possibly diagnose anyone based on an interview, but I do recognize A LOT of my struggling earlier self in him.
Cole seems like a smart and resilient man and I am sure he's going to live his 4K life.
Maybe instead of adding new things to your wish list (or to be list), based on things that others do or are, try to strip away what is not actually that important. Get clear who you are and what lights you up. Then build from that. And accept that this process can take a while. Just finally allow yourself to really rest.
I've admired Cole Blue since I came across his content, but had absolutely no idea of his disturbing and traumatic past. He's a lovely and brave man to have been able to move forward with his life and live a life he's enjoying. I commend him for sharing his story.
What a beautiful person after the issues growing up.😘 I truly hope that you find the cause of your chronic fatigue and can discover how to at least minimize its effects.
I've seen some of Cole's work but never connected with him. This video, however, revealed that like me, his upbringing taught him to anticipate failure. I am so happy to see that he has a plan for his future and is saving his earnings in order to achieve it!
Fibromyalgia and its comorbitities is nothing to sneeze at. Dealing with them is a full time job, on top of all those other issues. Coles story is humbling. The humanizimg of a public figure is always inspiring. Thanks for sharing
I've enjoyed his work and will continue to do so - a very beautiful boy. But the sadness other have noted - it sounds as if he's never felt or been loved. Seems that Legrand does care for him but it appears all of Cole's relationships have been transactional and/or exploitive. Hope he gets to the bottom of his health issues and engages to address his emotional and mental health.
This interview has a gazillion red flags on it. Cole's non-chalant attitude about his year being exploited and sex trafficked was kinda cringe. Cole might have thought it was "hot" or "fun" to be prostituted or forced to have sex, but someone else in that group might very well have had a terrible experience -- one that they couldn't escape. It's one thing to have these arrangements be portrayed as fantasy. Hearing about the reality of it is another.
I hope beyond hope that the sex trafficker was arrested. Where there is smoke, there is usually fire. The sex trafficking may only have been the tip of the iceberg. Going to the police to report this incident doesn't seem to have crossed Cole's mind. This all points to a real lack of self-esteem that some good therapy might help Cole learn to stand on his own two feet and overcome his inner anxiety and depression that may underlie the resulting fatigue issues. I wish this man all the best.
His story of abuse is so sad. I feel for him. He should call the police.
Its really remarkable how much he was fighting and keeping it together. The whole time he was talking about his health issues I was just screaming in my head that probably none of it comes from actual physical problems. Its so apparent that he has neurodivergencies and mental health stuff that cause this, like honestly I wish him a good recovery and the best life could possibly offer him.
From the get-go, he seems so sad, so very sad. I wonder if he he has ever gone into therapy? Not judging but therapy really does work, I promise you. It really does.
What a great interview - you were both very fab. Interesting, honest and human - excellent work!
One of my favorite performers
Cole is handsome
I like when his face suddenly changed to a lusty face when he talk about being in a missionary position.
damn.....is he ever handsome......WOW
Amazing story. I find it very helpful to hear.
please interview Dr wolf again ❤
Its a good think Cole got out of that crazy situation - he should turn of that into a movie
Turns out Cole and me share some major issues- the chronic fatigue and the low self-esteem and intimacy struggle due to absent fathers who were not affectionate with us. As a result we as adults will always feel rejected, unwanted and incapable of/not deserving love so we cannot form a healthy relationship.
Cole, do you sleep well at night, is your diet healthy and what about the covid vaccines not tested enough timewise? Even if we know our problems that does not mean we are capable of solving them- you said so yourself. They say therapy works- try it before the problems ruin your life. You know there is a pattern in your choosing guys- always have that in mind. Your parents' rejection and abandonment scarred you so deeply the first and most important quality in a guy you search for is financial stability/the promise of security and maturity/finding the father figure at last. But were you ever in love for real with any of the guys you've been in relationships with- not in lust and enamored but in love? It's one thing to avoid intimacy with someone you are not emotionally into and completely other to have difficulties with the one you are in love with. Not everyone is into drinking a stranger's spit too. You know best how you feel about Legrand- when you say you are fine with not being the primary in the triangle because you don't want to be responsible for meeting the emotional needs of your lover,- ask yourself again are you in love with that man in the sense that if you are and you are bottling up your feelings and not showing jealousy or having bigger demands and expectations and being petrified of another failure- what this repression would cost you one day? If not- maybe when you achieve your own financial security you'll search one day for a partnership based on being in love? Legrand has his own issues and I hope he is decent enough to help you with your problems. Seems to me you underestimate depression- maybe there are things that make you unwell and affect your health and you need to solve them too? I don't buy that high libido could erase jealousy- one could convince themselves it can when there are not a lot of feelings involved. And does not chronic fatigue dampen your libido in any case? You know showing jealousy is a key to failure in a relationship and maybe you are choosing guys subconsciously you can apply the "I am beyond that"? Or maybe it is possible no matter how for some people it is impossible- to erase jealousy? You show a brave front and try to laugh away the trauma and scars- we all do that. Search for the answers- what really bothers you and makes you depressed not what is expected of you or how you are supposed to behave. Don't let unfulfilled cravings make you a bitter and cynical tired man one day. I think you are rarely pure at heart and beautiful- especially inside- and that you deserve to be loved madly, to be appreciated and put first by a deserving man and to find a man to love as deeply in return. Or in the capacity and a way that fills your heart.
He's not that bad actor though. It feels Cole is a good person, introverted, reflexing over himself. Hope he is on his good path.
What sweet man ...touching interview
Another good interview
OMG this like the LeGrand interview EMPOWERING ..but Cole is BEAUTIFUL!!!
A fascinating man.
Jason, I,m a chiropractor and he needs to be seen by a naturalpathic doctor and a chiropractor. There is help out there.
God he’s so damn Handsome and those eyes and voice!! 🥵
He is Beautiful.
Cole please take trt . Trust me it will change everything. You will be a deferent person
whats trt
I think he looks a little bit like him but I doubt many people would be seriously confused.