Respect a morally upright person, for having virtues such as being responsible, altruistic, honest, diligent, kind, courteous, civic minded, discipline, open minded, courageous, honourable, filial and faithful. These are certainly more important than his/her achievements, wealth or appearance.
Becos he can and thinks he can get away with it. And even ask his dad to stand up for him and write a pathetic letter. So much for a spoilt 44 yo baby!
I believe his wife. I believe she is a health care physician. It was not easy for a woman to give up her career to raise three kids. I was once his fan, but no longer so. When a man become rich and famous in addition to his good look, he thinks he can do whatever he wants! No respect for him nor his family! No dignity! She is better off without him!
No good man period! Did he spend time with his children? Why would he had an affair? No one knows! Media makes up too many stories! Only he knows what he is doing! As a mom raising three kids, with nannies, and worked full time, it was not easy! Nanny’s care is not the same. The bottoms line, I will not support anyone who cheats!
High achievers are the one that actually capable of doing this things because they sometimes think it is within their right to do so. Another example is Tiger Woods that has several mistresses with an s not just one at the same time while projecting that he is happily married. Sorry to make him an example.
Why would you get married to a man who cheated even before wedding? Why would you have three kids for him? That says a lot from that woman. No matter how much you love a man, if he cheats once, he'll always do that. So it's better to end a relationship
Not necessarily. It depends on how bad is the past history. In this case, he's been a super playboy from the start, which is a huge red flag. Plus don't think there were enough signs of true repentance and remorse. The lady probably forgave him too easily.
Yep face palm indeed but let’s not forget his wife claimed he has a sex addiction. she probably wanted to save the marriage for as long as she could but this month was the final straw. Honestly, both sides are understandable. Living with someone who is unbearable and living with a cheater isn’t that great either. When she found out he was a cheater, that should’ve been the final straw but she gave him sooo many chances so she claims with these multiple mistresses
Actually they had 2 ,then the 3rd came while they were preparing for divorce in 2018..so they postponed the signing of the divorce papers n said would wait till after the baby turned one.. to me it's just a loveless tragedy
A handsome man with talents will not be short of affairs. Whether he can stay loyal to his wife or not. Its his lifestyle or his life. Wife should know when she married him. Since having so many childrens, wife should respect his privacy or try to adapt to be his supportive wife and half close her eyes as long he comes home and treat his family well. Of course, on the financial side, she should deduct 25% off his nett income for the family (for his childrens)
The most terrible lie is the fake news broadcast by the bias media, he is destroyed by the rumors and slanders. All his efforts and reputation were all gone for 20 years without any objective reporting and legal evidence. Destroy in name of love is deviation, making kids' father to suffer cyberbully is cruel. The authenticity of the article is doubtful, there has been criticisms and more and more people start to question about it. He is the responsible father not saying a word to attack the mother of children, truth will come out eventually.
Understand that both genders have their own needs. While it is wrong to commit adultery, coming from a empathetic stand point, Wang might have lots of unfulfilled needs that result in his wrong doing which up to a certain point, becomes uncontrollable. What are his unfulfilled needs? Perhaps high expectations from himself, from parents and partner which he felt unable to please. Perhaps his wife did not give him what he needs, appreciation, love, sex etc. Plus stress from the entertainment world which makes him felt lonely and unworthy, given that he needs to keep up his good image for the world to see. The world has scrutinised him enough. Come on, he has apologied, give him a break. And pray for him. 俗语: 孤掌难鸣。There are always 2 sides of a story. It doesn't mean the one who talk the loudest has no fault at all. Everything in life is a mirror reflection.
We dont know how honest or not he was with his wife. That aspect is very important in how i feel about this. If a man likes his romances and varied sex life before marriage, dont expect that to change, especially when the marriage decission is not made totally freely. In this case either the pregnancy or more likely just the social expectations. Also dont judge men too much for wanting varied active sex life, but yes, do judge em when they lie a lot to have it or harm somebody for it. He is famous and rich, the wife also got some good public image... I know its a hard decission to divorce when there are kids involved. But at some point, if she really dislikes and feels hurt by his behaviour, then she or they together had to make that decission. Even if he did not want to share his wealth 50/50. Even a much lower share could have been enough for her to have a good life ahead with enough help to make raising the kids easy.
Hi Lucia, thanks for the summary! I didn't understand, maybe culturally, why the Wang family felt Leehom forced to marry her when she is pregnant and refused to have an abortion? It feels obvious to me, that Leehom should never have married her in the first place if he isn't ready to commit, regardless if she has a child out of wedlock.
wow...ignorance is bliss....both parties are wrong...however she went through alot...she took alot...she loved him...part b...he got bored...got caught up in the temptation..I do believe he cheated...watch also..he has back up..his father...she seems to stand alone.....even if all that is true.. deal with it in private..he should give her all the things she NEEDS...NOT WANT...children are hectic to take care off.. let her focus on what's he wants to do work...or stoll stay home..btw..once a man wants to cheat they will cheat whether u have intercourse with him or not...smh....forgive each other and move on
It was indeed a shocking news. Well, all humans make mistakes. What determines a person's character aren't the mistakes we make. It's how we take those mistakes and turn them into lessons rather than excuses. Artists are flawed, just like the rest of us. We have secrets, personal struggles and vices. Never meet your heroes, they say. I think it's true-because we expect them to be better than the rest of us. Why do we hold them to such unrealistic standards?
Like many fans, she was captivated at age 16 by his talent, looks and good guy reputation, and married him 10 years later believing in a happily ever after ending. This is a lesson for all fan- girls. Don’t fall for the image and hype.
I felt the wife is in wrong because nothing takes 2 hands to clap. Don like her wife. Wang has tried hard to like hold up the whole "sky" for the family like a big trees but his wife all she knows is complains and whinning and throw all tramrus, now what?? Acussing her own husband in publical??!! Not even an understand wife and helping hands for the husband. Divorce better this kinda makes the family feel tirring.
Get your head examined...you talking like WLH/BULLSHIT here. The woman is more wrong even though both are in the wrong??? Divorce has nothing to do with fans who like or dislike their idol.. Yes, he is the bread winner in the family and that's about it. He divorced his wife....he uprooted the tree himself. The lives of the children will be affected and LJL plays a pivotal role here. Everything whether physical or emotional needs of the kids on the daily basis got to be catered for, even down to insidious comments by other kids in the school...who is there for them??? Why can WLH settle the divorce fairly? She has rights to complain, whine and throws tantrums. Why should she suffers in silent? Pay up or shut up,WLH. Pay for your freedom to indulge in unfulfilled desires for other women and leave LJL alone. That's why you apologized in the first place without admission of guilt.
Weird analysis.. 🙄 afterall he’s a human being, why does he need to be perfect? Ohh, is it because he’s an actor/musician/public figure that he needs to uphold his image? Please, it’s merely a JOB! next time please separate his PROFESSION and his life! 🤷🏽♂️ whatever he does in work totally unrelated to his private life. Why Asian mostly live in fantasy as if their idol is GOD or some divine creatures 😑
Everyone is quick to point their fingers at Leehom because the wife spoke first! Yes, the wife gave birth to 3 children, say she gave up her career to be a housewife BUT how much work in reality is needed. She has a full time nanny to take care of all the children, there is no housework for her as she has helpers/maids. Her married lifestyle is pretty much doing nothing. Of course she didnt want to divorce with that lifestyle! 2nd point, why all of a sudden everyone seems to have evidence of leehom cheating but never brought it up b4? Is this staged by someone? If yes, this was planned very well with perfect timing. 3rd point - its quite normal for daughter in law not to get along with the mother but that doesnt mean the wife should ruin her husbands career because she felt she wasn't treated well. Maybe to the wife leehom was her chess piece so she can live in lavish lifestyle and be in the spotlight! The children are chess pieces too so she can use them for demands! Anyway I still support and believe in leehom. He is a very talented singer and thats all I care about.
@@racergal1984 No amount of talent can disguise a depraved sex addict perverse mind. Now the truth is really out there for all to see. Too many silly girls wasted all their hard-earned cash on this loser which prob also enabled his perverse sexually deviant acts to happen. I read he also did it with guys too??!! Wow! If there's a Oscar equivalent of a sexual depravity award, this guy wins it with hardly any effort
Wang Leehom! What a strong, powerful man!!! In every city you say? Good Job!!! And she??? She's been living with him and never opened her mouth thus accepting everything!!! So she was COMFORTABLE with him and with whatever he's been doing!!! So she NEVER wanted a divorce!!! But now when he leaves her she laments? She forgets that a man cheats only when his wife is unwilling to make love with him!!! So, too late to cry over a spilled milk!!! To throw dirt on her husband is like throw more dirt on yourself because it's telling the whole world that it's your fault a man cheats on you!!! She doesn't even think about their children!!! She is throwing the same dirt on them making their life miserable for future years!!!
She gave up her career and gave up everything for him. Also, a man cheat doesn't mean she doesn't want to make love with him. It only means he's a cheater. Don't try to blame the victim and help the abuser. Put yourself in her shoe and think. What would you do if your spouse did all those to you. I guess you would keep silent and keep getting abuse?
While living with him she wasn't a "victim" only now she is. She just vents her anger and I don't believe her! Especially when she doesn't care their children washing her dirty laundry in public!!! And YES, a man cheats ONLY WHEN A WOMAN REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!
Well said Lorie!!! I don't know why people are so quick to believe everything she has written without prejudice. Even the commentator is so quick to judge he is a bad person by what a rejected wife is saying. If it was Leehom who had written the 5000 word letter, people would have said what a had person he is. So sad a woman who doesn't care about the children when exposing husband's wrong doings is made to be the heroine in this debacle. Leave them alone to sort it out n stop vilifying Leehom. We don't know what has happened behind closed doors. Stop
when u married to an actor and actress and dont expected they will be yours forever..... but no excuses that lee hom in wrong 1st maybe.... anyway lee hom will be end of his career for few years.... just wish both of them hv their own life now.... the most painful thing is their children...... hope they will grow up well.....
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Respect a morally upright person, for having virtues such as being responsible, altruistic, honest, diligent, kind, courteous, civic minded, discipline, open minded, courageous, honourable, filial and faithful. These are certainly more important than his/her achievements, wealth or appearance.
Agree!👍
Exactly!
Such a handsome and talented Leehom. why did he do that?.. I was so disappointed and sad.
😭yeah
Becos he can and thinks he can get away with it. And even ask his dad to stand up for him and write a pathetic letter. So much for a spoilt 44 yo baby!
When any man prefers prostitutes over own beautiful wife.....destructions of own making.
what if wife is ugly, would that justify prostitute
I believe his wife. I believe she is a health care physician. It was not easy for a woman to give up her career to raise three kids. I was once his fan, but no longer so. When a man become rich and famous in addition to his good look, he thinks he can do whatever he wants! No respect for him nor his family! No dignity! She is better off without him!
Thanks for you sharing
The wife is a health care physician? Where did you get this crappy information from, genius?
Who said she had to? She had nannies and so much help. She could have worked too.
No good man period! Did he spend time with his children? Why would he had an affair? No one knows! Media makes up too many stories! Only he knows what he is doing! As a mom raising three kids, with nannies, and worked full time, it was not easy! Nanny’s care is not the same. The bottoms line, I will not support anyone who cheats!
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjHer ex and her ex-in-laws were very stingy with money so she didn’t get any help at all.
High achievers are the one that actually capable of doing this things because they sometimes think it is within their right to do so. Another example is Tiger Woods that has several mistresses with an s not just one at the same time while projecting that he is happily married. Sorry to make him an example.
Thanks for sharing
Why would you get married to a man who cheated even before wedding? Why would you have three kids for him?
That says a lot from that woman. No matter how much you love a man, if he cheats once, he'll always do that. So it's better to end a relationship
True😢
Not necessarily. It depends on how bad is the past history. In this case, he's been a super playboy from the start, which is a huge red flag. Plus don't think there were enough signs of true repentance and remorse. The lady probably forgave him too easily.
Lee hom and his father said he was coerced into the marriage after her pregnancy but still have 2 more kids 🤦♀️
Yep face palm indeed but let’s not forget his wife claimed he has a sex addiction. she probably wanted to save the marriage for as long as she could but this month was the final straw. Honestly, both sides are understandable. Living with someone who is unbearable and living with a cheater isn’t that great either. When she found out he was a cheater, that should’ve been the final straw but she gave him sooo many chances so she claims with these multiple mistresses
Actually they had 2 ,then the 3rd came while they were preparing for divorce in 2018..so they postponed the signing of the divorce papers n said would wait till after the baby turned one.. to me it's just a loveless tragedy
Happy New Year Lucia :)
Thank you!!
@@LuciaPan I am looking back today now at this video, it is a little old! I hope you come back to post again soon.
A handsome man with talents will not be short of affairs. Whether he can stay loyal to his wife or not. Its his lifestyle or his life. Wife should know when she married him. Since having so many childrens, wife should respect his privacy or try to adapt to be his supportive wife and half close her eyes as long he comes home and treat his family well. Of course, on the financial side, she should deduct 25% off his nett income for the family (for his childrens)
The most terrible lie is the fake news broadcast by the bias media, he is destroyed by the rumors and slanders. All his efforts and reputation were all gone for 20 years without any objective reporting and legal evidence. Destroy in name of love is deviation, making kids' father to suffer cyberbully is cruel. The authenticity of the article is doubtful, there has been criticisms and more and more people start to question about it. He is the responsible father not saying a word to attack the mother of children, truth will come out eventually.
Thank you for this ❤️😊.
Pls make video about China- India relationship
Glad to hear it, yes we will plan it soon!
Understand that both genders have their own needs. While it is wrong to commit adultery, coming from a empathetic stand point, Wang might have lots of unfulfilled needs that result in his wrong doing which up to a certain point, becomes uncontrollable. What are his unfulfilled needs? Perhaps high expectations from himself, from parents and partner which he felt unable to please. Perhaps his wife did not give him what he needs, appreciation, love, sex etc. Plus stress from the entertainment world which makes him felt lonely and unworthy, given that he needs to keep up his good image for the world to see. The world has scrutinised him enough. Come on, he has apologied, give him a break. And pray for him.
俗语: 孤掌难鸣。There are always 2 sides of a story. It doesn't mean the one who talk the loudest has no fault at all. Everything in life is a mirror reflection.
Thank you for your sharing
Well said. Can't do better than your statement.
Im Shocked by this news...my idol like that 😭
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John F Kennedy, Bruce Lee, Roman Polanski, Jackie Chan, Show Lo, Wang Lee hom,etc, etc, etc, etc, etc
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We dont know how honest or not he was with his wife. That aspect is very important in how i feel about this.
If a man likes his romances and varied sex life before marriage, dont expect that to change, especially when the marriage decission is not made totally freely. In this case either the pregnancy or more likely just the social expectations. Also dont judge men too much for wanting varied active sex life, but yes, do judge em when they lie a lot to have it or harm somebody for it.
He is famous and rich, the wife also got some good public image... I know its a hard decission to divorce when there are kids involved. But at some point, if she really dislikes and feels hurt by his behaviour, then she or they together had to make that decission. Even if he did not want to share his wealth 50/50. Even a much lower share could have been enough for her to have a good life ahead with enough help to make raising the kids easy.
If she don wish to give birth who the hell can force pregnant right?? Now acusse for forcing her to give birth illogical🙄
Hi Lucia, thanks for the summary! I didn't understand, maybe culturally, why the Wang family felt Leehom forced to marry her when she is pregnant and refused to have an abortion? It feels obvious to me, that Leehom should never have married her in the first place if he isn't ready to commit, regardless if she has a child out of wedlock.
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wow...ignorance is bliss....both parties are wrong...however she went through alot...she took alot...she loved him...part b...he got bored...got caught up in the temptation..I do believe he cheated...watch also..he has back up..his father...she seems to stand alone.....even if all that is true.. deal with it in private..he should give her all the things she NEEDS...NOT WANT...children are hectic to take care off.. let her focus on what's he wants to do work...or stoll stay home..btw..once a man wants to cheat they will cheat whether u have intercourse with him or not...smh....forgive each other and move on
Thanks for sharing🤔😊
U call blackmail love .. yes the guy is bad but the lady ain't no angel either
She only wants the materials
It was indeed a shocking news. Well, all humans make mistakes. What determines a person's character aren't the mistakes we make. It's how we take those mistakes and turn them into lessons rather than excuses. Artists are flawed, just like the rest of us. We have secrets, personal struggles and vices. Never meet your heroes, they say. I think it's true-because we expect them to be better than the rest of us. Why do we hold them to such unrealistic standards?
Thank you for your sharing
Did the wife do anything wrong too?
I doubt it! He is too busy with his career! Never home to raise his own children!
Sexless marriage
Like many fans, she was captivated at age 16 by his talent, looks and good guy reputation, and married him 10 years later believing in a happily ever after ending. This is a lesson for all fan- girls. Don’t fall for the image and hype.
@@bamboohouse564 if it's sexless I don't know where those 3 children coming from? Maybe it's somebody else's baby?
The life of rich and famous … likely pressure from outside. Bet everyone involved has mental issues from parents or third parties.
Everyone including successful people Do have a little Dirty secret. No doubt about it !
Yea...
I felt the wife is in wrong because nothing takes 2 hands to clap. Don like her wife. Wang has tried hard to like hold up the whole "sky" for the family like a big trees but his wife all she knows is complains and whinning and throw all tramrus, now what?? Acussing her own husband in publical??!! Not even an understand wife and helping hands for the husband. Divorce better this kinda makes the family feel tirring.
Thank you for your sharing
Get your head examined...you talking like WLH/BULLSHIT here. The woman is more wrong even though both are in the wrong??? Divorce has nothing to do with fans who like or dislike their idol.. Yes, he is the bread winner in the family and that's about it. He divorced his wife....he uprooted the tree himself. The lives of the children will be affected and LJL plays a pivotal role here. Everything whether physical or emotional needs of the kids on the daily basis got to be catered for, even down to insidious comments by other kids in the school...who is there for them??? Why can WLH settle the divorce fairly? She has rights to complain, whine and throws tantrums. Why should she suffers in silent? Pay up or shut up,WLH. Pay for your freedom to indulge in unfulfilled desires for other women and leave LJL alone. That's why you apologized in the first place without admission of guilt.
Nice
Glad you like it!! 😃
Mmm.. No one knows the truth
Weird analysis.. 🙄 afterall he’s a human being, why does he need to be perfect? Ohh, is it because he’s an actor/musician/public figure that he needs to uphold his image? Please, it’s merely a JOB! next time please separate his PROFESSION and his life! 🤷🏽♂️ whatever he does in work totally unrelated to his private life. Why Asian mostly live in fantasy as if their idol is GOD or some divine creatures 😑
That is not “not perfect”. It is also a problem when ordinary people do it.
Everyone is quick to point their fingers at Leehom because the wife spoke first! Yes, the wife gave birth to 3 children, say she gave up her career to be a housewife BUT how much work in reality is needed. She has a full time nanny to take care of all the children, there is no housework for her as she has helpers/maids. Her married lifestyle is pretty much doing nothing. Of course she didnt want to divorce with that lifestyle!
2nd point, why all of a sudden everyone seems to have evidence of leehom cheating but never brought it up b4? Is this staged by someone? If yes, this was planned very well with perfect timing.
3rd point - its quite normal for daughter in law not to get along with the mother but that doesnt mean the wife should ruin her husbands career because she felt she wasn't treated well.
Maybe to the wife leehom was her chess piece so she can live in lavish lifestyle and be in the spotlight! The children are chess pieces too so she can use them for demands!
Anyway I still support and believe in leehom. He is a very talented singer and thats all I care about.
Very true
There are also those who still believe Kris Wu did nothing wrong
Yes continue wasting your money on this loser's songs. At least some part of it goes to that woman and the nannies, the condos, flashy cars etc
@@johnmonk3381 honestly he's good lol..his song if not he won't be famous for so long
@@racergal1984 No amount of talent can disguise a depraved sex addict perverse mind. Now the truth is really out there for all to see. Too many silly girls wasted all their hard-earned cash on this loser which prob also enabled his perverse sexually deviant acts to happen. I read he also did it with guys too??!! Wow! If there's a Oscar equivalent of a sexual depravity award, this guy wins it with hardly any effort
I think is the wife jealousy of her husband freedom and carefree of life and asccuses him so that she get can get back her freedom and money
Wang Leehom! What a strong, powerful man!!! In every city you say? Good Job!!! And she??? She's been living with him and never opened her mouth thus accepting everything!!! So she was COMFORTABLE with him and with whatever he's been doing!!! So she NEVER wanted a divorce!!! But now when he leaves her she laments? She forgets that a man cheats only when his wife is unwilling to make love with him!!! So, too late to cry over a spilled milk!!! To throw dirt on her husband is like throw more dirt on yourself because it's telling the whole world that it's your fault a man cheats on you!!! She doesn't even think about their children!!! She is throwing the same dirt on them making their life miserable for future years!!!
She gave up her career and gave up everything for him. Also, a man cheat doesn't mean she doesn't want to make love with him. It only means he's a cheater. Don't try to blame the victim and help the abuser. Put yourself in her shoe and think. What would you do if your spouse did all those to you. I guess you would keep silent and keep getting abuse?
While living with him she wasn't a "victim" only now she is. She just vents her anger and I don't believe her! Especially when she doesn't care their children washing her dirty laundry in public!!! And YES, a man cheats ONLY WHEN A WOMAN REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!
Well said Lorie!!! I don't know why people are so quick to believe everything she has written without prejudice. Even the commentator is so quick to judge he is a bad person by what a rejected wife is saying. If it was Leehom who had written the 5000 word letter, people would have said what a had person he is. So sad a woman who doesn't care about the children when exposing husband's wrong doings is made to be the heroine in this debacle. Leave them alone to sort it out n stop vilifying Leehom. We don't know what has happened behind closed doors. Stop
@流萤 Lorie just trying to find excuse for himself/herself to cheat. Saying he/she cheat cause his/her partner refuse to have sex with him/her
Are you a moron? Who do you mean "you and him" to have a child? He is NOT hiding... and he is 46 y.o.!!!
when u married to an actor and actress and dont expected they will be yours forever..... but no excuses that lee hom in wrong 1st maybe.... anyway lee hom will be end of his career for few years.... just wish both of them hv their own life now.... the most painful thing is their children...... hope they will grow up well.....
What if she’s a bunny boiler?
What a stud
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