For the first time I shed tears for these parents😭😭Alcohol and depression can k!ll families💔

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  • @flavour0018
    @flavour0018  ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Watch Part 1 here
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  • @waa242
    @waa242 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    this reminds me when we lost our 2 sons my husband turned to alcohol me went to depression our son and daughter suffered too till they failed terribly in their studies, one day i decided it's enough and turned to CHRIST later introduced my hubby and kids to him, today we're completely healed, saved, blessed in all ways,IMELA PAPA

  • @NdutaAnn
    @NdutaAnn ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Who else is seeing her beauty despite the struggles.... May God see you through and raise your family again.

    • @airotony8357
      @airotony8357 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mutu si anipee uyu mwanamke jameni...

    • @erickimla8222
      @erickimla8222 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @naftalynaff7811
      @naftalynaff7811 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very beautiful

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We see a cheater and pretender

    • @edinahopati7914
      @edinahopati7914 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's the hard work of her mpango who's helping her outshine her struggles😂

  • @rechocurtis7356
    @rechocurtis7356 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    We need to do something for this couple,they need us more than anything

    • @kevinakwany
      @kevinakwany ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They need us to do something for them.

    • @lydiahgeorge5124
      @lydiahgeorge5124 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be blessed 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Toktikii
      @Toktikii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed

  • @sheilanjoki7028
    @sheilanjoki7028 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This lady is beautiful and though she cheated.......she is a true wife. She is not a malicious woman. She deserves better.

    • @mylesgibs4372
      @mylesgibs4372 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For sure 💯

    • @jeraldineaol8779
      @jeraldineaol8779 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @anniejojo9126
      @anniejojo9126 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She just did what a mom had to do

    • @janemuthoni723
      @janemuthoni723 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes because hajamwacha she was cheating because hawana kitu but still loves her hubby

    • @hellenriungu1833
      @hellenriungu1833 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hujui wameru tunakuanga na guarantee ya miaka kumi bila kukosana kwa marriage 😂😂

  • @Peshy969
    @Peshy969 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    The death of his parents has significantly contributed to his current situation. If you listened carefully, he says they had an accident when they were coming to visit him. The guy has been blaming himself for what happened to his parents and unfortunately he used alcohol as a way to cope with grief. Depression has not only led this man to alcoholism but also has led him to losing his job and family.
    This guy does not only need to go for a rehab but also he requires mental health professionals who can assist him overcome the traumas he has experienced in the past.

    • @nancykamotho7019
      @nancykamotho7019 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is exactly 💯 true. He needs help. The trauma of losing his parents to an accident has contributed to the depression.

    • @e24news_KE
      @e24news_KE ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Making a lot of sense here, I agree most people abusing alcoholism are using it as an escape

    • @janemuthoni723
      @janemuthoni723 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly it’s not his fault to be where he his 😢😢😢😢😢I feel for him

    • @gracamitchy1949
      @gracamitchy1949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loosing a parent is not easy, he lost his parents and siblings the pain is unbearable. Been there and death is sting May God help him

  • @martindonmartin3968
    @martindonmartin3968 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The guy is the only one who can help himself. It takes self-realization and soberness to regain self.

    • @cyprianmachangoh2108
      @cyprianmachangoh2108 ปีที่แล้ว

      This guy is in denial and wont get any hlep if he doesn't ownnit up and change.

  • @DIon..Godismyshield
    @DIon..Godismyshield ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This woman has a kind heart 😢may God 🙏 remember them😢❤

    • @azamtn
      @azamtn ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes very kind to an extent of giving the hubby's friend rosecoco.. very kind hearted indeed😊

    • @faithi7216
      @faithi7216 ปีที่แล้ว

      in Jesus name Amen and Amen

    • @patrickgitau9912
      @patrickgitau9912 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢😢 what 🤔 so giving away that's kindness then boy child will continue suffering 💔💔

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว

      By having sex bcoz of money and other guy doesn't want her now anakam na fake smile en tires

  • @abigaelnyawira-hq8uf
    @abigaelnyawira-hq8uf ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Felt so sad about the baby,may the boy get well in JN

  • @tunicnannis5184
    @tunicnannis5184 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I still stand with this Guy..... Before what happened to him this was a good family.

  • @izoh90
    @izoh90 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This woman deserves better.

  • @evelynmideva3210
    @evelynmideva3210 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This woman just did what a woman can do..May God come through mama

    • @fridinahk8760
      @fridinahk8760 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure.... She wasn't cheating but she wanted to put smthing on the table

    • @Gilgal23
      @Gilgal23 ปีที่แล้ว

      smh.
      Sleeping with someone else? sigh😢

  • @janemwangi7192
    @janemwangi7192 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This made me shed tears uncontrollably...this family needs a counselor...

  • @nancywanjiru1575
    @nancywanjiru1575 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This lady is very beautiful regardless of what she is going through

    • @abdulazz8865
      @abdulazz8865 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂, me reading this 2024 . Beautiful problems indeed

  • @ruthbosibori1482
    @ruthbosibori1482 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Losing family then job can take you to real depression 😪😔😕💔

    • @VipQatat
      @VipQatat ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure, I worry for this guy 😢😢

    • @aliciakeyzokelloh9049
      @aliciakeyzokelloh9049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And y is he beating gee wife ? Mimi hata simhueumii

    • @JohnMwangi-jv3pp
      @JohnMwangi-jv3pp ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is hard wanaume hukipata

    • @breezhotel7291
      @breezhotel7291 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then loosing your wife to your friend too,abadan kataan,this guy can die of depression

    • @maynatwofivefour6042
      @maynatwofivefour6042 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@aliciakeyzokelloh9049utaweza aje na roho hio chafu

  • @pamelagatwiri8170
    @pamelagatwiri8170 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Depression is real...this man needs help with immediate effect..he has a a very beautiful n very kind hearted wife..very sad😢😢😢

    • @JimmyStacx
      @JimmyStacx ปีที่แล้ว

      kind hearted enough to give husbands friend roscoco kind indeed

  • @ruthbosibori1482
    @ruthbosibori1482 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Distance yourself from people who buy you alcohol but not food or helping you to get job 😭😭😭😭💯

    • @antoneobiero3382
      @antoneobiero3382 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true, when you lose your job, you lose your value to the so called friends.lnfact they're the same people who drive the last nail into your coffin.

    • @azamtn
      @azamtn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      do you know how drunkards love each other😂😂😂😂

    • @connyandy8860
      @connyandy8860 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Only your comments make sense here,ths lady na the friend to husband wanted to finish ths guy,nilifatilia message akiuliza bibi jana hakukunywa na bibi akamjibu akose 😢so sad

    • @user-fz3dg2fr6bl
      @user-fz3dg2fr6bl ปีที่แล้ว

      True....

    • @maureenakinyi1300
      @maureenakinyi1300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This man doesn't want to change

  • @bikoflavious2903
    @bikoflavious2903 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can't judge them all i can do is to pray for them..both of them have a painful story ...let them reconcile and move on

  • @lavineawinja5579
    @lavineawinja5579 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    she really needed to open up, so emotional and touching. all will be well with this family.

  • @hansstephenotomchief6815
    @hansstephenotomchief6815 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is so much painful 😢😢, the lady has seen it all.....may God help her heal... this man is also unwell unquestionably.....

  • @naftalynaff7811
    @naftalynaff7811 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just 5×100k subscribers is 500k,,leo nimefeel hii,,a beautiful woman in pain,, I don't know what others feel

  • @Chacha-sf4xs
    @Chacha-sf4xs ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A nice couple who can get back together with help I fear for this man he seems to be dying slowly

    • @agnesmueni655
      @agnesmueni655 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True .. dipression is real

    • @Bobmitch
      @Bobmitch ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you...Exactly..No one is noticing that.

  • @catherineriungu4451
    @catherineriungu4451 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Stevo thats why you cannot stop this work..its truly empowering. Kudos

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว

      Steve empower women more than men dats y women are miserable and lack accountability

    • @gerrytushh
      @gerrytushh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stevo needs to liaise with mental health professionals for some of these extreme cases of alcoholism, depression, etc.

    • @catherineriungu4451
      @catherineriungu4451 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @brigitwesonga7773
    @brigitwesonga7773 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I lost my two brothers through sickness….it was tough and it’s still tough to move forward but regardless life has to continue…we have to be there for the people we love…it’s sad though

    • @eddahkithimba9125
      @eddahkithimba9125 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have a son and I cry each morning to marry a caring wife juu mwenye alikuwa ameoa,better vile waliwachana juu alikuwa community wife namporaji, mzee akilewa

  • @cyprianmachangoh2108
    @cyprianmachangoh2108 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This so painful to watch. The lady looks sharp even through hell. She did what she did to stand in for the family. Anyone innocent to be the first to cast a stone at her.
    I pray for a break through for this family.
    @bigmanstevo only God will repay you for this channel idea
    You are a blessing to this computer generation.
    Baraka.

    • @Thankful-rj7ez
      @Thankful-rj7ez ปีที่แล้ว

      Boss inkae...amor kaneni 😂😂 Liz-EY 😂😂

  • @ruthbosibori1482
    @ruthbosibori1482 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Scars we have today 100%caused by people who we once helped or pretending to be our best friends

  • @beatriceowuor
    @beatriceowuor ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This man needs to be taken to rehabilitation 😢

    • @judessunna
      @judessunna ปีที่แล้ว

      He's mind is already biased,he says rehabilitation or therapiests can not work for him.

    • @fridahpaul2023
      @fridahpaul2023 ปีที่แล้ว

      He needs therapy

  • @kimemiawanjiru1814
    @kimemiawanjiru1814 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel this woman

  • @waithiramukui7706
    @waithiramukui7706 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is too much on someone shoulders.hugs mama.

  • @atienokatiendgi1724
    @atienokatiendgi1724 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This man is very disrespectful, even if he has PTSD. Very disrespectful. He is very lucky that she has stayed and is looking after him and his family. Very lucky!

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว

      Side Chicks blame men again she had sex with other men

    • @jamesngaarah5695
      @jamesngaarah5695 ปีที่แล้ว

      And throwing kid from 1 st floor

  • @mosomirose7010
    @mosomirose7010 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I can feel their pain more so the man

  • @gladyskatui220
    @gladyskatui220 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mimi sitakufumilia hadi umize mtoto wangu,NO!! Better for worse! Haiwezi kabisa.hatukuzaliwa na wewe mwanaume.nitakuwacha haraka sana😢Heshima is two way traffic "Nipe nikupe" period!!

  • @marionmuturi5283
    @marionmuturi5283 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This woman has been through a lot. She deserves better than this. The reason as to why I won't judge her for what she did.

  • @shiksjustin
    @shiksjustin ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Woman was there to save her family she deserves sec chance

    • @jacksonkarau4365
      @jacksonkarau4365 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      C aede kwa uyo alicheat nae

    • @neffnaff9336
      @neffnaff9336 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Forgiving a cheating wife is the lowest a man can go, beyond kujichukia

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว

      Save his family by having sex with other men .
      Women support themselves bcoz they're side chick to

    • @blackylampard640
      @blackylampard640 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crazy

    • @wairimuwaihwa2475
      @wairimuwaihwa2475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@neffnaff9336Sasa mlevi useless,ana la KUSEMA isipokuwa barking and accept 😢

  • @andrewabuga9567
    @andrewabuga9567 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤ this lady seems honest. Let the man grow up n provide for the family 💖

    • @EWING001
      @EWING001 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women use tears to get whatever they need. And if you’re weak man it will work on you

  • @lidacall3896
    @lidacall3896 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's y I don't like to judge people before knowing where they are coming from 😢😢

  • @juliawagatua2346
    @juliawagatua2346 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I passed through that,my husband lost his job and all his benefits and my neighbour was his workmate and he made sure that everyone knew that my husband has lost his job but I made up my mind to stand with him for better and for worse and I worked so hard by hawking commoditiesand I was able to hide our problems and my first born was in form two and my boys in class five but two years later he got another job and my husband respects me to say the least and may this woman know that loosing a job is like loosing a loved one especially to men and even this drinking might be a way of mourning.A wise woman build her house but a foolish one demolish with her own hands.I wish this woman can work with her hands because I can tell you for a fact that God is giving that man another chance and this woman will have nowhere to hide.

    • @atienokatiendgi1724
      @atienokatiendgi1724 ปีที่แล้ว

      He dropped his child and crippled them. When he was drunk. How do you even take his side?

    • @terrynjoroge3877
      @terrynjoroge3877 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaani Julia hav u followed this story?

    • @marywanjiku9342
      @marywanjiku9342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have wasted all that energy to write nothing!nkt

  • @Zakhas
    @Zakhas ปีที่แล้ว +36

    It’s very true Stevo what you said. The man has to accept he has a problem and needs help. HE HAS TO ACCEPT AND YOU/WE/HIS WIFE CANNOT FORCE HIM TO GET HELP.
    I was in that woman’s shoes. I know very well what she’s going through. For me I left him and took my two children. My first born is in a prestigious university and my second born is starting form four. I was with him for 12 years. I left him 2013 from that time till now never had another man in my life. I THANK GOD FOR EVERYTHING GOOD OR BAD. Thanks Stevo for this story, it brought back memories.

    • @gracewangari8121
      @gracewangari8121 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Only us who has ever been i such can understand this lady...at first i never judged her n am not judging her now😢😢😢if its too much for her she should leave...congrats mama

    • @kimemiawanjiru1814
      @kimemiawanjiru1814 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We share a similar story

    • @faithi7216
      @faithi7216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May God have mercy on her

    • @geraldmahinda5653
      @geraldmahinda5653 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am so sorry I lack word may God grant you with wisdom to help them . Oh God help the couple more so the lady.

    • @VipQatat
      @VipQatat ปีที่แล้ว

      May God continue strengthening you 💟

  • @joymajau9197
    @joymajau9197 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This lady tried her best to save her family.
    She deserves a second chance.
    This man needs help.
    Alot of counseling.
    He is depressed

  • @queennaymar3728
    @queennaymar3728 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's is so heartbreaking..through her softness you can tell there is a lot we don't know around closed doors... she's polite

  • @wueehke
    @wueehke ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This was heavy, the man sounded very smart, with a clarity of thought. He needs to be rescued from depression, alcoholism, toxic friend and a cheating wife

    • @TrillG
      @TrillG ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I usually support this buy today bro I will be the one saying this lady deserves better .......yes ain't good to cheat I will never recommend it ...but she really goes through a lot ........if it was you the woman

    • @MissFirstlady
      @MissFirstlady ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@TrillGtrue. The woman has suffered

    • @MissFirstlady
      @MissFirstlady ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're selfish. You're not empathising with the woman yet she's the victim here

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@TrillGshe goes alot sleeping around women with excuses

    • @blackylampard640
      @blackylampard640 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@TrillGthe woman is wrong ' she was got cheating

  • @sandraechiveraya8570
    @sandraechiveraya8570 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This too much to carry 😭😭,,, our mothers have hidden a lot of secrets that we really don't know 😢😢 my heart is heavy 😭

  • @stanleymburu6013
    @stanleymburu6013 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so hurting.Addiction to alcohol is a major roadblock to a happy union here.

  • @johnodegindege6056
    @johnodegindege6056 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The situation of this family has made me shed tears. Lack of job is detrimental to the family but more so to men. I believe that God will see this family and restore peace and harmony to it.

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She will cheat again amekuwa rejected by other guy now anakam na huruma

    • @la-ry1ms
      @la-ry1ms ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@vikeke1782Leo I beg to differ the moment as a man you fail to provide for your family I would not not advise a woman to allow her children to starve with a gold mine between her legs

  • @catherinemburu5434
    @catherinemburu5434 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't blame this lady,period!

  • @maryawino7951
    @maryawino7951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel the pain i lost my mum who was supportive 5yrs ago and my dad 2moths ago guys depression is real lets pray for this fam

  • @gathoninjenga442
    @gathoninjenga442 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Drinking to the point of throwing your own kid from first floor, crippling him, beating and abusing innocent kids is not pardonable. He has to reflect on what is important to him and family and make a decision to get help.

    • @hanifajuma6121
      @hanifajuma6121 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The baby slipped coz the Dad was drunk.

    • @abigaelnyawira-hq8uf
      @abigaelnyawira-hq8uf ปีที่แล้ว

      Very sad

    • @JohnMwangi-jv3pp
      @JohnMwangi-jv3pp ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's painfull

    • @JohnMwangi-jv3pp
      @JohnMwangi-jv3pp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@hanifajuma6121meaning he is irresponsible

    • @anitababy6750
      @anitababy6750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gai Mtoto waku akuwe kiwete juu ya mwanaume no way.go have affair outside marriage your will ok.

  • @paulinanduku2748
    @paulinanduku2748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so painful 😢 this woman has gone through a lot

  • @janethmakori7942
    @janethmakori7942 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is sad the man needs counseling he is strong and he can start from experience i will not charge because desperation, stress, depression can lead to anything we are all human beings and sinners sinning differently

  • @leahgithua5148
    @leahgithua5148 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You are here judging this woman mamaa you are strong lady go for what you want i know how it's feel when you have a man na si supportive alaf kumake matters worse ni mlevi na anakupiga na anaumiza mtoto it very sad

  • @elizabethmaturwe
    @elizabethmaturwe ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes it's true you are going through alot,😭 the world is now nothing to you 😢😢 but remember alcohol is not the solution,, feel for the man though the lady wasn't supposed to cheet but to look for a solution to help his man to overcome this 😭😭 Mungu tamalaki tukuone😢

    • @blessedfamily5461
      @blessedfamily5461 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure

    • @rachelphoebh4480
      @rachelphoebh4480 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not that easy with alcohol unless one says enough is enough I need help... women are suffering out there trying to feed their kids..

  • @gracewahito1890
    @gracewahito1890 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Just as any other health is important so is mental health.
    Kimathi you should have given your friend a shoulder to lean on not sleep with his wife.betrayal doesn't come from far.Remember what goes around comes around

    • @naftalynaff7811
      @naftalynaff7811 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bad friends

    • @monicanjeri9854
      @monicanjeri9854 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not a good person at all. He could have helped without expecting anything in return. Shame on him.

    • @Gilgal23
      @Gilgal23 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@monicanjeri9854shame on the lady first.

  • @tillietpain1387
    @tillietpain1387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    May Almighty God's visitation,intervention and manifestations be upon this man plus his family,may breakthroughs and deliverances be their portion.

  • @nyokskinyah8246
    @nyokskinyah8246 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I pity the man so much. Wuuiyeee kube the gal amepitia waaaa. God ve mercy aki. Both needs prayers n deliverance too . Wanapenda

  • @JosephKahato-k4d
    @JosephKahato-k4d 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This woman is 💯 percent real woman in the entire world 🌍 she deserves to be adorable she deserves to be considered for a helping hand BMS please organize something for her.

  • @jennifermage95
    @jennifermage95 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hugs mama I feel your pain 😢.. This man should admit he needs help period

    • @VTA24
      @VTA24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Continue Justifying cheating. If it gets you that when you're hit with it's reality. Though I don't judge her but

    • @la-ry1ms
      @la-ry1ms ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@VTA24But children should never feature in this madness

    • @monalisakenya6101
      @monalisakenya6101 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This lady has endured alot, mwanaume arushe mtoto from 1st floor 😢😢😢😢
      No please 😢

    • @johniem2176
      @johniem2176 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So cheating is the only soln if your partner is depressed?? Wat if she gets HIV who will raise the kids???

    • @mystyjakanyango4079
      @mystyjakanyango4079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@monalisakenya6101think and listen before you write nonsense. Who told you?

  • @annitaann681
    @annitaann681 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really shed tears for this lady 😢may God give you strength to over come all this

  • @martindonmartin3968
    @martindonmartin3968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The woman is loya and supportive, the guy should up his game and mend his family. "Friends" will ruine you.

  • @eznermomanyi814
    @eznermomanyi814 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Lossing ur family is the hardest thing..u lose job..u get betrayed
    But bloodline sucks😢😢😢

    • @faithkimberly8770
      @faithkimberly8770 ปีที่แล้ว

      For me I thought a man losing a family is ok

  • @peterowong157
    @peterowong157 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is very emotional. BMS, you are a great man. Balance these issues and remain objective. Do not be swayed. Take a back seat and have a bird eye view. As much as I would like to blame the husband, I can't. Because we are all human beings.

  • @GladwelOdino-lg1iy
    @GladwelOdino-lg1iy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a strong woman......may God see you through ...

  • @ngundomorris6767
    @ngundomorris6767 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pole pole pole sana dada,Mungu yuko,waniliza hata mimi mtazamaji,pole pole usilie dada najua inahuzunisha pole,pole,Mola anakuona atasuluhisha tu

  • @hkay980
    @hkay980 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...this is a real woman..a blessed woman...& never a cheater

  • @christophervitar9085
    @christophervitar9085 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Not supporting infidelity but this lady is going through alot, God Omniscient, Omnipresent intervene in Jesus Mighty name, Amen

  • @auntiepiarants2238
    @auntiepiarants2238 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This two need serious counselling..its deeper than we think😢

    • @skysimba8953
      @skysimba8953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And some time apart. Their relationship is at a really toxic level. They might end up harming each other. Meanwhile they are traumatizing their innocent children.

    • @elizaphanmutara5683
      @elizaphanmutara5683 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true....

  • @anniejojo9126
    @anniejojo9126 ปีที่แล้ว

    Self control is what makes a man gentle..if he lacks that,he will destroy himself and everyone around him..May God remember this woman,i know the pain of being with an alcoholic and the shame that comes with that

  • @Wanene911
    @Wanene911 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Stevo, maybe as kenyans those who can, we can contribute and take this guy to rehab and also get treated for depression. Mental illness is real!

    • @annem2980
      @annem2980 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @monicahmugo as much as you saying is good the guy must accept that he is an Alcoholic and he is powerless over Alcohol. He has to have the will power to rehabilitate himself. Otherwise we can do all that for him but turn out useless if he is not willing. His depression will ger better as well.

  • @jaredandezuh005
    @jaredandezuh005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a very sad story from the lady. Our wives go through a lot to stand by our side and vice versa. May this family seek the kingdom of God and all will be fine.
    @BMS kindly help the family to search their souls and all will be fine.

  • @sleekddanny3863
    @sleekddanny3863 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mama..pole...life has thrown you lemons & you made lemonade; Stay strong for your family. Your husband has given up on life & needs all types of support; blended with patience & understanding. You messed up: It's time to pick up the pieces & take control of your destiny. God loves you & never makes mistakes. Keep your head up & stay positive..BMS.. thank you...twende kazi...🇰🇪

  • @MonicahNjiiri
    @MonicahNjiiri ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man needs deliverance take him to true man of God

  • @frankmziri5324
    @frankmziri5324 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pray for this family, everyone.

  • @emmaculatewanja4738
    @emmaculatewanja4738 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    sad story 😢😢may God see you through guys and i hope everything will be fine 😢

  • @jamillahmussa3775
    @jamillahmussa3775 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah, hii story imenikumbusha maisha nilioyapitia, mlevi ni mlevi tu ndo mambo yao, ni uchungu

  • @oloovikta
    @oloovikta ปีที่แล้ว

    This so touching Big Man. Am feeling of shading tears too. The guy needs help ako na Bibi mzuri anayempenda japo amekosea

  • @alainehwamb5664
    @alainehwamb5664 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God restore this family either if they stick together or go seperately

  • @sca2018
    @sca2018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The problem is not alcohol, give the guy a job

  • @chepmaraswo9728
    @chepmaraswo9728 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now I understand the meaning of Strength of a woman this woman is one of a kind but seriously this is too much for one to bear😢do anything but leave children of of this how wicked is this man to push uyo mtoto like that wah let me cry with this woman and remember her in prayers all will be well my darling sister be strong for your kids and you❤

  • @fredrickotieno1732
    @fredrickotieno1732 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Some friends are always happy when you go down but this woman reminds me of that lady BMS sanitized who had to sleep with the pastor to raise her husband hospital bill after all friends had run and they are the once who caused all his problems, mama you are strong and we are supporting you in 🙏 prayers

    • @hellenriungu1833
      @hellenriungu1833 ปีที่แล้ว

      True 😢. Aki some women are like Jesus 😢 dying for others

  • @bentanzoka8696
    @bentanzoka8696 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a very strong woman 💪. This man needs to change otherwise he'll lose it all

  • @yvonnemaria558
    @yvonnemaria558 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The man and the lady have been through so much, but if he doesn't own up to his mistakes and want to seek help, we are all victims of some unfortunate incidences in our lives but going through life with a victim mentality is the wrong way to go

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does the lady own his mistake by having sex wen married and y do u blame him.
      Pretty women are not loyal

    • @yvonnemaria558
      @yvonnemaria558 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vikeke1782 loyalty doesn't have anything to do with being pretty, and yes she also did wrong by cheating and betraying her husband

    • @vikeke1782
      @vikeke1782 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yvonnemaria558 so your point is

    • @samk2723
      @samk2723 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@yvonnemaria558both should own up their mistakes...

  • @leonkimathi1985
    @leonkimathi1985 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Am so sorry man,..you clearly have PTSD and need counseling.. alcohol will only worsen the situation bro..i have walked down that road of grieving process using alcohol to numb the pain but things only got worse.

  • @evangelistgrace5278
    @evangelistgrace5278 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This reminds me that my x husband when he couldn't do anything in his life, I really struggled to put food on the table, pay school fees for my children. People from his side abused me, accused me of every mistake he did...I took people's debts, He finally accused of sleeping with people who used to help me. I remember he told me I'm the one who came with poverty from my home.
    Finally I walked out of that toxic relationship/ marriage.

  • @mankento
    @mankento ปีที่แล้ว

    This one is so sad 😢 God bless them and they need therapy no human can handle what they gave gone through

  • @anthonymichweya5800
    @anthonymichweya5800 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    May Almighty God see through this family

  • @hiadhaa4333
    @hiadhaa4333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woooooyie mum nakuelewa pia mimi nilipitia ayo na mwishowe nilimuondokea .nilikua nachapwa kila.siku nawatoto wangu .nilienda nawatoto wanne nabado nangangana nawao mum usikubali kukupa njuu ya mwanaume watoto wako bado wanakuitaji run for ur life.

  • @fridahzackz8512
    @fridahzackz8512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why am crying 😭😭 but God show this woman away kweli mungu niwa ajabu mpee mwelekeo mpya

  • @edwinkiruri249
    @edwinkiruri249 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aki it's very touching,nimejikuta nikilia, may God remember this family

  • @Vixymush
    @Vixymush ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can't this lady leave this man alone!! Ati akufie hapo, ata kama ingine ni ufala tu

  • @lydiaawinja4969
    @lydiaawinja4969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cried with her aki some men can push women to do things they never even thought they can in their entire life.pole mama Mungu yupo atakufuta machozi na don't hide yourself from the public coz they only know the outside of you bt your innermost feelings en you bn going through only you en your creator knows 😢😢😢😢😢mama they will talk talk en talk en at the en they help with nothing. Iwas once in your shoes en his friends used to take advantage of me coz they knew his situation of being jobless. What I did was to love myself ,work hard to provide for my kids en take no advice from n one .I liponishinda I left him en went to Saudi now he's regretting

  • @mosesdouglas7902
    @mosesdouglas7902 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve This guy need prayers,The only way if you can help , That it's .May God have mercy to this family.🙏🙏🙏

  • @kevinakwany
    @kevinakwany ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so deep!

  • @judykamau6121
    @judykamau6121 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's a good wife

  • @susankamau9933
    @susankamau9933 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Who else is cutting onions 😢😢

  • @lizzie8942
    @lizzie8942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😢😢😢😔😔God will help this woman just learn to trust in God alone he will bless you..there is no justification to sin it's good to put hope in the Lord even when things are tough and you are at the end..that's when God begins❤

  • @catherinemaria650
    @catherinemaria650 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I said it and i say it again, mama tembea kubwa kubwa ukienda, you have tried your best, if he doesnt want to change, let him continue to wallow in alcoholism in the name of mourning. Go take care of yourself and the kids, dont care about those who are here to judge you, thats the way of life, they will always judge no matter what you do. Kenya imejaa pretenders who present themselves as mr and mrs right hiding behind the keyboard. Hugs mummy. I wish i could get your no. nikulipie at least 4 months rent ukijipanga.

    • @marywainaina6192
      @marywainaina6192 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kanyaga kubwkubwa mamii ulee watoto wako naamani

  • @VipQatat
    @VipQatat ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Let's help this lady financially 😢😢

    • @Zaza-bt1hx
      @Zaza-bt1hx ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope. She's already using her rosecoco and nyash to help herself

    • @hanifajuma6121
      @hanifajuma6121 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@Zaza-bt1hxkama huna la kusema nyamaza tu.

    • @CarolineMutiso-rb3lx
      @CarolineMutiso-rb3lx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Zaza-bt1hx kama wewe utaki uwezi kataza watu wengine.but ukisikiliza huyu mama nakama wewe ni mwanamke unaelewa sometimes venye wanawake sisi upitia

    • @mandaineliz9609
      @mandaineliz9609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Zaza-bt1hxdid you listen to her ama umepayuka tu?

    • @melwaringas8096
      @melwaringas8096 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Zaza-bt1hxHow heartless are you????are you human being or an animal?

  • @pisnoel672
    @pisnoel672 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sometimes we are so quick to point fingers at those caught cheating, but what drives an individual could be more painful. The lady is wrong for cheating, but she has very valid reasons. Let her carry her children and walk away alive.

  • @xpresstv7689
    @xpresstv7689 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I understand depression but when you become a danger to your kids and wife you deserve everything that is coming your way. At this point he is just taking advantage and exploiting his situation. Life is hard and shit happen but as man you need to play the role as the head of your family regardless of the situation.

  • @lynnait254
    @lynnait254 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is Sad😢😢😢 May Almighty take over ....I pray for healing and restoration in Jesus Name

  • @jacklinerima9884
    @jacklinerima9884 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The wife is just a victim of circumstances,,,,many may throw stones at her but just know a mother can do anything i mean anything for her kids,,,,mamaa you did your part and kudos and leave that man,,,,he can't suck ypur blood in the name of marriage,,,this man thou he got his stress he failed as a dad and husband,,,,how can you beat your wife infront of kids?shame on you,,,,you so lucky cz i blv if its some women ungekuwa umeachwa ama pia kukupiga when drunk,,,,you just lucky