GIRL CHAT: being single in your 20s, situationships, setting boundaries & more!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @deadgyal_qaya
    @deadgyal_qaya ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I’ve been watching you guys for like 5 years now and I’m soon 22. I’m so grateful for you both. This is my therapy. Your level of calm is perfect for me. I love it here. 😭♥️

  • @Dayo_kid
    @Dayo_kid ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Asanele talking about her singleness , wanting the free time but being a romantic and wanting that love is so relatable I’m glad she was posed and honest and nuanced with that topic 🤍

  • @obakengmahlangu8967
    @obakengmahlangu8967 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I think you girls should have a monthly segment called "life chats". You possess so much wisdom and therapy is working well for you, love it for you ❤❤❤.

  • @LIFEWITHLENO-y7i
    @LIFEWITHLENO-y7i ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Anelisa looks at her sister with soo much love it’s beautiful 🥹😭😭❤️❤️

  • @SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja
    @SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Asanele has grown so much mentally and spiritually! I’m so proud of you sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @masase19
      @masase19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She has hey

  • @lulufierce01
    @lulufierce01 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Your authenticity is everything. Also you two are gorgeous 😍

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you gorgeous ♥️ we see all your comments, thank you for the support xx

  • @xoliswakali15
    @xoliswakali15 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I really enjoy your chats... They always feel so authentic. I come away feeling like I know you guys better ❤️

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Follow your standards, not your emotions. That’s just it. We condone too much nonsense unfortunately.

  • @karabokhunou3204
    @karabokhunou3204 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Definately enjoyed this one... You guys calm me down ♥️ I appreciate the respect between the two of you♥️

  • @MICHELLKVANWYK
    @MICHELLKVANWYK ปีที่แล้ว +4

    HAVING A TWIN KODWA!! YALL ARE BLESSED TO HAVE ONE ANOTHER. LOVED THE VIDEO 🥰🥰

  • @zandiswambembe6662
    @zandiswambembe6662 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    We need more girl chats❤️

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      more girls chats coming! ♥️

    • @CaPiTL_T
      @CaPiTL_T ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I 💯 agree❤

  • @perfectmsira
    @perfectmsira ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Different outfits and different hair styles. Love it

  • @kay.bovana_
    @kay.bovana_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I get so excited every time I see a notification from you guys, your aura is so calming and your voices are so soothing 🥰🥰
    This video definitely made me want to give myself a chance at finding love, I've held myself back for so long due to the fear of heartbreak. It felt like I was at therapy, thank you. 🥺🫂🫂❤

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the best ♥️!

  • @ingantshikila6261
    @ingantshikila6261 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you guys knew how much I love your sit down videos,you’d post more often❤️I miss you🥹🥹

  • @waynenxumalo
    @waynenxumalo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    when Asanele said that she watched Aquamarine and to this day she's always held on the thing that the girls said when they were asked "why do you love, LOVE so much?" and they responded with a "because it the closest thing to magic✨" i just got goosebumps cause she is such a homeless romantic like she said😍❤❤❤❤❤love love love you guys

  • @Abo_Nodlela
    @Abo_Nodlela ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love every bit about this video, this helped me a lot 😢❤

  • @hlengiwefeliciamabuza7354
    @hlengiwefeliciamabuza7354 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nibahle 😍and you ladies articulate yourselves so well!

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Enkosi ♥️

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these sit down videos. You two are very wise and I’ve got a lot of valuable advise from you two. Thank you so much.

  • @georginahmoropjane5430
    @georginahmoropjane5430 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If peace had a voice , you are a representation of it. I absolutely enjoy how you soft spoken and poise you guys articulate. Do not stop growing! 🤍

  • @malebo
    @malebo ปีที่แล้ว

    when you said, not knowing how much is enough to actually take in a relationship; i cried. This was amazing.

  • @allienaomi4197
    @allienaomi4197 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so genuine gosh ❤❤❤ so refreshing!

  • @oreoiginal5479
    @oreoiginal5479 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t wait till you do this again🥺💕🧚🏽‍♀️you guys are proper big sisters for me!

    • @NelNgubo
      @NelNgubo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like your name. The originality

  • @missemz335
    @missemz335 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Our girls😍😍😍😍 It’s always exciting to get a notification of your videos 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️♥️

  • @tholoanamatoka9931
    @tholoanamatoka9931 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thoroughly enjoyed the video.
    I think your sit-down videos are my favorites.🎉😍❤

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      aww, thank you! ♥️ we’re so happy you enjoyed xx

  • @karabokhunou3204
    @karabokhunou3204 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't watch this channel often.... But whenever I do I always feel this sense of peace... You guys are so calm...its peaceful ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
    I love your courage... And calm ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      aww, thank you for the kind message and support ♥️

  • @imanizawadii
    @imanizawadii ปีที่แล้ว

    Wholesome video 🥺❤️🌺🌺. I resonate with Asenele sooo much. I Love that you've grown and not changed the things about you that at first people didn't understand. That speaks to me personally deeply ❤.

  • @nkamokonyana
    @nkamokonyana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love your sit downs..so wholesome..ke le rata gore ❤️

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we love you too ♥️!

  • @deppironniziavanstaden3786
    @deppironniziavanstaden3786 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely loved it and I love you guys already, new subbie 💃❤!

  • @siphokaziginindza3152
    @siphokaziginindza3152 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love how Anelisa is looking at Asanele as she's explaining why she hates being single😂😂😂

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️

    • @tafaramarufu2003
      @tafaramarufu2003 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m 100% relating to Anelisa because lm a twin as well and have been single for the longest 😅😊❤❤

  • @palesamotaung2988
    @palesamotaung2988 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are just gorgeous and love the energy you exude. So soft and elegant and warm. 🥰

  • @zintletomose687
    @zintletomose687 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ladies, I love this, its cozy and soo intimate❤️, and also talking about challenges we all face!
    May guys continue to have these sit downs❤️
    Such relevant and relatable topics❤️!

  • @amandamabena8503
    @amandamabena8503 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was so excited when I saw this video!😍 Love it!♥️

  • @rakkelteofilus5108
    @rakkelteofilus5108 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you guys so much and I’m proud of you 🥺🤞🏾

  • @masivuyemayekiso1955
    @masivuyemayekiso1955 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh I miss them I came here no rewatch ❤❤😢

  • @sisiphosigegeni
    @sisiphosigegeni ปีที่แล้ว

    That one about setting boundaries with family members ,I feel like as hard as it is to do it,it's really important for us to do that for ourselves.

  • @yandiswalouw6906
    @yandiswalouw6906 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤I love love love sit down videos.... Enjoyed the girl chat.

  • @TheTwinsDeedeexDeekay
    @TheTwinsDeedeexDeekay ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The chat of she’s the skinnier one or bigger one is never ending, I remember how it used to trigger us at a young age 💔
    But at least now we have our differences where my sister prefers to be skinnier and I prefer to be bigger 🙈

    • @lolatwins265
      @lolatwins265 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True that ❤️

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      we still struggle with it sometimes, it’s really good that you guys have found your person preferences ♥️

  • @shinaazshivute6238
    @shinaazshivute6238 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    uAnelisa really has nothing to say. Kupholiwe shem. Impilo imnandi.

    • @nompumelelomtsweni1778
      @nompumelelomtsweni1778 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sbwl! 😂😂🥺

    • @Orrisa380
      @Orrisa380 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s so much In peace ❤
      I don’t know how to explain it

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yho wonwabe! (Asanele responding 😅)

    • @mahlatseledwaba0
      @mahlatseledwaba0 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes !😭

  • @zamazizigqada2621
    @zamazizigqada2621 ปีที่แล้ว

    I missed you guys so much, i actually forgot how much l like you guys damn🥺🤲🏿

  • @oloratosebake7014
    @oloratosebake7014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really really enjoyed this 😤❤️❤️

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️♥️

  • @Top_trendingss
    @Top_trendingss ปีที่แล้ว

    Missed y'all ❤️ what kind of locs y'all have on ? Looks so good

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so much fun to watch, thank you for sharing 🎉

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for watching ♥️

  • @pamellak8473
    @pamellak8473 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I can have my own replica, a life time best friend. You guys are blessed.❤❤❤

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      we really are ♥️! thank you for the support

  • @Our-differences
    @Our-differences ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you guys using a ring light here? And if yes which one? And where did you get it? Loved this. It was so intimate and just a wake up call for me to just get up and do something about my life. I feel stuck and i feel like I’m running out of time. Mid 20s are so scary for me 😢

  • @Yanda.Wade24
    @Yanda.Wade24 ปีที่แล้ว

    i needed this 🥺🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @thalithamagoqwana2541
    @thalithamagoqwana2541 ปีที่แล้ว

    i felt like screeming kuze benbona oy1 wenu on the 1st with two ladies .😭😭😭😭I can't even tell you guys apart .

  • @esinakongcobozi8900
    @esinakongcobozi8900 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think for me, the answer to the toxic parent should be the same as the previous one. If someone is toxic and they're making your life difficult then maybe look at another option (as distasteful as it is) of exiting that relationship. Its like being dependent on a man that abuses you. this obviously goes according to how well they know their mom. If she is generally an unpleasant person that is solely toxic sure, but if she is going through something and isn't always like this, then I 100% agree with you girls.

  • @nelephungwayo
    @nelephungwayo ปีที่แล้ว

    love this one so much 🥺❤️

  • @maureenmupedzi7407
    @maureenmupedzi7407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ever so happy whenever you upload a new video.

  • @mandagezana9819
    @mandagezana9819 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this sit down, silinde upart 2 ninani!!🥴

  • @olwethubanyana5441
    @olwethubanyana5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this so much you guys are so cute🥺

  • @_assweetashoney
    @_assweetashoney ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love watching you gorgeous girls😍😍😍

  • @sikhonashiyani7000
    @sikhonashiyani7000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your bun looks cute Anelisa😊

  • @isabelsibuyi
    @isabelsibuyi ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this so much ♥️

  • @snazowilliams9006
    @snazowilliams9006 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nibahle guys yhoo😢🤗😇😍

  • @theempressnxpho
    @theempressnxpho ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are gorgeous ❤

  • @nompumelelomtsweni1778
    @nompumelelomtsweni1778 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Myeke! Myeke! Myeke! Myeke! 😂😂😂.

  • @unam228
    @unam228 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a guy but I loved the convo

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for watching ♥️ we’re so glad you enjoyed it x

  • @samkelisiwezungu4198
    @samkelisiwezungu4198 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful, as always❤. I love the sweat pants😍Where are they from?

    • @verasixishe4393
      @verasixishe4393 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The navy one is definitely from Cotton On and it's still available in stores.
      Wish I knew where the check bra/top is from.

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we’re both wearing Cotton On sweatpants

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s from Cotton On but I bought it in 2019 🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @samirahfazilahmed3206
    @samirahfazilahmed3206 ปีที่แล้ว

    Notification gang gang ❤
    Hey ladies

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hiii ♥️ 👋🏽

  • @lungilegoodness6767
    @lungilegoodness6767 ปีที่แล้ว

    My fav twins in the here❤

  • @zintlesishuba7092
    @zintlesishuba7092 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey guys...yho i cant believe youve grown so much...hope u still remember me😂❤...

  • @snazowilliams9006
    @snazowilliams9006 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this😍❤👌

  • @khodanimavhungu6079
    @khodanimavhungu6079 ปีที่แล้ว

    To more girls talk🥂❤

  • @khanyi_m2886
    @khanyi_m2886 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love me ya sitdown videos❤❤

  • @iviwemngweba9844
    @iviwemngweba9844 ปีที่แล้ว

    What sn intimate chat❤

  • @thembelihlegema123
    @thembelihlegema123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another one thank you ❤🎉

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      you’re welcome ♥️

  • @samkelisiwentanzi1351
    @samkelisiwentanzi1351 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's the name of your guys hairpiece

  • @_nels.m
    @_nels.m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 2 cents:may y'all not use songs that has lyrics course we end up singing along and not hearing your advice loved this video though 😍

  • @venessamnguni
    @venessamnguni ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this kesana❤, Also love the advices

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️♥️

  • @esonamahelu4499
    @esonamahelu4499 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you so much❤️

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว

      we love you too! ♥️

  • @Yanda.Wade24
    @Yanda.Wade24 ปีที่แล้ว

    yesss❤️

  • @NicoleNdlovu-s3v
    @NicoleNdlovu-s3v 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How old are you guyz

  • @verasixishe4393
    @verasixishe4393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love, love the check bra/top... Plug, pretty please. ❤

    • @AsaneleS
      @AsaneleS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it’s from Cotton On, I bought it in 2019 🙆🏽‍♀️

    • @verasixishe4393
      @verasixishe4393 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AsaneleS
      Thanks, oh well...
      Bless your beautiful heart. 🤗

  • @samukelisiwendoniyamanzi7349
    @samukelisiwendoniyamanzi7349 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @Yanda.Wade24
    @Yanda.Wade24 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pt2 please 🥺

  • @mkamogelo8192
    @mkamogelo8192 ปีที่แล้ว

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @Nilambarn5169
    @Nilambarn5169 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hiii

  • @balungilemalusi1663
    @balungilemalusi1663 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kazcares8948
    @kazcares8948 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sibahlepeterson2366
    @sibahlepeterson2366 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @Nilambarn5169
    @Nilambarn5169 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello

  • @mbalenhletv2315
    @mbalenhletv2315 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤😊

  • @kgothatsokoena5855
    @kgothatsokoena5855 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🥹

  • @giftpatricks3944
    @giftpatricks3944 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤍💕🫶🏾💕🤍💕🫶🏾💕🤍