Did she just say people used to get divorced for real things like their husband having a mistress… after saying her relative’s husband leaving for another woman isn’t a good enough reason for divorce?? Am I confused? I think I am
Pearl pulled up a study from 1994 to back her argument. It's 2023. She had to go back almost 30 years to find a study to support her argument. Newer studies have been done. The problem is they don't support her argument so she won't use them. This is called selection bias.
Very much agree with your point but It's cherry picking or conformation bias. Selection bias is an experimental error when the sample used in the study is not representative of the target population resulting in false findings
Yeah but he understands how much hard work it takes to make it successful. Most modern marriages fail because they think it's always 50/50 or worse all about them.
If any woman takes advice from this girl who has never been married in her life, they are fools. This girl has no marriage experience, and cannot lead anyone in the right direction. All she does is read articles and talk to people, which is what anyone can do in their spare time LMAO
Actually she didn't destroy she could have said a lot of things about this guy but she holds her her tongue and are you serious about MTR this dude on her show every f****** minute this is like if you hate Melody you pretty much hate Melanie
My parents have always said dont take relationship advice from a person that is single. Dont give parenting advice if you are not a parent. This chick came in and had folks fighting over her. Just Lonely Things...I love it 😂
Well maybe because all these niggas are talking shit and she’s actually hiring black folks and paying them bank. Meanwhile every pro black TH-camr is acting a damn fool about this shit. Black people are the most racist people man I sware.
What's even more annoying is that she's always wanting to hold women accountable for everything but can't seem to hold herself accountable for her mess. I can't stand this girl's hypocrisy.
Women also say they want a nice guy and keep going back to toxic aholes... what they think they want and what they actually respond to are different things
@@satansbarman women aren't a hivemind, that would be like saying men want women who want them for their money then complain about women who want money. Or men want a good girl but keep going after garden tools.
@@satansbarman those women have low self esteem. Most of the "nice guys" I know are MARRIED. Which means women still want nice guys lol. There's a reason Drake and Ed Sheeran are so popular amongst woman.
I think alot of men just want too hear a woman say things that they agree with. Pearl is the literal example of someone kevin samuels would call a modern woman, he wouldnt rock with pearl but yet all these dudes are ignoring this and just want too hear her repeat their confirmation bias
Straight facts! How are men lapping up after this chick? Boggles my mind homie. She really is a modern woman. She’s also very sheltered. And a panderer. How are brothas not calling her out for basically being a female Derrick Waxn? Makes no sense
@@ladyhotep5189 well those people are fken dumb. White women aren't some sort of hive mind and act the same. An easy example is a white woman from eastern Europe compared to California for example. They will most likely have way different values and culture.
My husband and I will married for 12 years in September. The best advice I can give for a successful marriage is communication, appreciation and compromise. The only time I watch Pearl’s content is when someone reacts to it. I think she constantly repeats herself over and over again. Aba and Preach stats are accurate in my opinion. 😎❤️
The fact that Pearls only did a reaction to this video of Aba and Preach but not the controversial video of her having the white supremacist on her channel when Aba and Preach reacted to that. She knows what she's doing. I'm so happy I unsubcribed to her. Sa Ra Garvey, Aba and Preach, and MTR really exposed the goofiness of her. Lost so much respect.
@@jolandafrijlink6103 right, I thought she was great cos she was advocating for men and putting these modern women in their place, but she went crazy with power 😂 definition of a pick me, cos she doesn't think men need to take responsibility for their actions.. why do movements end up going to the extreme.. feminist can't take accountability, now we have the unhinged modern woman.. now these guys doing the same and this chicks trying to grift off that movement..
She got ethered. I bet she's never done a weeks chores for herself let alone her husband. Here is a challenge. Pearl should do ALL the chores for flat mate all week, and see how she feels.
I don't care what y'all say or think about pearl. Let her cook, we have had way worse.. She doing the Lord's work, by regurgitating red pill and kevin samuels. The internet is never satisfied, id rather her than 90% of the skanks on the internet claiming they are "influencers" By now we should be used to how white people work lol i mean destiny is just terrible, but people defend his simpery. She is really not that bad as everyone making her out to be. But whatever, what do i know? I'm Just a nigga from Bermuda
I can tell you when I see my husband washing dishes I get a little “excited”. When I see him plug in a vacuum and sprinkle carpet fresh I’m even more excited, she’s crazy if she believes men assisting with household duties is a turn off.
I wish my boyfriend would help with the dishes and trash. The only thing I asked for help with is the trash and he just leaves the container out and never puts a new bag in
@@purplelover9633 it's OK now but eventually it will become unbearable. This will probably also result in u not wanting to be as physically intimate. I hope he sees the light b4 it's too late
That study is from 1992-1994, the age of the participants at the time was 40 to 45. Those are people who grew up in the 50's. That's the reason for their silly ideas.
And everything she said confirms her advice should not be taken Cz she has no clue what’s she’s talking about. Just copying googled statements or like a parrot repeating what some men are saying lol
Been married for 14 years Wife and I are both military I’m a vet who drives trucks now I can concur When I’m home and partaking in chores Panties drop more consistently Than the times I left her hanging Due to schooling or things of that nature
Right!? Engaged but, whenever he cleans up after himself when he sees the kitchen is clean, or heck, when he cleans (the kitchen or wherever) in general himself, he’s _always_ getting a “thank you!” 😉
@@simpletitleholder That’s totally understandable and honestly seems to be a majority man thing! 😂 My man is a wonderful cook and loves cooking (I still cook for him though), and I actually really enjoy and love cleaning, ironing, etc so we naturally balance each other out! Hopefully you’ll be able to find someone that balances you out soon too! :)
I hear that! I honestly don’t know how people do that, if the place isn’t clean I can’t sit still and I definitely cannot go to bed if the kitchen isn’t clean! Including all the dishes and everything put away and if my husband even let me be that nasty, we wouldn’t be together!
One of the biggest arguments my fiancé and I had when we moved in together was keeping the bathroom clean, he was still in bachelor pad mode and I am opposite so clean. And he thought no big deal until we argued almost everyday about it and now it stays clean! We laugh about it now but it’s real! Breaking up over chores is 100% facts not to mention stressful.
Sometimes, it's OK to just say,"I don't know," instead of acting like you know things. Hearing this pearl woman talk with no related experience is sad.
The problem with that though, is she also has a habit of putting out a statement then immediately following it up with, "I don't know though" or "I'm just asking questions". So alot of times when she gets push back, she won't even own what she actually said, and just uses that as a fall back plan.
Her comparing living with siblings and living with someone you met and have to adjust to living with is crazy. Your parents condition your siblings to put up with you, while someone outside that circle and being your current roommate would not be trained to have such tolerance for your particular living habits.
If I as a wife am working outside the house the same amount of hours as my husband, then have to come home and make dinner, clean up after, take care of the children, help with homework etc. I am gong to be exhausted and not have the energy or time to be intimate with my partner. I am going to start to resent him for not helping me and all that shit is going to fill a void between us that is eventually going to end a marriage or make it a miserable one. Marriage is hard but it should not be exhausting or a constant fight.
That's her problem. She says things without thinking before she talks and then when someone points it out she tries to back track and say oh i didn't say that or mean it in that way. Well you did
Yoooo we are watching a reaction to a reaction to a reaction of a video of a reaction 😆 😄 🤣 😂 we are deep into the inception now😂! Someone spin a top for me lol 😅😅
I remembered I was in a relationship with someone. He earned more money than me but still wanted me to pay half the bills. He also wouldn't clean up or do anything unless I basically screamed at him. He left all the dishes for me, Piles of dirty laundry all over the floor, Wouldn't Ever cook for me even though he got off work three hours before I did. I worked in a warehouse lifting fifty pound bags of dog food for eleven hours. When he would wait for me to get home to drive us to go pick up fast food. He would get mad at me because I would start eating my food right away because I was hungry. He would tell me, "Why don't you ever just wait till we get home. " Eventually it just weighed me down and burnt me out. I left because I couldn't do it anymore. I looked in the mirror and I realized that. If I didn't finally put myself first he was never going to.
Here's my question: if Pearl is such a catch and has such a level head, why is there no ring? You'd think if she really thought all this, someone would have picked her up by now
I sincerely hope @justpearlythings finds the kind of man she's describing. The one that won't help out with chore and will leave the marriage while she remains married
You get married to have a partner, not to be their slave or maid..... yes, I do most of the housework because my husband has a much harder job, but that doesn't mean he should do nothing at all. Hell, I even helped him mow our pasture for 2 hours over the weekend to cut his time in half. Help each other. DUH.
girl has no empathy or emotions, probably lost them early on because daddy just paid or did the other stuff that her mom mentioned, but actually being there for her was not on the plate
You can tell she's never lived a mildly blue collar life. She always talks about her rich family and thinks it is relateable to the average people. Sad
That’s why I love Aba n Preach man. Completely based in reality. Even if I’m paying for everything, I’d never expect the woman I love to clean up all my messes. We in this together.
I have 9 siblings and it's true we took care of each other a lot. We had mom and dad but a lot of times us girls would talk to each other but I can tell you I was glad I was not my oldest sister we always needed her
The chores thing has never been an issue for me because I've always been a very clean person. Clutter drives me insane, so much that I can't even give a sidelong glance at my wife's makeup table without feeling a way.
I relate to the clutter it makes everything a mess. I do a quick clean every week on my days off for dust cause it makes me sneeze a lot so my place is always immaculate by choice. A clean space for me is also relaxing .
I know from personal experience that couples should not stay together for the children my childhood was absolutely miserable because I was raised in a loveless marriage. My husband and I have an agreement that if one's working the other takes care of the house and kids. Now that neither of us can work we both take care of the house. A marriage requires you to work on it but that doesn't make it hard. Their are hardships in any relationships but if it's constantly hard then you need to look at if it's worth staying. This woman just doesn't know what she's talking about.
Yeah, that's why I hate that RP pushes that agenda. There's a reason most folks don't follow the all or nothing mindset anymore. The child goes out into the world with complexes and misunderstandings about what love is and should be. Then their left wondering why certain types of ppl don't gravitate toward them.
@@Ladybug-no9sc true. It took my husband years to get it through my head that love isn't beating on the weaker person. That man has the patience of a saint because I put him through hell when we 1st married. Almost 26 yrs and 3 kids, 2 adult and 1 that passed, later and we're still going strong. Now our kids won't settle for anything less than what we have and I'm proud of them for sticking to their morals in this world.
I am not married yet, but coming from a person who has been in the same consistently stable relationship for 5 years, best advice I can give to anyone is don't change a thing unless your spouse says something is truly a problem. It's okay to transform but make sure your spouse doesn't have an issue with who you are already.
Oh I lived with a man in the past and he was verbally abusing me nonstop it was the worse thing ever. I will never ever do that again. No one should ever settle with drama like cheating and any form of abuse. Again, I lived that nightmare. Thank goodness I got 💩 together and never looked back.
I think there's points on both sides, but Abba and Preach don't miss lol... if everyone does their part the marriage/relationship will be a long happy one
The study she's using is not only 30-years old, but it's also surveyed people from Spain a completely different culture from ours. Plus, the people surveyed where over 40 in the 90's so it's also a completely different generation from today. I'm over 40 now and most 40-something women today grow-up with men doing chores and more work around the house than the people surveyed because in 1960 Spain, real men weren't supposed to do housework.
I love my fiance to death but chores are something we have to discuss often because we grew up with women doing all the chores and father making all the money. But since I work full time and go to school I have to ask him to put in his share at home even though it's foreign to him.
I'm sorry but that's crazy she literally said "im questioning whether my dad loves me" and her mother basically said "but he pays for your things." Like sure that's cool, but money and paying for things can't beat quality time with your parents.
This is why I teach my 5 boys to date with a purpose. They are being raised to know what their duties most likely should/will be as a Husband and Father. They also know the duties their wife/mother of their children should be fulfilling. If they dont want that, fine but we are showing our 5 boys by prime example, upclose what a womans and mans duties are and why they work so damn well. Nothing like having security, nuture, friendship, happiness and *PEACE* ❤❤
I get 'depression is just in your head vibes' from Pearl. I grew up in a big family, all boys and I'm the only girl. My brothers naturally would come ask me about how to do laundry or ask for food if my mom wasn't at home at that moment. If you are not married, do not tell me what a marriage should look like.
This video lets you sit back and realize most of the people on both sides of the debate (males and females) talking about what guys want when dating and women want when dating. Are not in a solid long term relationship.
When Pearls Channel first came out she made some good points. But I think she’s gotten a big head because her channel got so big so fast and she had a bunch of men telling her she’s right all the time, some of her stuff has gone off the rails. It’s hard to take advice from someone who doesn’t have what she’s preaching.
She said marriage is supposed to be hard. 1. No it's not necessarily 2. Why does the marriage have to be harder for one person and a lazy Sunday afternoon all day, every day for the other person? That's not a partnership or marriage; that's a servant.
She lives in a ten bedroom Mansion with her parents still - probably with staff - her studio etc was paid for by her parents - also do you notice the mammy aesthetic she has on “wife school” ??
I'd sooner listen to Preach about marriage than Pearl. Preach is actually married and has been for years. Pearl is a chameleon, I've been saying it for a while.
My 8th anniversary was just yesterday. Word of advice? Don't take listen to relationship advice from people that 1) don't know you both AND 2) Aren't happily married.
Did she just say people used to get divorced for real things like their husband having a mistress… after saying her relative’s husband leaving for another woman isn’t a good enough reason for divorce?? Am I confused? I think I am
No, I caught that too. I wish they had pointed that out.
Yup! Contradicted herself 😂. I thought Aba and Preach would’ve caught it!
I caught that!! And I was scratching my head. 🤔
Yep, she contradicts herself all thee time.
@@veeron345 caught it right away.
Pearl pulled up a study from 1994 to back her argument. It's 2023. She had to go back almost 30 years to find a study to support her argument. Newer studies have been done. The problem is they don't support her argument so she won't use them. This is called selection bias.
I noticed that too...she went back to when Suge was out and Eazy E was alive smh
@@SeanMac- lol facts
@@SeanMac- 😂😂😂😂 you took me out with this comment 😂😂😂😂
Its because marriage don't last very long anymore
Very much agree with your point but It's cherry picking or conformation bias. Selection bias is an experimental error when the sample used in the study is not representative of the target population resulting in false findings
PREACH IS ACTUALLY MARRIED😂😂😂 She said “ reactors are always about me” this mf knows what marriage actually looks like😂😂
And he’s been married for a long time with shared interests as his wife and seems to be on balance with his wife for the most part.
Yeah but he understands how much hard work it takes to make it successful. Most modern marriages fail because they think it's always 50/50 or worse all about them.
She obviously doesn’t do research just running her lips
Not only is he married, but he has been in the relationship for almost as long as she has been alive.
If any woman takes advice from this girl who has never been married in her life, they are fools. This girl has no marriage experience, and cannot lead anyone in the right direction. All she does is read articles and talk to people, which is what anyone can do in their spare time LMAO
Nah, "JustLonelyThings" is HILARIOUS! I can't with those two.😂
She shouldn't be messing with Aba and Preach, she just got destroyed, again 🤣
I don't know she might be one of those women that loves punishment. 💀
I'm sure she is used to being destroyed.
@@DJ-mf6ft and she happens to like the destroying done by black dudes...
SMH everyone loses to them two. They been pumping each other for years
Actually she didn't destroy she could have said a lot of things about this guy but she holds her her tongue and are you serious about MTR this dude on her show every f****** minute this is like if you hate Melody you pretty much hate Melanie
Why is she comparing her relationship with her dad to a marriage relationship?
Maybe she’s never had a serious relationship before? I wondered about that too. I’m like she mentions her dad a lot.
@@purplelover9633 she's openly admitted she's never been in a committed relationship. She has zero personal experience with what she speaks on.
She has daddy issues lol
Sweet home Alabama 😂
Cuz her dad pays for everything even her stupid fk'ing show.
My parents have always said dont take relationship advice from a person that is single. Dont give parenting advice if you are not a parent. This chick came in and had folks fighting over her. Just Lonely Things...I love it 😂
Straight facts. I just don’t get why she’s been able to assemble all these avengers to fight for her. Makes my brain hurt
while some parents are shit at it and shouldn't give advice either so what is your fucking point.
Well maybe because all these niggas are talking shit and she’s actually hiring black folks and paying them bank. Meanwhile every pro black TH-camr is acting a damn fool about this shit. Black people are the most racist people man I sware.
My dad used to say just because you don’t like the messenger, that doesn’t mean the message is wrong.
Doesn't she have a boyfriend though? Lol
i love how criticism is now called "hit pieces" by people who take no accountability for themselves.
Bro for real. Its annoying
What's even more annoying is that she's always wanting to hold women accountable for everything but can't seem to hold herself accountable for her mess. I can't stand this girl's hypocrisy.
Has Pearl never heard all the women who say a man that can clean is so sexy?
Women also say they want a nice guy and keep going back to toxic aholes... what they think they want and what they actually respond to are different things
@@satansbarman Yes, they speak in tongue.
@@satansbarman women aren't a hivemind, that would be like saying men want women who want them for their money then complain about women who want money.
Or men want a good girl but keep going after garden tools.
@@Ni-boo you're right, not all women, happy? 🤡 Didn't think there'd be any pedantic tools watching a vid like this...
@@satansbarman those women have low self esteem. Most of the "nice guys" I know are MARRIED. Which means women still want nice guys lol. There's a reason Drake and Ed Sheeran are so popular amongst woman.
I think alot of men just want too hear a woman say things that they agree with. Pearl is the literal example of someone kevin samuels would call a modern woman, he wouldnt rock with pearl but yet all these dudes are ignoring this and just want too hear her repeat their confirmation bias
She took a seminar from him or so. She did claim that she talked to Kevin but i"ve seen no evidence from that.
Straight facts! How are men lapping up after this chick? Boggles my mind homie. She really is a modern woman. She’s also very sheltered. And a panderer. How are brothas not calling her out for basically being a female Derrick Waxn? Makes no sense
Let's get it straight. She's a yt woman saying these things.there are some who like using her "example " to put the women of their race down.
@@ladyhotep5189 well those people are fken dumb. White women aren't some sort of hive mind and act the same. An easy example is a white woman from eastern Europe compared to California for example. They will most likely have way different values and culture.
@@jolandafrijlink6103 she talked to him twice, I think she had the videos up at one time, i have seen them.
My husband and I will married for 12 years in September. The best advice I can give for a successful marriage is communication, appreciation and compromise. The only time I watch Pearl’s content is when someone reacts to it. I think she constantly repeats herself over and over again. Aba and Preach stats are accurate in my opinion. 😎❤️
Congratulations!
The fact that Pearls only did a reaction to this video of Aba and Preach but not the controversial video of her having the white supremacist on her channel when Aba and Preach reacted to that. She knows what she's doing. I'm so happy I unsubcribed to her. Sa Ra Garvey, Aba and Preach, and MTR really exposed the goofiness of her. Lost so much respect.
she is a MAGA supporter
@@MF12345-v that has NOTHING to do with this topic....read the room.
I was subsribed for a while and then someone pointed out that she was everything that she advocated against. And that made me think and unsubscribed.
@@jolandafrijlink6103 right, I thought she was great cos she was advocating for men and putting these modern women in their place, but she went crazy with power 😂 definition of a pick me, cos she doesn't think men need to take responsibility for their actions.. why do movements end up going to the extreme.. feminist can't take accountability, now we have the unhinged modern woman.. now these guys doing the same and this chicks trying to grift off that movement..
@@MF12345-v majority of us who sub to this channel are too silly 😂 we're the right 💪🏼
"Confidentiality stupid"
I don't think there's ever been a better description of Pearl 😂
@12:26 "confidently stupid" I am going use that too! 😂😂😂
lmfao
She got ethered. I bet she's never done a weeks chores for herself let alone her husband. Here is a challenge. Pearl should do ALL the chores for flat mate all week, and see how she feels.
I don't care what y'all say or think about pearl. Let her cook, we have had way worse.. She doing the Lord's work, by regurgitating red pill and kevin samuels. The internet is never satisfied, id rather her than 90% of the skanks on the internet claiming they are "influencers" By now we should be used to how white people work lol i mean destiny is just terrible, but people defend his simpery. She is really not that bad as everyone making her out to be. But whatever, what do i know? I'm Just a nigga from Bermuda
She probably won't admit to being wrong lol
she has no husband
Isn't her whole shtick getting married before you turn 26, so you can be traditional?
@@jedimojojojo1603 I want to see her do the exclusive chores for her flat mate, or staff member's. That sh!t will grate at you.
I can tell you when I see my husband washing dishes I get a little “excited”. When I see him plug in a vacuum and sprinkle carpet fresh I’m even more excited, she’s crazy if she believes men assisting with household duties is a turn off.
I wish my boyfriend would help with the dishes and trash. The only thing I asked for help with is the trash and he just leaves the container out and never puts a new bag in
@@purplelover9633 it's OK now but eventually it will become unbearable. This will probably also result in u not wanting to be as physically intimate. I hope he sees the light b4 it's too late
That study is from 1992-1994, the age of the participants at the time was 40 to 45. Those are people who grew up in the 50's. That's the reason for their silly ideas.
And everything she said confirms her advice should not be taken Cz she has no clue what’s she’s talking about. Just copying googled statements or like a parrot repeating what some men are saying lol
Been married for 14 years
Wife and I are both military
I’m a vet who drives trucks now
I can concur
When I’m home and partaking in chores
Panties drop more consistently
Than the times I left her hanging
Due to schooling or things of that nature
Right!? Engaged but, whenever he cleans up after himself when he sees the kitchen is clean, or heck, when he cleans (the kitchen or wherever) in general himself, he’s _always_ getting a “thank you!” 😉
Exactly! Took me a few dry months to realize but ong 50/50 is the way. Gramps had a diff family cuz he couldnt get none i wont be the same 😂
@@elizegood7722 funny thing is I just want a lady who can cook really good . I can clean and wash clothes just fine I just wanna be spoiled with food
@@simpletitleholder That’s totally understandable and honestly seems to be a majority man thing! 😂
My man is a wonderful cook and loves cooking (I still cook for him though), and I actually really enjoy and love cleaning, ironing, etc so we naturally balance each other out!
Hopefully you’ll be able to find someone that balances you out soon too! :)
@@elizegood7722 lol what can I say, I’m a sucker for good food
I'm glad they humbled her the fact she humbled by men is so satisfying.
I can honestly say I ended relationships because women refuse to wash dishes and clean up while I was at work.
as you should have......lazy home slobs are valueless
As you should have
I hear that! I honestly don’t know how people do that, if the place isn’t clean I can’t sit still and I definitely cannot go to bed if the kitchen isn’t clean! Including all the dishes and everything put away and if my husband even let me be that nasty, we wouldn’t be together!
Understand
Dishes killed the D.J.😂
One of the biggest arguments my fiancé and I had when we moved in together was keeping the bathroom clean, he was still in bachelor pad mode and I am opposite so clean. And he thought no big deal until we argued almost everyday about it and now it stays clean! We laugh about it now but it’s real! Breaking up over chores is 100% facts not to mention stressful.
Sometimes, it's OK to just say,"I don't know," instead of acting like you know things. Hearing this pearl woman talk with no related experience is sad.
The problem with that though, is she also has a habit of putting out a statement then immediately following it up with, "I don't know though" or "I'm just asking questions". So alot of times when she gets push back, she won't even own what she actually said, and just uses that as a fall back plan.
Her comparing living with siblings and living with someone you met and have to adjust to living with is crazy. Your parents condition your siblings to put up with you, while someone outside that circle and being your current roommate would not be trained to have such tolerance for your particular living habits.
Aba and preach always make my day lol
If I as a wife am working outside the house the same amount of hours as my husband, then have to come home and make dinner, clean up after, take care of the children, help with homework etc. I am gong to be exhausted and not have the energy or time to be intimate with my partner. I am going to start to resent him for not helping me and all that shit is going to fill a void between us that is eventually going to end a marriage or make it a miserable one. Marriage is hard but it should not be exhausting or a constant fight.
That's why we pull the load together..
Aba sent her to the shadow realm
Nah she got sent to oblivion. The daedra are grateful for the sacrifice 😂
@@WesgVick She gonna have to do a quest for Molag Bal to get out of there
That's her problem. She says things without thinking before she talks and then when someone points it out she tries to back track and say oh i didn't say that or mean it in that way. Well you did
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She's an idiot. She loves sprouting data with no effort or thought into it, but want to give her opinion on the matter. It's calls lazy research.
Yoooo we are watching a reaction to a reaction to a reaction of a video of a reaction 😆 😄 🤣 😂 we are deep into the inception now😂! Someone spin a top for me lol 😅😅
😂 right
Marriage can be hard if every person doesnt want to chip in or only one trying to make it work and the other person just slacking.
When he said “ you sexy thing with that spatula in your hand…” I damn near shot water out of my nose 🤦♀️😂😂😂
😂😂😂
5:34 not only is that study weird, why tf would anyone even want an answer to that question? Let people do there damn chores. JustDeludedThings
She cherry picked a 19 year old study to frame opinion as fact.
"Deluded" 😭⚰️
I think the correct response would be:
"Marriage isn't always going to be easy. It takes work."
Marriage requires effort. But, do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life!
Finally someone speaking about this, I’ve always wondered why she talks so much for someone who’s never actually experienced a relationship
Aba’s “Sneako” and “Just lonely Things” jab was perfect, Preach’s reaction was priceless.
Aba and Preach always hit…even when they miss.
the whole point of marriage is to lighten each other's load. Shared responsibility. can't be lopsided
I remembered I was in a relationship with someone. He earned more money than me but still wanted me to pay half the bills. He also wouldn't clean up or do anything unless I basically screamed at him. He left all the dishes for me, Piles of dirty laundry all over the floor, Wouldn't Ever cook for me even though he got off work three hours before I did. I worked in a warehouse lifting fifty pound bags of dog food for eleven hours. When he would wait for me to get home to drive us to go pick up fast food. He would get mad at me because I would start eating my food right away because I was hungry. He would tell me, "Why don't you ever just wait till we get home. " Eventually it just weighed me down and burnt me out. I left because I couldn't do it anymore. I looked in the mirror and I realized that. If I didn't finally put myself first he was never going to.
Reminds me of a certain ex... I realized he just substituted me for his mother. Maybe that's the specimen you were dealing with.
Here's my question: if Pearl is such a catch and has such a level head, why is there no ring? You'd think if she really thought all this, someone would have picked her up by now
I sincerely hope @justpearlythings finds the kind of man she's describing. The one that won't help out with chore and will leave the marriage while she remains married
You get married to have a partner, not to be their slave or maid..... yes, I do most of the housework because my husband has a much harder job, but that doesn't mean he should do nothing at all. Hell, I even helped him mow our pasture for 2 hours over the weekend to cut his time in half. Help each other. DUH.
As soon as she said “women make pregnancy a big deal, a dog can do it” I didn’t like her no more. She has no idea what she’s talking about.
girl has no empathy or emotions, probably lost them early on because daddy just paid or did the other stuff that her mom mentioned, but actually being there for her was not on the plate
She said what??? I've had three children. It's a big fucking deal. Why does this bish just hate women so much? It's bizarre.
You can tell she's never lived a mildly blue collar life. She always talks about her rich family and thinks it is relateable to the average people. Sad
A single for life talking about marriage. Kinda envious of how confidently wrong she is.
That’s why I love Aba n Preach man. Completely based in reality. Even if I’m paying for everything, I’d never expect the woman I love to clean up all my messes. We in this together.
Just lonely things😂😂😂. Love it. I’m here for it. ❤❤
I have 9 siblings and it's true we took care of each other a lot. We had mom and dad but a lot of times us girls would talk to each other but I can tell you I was glad I was not my oldest sister we always needed her
The chores thing has never been an issue for me because I've always been a very clean person. Clutter drives me insane, so much that I can't even give a sidelong glance at my wife's makeup table without feeling a way.
Good!!
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I relate to the clutter it makes everything a mess. I do a quick clean every week on my days off for dust cause it makes me sneeze a lot so my place is always immaculate by choice. A clean space for me is also relaxing .
This video was like Inception lol different perspective reacting to A&P reacting to pearl reacting to A&P
I know from personal experience that couples should not stay together for the children my childhood was absolutely miserable because I was raised in a loveless marriage. My husband and I have an agreement that if one's working the other takes care of the house and kids. Now that neither of us can work we both take care of the house. A marriage requires you to work on it but that doesn't make it hard. Their are hardships in any relationships but if it's constantly hard then you need to look at if it's worth staying. This woman just doesn't know what she's talking about.
Yeah, that's why I hate that RP pushes that agenda. There's a reason most folks don't follow the all or nothing mindset anymore. The child goes out into the world with complexes and misunderstandings about what love is and should be. Then their left wondering why certain types of ppl don't gravitate toward them.
@@Ladybug-no9sc true. It took my husband years to get it through my head that love isn't beating on the weaker person. That man has the patience of a saint because I put him through hell when we 1st married. Almost 26 yrs and 3 kids, 2 adult and 1 that passed, later and we're still going strong. Now our kids won't settle for anything less than what we have and I'm proud of them for sticking to their morals in this world.
Justlonelythings is not just lonely in her house,shes also lonely in her head
I am not married yet, but coming from a person who has been in the same consistently stable relationship for 5 years, best advice I can give to anyone is don't change a thing unless your spouse says something is truly a problem. It's okay to transform but make sure your spouse doesn't have an issue with who you are already.
Just lonely things is the perfect example of “let ‘em talk they’ll make a fool of themselves”
Oh I lived with a man in the past and he was verbally abusing me nonstop it was the worse thing ever. I will never ever do that again. No one should ever settle with drama like cheating and any form of abuse. Again, I lived that nightmare. Thank goodness I got 💩 together and never looked back.
14 facts!!!!!!!!!
I left a 20 year relationship and that was the straw for me
Single people have so much to say about relationships but have none. Talk to me after 20!years of marriage and three kids.
As someone who’s experienced actual burnout - chores are important …
I think there's points on both sides, but Abba and Preach don't miss lol... if everyone does their part the marriage/relationship will be a long happy one
See thats the problem u say they don't miss right ?but nobody,s perfect so please explain that ?
what points in pearl side?
Men look forward to cutting their yard once every 2-4 weeks. Nobody looks forward to cleaning a toilet lol
Her examples are so childish 🙄 she has no real relationship experiences. It's very comical 😂
Every relationship guru I've seen on TH-cam has never been in a healthy relationship 🤣
Why is the study in Madrid/Spain?? 🤔 Her audience is in the United States...🤷🤦
Not JustLonelyThings😂😂😂😂😂😂
The study she's using is not only 30-years old, but it's also surveyed people from Spain a completely different culture from ours. Plus, the people surveyed where over 40 in the 90's so it's also a completely different generation from today. I'm over 40 now and most 40-something women today grow-up with men doing chores and more work around the house than the people surveyed because in 1960 Spain, real men weren't supposed to do housework.
Now I gotta gawk gawk every time my hubby cleans to prove just single things wrong.
I love my fiance to death but chores are something we have to discuss often because we grew up with women doing all the chores and father making all the money. But since I work full time and go to school I have to ask him to put in his share at home even though it's foreign to him.
I'm sorry but that's crazy she literally said "im questioning whether my dad loves me" and her mother basically said "but he pays for your things."
Like sure that's cool, but money and paying for things can't beat quality time with your parents.
The irony is how much men & even Pearly talk about "providing should be enough". It's not & even she knows it!
That Just Lonely Things pun is hilarious lol.
This is why I teach my 5 boys to date with a purpose. They are being raised to know what their duties most likely should/will be as a Husband and Father. They also know the duties their wife/mother of their children should be fulfilling. If they dont want that, fine but we are showing our 5 boys by prime example, upclose what a womans and mans duties are and why they work so damn well. Nothing like having security, nuture, friendship, happiness and *PEACE* ❤❤
I get 'depression is just in your head vibes' from Pearl. I grew up in a big family, all boys and I'm the only girl. My brothers naturally would come ask me about how to do laundry or ask for food if my mom wasn't at home at that moment. If you are not married, do not tell me what a marriage should look like.
Omgosh was waiting for you to react to this 😂😂😂 you laughing along with Aba and Preach makes it 10 times funnier 🤣🤣🤣
Pearl let Bruce Bruce hit it 😂
She grew up in a mansion with nannies and maids. Her daddy bank rolls her life. She has no idea what ‘real world’ means…😂
She gives out so much relationship advice for someone who can’t keep one 🥴
That’s study was from 92-94 btw. 🤦🏿♂️
This video lets you sit back and realize most of the people on both sides of the debate (males and females) talking about what guys want when dating and women want when dating. Are not in a solid long term relationship.
She's going down in flames 🔥
The "study" pearly red was done in early 90's 😂 but it was the one backing her up..😅
There's a piece of me that appreciates how little you commented on their video and it speaks to how much you and I agree 😅
When Pearls Channel first came out she made some good points. But I think she’s gotten a big head because her channel got so big so fast and she had a bunch of men telling her she’s right all the time, some of her stuff has gone off the rails. It’s hard to take advice from someone who doesn’t have what she’s preaching.
I love Aba n Preach. I’m happy to see you reacting to their content.
3:01 "Do you know how spoiled we are"
Pearl's a rich kid who's Dad owns a mansion. She's can't be talking about other people.
#JustShinyThings
Pearl pulled a study from 30 years ago 😆😆😆😆 girl how far back did you go page 146 of google
She prayed and the side chick died? Hmmm this must've been a lil bit before decent autopsies. 😆
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
JustPearl pulled out stats from 20B.C.
She said marriage is supposed to be hard.
1. No it's not necessarily
2. Why does the marriage have to be harder for one person and a lazy Sunday afternoon all day, every day for the other person? That's not a partnership or marriage; that's a servant.
She lives in a ten bedroom
Mansion with her parents still - probably with staff - her studio etc was paid for by her parents - also do you notice the mammy aesthetic she has on “wife school” ??
I'm sorry but if a man leaves me for another woman God gonna have to forgive me I'm divorcing and taking the kids too 😭
The study that she used was for couples in their mid 40s they gen X they have a different perspective on gender roles. Not exactly "pre wall women"
This is actually the same as receiving child rearing advice from old maids that are dried up and never had any kids 😑
She has no real life experience
I wonder how many people have unsubscribed since that one episode with Fuentes...
Advice coming feom someone whonjas NEVER EVER!!!! been married. F******* awesome😅😅😅😅He said just lonely things over here with NO MAN !!!!
You should immediately drop anyone who says something stupid or makes a mistake. Oh, wait. That's everyone.
Who the hell is taking advice from this girl 😭
Her 1 million plus subscribers
JustLonelyThings is the sickest burn I have heard in a long time! 😂🔥
Uh oh is the leader of the manoshpere (pearl) displaying sign language. Mainly the need to be right
Naha! A man doing chores is Hot, a man doing chores with you or for you.... Damn! I'm a jump that on da spot! 🔥🔥🔥
I'd sooner listen to Preach about marriage than Pearl. Preach is actually married and has been for years. Pearl is a chameleon, I've been saying it for a while.
Bro took me out when he said Just Single things 😂
My 8th anniversary was just yesterday. Word of advice? Don't take listen to relationship advice from people that 1) don't know you both AND 2) Aren't happily married.
Damn it, I feel like I should be laughing 😂
I am sick and tired of hearing women who are not married give advise.