I just pray she’s being told to be like that otherwise the bridal party should never this optionated! The constant theme I I’m seeing u in a the bride being so passive!
Her face after the bride put on a veil looked as if she was jealous that the bride and not her was the center of attention; and the bitchy remark at the end about picking the bridesmaids dress. Little Miss Fashion degree needs to shut up and sit down.
I was trying to read up on her to see if she was still friends with that monster Kayla, and when I found her page, my heart broke. She got COVID while she was pregnant with her second baby, went into pre-term labor and her little boy died a few weeks later. She just had her rainbow baby. She seems like the sweetest girl ever, truly a warrior. (and she clearly deserves better than the shitty friend who made picking out a wedding dress a nightmare)
OMD that’s absolutely terrible 😢 the poor poor girl. She does seem lovely & that’s a very unfair thing to happen to her. Life can be truly cruel sometimes
@@kiriforever1 Don't be sorry about a rainbow baby. A rainbow baby is the one who came after tthe previous baby's passing. The rainbow baby is a celebration!
Right! When she was all I'm gonna have a big part in picking her dress. Like mam this is not your wedding. Also, saying you're a fashion guru, like fashion is subjective and personal. Everyone has a different style
I'm surprised randy didn't say anything to her. When its your turn to pick a dress you and your fashion degree(she said in school meaning not have it yet) can have whatever you desire.
This whole clip is basically just her friend thinking she’s entitled to have complete control over what dress she picks. And I for sure know she isn’t the one who’s paying.
@@chanellethomas6886 that’s a toxic “friend” and if she wanted lace then they could both have lace, it’s not like she was the first person to think of a lace dress on her wedding day 🤷🏾♀️
Monte is still my favorite. He's great. He has the BEST glare. "I WILL be picking the bridesmaid dresses" with the music in the background had me chuckling a little.
Kayla is no one’s friend. She seems to think the world revolves around her. The bride stood up for the dress she wanted. Let’s hope she stands up later and gets rid of this woman in her circle of friends.
_“This was a good mixture of what I want and what you wanted”_ Well hate to break it to you missy, but what you want doesn’t matter cause it’s not your wedding.
Definitely that or she just wants to be the highlight of the appointment on tv.its not her day its the brides she needs to step back.im glad the bride stood her ground.im a bridal stylist and sadly there's alot of people that act that way.
She's furious that can't bully her friend into doing whatever she says. I bet she actually hates the fact that her friend is getting married at all, but especially before HER!
No, I don't think it had anything to do with jealousy. I think it was more she's a control freak and likes to have complete control over every situation.
"I just don't want her twenty years down the road looking at photos to think 'oh my gosh what was I thinking?' She won't. She'll look at her wedding pictures,see you as her bridesmaid, and think, "oh my gosh what was I thinking?"
but like......... that friend acts as if she’s the only one who knows something about fashion😭 the bride clearly also has got her own taste look how pretty she looks. she looks so sweet why is she friends with her
i'm sure the mother and sisters are well aware of the appendage, and chose to not add to the drama. like who the hell cares if you have a fashion degree? all the bride has to do is to choose a dress that SHE likes.
"This is a good mixture between what you want and what I want" Um excuse me??? It doesn't have to be a mixture at all! It's HER wedding, it's entirely about what SHE wants.
this exactly what I’ve been thinking. All these vids always end in the bride compromising over HER wedding dress like she shouldn’t have to please anyone else
I actually really like the one she picked out. I think all of them were very flattering on her. I personally liked her bridesmaid pick and the second one more than the one the bride chose. But they all looked stunning on her, she just has that perfect shape, that would look good in any dress
I actually liked the one she picked out better than the one the bride did... and no I’m not saying that to inflate her ego is just that it really did suit the bride good. However the bride 👰🏼 is the one getting married obviously it should be her choice. This happened to my friend Sarah she had to abandon the dress she liked for the one her mother in law was pushing on her....just because she was pitching around with the wedding costs.
I would never be so rude at a friends bridal appointment! It is not HER wedding it is the bride’s wedding! You are there to support the bride not tell her what YOU think she should wear. 🤬
I know right! And then when she had the nerve to say the second dress was half of what she wanted and a half of what the friend wanted like getting a dress for your wedding should be a compromise.
@@stefanie_irl Fashion student should also create new style of fashion instead of just wearing the same boring style. Kayla is bossy and although she's a fashion student doesn't mean Jenny needs to listen to her opinion . Also Kayla's outfit doesn't even look fashionable for a fashion student .
@@ruelollie7739 Jenny definitely doesn’t need to deal with those kinds of “friends”, she should stand up for herself. All I said was that I don’t think a fashion student in general has to dress a certain way just because they’re a fashion student
I’ve heard this advice from brides, or the advice to go alone and get it down to two or three that you love and have a small group come back with you to pick between them
I bought my dress by myself 50 years ago. Husband thought I looked amazing. Everyone was surprised. And the price was very reasonable because it was on a mannikin in the store window. It needed no alterations.
Does anyone else see the way the bride’s face lit up when she wore that last dress? Her smile was so big and genuine, you could tell that dress was made for her. The friend was awful for not respecting the brides wishes despite how happy she was.
Yes - I noticed how excited she was with the last dress. The last was stunning and it was so beautiful on her! I was happy that she finally stood up to Kayla.
The bride had a vision of herself in lace with a sweetheart neckline. The floral three dimensional flowers with bling were PERFECT for her petite body Her eyes were twinkling and her smile was HUGE as she swept out in her gown. Bridal fashion is often about dreams and visions in a way that no other fashion is. As a seamstress and designer and costumer, I have studied countless fashion plates from all cultures and eras to create accurate recreations. I love the exploration of bridal fashion. My marriiage did not work out at all. However, it never stops me from liking watching and viewing and creating. That so called friend, thought she knew it all because she was dabbling in fashion, which of course, means that everything sweet and old fashioned gets thrown out of the window as they seek for attention getting chic design.
The bride looks like Rachel mcadams she’s absolutely stunning I usually see comments on other videos complimenting the bride so I’m surprised there wasn’t more on this one
Yess that’s what I was thinking! She looks identical to Allie from the note book. That sweet and innocent cute look. She’s absolutely stunning, I honestly think he friend was jealous of her. I was scrolling down the comments to see if anyone else saw how similar she looks to Rachel mcadams!
@@dyI723 she was nasty, her eyes said it all they had so much hatred in them. Not only that but she herself got married in lace. She just wanted to make sure the bride didn’t pick lace Bc she was saving it for herself. She was so mad, Bc people would think she copied the bride.
"I'm gonna have a big part in picking out her dress" ????????????? okay, who says you get the final say in a dress that you won't be wearing?? IT IS NOT YOUR WEDDING! You are only there for opinion and support, it dosen't mean the bride has to choose what you choose, The bride could easily come by herself to pick out her dress, feel lucky that she let you come along.
I wish the mom would have spoken up for her daughter or about how she wants her daughter to be happy. But atleast glad,the bride stood up for her ownself!
2:41 Damn that murderous look had me fearing for the brides life. Then mine when she LOOKED AT THE CAMERA! Edit:OMG I’ve never gotten so many likes! It’s also funny to see that we’re in the same “holy crap she looked at my soul” boat! Thanks you guys!
@@glitter_smack016 To be fair, her dress was 3D lace appliqués which is a bit different to the straight all over lace & it was actually a beautiful dress that looked stunning on her. But that doesn’t excuse her death stares & arrogant behaviour towards this bride & her supposed friend. And the rest of her “fashionista” taste is god awful with garish patterns, ruffle dresses with puffy sleeves 😳
That scene was copied and pasted from a scene when we we're looking at the dresses in the actual boutique. The dress I was referring to did actually look like a doily and wasn't selected for Jenny to try on. The show is heavily edited. I did not feel the way they made me look regarding Jenny's dress.
@@CDNHoneybee The reason she is not showing remorse is because she did not behave the way the producers made her look. These shows prompt participants to say things and edit clips together to create a story. There is no telling what kind of facial expressions a camera may find on me while sitting around in that boutique long enough to film this appointment. From behind the scenes stories I have seen before, they are much longer than the typical appointment.The ones of us who watch, love to inflate our own egos by making snap judgments about people we don't know at all. I confess I do that too.
@@joyfuljaj I do agree with you in some cases and you phrased it accurately and very well 😀💯👍 BUT only in some cases. I’m a very fair gal who gives the benefit of the doubt and overly forgives. I rarely to never respond to videos on TH-cam. BUT I can clearly see Kayla is a narcissist. You should see the other comments on this video too. Most people are intelligent with good hearts and do not make snap judgements. So I can with confidence say that this Kayla gal is pretentious and narcissistic. I sadly read people well. It’s a blessing and a curse. Even when Kayla was talking about her expertise in fashion it’s clear the show was not edited sneakily for that part. Kayla was blatantly snobby, had attitude with the-I’m better than everyone else pretentiousness. The jealous/awful energy flows from her with or without editing for that part. Sadly I know all too well people like Kayla 👎🏻 I still hope and pray that somehow Jenny moves on from her. Even the bride Jenny said in this video that Kayla can be intimidating, is a fashion diva and pretty much has to get her way. So the truth is still there about Kayla. My one group of friends warmly call our friend Lori- “A fashion and interior design guru” and we respect her and admire her. Not once has anyone said she is intimidating or a diva. The term diva is very bad and an insult trust me. So Kayla is not little miss innocent
this is tv. it's not accurate, it's entertainment. they intentionally create fake drama. if you listen to clips of people talking on this show sometimes it sounds like they're cutting between each word.
6:06 Creepy music starts playing ... " I may not have picked for Jenny's wedding day, but I will be picking the bride's maid dress." ... Excuse me sweetie, but you ain't picking anything until you have your own wedding day.
The producers made me say that. I actually had no say in selecting the bridesmaids dresses and loved what Jenny picked out for us to wear. I also didn't hate Jenny's dress, I loved it ! Reality tv is rarely "reality". Had I known they were going to make me out to look like the devil, I would have never agreed to be on the show.
@@kaylabrewer1025 Don't let it get to you! Think of it this way: For these brief moments, you played a part and played it well, even if you didn't totally consent to it... unfortunately. But all the ire here in the comments is actually directed at the character you're, in a sense, playing, and all the people here who are so very upset... probably found this story entertaining. A character they love to hate, so to speak. Sorry if this still isn't too encouraging, I know I would hate to be in this situation myself, and it really sucks. But I guarantee, anyone you meet in real life won't be thinking of an old clip from a TV show. Even if they saw this video, they've probably forgotten it, and if they haven't, I bet they'd give you the benefit of the doubt in person.
But she had to have said those things & given those death stares for them to be able to use them 🤷♀️ The editors no doubt over emphasise them, but the raw material is all her & that’s scary & no true friend! And the fact the bride said she found her intimidating says everything
The fact no one said anything to her drove me crazy. Jenny stand up for urself. . . When "friends" are controlling and manipulative, theyre not true friends!
y‘all see how the bride smiles when she‘s wearing the 2nd and 3rd dress, her face just showed what she liked best. The bride should always choose her dress
"I don't want her getting a dress that twenty years down the road she's gonna think 'what was I thinking?'" Honestly who cares ? As long as it was the perfect dress for her at the time what does it matter. It's no different to seeing your mum's dress from the 80s with the massive puffed sleeves and satin. Clearly this is about winning, not about what looks good. Her face when the bride went against her lol
If the bride let the friend words cause her decision on picking her dress, she will think that after 20 years. If she pick her favourite dream dress she still like it even after 40, 60 or even more years.
We are all going to look back in 20 years and think our wedding dresses looked ridiculous! Styles change! Wedding dress styles come and go and what we love now it’s definitely not gonna be anything great in 20 years from now
I have read the comments and they are insanely hurtful and damaging. The show was filmed in 2012 and was heavily scripted and edited to make me look like an insane, narcissistic individual. I promise I am not that person. Had I known that I was going to be made out to be the diva, I would have never agreed to be on the show.
Kayla has a lot to learn - empathy, consideration, tact, boundaries, and how to create her own happiness without controlling others or bringing down their happiness. Perhaps, after Kayla graduates, she can start her own bridal couture company and someday get married in whatever gown she chooses. But today is Jenny's day to pick the wedding dress that makes her happy. Hopefully, Kayla will learn how to respect other people's boundaries on focus on supporting their happiness instead of meeting her needs through trying to control them.
Did anyone else notice that the fashion diva “friend” who didn’t like the dress, was the first to run up and hug the bride after she said “yes”??? Wow...
I've been reading comments about the girl, like "oh, she's my friend, she's not mean, I know her..." but, the simple fact that she had a harsh and hurtfuls opinions about the dresses the bride picked, is awful; you have no manners
I don't know why she even thought she had a choice. Not your wedding. "I don't want her to look back 20 years down the line and think she made a mistake" umm but then she'll be looking back 20 years down the line regretting not getting a lace dress that she wanted. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
The bride looks a lot like Rachel McAdams!! Her "fashionista" friend needed to take a chill pill, she was so rude!! Her expressions made me dislike her even more!
Hahah nobody has ever said it before but I think that every time. I would just say Kayla pity you’re breadth of opinion isn’t as wide as your chin haha
The looks on the face of that petty child when her demands were not catered to... I loved when her smile died in the end when the bride almost told her to put a sock in it. That's a toxic friendship if I ever seen one, y'all. And she was jealous.
too bad she doesn't have a degree in having good manners
best comment
And she needs a makeover
lol nice one
Yeah, what’s wrong with that Southern girl? She gives us a bad name!
And all God’s children said, “Amen.”
Her 'friend's' face when she doesn't like something is murderous!
Yes, like the devil.
Right!
It's funny
Pretty sure that was in the editing - that's how all these shows are.
OMG, same
“Lord help me the only thing worse than a fashion diva is a fashion diva with a degree”
Cuts to Monty
🤣
Fashion diva with a fashion degreee 😂
“class of ‘19 🎓”
💀💀💀💀
@@conphused 19 ummmmm
Like the saying goes, "With a friend like this, who needs enemies." So glad the bride stood up for herself since it is her wedding.
Takes her degree a little too seriously.She has a looong way to go to learn about CUSTOMER SERVICE in her chosen field.
When your “friends” are intimidating you, it’s time to get new friends.
I thought that was her sister till I went back and checked.
I could not agree more.
Agreed
Agree
So true
The way the friend's face changed when the bride said she still wanted lace.
It was edited
I just pray she’s being told to be like that otherwise the bridal party should never this optionated! The constant theme I I’m seeing u in a the bride being so passive!
Her face after the bride put on a veil looked as if she was jealous that the bride and not her was the center of attention; and the bitchy remark at the end about picking the bridesmaids dress. Little Miss Fashion degree needs to shut up and sit down.
I’m betting a lot of this is scripted, cause why is the bridal party or other members of family so optionated!! Rating!
THE WAY SHE STARES INTO THE CAMERA I CANT SHDBHEKD
They should have a second show called “it’s not your damn wedding”
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Bruh 🤣 🤣 😭 👏 👏 👏
I was trying to read up on her to see if she was still friends with that monster Kayla, and when I found her page, my heart broke. She got COVID while she was pregnant with her second baby, went into pre-term labor and her little boy died a few weeks later. She just had her rainbow baby.
She seems like the sweetest girl ever, truly a warrior. (and she clearly deserves better than the shitty friend who made picking out a wedding dress a nightmare)
Cried till I had hiccups reading the update. I hope she's doing well. 🙏
I am so sorry she had a rainbow baby; but I am glad she survived and will raise her other children.
OMD that’s absolutely terrible 😢 the poor poor girl. She does seem lovely & that’s a very unfair thing to happen to her. Life can be truly cruel sometimes
@@kiriforever1 Don't be sorry about a rainbow baby. A rainbow baby is the one who came after tthe previous baby's passing. The rainbow baby is a celebration!
@@maryk7272 what does a rainbow baby mean?
Who cares what the friend wants. It isn't her wedding. She isn't paying for it.
Literally what I was thinking
So called friend is JEALOUS..
Exaclty
Exactly. The "I want" doesn't belong. It's NOT her wedding.
When she said “I’m just not a big fan of lace” I literally screamed it’s not your wedding!!! She’s so jealous.
Yeah, she’s jealous. Her face said it all. She’s no true friend at all.
Funny thing is she got married in lace. She lied to this girl looking her in the eye because she wanted to wear the same thing at her wedding
tbh felt like she picked the most unflattering dress for her cause she was jealous 👀
SAME my mom was like who r u talking too..
me: trash...
@@tarynlutz2761 I can’t believe a man actually married her lol Her personality is truly awful.
This isn’t about her, it’s not her wedding dress. She doesn’t get to choose.
Right👁👄👁
Yes
You talking about the fashions diva ? If so , then yes !
Right! When she was all I'm gonna have a big part in picking her dress. Like mam this is not your wedding. Also, saying you're a fashion guru, like fashion is subjective and personal. Everyone has a different style
I'm surprised randy didn't say anything to her. When its your turn to pick a dress you and your fashion degree(she said in school meaning not have it yet) can have whatever you desire.
This whole clip is basically just her friend thinking she’s entitled to have complete control over what dress she picks. And I for sure know she isn’t the one who’s paying.
She clearly HATES the fact that her friend is getting married and she's not.
Exactly
And may never get married with her personality.
Exactly she's jealous of her own friend that's crazy
@@2snowgirl520 exactly
That was my FIRST thought too.
Jealous judgemental "friend".
"I still want lace"
*horror movie death stare*
She’s so fucking jealous and for what 💀🤚🏾
😂
@@heartz4kimmy She later got married in a lace dress. My guess is she wanted it for her wedding and tried to sabotage the bride 🤦♀️
yeah wtf was that abt
@@chanellethomas6886 that’s a toxic “friend” and if she wanted lace then they could both have lace, it’s not like she was the first person to think of a lace dress on her wedding day 🤷🏾♀️
Not sure why someone would have a “friend” such as that gal. Kudos to the bride for sticking up for herself.
Really got mean girl vibes more then that's my best friend vibes
You’d be surprised how well women like her friend are good at manipulating people
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What a chunter
Monte is still my favorite. He's great. He has the BEST glare.
"I WILL be picking the bridesmaid dresses" with the music in the background had me chuckling a little.
There should be like a big sign in these shops for friends and family that says:
"Remember, you are not the bride"
I think that should be number 1 priority
Lol that would be amazing!😂
And told if they make the bride cry they are to leave. Period.
That's a superb idea.
Or “Remember who the bride is”
Most of the escorts I see on this show should stay home...
I cringe SO hard at some of these escorts. It not your wedding!
You said a mouth full!
EXACTLY!
The reason it seems like that is because they mostly put the “drama filled” appointments on the show 😂
@@baileyc563 hah it does seem like that ye 😂 but the poor brides...
Finally a bride who stands up for herself
Ya :p
Not only that, she picked the best one!! She looked gorgeous 😍😍
Lori wasn't playing around when she pulled that!!
Cake Diva yep
Kayla is no one’s friend. She seems to think the world revolves around her. The bride stood up for the dress she wanted. Let’s hope she stands up later and gets rid of this woman in her circle of friends.
Finally
Jenny is lovely. What a smile. She lights up the room. Her dress is absolutely perfect.
_“This was a good mixture of what I want and what you wanted”_
Well hate to break it to you missy, but what you want doesn’t matter cause it’s not your wedding.
That comment just floored me. She could kiss my bun
Exactly
What does that nasty broad thinks (it's all about her)?
''The only thing that this dress has in common with what Jenny likes is that it's white!"😁😂
I literally read that as he said it!😂
@@emilyesnyman I can't believe this but same happened to me😨😨😂😂😂😂
v f Monty is a mood all by himself.
Emily Snyman same
Same
Maybe it's just me, but the friend seemed jealous of the bride.
Before i read your comment i said the same thing when the camera showed on the friend's face
Definitely that or she just wants to be the highlight of the appointment on tv.its not her day its the brides she needs to step back.im glad the bride stood her ground.im a bridal stylist and sadly there's alot of people that act that way.
She's furious that can't bully her friend into doing whatever she says. I bet she actually hates the fact that her friend is getting married at all, but especially before HER!
Ya I think she jealous
No, I don't think it had anything to do with jealousy. I think it was more she's a control freak and likes to have complete control over every situation.
The friends face dropping when the bride said “Kayla I like this dress” u can clearly tell the pure jealousy and the want to rule her friends life
"I just don't want her twenty years down the road looking at photos to think 'oh my gosh what was I thinking?'
She won't. She'll look at her wedding pictures,see you as her bridesmaid, and think, "oh my gosh what was I thinking?"
Lol
Bridesmaid will be on marriage 3 by then.......
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Exactly
my thoughts exactly. If she even remembers what her name is - I would guess they won't stay friends in the future.
That so called “ friend “ is a NIGHTMARE!!!! And she literally looks like she’s about to cry at the end !!!! 🤣
Friend wore lace to her own wedding that's why
It’s edited a lot, and if you actually look at everybody’s reaction when she’s saying yes to the dress she’s actually smiling
Yes that deep swallow says it wasn't acting.
but like......... that friend acts as if she’s the only one who knows something about fashion😭 the bride clearly also has got her own taste look how pretty she looks. she looks so sweet why is she friends with her
Sounds like they’ve been friends for a long time
Yes she had her own taste. She looked so cute!
The brides pick was so much better
I lost it when her friend went from all smiles to pissed, and then gave the side eye to the camera.😂😂😂
If Kayla is this cotrolling over a dress, imagine how controlling she is in general..
Also the fact that she hates lace yet she wore lace to her wedding lol
@@shytomat0 someone actually married her?!
@@lavenderbythestream1736 sadly.
They are still friends after 9 years…
@@lavenderbythestream1736 I give it 3 years max.
2:45 “but... I’m not a big fan of lace”
But... it isn’t your wedding.
Come see ur likes
She literally got married in lace herself lmao
exactly
20 years down the line she's not gonna regret her dress, but this toxic friend in her life.
Don't go too far with the accusations, this show is obviously play
Exactly
No u can see it in her face! Plus the words she was saying
Right, exactly what I was saying!
If this show has taught me anything, it’s that the only person I will bring with me when I go dress shopping is my mom.
Sometimes that’s the problem too 😂
Why are they even considering her friends choice? They should consult her mother and sisters if they want others opinions
Yeah, they didn't even ask the mom😅
They should really only consult the bride. Her opinion matters MOST!
i'm sure the mother and sisters are well aware of the appendage, and chose to not add to the drama. like who the hell cares if you have a fashion degree? all the bride has to do is to choose a dress that SHE likes.
Yh like if i was getting married my momma's opinion matters the most lmao 😭
Some ppl don't want to or cannot bring their parent and that's ok
When she says “I’m not a big fan of lace” I’m sitting here thinking “oh yeah? Well I’m not a big fan of that mean o’l snarky face”
Definitely a snarky face....
I would have said MAAM THIS AIN'T YOUR WEDDING!!!
It was like a switch had flicked to bossy mode!
snarky is not the first word that comes to mind for that annoying, rude, over-confident, jealous, little girl…
"This is a good mixture between what you want and what I want" Um excuse me??? It doesn't have to be a mixture at all! It's HER wedding, it's entirely about what SHE wants.
Came to the comments just for this!
I was looking for this comment! But seriously, what her "friend" said made no sense. Like what she wants doesn't really matter.
Well, Thats what she said about the groom!
this exactly what I’ve been thinking. All these vids always end in the bride compromising over HER wedding dress like she shouldn’t have to please anyone else
I adore this consultant. She is such a huge sweetheart and must be protected at all cost
i like how the girl with a fashion “degree” picked out the most unflattering dress. 😂
I actually really like the one she picked out. I think all of them were very flattering on her. I personally liked her bridesmaid pick and the second one more than the one the bride chose. But they all looked stunning on her, she just has that perfect shape, that would look good in any dress
Katherine Howes exactly😊
I actually looked up her Instagram, and she actually wore a lace gown to her wedding 🙄
I actually liked the one she picked out better than the one the bride did... and no I’m not saying that to inflate her ego is just that it really did suit the bride good. However the bride 👰🏼 is the one getting married obviously it should be her choice. This happened to my friend Sarah she had to abandon the dress she liked for the one her mother in law was pushing on her....just because she was pitching around with the wedding costs.
I think she was jealous from hrr frnd hahaahaha
Her expressions alone gives away that she has a very controlling personality.
She won't get married or engaged ever if she doesn't change her ways
she calls lace tacky but i bet she wears lace lingerie and say its amazing
@@Yumisa08 she wore a lace wedding dress to her own wedding after calling it tacky
@@FaerieLoki Seriously? Where did u find that out
@𝙵𝚊𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎 was gonna say she probably didnt want her friend to get a lace dress cuz she wanted it for hers.
I would never be so rude at a friends bridal appointment! It is not HER wedding it is the bride’s wedding! You are there to support the bride not tell her what YOU think she should wear. 🤬
I know right! And then when she had the nerve to say the second dress was half of what she wanted and a half of what the friend wanted like getting a dress for your wedding should be a compromise.
It is so obviously staged to create the drama
Consultant Melissa is such a nice, patient and sweet woman.
that girl be like "i'm really into fashion and am a fashion student" and then wears a dress that was last popular in 2012
So? Fashion students still have their own sense of fashion and don’t have to wear whatever is popular at the moment if it’s not their style at all.
@@stefanie_irl are you defending her!?!?
@@stefanie_irl Fashion student should also create new style of fashion instead of just wearing the same boring style. Kayla is bossy and although she's a fashion student doesn't mean Jenny needs to listen to her opinion . Also Kayla's outfit doesn't even look fashionable for a fashion student .
@@molliekate11 I’m obviously not defending her as a person, I was only commenting on the fashion thing, calm down
@@ruelollie7739 Jenny definitely doesn’t need to deal with those kinds of “friends”, she should stand up for herself. All I said was that I don’t think a fashion student in general has to dress a certain way just because they’re a fashion student
I swear to god, I am going dress shopping alone if I ever get married.
I’ve heard this advice from brides, or the advice to go alone and get it down to two or three that you love and have a small group come back with you to pick between them
I bought my dress by myself 50 years ago. Husband thought I looked amazing. Everyone was surprised. And the price was very reasonable because it was on a mannikin in the store window. It needed no alterations.
Or just skip the dress shopping and get a bespoke one done. Went to a local seamstress and we came up with a design I like and skipped all this drama
Do it! I decided to do that after I got talked out of the prom dress I wanted in high school. Now I'm engaged and sticking to what I said back then
I went by myself-best thing I ever did. And I don’t have awful friends and family like she does.
Does anyone else see the way the bride’s face lit up when she wore that last dress? Her smile was so big and genuine, you could tell that dress was made for her. The friend was awful for not respecting the brides wishes despite how happy she was.
So true
Yes - I noticed how excited she was with the last dress. The last was stunning and it was so beautiful on her! I was happy that she finally stood up to Kayla.
One of the things we need to remember in the show is most of the people highlighted, the brides and the friends are all very young...
@@Justicia007and your point is.....
The bride had a vision of herself in lace with a sweetheart neckline. The floral three dimensional flowers with bling were PERFECT for her petite body Her eyes were twinkling and her smile was HUGE as she swept out in her gown.
Bridal fashion is often about dreams and visions in a way that no other fashion is. As a seamstress and designer and costumer, I have studied countless fashion plates from all cultures and eras to create accurate recreations.
I love the exploration of bridal fashion. My marriiage did not work out at all. However, it never stops me from liking watching and viewing and creating.
That so called friend, thought she knew it all because she was dabbling in fashion, which of course, means that everything sweet and old fashioned gets thrown out of the window as they seek for attention getting chic design.
The bride's smile is just pure and stunning
Why did the friend look at the camera like she was going to kill the bride lmaooo
the office and say yes to the dress mashup 😅
Seriously!!! That stare scared me! Lmao
I'm chocked on my food😭
😂😂😂😂😂
The entourage has a better chance of being on the show when they act like bitches. I believe that is behind a lot of the behavior.
“I just think it’s tacky”. Honey, your attitude is tacky.
This!
Pop off!!
apperantly the "fasion diva" got married in a lace dress LMFAO
100%
"I'm not a big fan of lace" why she busy talkin like she's the bride
And her wedding dress was actually a full-On blush dress
The bride looks like Rachel mcadams she’s absolutely stunning I usually see comments on other videos complimenting the bride so I’m surprised there wasn’t more on this one
You're right; the bride is stunning in every way. Being evil gets more attention, I guess.
Yess that’s what I was thinking! She looks identical to Allie from the note book. That sweet and innocent cute look. She’s absolutely stunning, I honestly think he friend was jealous of her. I was scrolling down the comments to see if anyone else saw how similar she looks to Rachel mcadams!
I thought the same thing.
If you’re a friend, you realize it’s not about you and your wants. It’s about your friend being happy, comfortable, confident and feeling like a star.
Making the opinionated bridesmaid not an ideal friend which will be kicked to the curb one day! Lmfao!
Her friends looks like she’s jealous... She seems like the bully kind of friend who isn’t really a friend
The fashion 'friend' is the kind of woman that will sleep with her husband. She should distance herself from her. 'Friend".
That ìs exactly what I thought.. 😁😆
"Fashion Diva” is not the term I would use to describe her.
"Call me crazy but the only thing this dress has in common with what Jenny wants is that it's white." I am dying! 😂
Her: “I’m not a big fan of lace.”
Also her: Gets married in a lace dress
Really?
@@amirdhavarshney yupp, but she said that the video is edited a bit too much. u can kinda see how a few of her words cut out to another word
Wait how do you know ?
@@brendapagan4545 I haven’t seen it but multiple people have claimed that she’s posted photos on Instagram of her wedding and she was wearing lace
@@dyI723 she was nasty, her eyes said it all they had so much hatred in them. Not only that but she herself got married in lace. She just wanted to make sure the bride didn’t pick lace Bc she was saving it for herself. She was so mad, Bc people would think she copied the bride.
Wow. She's horrible. She's just making very terrible comments.
The look in her eyes pretty much said " you went against me, I'm going to ruin your wedding"
"I'm gonna have a big part in picking out her dress" ????????????? okay, who says you get the final say in a dress that you won't be wearing?? IT IS NOT YOUR WEDDING! You are only there for opinion and support, it dosen't mean the bride has to choose what you choose, The bride could easily come by herself to pick out her dress, feel lucky that she let you come along.
PERIODT
AMEN.
I wish the mom would have spoken up for her daughter or about how she wants her daughter to be happy. But atleast glad,the bride stood up for her ownself!
She may have. These programs are heavily edited.
@@Guernsey576 yeah, could be.
Yeah where was the Mom in all of that. Pretty dress she chose and hunny I don't have a fashion degree but I do know LACE is timeless, not tacky
I love Monte. I about died laughing when he said “I graduated in 19 hm….”. Monte and Lori are amazing.
A+ the the editing team on this episode .. they amped up the friends crazy perfectly it was hilarious
2:41 Damn that murderous look had me fearing for the brides life. Then mine when she LOOKED AT THE CAMERA!
Edit:OMG I’ve never gotten so many likes! It’s also funny to see that we’re in the same “holy crap she looked at my soul” boat!
Thanks you guys!
Same here
I literally gasped and went straight to the comments to see if it was just me, oh my lord she has the look of a murderer 😨
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right! She looked like she was about to blow.
The editing made her look so evil lol
"I'm not a big fan of lace". Then don't wear lace when *you* get married, Pumpkin.
the fact that she diddddd lol
She didn't want to look like she copied her friend because the diva wore lace to her wedding
@@glitter_smack016 To be fair, her dress was 3D lace appliqués which is a bit different to the straight all over lace & it was actually a beautiful dress that looked stunning on her. But that doesn’t excuse her death stares & arrogant behaviour towards this bride & her supposed friend. And the rest of her “fashionista” taste is god awful with garish patterns, ruffle dresses with puffy sleeves 😳
When Kayla said, "You look like a doily," I legit thought Monty was going to kill her. If looks could kill, he would have ended her right there.
That scene was copied and pasted from a scene when we we're looking at the dresses in the actual boutique. The dress I was referring to did actually look like a doily and wasn't selected for Jenny to try on. The show is heavily edited. I did not feel the way they made me look regarding Jenny's dress.
@@CDNHoneybee The reason she is not showing remorse is because she did not behave the way the producers made her look. These shows prompt participants to say things and edit clips together to create a story. There is no telling what kind of facial expressions a camera may find on me while sitting around in that boutique long enough to film this appointment. From behind the scenes stories I have seen before, they are much longer than the typical appointment.The ones of us who watch, love to inflate our own egos by making snap judgments about people we don't know at all. I confess I do that too.
@@joyfuljaj I do agree with you in some cases and you phrased it accurately and very well
😀💯👍 BUT only in some cases. I’m a very fair gal who gives the benefit of the doubt and overly forgives. I rarely to never respond to videos on TH-cam. BUT I can clearly see Kayla is a narcissist. You should see the other comments on this video too. Most people are intelligent with good hearts and do not make snap judgements. So I can with confidence say that this Kayla gal is pretentious and narcissistic. I sadly read people well. It’s a blessing and a curse. Even when Kayla was talking about her expertise in fashion it’s clear the show was not edited sneakily for that part. Kayla was blatantly snobby, had attitude with the-I’m better than everyone else pretentiousness. The jealous/awful energy flows from her with or without editing for that part. Sadly I know all too well people like Kayla 👎🏻 I still hope and pray that somehow Jenny moves on from her. Even the bride Jenny said in this video that Kayla can be intimidating, is a fashion diva and pretty much has to get her way. So the truth is still there about Kayla. My one group of friends warmly call our friend Lori- “A fashion and interior design guru” and we respect her and admire her. Not once has anyone said she is intimidating or a diva. The term diva is very bad and an insult trust me. So Kayla is not little miss innocent
this is tv. it's not accurate, it's entertainment. they intentionally create fake drama. if you listen to clips of people talking on this show sometimes it sounds like they're cutting between each word.
@@CDNHoneybee not you calling someone you don't know a narcissist just because of a *HEAVILY EDITED* show 🤦🏽♀️
her face when she said she still wanted lace was priceless 😂
6:06 Creepy music starts playing ...
" I may not have picked for Jenny's wedding day, but I will be picking the bride's maid dress." ...
Excuse me sweetie, but you ain't picking anything until you have your own wedding day.
The producers made me say that. I actually had no say in selecting the bridesmaids dresses and loved what Jenny picked out for us to wear. I also didn't hate Jenny's dress, I loved it ! Reality tv is rarely "reality". Had I known they were going to make me out to look like the devil, I would have never agreed to be on the show.
@@kaylabrewer1025 Don't let it get to you! Think of it this way: For these brief moments, you played a part and played it well, even if you didn't totally consent to it... unfortunately. But all the ire here in the comments is actually directed at the character you're, in a sense, playing, and all the people here who are so very upset... probably found this story entertaining. A character they love to hate, so to speak. Sorry if this still isn't too encouraging, I know I would hate to be in this situation myself, and it really sucks. But I guarantee, anyone you meet in real life won't be thinking of an old clip from a TV show. Even if they saw this video, they've probably forgotten it, and if they haven't, I bet they'd give you the benefit of the doubt in person.
Her friend was wayyy to domineering when it comes to her friends choices, she literally sounds like a narcissist smh.
Throw the whole girl out.
The people in the editing room really had a field day with this one
it's so noticeable
But she had to have said those things & given those death stares for them to be able to use them 🤷♀️ The editors no doubt over emphasise them, but the raw material is all her & that’s scary & no true friend! And the fact the bride said she found her intimidating says everything
the bride has the most beautiful smile and personality and I love the way she talks about her fiancé
Kayla reminds me of "that friend" who make you ugly just to make them feel pretty
Used to have one like that, we are not friends anymore
Bloody hell she was CRAZY
"I still want lace."
*horror soundtrack, look right at the camera.*
😂😂😂
🤣
Why do people take such "friends" for the most important dress fitting of their life.
Why do they even have such friends at all? Dress or no, what a negative, jealous person.
That dress is timeless. That friend on the other hand…
i wouldnt bring her to the bridal appointment if she act like this ;w;
I know I would tell her to get the f out of my face 😈😈
TLC chooses who the bride will bring lol
@@arvicjoyesgana1254 wow really?!?!?! makes a lot of sense but that's super unfair
@@elly9704 its like for tv
Can we just take a moment to notice how beautiful the bride is?! Her smile is so gorgeous!!
It's perfection, like the rest of her.
“Yeah just toss it out to the side” She has a problem it is not her wedding and she looked beautiful in every single dress she’s such a Karen
notice how she smiled when she said it when a minute ago she had a scary face
@@thatchainikumaran914 yesssss!!
That smile at the end, when she says She will be picking the bridesmaid dresses. Lord I wish we could have seen that go down.
The fact no one said anything to her drove me crazy. Jenny stand up for urself. . . When "friends" are controlling and manipulative, theyre not true friends!
y‘all see how the bride smiles when she‘s wearing the 2nd and 3rd dress, her face just showed what she liked best. The bride should always choose her dress
"I don't want her getting a dress that twenty years down the road she's gonna think 'what was I thinking?'"
Honestly who cares ? As long as it was the perfect dress for her at the time what does it matter. It's no different to seeing your mum's dress from the 80s with the massive puffed sleeves and satin.
Clearly this is about winning, not about what looks good. Her face when the bride went against her lol
I love your point. So true..we all look back and cringe at a look we thought was gorgeous at the time.
And if she doesn't pick what she loves, no matter the style, she WILL look back in 20 yrs and wonder what she was thinking.
If the bride let the friend words cause her decision on picking her dress, she will think that after 20 years. If she pick her favourite dream dress she still like it even after 40, 60 or even more years.
We are all going to look back in 20 years and think our wedding dresses looked ridiculous! Styles change! Wedding dress styles come and go and what we love now it’s definitely not gonna be anything great in 20 years from now
I hope that “friend” reads the comments and changes her behavior
Thinking that too
Probably won't, she's a narcissist.
Better yet, sees herself on camera, turning pale and mean looking when the bride to be sticks with her own choice.
I have read the comments and they are insanely hurtful and damaging. The show was filmed in 2012 and was heavily scripted and edited to make me look like an insane, narcissistic individual. I promise I am not that person. Had I known that I was going to be made out to be the diva, I would have never agreed to be on the show.
Kayla has a lot to learn - empathy, consideration, tact, boundaries, and how to create her own happiness without controlling others or bringing down their happiness. Perhaps, after Kayla graduates, she can start her own bridal couture company and someday get married in whatever gown she chooses. But today is Jenny's day to pick the wedding dress that makes her happy. Hopefully, Kayla will learn how to respect other people's boundaries on focus on supporting their happiness instead of meeting her needs through trying to control them.
Hell no. If I had a bridesmaid that acted like that, she’d be kicked out the store personally by me.
Anybody else notice how her "best friend" is giving her the death stare
I would say ex friend
@@rrp1996 nope they’re still friends. The bride was a bridesmaid in the friends wedding last year.
I have taught college for 15 years: a degree does not an expert make--and this expert is jealous and crass.
And tacky AF
@@lynneufeld3175 Absolutely, but it is recorded on video in You Tube, so she will carry her nasty act for the rest of her life.
Bro when she looks at the camera when she says she wants lace kills me 🤣
I can literally feel the jealously emanating from her "friend"
it's the bride's day not yours. Her bridesmaid needs to step back
I would've kicked her out of being one of my braidmaids especially if she did that when picking MY dress
@Sanaz Zaman I know right, I feel like they are just taking it because the cameras are there or they dont have many true friends :(
Did anyone else notice that the fashion diva “friend” who didn’t like the dress, was the first to run up and hug the bride after she said “yes”??? Wow...
After saying she looked like a doily... 😒
that's cuz it's all staged
So noticed
Her face dropped and everything 🤣🤣 "she isn't getting the dress I wanted?? 😲😲"
I've been reading comments about the girl, like "oh, she's my friend, she's not mean, I know her..." but, the simple fact that she had a harsh and hurtfuls opinions about the dresses the bride picked, is awful; you have no manners
She's not a friend she's a frenemy.
I don't know why she even thought she had a choice. Not your wedding. "I don't want her to look back 20 years down the line and think she made a mistake" umm but then she'll be looking back 20 years down the line regretting not getting a lace dress that she wanted. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Her friend’s look is the example of “if looks could kill”
“I like it but..”
Her friend: 😄😀😁🙂😕😐😑
Hilarious..i laughed way too hard on her expression and than that look...omg scarrryyyyy
She looked ready to kill
“Hello Kayla, and welcome to This ain’t your goddamn wedding!” 😂
Just another prime example of a “friend” trying to make someone else’s big day about them.
Props to whoever edited this video... I can't with the sound effects lmao
The bride looks a lot like Rachel McAdams!! Her "fashionista" friend needed to take a chill pill, she was so rude!! Her expressions made me dislike her even more!
She was obviously coached to overreact to everything.
I was looking for someone else who saw the Rachel McAdams resemblance! 😃
I was literally scrolling through the comments trying to find who she reminded me of lol, thank you! 😂😂
I feel like I wouldn’t last 1 day as a bridal consultant - I’d snap off at rude entourage member SO quickly😤😅
Hahah nobody has ever said it before but I think that every time. I would just say Kayla pity you’re breadth of opinion isn’t as wide as your chin haha
"I'm gonna have a big part in picking out her dress" I'm sorry hun but it ain't ur WEDDING
The looks on the face of that petty child when her demands were not catered to... I loved when her smile died in the end when the bride almost told her to put a sock in it. That's a toxic friendship if I ever seen one, y'all. And she was jealous.