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  • @Rinata20
    @Rinata20 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Oh dear! When you say you lost your fancalls video I almost cry. No matter what other people think, it was important for you and im so sorry! For that and all your lost vid/pic. Happy that you are back and sending all my love

  • @bigstitchydreams9065
    @bigstitchydreams9065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    If I lost my footage from fancall I would be beyond devastated. My Purki fancall just recorded a black scene for everyone but Swan and I sobbed. So I think you are incredibly valid for that- you put in lots of work to get those fansigns (from one gom to another omg I’m exhausted lol- winning accidentally or otherwise)
    I’m glad you are back and take all the time you need Shy- you’re my work buddy and have been in my ear while I work on depo prep - much love from one multi to another.

    • @bigstitchydreams9065
      @bigstitchydreams9065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amendment 27:56 uhhhh you’re better than me- I would’ve reverted to full Karen and lost it on him.

  • @jjoorock1206
    @jjoorock1206 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i'm so sorry that happened to you! the shock and devastation must have been beyond difficult to handle. that apple employee should've met you with kindness and empathy, not some dismissive robot employee bullshit. take all the time you need to care for yourself and cry everything out when you need to without feeling shame or embarrassment for it. sending love and warm hugs!

  • @kibumyong
    @kibumyong 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    oh shy i'm so sorry this happened 😭 i've lost my data before and it was absolutely devastating, even just losing all the silly pictures i've saved over the years. i completely understand your feelings and i hope no one tries to make you feel like it's not a valid response. i'm glad to see you back but i hope you're able to take the time you need and don't have too much pressure. sending you all the love 💓

  • @Gibson42a
    @Gibson42a 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    oh my god I'm so sorry Shy! I was already sad hearing the story, but I legit gasped when you said you lost your fancall recordings. Sending love! ❤

  • @dep6170
    @dep6170 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Oh that’s awful, I’m really sorry that you lost your data ☹️ that apple guy could’ve had some compassion, damn :/

  • @blondeebeth
    @blondeebeth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    First of all welcome back! I'm personally really glad you're back as you have inspired me to go for an accounting qualification as I'm doing bookkeeping at the moment after graduating with a maths degree so thank you :) also I will fight all the apple employees because first the guy on the phone and then the one in the store?! Like all of them being that terrible, I'm in your corner and sending u all the good feelings

  • @frostiesoobin
    @frostiesoobin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    shy, the hurt in your voice made me cry with you, i am so sorry friend and if you need anything at all please feel free to reach out

  • @darkemoprincess12
    @darkemoprincess12 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I've missed seeing your videos but also know how you're feeling is very valid and so sorry you lost your data and memories :C. Take it easy and don't be so hard on yourself!
    Also I could never be a fansign girlie ever because my anxiety would be through the roof and I'm also a horrible introvert lol v.v~

  • @lauradessi8436
    @lauradessi8436 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm really for what happened to you, but you know you still have the memories that you will cherish with all your heart, and your Intro was really cool but you can make a better one. Don't underestimate yourself !!❤❤❤

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    wow I am so sorry, losing fancall footage is definitely a big deal and you're not being dramatic. I would have reacted the same way, I've never had a fancall but heck even just concert footage I'd be devastated about. How crappy of the apple worker to say that to you, it sucks how many people in this world lack basic empathy.

  • @shx7_25
    @shx7_25 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so glad you’re back ! I’m so so sorry for what happened :( I really felt the hurt in your voice , no matter what anyone said the thing that happened to you is devastating and I really fell what you’re feeling , I have an idea that could help you get your intro back !! you can go to any of you videos and screen record the intro and then you have a copy of the intro 💗💗😄 , sending you all the hugs because you really deserve it
    Please anyone reeding this try to get this to shy 💗💗

  • @winterbear5187
    @winterbear5187 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm sorry that happened to you. I think the majority of us would be devastated if it were to happen to us, I know I would be. While there may be people out there that will think it's silly or that you shouldn't feel the way you are there's a lot of us here who think your feelings are valid and are here to support you in any way we can. I for one am so happy to see you back on my screen, I literally squealed when I saw you had posted (although I am annoyed TH-cam didn't notify me of it until now!) because I love watching and listening to you. There's only about 3 people within the collecting community I can actually sit down and listen to for more than 5 minutes at a time and you are one of them. Thank you for making the decision to stay on this platform Shy

  • @Onceglassy
    @Onceglassy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This has made me crying at my desk at work.
    “Not everything is gone.”
    Sending so much love Shy.

    • @Onceglassy
      @Onceglassy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just got to the 50 dollar part and I need a name because this man needs a reality check cause f*ck him. Omg

  • @woowon
    @woowon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    omg shy i'm so sorry that happened to you! your feelings are so valid! sending you so much love 💞
    so happy to see that you're back 🥹

  • @anacarda04
    @anacarda04 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    omg shy welcome back and i'm so sorry that happened to you. your feelings are completely valid, as soon as you said that you lost your fancall's footage i gasped out loud. i believe that losing any kind of media that was important to you is devastating, but specially for moments like those you worked hard for. do not think that you're being dramatic. i've had my phone stolen and lost a year worth's of memories because of it :( lots of love, feeling discouraged and sad because of this is completely understandable.

  • @grff_
    @grff_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this happened to me once when i was like 14 and again when the family computer got stolen. I currently have most of my important files in an external disk and my important memories (grad pics, travel memories) in at least 2-3 different devices. I am so sorry this happened to you, especially with the fansigns. I really recommend from now on to have an online cloud or save on several devices. The pictures i have saved are so important to me i constantly back up my phone in case i get mugged LOL so i fully understand how upset you were.

  • @infinitegraces
    @infinitegraces 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your feelings about losing that footage are so valid! I'm glad you came back, your videos are a source of joy for me because you're so much fun! Personally, I'd say you deserve to get another chance to talk to them again but also, I get what you mean when you say that it wouldn't be the same. I also never would have thought of myself as a fansign/fancall person but at the same time...I really want that opportunity at some point. We'll see what happens this era.

  • @stanwjsnstantalent
    @stanwjsnstantalent 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hi shy! just wanted to say i'm so glad you're back! and also i'm so sorry about you fansign videos - those are precious memories and no one would want to lose them. if anyone sends you hate for this i'll fight them.

  • @Forever.Taemins
    @Forever.Taemins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shy... I am soo sorry that happen to you. You have every right to be upset, those are precious memories. My heart broke hearing that. Please do not listen to the negativity from anyone. Your channel is amazing and so are you. Thank you for coming back and also Welcome back. I enjoy your content and always look forward to seeing your videos and posts. I don't even collect anyone you collect I just love to watch what you do. So keep being you and thank you for all that you do. I appreciate your hard work. Sending you lots of hugs and love! 💞💖💕

  • @aprilmultistan2639
    @aprilmultistan2639 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry that happened to you! I don’t blame you. I’d be crying too lol. It’s ok to cry. I hope things start looking up again soon ❤

  • @nerd.yuyu8
    @nerd.yuyu8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm so sorry shy! that is genuinely the worst thing to happen to someone as sweet and cheery as you! hope your mental health is doing ok! I don't own any apple products and this story makes me NOT want to own any in the future.
    also happy ateez comeback🫶

  • @_becki.x_
    @_becki.x_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome back Shy! Not sure how anyone could be mean to such a gentle and kind soul. Glad to have you back but also I'm glad you've put yourself first! Always here if you need me 🖤

  • @hanandonly
    @hanandonly 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ahhhh im so sorry shy !! that truly is so devastating, I too would be so upset. I thank you for still uploading for us because it was such. fun video- but I hope you're doing okay!!

  • @sammie_stay_ot8
    @sammie_stay_ot8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m really sorry that happened 😢 and it just proves how strongly our idols support and lift us that Hongjoong’s situation helped you come back 🥰
    Sending you the biggest hug ever Shy 🥰

  • @steph-11
    @steph-11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey shy, I'm glad you're back. You're my favorite gom and kpop youtuber. I'm sorry you lost your fancalls. Two things can be true at the same time, fancalls are not something you enjoy, and you can still be upset that your memories are gone. No one is allowed to invalidate your feelings. And I honestly relate to being stubborn when I get an idea in my head it needs to be done immediately.

  • @usserinprise
    @usserinprise 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aw man, I'm so sorry Shy ❤sending you all the hugs. I can understand how difficult that must have been. I've lost all my data before when my hard drive completely died, and it truly is so devastating. Especially when you lose precious memories. I back everything up in two different locations now because I'm so paranoid after that experience. I'm sorry you had to go through that 🫂
    As for your missing intro, can you download one of your youtube videos and extract your intro?

    • @JustShyTrades
      @JustShyTrades  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, I did that to get my birthday video up because I was too exhausted to make anything new. But the quality is horrendous unfortunately.. so I didn’t want to use it going forward because it makes me sad to look at the deteriorated footage 😩

    • @usserinprise
      @usserinprise 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @JustShyTrades ugh that's understandable. I wish there was an easy way to get your footage back 😔 I do love the fuzzy countdown numbers you did in this video though. It's very cute. Thank you for coming back to youtube though 🫶🏻 as a fellow Hongjoong collector, I love watching your videos.

  • @sillypok-sal
    @sillypok-sal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Shy, thank you for updating us, I know that was devastating to have happen and you honestly handled it better than I would have. I'm sorry your recordings are gone, sending love and care 💗

  • @tinyjoong
    @tinyjoong 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i’m really sorry that this happened :( i truly cannot imagine how it must’ve truly felt like to lose those precious memories!!
    i have missed your videos so much and i feel sorry that this was the reason you haven’t uploaded for a while 🥺

  • @shardeabre
    @shardeabre 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🥺💔 my heart is breaking for you I can’t imagine. I’m so happy you didn’t give up just like Hongjoong 😩

  • @stayline4359
    @stayline4359 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm really sorry for what had happened to you, it's a fear that I always had to lost precious memories and that's why I always save everything on 3 different support 😕 I'm really glad that you're coming back because you bring joy and colors to a lot of people ♥️

    • @stayline4359
      @stayline4359 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Also I don't want to give you false hopes but maybe you can have back some footage by downloading your videos in mp4 format and then cuting only the part that interest you 💜

  • @stay_in_paris5351
    @stay_in_paris5351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so sorry for your lost files, of course it's fully justified to be sad for that 😢
    I hope you'll feel better soon ❤
    Happy you came back❤

  • @jyoungshi
    @jyoungshi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yeah! Another shy video! - missed you girl! (Please don't ever leave youtube, we wuv u)
    Also: I'm sorry about what happened with the files.... - there's a reason why I don't use apple/trust apple employees / I would be mortified if i lost all my fancalls/fansigs and all memories that came along with it. / But, look at the bright side, it gave you knowledge and experience on what to do if it somehow ever happens again. Don't feel ashamed of being upset for losing all your memories because of someone's misguidance on solving an issue. Other people would feel the same way if that happened to them. -> STAY STRONG GIRL!

  • @ladyplumbob304
    @ladyplumbob304 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so sorry for your situation, I would be devastated too, so I completely understand. I hope you get the time you need to heal. Truly, I am happy you decided to come back❤

  • @kangsungsbestie8982
    @kangsungsbestie8982 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i would cry for weeks knowing i lost my fancall footage.
    i totally get you for real, never did a fancall my self but I just know that this is so frustrating and sad for you :(

  • @BriFr
    @BriFr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    shy welcome back!! i'm so sorry what you went through with apple how incredibly inconsiderate. i can't believe they really said that to you it makes me so angry! you being upset and taking time off for this is so valid! don't ever feel bad about that!! sending love

  • @synamintjones502
    @synamintjones502 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for coming back and sharing those incredible hard moments. We missed you and we love you. Just know that we understand if you need to randomly take time off from here to self care and heal. ❤

  • @cinablad6808
    @cinablad6808 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh I´m so sorry to hear what happen to you 😭😭 I can feel how sad and painful it must have been. Im and old granny-Atiny and have collected Ateez since debut so i understand how these missing fansigns hurt you the most. But i hope that we can and our Ateez boys can cheer you up, lots of BIG HUGS to you❤

  • @shinestarcollections
    @shinestarcollections 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG 😢
    Im so sorry to hear about this. Honestly as a new Apple user, I wondered if it was just a me thing with some of the quirks but now you just confirmed it isn't. All thise issues are common to Apple which blows.
    Im so devastated for you and wish those Apple people would step on Legos 😂
    I hope that made you laugh.
    Anyways, pls take your time coming back. I cant even imagine what its like to lose precious memories. Abd i also understand your point about not wanting another because it won't be the sane as the first ones.
    Sending you big hugs, Shy. Please take care of yourself in the interim.

  • @Princesspuppies77
    @Princesspuppies77 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am glad you are back. I missed your bubbly voice. I am very sorry about what happened, it is truly aweful. I hope you can build new memories that give you just as much joy. Replay the videos in your head to keep them fresh. I loved your Hongjoong analogy ❤

  • @gldnstrrydays
    @gldnstrrydays 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending lots of love your way Shy, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I really wish there was smth more that could be done to save at least those precious memories for you😭 Please take all the time you need off from social media & take care of yourself, absolutely no one has the right to judge or make you feel invalidated in any way over your feelings. You have made a lot of people happy through your channel/presence online, including myself & I hope you remember that there will always be someone out there wishing you well always, love you lots Shy, hang in there; you got this!🫂❤️

  • @audreyturner5122
    @audreyturner5122 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry that happened, Shy! Sending you love and good vibes ❤

  • @stay_in_paris5351
    @stay_in_paris5351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh dang I wanted to see how you stored the Xikers standies😅
    But it's ok, thank you for the video❤
    Forget mean people they don't deserve attention !!❤

  • @kandigirl10
    @kandigirl10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    15:59 I'm so sorry! My heart really goes out to you! I can totally understand your frustration because you were brave enough to be out of your comfort zone and your reward was great memories. You really made best of an emotionally challenging situation. I'm wondering if the "cloud" has it?

  • @Panda167.
    @Panda167. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m so sorry to hear about your data being lost especially the fancalls.

  • @florerie
    @florerie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    sending you lots of love! please take all the time you need ♡

  • @zunairahussain
    @zunairahussain 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was waiting for your video for the whole month....so sad for the whole data loss.

  • @mthrpckr
    @mthrpckr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my god, Shy 😢😢😢 I am sorry 😔😔😔
    I lost my phone about a year ago and that was not backed up, I lost videos of my nephews and my videos of a foo fighters show i attended from before Taylor Hawkins passed away, I know how your feeling 😭

  • @mariaduda9223
    @mariaduda9223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry that happened to you. Hope you're doing well 💞

  • @springreturning856
    @springreturning856 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    we’re so happy you’re back ❤️ so sorry that happened! that dude at the apple store was an asshole. as for your intro, is it possible to pull it from a video you’ve uploaded in the past?

  • @gracescross
    @gracescross 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    sending so much love

  • @Hj1117wk
    @Hj1117wk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I will be devastated if i lost my fansign video with Yeosang 😢 i am so sorry what has been happened to you 😢

  • @mariaduda9223
    @mariaduda9223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shy you can download your TH-cam video or screen record it to have your intro back

    • @mariaduda9223
      @mariaduda9223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I actually tried to do it for you but my phone is to bad and can't send it to you anyway besides Instagram but it would ruins the quality

  • @Panda167.
    @Panda167. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so happy you’re back

  • @AlfredoHwa
    @AlfredoHwa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    welcome back Shyyy!! ♡

  • @kendall0425
    @kendall0425 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    sending you so much love!! 💕

  • @Xowendy88Xoxo
    @Xowendy88Xoxo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Welkom back shyy ❤

  • @babystar154
    @babystar154 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im so incredibly devasted for you. Cant imagine what you were and still are going through emotionally.😢 can the intro be salvageable by downloading one of the videos off youtube and then editing it out in a softwear? I hope that question wasnt insensitive 😭 sending you all love Shy

    • @JustShyTrades
      @JustShyTrades  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually yes, that’s what I did for the intro to my birthday video. But the quality is bad so I didn’t want to continue to use it 😭

  • @sarjhook
    @sarjhook 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If I ever meet that Apple man…😤👊 I will go to war for you. But in all seriousness I had this happen on my phone a few years ago and it was heartbreaking. I’m sorry! ❤️

  • @MettelLoves
    @MettelLoves 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wouldn't you be able to download or ask TH-cam to get your videos here in a format where you could cut out the intro and have at least some pieces of those precious moments back?
    Just thinking... and also man... that must feel so heartbreaking and I cannot even imagine. While nobody can take our memories from our minds away, they do fade and having them in video format is important.
    * sending a virtual anti-social hug*

  • @kayyla5
    @kayyla5 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    27:48 oh hands would’ve been thrown

  • @tarad1989
    @tarad1989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shy can’t you screen record your old into from you old videos ?? Or would the quality be compromised 🫶🫶🫶
    I hope your doing well after all that

    • @JustShyTrades
      @JustShyTrades  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, I did that to get my birthday video up, but yeah the quality is so bad I didn’t want to continue to use it going forward 🥲

  • @alexvryzakis
    @alexvryzakis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so sorry to hear about about all this Shy, that Apple store worker should be ashamed of themselves... I was wondering though, could you perhaps download any of your old videos from the backend of TH-cam and then clip the intro section out to use in future videos?? Just a thought in case that's possible 🥲