"oh, don't you find it strange? only thing we share is one last name" that's it, thats me and my dad. my dad's the worst and this is why i relate to marina so much tbh
Is relatable to me. My whole family is close minded, and I'm the only one with open mind and other ways to think or see the world, making me alone and being far and different to my family.
Her lyrics are so poetic..“Coal to diamonds, sold to fools”, “out come flying all the secrets, of Pandora’s box,” “no glass slipper will ever fit.” I just adore the way she mixes in iconic stories and beautiful expressions
I’m grateful this video had the lyrics written down, since I was always under the impression that this song was about Marina's troubled relationship with her step-brother when her father remarried-"welcome to the family, Jules."
I absolutely love how the comments are full of people who are disappointed in themselves because they can't do anything right for their family and they come together to admire this song from an amazing artist
as i grow older, i feel like none of my family members and me feel close anymore and to me, it's like we're not family anymore and we're just like people to each other (and honestly im sick of all the drama in my family including my relatives)
"Oh, don't you find it strange? Only thing we share is one last name." That's me and my mother, we have nothing in common except that we share my fathers last name. Ever sence I became 12 I developed a personality that my mother don't agree with. She would call me things that I'm not and let out her anger on me when it's my dad that she is angry at. We don't enjoy the same tv shows, hobbies, anything. Also my mom has a negative feature of her personality that me and my dad call "high horse." Basically what high horse means that my mother acts high and mighty, claiming that she is a better person than me and my dad because we aren't as "companionit" or "kind hearted" as my mother. When in reality she is no better because she has her own flaws and negative personality features
I remembered this song when i heard Pandora’s box off Ancient Dreams In A Modern Land because of that one line in this song and i’m glad i found it again
@@SigmaDaddy69 still that’s a thought they should keep to their-self also the way they worded it is so wrong basically they’re comment means they enjoy seeing kids suffer the same way they did they could’ve worded it differently in a way that’s like : I’m glad I’m not alone in my situation. Basically it was worded wrong :)
"Oh,don't you find it strange? Only thing we share is one last name Did i beat you at you're own game? Typical of me to put us all to shame" part where i can relate,git this song stuck to my head 😭
You don't have to be a detective to find out that SHE doesn't have a really good relationship with her family .BUT I STILL LOVE THIS SONG ! I am hit by Family Jewels too!
I think this song is about her family especially her dad, I'm sure she doesn't get on with her dad as she sometimes says things about her dad in lyrics of other songs like scab and the plaster an starring role like "you're like my dad you get on well I send my best regards from hell" And there is barley any pictures of her with her family maybe she used music in a way of getting out?? I don't know? There is something about marina I can relate to so many lyrics of her songs
I think that like with many families there are ups and downs. she once did a call with her dad when he was the hospital to have the audience tell him to feel better.
Gillian Paolella actually, she had a bad relationship with her dad back then, but just before Froot came out, she genuinely made up with him, and that’s why marina had a meet-up with her father in Greece.
yes, it's evident in her lyrics that she had a rocky relationship with her dad but today i read her thanks for the adiml era and she thanked her dad too and that made me really emotional. i'm glad they've made up
I'm absolutely obsessed with this song and it's my favorite so far but when she says "did I beat you at your own game". To me it sounds like "gay aim" and idk it just makes me laugh
Used this song as part of my inspiration for a dnd character and their relationship with their family. The concept started with the idea of my character being the parentified eldest child and my mind also supplied that the person they feared and felt oppressed by the most was their grandmother, the family matriarch who has a high level of pride and whom the various family members treat with absolute obedience towards. My character however chose to become estranged after all the siblings and first cousins were grown up and gone separate ways to help the family business. My character was more or less left behind and burnt out and bearing the brunt of their grandmother’s, parents’, and aunt and uncle’s disapproval. Also some family politics like throwing each other under the bus too from some of those cousins and siblings as sometimes happens. So this song helped expand some of that part of their dynamic with their family as a whole. Oh, right, and the family is also well off and well connected so there is a lot of networking and stuff like that which further pushes the family status that left my character under a lot of pressure. So my character left. They will eventually be returning in the game which will be an interesting foil as a fellow party member also shares the same hometown and has an entirely different family dynamic which is sweet and heartwarming and healthy even. And that last part is exactly why I think my character will tolerate returning home to their family for a while, so that said party member doesn’t feel like they need to avoid their own sweet family.
all my life I've been the golden child but in summer 2020-2021 i started "reveling" i went from the golden child to the disappointment of the family. my mother even said that i was now even worse than my sister. (who is gay, does not respect who don't respect her, does what she wants, and wants to change the family)(my family is very homophobic and we r consider to be the perfect family. by perfect i mean actually perfect, we are wealthy, every kid is "perfect" and we have loving christian parents) during that time i use to love this song as i related so much to it. i'm now again the golden child bc i realized that i just cant make it on my own or maybe that's what my mother made me believe. when i now listens to this song i cry as i wanted to end the family cycle so badly but i couldn't bc it was my life or end the family cycle. i know that my sister listens to this song as she can 100% relate to it and its weird as i wish i could relate to it but i cant.
if you guys didn't know, this is a bonus song on the family jewels. so is seventeen, another bonus. it comes on the japan exclusive CD which can be found on ebay for around 50 dollars canadian ) :
amelia the instrumental at 2:15 and the tune kind of sounds like “i want blood guts and angel cake, in gonna puke it anyway. also the instrumental sounds pretty similat.
This song reminds me of the fact that my mom doesn't get alone with her family (her parents,sister etc...). Because of this,she consider just me and my father her family,nobody else. Her parents,sister etc...never supported her,she was born just because my aunt wanted a baby sister...and then she started to treat her like shit. And this reminds me of the fights that my grandma and mom had,even they didn't share the last name of course. I hope that I'll be able to create a healthy and Happy family,like I always wanted.
I feel like I don't have a right to relate to this song as I have a good (sometimes even great) relationship with my family. But sometimes I feel like an outsider looking in. I feel like the odd one out a lot of the time.
It's so sad that this song isn't actualy included in her cd. I just bought it and when I found out it wasn't there I was so disappointed, it's one of the best songs of the album!
my father came from a house where he was not showen any love, his father was/is an alcoholic who beat his mother in front of him, and saying slurs like "here, take your mother and sell her". my father's mother made 3 sons to save her when they grow up, and since my father was the eldest she expected more from my father. but my father couldn't take it and leave the house at 17 and moved to another city. but the lack of love always passed down our blood. from kid to kid. i am the eldest child, and i am a girl. when i was younger my father and i had a perfect relationship but as i grew up he hated me day by day. he had beat me up, crashed my phones, ipads... it was like he had two sides one nice and fatherly, the other just like his father. he couldnt resist me, he would get angry at anything i said. our ideas didnt meet. at any convenience, he would beat me. or at least slap me, give me harm physically at any chance. days went by like this, i was old enough to cannot be beaten or taken my phone away. he didnt let me go to another city for college except for the city i already lived in. he threatened me to leave to the streets, and he would disown me if i had left. i had to stay. the time i had to be at home was 8pm, we got into a fight and i made it 10 pm. with crying, screaming obviously. everytime i had a good day he would find a chance to ruin it. sleepovers are not allowed, going to another city, on a vacation are not allowed. everytime something he doesnt like happens, he would threat me to disown me. i was angry with my mom for a month because of something she had done, and the other day, he had a mental breakdown. he crashed the tv, the table on the living room. screaming, crying saying he will disown me, insulting me, calling me worthless and piece of shit. in his own words, "who are you to not talk to your mother, youre a piece of shit." for the record, he stopped giving me any money when i started college. everything is just falling apart. i hate that i am behind everything, i hate all the things i cannot experience because of him. i want to kill myself, everything is just too hard on me. im tired of searching for my fathers love in the boys i am dating. i am so tired. in fact i am exhausted. so dont you find it strange dad, the only thing we share is one last name.
Holy shit that’s terrible, I’m kinda in a similar situation but it’s more subtle and verbal, and it does feel like that a lot, and I’m not going to say the useless shit a lot of people throw around because at least in my experience it just makes it harder to want to stick around , but I want you to know that I am rooting for both of us to get out of these situations
I just laughed out loud XD ..in a room I've been alone in for about an hour.. just listening to a long line of her older work lmao but this just takes the cake haha first time I've ever read any fan comment that relates to something I've been thinking about from time to time. Thanks for this special literal LOL
Kinda glad I found this song the day im gonna confront my father about his abuse, we are going to dinner to talk about it which may seem mature but knowing him he's just gonna gaslight me
I think this song is about generational truma which is why the words "I can't break the cycle" and "pass it down from kid to kid" is said and repeated in different ways and the singer is trying to break out of the cycle
There are so many shows/games/families that I could put this song to and it would work perfectly. (ex; Metal family, The Afton family, my own family) like HDHGJJRHJDHDHXB
That moment when you cry to this song bc you realize you treat your little sibiling the same way your dad treated you, repeating the cycle 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AU- you’re the youngest Malfoy, put in gryffindor and are mates with Ginny and the trio,make fun of Draco and the whole lot of the slytherins, and then one year you start hanging out with Dracos mates and turning on the gryffindors instead, Harry goes after you when you’re on your own, he grabs your arm, your sleeve rolls up, revealing the dark mark “i can’t break the cycle” a couple months later, you eat at the slytherins table and are basically a slytherin at that point, you hear Brown and the Patel twins say something about ‘typical Malfoy’ “isn’t it funny, the only thing we share is one last name” Gryffindor and slytherin are arguing, a seventh year gryffindor mention how they’ve stolen a gryffindor away from them “typical of me to put them all to shame” next time you see them all is during the war, you fighting for the dark lord and them for Potter, Weasley and Draco are locked in a dual and Ginny runs at you, taking you by suprise, she pins you to the ground, about to cast some heinous jinx when she sees your face properly, the deep eyebags, the enunciated cheekbones, the sunken features, her resolve to hurt you is gone and she leaves you to creep away, away from all the violence, for once in your life you’re away from violence “is it my fault we stay divided, out come flying all the secrets of pandora’s box”
Vent: My sister and I tried confronting our father on how we think he has ADHD because we have ADHD, and he kept getting defensive. The language he uses poses it as if he thinks its a bad thing. Everything we are is not good enough for him. Why am I not good enough for him?
+Frozan Jamily yes you would, it's not available in the United States. it's not packaged in the us album because her company replaced it with remixes and such. it's available everywhere except the United States.
you realise that something went wrong when you start relate to the song "... unless I decide to go to end (to start arguing with my relatives because they treat me like shit) will I ever see the end (of such behaviour of theirs)?"
There seems to be some confusion, this is not an unreleased song it is a BONUS TRACK.
It's an UK iTunes exclusive.
+Bibloo CAUSE ITS ON THE DELUXE??
+baileigh kkk yas
+MissJellyBean121Xx the ad libs on this song are unreal
I love your Hetalia icon, nice to know I'm not the only Hetalian Diamond xD
every time i think i've heard all of her songs i find a new one...
Ellie Rose sameeee
Same 2
frr it really be like thiss
lmao same, or another version of a song.
SAMEE
"oh, don't you find it strange?
only thing we share is one last name"
that's it, thats me and my dad. my dad's the worst and this is why i relate to marina so much tbh
Tad Lazuli same
same here :/
Tad Lazuli omfg same
same
Tad Lazuli sameeee
She's really had relatable lyrics since the beginning..."typical of me to put us all to shame..."
fatti due domandi e datti una risposta
Is relatable to me. My whole family is close minded, and I'm the only one with open mind and other ways to think or see the world, making me alone and being far and different to my family.
Mars as a Boy same im the black sheep
You're not alone ♥️
I feel you
Same
same.
Sounds like a mix of Hermit The Frog, Teen Idle and Seventeen to me and I LOVE IT !!
yes
aiva s YOU ARE SO RIGHT
Facts
Omg you’re right-
Yeah it does
Every time I feel guilty about being almost entirely estranged from my family I find myself back here
YOUR HAIR OMG
Get their asses! I bet you were right to leave
GUILTY ON THE RUN-
Everyone is comparing this song to other songs but I think it's unique
fuck this bitch
Gabriela Membreno agreed
13yr old me blasting this everytime i had a fight with my mom
So true omg
17*
Interestingly I'm 15 and had a fight with my mom earlier today and I'm listening to this song now-
@@Inikage11918 when you're 16,listen to teen idle and when you hit 17,listen to seventeen.
19 here, and listening to this song for the same reason and my family is a bunch of hypocritics
honestly the line that i can relate to the most is, “typical of me to put us all to shame.”
Same
Her lyrics are so poetic..“Coal to diamonds, sold to fools”, “out come flying all the secrets, of Pandora’s box,” “no glass slipper will ever fit.”
I just adore the way she mixes in iconic stories and beautiful expressions
Oh, Don't you find it strange ?
Only thing we share is one last name
Oh god I addicted to this two lines
I’m grateful this video had the lyrics written down, since I was always under the impression that this song was about Marina's troubled relationship with her step-brother when her father remarried-"welcome to the family, Jules."
It’s literally titled “the family jewels” how
@@Mikeyishere422 stop it, in this comment section we are nice to each other. Our families are crazy enough
I love this song so freaking much especially the backround music at 0:56-1:13
like ghost
"Oh, you think I'm unfit? Little did you know that I was cut for it!" - this line speaks to me so much. I could tell it to my family word-for-word.
I absolutely love how the comments are full of people who are disappointed in themselves because they can't do anything right for their family and they come together to admire this song from an amazing artist
as i grow older, i feel like none of my family members and me feel close anymore and to me, it's like we're not family anymore and we're just like people to each other (and honestly im sick of all the drama in my family including my relatives)
“The only thing we share is one last name”
THAT LINE GIVES ME SO MUCH MIRABEL AND ABUELA VIBES-
No actually because they both share trauma
𝚢𝚎𝚙... 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚊 𝚏𝚒𝚝𝚜
@@FionaA17 thats the whole point you idiot 😭
i just made a video abt that then i saw this comment 💀
mirabel and abuela shouldnt have the same last name tho
This song perfectly describes my relationship with my family but my Mom especially. I can totally relate to it all
I feel like this should be a closing track for the album, not a bonus track. Amazing lyrics.
"Oh, don't you find it strange? Only thing we share is one last name."
That's me and my mother, we have nothing in common except that we share my fathers last name. Ever sence I became 12 I developed a personality that my mother don't agree with. She would call me things that I'm not and let out her anger on me when it's my dad that she is angry at. We don't enjoy the same tv shows, hobbies, anything. Also my mom has a negative feature of her personality that me and my dad call "high horse." Basically what high horse means that my mother acts high and mighty, claiming that she is a better person than me and my dad because we aren't as "companionit" or "kind hearted" as my mother. When in reality she is no better because she has her own flaws and negative personality features
compassionate* and also, you didn't have to explain what high horse means, it's a pretty common term ;)
I remembered this song when i heard Pandora’s box off Ancient Dreams In A Modern Land because of that one line in this song and i’m glad i found it again
it's sound like a combination of Teen Idle, Oh No And Solitaire.
+Shirshu I get what you mean , espically with oh no
Shirshu and hermit the frog
Shirshu and Blue
And are you satisfied
And that's why I love it.
it feels nice seeing other kids suffering the same way
Ayo that’s a bit fucked up 😟
@@feyfey4768 not really it just means that it's nice they aren't alone in this
@@SigmaDaddy69 still that’s a thought they should keep to their-self also the way they worded it is so wrong basically they’re comment means they enjoy seeing kids suffer the same way they did they could’ve worded it differently in a way that’s like : I’m glad I’m not alone in my situation. Basically it was worded wrong :)
I'm glad you kids are not alone buy still we are still strangers to each other
"Oh,don't you find it strange?
Only thing we share is one last name
Did i beat you at you're own game?
Typical of me to put us all to shame" part where i can relate,git this song stuck to my head 😭
You don't have to be a detective to find out that SHE doesn't have a really good relationship with her family .BUT I STILL LOVE THIS SONG ! I am hit by Family Jewels too!
I think this song is about her family especially her dad, I'm sure she doesn't get on with her dad as she sometimes says things about her dad in lyrics of other songs like scab and the plaster an starring role like "you're like my dad you get on well I send my best regards from hell" And there is barley any pictures of her with her family maybe she used music in a way of getting out?? I don't know? There is something about marina I can relate to so many lyrics of her songs
It's actually: "you like my dad; you get on well; I send my best regards from hell"
lol I thought it was ur not my dad
I think that like with many families there are ups and downs. she once did a call with her dad when he was the hospital to have the audience tell him to feel better.
Gillian Paolella actually, she had a bad relationship with her dad back then, but just before Froot came out, she genuinely made up with him, and that’s why marina had a meet-up with her father in Greece.
yes, it's evident in her lyrics that she had a rocky relationship with her dad but today i read her thanks for the adiml era and she thanked her dad too and that made me really emotional. i'm glad they've made up
The one song that all Diamonds agree sounds like 5 other different songs lmao
Jasmine now what five is debate
lmao
fml I've had the family jewels album since I was 10 (I'm now 15) and I've never heard this song until today. who even am I jesus
Abbie Smith It's part of the deluxe album. It's not in the original album. 😂😂😂
ready for seventeen ?
that's great you were a fan for 5 years!
hows 19 going for you
How’s being 20
I'm absolutely obsessed with this song and it's my favorite so far but when she says "did I beat you at your own game". To me it sounds like "gay aim" and idk it just makes me laugh
*****
An aim that is gay??? I have no idea...
***** I really don't know what it means, I guess...?
SPACE ASPECT
Emily L.
HELL YEAH
***** A gay aim would probably be to smash in the backdoor.
Family jewels in French is bijoux de famille which literally means balls
in italian means balls too lol
Lol
Yeah she knows, it's about her dad.
It means balls in English slang too. Lol. That's why she used it. She's a cheeky one
This song really reminds me of Pacifica Northwest from Gravity Falls. Anyone else, or just me?
EmeraldSkies for sure!!
Holy shit yes I kinda thought of her when I heard this song
FACTS OMG the lyrics do apply to her
omg i thought "Pacifica Northwest from Gravity Falls" was a song so i searched it up andi am pretty suprised to see what it really is...
@@sudonasuko what is it?
why isnt this on spotify anymoreeeeeeee
;-;
Ikr
I ask myself the same question
it literally is on spotify...
@@ponygirlalt it wasn't when this comment was posted, it's on Spotify now :D
@@ponygirlalt no it's not... The album is, but this song isn't
This song and the entire album in general gives me memories...
This is such a bop, it deserves a music video
i love how raw it sounds
Used this song as part of my inspiration for a dnd character and their relationship with their family.
The concept started with the idea of my character being the parentified eldest child and my mind also supplied that the person they feared and felt oppressed by the most was their grandmother, the family matriarch who has a high level of pride and whom the various family members treat with absolute obedience towards. My character however chose to become estranged after all the siblings and first cousins were grown up and gone separate ways to help the family business. My character was more or less left behind and burnt out and bearing the brunt of their grandmother’s, parents’, and aunt and uncle’s disapproval. Also some family politics like throwing each other under the bus too from some of those cousins and siblings as sometimes happens. So this song helped expand some of that part of their dynamic with their family as a whole. Oh, right, and the family is also well off and well connected so there is a lot of networking and stuff like that which further pushes the family status that left my character under a lot of pressure. So my character left. They will eventually be returning in the game which will be an interesting foil as a fellow party member also shares the same hometown and has an entirely different family dynamic which is sweet and heartwarming and healthy even. And that last part is exactly why I think my character will tolerate returning home to their family for a while, so that said party member doesn’t feel like they need to avoid their own sweet family.
all my life I've been the golden child but in summer 2020-2021 i started "reveling" i went from the golden child to the disappointment of the family. my mother even said that i was now even worse than my sister. (who is gay, does not respect who don't respect her, does what she wants, and wants to change the family)(my family is very homophobic and we r consider to be the perfect family. by perfect i mean actually perfect, we are wealthy, every kid is "perfect" and we have loving christian parents) during that time i use to love this song as i related so much to it. i'm now again the golden child bc i realized that i just cant make it on my own or maybe that's what my mother made me believe. when i now listens to this song i cry as i wanted to end the family cycle so badly but i couldn't bc it was my life or end the family cycle. i know that my sister listens to this song as she can 100% relate to it and its weird as i wish i could relate to it but i cant.
if you guys didn't know, this is a bonus song on the family jewels. so is seventeen, another bonus. it comes on the japan exclusive CD which can be found on ebay for around 50 dollars canadian ) :
Why do people say it sounds like solitaire and teen idle , to me it sounds ALOT like hermit the frog
It sounds like hermit the frog and seventeen to me.
Deflated Balloon ikr
it sounds like ALL OF THOSE u guys haha
i don't see how this sounds like teen idle
amelia the instrumental at 2:15 and the tune kind of sounds like “i want blood guts and angel cake, in gonna puke it anyway. also the instrumental sounds pretty similat.
This song reminds me of the fact that my mom doesn't get alone with her family (her parents,sister etc...).
Because of this,she consider just me and my father her family,nobody else.
Her parents,sister etc...never supported her,she was born just because my aunt wanted a baby sister...and then she started to treat her like shit.
And this reminds me of the fights that my grandma and mom had,even they didn't share the last name of course. I hope that I'll be able to create a healthy and Happy family,like I always wanted.
Y’all are ignoring the part in the beginning of the song talking about generational trauma that’s the best part-
could recognise marina's voice from a mile away. Her voice is beautiful
"I can't break the cycle,am I just a fool?"
Damn that hit hard
1:40 that ' wrap unwrap ' is great, it tickles a part of my brain which makes me happy
I love the background vocals
same
I feel like I don't have a right to relate to this song as I have a good (sometimes even great) relationship with my family. But sometimes I feel like an outsider looking in. I feel like the odd one out a lot of the time.
0:40
"Oh, don't you find it strange?
only thing we share is one last name" etc.
Just incase people only wanted this part :)
thank uu
Tysm!
To me it sounds like a fucking original ass song that makes me happy everytime I listen to it
Queen of having the title track as a bonus!!!
this song reminds me SO much of my family, it’s not even funny.
amira epshetsky. Ikr
I hope you're doing good
This song is so extraordinary yet it fits perfectly on the album and make more cohesive
My fav song off The Family Jewels! :D
TFJ is my favourite album of hers and album in general, so I don’t have a favourite
Sophia j true
@@Sophia-bn6qg same tbh
It's so sad that this song isn't actualy included in her cd. I just bought it and when I found out it wasn't there I was so disappointed, it's one of the best songs of the album!
11 years later. It's still a banger
sounds like hermit the frog
+Dylan Rees no not really
ikr that's what I thought
Dylan Rees omg pewdiepie
@@AlopeciaPatientx ???how does this guy link in any way to pewdiepie
is it just me or does it sound like “simmer and sapphire”
It is
I hear shimmer and sapphire
"coal to diamonds, sold to fools"
1:09 I always thought it was "Simmering Sapphire" lol
everytime i hear this song , all the memories come up again and i start crying lol
family juuls
Instrumentally: hermit the frog or seventeen (marmaid vs sailor style) lyrically: solitaire and scab and plaster
I just realised "jewels" is a pun on "duels"....
Yeah, it's not.
it would make a lot of sense though?
Charlie Fishes No it wouldn't..... "The Family Jewels" is a saying, not just the name of the song and album.
SO-LI-TAIRE You should be a little more open minded
wow
people who didn’t search “only thing we share is one last name”
v
Thanks, not many people have had this up. :) Great song!
Why does this remind me of the Madrigals-
“Is it my fault we stay divided..?” relatable, most of my family’s arguments are about my well being.
my father came from a house where he was not showen any love, his father was/is an alcoholic who beat his mother in front of him, and saying slurs like "here, take your mother and sell her". my father's mother made 3 sons to save her when they grow up, and since my father was the eldest she expected more from my father. but my father couldn't take it and leave the house at 17 and moved to another city. but the lack of love always passed down our blood. from kid to kid. i am the eldest child, and i am a girl. when i was younger my father and i had a perfect relationship but as i grew up he hated me day by day. he had beat me up, crashed my phones, ipads... it was like he had two sides one nice and fatherly, the other just like his father. he couldnt resist me, he would get angry at anything i said. our ideas didnt meet. at any convenience, he would beat me. or at least slap me, give me harm physically at any chance. days went by like this, i was old enough to cannot be beaten or taken my phone away. he didnt let me go to another city for college except for the city i already lived in. he threatened me to leave to the streets, and he would disown me if i had left. i had to stay. the time i had to be at home was 8pm, we got into a fight and i made it 10 pm. with crying, screaming obviously. everytime i had a good day he would find a chance to ruin it. sleepovers are not allowed, going to another city, on a vacation are not allowed. everytime something he doesnt like happens, he would threat me to disown me. i was angry with my mom for a month because of something she had done, and the other day, he had a mental breakdown. he crashed the tv, the table on the living room. screaming, crying saying he will disown me, insulting me, calling me worthless and piece of shit. in his own words, "who are you to not talk to your mother, youre a piece of shit." for the record, he stopped giving me any money when i started college. everything is just falling apart. i hate that i am behind everything, i hate all the things i cannot experience because of him. i want to kill myself, everything is just too hard on me. im tired of searching for my fathers love in the boys i am dating. i am so tired. in fact i am exhausted. so dont you find it strange dad, the only thing we share is one last name.
Holy shit that’s terrible, I’m kinda in a similar situation but it’s more subtle and verbal, and it does feel like that a lot, and I’m not going to say the useless shit a lot of people throw around because at least in my experience it just makes it harder to want to stick around , but I want you to know that I am rooting for both of us to get out of these situations
@@Anonymous-sn4hu these days will pass, i truly believe in us.
I can't be the only one hearing "Welcome to the family jews" lol
My brothers arguing with my mom so I’m just blasting this song through my earphones so I can’t hear the yelling
Wow all of these comments are from 3-5 years ago
Yeah
The family jewels are the intergenerational traumas.
In fact they get passed from kid to kid
my favorite of all her music
btw cant wait for her new music!
I wish this song was in the U.S. edition of this album, but it's not!!! UGH I LOVE THIS SONG SO MUCH. WHY MARINA ;_;
Where is it then?
she’s obsessed with america and she hates us at the same time.
I just laughed out loud XD ..in a room I've been alone in for about an hour.. just listening to a long line of her older work lmao but this just takes the cake haha first time I've ever read any fan comment that relates to something I've been thinking about from time to time. Thanks for this special literal LOL
0:38 I CALL THIS GREATNESS
this sounds so old,but good
“Oh don’t you find it strange? Only thing we share is one last name” literally me and my dad😌😃
Kinda glad I found this song the day im gonna confront my father about his abuse, we are going to dinner to talk about it which may seem mature but knowing him he's just gonna gaslight me
He did indeed gaslight me
@@someoneig9809 I'm sorry to hear that. I hope everything gets better, and I wish you the best. Take care
@@amitchell8054 its fine now we just both avoid eachother which is how I like it
@@someoneig9809
fuck his whole life over-
I think this song is about generational truma which is why the words "I can't break the cycle" and "pass it down from kid to kid" is said and repeated in different ways and the singer is trying to break out of the cycle
There are so many shows/games/families that I could put this song to and it would work perfectly. (ex; Metal family, The Afton family, my own family) like HDHGJJRHJDHDHXB
Also it could fit the dynamic of Tubbo and Shlatt on the dsmp :)
It’s weird because in my family everyone since my gran has fallen out with their siblings ( my dad and my mum ) and I have aswell
It has the same nostalgic sound from Mermaid vs Sailor so I would 100% believe she made this by herself
“Oh don’t you find it strange? Only thing we share is one last name.” God that line sticks with me.
i wish she sang this on tours! it’s so good
i love marina 💖🥺✌️
That moment when you cry to this song bc you realize you treat your little sibiling the same way your dad treated you, repeating the cycle 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This song f****d me up!
AU- you’re the youngest Malfoy, put in gryffindor and are mates with Ginny and the trio,make fun of Draco and the whole lot of the slytherins, and then one year you start hanging out with Dracos mates and turning on the gryffindors instead, Harry goes after you when you’re on your own, he grabs your arm, your sleeve rolls up, revealing the dark mark “i can’t break the cycle”
a couple months later, you eat at the slytherins table and are basically a slytherin at that point, you hear Brown and the Patel twins say something about ‘typical Malfoy’ “isn’t it funny, the only thing we share is one last name”
Gryffindor and slytherin are arguing, a seventh year gryffindor mention how they’ve stolen a gryffindor away from them “typical of me to put them all to shame”
next time you see them all is during the war, you fighting for the dark lord and them for Potter, Weasley and Draco are locked in a dual and Ginny runs at you, taking you by suprise, she pins you to the ground, about to cast some heinous jinx when she sees your face properly, the deep eyebags, the enunciated cheekbones, the sunken features, her resolve to hurt you is gone and she leaves you to creep away, away from all the violence, for once in your life you’re away from violence “is it my fault we stay divided, out come flying all the secrets of pandora’s box”
Vent:
My sister and I tried confronting our father on how we think he has ADHD because we have ADHD, and he kept getting defensive. The language he uses poses it as if he thinks its a bad thing. Everything we are is not good enough for him. Why am I not good enough for him?
i knew the lyrics didnt seem quite right when I saw this a few years ago, its not simmer and suffer, its simmerin' sapphire
still a bop
why is it that every marina and the diamonds song reminds me of a random character from a fandom i like??? EXPLAIN IT TO MEEEE
This song is so catchy!
so happy that I've found that song :3
there's the "Oh don't you find it strange" part if anybody wants it 0:39
I'm the most complicated child in my family so this relatable
How did I not notice this on the album?????
+Aya J. White its because its a unrelesed song so wouldn't find it there, like i mean she didnt even put it on spotify
This is not an unreleased song, it's a bonus track. :D
+MissJellyBean121Xx but you wouldn't find it any albums
It is available on the UK release of Family Jewels on iTunes.
+Frozan Jamily yes you would, it's not available in the United States. it's not packaged in the us album because her company replaced it with remixes and such. it's available everywhere except the United States.
"Typical of me to put us all to shame."
Hella wish this was available on Spotify
you realise that something went wrong when you start relate to the song
"... unless I decide to go to end (to start arguing with my relatives because they treat me like shit) will I ever see the end (of such behaviour of theirs)?"