This video has me tripping. 😂 I've been married 11 years next month. This video helped we understand my husband masculine manners. I was often offended and sensitive 🥺. I learned today, FINALLY its nothing personal. I don't want you to choose my food or clothes. It takes away their identity and right to self. Got it! Great segment! Took me over a decade to learn this. WOW ❤
He’s absolutely right!! Basically saying it’s not about being liked!! It’s more about getting respect off your stance!! It shouldn’t matter about being liked!! What truly matters is being respected by others even if they don’t like it they’ll respect it!! Which goes with the “Let” angle also!! Respect my choices!! Take it or leave it but respect my decision.
I feel him 100%. I don’t understand the concept of a woman “letting” a man do anything. When I hear that in relationship it tells me everything about a man. That can never be this Sag
My wife often uses the word “allow”, as in “I won’t allow her illogical rhetoric to poison my existence”, so she claims she’s not “allowed” to talk or express herself. I wish it was true because somehow I still hear unwanted words come out her mouth, and it’s endless.
This is 💯‼️ I know some dudes that are saying I might get lucky tonight because they were on their best behavior all week. 🤦🏿♂️ This happy wife happy life shit need to stop. For real‼️
I'm glad I watched this video. The word "let" almost implies you are under some restrictions or a prison in your marriage. She lets me do this, He lets me do that. Turn the sentence around and say a man "lets" his wife do such and such and wait and see the backlash you will get. When I hear some men talk about their marriage, some sound like they are in a prison dictated by what their woman lets them do. If a relationship is dictated by "lets" on either side then there is a problem. I'm not talking about doing things to disrespect your spouse, that's different. A Relationship shouldn't feel like prison.
Even though I don't have a lot, with what I do have, I support Roland. I have seen him on many shows and he is always plain and straight, no matter who he is talking to. I respect you man.
Remember when Gina & Martin got mad at each other and Martin said "You don't tell me what to eat WOMAN!! Can I borrow a couple dollars for IHOP ?" Lmao 😆
I see there's a lot of young people born in the 2000s who are sensitive and Naive. This how a man talk before the black community got reprogrammed. 50s 60s 70s 80s this how a man talk and think and that's why we were better off in those days.
@@tvs9978 Yes as a black community and businesses and love towards one another. Absolutely Yes. Was there issues back then for wanting White People acceptance? Sure it was but alot of Black people and Business leaders were against that. But overall as a Black Community we were stronger.
I wanted to pledge Kappa in college. I was cool with guys from all the frats. I stated kicking it with kappas going to meetings and eventing up until one of my guys told me they was demanding money randomly and jumping people. I was like "nigga,I didn't leave the south side (Chicago) to come get jumped into this bullshit, they don't even have guns, why would I give them my money?"
Roland Martin funny asf! Lol bro said he gave his dad that look. His pops had an epiphany about what he told him growing up and all he could do was say “son ur right” 😂 that’s respect right there can’t be a hypocrite
It's sad that Shawn thinks that it's wild for a man to be assertive and demand respect from those around him. Ain't no simp nor push over in Roland, which is EXACTLY why he's been able to stand on his own square and fight for Black folk and Black Media. So sad that there aren't enough brothers out here, like Roland, who know how to navigate this world with dignity and self-respect.
I agee with everything you said accept for fighting for Black Media, becuase if you watch closely when he says black media it always translate with his media. He is black but what about the other black media. He keep saying black media but he is really talking about himself. If you watch him long enough you will notice that if an organization doesnt partner with him he stops mentioning black media. Its like well they didn't go with my media forget the other black media.
It's only when you really don't care what ppl think about you can you be free like this...Let...I couldn't imagine having somebody have that kinda control over anything I do 🤣🤣🤣
I remember talking to my boy and telling him about ideas and stuff and his response was like yea if my wife let me do it. I paused for a moment and was like aight man smh
it's funny but true. he set the ground rules & boundaries early. both can be who they are for real. no fake flattery or arguments over trivial stuff. EXCELLENT 😂
Finally, a man finally says what should be said. I didn't go through all these life experiences to be "LET" do something.... I could never comprehend that. It's not wild, it's just being a man.
A lot of BM get emasculated by their mothers.. That's what it is. That's why Shawn is so surprised to see a BM be masculine. This is a problem in the community. It's why the senseless crime rate is so high. Women have no place raising a man or dominating a man. Roland was raised by his father and it shows.
I say the "let" word as a joke and my wife "HATES IT" lol At the end of the day its about communication. Yes there are things that she doesn't like that I do and vice versa. But at the end of the day, if it's something either of us stand by on, there is no LET.
2008 navigator. My man Roland. I don’t agree with most of his thought patterns, but this interview showed me that we have so much in common. I gotta look at his commentaries different now, because I don’t give a damn either. Lol
It does.. he's really showing his beta card... like, "you talk to massa like that? She gon git you." Smh. I get away from men like that. I expect a woman to talk like he does.
"He's a handful" kinda contradicts your previous statement of "I love a grown ass man." You would normally say that about a boy, because he's unruly or difficult to train. That's the problem. We have too many women trying to dominate boys and men..
I don’t understand how this is a hard concept to grasp. Honestly I think it speaks to the times we are in and how the quality of men have changed and women for that matter. As long as the relationship isn’t disrespected we can communicate about anything. A relationship is about unity not control or policing eachother. We are two grown adults who should know how to carry our selves as such. We guide and support each other not judge and boss eachother. We dont have to ask permission to do things we like to do, but we do have to respect one another and the relationship, and if something im doing is disrespectful to her or the relationship then we need to communicate what that is to one another TOGETHER!! I cant tell no grown woman what to do and she dam sure cant tell me what to do…thats insane. I cant imagine me telling other grown men that my wife wont let me come to the superbowl party or my wife telling her friends thats her husband wont let me go shopping with them when i know she makes her own money. Mannn whattt…yea aight lol
He wasn't saying he is against the word "let" because he thinks his wife doesn't have taste. He was against it as in someone using it as a means of control
I totally agree.. sadly most men LET they women run them out of fear of loss or they addicted to the abuse the woman giving them and they are afraid to even get out and try to date again and or face the pain and process of a divorce.. and these women know this.. but when a woman see that u aren’t afraid to lose her and that u are a man.. who is going to do as u please!? Then it’s funny.. they will respect you and be happy.. it’s when u giving a woman everything she wants that she nags the fk out of u.. literally
Roland Martin: I don't eat No Damn vegetables! I'm grown! I be damn if I eat a damn salad. I like the size of my head Damnit. I only eat the finest deep fried pig feet.
This is the BEST Roland Martin interview I have ever seen. 😂😊
Respect makes relationships last
“Ain’t no let” -Roland Martin 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gotta respect dude. He solid on what he believes (most are facts) and that’s power. Salute 🫡
This video has me tripping. 😂 I've been married 11 years next month. This video helped we understand my husband masculine manners. I was often offended and sensitive 🥺. I learned today, FINALLY its nothing personal. I don't want you to choose my food or clothes. It takes away their identity and right to self. Got it! Great segment! Took me over a decade to learn this. WOW ❤
Nailed it!
But you learned it… the key is to apply it. “Knowledge is power IF APPLIED”.
Us too April 14th. Happy Anniversary to yall
It’s beautiful to hear that from a woman…. No matter what u go through to get it or however long it takes… u got it… lucky Man U have….
By the way I’ve been married since 19 and I’m 32 now with 2 kids… I don’t wanna go to in depth with me but wow… my wife need a friends like you… ✊🏽
Roland is so funny. He is a true entertainer but keeps it so real.
Roland a real one, How a another grown person "let" you do anything
No wonder why Vlad didn’t personally interview Roland Martin he’s not stupid he would’ve got torn to shreds in seconds
FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Wit the quickness his ass woulda been eviscerated
🤔?
Vlad:: “Ok”
You think so?
Wow this is the Greatest interview I have heard
He’s absolutely right!! Basically saying it’s not about being liked!! It’s more about getting respect off your stance!! It shouldn’t matter about being liked!! What truly matters is being respected by others even if they don’t like it they’ll respect it!! Which goes with the “Let” angle also!! Respect my choices!! Take it or leave it but respect my decision.
No THIS is the interview we needed foreal that we didn’t know we needed!!
Shawn will never say the word 'let' again to Roland Martin 😂
Women need to hear this😂
I feel him 100%. I don’t understand the concept of a woman “letting” a man do anything. When I hear that in relationship it tells me everything about a man. That can never be this Sag
My wife often uses the word “allow”, as in “I won’t allow her illogical rhetoric to poison my existence”, so she claims she’s not “allowed” to talk or express herself.
I wish it was true because somehow I still hear unwanted words come out her mouth, and it’s endless.
We need more Roland Martin interviews
Damn. I got a newfound respect for this dude.
The guy is a left wing loon🤡
Frfr .. ain’t too many men left standing on business like this
Hey that's exactly what I was thinking, he's making perfect sense though
Yea for real facts! It’s refreshing he respectful with it too!
I love this interview. Roland is a man comfortable in his own skin.
This is 💯‼️
I know some dudes that are saying I might get lucky tonight because they were on their best behavior all week. 🤦🏿♂️
This happy wife happy life shit need to stop. For real‼️
that’s pathetic.
It’s really gotta be a horrible way to live. 🤦🏾
He’s a “Truth Teller” here for it! Go King Roland! 🔥
I'm glad I watched this video. The word "let" almost implies you are under some restrictions or a prison in your marriage. She lets me do this, He lets me do that. Turn the sentence around and say a man "lets" his wife do such and such and wait and see the backlash you will get. When I hear some men talk about their marriage, some sound like they are in a prison dictated by what their woman lets them do. If a relationship is dictated by "lets" on either side then there is a problem. I'm not talking about doing things to disrespect your spouse, that's different. A Relationship shouldn't feel like prison.
Amen.
Even though I don't have a lot, with what I do have, I support Roland. I have seen him on many shows and he is always plain and straight, no matter who he is talking to. I respect you man.
real talk : LET? Im grown asf u cant let me do s**t I feel u...
Same here...Never drinked in my life time..And Im GOOD..🙏🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯💯
Remember when Gina & Martin got mad at each other and Martin said "You don't tell me what to eat WOMAN!! Can I borrow a couple dollars for IHOP ?" Lmao 😆
😂😂😂😂 yes
This clip made my evening. Real talk with a dash of belly laugh!
Bitter people like controlling others
I see there's a lot of young people born in the 2000s who are sensitive and Naive. This how a man talk before the black community got reprogrammed. 50s 60s 70s 80s this how a man talk and think and that's why we were better off in those days.
Really? You were better off back then in the 50s and 60s?
@@tvs9978 his name is closer to "pocket change" than it is to common sense for a reason
@@tvs9978 Yes as a black community and businesses and love towards one another. Absolutely Yes. Was there issues back then for wanting White People acceptance? Sure it was but alot of Black people and Business leaders were against that. But overall as a Black Community we were stronger.
@Common Cents facts
@@drew004jc Your Outlook on life is basic.
I wanted to pledge Kappa in college. I was cool with guys from all the frats. I stated kicking it with kappas going to meetings and eventing up until one of my guys told me they was demanding money randomly and jumping people. I was like "nigga,I didn't leave the south side (Chicago) to come get jumped into this bullshit, they don't even have guns, why would I give them my money?"
This was the quickest 19min interview 😅
Great stuff 👏
I feel you Roland🤣🤣!!! one of my favorite interviews so far
Roland just gave a master class on what being a man really is.
Roland Martin funny asf! Lol bro said he gave his dad that look. His pops had an epiphany about what he told him growing up and all he could do was say “son ur right” 😂 that’s respect right there can’t be a hypocrite
100% true story!
Roland Martin is my new hero! “F u mean let?”
I am now divorced my wife made me choose between her or the pound cake I chose the pound cake🤣 real talk
Are you talking a literal pound cake?
@@tvs9978 yes can't live without it my weakness 🤣
@@tvs9978 sour cream pound cake with butter pecan ice my wife couldn't stand it🤣
@@greenrodney45 Damn that lowkey sounds fire AF 🍰🤣
@@tvs9978 no, it's a very old joke
It's sad that Shawn thinks that it's wild for a man to be assertive and demand respect from those around him. Ain't no simp nor push over in Roland, which is EXACTLY why he's been able to stand on his own square and fight for Black folk and Black Media. So sad that there aren't enough brothers out here, like Roland, who know how to navigate this world with dignity and self-respect.
He simps for the DNC all the time
@@thegreatoneforever5587 You clearly don't watch his show 😂
@@Flare6 facts cus he check them too
I agee with everything you said accept for fighting for Black Media, becuase if you watch closely when he says black media it always translate with his media. He is black but what about the other black media. He keep saying black media but he is really talking about himself. If you watch him long enough you will notice that if an organization doesnt partner with him he stops mentioning black media. Its like well they didn't go with my media forget the other black media.
Shawn just sounds like a gynocrat... he doesn't disturb the waters with BW.
It's only when you really don't care what ppl think about you can you be free like this...Let...I couldn't imagine having somebody have that kinda control over anything I do 🤣🤣🤣
Some People really have No concept of Freedom of Speech. They think Your Speech is limited to How they Feel
Only person to let me do something was my mom, as a child... I do what I want.
I remember talking to my boy and telling him about ideas and stuff and his response was like yea if my wife let me do it. I paused for a moment and was like aight man smh
Loving this cant wait to see full episode
Roland Martin ain't no simp
it's funny but true. he set the ground rules & boundaries early. both can be who they are for real. no fake flattery or arguments over trivial stuff. EXCELLENT 😂
I just had this conversation with someone a while ago… THE HELL YOU MEAN LET? Like I gotta owner or something
Finally, a man finally says what should be said. I didn't go through all these life experiences to be "LET" do something.... I could never comprehend that. It's not wild, it's just being a man.
I have a whole new outlook on this man after this interview
Roland! you are the best!! Speaking the truth. As a African woman, you always speak truth!!
I ain’t gone lie… this got me weak as hell!! Lmao
Real talk from a real man. Believe
Everyone wishes they had this level of conviction.
You got you just need to empower & use it respectfully & accordingly ✌️
A lot of BM get emasculated by their mothers.. That's what it is. That's why Shawn is so surprised to see a BM be masculine. This is a problem in the community. It's why the senseless crime rate is so high. Women have no place raising a man or dominating a man. Roland was raised by his father and it shows.
All these years, I thought Roland was a simp, but he a Playa.
Roland Martin One great thinkers 💯💯💯
Roland is definitely 💯 RIGHT!!!!
Roland spitting bars.
Much respect before, definitely now.
Roland flexing those communication degree muscles 💪🏾 🤣🙌🏾
I say the "let" word as a joke and my wife "HATES IT" lol At the end of the day its about communication. Yes there are things that she doesn't like that I do and vice versa. But at the end of the day, if it's something either of us stand by on, there is no LET.
Lol weak ass man. It’s not gonna work long term bruh
That why I love my brother!!!! “I hate that word let”
Black Manosphere not feeling this 😂
parts 3 and 4 should be life lessons for Black men
Shared with my son
Roland “red pill” Martin I’m flabbergasted 😅
Yes sir!! Red Pill asf!!
Borderline red cause he still got remarried. He 80% purple, 20% red.
@@UncleSwell707You can be married and be Red Pill.
@@taharqa332 that could be debated. I think it depends on perspective
@@UncleSwell707 It's risky in the States, because women have the power to divorce and take half your shit..
BRUH....ROLAND STAYS ON POINT
He talking facts💪🏾💪🏾
2008 navigator. My man Roland. I don’t agree with most of his thought patterns, but this interview showed me that we have so much in common. I gotta look at his commentaries different now, because I don’t give a damn either. Lol
Great interview roland
💯. 🤨 Let!?!? (Soulja Boy voice)
The right voice for that question😂😂😂
That "Let." is serious
Roland Martin is a black national treasure. He should be protected at all times...
lol what are u on?
Can’t wait until he releases he’s memoir❣️🤩💯
Roland is how I live. I would just say it differently.
“I’m grown.” That’s right!
Real spill from Mr Martin I can dig it 💯
10:15 that guy is divorced now 🤣😂
Bruh like JBo, I Am The Paperwork! 😂😂
I've always admire RM! Right On, Ro!
This is top tier
Humpty Dumpty is a lil too cocky concerning the gift from his wife. Lol
The fact that the dude who's doing the interview is so amazed buy what Roland is saying shows how henpecked he is.😂
It does.. he's really showing his beta card... like, "you talk to massa like that? She gon git you." Smh. I get away from men like that. I expect a woman to talk like he does.
Shawn sounds like this can't be real. Sounds like a lame or low-key simp status 😮
Nah, he's right and it must be working if he's been married that long. I love a grown ass man. He a handful i can tell!! 🤣🤣🤣
"He's a handful" kinda contradicts your previous statement of "I love a grown ass man." You would normally say that about a boy, because he's unruly or difficult to train. That's the problem. We have too many women trying to dominate boys and men..
It sounds so simple, but it's so profound. Act like men, men.
Ego destroy relationships 🙏🏾
Lack of intestinal fortitude does too.
No, When One Adult Tries To Control Another Is What Destroyes Relationships...
No frame from the man destroys marriages
There is no single thing that ruins any relationship as evidenced by the different answers in this comment section.
Yes, so modern women need to let down their ego and get back into their place. You're right. That female ego is something else.
I agree! Do what I want to, when I want to and how I want to. "Let" died when my mother did.
BRAGGING about “cussing” somebody out says more about you than the person.
One of Vlad best interviews
I can think for myself but when Joe Madison & Roland Martin speak on politics I listen .
4minutes in MESSAGE 😂 8min in 😂😂😂
Respect on the 2008 Navigator; No C - Note heard! ... better yet, ownership heard! :D
I don’t understand how this is a hard concept to grasp. Honestly I think it speaks to the times we are in and how the quality of men have changed and women for that matter. As long as the relationship isn’t disrespected we can communicate about anything. A relationship is about unity not control or policing eachother. We are two grown adults who should know how to carry our selves as such. We guide and support each other not judge and boss eachother. We dont have to ask permission to do things we like to do, but we do have to respect one another and the relationship, and if something im doing is disrespectful to her or the relationship then we need to communicate what that is to one another TOGETHER!! I cant tell no grown woman what to do and she dam sure cant tell me what to do…thats insane. I cant imagine me telling other grown men that my wife wont let me come to the superbowl party or my wife telling her friends thats her husband wont let me go shopping with them when i know she makes her own money. Mannn whattt…yea aight lol
Goddamn that a lot to write 😂😂 I get what you say
@@zoehenfen6154 looking back at it…yea it was. Somebody in the comments made me hot🤣🤣
I let my wife dress me.
She knows what’s in style.
Lame af lol
@@qkellz931 😂😂
He wasn't saying he is against the word "let" because he thinks his wife doesn't have taste. He was against it as in someone using it as a means of control
LAME
Smart man💯🤗
Calling them crazy for being nonconformist and have strong minds and convictions is CRAZY lmao.
The interviewer is an emasculated simp. I kinda suspected that by his overly deferential approach.
I'm dying laughing!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂 I agree with him 💯!!!
🤳🏾Call Daygo...
😂😂
Before you simps get in here crying. He said it goes both ways.
Love this conversion
I’m so glad Roland pointed out the use of the word “let.” I’ve seen too many men (especially) when it comes to women. As if they own us.
I totally agree.. sadly most men LET they women run them out of fear of loss or they addicted to the abuse the woman giving them and they are afraid to even get out and try to date again and or face the pain and process of a divorce.. and these women know this.. but when a woman see that u aren’t afraid to lose her and that u are a man.. who is going to do as u please!? Then it’s funny.. they will respect you and be happy.. it’s when u giving a woman everything she wants that she nags the fk out of u.. literally
Roland Martin: I don't eat No Damn vegetables! I'm grown! I be damn if I eat a damn salad. I like the size of my head Damnit. I only eat the finest deep fried pig feet.
Well that’s a lie
@@rolandsmartin I got a hoodie for you lmk where to send it
Roland is speaking facts.
Sean Prez can’t believe a man ain’t getting ran by his wife lmao
100% correct.
WOMAN DOES NOT LEAD MAN.
My Grandmomma instilled that in me as a little boy.
Man is head of household at all times.
I agree with Roland on this video. He is funny, but he is truthful. 🙂
Tell It!!!!
The Ascot King! This is a Damn Man! Love this Alpha Man! Godspeed Brotha.
His April 3, 1968 reference was on point, day before Kings death.
Did Shawn just say “boo with it” ? He a blood now 😂
Who ever is doing the interviewing, his wife must run the house