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  • @not-idle
    @not-idle 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +77

    Nothing but respect for the way you share your reflections on yourself, the people in your life, and your relationship to and with what you do for work. I appreciate your willingness to engage in analysis while still honoring boundaries, and being candid about how that shifts over time. Wishing you well over this next bit of change. Take care!

  • @sophie.sonnleitner25
    @sophie.sonnleitner25 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    sarah, i hope you don’t take this the wrong way but ever since you moved into your new apartment with your partner at the time, it felt like something shifted and you were having a hard time and it reflected in your video diaries. I could tell your energy was blocked in some way and I'm really proud of you (even as a stranger) that you left a situation that wasn't feeding your soul in the way it should have been. I think breakups are hard always, but it’s even harder when it comes from a place of "i still love and care for you but something in our lives doesn't align" and you decide to part ways so each person can thrive the way they were intended to. You are doing so, so well and I always tell people that negative emotions provide us with sooo much potential to grow, even more so than positive ones.I hope this year is transformative and powerful for you. Lots of love xx

    • @mfaaaaa5678
      @mfaaaaa5678 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I had the same feeling!

    • @magicalmalu
      @magicalmalu 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mfaaaaa5678 same :(

  • @annapichouron7414
    @annapichouron7414 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    My boyfriend broke up with me last week. Didn’t have the same long term project of having a family. Really nice guy. Glad we did give it a shot for 14 months. No regret. Bit sad. But creativity right now is a breath of fresh air. Thinking of you and sending my love Xx

  • @ZippyBaby
    @ZippyBaby 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I wish you the best, change is hard. I just wanted to say you are one of the few creators I watch that makes me feel good when I finish watching a video. You find beauty in the mundane and make me notice the abundance in my own life. Sending you love 💓

  • @reneeh143
    @reneeh143 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve been following you since 2021 and I just want to thank you for being so vulnerable in sharing your growth. Your perspective is so beautiful, and the evolution of your content has been so fun to witness. You view the world with such a poetic eye, and the way you capture that in your videos is such a cozy, beautiful, life-affirming thing. Wishing you all the best in this new chapter 💞

  • @lilydaj
    @lilydaj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Sarah, I think another word you can add this year is compassion! Not just for other people, but for yourself. I recently went through what sounds like a similar type of breakup with someone wonderful who I was intending on building a life with, moved into his place, was trying to make it fit but for whatever reason something was just off... (and I tried the whole redecorating to make it feel like home too). Anyway, all this to say that being compassionate with yourself even as you practice discipline and discernment, especially in a transitional period can lighten everything else too, though you seem to be handling this with grace and introspection as always

    • @ritaamor283
      @ritaamor283 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I lived with my ex in three different houses and it was on the last one that I finally understood that the uneasy feeling I had about the different way we would set up a house was a sign of more complicated issues. I don’t think a couple has necessarily to have the same style, but as you said something fell “off” in our journey together, it turns out we, although he is a great guy, had very different values and aspirations. It was and never was at the same time about the space we lived in. It just made it more clear.

  • @Absss__
    @Absss__ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    A silent sub for many years but just want to say that your creativity and passion hasn’t gone unnoticed and your desire for self-growth and reflection re: the way you convey your own life is inspiring. I live in the Puget Sound and you capture the pnw beautifully. You’ve got this, all the best for 2025! 🌲

  • @natashachaba4673
    @natashachaba4673 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I truly admire the way you carry yourself. You are brave and vulnerable while respecting yourself and your boundaries. You’ve built an amazing community of people who admire you - through the good times and the bad. Breakups and change are so hard but you will get through this with a lot of grace. Sending you much love ❤

  • @kleclair9812
    @kleclair9812 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I've been following you for a couple years and I feel so connected to the community you've built. There's such a beautiful energy radiating from you in this video- sending you comfort and strength in this new chapter!

  • @Lyd88
    @Lyd88 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sending you lots of love and light in this new chapter 🤍 I always admire the vulnerability and thoughtfulness you bring in your content. Also, you did an amazing job with the flowers, they’re stunning!

  • @mfaaaaa5678
    @mfaaaaa5678 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    wow i feel this, i feel you, been there a few months ago and it was the worst place I was in mentally, still healing. I also wanted to say I love your writing and I would enjoy anything related to relationships /heartbreak, if or when you ever feel like sharing. Cheering you on endlessly xx

  • @raffaelinarobinson8761
    @raffaelinarobinson8761 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing this vulnerability with us! I also went through an extremely tough breakup in 2016 where I had to move out as well, and remember thinking to myself “who am I?” - I think you have such a strong head on your shoulders, and such a beautiful way of being, that your spirit will guide you through this with such clarity. Smooth seas have never made a skilled sailor- enjoy the ocean view from your new home!!! Can’t wait to see it!

  • @magicalmalu
    @magicalmalu 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    bright things are ahead for you!

  • @greennnlover
    @greennnlover 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sarah!! Oh, you're such a light. I hope this new season for you is awkening and allows you to breathe new air. I am sending you so much love!

  • @mslynnchen
    @mslynnchen 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m loving your writings on Substack and thank you for your vulnerability. Wishing you ease and gentleness as you navigate this next phase.

  • @gabrielyweber1737
    @gabrielyweber1737 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Hi Sarah! I hope you’re doing well

  • @sarahb1740
    @sarahb1740 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    New space, new energy. Wishing you the best. 🌿

  • @avapalmo3606
    @avapalmo3606 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    really excited for your new chapter xx

    • @graymatsen
      @graymatsen  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      thank you

  • @megankenney5905
    @megankenney5905 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hii Sarah! Just wanted to say you inspire me creatively, and I’m excited for this new wave :) I went through something similar a few years ago and I look back at that version of myself as my hero. I hope you continue to give yourself grace, thanks for sharing with us

  • @felixrousseaug
    @felixrousseaug 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    sending you love and hoping this new place brings you peace, joy and even more creativity xx

  • @mattiesmind
    @mattiesmind 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My heart is with you -- genuinely appreciate your vulnerability so much. I am in a very similar situation and am just getting to the acceptance part of it...applying to jobs in a different state feeling "ready" for change, but absolutely terrified of it all and will grieve the life I was building with the person I love (and will always have love for) so much. Can't wait to see what this next chapter brings

  • @shelbyasantillan
    @shelbyasantillan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Hi ❤ I just ended a 6 year relationship (2 year engagement / and 3 weeks away from our wedding…) Breakups are hard. I hope that you are doing well inside and out - take care of YOU. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself grace. Best thing I’ve done (currently 3 months later / no contact) is embrace the feelings as they come. Sending you the best energy ❤

    • @ritaamor283
      @ritaamor283 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hope you are alright too ❤

  • @itsnice4me
    @itsnice4me 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Seriously, thank you for sharing your life with us. Send much ❤ from Japan xx

  • @surferrat
    @surferrat 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    can’t wait for your new beginnings & how you style, your new place 🌷🌷

  • @ritaamor283
    @ritaamor283 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    A lot of TH-camrs say “grab your coffee/tea etc for this video” and it really doesn’t resonates with me. In this case, you never say that, but I have your video on pause on the first seconds, will make a tea and watch it! I’ve been waiting for video from you, your last one inspired me so much ❤ be right back!

  • @emilyblaine884
    @emilyblaine884 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don’t think laziness exists. There is always a reason, maybe in your body or something subconscious you are not yet aware of, but there is always a reason you don’t or can’t do something. If discipline/doing what you “should” do is important to you, try to be curious and patient in trying to find out what is preventing you from doing a task. And when you figure out what is preventing you from doing a task do your best to accommodate yourself

  • @nadiathew9889
    @nadiathew9889 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    excited to watch you move through a new chapter, wishing you nothing but the best🌿🌀🌞

  • @cookievainillacacao
    @cookievainillacacao 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    new energy coming your way ✨✨

  • @psy_chicpoet
    @psy_chicpoet 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi sweet baby. I think being gentle w yourself is so important at this moment. The concept of lazy is a byproduct of capitalism (sry to get political) so releasing that kind of pressure is important for our healing. Sometimes there are moments that we have to really focus on rest. It is also winter time! Once you move into your new space, it will allow you to physically realize your new chapter, so internally it will be more natural to make all these changes. Establishing a routine with your yoga practice and rebuilding that sense of connection within your body will allow your sense of discernment to grow-trusting and knowing your body and seeing how much strength you have and all you can do, just in yoga, will allow a sense of independence and freedom to occur within you. Creativity will get easier, too. You are a glowing light for many of us, I am so excited to witness you benefit from this light yourself in this time of growth. Things happen for a reason-it’s up to us on how we shape the energy that’s been released. Much love 🦢🐚⭐️ we believe in you!

  • @symonecampbell8209
    @symonecampbell8209 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your key words for the new year

  • @ellenfr
    @ellenfr 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ah you're so wonderful, thanks for sharing with us and creating this lil community - hope you are ok

  • @VSandTaylorSwiftLove
    @VSandTaylorSwiftLove 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending you and your new space all the good vibes Sarah! 2025 is supposed to be a great year for us Leos 🫶

  • @quisarose
    @quisarose 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    sending you so much love and a big hug for this next year

  • @quinnecory
    @quinnecory 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    your substack has been so refreshing! you're a really great writer.

  • @taramandic1263
    @taramandic1263 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i adore you and your vibe is always so welcoming and homey

  • @bananapudding1960
    @bananapudding1960 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m going through something very very similar. I’m sending you positive and healing vibes ❤️❤️❤️

  • @missalicerock
    @missalicerock 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Can't wait to see your new place, love watching your vlogs not only once, many times! 💞

  • @Twozerofived
    @Twozerofived 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    virtual hugs to you, take care of yourself!

  • @emmar2587
    @emmar2587 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending you love and joy creating a new home

  • @elainekennedy9686
    @elainekennedy9686 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wishing you all the best for you this year Sarah! ❤ Sorry for what you are going through and thanks for sharing, it will be helpful to those going through similar. Your self awareness and positivity are inspiring and good things are ahead as you know. Onwards and upwards girl. 😊💛💛

  • @bookbinch
    @bookbinch 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending you lots of love and good vibes for your new chapter

  • @vonhammershark
    @vonhammershark 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    awe, you got this!! you got this so bad!! wishing you a blessed and healed new year 🤍🤍

  • @jilllimberg5315
    @jilllimberg5315 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Upwards and onwards ❤ will be here cheering you on!

  • @lilbeth4804
    @lilbeth4804 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Not to be annoying but I love the discernment Goal. I think subconsciously you knew things were going to have to change but I think maybe you thought it was going to be with your partner. I have been watching your videos for years and I noticed somethings you mention but not fully go in on. I am excited for you and these new changes. I hope you are happy and you meet your person. I really appreciate your channel, you have a wonderful heart.

  • @hilmabengtsdotter9817
    @hilmabengtsdotter9817 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is beautiful Sarah!

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When I get Notification from Sarah TH-cam Channel Suddenly Graceful smile comes on my face.😀💗💫 And You are My Biggest Biggest Inspiration

  • @sof8111
    @sof8111 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    sarahhhh i've missed your vlogs so so much! and i'm so so happy you're back. Wishing you a happy 2025

  • @cathbiancacampanelli
    @cathbiancacampanelli 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Sarah, been following you since the very very beginning !! We’re the same age so I really feel connected to a lot of what you’re going through. I just wanted to tell you that I admire you a lot, you really push me to reflect more and you inspire me to be more true to myself 🫶🏻 I just know this year will be a great one , excited to see all that unfolds 😌

  • @katrinalainsbury8320
    @katrinalainsbury8320 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes to you joining substack!!!

  • @beee1230
    @beee1230 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm sorry to hear about your break up :( - Excited for this next chapter for you💜

  • @gillianrowe9374
    @gillianrowe9374 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💛💛💛

  • @hopeyhope2012
    @hopeyhope2012 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m a little more than a year out of a long-term relationship, and all I can say is, I’m so sorry and it will get better. ❤

  • @Asma-ce9wv
    @Asma-ce9wv 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Usually silent subscriber here, I just want to say good luck for this new chapter, which I'm sure will be liberating, exciting and full of surprises, for as challenging as it must feel right now. I really appreciate your videos, and how your sensibility shines through them. Sending warm wishes from Paris!

  • @Katherout
    @Katherout 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤

  • @Camilleisalive
    @Camilleisalive 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Sarah, I’m in the process of apartment hunting in Victoria right now, and wondering if you’re comfortable sharing what websites/where you’ve looked to find rentals? :) the places you showed are kind of what I’m interested in x

  • @mudslidegirl
    @mudslidegirl 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    sending love, sarah ❤also, your eyelashes are so beautiful and long!

  • @josepha133
    @josepha133 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You've got this ❤

  • @juliakranzler182
    @juliakranzler182 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you got this

  • @claire4435
    @claire4435 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending you love❤️❤️❤️

  • @erin921
    @erin921 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    my ex and I started dating around the same time you did. I share the feeling of losing someone you once saw as a lifelong partner. just know, growth comes from the hardest places❤ sending hugs

  • @kelsey3824
    @kelsey3824 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you Sarah!

  • @missmillienettleton
    @missmillienettleton 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sweetheart! Sending you all my love and good positive vibes. ❤

  • @minimalistalice124
    @minimalistalice124 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I missed seeing your beautiful face! Can you do another makeup tutorial please 🙏🏼

  • @sallysaysx5
    @sallysaysx5 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Jamie xx lover girls unite

  • @ritaamor283
    @ritaamor283 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Endings are also beginnings. Corny, but true ❤

  • @heidijeudis
    @heidijeudis 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    skin is skining

  • @meganadele
    @meganadele 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤‍🩹

  • @TaylorSkudlarek
    @TaylorSkudlarek 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    proud of you for doing hard things ❤️‍🩹 Not everyone allows themselves to accept new directions in life, but you seem very in tune with yourself and your internal compass. cant wait to see your continued growth 💓

  • @itsleeese
    @itsleeese 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Sending you infinite love! I think sometimes the universe gives us opportunities to stretch when we least expect it. Even though it may be hard, I know that you're going to come out of the other side stronger than ever 🤍