This is one of the many situations where I struggle to find the right words. Especially in a foreign language. I don't want to say something stupid or disrespectful. What you said is so true. We often take the ones we love for granted. Something so horrible then gives us a harsh reminder that life is too short and that it is precious. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Grief is a very personal experience, please don't feel obligated to act in a certain way because you think someone expects you to. But don't shut everyone else out either. Talking is important. Sorry for my ramblings. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 💚
Best wishes for you and your family. Just remember always the good times you had together, the beautiful kids you have. Years ago in my family happened the same. It was a big shock. We think nowadays that things like these don't happen to us, but they do. I wish you much strength to cope with the situation.
Hello I watch the winklers and see you often word will never be enough I just want to say what can we say so sending prayers and love sweet heart my heart has broken for you god speed from all of us in England we are supporting you all the way xxxx
You are such a wonderful person. I am so sorry this has happened. I want to say that I appreciated you posting this. I think about you and the kids all the time and wonder how everyone is. I appreciate it because you are right I needed this reminder not to take Anything or anyone for granted. That is easy to do sometimes. I think you are doing such an amazing job in a situation that I know I can't begin to comprehend how hard it is. I hope that Mandy can go with you on some of the out-processing appointments that just seems like so much. Do you have an idea of how long it is expected to take at this point? I am glad you have such great friends to help you while you are there. Your family sounds wonderful and what a blessing to know that the kids are being taken care of so you can get things taken care of there. I will keep following here and on instagram and on the Winklers channel. Wishing you the best.
It is so nice to see that other people also trying to think of how disturbing such a moment is and to take a moment and type some more than just a few words. That makes it more real, Tracy, I can understand you because I mostly don't find words to describe that, but also wanna express my feelings. I hope Brittany will go through those nice words of you in some time and see how much you thought about her. It is even now hard to realize it and I know what I am talking about.
I’m so sorry for your and your families loss. I watch Mandy’s videos and my heart broke for you when I saw what happened. He seemed like an amazing person and you two seemed so happy together. He’s watching over you and your kids💕
Britt my heart goes out to you.so very sorry for your loss.l watched a lot of Mandys videos and feel that l got to know you and your amazing family.a big long distance hug.hang in there you are strong.l pray for you and your family and hope you will get all the things done that you need to.l am glad you have amazing friends that are there for you.God bless you and your family
Even though I don’t know you personally,I was very sad for his death. I know a lot of people who knew him from work, plus I’ve been a viewer of you and Mandy for a while. I have been praying for you guys and will continue to pray for you. For comfort, peace and guidance for you. Xoxo
Sending prayers that you get through this all you can do is take one day at a time and if you want to cry then you cry Just know you never get over losing a love one you just learn to deal with it and that will take time. So take all the time you need . Again sending prayers to you all.
We could all do alot of talking about why this happened, let me put in an "american thing" in my life, when I bought my first Zippo, that said "mess with the best, die like the rest". That may sound hard for many people, but although I didn't know Benji, I think he lived his life to the fullest, got a wonderful wifey, 2 amazing kids and some real friends.... Not at least the Winklers, but you all came together for one reason, because you are some rare humans, people who understand that there is no black and white, Catholic or Islamic, only true and fake people. Being natural in mind is a big plus and that is why I felt like loosing a brother at that point... There are so so less people out there worth telling these thoughts and who are able to understand what I am talking about. Sorry, but you probably know, thousand thumbs up, as a dumb comment, but my heart and soul is with you and family for real!
My heart truly goes out to you and your kids. You've been on my mind so much. I'm so thankful you have such a great support system in place in your friends and family. Your experience has truly touched my life in that it has jolted me into more awareness of not taking the little things for granted in day to day life. To pause and appreciate the people in my life. Just to slow down and be grateful for that wet bath towel left on the floor because the person who left it there is still here. You are right and thank you. I just want to reach through this screen so badly and give you the biggest hug. Thank you for sharing with us today. Take your time. Know he is with you and you are stronger than you realize. You are in our hearts❤❤❤
I know the blur feeling. I grieved chad's death for a very long time, longer than I care to admit. I just barely started to try to take life more seriously in the last year. I visited chad's family in December so this is a big blow. Your video gives me chills but therapy videos do help I have made videos myself. My name is Adam Henry and the salcido family know who I am if you were curious. One of chad salcido's best friends. If you need someone to talk to I am here. I get the angry at God and the long grieving process. I am barely caring about living and life again and it has been six years since chad's death. So I get it.
I feel so so sorry for you. A long time ago i went exacly through the same situation. My husband passed away in the age of 28. I was so sad, i cried und yes, i was also angry of him, why he left me alone- so suddenly. A bunch of feelings i can t discribe. And now, years later, i think of him every single day. Not with the same pain, but in few situations he is in my thoughts. I send you a big hug, and hope you will learn to live without him. Family and friends are by your side.
Brittany kuddos for being able to make this video. I had a 34 year old cousin who passed away like your Benji. Even after the autopsy there were no clear answers even toxicology. That was hardest on my aunt and uncle and her sister who was extremely close to each other. I hope, sincerely hope that you get an answer to your questions. I think of you and your kids and hope and pray that you find peace.
I just started watching your videos last month. I was appreciated how honest and real you are in the videos . This video must of been difficult to do. I am so sorry for your lost. Sharing all your feelings on u tube must of been tuff but will help others. You are a wonderful person and god bless you and your kids. I know Benji is proud of you and luv’s how honest, strong and venerable you. I will continue to be a fan of you videos God Will give you strength. Thank you for sharing.
At the end of that video you are right. How say Silas Nacita (another youtuber) always: CYB Count your blessings, every day. I wish you strength and don't worry about youtube, you have much more important things to do at the moment.
I cried with you while watching this. I wish I could give you a very long hug
Thumbs up for that, I totally understand what you mean.
Travis, Calvin, Zeek and I love you and those kiddos - and Benji - more than words could ever explain. 💚
We love you and I couldn't do this without you guys here with me.
This is one of the many situations where I struggle to find the right words. Especially in a foreign language. I don't want to say something stupid or disrespectful.
What you said is so true. We often take the ones we love for granted. Something so horrible then gives us a harsh reminder that life is too short and that it is precious.
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Grief is a very personal experience, please don't feel obligated to act in a certain way because you think someone expects you to. But don't shut everyone else out either. Talking is important.
Sorry for my ramblings.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 💚
Long distance hug,you are amazing and showing such strength.
Best wishes for you and your family. Just remember always the good times you had together, the beautiful kids you have. Years ago in my family happened the same. It was a big shock. We think nowadays that things like these don't happen to us, but they do. I wish you much strength to cope with the situation.
Hello I watch the winklers and see you often word will never be enough I just want to say what can we say so sending prayers and love sweet heart my heart has broken for you god speed from all of us in England we are supporting you all the way xxxx
You are such a wonderful person. I am so sorry this has happened. I want to say that I appreciated you posting this. I think about you and the kids all the time and wonder how everyone is. I appreciate it because you are right I needed this reminder not to take Anything or anyone for granted. That is easy to do sometimes. I think you are doing such an amazing job in a situation that I know I can't begin to comprehend how hard it is. I hope that Mandy can go with you on some of the out-processing appointments that just seems like so much. Do you have an idea of how long it is expected to take at this point? I am glad you have such great friends to help you while you are there. Your family sounds wonderful and what a blessing to know that the kids are being taken care of so you can get things taken care of there. I will keep following here and on instagram and on the Winklers channel. Wishing you the best.
It is so nice to see that other people also trying to think of how disturbing such a moment is and to take a moment and type some more than just a few words. That makes it more real, Tracy, I can understand you because I mostly don't find words to describe that, but also wanna express my feelings. I hope Brittany will go through those nice words of you in some time and see how much you thought about her. It is even now hard to realize it and I know what I am talking about.
I’m so sorry for your and your families loss. I watch Mandy’s videos and my heart broke for you when I saw what happened. He seemed like an amazing person and you two seemed so happy together. He’s watching over you and your kids💕
Britt my heart goes out to you.so very sorry for your loss.l watched a lot of Mandys videos and feel that l got to know you and your amazing family.a big long distance hug.hang in there you are strong.l pray for you and your family and hope you will get all the things done that you need to.l am glad you have amazing friends that are there for you.God bless you and your family
Oh my gosh...💔💔💔
I can’t even begin to imagine how you’re feeling. I am praying you are able to get some answers soon to ease your mind.
Even though I don’t know you personally,I was very sad for his death. I know a lot of people who knew him from work, plus I’ve been a viewer of you and Mandy for a while. I have been praying for you guys and will continue to pray for you. For comfort, peace and guidance for you. Xoxo
Sending love 💚💚💚
Sending prayers that you get through this all you can do is take one day at a time and if you want to cry then you cry Just know you never get over losing a love one you just learn to deal with it and that will take time. So take all the time you need . Again sending prayers to you all.
I'm sorry for you and your family.
R.I.P., Benji.
We could all do alot of talking about why this happened, let me put in an "american thing" in my life, when I bought my first Zippo, that said "mess with the best, die like the rest". That may sound hard for many people, but although I didn't know Benji, I think he lived his life to the fullest, got a wonderful wifey, 2 amazing kids and some real friends.... Not at least the Winklers, but you all came together for one reason, because you are some rare humans, people who understand that there is no black and white, Catholic or Islamic, only true and fake people. Being natural in mind is a big plus and that is why I felt like loosing a brother at that point... There are so so less people out there worth telling these thoughts and who are able to understand what I am talking about. Sorry, but you probably know, thousand thumbs up, as a dumb comment, but my heart and soul is with you and family for real!
My heart truly goes out to you and your kids. You've been on my mind so much. I'm so thankful you have such a great support system in place in your friends and family. Your experience has truly touched my life in that it has jolted me into more awareness of not taking the little things for granted in day to day life. To pause and appreciate the people in my life. Just to slow down and be grateful for that wet bath towel left on the floor because the person who left it there is still here. You are right and thank you. I just want to reach through this screen so badly and give you the biggest hug. Thank you for sharing with us today. Take your time. Know he is with you and you are stronger than you realize. You are in our hearts❤❤❤
I know the blur feeling. I grieved chad's death for a very long time, longer than I care to admit. I just barely started to try to take life more seriously in the last year. I visited chad's family in December so this is a big blow. Your video gives me chills but therapy videos do help I have made videos myself. My name is Adam Henry and the salcido family know who I am if you were curious. One of chad salcido's best friends. If you need someone to talk to I am here. I get the angry at God and the long grieving process. I am barely caring about living and life again and it has been six years since chad's death. So I get it.
I feel so so sorry for you. A long time ago i went exacly through the same situation. My husband passed away in the age of 28. I was so sad, i cried und yes, i was also angry of him, why he left me alone- so suddenly. A bunch of feelings i can t discribe. And now, years later, i think of him every single day. Not with the same pain, but in few situations he is in my thoughts. I send you a big hug, and hope you will learn to live without him. Family and friends are by your side.
Always remember, that is hard but in some way a relief too. Many or most people don't understand that, but I do. 👍
In my prayers and always here if you need to talk. Lots of love from Texas💙
God Bless you and your Family
Brittany kuddos for being able to make this video. I had a 34 year old cousin who passed away like your Benji. Even after the autopsy there were no clear answers even toxicology. That was hardest on my aunt and uncle and her sister who was extremely close to each other. I hope, sincerely hope that you get an answer to your questions. I think of you and your kids and hope and pray that you find peace.
Sending many prayers your way. So sorry for your loss. 🤗
Oops sorry for the below typo’s
I just started watching your videos last month. I was appreciated how honest and real you are in the videos . This video must of been difficult to do. I am so sorry for your lost. Sharing all your feelings on u tube must of been tuff but will help others. You are a wonderful person and god bless you and your kids. I know Benji is proud of you and luv’s how honest, strong and venerable you. I will continue to be a fan of you videos God Will give you strength. Thank you for sharing.
Thinking of you and sending love❤
At the end of that video you are right.
How say Silas Nacita (another youtuber) always:
CYB Count your blessings, every day.
I wish you strength and don't worry about youtube, you have much more important things to do at the moment.
I’m so sorry. That is the scariest thing. If you need anything let me know.
If you want to keep those last videos private, that is your right hun. You don’t have to share everything, some things are okay to keep personal
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