Protecting Your Peace

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  • @alissap1290
    @alissap1290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Above all else guard your heart for out of it flows a wellspring of life.

  • @moniquaglasper8372
    @moniquaglasper8372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Takeaway: be still, set boundaries, communicate, and be realistic about outcomes not always being within my control. Accept imperfect responses to my requests.

  • @Ladylew122
    @Ladylew122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Time alone to enjoy peace and quiet. Set limits

  • @slimtmedia
    @slimtmedia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When I feel myself becoming overwhelmed with worry I play worship music or you can also play bible audio scriptures. I like what she says: We are in control of our peace. Thank you for this reminder.

  • @jean-louisangela1792
    @jean-louisangela1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Be still and take note of all the things around you.
    Last week I started to go walking early in the morning by myself with my gospel on in my ears. No talking, no mask on, breathing in fresh air. That was relaxing!

  • @sharonthomas9851
    @sharonthomas9851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My daughter told me that i allowed people to "dump and go ghost." so I listened.

  • @lashondapolk5703
    @lashondapolk5703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this teaching!! May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.

  • @godoverselfnb
    @godoverselfnb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My 1st. take away from listening to this talk: Identify my triggers and I am the gatekeeper of my peace. My 2nd. take away: Do what is necessary to take care of myself, and everything else will run more smoothly.

  • @shopmom3
    @shopmom3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm scrolling thru YT looking at handbags lol and stumble upon this. What a timely message for me! Starting a new job Monday. My last one was toxic. Pray I can start afresh and be calm and who GOD wants me to be. This truly Blessed me. Thank you ❤

  • @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus
    @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    About 2 years ago I started paying attention to myself...setting boundaries...and 2020 quarantine gave me the time I needed to hear myself...hear my heart...see myself and what my soul needed. God has been showing me soooo much & growing me. I started doing yoga with a Biblical emphasis. It helps alot! I cut some things out of my life. Included some other things that I needed to. I feel better, freer & I feel good. Much more to change though...Jesus is doing it in me!

  • @slimalinga_
    @slimalinga_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This episode was so helpful. God bless you 🙏🏽

  • @VivienneJu
    @VivienneJu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Set boundaries but be reasonable, keep a balance. I love my me space and time and take lots of naps

  • @natalierandrews
    @natalierandrews 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have JUST begun listening to Crystal and I love her. You’re a blessing Crystal ❤️

  • @notyourbusiness8221
    @notyourbusiness8221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So needed this. Boundaries, my trigger points. Peace be still.

  • @MeetAtlanta
    @MeetAtlanta 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you Jesus for allowing me to come across aunty Crystal what a blessing. Grant her long, healthy and a fruitful life.

  • @tachacruz
    @tachacruz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m a people pleaser. I feel bad when I put boundaries up and people “need” me outside of that time. I have to work on that. 😔

  • @kristalmonique
    @kristalmonique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is soooooooo good!!! My goal this year to protect my peace above all else. This is right on time!

  • @otiatopearl
    @otiatopearl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I enjoyed this conversation... I found myself in hospital for ignoring the red flags... now I know better... body voices matter more than the busyness we are maintaining

  • @jean-louisangela1792
    @jean-louisangela1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One thing I need to do is communicate what I want for me instead of letting people guess.

  • @simplyme7711
    @simplyme7711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching replay. My greatest take away, if I HAVE TO know my triggers. However, I also believe establish, communicate, and honor my boundaries are JUST as important. I, too, will have to re-listen to this talk. When doing so, I want to take notes and allow myself the time to truly think on all the questions that have been posed - and answer them for ME. Your talks are ALWAYS so on point in my life. Chrystal, I pray that God will bless you and your family for the ministry you provide. It is a blessing!

  • @nggriffin4670
    @nggriffin4670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was good. When I woke up this morning, something told me after I get the kids off to school, I am to sit in peace for 1 hour. I set the alarm on my cell phone for 1 hour and I sat in the bed and read my devotions. I did not turn on the TV or fold clothes. I sat in the quiet and then got up and prayed. This year 2021 has boundaries all over it. I let go of things/relationships that was not fit for me in this season and decided to let God be my more than enough.

  • @norinewright1604
    @norinewright1604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You, “You Are Worthy Getting To Know”
    Listen

  • @davidjames4267
    @davidjames4267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Coffee with my Sister Chrystal, Amen
    David James West, a Christian man

  • @listen2HIMSPEAK
    @listen2HIMSPEAK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My takeaway from this beautiful message is to mark a time to turn things off (no exceptions!) which will be 8pm for me. Thanks for these pearls Chrystal!

  • @reginamcgary4753
    @reginamcgary4753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Chrystal for reminding us that PEACE is worth fighting for! Nurture the fruit!!

  • @battle.rhythm.pursue8892
    @battle.rhythm.pursue8892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou Chyrstal!!! I am someone who battles anxiety. Your message really has helped me to shift my perspective on how to overcome it in my daily life. When you said "That you are worth getting to know" I felt that!!!!!! That as well as this whole video ministered life to me!!! THANKYOU!!!!!💜💜💜

  • @tracybrooks1512
    @tracybrooks1512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My triggers have affected me to the point that I am seeking GOD to help me eliminate the stress. Worry. anxiety, hurt. It's so overwhelming I am totally redirecting myself to deal with situations that arise. Bless you Crystal.

  • @jennifer-jc3he
    @jennifer-jc3he 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will guard my peace...I will sit on my back porch for 8 minutes a day and write in my journal about what I hear see and smell..

  • @elnoralouisa1
    @elnoralouisa1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like some people below, all I have right now is people mad at me because I am trying to set boundaries, and they feel I should be available to them 24 hours a day. Been going on 5 to 6 hours of sleep for a year now, and just can't do it anymore.

  • @gwenmathebula3891
    @gwenmathebula3891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love her practical tips. 💛

  • @tammyrooks2505
    @tammyrooks2505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So love watching your show! Great biblically based advice always! Thank you Chrystal! God Bless!

  • @christinawilliams9057
    @christinawilliams9057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So you are just like a friend setting down with coffee talking over life-I love your videos and life wisdom-thank you for caring enough to share!! Until our next cup of coffee blessings to you and yours!

  • @Jenna1814
    @Jenna1814 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have said so many things that my head is spinning. So many things that I would love to do differently & need to. I do have anxiety really bad at times. & sometimes like you said I find myself just shut down & drained. But I can't sleep because I have work, a husband, 2 little animal mouths to feed. Plus a host of other things. Now do I get the chance to woosaw, yes & that sleep advice is gold!

  • @kd8983
    @kd8983 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this. Sometimes we do have to slow down and evaluate what we need physically mentally and spiritually.

  • @pamadderley
    @pamadderley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Chrystal you are a blessing. I recently started listening and I am addicted! I have to find a way to get a short nap in my day💕

  • @jasmcneill93
    @jasmcneill93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im catching the replay. I couldn't fall asleep and videos like this help me relax and stay focused. What I took away from this was we get to choose how we process the things that happen. It's ok if something is not fully removed and instead we learn how to balance it better. Thank you for this information

  • @EZULUVMEEZULUVME
    @EZULUVMEEZULUVME ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m listening and walking outside getting needed exercise. I’ll take earbuds out after your done to spend the last few minutes in silence so I can enjoy nature. Thank you for the assignment Crystal 🤗

  • @tisharose7630
    @tisharose7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful. Watched twice. 🙏🏾

  • @sharonvelazquez5265
    @sharonvelazquez5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like you are talking directly to me!!! Thank you, you are so encouraging to me

  • @glendawoodson592
    @glendawoodson592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Chrystal what a wonderful way
    To start my week I definitely needed this How to keep my peace

  • @habakkuk24able
    @habakkuk24able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am the gatekeeper of my peace. I have to be still long enough to know when my peace is disturbed and know what to do about it.

  • @simplybeautiful6269
    @simplybeautiful6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the wisdom that you give to us!!!

  • @s.danyellecoleman7932
    @s.danyellecoleman7932 ปีที่แล้ว

    This message is so on point for me in this interesting season.

  • @felicejohnson3357
    @felicejohnson3357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Take Away: Is that its okay for me to have time for myself. I should not feel guilty about taking a moment to BE STILL. (Perfect Peace).

  • @marianbruce-tagoe1885
    @marianbruce-tagoe1885 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Communicate, Comprise, & Connect💕

  • @innerpeace528
    @innerpeace528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to do a social media cleanse. I’m going to start this tomorrow.

  • @chandraw.3905
    @chandraw.3905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Chrystal ❤🙏🏼

  • @ShantelGraces
    @ShantelGraces 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true! Thank you for sharing this message.

  • @lisabartley6944
    @lisabartley6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Ma'am Much Appreciated 😊🦋

  • @TheHeartfeltHoney
    @TheHeartfeltHoney 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love all of your videos. Thanks for sharing

  • @simplyme7711
    @simplyme7711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know I am late to the party, but God knew I needed to hear this today, May 5, 2022.
    One takeaway: Implement ALL the points! Doing so will be progressive. THANK YOU!!!
    UPDATE: I actually heard and commented on this video OVER A AGO!!! 😳 I just saw the comment I had posted. Listening to his today was so BRAND NEW to me. I guess “an allergy” developed in my life since that time, and anxiety ensued and overwhelmed me!

  • @gemmab8626
    @gemmab8626 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Chrystal, LOL. She always makes me laugh. We kind of communicate the same way -- using levity to make truth more palatable.

  • @marvaodle278
    @marvaodle278 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s a pleasure listening to you keep the good work up

  • @tisharose7630
    @tisharose7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ...🙏🏾

  • @lorriethompson2475
    @lorriethompson2475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful message!!!

  • @ldthomas0609
    @ldthomas0609 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful. Thank you!

  • @kimlamullings2645
    @kimlamullings2645 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I love the topics you do, thank you so much

  • @wynettstewart3525
    @wynettstewart3525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sooo ontime! Be still my soul.... and know that God is God!

  • @kaludiakaumi6552
    @kaludiakaumi6552 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been feeling this way too, first time here, thank you for this

  • @FaithfulJourney92
    @FaithfulJourney92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These videos are so helpful

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing how spoke up for yourself to your Boss. A lot us just find another colleague to complain to, bcoz not brave enough to confront our boss. This was a good example of how to do it.🙏

  • @claudiagay553
    @claudiagay553 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    POWERFUL! 🙏

  • @alissap1290
    @alissap1290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! I feel like your my sister!

  • @barbarayoung487
    @barbarayoung487 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found you yesterday for the first time. Tell me won’t God due it .I will be 88 in January.I say and I am sharing u with others.God sent me Angle in you. 2023 Will be very good different for myself.🙏🏿

  • @ppitchford67
    @ppitchford67 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Im so happy to be a part.

  • @sherrillbutler6095
    @sherrillbutler6095 ปีที่แล้ว

    A good Nap is an indication that I am mentally tired sometimes

  • @lisabartley6944
    @lisabartley6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Discerning my indicators💪💪🙏🙏

  • @biblestudy3823
    @biblestudy3823 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise Christ!!!
    Great topic! Glory to The Father & Jesus!!!
    Tip: you will have less stress if stop saying:
    - your alarm went off
    ""A million times""
    - your children try to
    ask &/or tell you a
    "" Million Things""
    This was causing these things to continually happen in your life.
    You will have what you say = Self Fulfilling Prophecy!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @faithg.11.6
    @faithg.11.6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for my 2021 guide directing me to 'Go get my life back'. Reestablishing my joy and peace. Thank you. You are truly another one of my 'Sheroes'

  • @wensot4067
    @wensot4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so needed this word. Thank you for sharing Chrystal.

  • @tamd1029
    @tamd1029 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was good much needed. My takeaway... I have to do more physically maintain and take the control my peace. Set boundaries...

  • @vlewis5757
    @vlewis5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My take away set boundaries and stick to them

  • @daveondiekaaron2204
    @daveondiekaaron2204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hallelujah!
    🤲

  • @cassandraboyd9050
    @cassandraboyd9050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5 second vacations during day will help.

  • @lillgathogo
    @lillgathogo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never seen Crystal's husband. Would love to watch an episode with the both of them ❤❤❤❤

  • @demetriaelston9883
    @demetriaelston9883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just say No and mean it!

  • @romainesingleton7598
    @romainesingleton7598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to take time for me and reflect on the overload in my life. Sometimes I am like a robot, and can't stop. And I will start taking naps.My daughter takes a nap every day. Will take a lot of pages out her book. Thank you for this was well needed.

  • @rosalindquash5468
    @rosalindquash5468 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have the ability to do it, and no one else can do it for you.

  • @Mrnmrssetapart
    @Mrnmrssetapart ปีที่แล้ว

    #replay I honestly don’t know how to communicate in a godly way I withdraw and after this LIVE I’m realizing I’m apart of the issue 😢 but it’s so nourishing .

  • @yohicks8021
    @yohicks8021 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Chrystal I tend to feel guilty because I eliminate any and everything in my life that disturbs my peace and didn't realize it until I was in counseling years back with my now ex-husband and the counselor recognized that was a pattern of mine and told me I shouldn't do that and it is not good ..now I know it's ok..not to the extreme of course but it is still ok.. thank you

  • @momccarter1691
    @momccarter1691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so necessary....

  • @ingridlarmond7240
    @ingridlarmond7240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why am I just running into this channel . . . Ah-mazing

  • @momversity7216
    @momversity7216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A snack and a nap worked for Elijah.

  • @sharonvelazquez5265
    @sharonvelazquez5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need the quiet time to notice what is going on around me.

  • @shirleyadaniels6572
    @shirleyadaniels6572 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching replay: BOUNTRIES

  • @sabrinagoodman582
    @sabrinagoodman582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My takeaway is carefully speak up for what you need and make sure you pour peace in to your life.

  • @gloriacabanillas7718
    @gloriacabanillas7718 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My take away is to be intentional with protecting my peace and being the "Gatekeeper."

  • @seraiahjames
    @seraiahjames 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to be intentional on my quiet time in the morning and keep headphones in at work to keep outside elements from disturbing my peace.

  • @lydiajay8305
    @lydiajay8305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am the gatekeeper of my peace.

  • @forten559
    @forten559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to figure out my boundaries

  • @judymsomi2480
    @judymsomi2480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be able to Identify the Indicators.

  • @momeetamee007
    @momeetamee007 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏾

  • @gloriatodd69
    @gloriatodd69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Boundaries

  • @amytraille9735
    @amytraille9735 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take time out to be still.

  • @WanderingThought
    @WanderingThought 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me finding a job that isnt chaotic

  • @jehovahskid
    @jehovahskid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Prioritize and rest.

  • @millierobinson7400
    @millierobinson7400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please tell me how this relates to your grown children. They think you are responsible for them when they want or they will cut you off

  • @momccarter1691
    @momccarter1691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💝💝💝💝💝

    • @belindaharris8805
      @belindaharris8805 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness Chrystal, you said it, its my responsibility to Live My Life Well.....this one precious Life I have been given ❤

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    @juliannaokike3360 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @dama2614
    @dama2614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My anti-anxiety and anti-depression pills should be working better. What's interrupting the peace is Covid-19, the new mutations of Covid-19, my family/friends dying from Covid-19 and other health issues, no replacements for the void that is left from people dying, isolating and social distancing,
    😝😝😝😝😩😩😩😩💣💣💣