@@justaeythings9301 hmm im not even sure love is real to be honest, it is almost like it's a thing people do to make themselves feel better....but i get told im wrong all the time so i dont know
"When a woman is putting in the effort to keep you, you need to match her effort, because when a woman has decided she has given all she can give and can't give anymore, there is NOTHING you can do to get her to give more." That's a quote from Derick Jackson, he's a dating coach, and what he said is the truth. I learned it the hard way.
That’s very true. We can also be very wrong to men. We all need to treat each other better. But a woman will fight hard when she loves you, if you don’t reciprocate she will grow weary and realize she’s wasting her time.
You just didn't see the type of love you were expecting. You were more focused on other things that were more important, it's common in self centered selfish people.
As i read all these posts, they seem to come from young people. So, as an older, divorced woman who has had many heartbreaks (from high school on into life).... this is the absolute best advice I could ever give u.... When people show u who they are, believe them ....
The hardest lesson I have ever learned.. After 13 years of marriage and 2 children.. she gave up. I havent been the same sense. Ive accepted it, grown and now realize.. she did me a favor, she showed me I deserved better.
I'm working on that right now. Hits like an atomic bomb. Glad you're doing better and realizing your worth, brother. That's where it gets tricky for me.
Thats right you deserve better. If she isnt going to understand you and is legit okay with growing old and being on the verge of death without a soulmate that they spent their whole life with. Why would they spend their whole life with them then? Its idiotic. People get greedy they take things for granted.. we all deserve love tho. What a shitty world.
Same 18 yrs and 3 kids she left and is now having a new baby with her puss boy. I was devastated about it all but i now see she did me a favour!! Im starting to get on now but ya i hope other can take something from these comments. Stay strong 💪👊 you're better than you think you are. ✌
You do deserve better i hope my mother can realize that 15 years of been together and have 2 kids at a yougy age and the man she been with has never really been around for her or his kids.
Narcissism is on the rise if you havent noticed. Never love someone that doesnt love you back because youre only hurting yourself. I cant stand when im ignored so i gave up on relationships and absolutely love being single. "be not unequally yolked with unbelievers"
You can still send that person loving kindness. It comes right back to you and then you don’t carry any burden or karmic debt. I love you .... bye bye.
I disagree with don't love someone if they don't love you back... As men and women we should love all relationship or not... You don't even have to know someone to love them.. You can dislike their ways but always love others.... Cause we all love and show love in different ways.... So the key is to find someone who loves you the way you want to be loved... But we can't say what's in someone else's heart truly.. Accept through their actions not just words... Some people men and women don't know how to love cause they may have never had it... It's like this if your never driven a car and know one ever took time to show you then you'll only be able to drive the car your way it might not be correct but eventually you'll get it right.. So if you truly love that person you'll take the time needed to help teach that person how to drive your car the way you want it drove and if they love you enough they will give their all to do so
I’m 25 & divorced already. And I messed up with the person who actually loved me. So yes this hits me hard but it’s true guys. Be thankful for her! Hug,Kiss,Surprise,etc. Her! Make her smile because you’re gonna mess that when she’s gone Believe it or not.
Slowly starting to not love him anymore...he didn't choose what he wanted, I got tired of waiting and being alone then eventually I gave up 😔 it hurt like hell but I can't spend another night crying myself to sleep wondering why I'm not enough. Here's a tip boys if you love her than you better tell her before it's too late because eventually she will give up and she'll spend the rest of her life wondering what she did wrong, but at the same time she'll stop caring someone new will come along and her feelings for you will be nothing more than a distant memory 💔💯
@@jessicaharris1132, it's obvious you care about him. It may not be romantic but it's unconditional. Just tell him you unconditionally care about him, that the past has already happened and can't be undone but it can be learned from, y'all can heal and move forward, whether it be as friends, acquaintances or more.
It's moments like these when you thought you were over them, moments when you thought you were doing so well, then as soon as you hear the music and see those words, the tears start flowing and the hurt resurfaces, I'm so sorry to the one/ones I took for granted, not just romantically, but to those I just became acustomed to, didn't know what I had till it is gone
Winterdragon, I’m happy you realized crying won’t do shit. Most people can’t move on and get sad and desperate but hey, I’m happy your not most people. As for Lion King, grow a spine you sad pussy. Get over your ex, she will never love you back. Go do something with yourself besides leaving negative, uninspiring, half drunk, half assed insults in the comment section.
My ex-wife gave up on me after 15 years of marriage and four kids. I never saw it coming. Turns out, there was someone else promising her greener pastures. I didn't know it then but today, it has become the BEST thing to happen to me. I got the gift of goodbye. I don't need her or want her back. EVER!
Red Pill Rage, You have my condolences for your time wasted. And yeah, she was a great teacher. 'Goodbye' was the best thing she taught you. Now I quote the Great Spock "Live long and🖖"
I’m a girl, this is so true. A girl will only break your heart if you break hers. When a girl isn’t interested in you, you will know it. She will flirt with other guys and she wouldn’t give a damn about anything you do anymore
Cerys Louise Well there's this girl that I've been really good friends with for about a year and we even dated each other but after a week she broke up with me but she didn't want to tell me why. It's impossible that I broke her heart. I always cared about her, talked to her in a good way, and treated her like she was the only person important to me. Which I still do. But I'm still wondering to this day why she broke up with me and wondering even more about why she doesn't even want to tell me the reason for doing it
Cerys Louise Well if that was the case, all she had to do was tell me. It could've been one of those things, or even worse, she was probably with some other idiot WHILE she was dating me, which is probably why never wants to tell me the reason she broke up with me
I can relate to every single point made in this video i had a hugeeee crush on this guy but he just didn't pay any attention to me. If i wanted to text with him i had to text him first or start the convo.. I used to stalk him on social media every single day and look through all his female followers. I was crazy. It ruined me, i was mentally devasted, cried myself too sleep because i felt lonely and i felt like he hated me. The only person that knows about that is my best friend i was hella annoying. But with time it got better. I didn't missed him as much as before when i was not around him and i was finally able to talk with other guys again. I got so much more confidence and finally got my happines back. I can now finally laugh again, go out and just enjoy my life. It's crazy how much impact one person can have on your life. So girls/boys if u feel like crap because of a guy/girl get over it. Tell yourself he's not worth it because he really isn't. It's not as hard as it may seem. And there is someone out there for everyone remember that
ClaraMagdalena Love is so strong that it can break you and heal you again. It's as if we are possessed by the devil or something. I am also that type of girl Clara. When I find someone that I have feelings for, I get insanely obsessed with him. I don't know how to get rid of the feelings though... until I get over it....but when you think about it...it's hard to get RID of the Feelings inside of me.
ClaraMagdalena I main worry is that I'll never find anyone like them again, because I remember when they used to care and it was the world to me but they moved on. I miss him so much.
Yeah... Actually... The girls nowadays have every right to change their decision at any time... You will start treating her as your wife but when the time comes, she will leave you saying" you don't respect me..."
I gave her actions instead of words. She left because she valued words over actions, and fell in love with someone new who talks the talk and says the things they want to hear, but it's empty. And now theyre stuck in an abusive relationship. Humans are complex and will always fixate on the lack and ignore what they have. Never appreciating our own prosperity because its overshadowed by our desire for "something more"
amalmansy .. i do more then say and boy im done👌🏿 ..i will do no more. Females are the most ungrateful, while we are in a world where its too hard to earn an honest dollar.
"Act for me", as silence or just being with someone doesn't satisfy you anymore means you expect someone to entertain yourself. No matter how much love or wealth received, yet it all cant replace your own inner emptiness or teach self-love. But ey! Just my opinion.
MrKingVulture that is not true. Not every girl is like that. A girl can spend years in love with a guy to only get hurt and used. It’s not only the guy that gets hurt but it’s not only the girl either. Giving up for some of us isn’t an option... we don’t move on or get bored.... that’s not how we are.
It is a two way street and actions are needed more than just words. Yes ill miss her eyes but i won't miss how nothing she said lined up with her actions.
True ...its hard getting mixed signals from a man one day he is on fire for you tomorrow he says I'm just a man i need space to date freely .Its best to let him go before you become a demented stalker .Love yourself first ..if he loves you too and is your soulmate he'll sort his feelings out and be back .In the meantime let him enjoy his freedom while you enjoy yours .
Chroniiq ik, this basicly happens when a girl has a crush on a guy and the guy never tells her he likes her so she gives up on trying and does everything in the video
You don't ever appreciate someone's company, love support etc, until it's gone and then you begin to realise how much they meant, their actions meant, their words meant to you... And you miss it 💔💔
I bet there was nothing he could of done while you were together. Some women just get bored and want to explore. Sad cause a lot of good guys get screwed that way.
This is happening to me right now and i'm not even talking or flirting with other girls but she's flirting with other boys and just doesn't care anymore. I text her, I wait looking at my screen for the whole day and the most i would get is "Hi I can't talk to u" and then like 5 minutes later she posts something on social media. Most of the time she doesn't even say anything and I know she was on cuz she was posting stuff on her snapchat story. All my friends didn't even think she actually likes me and she was way to good for me. People were making fun of me for thinking I had a chance. I'm always trying to protect her too. When people were talking crap on her I stood up for her even though i was gonna get bullied from it. I've never felt this much emotion for anybody but I guess she doesn't feel any emotion for me back. I love this girl with all my heart and take a bullet for her but in her position she would rather have me get shot straight in the head with a bullet. It's especially hard when people are telling me to go drink bleech or go die in a fire. There's one thing that i know that's true that gets me really depressed when someone calls me "fat" and stuff like that. And i know that's true cuz i've been overweight for most of my life. I play soccer and most people say to me " Hey I didn't know that a hippo could play soccer" or "you can't play soccer, your too fat". I'm just scared to go anywhere now. I just wish I had someone who actually cared about me cuz my parents neglect me, my friends bully me, my siblings get more love than me, every time i trust someone the just stab me in the back. I don't even think I should be living anymore cuz apparently no one gives a damn about me. I don't even know what i did to deserve this. My life is already challenging and i'm not even in college or life. I don't know what to do, where to go, and why I should be here. I just want one person would care for me. If you're still reading this i want you to know to never let anybody get to you like they got to me. You don't have to hurt yourself. You are worth something.
Ninja- Kills I love a girl she is irish I am to.. u pronounce her name e mer spelt eimear and I would take a bullet for her I would give her the world in a heartbeat if I could .. she means tbe world to me I loved her for 4 years and she does not like me she is 12 I am 11 and she now likes someone else she was sent text telling her to kill herself and I said what ever you do dont I will have no point in life then I get bullied because everyone knows I love her and they always bully me because she does not live me like I love her more than I love myself I ran 12 kilometers just to be with her and I got bullied when I got there but I had the best time of my life because she asked if she would be allowed to go on a walk with me when we were walking she grabbed my hand and said I never knew you felt like that for me I feel the same for you... now we love each other more than the world...
Ninja- Kills Okay so listen. I'm not even sure if this'll get to you, or if you're even going to read it. Don't be sad, life is too short to be sad. Enjoy the good times and capture the memories. Don't let other people change who you are. Your life...You've had a good taste of what the world can do to you. "Don't let the world change your smile, let your smile change the world". And never feel like you're nothing or that you don't deserve to live. You're beautiful on the inside and out. Remember that there's always someone out there who really loves you for who you are. Best of luck. Charisa~~
Ninja- Kills That's the world we live in. Accept it. But also fight it. Who cares if you're fat. LOSE THE FUC***ING WEIGHT BRO. WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK. JUST DO YOU. And get the girl because then you can show everyone they were wrong. Be positive and stay woke! Your so stupid honestly how can people be like this in life. Its the life we have like WTF AND LIVE. STUPID!
Ninja- Kills Don't listen to them bullies, and don't think your worthless because there is always someone out there in the world that cares for you, like me, I would care for anyone and seeing your comment just shocked me on how that girl could do something that mean to an amazing guy like you, I would do anything to have someone like you, but unfortunately I still have to wait because I don't seem to be finding anyone that likes me that way. 💝💝
Kenneth Osorio bruh stop being a cyber bully. It’s not cool plus he’s not stupid, how is even stupid? He was just simply telling what was going on and you just think it’s okay for you to like “well who cares just be you, you stupid!” How is that even gonna help him understand that he has to be himself when you’re the one who’s basically not even helping him. And some people can’t accept this life, you need to fucking understand that kids/teens/adults deal with this kind of situation every day. Some people end their lives because of it and you’re just saying “well deal with it it’s life, just accept it” bitch be quiet.
Dionne Odom I' my gonna try this tomorrow , hopefully I'm not to late , I have been fighting with myself for awhile on what I should do , but your commit hit a grandslam, In my book thank you! ! She s still waiting on me , How lucky can a guy be!! .
Dionne Odom .. i do more then say and boy im done👌🏿 ..i will do no more. Females are the most ungrateful, while we are in a world where its too hard to earn an honest dollar.
This is the 5th month and I still hurt terribly... Have cried my heart out.. Depending on sleeping pills to sleep...talked to my friends, his friends our friends... I didn't hurt him he hurt me but the love I have for me overpowered the hate and frustrations I had for him after he betrayed our love...it's still so raw...I've loved before but this was different... All I'm left to do now is pray for inner peace,healing and unending love and happiness in the future. I still love you.
I'm going through this now we was together for 9 years and he left me 1 month ago and it hurts. JUST KEEP PRAYING. We have to take it one day at a time.😪💔🙏🙏🙏
When a guy truly knows the heart of the girl who loves him, there is never any second guessing, in terms of her loyalty/intentions, especially, when she has given him the key. 🗝 On the contrary, "love" is never unsure.
I still remember the day I told my ex I didn't love him anymore. And it wasn't until I said it that I realized I hadn't been in love with him for a long time and I had been giving up more each day. But i couldnt keep losing myself to keep his attention and fight for what he stopped giving
If anyone cares and has time, here is my story: About a month ago, I wrote a letter to my crush. I already knew he didn't feel the same and when he rejected me, he said he still wanted to be friends. This at the time, was all I wanted. But ever since that day, we stopped talking. I'll look at him and I sometimes think he will glance at me but I'm sure he isn't. All these feelings that I had for him only got stronger and stronger. I started to get over him with the help of TH-cam...that is until a couple days ago. I found out that he had tried smoking, something he apparently always wanted to do. From what I heard, he liked it...this was at school and when I literally felt my heart drop. I have lost people to smoking and it hurts to know that you might get into it. I had your friend talk to you about it since we are too distant for you to actually listen to what I have to say. All you did was deny that it was bad for you. I know what I would say...I just can't because I made the situation too awkward. You probably don't think I care about you and I thought I didn't anymore until I was told the news. In this video, it talks about how you loose someone who loved and truly cared about you. I looked at this in the perspective of the girl. The problem is, you wouldn't know that I truly cared about you. Everyday when you weren't there, or you got hurt in P.E., I was hurting. Not being able to do anything for the past 5 months, in fear that you would shut me out or think less of me has started to kill me from the inside out. I held in my tears for 2 months...now they are out. I feel like I'm ready to give you up, even though you never gave me a chance. I just feel like I won't be able to until I know your safe. Until I know you aren't going to ruin yourself and make stupid decisions you will regret later on in life. But of course, you wouldn't care. All because you don't think I care enough or care at all. After all, how can you care so much about someone if you never knew they cared about you more than anything at the time? The truth is, I don't know how. All I know is that it happened to me, but it won't happen to you. Tyler, if you are reading this, please stop before you get hurt. Please contact me through Instagram or at school...I want to talk to you so much. Please, do this before I give up on you like I'm about to. I would hate to see you tear yourself up like I have...I love you too much to let you do that to yourself. And to all the girls reading this, don't do what I have done. Don't waste your time on something that will never happen. You will find someone that loves you and cares for you just as much as you did to the other person. To all the boys out there, don't let her go unless she doesn't feel the same. If she loves you and you don't love her, just think about how much she cares for you compared to everyone else. Maybe you will realize that she is someone you will want by your side. I apologize for this REALLY long comment but I hope you guys got something out of this.
I asked my crush out on Feb 14. But since I'm way too shy, to ask her out in person, I left a note in her tray along with a book I bought for her. Then, she came to me and told me she didn't like me back... it's been a month and 3 days and I'm still thinking about her.. from dusk 'til dawn, from start to finish.
Women want bad boys they can change into their ideal nice guy but it usually backfires in their faces I've seen the story play out over and over. Just keeping it real.
Dude. Nice guys finish last. Go read up on coach Corey Wayne on TH-cam? When you text and appease women they quickly loose attraction and go for the asshole who ignores them. Be the man who says Fuck it and be alpha and they will be fighting over you
Women: when we give up on liking someone we give up permanently Also women: doesnt tell guy she likes directly but instead plays games until he decides to go after another girl
Michael Smith : I’ve found the opposite is true. Men will ghost or break things off with a suitable woman because they imagine they can do “better” and then come hot footing back because the “new, better” woman really wasn’t that great. It’s actually women who will walk away and stay gone.
Both replies are true I honestly believe that part of the problem is a lot of people don't really understand how to commit to a relationship everyone's looking for better as soon as they see something they don't like. How can a relationship survive with a outlook like that.
In my opinion if they give up on you then that means that they have probably have been thinking about it for a while and only held on to you just for your sake.
Girls are no saint either, there are tons of asshole bitches around who are self centered and will walk out even they have done the disaster..... So stop bullshitting and pretending that women's are very special creatures and men's are shit. Girls see yourself what you do with good men's .... You leave then in one strike even then when it was your mistake.....
@@jessgravant so true, she was centre of everything I did, my career, my lifestyle I always considered her first but her constant denial to talk, to give time and absolutely stubborn when come to sex...... Later while our parents were discussing our marriage she blew one thing out of proportion and put it on Facebook her whole family indirectly tonted me..... I was sad and was expecting an apology call from her but what I got was another Facebook story post of breakup party with her office collegue......... I feel like such a looser that I am still trying to mend things from my side as if I did it all.
I can feel u. My boyfriend cheated on me while he was on vacation. He thought I would be mad so he broke up with me before I could. I never would have on my life. I miss him. I want him. I need him. I blamed myself and apologized to him but he said nothing was my fault and that I still mean something to him even though we haven't talked in 3 weeks. Its really confusing to me. Everything just hurts.
Faded Gaming I know how you feel, trust me if anyone did it would be me, when my girlfriend broke up with me I was so depressed, I cried every time I thought about her and I had no will to live anymore... but now I moved on and I know you will too and then you'll realize it... Was she even worth being so depressed about? No she wasn't
Wow. I ever though a guy could love a girl that much. At least... not after my boyfriend cheated, left me. My guy-friend told me those guys think its funny to get girls attached to them, then toy with their emotions by leaving them. I saw my ex boyfriend as the kindest person in this world. I pictured the most harsh ways he could have left me. But he did something far worse than anything I could imagine. He hasn't seen my for 13 days straight because I was in a hospital in Honolulu. Then the day I first saw him, he acted like I didn't even exist. Then he told other people he was leaving me, then he told me to ask his FRIEND when I asked him if he was going to break up with me. Now I'm hearing rumors he still likes me. Its so hard. Before I met him, I was so depressed. But when I met him, he did something! I don't know what it was but it was like he took my depression, and trew it away like paper. When he left, I didn't know what to do with myself. I'm better and over him now though =)
well you might not think we do love a girl the way a girl loves a man but to be honest a boy probably loves a girl more then a girl loves a man and ps sorry that he cheated on u
Maybe she's just too scared to believe you maybe it's because she believed someone and at the end she left with broken heart. Maybe that's why she doesn't trust you
I’m a girl and u need to tell her how u really feel u need to tell her how u feel about her deep down because that’s not enough for girls who have been hurt before. Good luck!!
But this time i give her everything what i have i give her my heart i told her that the i love her i never says anything bad to her ibwas ready to die fot her.. and she leave me without reason... and then they says its always boys fault.. but they dont see how they hurt us..
I feel you... my boyfriend left me for nothing. I was so confused...I asked him why and he says, "I don't know" I wanted to scream at him. I was so happy. Its hard getting through every school day seeing him. It hurts. I cried 7 times on that same day. Twice at an after school activity. Once on the activity bus home. Twice at home. And then I cried myself to sleep that night.
my boyfriend broke up with me. I wanted to ask him to be together again and I started the conversation like this, "Hey, I know I probably mean like...nothing to you anymore but- he interrupted me. What? No you mean some thing!- I skipped right to the point. "A-are you dating anyone?" I asked scared. "No I'm open still. I kinda just lost interest in dating." I responded as, "Oh okay nevermind then" He looked at me like he wanted to know more. I was embarrassed to ask. I know we are not together anymore but I still get jealous. I still care about him more than I care about myself. I still love him and think of him as my world. I care about him so much. BOYS!!! Girls still care about you even if they no longer have you!
Its mostly the girls who breaks up. Guys never thought she could actually break up with them cause .... Its feel like a part of us . You dont need to think while being around her cause you used to think , she's the one who understands you . When she tell you about the break up , boys are more broke in the heart than the girl herself . They just dont wanna make it any harder for their partner 😔
I gave up on my first true love from over 33 years ago... too many chances down the drain.. the last time was it... sadly the hope and dream I had of him is not the reality of him... he was too too toxic for my soul. Good bye, for the last time, TDG.
@@koo-core7274 I respect you're comment Ive hurt someone important 2 me! & karma did come back. I was eventually hurt! Most people will experience this. Hope you life goes well take care.
I met a boy at school and I instantly fell for him, He was amazing, funny, caring, and kind. A few weeks after the first day of school we started talking on instagram. We talked for hours and hours every single day, But then we stopped talking, now when we see each other we just make eye contact and continue walking or something. I still like him but he doesn’t like me, he flirts with other girls at lunch and in the morning before classes begin and it makes me so jealous he doesn’t know that I like him but I really want to tell him. It’s been a month since I’ve talked to him and I’m so sad I just want to forget about him but I can’t. He is just so special to me, And I don’t want to lose him just because I’m too shy to tell him that I like him, or to even talk to him. He has been avoiding me for a long time and I can’t even say hi without being a total idiot and Messing up our conversation before it even happens. I’m so broken right now, and I wish we could talk but he won’t talk to me and it hurts sometimes. I haven’t been able to sleep at night either because I just think of what could go wrong or what could happen between us I know it’s stupid but I like him so much. When we talked he made me so happy and he made me laugh too. I love him and I don’t know what to do please help :(
When I started to feel these changes happening to me, it was involuntary. It was in response to feeling unwanted and being neglected by a man I loved so deeply. Never having my hand held, or being told I was loved and appreciated. Being a low priority in his life, and being reminded of my value to him as he sought attention from other girls. I fought and battled to be in his heart, his arms and his thoughts. And then I lost the strength to fight; slowly, over time, I backed away, defeated and wounded. I hoped he would feel the loss and finally pull me closer to him. But the day I left, still not wanting to go and hoping he would just love me enough to stop it all, he let me go. And still I've been giving him time to win my heart again. But when a man is closed off emotionally and is full of bitterness and anger, then they can't even love themselves let alone a kind and sensitive woman with an open heart. I send love and healing to him, and wish him well. I'm still healing and growing from this experience, and know I will one day find my true love who would never let me give up on them.
Rylee it gets better. In a few months you will look back at this time and laugh and shake your head. Learn from this and inthe future weed out these guys ahead of time before emotions are involved
You are not alone,I,m going through the same thing,an yes,it hurts,I suffer from stress,depression,insomnia,an that is what always ruins my relationship's,plus I,m a really nice guy,so,I either destroy it when my emotions erupt,or I get used cause I,m"to nice"an that is a weakness women take advantage of everytime !!!!!! #FUCKED FOR LIFE !!!!! ✌ ❤
@@lillobo9536 I,m so sorry,wish I could take away your pain an give it to myself,I,m so used to getting hurt,I've become numb to it,add my stress n depression,an I,m a total train wreck. I,m sending you peace,love n good vibes,an hope things get better for you. It will for me soon,cause there will be no more pain. ✌ ❤
@@lillobo9536 let me ask you this? What were the kind of guys you hooked up with and fell for? Were they the bad boys or at least confident and positive and had a lot going for them who contacted you occasionally? Or were they the nice sweet guys who blew up your phone and kept trying to get you to like them? My guess is the former right? Yale confirmed this and especially during ovaluation women picked the strong ones and blew of their male friends.
when she gives up on you,I would collapse inside and out thinking,crying,and hating myself for what I did the regret.This is what happened to me with my first girlfriend never hate the ones who dump you hate what you did wrong and wait a year to date again or it'll happen again😖😞😐
This is less when a girl gives up on you and more when she falls out of love. There’s a difference even if it’s subtle. You can give up on a guy you’re still in love with, that’s what I did. I gave up on my ex and left him even though I still loved him at the time. And because I loved him then, I wasn’t indifferent to him. Indifference is the opposite of love. This video describes indifference; it describes falling out of love, not necessarily giving up on someone. Nice video though 👌🏻
There's no difference between the two. If you give up that means you don't care enough to keep trying. Which makes people fall out of love. All relationships have a shelf life. The problem is that people refuse to let go when that time comes.I have never had a female stick by me when the hard times come. I don't include my mother and grandmother as they are family. It has been my experience and observations that lead me to say that females are only with you while times are good and she reaping the benefits. The moment it gets rough they are gone. I have no expectations that any female I'm with will be around for long. I just try to enjoy whatever good times we may have and go from there. Anyone who tells me otherwise about female behavior is being dishonest about the true nature of females.
John Reed What if there was only me standing by him when the hard time came, helping and supporting. I forgot me, to love him. We went through all of that, 3 months later when everything was settled down, he wanted to be with another girl, yes, falling out of love or losing interest, to what it means. It’s been two months, my heart still doesn’t want to give up on him. But I’m trying to focus on myself, be a best version of me.
Comes a time when you finally have to let him go..for your heart,your piece of mind ,your sanity,the love is still there but the pain..is too hard to keep feeling ,knowing you'll never be....enough.
Before my marriage ended, my then wife played this song in situations when we argued. We both looked at each other knowing things are falling apart, but I simply stood paralyzed,my voice was gone,I wanted to tell her many things I never did before but I couldn't. I will always remember this
A week ago my crush unfriended me from Snapchat. Everything was going fine then out of the blue I reload my Snapchat and his label is no longer there it's his username. So I go to change it back believing there was some sort of glitch, I try to change it back and it doesn't let me. I tried texting him asking if I had done something wrong. We were so so close but after that day I didn't know what to do. He posted pictures on his Instagram like everything was fine, like nothing had happened. The next day I felt so broken and I thought of asking him what I did wrong but I feared he would laugh at me. My friends say it's no big deal but this hurts more than anything imaginable. Whenever we would text randomly out of nowhere he'd say "I love you." And in real life I would cry a little that someone as amazing as him could love me. It's been a week and a few days and he doesn't even so much as look at me or speak to me at all. Don't get attached ladies, it's one of the worst mistakes you could ever make.
True. I've gave up on boyfriends so many times. It was unhealthy, though. I'm finally starting to learn healthy ways of living. I'm a recovering addict and grew up in an abusive household. So, it is all new to me to form healthy boundaries and learning to trust which is really hard because I got hurt so much. I watched some videos 2 nights ago of Susan Winter, a life coach on TH-cam. That helped alot, along with being sober and God. Learning to love myself and my relationship with God should be my first priority. My brokeness makes me weak and vulnerable to excepting and being in bad relationships. But with healing and time it's getting better.
im sorry for my ignorance amy.. im sorry i didnt fix it in time because i didnt know.. i'll be the first to say i was wrong & though im too late to apologize for my mistakes.. if you ever do come across this.. yeah its me.. you'll always be in my heart, you taught me alot.. but one thing you didn't teach me, was how to live without you haunting my mind with that day we split..
Be up front with him. Tell him what he has done and how it's affected you. Maybe he will learn not to do it in the future whether it be you or someone else.
The hell with this! You got me crying like a freakin little girl right now! My chick of 12 years! We’ve been married for the last 5 of them! We have 2 beautiful little girls together! She walked out on me 2 weeks ago! I never thought I could hurt like this! I didn’t even know what heartbreak really felt like before this! What a love we had together! We had a good life! But she wasn’t happy! I couldn’t make her happy anymore! I’m so lost without her and my babies here! I just And cry every night alone in this big ass house! I hate it here! Some nights I just drive! Just to not see this empty house all freakin night long alone! This sucks...
Message to all of the guys: Stop rejecting her, Stop neglecting her, Stop pushing her away, Stop avoiding her, Stop hating her, Stop hurting her, Stop being a jerk to her, Stop insulting her, and Stop giving her an attitude, especially if she is deeply and strongly in love with you and she truly loves you very much and wants to be a part of your life and keep you in her heart forever, and if it goes on then she will eventually let you go permanently and move on to someone else.
i honestly am so happy without my ex, he says he misses me and loves me but he doesn’t. i know he doesn’t . he still smiles at other girls anyways. he doesn’t love me. i have one less problem without him. :) i’m finally happy. but this is so me. :/
She gave up on me and all these things are true except sometimes guys like me who suffered from combat PTSD and depression take there own life ......now l am just trying to find away to live now with out the love of my life ONE DAY AT A TIME ......and if l ever was to have another chance now that l have changed compleatly and clean and sober l would love her as she deserves to be loved the rest of my life .......l love you, Lorie where ever you are ...
This is every woman at 3-6 months, even when they stay in the situationship/simbiationship longer...but hey, don't let a good fear/obligation/guilt trip go to waste...blame that man! In the meantime, I'll see you tomorrow while he's at work ;)
Really every single girl is like this......they will try ...keep on trying even it hurts them a lot..... finally when she breaks down to thousand pieces...... finally her heart breaks .....even though she knows she can't love any other guy like the one she loved and he don't even realize it......she w"ll leave you forever with an unhealed wound in her heart which will never heal again.......
Me tol i just keep seeing date alot of girls and i been trying to wait for him for a long time like about 5 years nows thinking i can change something but really i cant anymoore so i left but got blocked smh
It's so weird how people change in just a few days, for a example my friend he liked me so much. He would say all these nice stuff to make me happy, couple of days pass by he doesn't text ignores me I say "been busy eh?" He would respond back in a few days and say "yea" and again doesn't text back.. Even though I would text him right away even though I'm busy and I would meet guilty for not texting him, then he finally textes me just saying "hi, been a while, talked to my crush I told her I had a crush on her" all I could say was "oh" and "nice"and also "you should try dating her" acting all happy but in reality I was just breaking inside. He would also say "I'm serious, I really love her" and he said he messaged her she messaged back. But I thought he was "busy" that's why he hasn't texted me. *Am I crazy? Help me please. Help me forget him.*
Sometimes love isn't always on time. Congratulations. Not until you've walked down the deepest valley, you understand how magnificent it is to reach the highest mountain.
Can you please elaborate on how it was that you felt you lost him for good after giving up on him. Was there really seven years of separation? Did you both have other relationships? Your story intrigues me. Hoping you can elaborate more. Thx 👍
My ex wife summed it up in one word, she said she was indifferent ... and didn't care if I lived or died ... that was 30 years ago but it was a lifelong lesson and well-learned
The 1st time I saw this video I was very saddened thinking when will this phase start with me....... months down the line now I’m finally happy that I closed that chapter of my book and now turning a new page for my life 🤗🤗🤗
I don't think she would ever understand my feelings. She never tried on me. 😔 Atleast understand me once, come to me once, try me once.. I will never never give you a chance to let go. Giving up is so far away.
I got mad at my guy friend because he did something and I gave up on him and I realized that this is true because this video is saying things that I've been doing.. Sorry guys.. ;-; and I'm kinda giving up on my crush... ~From a girl
Men, you don't really want a girl; you want a woman. That lesson required almost two years of my life to learn. But now she is free to keep on hurting others and I am wiser for it.
Nesi's Life I told my crush I liked him after 4 years!! Now his friends and my friends r trying to get us together! They kept pushing us twords each other! And hey to feel better, cry it all out! It helps! And dont talk to him, dont stalk him! Or anything like that! It works!
Nesi's Life hey, it's okay for someone to not like you. You gotta stay strong, keep loving them. Even if they don't t appreciate you, just be happy that they are happy.
Nesi's Life I'm pretty sure u are an amazing person and if he doesn't feel the same way just think about it and he lost someone who can mean the world to him ❤️
Nesi's Life its ok just move on , i had a crush on a Friend for eight years and when I finally told him I didn't like the reaction .. nb: i am fifteen . It made me realize that some relationships just aren't meant to be at an early age. Hope you get the chance to move on.
Before this video a conversation between me and my girlfriend was like one minute long after I watched this video I texted her this: what are you doing? I just thought about loosing you... and now I'm crying😢. Witch I haven't done in a long time... I love you❤️❤️❤️. And she replied: I love you too❤️❤️❤️and please don't cry😘
"She lost the one she loved. But u lost someone who loved u."
Nice. 👍
That part hurts
Never got a chance
I have already given up on these type relationships....
Have been single for 5 years now it’s better to be single than hurt
Peace
7 summers ago for me. Go mgtow it liberates
I am 12 yrs single (im 12 yrs old)
No man is an island 😊
You'll find someone whom you'll love and will love you more. Enjoy being single but don't close yourself for true love. 😍😍
@@justaeythings9301 hmm im not even sure love is real to be honest, it is almost like it's a thing people do to make themselves feel better....but i get told im wrong all the time so i dont know
"When a woman is putting in the effort to keep you, you need to match her effort, because when a woman has decided she has given all she can give and can't give anymore, there is NOTHING you can do to get her to give more."
That's a quote from Derick Jackson, he's a dating coach, and what he said is the truth. I learned it the hard way.
What if i given all I can but she still gives up on me?
That’s very true. We can also be very wrong to men. We all need to treat each other better. But a woman will fight hard when she loves you, if you don’t reciprocate she will grow weary and realize she’s wasting her time.
"You not loving me, was the beginning of me loving myself."♡
You just didn't see the type of love you were expecting. You were more focused on other things that were more important, it's common in self centered selfish people.
That's sad. shouldn't u already be loving yourself?
The grip of your mind
As i read all these posts, they seem to come from young people. So, as an older, divorced woman who has had many heartbreaks (from high school on into life).... this is the absolute best advice I could ever give u....
When people show u who they are, believe them ....
#BigFacts
I did that's where fucked up alot
Thank you
ABBA’s Chosen FACTZ
Used to fall into the trap of thinking some people were too ignorant to know what they were doing... They know.
Don't take your man for granted either. It's a two way street and many women forget that.
Oh course a self-centered guy will post here gross.
Yupp
@@dhruvkhashu4389 Gross
@@regentbarbie8909 no u
semi cath, extremely true.
The hardest lesson I have ever learned.. After 13 years of marriage and 2 children.. she gave up. I havent been the same sense.
Ive accepted it, grown and now realize.. she did me a favor, she showed me I deserved better.
I'm working on that right now. Hits like an atomic bomb. Glad you're doing better and realizing your worth, brother. That's where it gets tricky for me.
Thats right you deserve better. If she isnt going to understand you and is legit okay with growing old and being on the verge of death without a soulmate that they spent their whole life with. Why would they spend their whole life with them then? Its idiotic. People get greedy they take things for granted.. we all deserve love tho. What a shitty world.
Same 18 yrs and 3 kids she left and is now having a new baby with her puss boy. I was devastated about it all but i now see she did me a favour!!
Im starting to get on now but ya i hope other can take something from these comments.
Stay strong 💪👊 you're better than you think you are. ✌
You do deserve better i hope my mother can realize that 15 years of been together and have 2 kids at a yougy age and the man she been with has never really been around for her or his kids.
I know I desvered better bit I still want her what hurts the most is she ended things instead if working through the problems
One day you'll realize you lost a diamond while too busy collecting stones.
ann francesca don't lose a diamond while chasing glitter
ann francesca I lost my true diamond
because I got beat up and bullied this is horrible to share but had to put it out there
ann francesca yep true
I already lost mine to someone else😥😥😥...
Diabolic Esper Same 😭 I still love her this made me cry😯😧
Uhhhh, where's the one for the loving men out here who gave a woman all of this & still got hurt in the end... It's both ways...
Heretwo Expose simp
@@smitty4483 twat
make your own and stop whining lmao
My girls is not bad she has just stopped loving me it hurts but it doesn't make her a bad person
Happened to me, i gave her my everything and she gave up on me
Narcissism is on the rise if you havent noticed. Never love someone that doesnt love you back because youre only hurting yourself. I cant stand when im ignored so i gave up on relationships and absolutely love being single. "be not unequally yolked with unbelievers"
Amen
You can still send that person loving kindness. It comes right back to you and then you don’t carry any burden or karmic debt. I love you .... bye bye.
Yes and most of them are women
I disagree with don't love someone if they don't love you back... As men and women we should love all relationship or not... You don't even have to know someone to love them.. You can dislike their ways but always love others.... Cause we all love and show love in different ways.... So the key is to find someone who loves you the way you want to be loved... But we can't say what's in someone else's heart truly.. Accept through their actions not just words... Some people men and women don't know how to love cause they may have never had it... It's like this if your never driven a car and know one ever took time to show you then you'll only be able to drive the car your way it might not be correct but eventually you'll get it right.. So if you truly love that person you'll take the time needed to help teach that person how to drive your car the way you want it drove and if they love you enough they will give their all to do so
@@yaharalawahadom6476 Bullshit
who else is a girl and watching this
Vanessa Gutierrez duhhh meee
Vanessa Gutierrez me
Vanessa Gutierrez me! =(
Vanessa Gutierrez mee
Vanessa Gutierrez meee
I'm slowly giving up too...I loved and cared for him and made him my priority... He took me for granted. Lothario
Run don't do it move on cause if he wanted you he will be there period dont waste your time on him
Did you let him go afterwards?
Maybe you're taking him for granted, tinking crystal
Not all men will do this to you,,don't give up.
I wonder how he took you for granted? Most women just come up with excuses to mess up the relationship
I’m 25 & divorced already. And I messed up with the person who actually loved me. So yes this hits me hard but it’s true guys. Be thankful for her! Hug,Kiss,Surprise,etc. Her! Make her smile because you’re gonna mess that when she’s gone Believe it or not.
Never take a woman for granted while you have her. I hope you find love again. We all deserve a 2nd. Chance.
Slowly starting to not love him anymore...he didn't choose what he wanted, I got tired of waiting and being alone then eventually I gave up 😔 it hurt like hell but I can't spend another night crying myself to sleep wondering why I'm not enough. Here's a tip boys if you love her than you better tell her before it's too late because eventually she will give up and she'll spend the rest of her life wondering what she did wrong, but at the same time she'll stop caring someone new will come along and her feelings for you will be nothing more than a distant memory 💔💯
Same here but I’m starting to give up
Very well said,,I'm going threw the same thing it's very hard but i. ALWAYS alone anyway
@@jessicaharris1132, it's obvious you care about him. It may not be romantic but it's unconditional. Just tell him you unconditionally care about him, that the past has already happened and can't be undone but it can be learned from, y'all can heal and move forward, whether it be as friends, acquaintances or more.
@@jessicaharris1132, did he apologize for making you feel that way?
Beautifully written
It's moments like these when you thought you were over them, moments when you thought you were doing so well, then as soon as you hear the music and see those words, the tears start flowing and the hurt resurfaces, I'm so sorry to the one/ones I took for granted, not just romantically, but to those I just became acustomed to, didn't know what I had till it is gone
Thanku. Walking away...because I love myself more than wasting my love on the dead.
Can't make them love us back
Hahah go fuck ur self
This is the deal I don't no whid hoping up on me u should have wanted me a. Not going and talk to crazy hell no am sorry u be ol
@Bert Clayton see that's what am talking about am.nit yo happy today so I would let u take me to the morge
Winterdragon, I’m happy you realized crying won’t do shit. Most people can’t move on and get sad and desperate but hey, I’m happy your not most people. As for Lion King, grow a spine you sad pussy. Get over your ex, she will never love you back. Go do something with yourself besides leaving negative, uninspiring, half drunk, half assed insults in the comment section.
I wish my Ex well. Hope you find happiness and peace. That's what I want for myself. So I send it to you but without me. Good Luck in your future.✌🏾
Your fault
Now that's maturity.
My ex-wife gave up on me after 15 years of marriage and four kids. I never saw it coming. Turns out, there was someone else promising her greener pastures. I didn't know it then but today, it has become the BEST thing to happen to me. I got the gift of goodbye. I don't need her or want her back. EVER!
She left you because you are probably boring, bad in bed and a loser. But im glad you're good now 🤭
Red Pill Rage,
You have my condolences for your time wasted. And yeah, she was a great teacher. 'Goodbye' was the best thing she taught you. Now I quote the Great Spock "Live long and🖖"
I’m a girl, this is so true. A girl will only break your heart if you break hers. When a girl isn’t interested in you, you will know it. She will flirt with other guys and she wouldn’t give a damn about anything you do anymore
Cerys Louise Well there's this girl that I've been really good friends with for about a year and we even dated each other but after a week she broke up with me but she didn't want to tell me why. It's impossible that I broke her heart. I always cared about her, talked to her in a good way, and treated her like she was the only person important to me. Which I still do. But I'm still wondering to this day why she broke up with me and wondering even more about why she doesn't even want to tell me the reason for doing it
Jose Manzo III perhaps she didn’t love you anymore , she might have liked someone else ?
Cerys Louise Well if that was the case, all she had to do was tell me. It could've been one of those things, or even worse, she was probably with some other idiot WHILE she was dating me, which is probably why never wants to tell me the reason she broke up with me
Jose Manzo III a girl is scared to tell.
Cerys Louise I know. But it's just that I can't forget about it until I find out why she broke up with me. I'm clueless about what to do
I can relate to every single point made in this video i had a hugeeee crush on this guy but he just didn't pay any attention to me. If i wanted to text with him i had to text him first or start the convo.. I used to stalk him on social media every single day and look through all his female followers. I was crazy. It ruined me, i was mentally devasted, cried myself too sleep because i felt lonely and i felt like he hated me. The only person that knows about that is my best friend i was hella annoying. But with time it got better. I didn't missed him as much as before when i was not around him and i was finally able to talk with other guys again. I got so much more confidence and finally got my happines back. I can now finally laugh again, go out and just enjoy my life. It's crazy how much impact one person can have on your life. So girls/boys if u feel like crap because of a guy/girl get over it. Tell yourself he's not worth it because he really isn't. It's not as hard as it may seem. And there is someone out there for everyone remember that
ClaraMagdalena
Love is so strong that it can break you and heal you again. It's as if we are possessed by the devil or something. I am also that type of girl Clara. When I find someone that I have feelings for, I get insanely obsessed with him. I don't know how to get rid of the feelings though... until I get over it....but when you think about it...it's hard to get RID of the Feelings inside of me.
ClaraMagdalena ty for a inspiration now i might be able to open the door without feeling like ive done screwed up
I went through the exact same thing but now I’m over him
ClaraMagdalena same but now that I have seen this he does not deserve me
ClaraMagdalena I main worry is that I'll never find anyone like them again, because I remember when they used to care and it was the world to me but they moved on. I miss him so much.
Actually she lost me.....lots of Girls actually lose the Guy .....you know why? Because they just think of themselves!
It's both ways 💗💓💔💕
Yeah... Actually... The girls nowadays have every right to change their decision at any time... You will start treating her as your wife but when the time comes, she will leave you saying" you don't respect me..."
@@vivekmanitripathi138 nowadays?! Where do you live? :) No offence tho. Very naive people have come forward nowadays imo. 🤥
@@qa8822 Yeah you can say that as for some people it's way better to be a naive than to be an asshole...
Boom
Watching this just made me realise that I lost a girl who truly loved and cared for me....I feel like shit.
And what was that lmao
You'd feel worse than shit if she was there mate, eventually theyre enough to give a paracetamol a sore head 💯😂
@ thanks mate i thought im the only one who notices the sickness in the Video and commentsection xD
Timotheus H. Nakashona bro this video on point with what's going on with me right now
@@jonasbaxmeier4168 Would you mind elaborating on the sickness you observe?
Don't just tell her.. it's not enough, show her by actions, actions speak louder
This! Words are nothing if your actions don't back them up.
I gave her actions instead of words. She left because she valued words over actions, and fell in love with someone new who talks the talk and says the things they want to hear, but it's empty. And now theyre stuck in an abusive relationship. Humans are complex and will always fixate on the lack and ignore what they have. Never appreciating our own prosperity because its overshadowed by our desire for "something more"
amalmansy .. i do more then say and boy im done👌🏿 ..i will do no more. Females are the most ungrateful, while we are in a world where its too hard to earn an honest dollar.
"Act for me", as silence or just being with someone doesn't satisfy you anymore means you expect someone to entertain yourself. No matter how much love or wealth received, yet it all cant replace your own inner emptiness or teach self-love.
But ey! Just my opinion.
Y everybody in town is showing and giving her action
Karma said
You will fall in love with someone who doesn't love you
For not loving someone who did
Damn
Well that's not very fair lol
That’s not karma. Love is a feeling. It’s not my fault or my doing if I don’t feel love for another person.
@@amasion2882 Well said! Thank you
@@amasion2882 yes you are right but what about those who lead others on, give them false hope, deceive them and shit?
she will never love you it just your turn once she’s bored she will move on ... good luck
MrKingVulture that is not true. Not every girl is like that. A girl can spend years in love with a guy to only get hurt and used. It’s not only the guy that gets hurt but it’s not only the girl either. Giving up for some of us isn’t an option... we don’t move on or get bored.... that’s not how we are.
Same goes for women. A relationship is a two way street. This is a truthful video, but it goes both ways.
Exactly my friend
Yes but this is for those in a relationship with women. Even lesbians
It is a two way street and actions are needed more than just words. Yes ill miss her eyes but i won't miss how nothing she said lined up with her actions.
@@lillobo9536 yes it does hurt. I know im going through it right now. We gotta hang in there, this will hopefully make us better people in the end.
True ...its hard getting mixed signals from a man one day he is on fire for you tomorrow he says I'm just a man i need space to date freely .Its best to let him go before you become a demented stalker .Love yourself first ..if he loves you too and is your soulmate he'll sort his feelings out and be back .In the meantime let him enjoy his freedom while you enjoy yours .
Wow I'm a guy never had a gf and I feel like shit right about now
Chroniiq wow same i relate to that on like a million levels but im a girl
+Like? :(
Chroniiq ik, this basicly happens when a girl has a crush on a guy and the guy never tells her he likes her so she gives up on trying and does everything in the video
+Artsy Diy that is so sad though
Chroniiq yeah now i notice how much of a screw up i can be.
14 and balling like a f*cking baby bout now. 😭
You don't ever appreciate someone's company, love support etc, until it's gone and then you begin to realise how much they meant, their actions meant, their words meant to you... And you miss it 💔💔
When a man give up on you
He bounce.
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Is anyone else reminded of their ex? Hahah mine is trying to get me back and I think he should've watched this video beforehand bc I'm looong gone.
the same i'm a girl i have a ex boyfriend and he want to get be back the'but i don;'t want to because i have bf
I bet there was nothing he could of done while you were together. Some women just get bored and want to explore. Sad cause a lot of good guys get screwed that way.
They always wake up when it's way too late.
me too
This is happening to me right now and i'm not even talking or flirting with other girls but she's flirting with other boys and just doesn't care anymore. I text her, I wait looking at my screen for the whole day and the most i would get is "Hi I can't talk to u" and then like 5 minutes later she posts something on social media. Most of the time she doesn't even say anything and I know she was on cuz she was posting stuff on her snapchat story. All my friends didn't even think she actually likes me and she was way to good for me. People were making fun of me for thinking I had a chance. I'm always trying to protect her too. When people were talking crap on her I stood up for her even though i was gonna get bullied from it. I've never felt this much emotion for anybody but I guess she doesn't feel any emotion for me back. I love this girl with all my heart and take a bullet for her but in her position she would rather have me get shot straight in the head with a bullet. It's especially hard when people are telling me to go drink bleech or go die in a fire. There's one thing that i know that's true that gets me really depressed when someone calls me "fat" and stuff like that. And i know that's true cuz i've been overweight for most of my life. I play soccer and most people say to me " Hey I didn't know that a hippo could play soccer" or "you can't play soccer, your too fat". I'm just scared to go anywhere now. I just wish I had someone who actually cared about me cuz my parents neglect me, my friends bully me, my siblings get more love than me, every time i trust someone the just stab me in the back. I don't even think I should be living anymore cuz apparently no one gives a damn about me. I don't even know what i did to deserve this. My life is already challenging and i'm not even in college or life. I don't know what to do, where to go, and why I should be here. I just want one person would care for me. If you're still reading this i want you to know to never let anybody get to you like they got to me. You don't have to hurt yourself. You are worth something.
Ninja- Kills I love a girl she is irish I am to.. u pronounce her name e mer spelt eimear and I would take a bullet for her I would give her the world in a heartbeat if I could .. she means tbe world to me I loved her for 4 years and she does not like me she is 12 I am 11 and she now likes someone else she was sent text telling her to kill herself and I said what ever you do dont I will have no point in life then I get bullied because everyone knows I love her and they always bully me because she does not live me like I love her more than I love myself I ran 12 kilometers just to be with her and I got bullied when I got there but I had the best time of my life because she asked if she would be allowed to go on a walk with me when we were walking she grabbed my hand and said I never knew you felt like that for me I feel the same for you... now we love each other more than the world...
Ninja- Kills Okay so listen. I'm not even sure if this'll get to you, or if you're even going to read it. Don't be sad, life is too short to be sad. Enjoy the good times and capture the memories. Don't let other people change who you are. Your life...You've had a good taste of what the world can do to you. "Don't let the world change your smile, let your smile change the world". And never feel like you're nothing or that you don't deserve to live. You're beautiful on the inside and out. Remember that there's always someone out there who really loves you for who you are. Best of luck. Charisa~~
Ninja- Kills
That's the world we live in. Accept it. But also fight it. Who cares if you're fat. LOSE THE FUC***ING WEIGHT BRO. WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK. JUST DO YOU. And get the girl because then you can show everyone they were wrong. Be positive and stay woke! Your so stupid honestly how can people be like this in life. Its the life we have like WTF AND LIVE. STUPID!
Ninja- Kills Don't listen to them bullies, and don't think your worthless because there is always someone out there in the world that cares for you, like me, I would care for anyone and seeing your comment just shocked me on how that girl could do something that mean to an amazing guy like you, I would do anything to have someone like you, but unfortunately I still have to wait because I don't seem to be finding anyone that likes me that way. 💝💝
Kenneth Osorio bruh stop being a cyber bully. It’s not cool plus he’s not stupid, how is even stupid? He was just simply telling what was going on and you just think it’s okay for you to like “well who cares just be you, you stupid!” How is that even gonna help him understand that he has to be himself when you’re the one who’s basically not even helping him. And some people can’t accept this life, you need to fucking understand that kids/teens/adults deal with this kind of situation every day. Some people end their lives because of it and you’re just saying “well deal with it it’s life, just accept it” bitch be quiet.
Single squad people this is not our place😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Damn how do u know???!!!😂😂😂😂
This hits home...way too hard
Only one thing wrong with this!
Don't tell her you love her...
Show her you love her...
Words not matching your actions is recipe for disaster!
Dionne Odom I' my gonna try this tomorrow , hopefully I'm not to late , I have been fighting with myself for awhile on what I should do , but your commit hit a grandslam, In my book thank you! ! She s still waiting on me , How lucky can a guy be!! .
Dionne Odom .. i do more then say and boy im done👌🏿 ..i will do no more. Females are the most ungrateful, while we are in a world where its too hard to earn an honest dollar.
This is the 5th month and I still hurt terribly... Have cried my heart out.. Depending on sleeping pills to sleep...talked to my friends, his friends our friends... I didn't hurt him he hurt me but the love I have for me overpowered the hate and frustrations I had for him after he betrayed our love...it's still so raw...I've loved before but this was different... All I'm left to do now is pray for inner peace,healing and unending love and happiness in the future. I still love you.
I'm going through this now we was together for 9 years and he left me 1 month ago and it hurts. JUST KEEP PRAYING. We have to take it one day at a time.😪💔🙏🙏🙏
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I won't regret for the fake person 😉😉😉 its good that they leave me early in my life 🤗 no time for fake people
poppo thata you are really beautiful.😍
Think you missed the point
@@boundariessetinstone5893 definitely
No gussa
Yaliiko senpai Says the person that probably wears make up 😉👌
When a guy truly knows the heart of the girl who loves him, there is never any second guessing, in terms of her loyalty/intentions, especially, when she has given him the key. 🗝
On the contrary, "love" is never unsure.
Actually I don't miss my ex. I have some one who has more to them than I thought I would find. I only regret the time lost.
Dayyummm cold blooded.
I still remember the day I told my ex I didn't love him anymore. And it wasn't until I said it that I realized I hadn't been in love with him for a long time and I had been giving up more each day. But i couldnt keep losing myself to keep his attention and fight for what he stopped giving
If anyone cares and has time, here is my story:
About a month ago, I wrote a letter to my crush. I already knew he didn't feel the same and when he rejected me, he said he still wanted to be friends. This at the time, was all I wanted. But ever since that day, we stopped talking. I'll look at him and I sometimes think he will glance at me but I'm sure he isn't. All these feelings that I had for him only got stronger and stronger. I started to get over him with the help of TH-cam...that is until a couple days ago. I found out that he had tried smoking, something he apparently always wanted to do. From what I heard, he liked it...this was at school and when I literally felt my heart drop. I have lost people to smoking and it hurts to know that you might get into it. I had your friend talk to you about it since we are too distant for you to actually listen to what I have to say. All you did was deny that it was bad for you. I know what I would say...I just can't because I made the situation too awkward. You probably don't think I care about you and I thought I didn't anymore until I was told the news. In this video, it talks about how you loose someone who loved and truly cared about you. I looked at this in the perspective of the girl. The problem is, you wouldn't know that I truly cared about you. Everyday when you weren't there, or you got hurt in P.E., I was hurting. Not being able to do anything for the past 5 months, in fear that you would shut me out or think less of me has started to kill me from the inside out. I held in my tears for 2 months...now they are out. I feel like I'm ready to give you up, even though you never gave me a chance. I just feel like I won't be able to until I know your safe. Until I know you aren't going to ruin yourself and make stupid decisions you will regret later on in life. But of course, you wouldn't care. All because you don't think I care enough or care at all. After all, how can you care so much about someone if you never knew they cared about you more than anything at the time? The truth is, I don't know how. All I know is that it happened to me, but it won't happen to you. Tyler, if you are reading this, please stop before you get hurt. Please contact me through Instagram or at school...I want to talk to you so much. Please, do this before I give up on you like I'm about to. I would hate to see you tear yourself up like I have...I love you too much to let you do that to yourself. And to all the girls reading this, don't do what I have done. Don't waste your time on something that will never happen. You will find someone that loves you and cares for you just as much as you did to the other person. To all the boys out there, don't let her go unless she doesn't feel the same. If she loves you and you don't love her, just think about how much she cares for you compared to everyone else. Maybe you will realize that she is someone you will want by your side.
I apologize for this REALLY long comment but I hope you guys got something out of this.
I asked my crush out on Feb 14. But since I'm way too shy, to ask her out in person, I left a note in her tray along with a book I bought for her. Then, she came to me and told me she didn't like me back... it's been a month and 3 days and I'm still thinking about her.. from dusk 'til dawn, from start to finish.
...this made me cry because im going through the exact same thing.. T^T i hope it gets better for u than mine.
Fun fact, if she REALLY loved you, you wouldn't have lost her.
That depends.
The fact girls allways say theres no nice guys left and I'm like HEY IM RIGHT HERE😂😂
Don't be a nice guy.
@@allcode4042 They left them in the friendzone.
Women want bad boys they can change into their ideal nice guy but it usually backfires in their faces I've seen the story play out over and over. Just keeping it real.
Dude. Nice guys finish last. Go read up on coach Corey Wayne on TH-cam? When you text and appease women they quickly loose attraction and go for the asshole who ignores them. Be the man who says Fuck it and be alpha and they will be fighting over you
No 1 telling you 2 be some so called bad guy. Just live
4 yourself and what makes you happy! Listen
real good! Don't become
a lame simp!😎
Women: when we give up on liking someone we give up permanently
Also women: doesnt tell guy she likes directly but instead plays games until he decides to go after another girl
Michael Smith : I’ve found the opposite is true. Men will ghost or break things off with a suitable woman because they imagine they can do “better” and then come hot footing back because the “new, better” woman really wasn’t that great. It’s actually women who will walk away and stay gone.
Both replies are true I honestly believe that part of the problem is a lot of people don't really understand how to commit to a relationship everyone's looking for better as soon as they see something they don't like.
How can a relationship survive with a outlook like that.
Be who you are ,if someone doesn't like you or gives up on you thats their problem.
In my opinion if they give up on you then that means that they have probably have been thinking about it for a while and only held on to you just for your sake.
A girl start the grieving process before she disappears/leave for good, by then its too late, guys, remember that.
That's what happened to me and I didn't even know it.
we men we don't because girls don't know what they want
Girls are no saint either, there are tons of asshole bitches around who are self centered and will walk out even they have done the disaster..... So stop bullshitting and pretending that women's are very special creatures and men's are shit. Girls see yourself what you do with good men's .... You leave then in one strike even then when it was your mistake.....
@@jessgravant guy here, same was done by my girlfriend and she was the one who kicked me like a stone on a street.
@@jessgravant so true, she was centre of everything I did, my career, my lifestyle I always considered her first but her constant denial to talk, to give time and absolutely stubborn when come to sex...... Later while our parents were discussing our marriage she blew one thing out of proportion and put it on Facebook her whole family indirectly tonted me..... I was sad and was expecting an apology call from her but what I got was another Facebook story post of breakup party with her office collegue......... I feel like such a looser that I am still trying to mend things from my side as if I did it all.
my girlfriend just broke up with me I've never felt this way about anyone and i just don't want to live anymore why does life have to suck so much
I can feel u. My boyfriend cheated on me while he was on vacation. He thought I would be mad so he broke up with me before I could. I never would have on my life. I miss him. I want him. I need him. I blamed myself and apologized to him but he said nothing was my fault and that I still mean something to him even though we haven't talked in 3 weeks. Its really confusing to me. Everything just hurts.
Faded Gaming I know how you feel, trust me if anyone did it would be me, when my girlfriend broke up with me I was so depressed, I cried every time I thought about her and I had no will to live anymore... but now I moved on and I know you will too and then you'll realize it... Was she even worth being so depressed about? No she wasn't
Wow. I ever though a guy could love a girl that much. At least... not after my boyfriend cheated, left me. My guy-friend told me those guys think its funny to get girls attached to them, then toy with their emotions by leaving them. I saw my ex boyfriend as the kindest person in this world. I pictured the most harsh ways he could have left me. But he did something far worse than anything I could imagine. He hasn't seen my for 13 days straight because I was in a hospital in Honolulu. Then the day I first saw him, he acted like I didn't even exist. Then he told other people he was leaving me, then he told me to ask his FRIEND when I asked him if he was going to break up with me. Now I'm hearing rumors he still likes me. Its so hard. Before I met him, I was so depressed. But when I met him, he did something! I don't know what it was but it was like he took my depression, and trew it away like paper. When he left, I didn't know what to do with myself. I'm better and over him now though =)
well you might not think we do love a girl the way a girl loves a man but to be honest a boy probably loves a girl more then a girl loves a man and ps sorry that he cheated on u
kaylee burress no prob
She's gone because she's a covert narcissist riding the CC and I'm glad I never have to deal with an adult sized child ever again. Lol
My big ass baby left me
when i tell her. I love you... she just said.. "Lie ...😢
SkychromE maybe she see something you don't lol maybe you've did something to not believe you who knows the story behind her thinking you lying
Maybe she's just too scared to believe you maybe it's because she believed someone and at the end she left with broken heart. Maybe that's why she doesn't trust you
I’m a girl and u need to tell her how u really feel u need to tell her how u feel about her deep down because that’s not enough for girls who have been hurt before. Good luck!!
Don’t tell her.
Prove it to her !
When she broke up with me after being childhood friends then became lovers and breaks up with me just to see her sitting beside someone else
But this time i give her everything what i have i give her my heart i told her that the i love her i never says anything bad to her ibwas ready to die fot her.. and she leave me without reason...
and then they says its always boys fault.. but they dont see how they hurt us..
Dalibor Eleven you speak the truth man you'll soon find the kne for you
Dalibor Eleven im so sorry
I feel you... my boyfriend left me for nothing. I was so confused...I asked him why and he says, "I don't know" I wanted to scream at him. I was so happy. Its hard getting through every school day seeing him. It hurts. I cried 7 times on that same day. Twice at an after school activity. Once on the activity bus home. Twice at home. And then I cried myself to sleep that night.
fairy blossom you know that most of the times is girls fault we just don't apreicet some things🔫
Dalibor Eleven I feel you same thing happened to me bro....hopefully we all find the right girl
If you love her.....show her. Action is key, not just words. Show up when you say, be present, have integrity and honour.
my boyfriend broke up with me. I wanted to ask him to be together again and I started the conversation like this, "Hey, I know I probably mean like...nothing to you anymore but- he interrupted me. What? No you mean some thing!- I skipped right to the point. "A-are you dating anyone?" I asked scared. "No I'm open still. I kinda just lost interest in dating." I responded as, "Oh okay nevermind then"
He looked at me like he wanted to know more. I was embarrassed to ask. I know we are not together anymore but I still get jealous. I still care about him more than I care about myself. I still love him and think of him as my world. I care about him so much. BOYS!!! Girls still care about you even if they no longer have you!
Hurt a Lady , she will have another boyfriend the Next week.
Hurt a MAN , He will be broken for YEARS!!!
My Story 💔
Its mostly the girls who breaks up. Guys never thought she could actually break up with them cause .... Its feel like a part of us . You dont need to think while being around her cause you used to think , she's the one who understands you . When she tell you about the break up , boys are more broke in the heart than the girl herself . They just dont wanna make it any harder for their partner 😔
sad how many girls are on here relating to this .
I gave up on my first true love from over 33 years ago... too many chances down the drain.. the last time was it... sadly the hope and dream I had of him is not the reality of him... he was too too toxic for my soul. Good bye, for the last time, TDG.
You probably we're not worth his time. I'm sure
he's happy 2 be rid of the problem that's you!😂😂
kiba 7 your comment makes me think that a women hurt you because you weren’t worth her time. “😂😂”
@@koo-core7274 I respect you're comment Ive hurt someone important 2 me!
& karma did come back. I was eventually hurt! Most
people will experience this. Hope you life goes
well take care.
“she will flirt with other guys”
No. Even if you don’t love someone anymore, you should always respect them!
I am not flirting to other guys bc I'm thinking what if if I breaks his heart like he broke mine?
If you don't love someone anymore break it off. Period.
Girls moving on with someone else that makes them happy and flirting with other guys isn't disrespectful
I am crying and I am not a boy
Me too. I started crying at 00:04
Bloody Dragon 😕
The song really hits you good..
I started crying at the title
Then what r u?
I met a boy at school and I instantly fell for him, He was amazing, funny, caring, and kind. A few weeks after the first day of school we started talking on instagram. We talked for hours and hours every single day, But then we stopped talking, now when we see each other we just make eye contact and continue walking or something. I still like him but he doesn’t like me, he flirts with other girls at lunch and in the morning before classes begin and it makes me so jealous he doesn’t know that I like him but I really want to tell him. It’s been a month since I’ve talked to him and I’m so sad I just want to forget about him but I can’t. He is just so special to me, And I don’t want to lose him just because I’m too shy to tell him that I like him, or to even talk to him. He has been avoiding me for a long time and I can’t even say hi without being a total idiot and Messing up our conversation before it even happens. I’m so broken right now, and I wish we could talk but he won’t talk to me and it hurts sometimes. I haven’t been able to sleep at night either because I just think of what could go wrong or what could happen between us I know it’s stupid but I like him so much. When we talked he made me so happy and he made me laugh too. I love him and I don’t know what to do please help :(
i barely talked to mine after 10 months and he ended things after 4 weeks of us
When I started to feel these changes happening to me, it was involuntary. It was in response to feeling unwanted and being neglected by a man I loved so deeply. Never having my hand held, or being told I was loved and appreciated. Being a low priority in his life, and being reminded of my value to him as he sought attention from other girls. I fought and battled to be in his heart, his arms and his thoughts. And then I lost the strength to fight; slowly, over time, I backed away, defeated and wounded. I hoped he would feel the loss and finally pull me closer to him. But the day I left, still not wanting to go and hoping he would just love me enough to stop it all, he let me go. And still I've been giving him time to win my heart again. But when a man is closed off emotionally and is full of bitterness and anger, then they can't even love themselves let alone a kind and sensitive woman with an open heart. I send love and healing to him, and wish him well. I'm still healing and growing from this experience, and know I will one day find my true love who would never let me give up on them.
When you realize your single so you sing all the single ladies and I ain't your mama
Briel Lewis AYYYE TRU
I gave up. He asked someone else to be his girlfriend 💔 he was using me! 😭😭😭 I don’t know what to do. I thought he cared for me, but I was wrong! 💔
Rylee it gets better. In a few months you will look back at this time and laugh and shake your head. Learn from this and inthe future weed out these guys ahead of time before emotions are involved
You are not alone,I,m going through the same thing,an yes,it hurts,I suffer from stress,depression,insomnia,an that is what always ruins my relationship's,plus I,m a really nice guy,so,I either destroy it when my emotions erupt,or I get used cause I,m"to nice"an that is a weakness women take advantage of everytime !!!!!! #FUCKED FOR LIFE !!!!! ✌ ❤
@@lillobo9536 I,m so sorry,wish I could take away your pain an give it to myself,I,m so used to getting hurt,I've become numb to it,add my stress n depression,an I,m a total train wreck. I,m sending you peace,love n good vibes,an hope things get better for you. It will for me soon,cause there will be no more pain. ✌ ❤
@@lillobo9536 let me ask you this? What were the kind of guys you hooked up with and fell for? Were they the bad boys or at least confident and positive and had a lot going for them who contacted you occasionally? Or were they the nice sweet guys who blew up your phone and kept trying to get you to like them? My guess is the former right? Yale confirmed this and especially during ovaluation women picked the strong ones and blew of their male friends.
Reading all these comments gave me strength . Bt lost hope on true love
That was 100% correct.
You have a keen sense of the obvious!
i gave up on him he didnt care
Alyssa Quinn Absolutely same here.
Because he didn't loved you.
It's not easy as you imagine
Then he wasn’t worth it.
I’m in the same position. My boyfriend, he told me
He loved me but doesn’t talk to me but my best friend (his ex)
Girls are so rude
when she gives up on you,I would collapse inside and out thinking,crying,and hating myself for what I did the regret.This is what happened to me with my first girlfriend never hate the ones who dump you hate what you did wrong and wait a year to date again or it'll happen again😖😞😐
when a girl gives up, it’s not because she doesn’t love you. But she’s tired of getting hurt and feels like you’ll never care...!
My crush needs to see this
Same!!
Periodt
Mine needs to see this to.
Mine too =(😥
when you have to let someone go because you don't want to hurt them ..
Chibi Otaku my girl left me cuz she didn't want to hurt me anymore and I didn't understand. I was confused
Fernando Sanchez I dont understand females when it comes to love ^.^ll
Chibi Otaku do u know what it means when a girl tells you "I can't lead you on like this"
Fernando Sanchez maybe she was keeping something from you or maybe she felt something was missing in said relationship?
Chibi Otaku damn. U think I can get her back loving me again. Plus she's the one who had feelings for me in the 1st place
This is less when a girl gives up on you and more when she falls out of love. There’s a difference even if it’s subtle. You can give up on a guy you’re still in love with, that’s what I did. I gave up on my ex and left him even though I still loved him at the time. And because I loved him then, I wasn’t indifferent to him. Indifference is the opposite of love. This video describes indifference; it describes falling out of love, not necessarily giving up on someone. Nice video though 👌🏻
There's no difference between the two. If you give up that means you don't care enough to keep trying. Which makes people fall out of love. All relationships have a shelf life. The problem is that people refuse to let go when that time comes.I have never had a female stick by me when the hard times come. I don't include my mother and grandmother as they are family. It has been my experience and observations that lead me to say that females are only with you while times are good and she reaping the benefits. The moment it gets rough they are gone. I have no expectations that any female I'm with will be around for long. I just try to enjoy whatever good times we may have and go from there. Anyone who tells me otherwise about female behavior is being dishonest about the true nature of females.
I think you can give up on someone and still love them. Also the opposite of love is hate.plain and simple
@@Sister_Sandy Hate is love under pressure
John Reed What if there was only me standing by him when the hard time came, helping and supporting. I forgot me, to love him. We went through all of that, 3 months later when everything was settled down, he wanted to be with another girl, yes, falling out of love or losing interest, to what it means.
It’s been two months, my heart still doesn’t want to give up on him. But I’m trying to focus on myself, be a best version of me.
Comes a time when you finally have to let him go..for your heart,your piece of mind ,your sanity,the love is still there but the pain..is too hard to keep feeling ,knowing you'll never be....enough.
Before my marriage ended, my then wife played this song in situations when we argued. We both looked at each other knowing things are falling apart, but I simply stood paralyzed,my voice was gone,I wanted to tell her many things I never did before but I couldn't.
I will always remember this
this made me cry. idk why
Angeline Jimenez i
A week ago my crush unfriended me from Snapchat. Everything was going fine then out of the blue I reload my Snapchat and his label is no longer there it's his username. So I go to change it back believing there was some sort of glitch, I try to change it back and it doesn't let me. I tried texting him asking if I had done something wrong. We were so so close but after that day I didn't know what to do. He posted pictures on his Instagram like everything was fine, like nothing had happened. The next day I felt so broken and I thought of asking him what I did wrong but I feared he would laugh at me. My friends say it's no big deal but this hurts more than anything imaginable. Whenever we would text randomly out of nowhere he'd say "I love you." And in real life I would cry a little that someone as amazing as him could love me. It's been a week and a few days and he doesn't even so much as look at me or speak to me at all. Don't get attached ladies, it's one of the worst mistakes you could ever make.
Similar thing happened to me. And I'm a guy
Imo a guy does this if he finds out youre texting many other guys or maybe he thought youre cheating so he left before getting hurt. Just my opinion
True. I've gave up on boyfriends so many times. It was unhealthy, though. I'm finally starting to learn healthy ways of living. I'm a recovering addict and grew up in an abusive household. So, it is all new to me to form healthy boundaries and learning to trust which is really hard because I got hurt so much. I watched some videos 2 nights ago of Susan Winter, a life coach on TH-cam. That helped alot, along with being sober and God. Learning to love myself and my relationship with God should be my first priority. My brokeness makes me weak and vulnerable to excepting and being in bad relationships. But with healing and time it's getting better.
im sorry for my ignorance amy.. im sorry i didnt fix it in time because i didnt know.. i'll be the first to say i was wrong & though im too late to apologize for my mistakes.. if you ever do come across this..
yeah its me.. you'll always be in my heart, you taught me alot..
but one thing you didn't teach me, was how to live without you haunting my mind with that day we split..
Whose deadpool? Ya know there's thousands & thousands of girls named Amy. Make it sound like u mean it & say your first name at least.
@@amyhoover310 just forgive him Amy... Cmon...
My name is amy... XD
Is this canon?
You should of sent this to Amy if you really mean what you say. It's a waste to post if here.
*Gives up on crush after watching this* He never paid attention to me..so. Of course, I GIVE UP!
This is not happening to girls only.. And we guys we sometimes get tired of trying, to make things work and to always put an effort....
im a girl and this happend to me and i gave up on the love of my life and now he misses me and now im gone .. and idnt know what to fo
Be up front with him. Tell him what he has done and how it's affected you. Maybe he will learn not to do it in the future whether it be you or someone else.
If you love him work together to fix the problems in the relationship.
The hell with this! You got me crying like a freakin little girl right now! My chick of 12 years! We’ve been married for the last 5 of them! We have 2 beautiful little girls together! She walked out on me 2 weeks ago! I never thought I could hurt like this! I didn’t even know what heartbreak really felt like before this! What a love we had together! We had a good life! But she wasn’t happy! I couldn’t make her happy anymore!
I’m so lost without her and my babies here! I just And cry every night alone in this big ass house! I hate it here! Some nights I just drive! Just to not see this empty house all freakin night long alone!
This sucks...
Bro I know that had to hurt she's probably with some man cheating on him right now
Message to all of the guys: Stop rejecting her, Stop neglecting her, Stop pushing her away, Stop avoiding her, Stop hating her, Stop hurting her, Stop being a jerk to her, Stop insulting her, and Stop giving her an attitude, especially if she is deeply and strongly in love with you and she truly loves you very much and wants to be a part of your life and keep you in her heart forever, and if it goes on then she will eventually let you go permanently and move on to someone else.
i honestly am so happy without my ex, he says he misses me and loves me but he doesn’t. i know he doesn’t . he still smiles at other girls anyways. he doesn’t love me. i have one less problem without him. :) i’m finally happy. but this is so me. :/
More like when a girl grows into a woman with a life
She gave up on me and all these things are true except sometimes guys like me who suffered from combat PTSD and depression take there own life ......now l am just trying to find away to live now with out the love of my life ONE DAY AT A TIME ......and if l ever was to have another chance now that l have changed compleatly and clean and sober l would love her as she deserves to be loved the rest of my life .......l love you, Lorie where ever you are ...
I gave up on my boyfriend and said let's us take a break. He just replied back to me with *bye* haha
He did the right thing
This is every woman at 3-6 months, even when they stay in the situationship/simbiationship longer...but hey, don't let a good fear/obligation/guilt trip go to waste...blame that man! In the meantime, I'll see you tomorrow while he's at work ;)
Really every single girl is like this......they will try ...keep on trying even it hurts them a lot..... finally when she breaks down to thousand pieces...... finally her heart breaks .....even though she knows she can't love any other guy like the one she loved and he don't even realize it......she w"ll leave you forever with an unhealed wound in her heart which will never heal again.......
I feel like completely giving up. I've fought and tried for years. I feel like nothing is really improving.
Walk away. Don’t waste anymore time.
Me tol i just keep seeing date alot of girls and i been trying to wait for him for a long time like about 5 years nows thinking i can change something but really i cant anymoore so i left but got blocked smh
He left i meant
So deep and so very true. I'm that girl inside.. Woman on the outside.
It's so weird how people change in just a few days, for a example my friend he liked me so much. He would say all these nice stuff to make me happy, couple of days pass by he doesn't text ignores me I say "been busy eh?" He would respond back in a few days and say "yea" and again doesn't text back.. Even though I would text him right away even though I'm busy and I would meet guilty for not texting him, then he finally textes me just saying "hi, been a while, talked to my crush I told her I had a crush on her" all I could say was "oh" and "nice"and also "you should try dating her" acting all happy but in reality I was just breaking inside. He would also say "I'm serious, I really love her" and he said he messaged her she messaged back. But I thought he was "busy" that's why he hasn't texted me. *Am I crazy? Help me please. Help me forget him.*
No u niojnkijj
I cried coz i broke up with my husband 7yrs ago.. i gave up on him.. thats the time he realized he loves me.. now after 7yrs we're back together..
rockthe _femme Wow!
That's awesome now er all need to get it together, question is what are we going to do to keep it together
Sometimes love isn't always on time. Congratulations. Not until you've walked down the deepest valley, you understand how magnificent it is to reach the highest mountain.
I hope things work out!! But for me...
TAKING back n ex is like putting shit back into your ass hole
Can you please elaborate on how it was that you felt you lost him for good after giving up on him. Was there really seven years of separation? Did you both have other relationships? Your story intrigues me. Hoping you can elaborate more. Thx 👍
My ex wife summed it up in one word, she said she was indifferent ... and didn't care if I lived or died ... that was 30 years ago but it was a lifelong lesson and well-learned
When I'm hurt and thinking about giving up..
The recommendations 😭
You know why?.. Because shes gone..
Struck my heart like bullets
The 1st time I saw this video I was very saddened thinking when will this phase start with me....... months down the line now I’m finally happy that I closed that chapter of my book and now turning a new page for my life 🤗🤗🤗
I don't think she would ever understand my feelings. She never tried on me. 😔
Atleast understand me once, come to me once, try me once.. I will never never give you a chance to let go. Giving up is so far away.
I got mad at my guy friend because he did something and I gave up on him and I realized that this is true because this video is saying things that I've been doing.. Sorry guys.. ;-; and I'm kinda giving up on my crush...
~From a girl
Squidward Leonhardt Same😢😢its okay girl were all here for you
Squidward Leonhardt me too i gave up on my crush already he just keeps on ignoring me 😭🔥💔💔😢😢
Men, you don't really want a girl; you want a woman.
That lesson required almost two years of my life to learn. But now she is free to keep on hurting others and I am wiser for it.
Guys I told my crush that I like him for 6 years.He doesn't feel the same way.Can someone help me.I want to forget him
Nesi's Life I told my crush I liked him after 4 years!! Now his friends and my friends r trying to get us together! They kept pushing us twords each other! And hey to feel better, cry it all out! It helps! And dont talk to him, dont stalk him! Or anything like that! It works!
Nesi's Life hey, it's okay for someone to not like you. You gotta stay strong, keep loving them. Even if they don't t appreciate you, just be happy that they are happy.
Move on.
Nesi's Life I'm pretty sure u are an amazing person and if he doesn't feel the same way just think about it and he lost someone who can mean the world to him ❤️
Nesi's Life its ok just move on , i had a crush on a Friend for eight years and when I finally told him I didn't like the reaction .. nb: i am fifteen . It made me realize that some relationships just aren't meant to be at an early age. Hope you get the chance to move on.
Before this video a conversation between me and my girlfriend was like one minute long after I watched this video I texted her this: what are you doing? I just thought about loosing you... and now I'm crying😢. Witch I haven't done in a long time... I love you❤️❤️❤️. And she replied: I love you too❤️❤️❤️and please don't cry😘
That is so true...
Especially for the part which says she will not care in all respectives about you after you abandon her 😔
Be a man. Grow a beard!Sometimes it's a good thing to move the hell on.