So, I don't think Neve's attitude switched up because "she was gay". I think his attitude changed because she was extremely disingenuous and dismissive of the victim in this, "I'm sorry I guess" is a dogshit way to apologize for leading someone on for six years.
Yeah, I also took his “she’s hot!” As more of a “she’s hot???” Like, “we’ve done so many episodes and normally it’s unattractive people using the photos of hot people but this person is pretending to be Katy when they are objectively (to the current general societal standards), an attractive person, and I am confused as to why they would be lying about who they are in the first place” with an added “moreover, this attractive person is lying about their appearance to our boy who is, admittedly, not particularly attractive as compared to the current societal standards. This adds to my confusion”, but, you know, condensed into a couple words. I think every time he says that to Spencer it’s part of trying to snap him back into reality a bit, like “hey, there is no Katy Perry here. There is however, an actually attractive woman who is here, talking to you, for the last six years, maybe let’s focus on that” (though I haven’t watched this episode in a long ass time so might be misremembering somewhat)
I feel her life is even more cruel because of how stupid and gullible he is. If she was a decent and not a nasty, cruel person she would have stopped immidiatly when she realised the other person must be very gullible or have intellectual disability. I can see lonely, bored teens pulling pranks like this but that she held it up for 6 years was pretty disturbing. I hope that this was a wake-up call and that she wont hurt more vulnerable people.
I think he stopped mentioning she was hot or cute after learning she is gay because it would come across that he was still pushing her as a possible love interest and not respecting her sexuality.
@@theConquerersMama yeah I hate how she made it in the video seem like Nev was being homophobic it’s annoying as hell to put homophobia where it absolutely isn’t
Watching this episode made me lose brain cells because there's no way anyone is this delusional like even after meeting Harriet and her telling him to his face that she catfished him he still refused to believe it
I disagree with your assertion that "no one can be THAT delusional" because if Spencer is suffering from some mental illness, then it can definitely be possible for him to be THAT delusional, imo. Maybe it's a form of schizophrenia with 'delusions of grandeur' rather than 'paranoid delusions'. Now I'm not a mental health professional, but I have had multiple internships at schizophrenia units in hospitals, and Spencer reminds me of some of the patients I met...
@@saviorebello7342Yes exactly. I said the same thing about the delusions of grandeur. He is exhibiting extreme delusional stalkerish traits. He actually thinks this married celebrity was messaging him for 6 years and putting little messages in her songs.
@@saviorebello7342 what I mean is that how much more proof did he need she literally told him that she catfished him yet he still thought that he was talking to Katy Perry
@@Ju_lie8571that doesnt matter though, delusion and mental illness does not have peoples thinking follow logic like that, if it did it wouldnt be delusion.
I wondered when watching the episode if he was a stalker stan who thought he had worked out a brilliant plan to trick MTV into introducing him to Katy Perry but then it just got wilder and wilder.
The guys were kinda harsh on this one but i think the reason is they really wanted him to stop believing his delusion. So many guys just like spencer do crazy things because of stuff like this. Like, the really katy could get stalked by this guy. He fits the profile of someone who could just snap and go postal.
This is the episode I’ve been waiting for. The dude seems genuinely dangerous, like that’s the level of delusion he’s at. Seriously, I hope he got the help he needs.
Honestly I think the reason why it lasted so long is because Harriet was a roleplayer and Spencer found her account and ignored all signs that she clearly was playing pretend
My suspicion was that this was one where the producers asked the catfisher to fudge some of the details to fit the episode narrative and the two big pieces of the story they left out that she was likely an actual child when they started speaking and that she was more doing celebrity roleplay/fanfiction stuff than catfishing (at least at first).
I think Nev's "She's so hot" serves a purpose and isn't quite as shallow as you think. Typically, those who catfish do not fit within society's beauty standards, and that's why they use conventionally more attractive people for their pics. The fact that Harriet does fit within society's standards of beauty caught them off guard, because it's so out of the norm for this type of thing. The usual prerogative for catfishing thus wasn't there, and that's what made this episode so intriguing. If your appearance isn't the reason for your catfishing, what is? Ya know?
If he had said that himself (as he has in other episodes), then I wouldn't have pressed him so hard on that comment. I can totally understand what you're saying though, we just have differing opinions on this :)
@jaydahope I think I agree with both of you in a way. Yes, he probably said that because catfishers don't fit society's beauty standards. However, I agree with Jayda that its still shallow. He basically said "bruh catfishers are UGLY, and she ISN'T?! WHAAAAT?!" He's implying that attractive people can't be mentally ill, or insecure, or manipulative online, and that's bullsh*t. Edit: lmao not the commenter with 4 dingleberries liking their comment who don't understand extrapolation. Not them making the incorrect assumption that most of them ugly, but also not understanding that these opinions don't exist in a vacuum. I can't with some people, having the media literacy of a spoon.
@@trippingandbrowsing1269or maybe he just surprised cause the truth is catfishes are mostly“ ugly” by society standards, not every sentence implies something or the program would last forever for all the disclaimers
After looking into it she started talking to him when she was 12 which is why her age wasnt mentioned. She was super young when this aired, barely legal, so it makes sense she was giggly and immature, she was still a kid and acted as such. This ehole episode was crazy. Great video! :)
I also found it so weird how he was like I'm sure that I'm really talking to Katy because she told me things that only the real Katy would know. My whole thing is the real Katy doesn't even know him so how would he know if what he's being told is the truth or not?
omg here in 14 seconds..i’m making muffins i’ll save one for you!! i hope you’re doing well fren, thank you for covering one of the most iconic episodes
@@kebrinab13no that was great as well, but i feel she asks about the one that girl was texting a boy from her high school that had a glow up. She had curly blond hair and had her friends set up that anyone could tell something is off
Spencer is a stalker. People don't realize how serious he is and people like that are in the kpop industry now and days, those people are beyond crazy.
Saesangs are hella scary and crazy. Recently two teenage trainees were being followed by saesangs and the trainees led them straight to the police station 💀
As a middle aged black woman living in the American South…. Girl these videos are f*cking hilarious and give me exactly the amount of unseriousness i need to get through the day
Honestly, Spencer should be used in training sessions for a lot of mental health professionals on how high functioning but delusional /obsessive disorders can look. Down to the coded messaging. Stalking & obsession is a huge problem in a number of disorders.and if it was as easy as saying "snap out of it," they would. Typically, what "cures" an ongoing obsession without good intervention - often a combo of ongoing therapy and meds - is just transferring that obsession. With all the pent-up rage and anger of the last unresolved one coming along for the ride. Even if it never gets violent(many do), it destroys the person like Spencer going through life as they move from one delusion another. Keeps them from forming real bonds in life.
Yeah I think his obsessive tendencies will just be transferred to someone else. It's pretty scary when someone thinks they are being sent secret messages in songs and whatnot. Without therapy and probably meds anyway, I think he will just move onto another person to obsess over, and possibly stalk. Hopefully it is another person who is separated from him by an ocean. I think that is most likely safer.
@nikkic7097 hopefully. I think this level of mental health often goes over looked and untreated because the person can usually still go to work and pay taxes. If family, friends, and coworkers are concerned, it can be hard to make the person see it as a real problem or symptom, especially men, unless it escalates to violence. And then court ordered therapy is not always going to treat the root cause as much as just turn it into a martyrs task in their obsession. Rather than a wake up call.
as someone with close loved ones w schizophrenia and other psychotic disorders, this honestly felt like a story of someone w an underlying psychotic illness who was vulnerable for developing a delusion and the girl just swooped in pretending to be katy perry at the worst time on someone so fragile already. i hope he's sought therapy bc i feel like this behaviour needs medicating.
i think the reason harriet had that weird look, like you said nothing behind her eyes, i think it was because she just didnt give a shit. like to her, doing that to him was just whatever, it didnt matter at all to her. and i think katy perry shouldve probably gotten a restraining order against spencer. also i thiiiink nev maybe meant the 'she's hot' in more of a way 'wow this girl is pretty, why does she need to catfish, like can she not date by being herself??' or he was just being a man lmaoooo
also i totally love these videos!!! ive seen all these episodes before but having your commentary makes something ive seen a million times interesting again! i always look forward to these!!!
Okay waittttt!!! You're right! She could've just logged into her email, but I doubt that would've done anything because Spencer was so deep in delusion
"She's hot!" I think he was thinking why would she NEED to pretend to be someone else. At the same time Nev would be low-key shut shamey to girls that post thrist traps.. THANK YOU FOR THE VIDEO SIS!
His lips are no thinner than the average white male. Do you want men like him to become self-conscious and start plumping their lips up with fillers? Just imagine him for a sec with the filler!
I loved how Spencer’s logic of she knew all this stuff about her childhood, means it’s defo the real KP, because he looked up EVERYTHING online to confirm it, as if the Catfish couldn’t have found it online in the first place…. He’s the type who will fall for a Nigerian Princess because they send him a picture taken in Nigeria….
No because I've literally blamed this guy for being the reason they never go to Tennessee 😂like you're telling me there aint catfishes in Nashville? (Im from there, so when they finally aired this episode, I cringed so hard he was our representation) 😂😂😂
I think Harriette was for sure a minor when she did those things and thought nothing of it. That's why she wasn't really whole hearted with the apology cause it was a stupid game she played before she knew better.
6 years. She BARELY looks 25. Spencer looks closer to 30. She also said she tried telling him. Honestly I would just assume the guy knows and is trolling me back. And then seeing how he was acting in person...i couldn't take him seriously. The only thing good that came out of this is katys security knows this guys face.
you just make my day whenever I see you post a new video! Would love to see you break down a messy episode of Jersey Shore! As a local from Atlantic City, I am intrigued to see your opinion on such a messy show that influenced me when I was in middle school lol
I still think about this exact episode. The details are ingrained into my brain. This girl also seemed not okay when I first saw her I remember feeling worried about her 😢
This reminds me of a time when I was 15. I had friend who was grown (21) and I was 17. She deadass thought she was talking to chis brown for the longest too. She was telling me that they were gonna get married. It got to the point where she was sending him up to 900 dollars every 2 weeks. It was ridiculous.
I looked it up, apparently harriet was 18 during this episode which means she was 12 when she started talking to him and he was 20. Mans got what he got for being that gullible Edit, he was 30 when they started talking and 36 when they filmed 🤮
I just can’t get enough of these videos!!! I done watched all of them already like as you dropped them and I’m always just waiting for the next one😭😭😭 I also like the secret relationship videos now too!!
YESSSS this is the episode I show to my friends when they haven't seen catfish!! One of my fav episodes of all time I cannot wait to hear what you have to say about this
I remember seeing this episode on TV. It was so crazy to think someone could actually think they were talking to a celebrity even AFTER meeting the cat fish, I switched channels before seeing the 1-month check in.
Bro two days ago or yesterday I binge watched all your videos and now here I am watching again doing homework, your videos are so chill and I love how you explain everything. Like damn I need more videos 😫🫶🏽
They should've never taken Spencer on. He's clearly mentally ill and this I'd exploiting that. I had a client that believed he was in a relationship with a famous model and had been for 15 years
If I was Harriett I'd laugh too. This guy in the pits of delusion. Imagine some guy taking the fan account when you made when you were fourteen seriously. She didnt even try that hard.
tbh i always thought it was a lil weird of nev to jump on harriet for her insincere apology. like i wouldn't be that sorry either bc who tf thinks they're actually talking to Katy Perry.
It really just felt like a poor misdirection of his frustration... like they glossed over the fact that Harriet was likely a minor when this started, and Spencer lacked common sense!!
@@BunnieOfDestruction how did she take advantage tho? she didn't extort him for anything. he's way to grown to blame this girl for this whole situation.
Early gang!!!! I LOVE your coverage of catfish. I would to see you cover tbe YT series "Catfished". Every single one of those episodes drive me bananas, lol!
If I were that delusional, I would have gotten yelled at and someone would have said "girl wake up!" You’re being freakin crazy” multiple times just to give me a wake up call
Geeeezzzz🙄 I've been sad, very low, at times, but never, ever, EVER, have I been delusional in my sadness. These ppl.....smh I think every one should be assigned a therapist at birth🤔
You always post when I'm at work but of course when I'm off I'm watching I was hoping you covered this episode cause like...huh I really was like... huh this entire episode
They’re treating Spencer’s delusions as him being stupid or stubborn and not a genuine mental health problem that needs professional help. He sounds like he has erotomania or the beginning of it - a lot of them claim to have gotten “messages” through the famous persons music or TV appearances or radio clips assuring them of their love the way he said he was. His refusal to believe it even when faced with the actual person he was talking to is another symptom. People who believe the way Spencer does can end up stalking the famous person and potentially escalating if they don’t get help. I hope he’s doing much better and can distinguish between reality and fiction better now
I still cannot believe the delusions of this episode tbh, but I’ve seen worse tbh on Scamfish. Also also very curious how Kami would react if she was hosting here
So, I don't think Neve's attitude switched up because "she was gay". I think his attitude changed because she was extremely disingenuous and dismissive of the victim in this, "I'm sorry I guess" is a dogshit way to apologize for leading someone on for six years.
Agreed. I also think bc Spencer was just sooo delusional, the fact that she wasn’t taking it serious might feed into his delusion.
Yeah, I also took his “she’s hot!” As more of a “she’s hot???” Like, “we’ve done so many episodes and normally it’s unattractive people using the photos of hot people but this person is pretending to be Katy when they are objectively (to the current general societal standards), an attractive person, and I am confused as to why they would be lying about who they are in the first place” with an added “moreover, this attractive person is lying about their appearance to our boy who is, admittedly, not particularly attractive as compared to the current societal standards. This adds to my confusion”, but, you know, condensed into a couple words. I think every time he says that to Spencer it’s part of trying to snap him back into reality a bit, like “hey, there is no Katy Perry here. There is however, an actually attractive woman who is here, talking to you, for the last six years, maybe let’s focus on that” (though I haven’t watched this episode in a long ass time so might be misremembering somewhat)
@@newsgoose9629no you‘re right. You summed it up pretty good what his thought process was.
I feel her life is even more cruel because of how stupid and gullible he is. If she was a decent and not a nasty, cruel person she would have stopped immidiatly when she realised the other person must be very gullible or have intellectual disability. I can see lonely, bored teens pulling pranks like this but that she held it up for 6 years was pretty disturbing. I hope that this was a wake-up call and that she wont hurt more vulnerable people.
Agree 💯
the "she doesn't say meow meow bitch?" part always gets me, I love Max💀
He wasn’t talking to the real Katy Perry because I’m Katy Perry.
Stopppppp💀💀💀
No, I’M DIRTY DAN
😂😂😂😂
He's squidward, he's squidward, She's squidward, IM SQAWIDWARD!!
Calm down Katy Perry! No need to brag
I don’t think Nev got angry and switched up bc he learned Harriet is gay. I think he’s just mad bc she wasn’t taking it seriously.
Agreed.
Most definitely because she was laughing
I think he stopped mentioning she was hot or cute after learning she is gay because it would come across that he was still pushing her as a possible love interest and not respecting her sexuality.
@@theConquerersMama yeah I hate how she made it in the video seem like Nev was being homophobic it’s annoying as hell to put homophobia where it absolutely isn’t
Watching this episode made me lose brain cells because there's no way anyone is this delusional like even after meeting Harriet and her telling him to his face that she catfished him he still refused to believe it
I disagree with your assertion that "no one can be THAT delusional" because if Spencer is suffering from some mental illness, then it can definitely be possible for him to be THAT delusional, imo. Maybe it's a form of schizophrenia with 'delusions of grandeur' rather than 'paranoid delusions'.
Now I'm not a mental health professional, but I have had multiple internships at schizophrenia units in hospitals, and Spencer reminds me of some of the patients I met...
@@saviorebello7342Yes exactly. I said the same thing about the delusions of grandeur. He is exhibiting extreme delusional stalkerish traits. He actually thinks this married celebrity was messaging him for 6 years and putting little messages in her songs.
@@saviorebello7342 what I mean is that how much more proof did he need she literally told him that she catfished him yet he still thought that he was talking to Katy Perry
@@Ju_lie8571that doesnt matter though, delusion and mental illness does not have peoples thinking follow logic like that, if it did it wouldnt be delusion.
@@NikkiC777thats called erotomania btw
Dying at “So Nev and Max arrive to pick up Mr. Katy Perry” 😂
The man was SO certain he was seeing Katy Perry.... He wrote into Catfish.
Let that sink in.
I wondered when watching the episode if he was a stalker stan who thought he had worked out a brilliant plan to trick MTV into introducing him to Katy Perry but then it just got wilder and wilder.
The catfish actually writes into the show but they make it look like the other way around
The guys were kinda harsh on this one but i think the reason is they really wanted him to stop believing his delusion. So many guys just like spencer do crazy things because of stuff like this. Like, the really katy could get stalked by this guy. He fits the profile of someone who could just snap and go postal.
This is the episode I’ve been waiting for. The dude seems genuinely dangerous, like that’s the level of delusion he’s at. Seriously, I hope he got the help he needs.
I have a feeling that he's hunting Katy Perry even now.💀
Yeah his delusion was scary asf
When it came out I was like aw MTV could’ve got him a little video message from Katy, but now I definitely think he’d be one of those crazy stalkers
Honestly I think the reason why it lasted so long is because Harriet was a roleplayer and Spencer found her account and ignored all signs that she clearly was playing pretend
That’d make more sense!
My suspicion was that this was one where the producers asked the catfisher to fudge some of the details to fit the episode narrative and the two big pieces of the story they left out that she was likely an actual child when they started speaking and that she was more doing celebrity roleplay/fanfiction stuff than catfishing (at least at first).
I think Nev's "She's so hot" serves a purpose and isn't quite as shallow as you think. Typically, those who catfish do not fit within society's beauty standards, and that's why they use conventionally more attractive people for their pics. The fact that Harriet does fit within society's standards of beauty caught them off guard, because it's so out of the norm for this type of thing. The usual prerogative for catfishing thus wasn't there, and that's what made this episode so intriguing. If your appearance isn't the reason for your catfishing, what is? Ya know?
these were my thoughts exactly!
If he had said that himself (as he has in other episodes), then I wouldn't have pressed him so hard on that comment. I can totally understand what you're saying though, we just have differing opinions on this :)
@jaydahope I think I agree with both of you in a way. Yes, he probably said that because catfishers don't fit society's beauty standards. However, I agree with Jayda that its still shallow. He basically said "bruh catfishers are UGLY, and she ISN'T?! WHAAAAT?!" He's implying that attractive people can't be mentally ill, or insecure, or manipulative online, and that's bullsh*t.
Edit: lmao not the commenter with 4 dingleberries liking their comment who don't understand extrapolation. Not them making the incorrect assumption that most of them ugly, but also not understanding that these opinions don't exist in a vacuum. I can't with some people, having the media literacy of a spoon.
@@trippingandbrowsing1269or maybe he just surprised cause the truth is catfishes are mostly“ ugly” by society standards, not every sentence implies something or the program would last forever for all the disclaimers
I agree. Plus I think he was upset by her attitude and not that she wasn’t straight. I’d have been annoyed if I was there too
After looking into it she started talking to him when she was 12 which is why her age wasnt mentioned. She was super young when this aired, barely legal, so it makes sense she was giggly and immature, she was still a kid and acted as such. This ehole episode was crazy. Great video! :)
Nev calling the man weird and crazy in front of him sent me. He has no filter 🤣🤣
I also found it so weird how he was like I'm sure that I'm really talking to Katy because she told me things that only the real Katy would know. My whole thing is the real Katy doesn't even know him so how would he know if what he's being told is the truth or not?
That is some serious delusional justification. Yeah Katy would know these “facts” but you wouldn’t dummy.
omg here in 14 seconds..i’m making muffins i’ll save one for you!! i hope you’re doing well fren, thank you for covering one of the most iconic episodes
Ouuu thank you friend!! I hope the muffins turn out so delicious. I'm doing well, I hope you are too! Thank you for being here!
What kind of muffins 👀
what kind of muffin
I also want to know what kind of muffins
What kind of muffin? 👀
Please cover the one where the girl planned a fake story with her friends to come on the show and got cussed out by Neve. lol.
The one with Machine Gun Kelly calling her a loser at the end?😂
@@kebrinab13no that was great as well, but i feel she asks about the one that girl was texting a boy from her high school that had a glow up. She had curly blond hair and had her friends set up that anyone could tell something is off
@@katarzynasylla5143 Yep! That is the one
@@katarzynasylla5143 Taylor. I just watched Jayda's video on her today!
he was a little scary in this episode ngl, just unhinged and delusional
When you said "I was eleven" I almost died of old age
I'm 27 and I feel ancient now
That man could have cracked the Da Vinci Code looking for those clues in the songs 😭😭😭😂😂😂
Spencer is a stalker. People don't realize how serious he is and people like that are in the kpop industry now and days, those people are beyond crazy.
I felt that way soon as I head about the message he sent to the girl after the show
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Saesangs are hella scary and crazy. Recently two teenage trainees were being followed by saesangs and the trainees led them straight to the police station 💀
When he said that Katy sends messages to him through her songs!! This man is ill
He sounds like Nayeon from Twice's stalker
Either:
The details she gave are known only to Katy Perry, in which case they can't be verified by Spencer, or,
They are details anyone could know.
As a middle aged black woman living in the American South…. Girl these videos are f*cking hilarious and give me exactly the amount of unseriousness i need to get through the day
Never opened a notification so fast. so ready for this ride cause I never seen this episode and I am BUCKLED IN-
Omg this one is actually insane, and SUCH a wild watch, especially when seeing it for the first time
Honestly, Spencer should be used in training sessions for a lot of mental health professionals on how high functioning but delusional /obsessive disorders can look. Down to the coded messaging.
Stalking & obsession is a huge problem in a number of disorders.and if it was as easy as saying "snap out of it," they would.
Typically, what "cures" an ongoing obsession without good intervention - often a combo of ongoing therapy and meds - is just transferring that obsession. With all the pent-up rage and anger of the last unresolved one coming along for the ride.
Even if it never gets violent(many do), it destroys the person like Spencer going through life as they move from one delusion another. Keeps them from forming real bonds in life.
Yeah I think his obsessive tendencies will just be transferred to someone else. It's pretty scary when someone thinks they are being sent secret messages in songs and whatnot.
Without therapy and probably meds anyway, I think he will just move onto another person to obsess over, and possibly stalk. Hopefully it is another person who is separated from him by an ocean. I think that is most likely safer.
@nikkic7097 hopefully.
I think this level of mental health often goes over looked and untreated because the person can usually still go to work and pay taxes. If family, friends, and coworkers are concerned, it can be hard to make the person see it as a real problem or symptom, especially men, unless it escalates to violence.
And then court ordered therapy is not always going to treat the root cause as much as just turn it into a martyrs task in their obsession. Rather than a wake up call.
Omg my sister and I still can’t get over this episode years later….. the level of delu lu
Your hair and commentary will always eat!! Love your videos
Ahhhh thank you so much bestie!! Happy to have you here!
as someone with close loved ones w schizophrenia and other psychotic disorders, this honestly felt like a story of someone w an underlying psychotic illness who was vulnerable for developing a delusion and the girl just swooped in pretending to be katy perry at the worst time on someone so fragile already. i hope he's sought therapy bc i feel like this behaviour needs medicating.
I love getting off work getting baked and seeing Jayda posted a new catfish video to watch while I play the sims
SAME SAME
Literally me rn lol that’s crazy
@@alexusramsey4894 I try to be better, but shit's heelarrious
Lmao same but I’m old so no sims lol
Yessss
This episode was literally on this morning while I was getting ready for work and I was wondering when you’d cover it lmao
i think the reason harriet had that weird look, like you said nothing behind her eyes, i think it was because she just didnt give a shit. like to her, doing that to him was just whatever, it didnt matter at all to her. and i think katy perry shouldve probably gotten a restraining order against spencer. also i thiiiink nev maybe meant the 'she's hot' in more of a way 'wow this girl is pretty, why does she need to catfish, like can she not date by being herself??' or he was just being a man lmaoooo
also i totally love these videos!!! ive seen all these episodes before but having your commentary makes something ive seen a million times interesting again! i always look forward to these!!!
Yeah he was definitely saying like “she’s hot!?” Because most catfish aren’t conventional attractive people especially the women
@@Kitkat_bar yeah she could use her regular photos and scam troll dudes.
Yea so many women hate men so she probably just thinks men deserve this. She only cares about herself im sure. Im sure he gave her money.
They couldn’t have had her show their messages from her phone???
Okay waittttt!!! You're right! She could've just logged into her email, but I doubt that would've done anything because Spencer was so deep in delusion
Or hell call him so "katy perry" number can pop up.
This is what I was thinking! That’s some pretty damning evidence.
"YOU STOLE KATY'S PHONE!"
it wasn't her lol
"She's hot!" I think he was thinking why would she NEED to pretend to be someone else. At the same time Nev would be low-key shut shamey to girls that post thrist traps..
THANK YOU FOR THE VIDEO SIS!
PART OF THE FUN WAS KEEPING HIM GUESSING?!?! SIR. SIR!
The delusion was TOO much
The cows fcking was such a jump scare 😂
this episode always makes me laugh. Your commentary is the cherry on top❤
Yessss! I love the commentary
No matter how many times I see it, this episode still makes me laugh 😂 “iTs nOt HeR~”
lol not the “non existing lips” 😂😂😂
I couldn't help but mention it friend💀😭
His lips are no thinner than the average white male. Do you want men like him to become self-conscious and start plumping their lips up with fillers?
Just imagine him for a sec with the filler!
Spencer listened to Thinking Of You on repeat and swore it was her 😂
Spencer looks like Donald Trump Jr. and exhibits the same insane level of unearned confidence.
its the fact he still thought it was real, oh my god this girls delusional
I wonder if Katie Perry ever saw this episode 😂
She did. She made a tweet about it and told the guy in the tweet that it wasn’t her.
@@thatoneweirdkidthatyoudisl6723good I’m glad
@@thatoneweirdkidthatyoudisl6723
Wow fr
I’m so happy you’re finally doing this one! I explained this episode to my husband and he was SHOOK! 😂
I loved how Spencer’s logic of she knew all this stuff about her childhood, means it’s defo the real KP, because he looked up EVERYTHING online to confirm it, as if the Catfish couldn’t have found it online in the first place…. He’s the type who will fall for a Nigerian Princess because they send him a picture taken in Nigeria….
Her storytelling skills are immaculate.👩🏾🍳💋🤌
I LOVEEE WHEN SHEEEE UPLOADSSSSSS
No because I've literally blamed this guy for being the reason they never go to Tennessee 😂like you're telling me there aint catfishes in Nashville? (Im from there, so when they finally aired this episode, I cringed so hard he was our representation) 😂😂😂
I think Harriette was for sure a minor when she did those things and thought nothing of it. That's why she wasn't really whole hearted with the apology cause it was a stupid game she played before she knew better.
Yeessss I’ve been waiting for this!!! You did an amazing job on this one
6 years. She BARELY looks 25. Spencer looks closer to 30. She also said she tried telling him. Honestly I would just assume the guy knows and is trolling me back. And then seeing how he was acting in person...i couldn't take him seriously. The only thing good that came out of this is katys security knows this guys face.
you just make my day whenever I see you post a new video! Would love to see you break down a messy episode of Jersey Shore! As a local from Atlantic City, I am intrigued to see your opinion on such a messy show that influenced me when I was in middle school lol
I still think about this exact episode. The details are ingrained into my brain. This girl also seemed not okay when I first saw her I remember feeling worried about her 😢
This reminds me of a time when I was 15. I had friend who was grown (21) and I was 17. She deadass thought she was talking to chis brown for the longest too. She was telling me that they were gonna get married. It got to the point where she was sending him up to 900 dollars every 2 weeks. It was ridiculous.
Not Chris Brown the abuser 💀💀💀 like If you told me she was "talking" to idk Usher or Michael B. Jordan it would be fine but CHRIS BROWN?
When I tell you this is my ALL TIME favorite delusional Catfish episode!! I couldn’t have clicked faster!! ❤
the children's names bit sends me everytime babyyyyy 😭😭
I looked it up, apparently harriet was 18 during this episode which means she was 12 when she started talking to him and he was 20. Mans got what he got for being that gullible
Edit, he was 30 when they started talking and 36 when they filmed 🤮
I think about this episode all the time. The strength of this man's delusions is honestly unbelievable.
I just can’t get enough of these videos!!! I done watched all of them already like as you dropped them and I’m always just waiting for the next one😭😭😭 I also like the secret relationship videos now too!!
They could’ve avoided all of this by taking this man to a therapist and just film that instead
💯 don't like how this was handled at all
I watch every single episode, but I love when you evaluate them😂 it’s amazing
Im not saying it's ok, but I 100% understand why Harriet couldn't stop laughing at him
I was gonna take a quick nap, but this video is so important to my well-being
This is one of my favourite episodes lmao I’m so glad you’re doing it
The fact that they asked this man if he wanted to put on deodorant😭😂
A Canadian child from Alberta is craaaazy😂😂😂
YESSSS this is the episode I show to my friends when they haven't seen catfish!! One of my fav episodes of all time I cannot wait to hear what you have to say about this
Love watching these videos when I'm doing my skincare routine
I remember seeing this episode on TV. It was so crazy to think someone could actually think they were talking to a celebrity even AFTER meeting the cat fish, I switched channels before seeing the 1-month check in.
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this episode will never not be funny because why as a grown man was spencer so delusional 🤣🤣🤣
Why would you say that 😂 why would you say non existent lips 😂😂😂😭💀 I can't focus on the rest of this now
Bro two days ago or yesterday I binge watched all your videos and now here I am watching again doing homework, your videos are so chill and I love how you explain everything. Like damn I need more videos 😫🫶🏽
They should've never taken Spencer on. He's clearly mentally ill and this I'd exploiting that. I had a client that believed he was in a relationship with a famous model and had been for 15 years
This is literally at the point where they probably try to get Katy Perry to literally send him a video and be like "Yeah I don't know you"
I cannot stop laughing when you called Spencer, Mr. Perry.
Spencer was the true definition of delulu. I thought he just didn't want to admit he had been duped
If I was Harriett I'd laugh too. This guy in the pits of delusion. Imagine some guy taking the fan account when you made when you were fourteen seriously. She didnt even try that hard.
I don't think you realize how much I love these recaps
Ah I love your video ❤️ it’s like Christmas of tea every time you upload.
tbh i always thought it was a lil weird of nev to jump on harriet for her insincere apology. like i wouldn't be that sorry either bc who tf thinks they're actually talking to Katy Perry.
It really just felt like a poor misdirection of his frustration... like they glossed over the fact that Harriet was likely a minor when this started, and Spencer lacked common sense!!
@@jaydahope omg actually fan girling
You're too sweet🥺thank you for being here friend!
I mean someone being naive/delusional doesn’t mean you shouldn’t feel bad for taking advantage of them 😂
@@BunnieOfDestruction how did she take advantage tho? she didn't extort him for anything. he's way to grown to blame this girl for this whole situation.
Girl now why you shade Alberta like that 😭. I hate it here so that was real asf. Great video as always
the big pookie clip was the cherry on top of this video, i loved it 😭❤
THANK YOU this is what we've all been waiting for
Early gang!!!! I LOVE your coverage of catfish.
I would to see you cover tbe YT series "Catfished". Every single one of those episodes drive me bananas, lol!
So glad you're diving into this one. That guy deLULU
The levels of delusion this guy had was mind boggling.
If I were that delusional, I would have gotten yelled at and someone would have said "girl wake up!" You’re being freakin crazy” multiple times just to give me a wake up call
"She has a good heart" that's how you know it's not Katy perry
The way this has me cackling LMFAOOO
loving your new thumbnails!! i love what you add to the episodes, you’re hilarious lol thank you for another great upload!! 🫶🏾
I saw the thumbnail and I dropped everything. This is the level of delulu that carried the show in the earlier seasons.
Geeeezzzz🙄
I've been sad, very low, at times, but never, ever, EVER, have I been delusional in my sadness. These ppl.....smh
I think every one should be assigned a therapist at birth🤔
The cows!! Why?? 😂😂😂
Friend, I wish I knew💀😭 but I had to see it, so you did too
i’ve been waiting to hear your input on this oneeee!! thanks for always letting us eat & cackle with youuuu ❤️
Spencer is the sort of guy who'd end up in an episode of criminal minds.
Girl you make me laugh so hard every video I can’t handle it
I honestly dont think he thought its Katy Perry, but that if he kept pretending to play crazy theyd let him talk to the real one
I was going to recommend this one to you so glad you did it!
This episode was such a painful watch! 😭
Nah he wanted his Wattpad Y/N story with a celebrity sooo bad 😂😂
You always post when I'm at work but of course when I'm off I'm watching I was hoping you covered this episode cause like...huh I really was like... huh this entire episode
They’re treating Spencer’s delusions as him being stupid or stubborn and not a genuine mental health problem that needs professional help. He sounds like he has erotomania or the beginning of it - a lot of them claim to have gotten “messages” through the famous persons music or TV appearances or radio clips assuring them of their love the way he said he was. His refusal to believe it even when faced with the actual person he was talking to is another symptom. People who believe the way Spencer does can end up stalking the famous person and potentially escalating if they don’t get help. I hope he’s doing much better and can distinguish between reality and fiction better now
Just woke up saw you posted this. First thing I did.
The ring... is he insane?
I still cannot believe the delusions of this episode tbh, but I’ve seen worse tbh on Scamfish. Also also very curious how Kami would react if she was hosting here
This was one of the most insane episodes can’t wait to hear your take on it