You never face your loneliness | J. Krishnamurti

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  • @Spin1Particle
    @Spin1Particle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Because you're no longer escaping and therefore wasting your energy, then you can look and when you observe totally the thing is not. -J. Krishnamurti ❤️

    • @vimalcurio
      @vimalcurio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wasting no energy *

    • @pratik6342
      @pratik6342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯

  • @dp921
    @dp921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thanks to whoever is maintaining this TH-cam channel.
    You are doing a great job. Thanks a ton.

  • @chaselearning7837
    @chaselearning7837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    That feeling when you are with the crowd, but feeling numb,irritated, motionless, tired for being what we are , trust me is something beyond explanation.

  • @degaichiafatma6650
    @degaichiafatma6650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    A year and a half living alone an quarantining alone, and only his lectures about loneliness gave me power.
    Grief, long nights even when I meet some people, my whole country make me feel lonely, I want to go somewhere to heal among spiritual people like me, this doesn't mean I am disrespecting other people here, no but I am resecting myself and my inner call... Sometimes I feel afraid of my mental health, but my mind become so stronger in this loneliness ...

    • @Gaurav.P0
      @Gaurav.P0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, how is your mental health now ?

    • @omeringa
      @omeringa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay strong Fatma we got this!

    • @bodhisattva7118
      @bodhisattva7118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look at it

  • @googleram2935
    @googleram2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "You ARE that Loneliness"
    ----that's deep bruh

    • @pratik6342
      @pratik6342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      probably that's the truth bruh.. :)

    • @img008
      @img008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it true? Apart from the words, the feelings, emotions, etc

  • @kimhappy4908
    @kimhappy4908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When we have a conflict with others. Directly facing them is the best way to go about. But we never do that to ourselves .

    • @uncleusuh
      @uncleusuh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautifully said.

    • @Gaurav.P0
      @Gaurav.P0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you explain more please? What will happen if I directly face it ?

    • @bodhisattva7118
      @bodhisattva7118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you observe the thing it’s not

    • @geespar1
      @geespar1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gaurav.P0try it and find out for yourself, second-hand explanations can never compare to your own living experience

    • @geespar1
      @geespar1 ปีที่แล้ว

      A very poignant observation, thank you

  • @dipanwitachakrabarti7412
    @dipanwitachakrabarti7412 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's true , observing closely the fact that we are actually lonely...accepting loneliness as it is always there with us ... We must not try to escape from it ... J. Krishnamurti ji' s brilliant observation .🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @edu.monstrik
    @edu.monstrik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Last part of this speech is the key.

  • @magnamia
    @magnamia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The thing is not" :) What a succinct phrase of depth, truth, and beauty. :)

  • @sebnemkalkan3312
    @sebnemkalkan3312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This man found out the "secret" of life.

    • @weaamkhalid2478
      @weaamkhalid2478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, he did 🌌

    • @samsarmadi749
      @samsarmadi749 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you 100%

    • @coreyperkins2493
      @coreyperkins2493 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed. I feel like if I would have met him in-person I would have just sat there and cried.

    • @girishd5075
      @girishd5075 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@coreyperkins2493absolutely. I could feel same like you said. 👌

  • @Vandematram000
    @Vandematram000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is my one of the best inspirational person

    • @pradeepbhojwani8139
      @pradeepbhojwani8139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks god u didn’t say inspirational speaker.

    • @Vandematram000
      @Vandematram000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pradeepbhojwani8139 🤣❤️

  • @JazevoAudiosurf
    @JazevoAudiosurf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    while I didn't solve loneliness, at times when I wake up from sleep, I notice that it can quickly turn into hunger or any other desire. which means, that loneliness is the most fundamental desire. first, there is desire. then, a thought is applied to it, which makes it loneliness. and when there is the attempt to escape it but no escape can be found it turns into fear, which then turns into panic. I can rarely completely feel loneliness, it seems to only happen when I slept. it's true that I run away from it, it's so vast, it's the only thing that I can't face. I can face the strongest pains and find a solution for it and it's not even comparable to this desire. desire is the one and only drain of energy. when there is strong desire, you are completely out of energy, that is why one panics eventually. without energy, nothing that requires energy, like pain, can be solved. desire completely blocks any progress on anything that is not desire. so you lose all your energy and collapse under the lack of energy, which is truly the meaning of hell

  • @brajat5538
    @brajat5538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Loneliness is dangerous. It's addicting. Once you know how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people... Buddhism

  • @MrChahal80
    @MrChahal80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When I understand that I am that loneliness then I also understand that i can't really do anything about it. With this realisation the doer ceases.. all effort ceases, the me ceases and peace prevails....

    • @sayedalazam4228
      @sayedalazam4228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Subhanallah. It's amazing isn't it, today I tried not escaping and I actually feel bliss.

  • @kaushalkishore6938
    @kaushalkishore6938 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How beautiful!

  • @rupertpitt4
    @rupertpitt4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Superb full of insight……

  • @Spin1Particle
    @Spin1Particle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You may run away thousand miles it is always there.

  • @ishapattanashettar9504
    @ishapattanashettar9504 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the uploading the video 🙏

  • @tcb3901
    @tcb3901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He’s a smart guy

  • @deveshtangar4357
    @deveshtangar4357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Krishnamurti ji talking about sound of silence

  • @hierarchy934
    @hierarchy934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It was a very simple and clear explanation.

  • @samarthachaitanya2500
    @samarthachaitanya2500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sense of loneliness is in operation despite packs of many, family, friends and rest of it....says Jk. The movement of ME is loneliness/ isolation. The only remedy to overcome(not escape) is OBSERVATION of the truth of loneliness without going beyond it.

  • @viveksanyal2773
    @viveksanyal2773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @weaamkhalid2478
    @weaamkhalid2478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 💞🌌🙏

  • @carmenmaria3884
    @carmenmaria3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant! Really inspiring!

  • @sunshine-1137
    @sunshine-1137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG.....how much I needed this🙏. Yes as long as we see ourselves seperate from everything.....that me ness and ego this loneliness always will be there as a shadow. We as individuals always will be lonely .......but when we are one with nature n universe then we will know who we are. Thanks so much for this video 🙏🙏

  • @fenhadrian9446
    @fenhadrian9446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    孤独是生命的本质,渴望填充是生命的天性。
    loneliness is self of the life,Although human being long for being filled

  • @SohamShivoham
    @SohamShivoham ปีที่แล้ว

    *This is beautiful*

  • @rajas3470
    @rajas3470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is always there.

    • @akz4485
      @akz4485 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if it is always there.why worry.

  • @SohamShivoham
    @SohamShivoham ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't escape or resist because...
    It is wastage of energy
    Face loneliness bravely &...
    realise that you are that loneliness
    When you look & observe totally...
    The thing is not!

  • @Taldaran
    @Taldaran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you want to analyze this aspect of suffering as simply as possible, people do anything to escape loneliness because they cannot bear being in the present moment with themselves, and ego constructs cannot exist in the present moment. The closer we can get to realizing exactly who we are without delusion, then it's easy to spend time completely alone.
    P.S. 2 years later...Another way of looking at this is from a scientific perspective. There is no such thing as cold. There is just an absence of heat. If loneliness is like cold, the remedy is love.

  • @ranirathi3379
    @ranirathi3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this one video of 6mins is worth more than a hundred books on psychology, philosophy, spirituality and self-improvement combined.
    intellectualization is our modern way of escape and all it has done is reinforce "me".

  • @harumprocol936
    @harumprocol936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    respect J. Krishnamurti. His words are always jewel to me.

  • @markdavidignacio9073
    @markdavidignacio9073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His words are always beyond words. Not the majority, not all people will understand what he says. He was there and will always be.
    J. Krishnamurti's words are beyond beauty and wisdom.

  • @mtmtmtmt
    @mtmtmtmt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    MERCI ! cet aperçu de la signature astrologique est un bon début pour une analyse plus détaillée.

  • @4imagesmore
    @4imagesmore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wherever you go...there you aren't.

  • @sylviagung1007
    @sylviagung1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "You Are the loneliness"... I am my loneliness ... I have to look at it quietly without escaping. Then my watching over reveals me how little I understand myself. I don't understand the nature of myself. The reality of my being....

  • @saurav9382
    @saurav9382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🔥❤️

  • @pratik6342
    @pratik6342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Don't escape..face the facts as they are.

  • @akhil1753
    @akhil1753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loneliness and Solitude.

  • @suganthikaruna7466
    @suganthikaruna7466 ปีที่แล้ว

    Better to have transcription for. all speeches.

  • @indumathi.v5869
    @indumathi.v5869 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:33 true

  • @CarlosAlberto-gs7gm
    @CarlosAlberto-gs7gm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏👏👏

  • @ngocdo4536
    @ngocdo4536 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤💚💙💜

  • @kamoksoulmotaung4848
    @kamoksoulmotaung4848 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm tired of this life I've been living and yet I don't know what to do

  • @preethikrao
    @preethikrao 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @aneeshradhakrishnan4975
    @aneeshradhakrishnan4975 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @vimalcurio
    @vimalcurio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow

  • @Ford10000
    @Ford10000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏🏾

  • @sharanjitprasher9684
    @sharanjitprasher9684 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:18

  • @filipposchristodoulou4769
    @filipposchristodoulou4769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You Are that Loneliness

  • @Shunya_Advait
    @Shunya_Advait 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏

  • @junespoesy
    @junespoesy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ♡♡♡♡♡

  • @akhileshkumarshukla5776
    @akhileshkumarshukla5776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Full video link please

  • @MSDmaahi7
    @MSDmaahi7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍

  • @mihaelaciasc3725
    @mihaelaciasc3725 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🙏🥀

  • @MrAkansu
    @MrAkansu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Add turkish language for all videos pls

  • @Sailormoon2222
    @Sailormoon2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️🙏🏾

  • @sylviagung1007
    @sylviagung1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you are lonely, it is the result of the fact that you don't love others, don't care about others.... You live in your selfishness

  • @someoneelse6618
    @someoneelse6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you exclude the world you will feel lonely if you include it you will become one

  • @grahaminglis4242
    @grahaminglis4242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are we always doing something that is attempting to get control over the inner situation of what bubbles up out of the exigencies that plague the conscious mind and wonder why the dammed restlessness is sapping so much vitality from the nervous system. And the difficulty is exaggerated because it is felt as my particular discomfort due to the conditioning that we are each an individual consciousness and therefore don’t realise that it affects others in similar ways. So the last thing we would want is to look directly at the sensations that are upon us and remain witness to the phenomena just to feel the fact that it is not seperate from us whatsoever. So that’s what it seems K means when the total energy force of all the senses are summoned to inquire into the vicissitudes of psychological awareness for oneself.

  • @ultralight5550
    @ultralight5550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U dont face ur loneliness it is ur mind or rather ur conditioning faces it

  • @diceydaze
    @diceydaze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't understand

    • @aoi2853
      @aoi2853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you have to experience, understanding doesn't do anything

    • @someoneelse6618
      @someoneelse6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because what we believe we lack ends up defining what we love, the most important decision we will ever make is whether or not we believe we live in a hostile or friendly universe

    • @someoneelse6618
      @someoneelse6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You Are Not Alone, so when you feel lonely there is a reason why.
      Search within yourself and discover why you need to have someone around. What is it that you think you're lacking?
      Feeling lonely is a sort of isolation, it's not so much that you're lonely as it is that you're isolated. Because you see, you feel lonely even when people are around.

    • @someoneelse6618
      @someoneelse6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aoi2853 that's a wonderful Point. Understanding is the end of the journey. "Intelligence (and it's ability to perceive experience)
      gives the user the magical ability to cast lightning bolts, wisdom warns not to do so while standing in water."

    • @someoneelse6618
      @someoneelse6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Out of the abundance of curiosity and Clarity of subject content, what is it exactly you don't understand? Because it could be that I'm attempting to solve a problem that doesn't exist while simultaneously failing to address the issue at hand, which would be an unfortunate travesty.
      Perhaps you might better articulate your misunderstanding?

  • @washingtonbriones2090
    @washingtonbriones2090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please speak spanish... Thanks

  • @bodhisattva7118
    @bodhisattva7118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am that

  • @deveshtangar4357
    @deveshtangar4357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awaking human

  • @robinaguenkel7534
    @robinaguenkel7534 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍🇩🇪

  • @sassyterminator3858
    @sassyterminator3858 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    👀

  • @donnagjoka2587
    @donnagjoka2587 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hmm 🤔 I think he feels very lonely..the way he trying to explain..so ... old people all are alone..it's a generation of last in cinema.. agley it's when young people feels alone ..? To day with tech support A I Noone feel alone there have a lot of things to see or listening or reading......it's not necessary to have people and feel better full 🌝.. sometimes it's nice lonely then bad people with you..think about...ascape?from what? Destiny?

    • @akz4485
      @akz4485 ปีที่แล้ว

      tech,all these materialistic things are just escaping from loneliness.
      point is whether you are able to observe without escaping when you are feeling lonely

  • @kondojunagaraju8899
    @kondojunagaraju8899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your already loneliness yourself.

  • @harshsoni566
    @harshsoni566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏

  • @nobodyreally
    @nobodyreally 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🌻

  • @mkh2799
    @mkh2799 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏