Never accept drinks from strangers in general, it may also be spiked. Especially in Asia where women are less prone to report sexual assault due to the shaming of victims.
Some places even collude with scummy guys to spike the drinks and avoid suspicion, so even if your drink is handed to you by someone working at the bar, you should always be surrounded with people you actually know and let them know you don't plan on leaving with someone.
I've definitely gotten the impression from various clips that Matara has serious "Mom Energy" even before this story, because she always radiates that supportive aura to everyone she plays/collabs with. It's on 110% mode in this story at the bar with Michi in the best way possible. Everyone needs a person like Mata in their life, and if you don't have one, do your best to be that one.
That was way too generous of an interpretation of the guy. If he knew it was too much alcohol for himself then he was definitely just being a creep by pressuring someone half his size to drink it. Giving him the benefit of the doubt of being too drunk and awkward doesn't work when he knew enough to not drink it himself.
Man Mata is one of them 1 in a million friends and Michi is so lucky to have her as a friend because she truly cares about Michi like any friend should and I can see why Michi's mom is very trusting of Mata. Mata is a bodyguard type who has experience working in bars etc where fights happen so she knows her stuff and when stuff can get dangerous.
I hate hearing stories like these, but I know how necessary it is to share them. However, we should never excuse someone's bad behaviour, especially DANGEROUS behaviour. That guy was not awkward, and being drunk is never an excuse. Otherwise, DUIs would never exist.
It's actually bizarre that drunkeness is ever used as an excuse for anything in the first place. It doesn't change your personality, just lowers inhibition. If anything being drunk is even more incriminating because "in vino veritas" holds true even you don't say a word!
@@TombCat-ni8et Nah, drinking can absolutely change a person, because your inhibitions are a part of who you are (like, I have intrusive thoughts wondering if I'd survive if I did X stupid thing, but I'm not dumb enough to test it). HOWEVER, (almost) every drunk person chose to start drinking when they were sober, and unless it's your first time drinking, you know how you get when you're drunk, so it's still your fault. It's like claiming you lost control of your car because you were going too fast. Like, OK, who was pushing on the throttle to get to that point? Basically, disagreeing that drunkenness reveals your 'true' personality, but absolutely agreeing that it is NOT an excuse for terrible behaviour (With the caveat of 'unless someone spiked your drink', because then being drunk/uninhibited ACTUALLY isn't your fault)
@@sebrussell That's a fair position. You've got a point that inhibitions are a part of personality. Can we agree that alcohol may reveal an _aspect_ of personality usually suppressed as opposed to a "true" self?
Mata calling a 5'9 guy a short king is the biggest unintentional roast to all asian men, like holy shit. Chill, woman, my 5'5 ass is just minding my own business over here 🤣
Don’t forget just because you’re taller doesn’t always translate to being tough. I can attest to this being a 6ft 1 (185cm) man myself. I may be very tall but I’m also very weak and skinny.
Deadass, if you're going drinking, get yourself a friend like mata. If somebody wants you to drink A WINE GLASS OF WHISKEY that's a recipe for disaster
7:05 even if you can overpower them, it's also worth de-escalating. the most effective form of self-defense is keeping clear of situations where you need to defend yourself. also: you can easily get slashed if your opponent has a knife and you attempt to go after them close-up. your strength doesn't matter. even guns are inferior to knives at knife range.
You're making the mistake of thinking that a pursuer would only be present in a situation in which they've been invited in. Michi was not interacting with this guy and was approached. By your logic, they shouldn't have even been in the bar because the potential of a confrontation with a drunk person. Yes, if you de-escalate a situation do so, but being able to physically defend yourself or others plays a part in that. I am a physically imposing guy to most people and have unfortunately been called on to use that to intervene on the behalf of others.
@@MrHoneuma You're misunderstanding. Of course it's not always possible to avoid being exposed to someone who might want to do you harm. But it is possible to lower the odds of being in a situation in which you're vulnerable or where a fight would break out. It's possible to de-escalate with words, or intimidate them into backing off.
For future references, do NOT try and challenge these kinds of potential offenders. If they do dare and did it, they will feel entitled to go forward with their plan and more prone to be aggressive if you refuse. Just stand and say no while they don't have their ego inflated too much.
True, but in this case, believe me that if the he did in fact had chugged a whole glass of whisky then he would be in no condition to do anything but stay seated xD
@@SpookyTree255 Oh brother, you would be shocked by the ceiling of alcohol resistance a person can have. Might not be probable given the circumstances in this clip but all i am saying don't temp fate without any good reason.
My dude, as a big guy who can handle a ludicrous amount of alcohol, your chances of getting out of that situation increase if he does it, because he is going to lose coherency and possibly be sick, especially if he's already as drunk as they're indicating.
Mama Tara is always one of the most reliable in the group. Maybe because she is one of the oldest or maybe because she had a lot of experience with a lot of stuff.
Mata, being the mom: defends her baby Also Mata: so yeah, michi is so tiny, and also she is so small, asian small girl, holy moly my baby can barely reach my foot, shes small
They're being really jokey and light about this, but you should 100% assume the worst intentions of this dude. it's pretty clear what his intentions were, and there's NO benefit to not assuming he was a rpist
Don't go to bars. Being drunk, losing control of yourself in public is beyond dangerous. Drink at home. And only ever around people you implicitly trust and never to the point where you lose control. Cultivate your own safety. Don't do something like a club or bar just to tick off a bucket list item.
That's a nice idea and all but people have friends and stuff where going to bars is a thing they do. As for points where people lose control that can be difficult if one is an alcoholic like Mata's historically been or doesn't drink and so doesn't know their limits.
Or, hear me out, go to a bar, but have friends who have high tolerance be there to stop you. As a side note, these friends should ideally also know the amount of alcohol tolerance limit
Nah, that's not awkward, that's deliberately trying to get her blackout drunk. Who the hell tries to force anyone, let alone a small-framed woman, to down a giant glass of neat whiskey?!
In a world where you don't know who to fully trust, I'm glad there's people like Matara out there. Who honest to God have your back and have your best interest in mind. Matara is Blaidd to Michi's Ranni.
@@U1TR4F0RCEshe’s like 4 cm shorter than me. I don’t know if I should brag or be scared. Everyone around me is always shorter than me so when I have to talk, I bend my head down most of the time.
Lmao, please remember for the rest of your life - never drink anything from the stranger's hands. There is a HIGH possibility that there would be not only whiskey. It is very easy to hide bitter taste from most controlled substances in a whiskey. At best - it may be shitty stimulants or empathogens, so that girls become all-acceptable and much more positive towards strangers. At worst - it will be some dirty unknown mix of different stuff, that will give you a full night of cartoons in the corner of the bar. Matara did the perfectly correct reaction - "you chug it first". Like, "half and half, you go first" - and see the reaction.
Mata: HOW ARE YOU SO COMFORTABLE DEMANDING HER TO DRINK THIS MUCH ALCOHOL BUT YOU WON'T EVEN DO IT YOURSELF??? Me: Mata. the boi was drunk, logic ain't a drunk's person forte. I ain't trying to defend the drunk dude but let's be fair here
Mata in the most intimidating slavic accent:
*You chug this, yes?*
I'd chug the whole bar after that, ngl
@@casusbelli9225 same, If a skyscraper of a lady tells me to chug, I chug no questions asked 🤣
I'd probably chew up the glass like in Beerfest out of fear and respect.
yeah if mata pulled out a thick accent and told me to drink, im sol even if i am under 21 lol
Only correct answer is "Yes mommy"
Damn, holy smokes. Michi has not only been saved by Kuro but she was also saved by Mata.
Michi needs a bodyguard every outing lol
Tbh I can understand why her mom seem a bit overbearing, based on the multiple stories she told where she was in danger.
@@PotionSmellerMom should have taught her to be more self aware instead of being an overbearing Mom then lol
some people just dont learn though.. theyre just permanently aloof like that @@P0rk_Sinigang
Whats the story of kuro saving michi? Can you tell me or find a clip of it?
Never accept drinks from strangers in general, it may also be spiked. Especially in Asia where women are less prone to report sexual assault due to the shaming of victims.
It doesn’t even have to be spiked, just very strong alcohol.
I don’t think that was a stranger, especially how before the story they were worried to not name drop anyone
It can also be used to steal from you. Don't let your drinks out of your sight.
Some places even collude with scummy guys to spike the drinks and avoid suspicion, so even if your drink is handed to you by someone working at the bar, you should always be surrounded with people you actually know and let them know you don't plan on leaving with someone.
@@deci2826I think because later Mata mentioned there were other people they knew that were there around 5:01
I love how Momchivi has accepted Mata as basically Michi's second mom.
I wouldn’t blame her either. That’s something any Asian mom would do
Mata is the biggest bro
friends like Mata are the best
Yeah! Mata is a HOMIE!
Mata the biggest bug. You'd run too if you get approached by a giant pink roach.
@@pikachugundamanyone with a phobia of cockroaches in general would be scared and run in a heartbeat
If you get aggressive when being drunk - DON'T DRINK
Something so simple and people still keep being stupid about it...
I've definitely gotten the impression from various clips that Matara has serious "Mom Energy" even before this story, because she always radiates that supportive aura to everyone she plays/collabs with. It's on 110% mode in this story at the bar with Michi in the best way possible.
Everyone needs a person like Mata in their life, and if you don't have one, do your best to be that one.
Mata literally pulled up the "no u" move
That was way too generous of an interpretation of the guy. If he knew it was too much alcohol for himself then he was definitely just being a creep by pressuring someone half his size to drink it. Giving him the benefit of the doubt of being too drunk and awkward doesn't work when he knew enough to not drink it himself.
Mata has Wisdom and Charisma maxed out, what a Queen
Just to quote, she has no king in her life
Wisdom and Charisma...so she's a paladin?
I don't know a thing about DnD classes so I'm guessing here.
this is why we love mata she really would do anything for her friends
the speed on these getting clipped is crazy
Man Mata is one of them 1 in a million friends and Michi is so lucky to have her as a friend because she truly cares about Michi like any friend should and I can see why Michi's mom is very trusting of Mata. Mata is a bodyguard type who has experience working in bars etc where fights happen so she knows her stuff and when stuff can get dangerous.
"He was short."
"He was like, 5"9'-ish."
And she said she was taller than him lol 😂
Matara is pretty tall IRL and also wears boots and heels, so I believe it when she says the guy was short in comparison.
I hate hearing stories like these, but I know how necessary it is to share them.
However, we should never excuse someone's bad behaviour, especially DANGEROUS behaviour. That guy was not awkward, and being drunk is never an excuse. Otherwise, DUIs would never exist.
It's actually bizarre that drunkeness is ever used as an excuse for anything in the first place. It doesn't change your personality, just lowers inhibition. If anything being drunk is even more incriminating because "in vino veritas" holds true even you don't say a word!
@@TombCat-ni8et "drunkards and children don't really lie"
@@TombCat-ni8et u sound like u never been drunk it doesnt excuse anything but to say it doesnt change your personality is beyond retarded
@@TombCat-ni8et Nah, drinking can absolutely change a person, because your inhibitions are a part of who you are (like, I have intrusive thoughts wondering if I'd survive if I did X stupid thing, but I'm not dumb enough to test it).
HOWEVER, (almost) every drunk person chose to start drinking when they were sober, and unless it's your first time drinking, you know how you get when you're drunk, so it's still your fault.
It's like claiming you lost control of your car because you were going too fast. Like, OK, who was pushing on the throttle to get to that point?
Basically, disagreeing that drunkenness reveals your 'true' personality, but absolutely agreeing that it is NOT an excuse for terrible behaviour (With the caveat of 'unless someone spiked your drink', because then being drunk/uninhibited ACTUALLY isn't your fault)
@@sebrussell That's a fair position. You've got a point that inhibitions are a part of personality. Can we agree that alcohol may reveal an _aspect_ of personality usually suppressed as opposed to a "true" self?
we need mata in our life
Mata out there doing the work... keep our streamers safe. Respect.
Matara coming up behind people like Homelander
Mata calling a 5'9 guy a short king is the biggest unintentional roast to all asian men, like holy shit. Chill, woman, my 5'5 ass is just minding my own business over here 🤣
Never forget, she was taller than him. XD Its all relative.
Don’t forget just because you’re taller doesn’t always translate to being tough. I can attest to this being a 6ft 1 (185cm) man myself. I may be very tall but I’m also very weak and skinny.
The size of your feet is what matters
well, she said later "he wasn't short king"
but called him little guy, which is fair, considering she's taller lol
Just the mental image of Mata going Balalaika on a douche like that is healing me.
Mata is so freaking cool ahhhhhh I'm so glad she was with Michi and they were safe 😭💜
Deadass, if you're going drinking, get yourself a friend like mata. If somebody wants you to drink A WINE GLASS OF WHISKEY that's a recipe for disaster
Must be nice for all these tiny asian introverts to have this aggressive Ukrainian amazon in their corner
7:11 it's always worth *de-escalating*
Den mother Mata protecting her cubs
Is Mata a sorceress, specialized in the shadow arts, leaning towards the general arts of necromancy?
what Michi says at 5:26 has led me to that
No she's a maneater
Or maybe she has insane levels of ESP
No she's like the MUTO queen she probably try to eat him
Matara is like the MUTO queen she's rip him in half
7:05 even if you can overpower them, it's also worth de-escalating. the most effective form of self-defense is keeping clear of situations where you need to defend yourself.
also: you can easily get slashed if your opponent has a knife and you attempt to go after them close-up. your strength doesn't matter. even guns are inferior to knives at knife range.
You're making the mistake of thinking that a pursuer would only be present in a situation in which they've been invited in. Michi was not interacting with this guy and was approached. By your logic, they shouldn't have even been in the bar because the potential of a confrontation with a drunk person. Yes, if you de-escalate a situation do so, but being able to physically defend yourself or others plays a part in that. I am a physically imposing guy to most people and have unfortunately been called on to use that to intervene on the behalf of others.
@@MrHoneuma You're misunderstanding. Of course it's not always possible to avoid being exposed to someone who might want to do you harm. But it is possible to lower the odds of being in a situation in which you're vulnerable or where a fight would break out. It's possible to de-escalate with words, or intimidate them into backing off.
@@antonioscendrategattico2302de escalate and resolve with words first. If that fails, then use fists and whatnot
guy: *asks Mochi to suspiciously drink more alcohol than she can handle*
Mata: *standing behind him, casting a shadow over him*
For future references, do NOT try and challenge these kinds of potential offenders. If they do dare and did it, they will feel entitled to go forward with their plan and more prone to be aggressive if you refuse. Just stand and say no while they don't have their ego inflated too much.
Well no, while he chugs, you obviously get out of the situation.
True, but in this case, believe me that if the he did in fact had chugged a whole glass of whisky then he would be in no condition to do anything but stay seated xD
@@SpookyTree255 Oh brother, you would be shocked by the ceiling of alcohol resistance a person can have. Might not be probable given the circumstances in this clip but all i am saying don't temp fate without any good reason.
My dude, as a big guy who can handle a ludicrous amount of alcohol, your chances of getting out of that situation increase if he does it, because he is going to lose coherency and possibly be sick, especially if he's already as drunk as they're indicating.
I mean, Mata is Russian, she could probably chug it for her and remain stone cold sober :P
Matara is a skilled defuser
a guy taller than me being called short stung a little
Everyone should has Mata as their own friend. Resprct!
Chug whiskey? Ma’am allow me to introduce myself. Mata doesn’t even need to intimidate me. I’ll just do it.
Mama Tara is always one of the most reliable in the group.
Maybe because she is one of the oldest or maybe because she had a lot of experience with a lot of stuff.
There is absolutely 0% chance he had any good intentions.
Crazy how michi is everyone's responsibility lol
Guy was on creepy timing a mata or guy friend definitely needed in these situations
even as a guy always try to descalate cause you dont know if the person your messing with has friends or what they have.
She keeps getting targeted by shady dudes
I have so much respect for Mata.
Mata, being the mom: defends her baby
Also Mata: so yeah, michi is so tiny, and also she is so small, asian small girl, holy moly my baby can barely reach my foot, shes small
Everyone get yourself a Mata when you go out. Everyone needs a Matara
Love that. Well played Matara. Remember lads if you wouldn't drink it yourself. Don't give it to someone else.
sucks how common that shit still is everywhere
Everyone needs a friend like Matara. (And Kuro, too)
Now I'm picturing Mata as the Terminator in T2, but in drag...
That guy pull dirty act to make girl fast drunk and thank mata notice this to save michi
Common Mata W
Mata is a real one!
They're being really jokey and light about this, but you should 100% assume the worst intentions of this dude. it's pretty clear what his intentions were, and there's NO benefit to not assuming he was a rpist
It might have something extra in it... I dunno I never been to the bar...
Michi needs to see Taken, they put that movie to me and my sister when we were young, its a must for youngsters to see the dangers of the world
Once a mama forever mama
Holy crap my respect for Mata skyrocketed after seeing this. She's a real one for sure!
Don't go to bars. Being drunk, losing control of yourself in public is beyond dangerous. Drink at home. And only ever around people you implicitly trust and never to the point where you lose control. Cultivate your own safety. Don't do something like a club or bar just to tick off a bucket list item.
That's a nice idea and all but people have friends and stuff where going to bars is a thing they do. As for points where people lose control that can be difficult if one is an alcoholic like Mata's historically been or doesn't drink and so doesn't know their limits.
You're boring
Or, hear me out, go to a bar, but have friends who have high tolerance be there to stop you. As a side note, these friends should ideally also know the amount of alcohol tolerance limit
Mata is michis co-mom confirmed
Nah, that's not awkward, that's deliberately trying to get her blackout drunk. Who the hell tries to force anyone, let alone a small-framed woman, to down a giant glass of neat whiskey?!
Matara is Mom approved ❤
Get yourself a friend like Matara❤❤
Mata is already approved by mommy Michi
Mata mom instincts OVERHAULING, good lord
Chug whiskey? How uncivilized.
In a world where you don't know who to fully trust, I'm glad there's people like Matara out there. Who honest to God have your back and have your best interest in mind. Matara is Blaidd to Michi's Ranni.
Mother matara
Stay blessed 🫂🙏🏼🦾💯❤️🇲🇽
Mata looked into that guy's soul and called him the out. He was not prepared
"Mata, Mata, Mata."
You work so fast
Mata is like a Kamen rider she’s so cool
Ha ha mata is human version of mathra
so mata is from beetlejuice bloodline
Momtara saves the day again
mommy mata
Mom'Mata
wait...Matara is taller then 5'9"? wow
Shes probs 6feet+ i forgot the exact height tho
Say her Name an she will appear. I believe in Matara.
Ive been in bars myself in U.S Ive seen some stuff make me not go to bars
How tall is Mata?
I think like 5'10ish
Matara's motherly instincts kicked in.
She's mid thirties and doesn't have children yet
@@shinyamada488you KILLED THE JOKE.
@@GoldRichness+ Just like "Until Fauna has a baby. She's not mother nature, she's sister nature" :p
@@shinyamada488 ugh, tourist
@@GoldRichness+ Got ourselves a straggler
Mata is 6’?
She’s 181 cm / 5’11”
@@U1TR4F0RCE Wow she’s towering
@@U1TR4F0RCEshe’s like 4 cm shorter than me. I don’t know if I should brag or be scared. Everyone around me is always shorter than me so when I have to talk, I bend my head down most of the time.
Bug girls together strong!
Asian guy: “Chug this…”
Mata: “FLINT LOCKWOOD!!” *police sprint*
my streamer crushes are collabing, oh my lord .o.
Big Mama Mata!
Hampir kena bungkus ya ceritanya wkwkwk untung ada mata 😂
WAIT. Matara is over 5'9 ft? That woman is a menace😂
Lmao, please remember for the rest of your life - never drink anything from the stranger's hands.
There is a HIGH possibility that there would be not only whiskey. It is very easy to hide bitter taste from most controlled substances in a whiskey.
At best - it may be shitty stimulants or empathogens, so that girls become all-acceptable and much more positive towards strangers.
At worst - it will be some dirty unknown mix of different stuff, that will give you a full night of cartoons in the corner of the bar.
Matara did the perfectly correct reaction - "you chug it first".
Like, "half and half, you go first" - and see the reaction.
Think I'd have fun drinking with mata kind of women
Mata: HOW ARE YOU SO COMFORTABLE DEMANDING HER TO DRINK THIS MUCH ALCOHOL BUT YOU WON'T EVEN DO IT YOURSELF???
Me: Mata. the boi was drunk, logic ain't a drunk's person forte.
I ain't trying to defend the drunk dude but let's be fair here
I hate the twitch platform, but all these matara clips are growing on me.
Nah. As a guy. He wanted her drunk to take her home.
Poor Juni xD It can be hard to get an edge in when Mata's had a few xD
But also damn, Mata's got that 6th sense~!
It’s like Matara has ESP if you know what I mean
As a short girl, unfortunately this is a common occurrence 🫠 i wish i could summon mata too lol