well lets take a look at womens demands, the man has to be successful and educated and be able to provide for the family, the man has to put in alot of time and effort/money to pursue her, be romantic, not to mention all the other stuff, like he must also be tall, alpha male, high social status, also caring and considerate, protective, understanding, etc. etc. etc. .......so all men are saying is, they prefer feminine women who is a virgin, its not that hard or that much to ask for is it???
Pls check both of ur virginity before marriage So it will be better understanding regarding both of ur virginity Rather leading good happy married life
Edit: i just came from watching another video of hers wr she din victim blame women for their dresses but this one is stupid. OMG r u fucking kidding me! she knows things but wt she suggests & HER opinion is EPITOME of idiocy, ignorance & fascist ! god seriously self control & discipline comes within & society must incorporate it not wtf she suggests!
Thanks for such interview. Even I have seen many of my friends who can't tolerate seeing the girls who are bold and strong. Most talkative Girls are the most victimised. Many of friends just judge these girls character in their first talk.!! People should change!!!!
@Rising Solutions .. There is nothing wrong in anybody wanting anything. Just irrational. What are you going to get by having a partner who is Virgin? If you both are not experienced in sex, it'll be blind leading a blind. But you'll get through, whether you both will be happy with sex or not is based on you both. No one can say that. You can want whatever you want. No one will stop.
Really I learned so many things from Dr salini. I frustrated about love.. she clearly explained what is love. It's just a feeling. Now I feel good.. everything superb!! Thank you mam.
Bro.. Ungaloda videos ah first paakkumbodhu speech eh sariya varalanu ninachen because naan behindwoods fan. Indha madhiri oru talent Guest ah choose panreengana le.. Unga knowledge level purinjiduchu... Hats off you for this video. This video will help for many viewers.
I want to know one thing don't think wrong about me If an man marries an women from tamilnadu or inside india or abroad That person takes her life partners 0to an beach He is willing to swim or be relax in Beach in his beach suit (single piece) Expecting or want her life partner to be in swim suit (2piece) Does this can be expected from (tamilnadu life partner or Indian life partner or abroad meant not stating all countries apart from India or any states of India) Pls let me know From this culture (by growth or nature ofculture can be known) plz let me know who which culture will be ready for such expectation
Great awareness outspoken episode BW! 👏🏼very useful Q & clear A. Appreciation for bringing personalities like this. Thanks dr. Shalini … I've been following many of your interviews and speeches. Education about once physical awareness/ good touch bad touch for children should start from parents and schools. In abroad we come to know this at an age of 10-11 in schools. which is for both genders a must and clears lot of doubts at that age! You are my fav anchor Avudai … keep up your good work. Waiting for part 2 and once again thanks for considering my request 😊
Before be cleared Before believing others Madam is married living happy with husband and kids Or Unmarried Or Separated Ot Divorced Then conclude hope u can decide
Dont be silly...vignesh... she is making male's mind to become slave to female...Don't trust her concepts she is hiding lots of details about female which are same wrong as male... she knows them and shes is talking so gender biased...and she talks like she don't like gender biased society...
Shuba... I'm not saying she has to say all the bad things girls do.. I'm just saying what ever wrong boys do has equivalent bad on female and also the wrong boys do has female actions as inducers... Thats what she is hiding purposely.... For example, Feminists accuses men of their violent behavior. Men are violent because women wanted men to be physically strong and the only way to show physical power is through what we call it violence. If you have to blame someone for men's violent behavior, it is the female to blame. Have you ever seen her saying that?
Beautifully explained mam .. Great!!! Perfect way to teach our society about all the sensitive issues in a simple and acceptable manner . Instead of making it very complex. Need more such discussions with you mam.. Looking forward for it. 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
avudai anna.. thq thq thq.. intha topic eduthathuku.. ippadiye nxt nxt social msg irukkara mathiri content follow pannunga..here after I am ur fan 👏👏👍🙏
Best Episode. Much required topics for all in our country. The way avudai carried on the interview was really nice. Most sensitive topic but handled well. Good job behind woods. Personal comment: I like you so much avudai..
Dr.Shalini is one of one of the treasure of our Tamil community... (why I am telling this- she is speaking in Tamil) she may be treasure of psychological world....
Great Madam!!! Very Outspoken and Brilliant. Looking forward to continue your contribution for this society. Happy to say that am a follower of you. Truly I am aware and learned by your speeches. Than k You.
Bro sema bro, romba important content a tha edthu pandringa, idhu mukium mu kuda, congrats bro kep it up ☝ inda comment a padinga, nanum ela episode u pathu comments potutu tha iruka nenga tha padika matringa
her explantion about wearing sexy dresses totally correct,. it gives diferent thoughts among men in india but not in western countries because they see all women wearing shorts & pants at home & outside. they get used to it. namma oorla kanadhu kandathunga. look at all tv anchors , all kanadhu kandadhunga. nobody wears traditional dress. If u see foriegn countries all indian women wear pants & shitrs one because of extreme cold weather in some states & blend with society.
superb... excellent... bale.... thanks behinwoods for Giving fantastic interview like this. meaningful explanation from the Doctor. so thanks to her too.
Eventhough on the whole it was a good interview and raised a lot of facts and issues in today's world, there were some points that I found unsettling. Why should men and women have to act in a certain way for protection? Everyone is an individual therefore, display different characteristics. Isn’t it unfair to ask them to become something they’re not? For a ‘timid’ male: ‘’Getha, gambirama irunthan ungalukku protection!’’ Why?! Is it because he doesn’t fit the stereotypical description of a man? Just like its wrong to call a woman ‘thimiru eduthava’ because she can stand for herself, it’s JUST AS WRONG to call a man anything less because he’s not very vocal etc. We should teach to not victimise someone for their charactersistics; instead, embrace them for their individualty because after all, we are human and every human is unique. If we stop sexually objectifying women and start teaching both girls and boys that women are beyond just flesh and have much more to offer, I don’t think women would be in a situation where they are not able to wear what they want- a basic human right in the name of safety. Ivalo ‘opena’ pesi, interview ella vachi enna use? Intha interview marupadiyum pengala pinnadi than annupathu. Munnetratha kondu vara speech/ interviewnu ellam solla mudiyathu. I think both genders are at wrong. We need to change the ideologies we have about men and women and start talking about, as Dr. Shalini suggested, ‘’life education’’ more openly. It’s one of the most natural thing that’s part of day to day life. There’s nothing to be ashamed of!
Wow!!! Thank you for this interview.. Dr. made sense in all the questions.. She literally spoke main aspects of life n how to look at it.. Thank you doctor.. The interviewer did a very good job..
Thank you Dr.Shalini give a wonderful speech and how to handle the Every situation... And also thank you for this channel & thank to background this program team....
Nice interview and great answers by mam both technically and historically. Would like to meet her once. Pls arrange such kind of interviews with your great bold questions. Also try to interview healer baskar and educate our society to have peace. we are divided by race, language, celebraties, history, color etc by political wastes.
Nice episode....Way to go. Heartily wishes. A small correction, don't generalize about Andaman women..Its only a group of tribes who don't wear clothes.
Very good speech, vry thanks to shalini mam, and we want more awareness speeches from shalini mam, hello anna all the best for ur job, i like u anna, and neenga fast ah pesurathu pola iruku, konjam tune panna better anna all the best thank u...
Very good episode. Calm, composed, CLEAR, to the point answers from Dr. Shalini and the same from the Anchor. A wide range of topics touched up on which is good. It would be useful if each topic is discussed in elaborate because the doctor has so much meaningful content in her which will be useful for many people. For eg, Sex education in schools and advises to parents and schools itself is a very big topic, need of the hour for parents and schools alike.
Good topic at the right Time....anna sathama. pesathingha aparam pen suganthiramnu publicitykagha kelambhiruvangha.....but mam rombha supera franka pesunangha..👍
Brother it's very simple and easier to be matured to lead an happy married life If there is mutual understanding between both nothing will come creating an conflict between both
How come she talks so smart and clearly, I love her ❤️
இந்த நேற்கானல் நம்மை முற்றிலும் வேறு திசையில் சிந்திக்க வைக்கிறது.
அருமையான நேற்கானல்.
பல புறிதல்கள் ஏற்படுகின்றன.
இப்பிரச்சனையின் வேர் புலப்படுகிறது.
well lets take a look at womens demands, the man has to be successful and educated and be able to provide for the family, the man has to put in alot of time and effort/money to pursue her, be romantic, not to mention all the other stuff, like he must also be tall, alpha male, high social status, also caring and considerate, protective, understanding, etc. etc. etc. .......so all men are saying is, they prefer feminine women who is a virgin, its not that hard or that much to ask for is it???
Pls check both of ur virginity before marriage
So it will be better understanding regarding both of ur virginity
Rather leading good happy married life
OMG,,, She is a Library..
Edit: i just came from watching another video of hers wr she din victim blame women for their dresses but this one is stupid.
OMG r u fucking kidding me! she knows things but wt she suggests & HER opinion is EPITOME of idiocy, ignorance & fascist ! god seriously self control & discipline comes within & society must incorporate it not wtf she suggests!
u idiot accept wat she says... she is perfectly correct...... think about it....
Just Listen & ...... ! There are some retards who raped old women just got stimulated by movie wall posters. I agree with Shalini mam
BEST VIDEOS nalla command ji👏
Ava library'nna, appo nee>?
இது போன்ற உளவியல் பாடமுறையை பள்ளியில் இருந்தே கொண்டு வர வேண்டும்!
Paahhhhh .... Ena oru clarity Engaiyoo kondu poitanga ... Respect ! your way of thinking.
பேசும் விதம் புரியும்படி உள்ளது....சிறப்பு
Nadai muraiku kondu sellungal
Ungal vazhkai malarum
பாராட்ட வார்த்தை இல்ல மா🙏 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
என் மனதில் பல நாட்களாய் இருந்த கேள்விகள் நல்ல விளக்கம் கிடைத்தது. நன்றி ஆவுடை
Thanks for such interview. Even I have seen many of my friends who can't tolerate seeing the girls who are bold and strong. Most talkative Girls are the most victimised. Many of friends just judge these girls character in their first talk.!! People should change!!!!
@Rising Solutions .. There is nothing wrong in anybody wanting anything. Just irrational. What are you going to get by having a partner who is Virgin? If you both are not experienced in sex, it'll be blind leading a blind. But you'll get through, whether you both will be happy with sex or not is based on you both. No one can say that. You can want whatever you want. No one will stop.
I grew up reading Dr.Shalini's articles in Kumutham. She is an encyclopedia of Psychology. Hats off madam. Continue your great work.
The interviewer is so matured and so freedom to ask superb man.
chennai apphub hjj.
OK enjoy
After watching this, I've literally become a fan of yours Dr.Shalini.....Amazing social & Psychiatric knowledge!!
I wonder 182 dislikes..RIP 182 hits
Really I learned so many things from Dr salini. I frustrated about love.. she clearly explained what is love. It's just a feeling. Now I feel good.. everything superb!! Thank you mam.
Brilliance stuffed in one women Dr. Shalini 👏 one golden lady of current generation... 👌👍
ஒவொருவனுக்கும் நல்லதொரு குடும்பம் அமைந்தால் அவனே சரியாய் நடப்பான்..
நல்லதொரு குடும்பம் பல்கலை கழகம்.
Please listen madam speech first then say what u know
She has made phd in women's freedom
What about u?
Bro.. Ungaloda videos ah first paakkumbodhu speech eh sariya varalanu ninachen because naan behindwoods fan. Indha madhiri oru talent Guest ah choose panreengana le.. Unga knowledge level purinjiduchu... Hats off you for this video. This video will help for many viewers.
Gift of God shalini madam for this generation, MADAM God bless you and your family
super mam... chanceless ....intha generation ku romba Thevai peduratha romba correct a soniga
I want to know one thing don't think wrong about me
If an man marries an women from tamilnadu or inside india or abroad
That person takes her life partners 0to an beach
He is willing to swim or be relax in Beach in his beach suit (single piece)
Expecting or want her life partner to be in swim suit (2piece)
Does this can be expected from (tamilnadu life partner or Indian life partner or abroad meant not stating all countries apart from India or any states of India)
Pls let me know
From this culture (by growth or nature ofculture can be known) plz let me know who which culture will be ready for such expectation
Casual way od delivering the ideas ....simple and crisp madam... Hat's off
this is the BEST episode of BTV .PERIOD ! and need of the hour kind topic need to b addressed nd rightly narrated by Dr. nandri 😊
very good clarity. great. she must be allowed to speak in public stage to create awareness.
Great awareness outspoken episode BW! 👏🏼very useful Q & clear A. Appreciation for bringing personalities like this. Thanks dr. Shalini … I've been following many of your interviews and speeches. Education about once physical awareness/ good touch bad touch for children should start from parents and schools. In abroad we come to know this at an age of 10-11 in schools. which is for both genders a must and clears lot of doubts at that age!
You are my fav anchor Avudai … keep up your good work. Waiting for part 2 and once again thanks for considering my request 😊
Thank you So much Ayshan, Pleasure is Mine :)
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ᎪᎽshᎪᏁᎪ ᎥᎶᎠᎬ Ingayum vandhuteengala....? 😵😱
Before be cleared
Before believing others
Madam is married living happy with husband and kids
Or
Unmarried
Or
Separated
Ot
Divorced
Then conclude hope u can decide
Really im always thumbs up for correct speech mam Dr.shalini ungalapola thelivana thinkers ellama ..yellame thappa parkura avangamela thappu vatchitu matravangala pazhisumathi vaazhura samugathi naala edhuvarai yevloku kastangal anubavatchi manamthalarama eppo varai poraadidu tha erukan.vetri adaichitum erukan.aana yelarukume nan adangaathaval ennum neraiya thittugal tha.parvalla.Paarkuravanga parvaila kurainaah chumma nadanthu ponnalum thadukki vizhuntha nee sari elanu thappa tha solla thonnum.so paarpavanga parvaila tha kurai..ennum namba samugathirku vizhippu unarvu venum.penngalai thappave ninaikaathiga yellarume thappilla..ungalala engalapola evlo penngal manakastathaalaiyum vaazhkailaiyum poraaditey tha vaazhrom.😥😥😥.Erundhaalu Thairiyam Thannambikkai😎pogathu😠💪
She is very good. I saw many Interview of her. She can change lot of many guys thoughts. So please do more videos like this.
Dont be silly...vignesh... she is making male's mind to become slave to female...Don't trust her concepts she is hiding lots of details about female which are same wrong as male... she knows them and shes is talking so gender biased...and she talks like she don't like gender biased society...
Vignesh S yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa s awesome
Kiruba Sankar 😕
Kiruba Sankar dude naraya vishayam girls on Sola iruku ... but this interview can't say everything... lots of girls r also bad 😒...
Shuba... I'm not saying she has to say all the bad things girls do.. I'm just saying what ever wrong boys do has equivalent bad on female and also the wrong boys do has female actions as inducers... Thats what she is hiding purposely....
For example, Feminists accuses men of their violent behavior. Men are violent because women wanted men to be physically strong and the only way to show physical power is through what we call it violence. If you have to blame someone for men's violent behavior, it is the female to blame. Have you ever seen her saying that?
Beautifully explained mam .. Great!!! Perfect way to teach our society about all the sensitive issues in a simple and acceptable manner . Instead of making it very complex. Need more such discussions with you mam.. Looking forward for it. 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
Dr.shalini speak always interesting, excellent and marvellous
very enlightening interview..keep doing these kind of social awarness content more often..
Respect.. Great interview. Great job Behindwoods 🤗
Great awareness to our society and us. Thank you madam Dr. Shalini.
really you r a bold lady... coola pesuringa adhu nala iruku
Pls let me know this madam is married(living with kids) or unmarried or divorced or separated
Every men and women should surely see this.i love this channel.great job behindwoods.
avudai anna.. thq thq thq.. intha topic eduthathuku.. ippadiye nxt nxt social msg irukkara mathiri content follow pannunga..here after I am ur fan 👏👏👍🙏
Best Episode. Much required topics for all in our country. The way avudai carried on the interview was really nice. Most sensitive topic but handled well. Good job behind woods. Personal comment: I like you so much avudai..
Dr.Shalini is one of one of the treasure of our Tamil community... (why I am telling this- she is speaking in Tamil) she may be treasure of psychological world....
என்ன ஒரு கோர்வையான, யதார்த்தமான, தெளிவான பேச்சு
Great Madam!!! Very Outspoken and Brilliant. Looking forward to continue your contribution for this society. Happy to say that am a follower of you. Truly I am aware and learned by your speeches. Than k You.
Good interview 👌an initiative towards the betterment of our society. Questions were well framed !! Expecting much more.
Bro sema bro, romba important content a tha edthu pandringa, idhu mukium mu kuda, congrats bro kep it up ☝ inda comment a padinga, nanum ela episode u pathu comments potutu tha iruka nenga tha padika matringa
it's really useful for all of us bro..thank you for this video bro..keep it up
Kavin Prakash.... Bro ah?
Super interview bro, great job unga channel nalla program panrenga! And indha video second part sekirama release panunga
Sema shalini madam..and also coordinate pannavangalu nalla questions ketinga..super
good interviews for both women and man
Dr.shalini speech is very frank and clear idea
Superb class got some clarity about the issue
her explantion about wearing sexy dresses totally correct,. it gives diferent thoughts among men in india but not in western countries because they see all women wearing shorts & pants at home & outside. they get used to it. namma oorla kanadhu kandathunga. look at all tv anchors , all kanadhu kandadhunga. nobody wears traditional dress. If u see foriegn countries all indian women wear pants & shitrs one because of extreme cold weather in some states & blend with society.
90000 women got raped in usa last year. keep believing nonsense
It's based on their culture (by growth or nature)?
Can we expect same culture in India and substates of india as in abroad either by culture or nature
If yes pls explain?
If not pls explain?
superb...
excellent...
bale....
thanks behinwoods for Giving fantastic interview like this.
meaningful explanation from the Doctor. so thanks to her too.
interviewer asked very sensible questions which were answered well by shalini
This Dr's speech always sarcastic and funny 😂 but what she saying is very crucial for society and stick at our mind easily.
Hats off .....Shalini maam.......and the interviewer too....good interview
Eventhough on the whole it was a good interview and raised a lot of facts and issues in today's world, there were some points that I found unsettling.
Why should men and women have to act in a certain way for protection? Everyone is an individual therefore, display different characteristics. Isn’t it unfair to ask them to become something they’re not? For a ‘timid’ male: ‘’Getha, gambirama irunthan ungalukku protection!’’ Why?! Is it because he doesn’t fit the stereotypical description of a man? Just like its wrong to call a woman ‘thimiru eduthava’ because she can stand for herself, it’s JUST AS WRONG to call a man anything less because he’s not very vocal etc. We should teach to not victimise someone for their charactersistics; instead, embrace them for their individualty because after all, we are human and every human is unique.
If we stop sexually objectifying women and start teaching both girls and boys that women are beyond just flesh and have much more to offer, I don’t think women would be in a situation where they are not able to wear what they want- a basic human right in the name of safety.
Ivalo ‘opena’ pesi, interview ella vachi enna use? Intha interview marupadiyum pengala pinnadi than annupathu. Munnetratha kondu vara speech/ interviewnu ellam solla mudiyathu. I think both genders are at wrong. We need to change the ideologies we have about men and women and start talking about, as Dr. Shalini suggested, ‘’life education’’ more openly. It’s one of the most natural thing that’s part of day to day life. There’s nothing to be ashamed of!
very wise lady must keep the message in mind
Feminism is not a ladies toilet, much appreciated interview man. Bless up brother👊
Yes, But I think feminism is like a toilet... which has shit in it...
Mohamed Shameer
😂😋
+Kiruba Sankar oh then wat about u (men). something in toilet ah
good questions and nala nala utharnathoda nala peasunanga Dr.Shalini super :)
Dr Shalini always rock .
awesome topic..we all must watch this clip..thanks for publish this program
Very good explanation. This is the reality of the society.
Excellent Awareness. Keep doing your awareness.This is the time to end these harassments.
Thanks for your time Shalini and BW team, REALLY GREAT!!!💐
Shalini always give good information with fluently.she give real priority to people
Mam unga interview never boring...👌👌
brother.. awesome interview and great efforts... the only good interview and show seen in behind woods
excellent interview
very true, Creed. One of the best interviews I have seen in youtube.
Super Dr. Shalini and good questions too dude.
I never miss your videos . I have learned many things from your videos mam.
Wow!!! Thank you for this interview.. Dr. made sense in all the questions.. She literally spoke main aspects of life n how to look at it.. Thank you doctor.. The interviewer did a very good job..
Very well prepared interview
Thank you Dr.Shalini give a wonderful speech and how to handle the Every situation... And also thank you for this channel & thank to background this program team....
சமூகத்திற்க்கு தேவையான உரையாடல்.
நன்றி .
Dr Shalini always gives the best 👏👏👌
Respect Dr.Shalini.
Interviewer nalla pesuringa and qustins kekuringa.. keep it up bro👏.. and mam super answers..
I am your fan Dr.Shalini. Any subject your clarity is super.please go on do this service. May God bless you.
thanks avudai for making good show like this, it is very use full
Very very good about dressing sense mam. In this entire country only u said it.
Osm interview..u r great Mam👍👌
Nice interview and great answers by mam both technically and historically. Would like to meet her once. Pls arrange such kind of interviews with your great bold questions. Also try to interview healer baskar and educate our society to have peace. we are divided by race, language, celebraties, history, color etc by political wastes.
Inspiring Lady - @avudai - Good to see that a wise anchor after years !!
Thanks Thirumalaikumar :)
Nice episode....Way to go. Heartily wishes.
A small correction, don't generalize about Andaman women..Its only a group of tribes who don't wear clothes.
need of d society ... thanks bro .. share dis as much as to everyone ...
The only doctor who understands men
super interview mam. mukkiyamaga udai viyasathil neenga sonna karuthu semma super mam....
I love this doctor 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 Dr Shalini 😍
Then please marry her
@@RedBull.RedBull yenda avunga enna lesbiansa... 😡😡😡
Even I love u
irukkalaam...
you mean, loving me?
very useful informative thank you behind wood s👌👌👍
thank u mam ur creating great awareness for both the gender
madai thiranthu show awesome and xtra knowledge developed pana mudiyuthu
Ungaludaiya Speach rompa nalla erukku amma moral support
Mam you are a knowledge house. really eye opening points. Behindwoods and avudaiappan good series of interviews.
thank u mama its very very useful
Mama va, enna ma neenka
Unga talk manasuku aruthala erukku ma knowledge rompa varuthu unga program partha am very happy
Very good speech, vry thanks to shalini mam, and we want more awareness speeches from shalini mam, hello anna all the best for ur job, i like u anna, and neenga fast ah pesurathu pola iruku, konjam tune panna better anna all the best thank u...
Very good episode. Calm, composed, CLEAR, to the point answers from Dr. Shalini and the same from the Anchor. A wide range of topics touched up on which is good. It would be useful if each topic is discussed in elaborate because the doctor has so much meaningful content in her which will be useful for many people. For eg, Sex education in schools and advises to parents and schools itself is a very big topic, need of the hour for parents and schools alike.
sex education can be implemented in all college where everyone is 18+ but the management must allow it
Good show. Ur asking very good question
Nice interview. Really useful to everyone.
Good topic at the right Time....anna sathama. pesathingha aparam pen suganthiramnu publicitykagha kelambhiruvangha.....but mam rombha supera franka pesunangha..👍
thank you dr. shalini, now I realize my fault...
Brother it's very simple and easier to be matured to lead an happy married life
If there is mutual understanding between both nothing will come creating an conflict between both
Awesome speech madam..hatsoff to u..👏👏
Thanks to Behindwoods. Such a wonderful answers by Mam. Thanks to Aavudaiappan. Pls talk about LGBT.
Semaaaa..... Serupadi for every boyzzz.....
அருமையான நேர்கானல் நிகழ்சி