What you saying that when they talk about finances he tells her You should find a rich man. It doesn't sound like he wants to be a sugar baby at all. In fact in previous clips he hates how he's not going to be able to work when he moves there
Sounds like she's desperate to settle for less. She has career and salary, what she thinks she lacks is a husband. It's better to adopt a baby than to feed a sugarbaby who hardly looks like a baby
@@acd1168 Rich men don't want a old woman like Lily. Rich men want a harem of beautiful, curvaceous women that they can smash at anytime they want. Now in some cases you will see a wealthy man with a old woman, but usually that old woman was that wealthy mans highschool sweetheart. If I was a man worth millions I wouldn't even entertain one woman when I could easily smash many extremely attractive young prime women because of my financial status.
This relationship is doomed from the start as she already is resenting his not being able to financially help her. This resentment will eventually explode and cause her to not hold back and cause him to realize his biggest fear was true.
@@HRM0302 He's worried about Chinese society judging him for not being the provider, since in China, the man is supposed to be the provider and ‘more successful’. These are all valid concerns
@@alexisk4407did you not hear how much she spent? $500,000+ if you pay yours on time, that’s great for you. But unless you have Jeff besos as a sugar daddy, how is someone going to pay that amount in a month or a year
in her country abd ul? and would u as an arabic man...be stressed in a foreigner country,? me dont think so,for u dont seem "stressed" in brazil though so do yourself that which you expect from others marry an older/old lady and pay for her!!! in her country not yours selfish mongers!
I thought he sold his house. Even if he hadn't paid off the mortgage yet, didn't he get any equity out of it? Unless the market had completely tanked since he purchased and his house had lost a lot of value...
He had savings but he spent a lot of it for travel to China … besides… did she really need to put an elevator in the house? She said she did this for him so she’s now upset because she spent $500,000 on upgrades give me a break. No one asked her to do that when you marry a foreigner, you know darn well they can’t work until they get the proper papers, it’s no different than when somebody brings a foreigner to the states. They cannot work until they get the proper visas and green card. She’s starting to sound a lot like Gino well too bad you have to pay for things because they can’t work if this is the way it’s going to be the marry someone from your own country.
I have to say I know Josh personally and he is a truly GREAT person. He always supports his friends no matter how busy he is. He had a job in the US. He is able to live in a good life in the US.
@@muppetzz It is very possible. I live in China, Qingdao, a second-tier city. I even live in the cheapest district of the city. Yet my manager had to pay 300k rmbs a bit over 40k USD just to install build-ins and the kitchen unit in her 4-bedroom apartment. She has not even yet put the furniture. Hence I say depending on the city, it is very possible. as even in big cities a square meter of a house can be 20k rmbs and above
@@jabulilenenzhelele2179 Yup agree. I’m from Singapore and I think even the first tier cities in China ie. Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou are more expensive than Singapore now
Mainland China lying - the renovations didn’t cost her half a million dollars you can buy like 4 homes in China for that price. ************Also, Lily said she has significant money problems that’s normal for a mainland Chinese to say. Doomed couple due financial issues , the 90 day breakup show
4 million rmbs does not buy about 4 houses in her city, especially of her size. Houses are charged per square meter and it does not start cheap depending on the tier of the city and whether it is central or on the outskirts.
Is there a new season again,, I also want to come to the show there, I live in Eastern Europe, but I am a very proud woman, I don't know English, I fit in well😂
It just floors me that people think that she’s in the right. No one asked her to spend $500,000 on upgrades in her house especially Josh. Did she really need an elevator no plus she knew he wouldn’t be able to work until he got the proper paperwork. It’s just like when a loved one brings their fiancé to the states. They cannot work until they get the proper paperwork. She’s starting to sound a lot like Gino. Actually, she sounds exactly like Gino how Jasmine supposed to get a job without proper paperwork so quit bitching and moaning that you have to pay for everything. That’s what happens when you marry someone someone from another country who can’t work because they don’t have the paperwork.
if what shes saying is true,about ..everything i do is for him" so why not move to his country within his culture,why not having a wedding on his culture style and invite his family and friends? the truth is .all this lau lady do is for herself....why would we pay for our foreigner spouse? if when we break up,we as a foreigner,got non RIGHTS over our spouse posession ahh does not make sense,she spends for herself not anybody else,and at her age of 70s ,she suppose to know better
Lily I’m a young 26 year old with a 6pack and love salsa dancing , where suits 🕺 for any occasion 😉, if it does not work out with that old broke bum , hit me up babe. 🤙🏻
These two won't last. This woman is ridiculous. She did everything her way without discussing with her partner, even though with her own money, and had the home renovated the way she liked but said that's for her partner's sake, common, this is so typical Chinese passive aggressiveness. Totally disrespectful.
this is so sad, broke men unable to support their partners and then calling them gold digger. there is no gold to dig bruh!'
He just doesnt wanna spend a single cent and wish to live as a sugar baby.
What you saying that when they talk about finances he tells her You should find a rich man. It doesn't sound like he wants to be a sugar baby at all. In fact in previous clips he hates how he's not going to be able to work when he moves there
Thats mostly all man doing now 😂
@@zari2662he can't chip in money for renovation of his future house? Suspicious isn't it
LMAO
Lily’s home is insane wowww 😮😮😮
Right! it looks out of Pinterest.
You should find a rich man girl. You clearly like the best things in life and Josh can’t give it to you.
It's not that easy. Rich men have a ton options and are aware of most womens motives.
Sounds like she's desperate to settle for less. She has career and salary, what she thinks she lacks is a husband. It's better to adopt a baby than to feed a sugarbaby who hardly looks like a baby
@@jasg771 that’s what it seems like to me. He told her he might be the one for her and she is forcing it.
@@sandiego3947 That’s what she wants so she should go try to find it instead of trying to make Josh the one when clearly he is not.
@@acd1168 Rich men don't want a old woman like Lily. Rich men want a harem of beautiful, curvaceous women that they can smash at anytime they want. Now in some cases you will see a wealthy man with a old woman, but usually that old woman was that wealthy mans highschool sweetheart. If I was a man worth millions I wouldn't even entertain one woman when I could easily smash many extremely attractive young prime women because of my financial status.
This relationship is doomed from the start as she already is resenting his not being able to financially help her. This resentment will eventually explode and cause her to not hold back and cause him to realize his biggest fear was true.
Sounds like he is resenting her more for being the provider and more successful one
@@HRM0302 He's worried about Chinese society judging him for not being the provider, since in China, the man is supposed to be the provider and ‘more successful’. These are all valid concerns
Idk but ever heard of prioritization? Why u gotta max out ur card
I max out my CC every month and pay it off completely as soon as the statement hits whats the problem?
@@alexisk4407did you not hear how much she spent? $500,000+ if you pay yours on time, that’s great for you. But unless you have Jeff besos as a sugar daddy, how is someone going to pay that amount in a month or a year
@@alexisk4407 Good. You’re paying. It’s a problem if you don’t have means to pay afterwards.
@@alexisk4407if you have that money monthly then why not pay out of pocket?
It's a Splenda mommy, not Sugar mommy. LMAO. I'm having a great time. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Do people not to research when you travel somewhere
Not the people on this show 😅
The house/condo is huge
It's her own fault with this place ...not his fault!!!
As a asian I can say RUN
Can you explain why?
He didn't feel stressed out because lily is the one who is stressed 😂😂
in her country abd ul? and would u as an arabic man...be stressed in a foreigner country,? me dont think so,for u dont seem "stressed" in brazil though
so do yourself that which you expect from others
marry an older/old lady and pay for her!!! in her country not yours
selfish mongers!
I thought he sold his house. Even if he hadn't paid off the mortgage yet, didn't he get any equity out of it? Unless the market had completely tanked since he purchased and his house had lost a lot of value...
I was wondering the same. I hate to think he is telling her he is broke but has money and is just using her
He had savings but he spent a lot of it for travel to China … besides… did she really need to put an elevator in the house? She said she did this for him so she’s now upset because she spent $500,000 on upgrades give me a break. No one asked her to do that when you marry a foreigner, you know darn well they can’t work until they get the proper papers, it’s no different than when somebody brings a foreigner to the states. They cannot work until they get the proper visas and green card. She’s starting to sound a lot like Gino well too bad you have to pay for things because they can’t work if this is the way it’s going to be the marry someone from your own country.
She really went all out on the renovation....she seems like a nice person so far I hope everything works out
Too early to tell.
Whats in it for her if he is broke?
I have to say I know Josh personally and he is a truly GREAT person. He always supports his friends no matter how busy he is. He had a job in the US. He is able to live in a good life in the US.
500 k renovation? In China? I don't believe it
How could the Reno cost 560000
Maybe she’s including the cost of the property as well
Nope that house surely costs more than 4million. Renovations do not come cheap here especially in her city
It’s a big apartment with pretty luxurious furniture and furnishings did you see? $560K for renovation is not impossible
@@muppetzz It is very possible. I live in China, Qingdao, a second-tier city. I even live in the cheapest district of the city. Yet my manager had to pay 300k rmbs a bit over 40k USD just to install build-ins and the kitchen unit in her 4-bedroom apartment. She has not even yet put the furniture. Hence I say depending on the city, it is very possible. as even in big cities a square meter of a house can be 20k rmbs and above
@@jabulilenenzhelele2179 Yup agree. I’m from Singapore and I think even the first tier cities in China ie. Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou are more expensive than Singapore now
She went crazy with that so suck it up
She seems like such a nice lady, she could do better than Josh
Sugar mama 😂
Mainland China lying - the renovations didn’t cost her half a million dollars you can buy like 4 homes in China for that price.
************Also, Lily said she has significant money problems that’s normal for a mainland Chinese to say.
Doomed couple due financial issues , the 90 day breakup show
We Asians always have money as back up or savings. We always say we don't have money but it is merely for you not to ask lol...
@@brownnomad6805 Lol, I didn't know that was common in other countries, too.
4 million rmbs does not buy about 4 houses in her city, especially of her size. Houses are charged per square meter and it does not start cheap depending on the tier of the city and whether it is central or on the outskirts.
i don't understand what her collateral for those loans were
probably her properties. She probably has more than one house
Is there a new season again,, I also want to come to the show there, I live in Eastern Europe, but I am a very proud woman, I don't know English, I fit in well😂
This guy is a big red flag
Wow nice airport in china theres english. Here in quebec canada no english on public road signs which is stopieedd coz suppose to b bilingual
Quebec hates English (most of the rest of Canada hates French). This guy on the show is surprised to see English in an airport? Bro...
It just floors me that people think that she’s in the right. No one asked her to spend $500,000 on upgrades in her house especially Josh. Did she really need an elevator no plus she knew he wouldn’t be able to work until he got the proper paperwork. It’s just like when a loved one brings their fiancé to the states. They cannot work until they get the proper paperwork. She’s starting to sound a lot like Gino. Actually, she sounds exactly like Gino how Jasmine supposed to get a job without proper paperwork so quit bitching and moaning that you have to pay for everything. That’s what happens when you marry someone someone from another country who can’t work because they don’t have the paperwork.
if what shes saying is true,about ..everything i do is for him"
so why not move to his country within his culture,why not having a wedding on his culture style and invite his family and friends?
the truth is .all this lau lady do is for herself....why would we pay for our foreigner spouse? if when we break up,we as a foreigner,got non RIGHTS over our spouse posession
ahh does not make sense,she spends for herself not anybody else,and at her age of 70s ,she suppose to know better
Lily I’m a young 26 year old with a 6pack and love salsa dancing , where suits 🕺 for any occasion 😉, if it does not work out with that old broke bum , hit me up babe. 🤙🏻
🙋🏼♀️❤39 ATL😂
I hope she reads your message 😂
LMAO
This guy is an insecure bum lmao you shoot your shot man! She needa read this msg
@@daisy.2576 LMAO
😮😢
50/50 is not very common in countries outside North America so be opened to other cultures.
That's not true. It's common in pretty much all western countries, not just in the US...
These two won't last. This woman is ridiculous. She did everything her way without discussing with her partner, even though with her own money, and had the home renovated the way she liked but said that's for her partner's sake, common, this is so typical Chinese passive aggressiveness. Totally disrespectful.
this lady looks like crypto scammer .i think she is scamming him .
oh no...second comment :D
:o )) so sweet :o )
First Comment!
500 k renovation? In China? I don't believe it