I Turned 40 Years old and My Life Changed: Lessons from Getting Older

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  • How to stay young is probably one of the most searched topics. Understandably so, as being young is considered an advantage by the society. But youth lasts for only so long. We turn 35 and then we turn 40 and 45... Is it that bad? Is getting older a decline? Or does it mean we have lived that much more?
    I hadn't been thinking much of staying young or turning 40 until I saw visible signs of aging. Of course, I want to stay as healthy as possible. But can acceptance and self-love teach us something about getting older? This video covers 4 life lessons on getting older.
    This video covers:
    turning 40, staying young, mental health, aging, getting older, life lessons, how to stay young, mindfulness, turning forty years old, bay area, blogger India, blogger bay area
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    Hello ☀ I am Neha.
    In this channel, you will find simple, unhurried videos on everyday life about:
    health, career, family,
    finding balance & truly living the moment
    About me: I work in the tech industry and live in California with my husband, kid and rescue pug. Leave a comment on my videos or message me on Instagram ( / nehainthebay ) if you would like to collaborate or just say hi.
    This channel began with a desire to understand well being and happiness. i have learned and grown so much while making these videos.
    Hope you subscribe and enjoy the journey with me!

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  • @meenakshibanerjee7160
    @meenakshibanerjee7160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Didi you looking 20 years

  • @lisaslifestyle
    @lisaslifestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, you look so good for your age!!! I think you look like you are in your 20s.

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! Hope you enjoyed the video.

  • @AntiMasonic93
    @AntiMasonic93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I was born in 1981, and just turned 40. I'm happy.

    • @donedone874
      @donedone874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dont know you but im happy to hear you are happy ! I hope you get happier with each passing year :)

    • @carolinekido6125
      @carolinekido6125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      why exactly are you happy?

    • @AntiMasonic93
      @AntiMasonic93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolinekido6125 Happy to be 40!🙂

    • @AntiMasonic93
      @AntiMasonic93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@donedone874 Muchas Gracias!

    • @butterflymoon6368
      @butterflymoon6368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Born in 1981 too though i will be 41 next week! Bit scary!

  • @nehainthebay
    @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hope you enjoyed this video. Reaching the 40th year of my life has given me a broader perspective and I hope I am able to learn more as I get older! Let me know what other topics you would like me to cover. ✨✨

  • @alonetraveller4965
    @alonetraveller4965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    But you look like barely 25!
    I wouldn’t know you're 40 years young if I hadn’t seen this video.

  • @budosky8119
    @budosky8119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You look 25 years old

  • @robynfinley1849
    @robynfinley1849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Very insightful! I turn 40 in October... Feels so strange.

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It does feel strange as you get closer to that day and then you are there and it’s all good 🙂. Thanks for watching!

    • @l.d.4477
      @l.d.4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too Robin! Happy Birthday! Mine is on the 13th! Wishing you peace as you move toward embracing your 40th 🙏🏽💜

    • @jeniserodriguez7161
      @jeniserodriguez7161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How you feeling Miss Robyn? HBD btw ☺️

    • @donedone874
      @donedone874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I suffer from various mental illness because if childhood trauma. So age and death have always been on my mind. It saddens me deeply to think about how we will all die and the deterioration that happens. But than i think its a waste of time to dread the inevitable. It still saddens me

    • @raymundbaradas7826
      @raymundbaradas7826 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life begins @ 40...

  • @donedone874
    @donedone874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im having an existential crisis . im in constant existential dread. Im so happy that at night all i think about is how me and all my love ones are inching closer to death. It saddens me and terrifies me to think about us not existing and turning to nothing. Anyways all this to say that i appreciate how positive your video is . thank you so much for sharing this with us ! I appreciate you 💕

    • @butterflymoon6368
      @butterflymoon6368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have those thoughts too. never thought about death before.

  • @swaveey888
    @swaveey888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *Clickbait* - No way you’re 40?!?!

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I turned 40 earlier this year. 🙂

  • @rajveerkanojiya2985
    @rajveerkanojiya2985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your 41 and I am 14 lol my dad is also 41 actually 9 months bigger than you

  • @Zinaya_hall
    @Zinaya_hall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 21 and I swear I look more older than you really you are so pretty 😘 i m little bit sad because my admission was not done in a good college because of corona virus🦠😷 right now, I am preparing for entrance for a decent college, but I feel little shame that I will have to study again with 2 years junior 😥... What advices can you give a 21 year old girl related to her career,family, friend and relationship.... Love you❤

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you, you are too kind 😊. I know it’s hard when things seem beyond control. But it is our own reaction that matters. It is never too late to achieve. So many people who have found happiness have had late start to their life’s milestones. I am 41, and only now beginning to feel a sense of calm and self-belief.I am sure you will achieve everything you have set out for. All the best. ✨

  • @fauziakhan1155
    @fauziakhan1155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks I needed this I'm 40 in January x

  • @Lanae8199
    @Lanae8199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video. I will be turning 40 in a few days. The scenery is so pretty. Where was this video shot? The San Francisco Bay Area?

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Wishing you a very happy 40th Birthday! Yes this was shot in SF Bay Area where I live. Love how beautiful this place is.

  • @Priya-rf7ov
    @Priya-rf7ov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I turned 40 ... happily married for 15yrs and happily childfree by choice... I'm much happy NOW

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay! Great to hear, wishing you many, many years of happiness and togetherness.

    • @feelhappyfeelpositive6800
      @feelhappyfeelpositive6800 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's spirit of living.... BTW AGE IS NOTHING JUST SCRAP OF MIND......
      SECRET TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE IS STAY SINGLE
      IF MARRIED DO NOT CONCEIVE
      TRAVEL THE WHOLE WORLD BECAUSE THERE IS ONLY ONE LIFE DO DIFFERENT FROM WHAT OTHERS ARE DOING

    • @drc4168
      @drc4168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too Priya, almost exactly as you x

    • @idontcarei
      @idontcarei 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      priya ....omg ..r u there ....i also decided to be Childfree by choice ..wow ..never found another indian with same thinking ..nice to see ur cmnt

  • @d.rvikashkumar2493
    @d.rvikashkumar2493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're 40🤔 no i don't believe

  • @ghofranedarragi5601
    @ghofranedarragi5601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    nice video i like it

  • @MarkRuslinzski
    @MarkRuslinzski 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Turning 40 is still young Neha, and your Very Pretty to, I'm 57 now that's getting old but what am i gonna do,

    • @feelhappyfeelpositive6800
      @feelhappyfeelpositive6800 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing Just enjoy your life SINGING dancing sex anything you like do it
      AGE IS NOTHING SCRAP OF HUMAN MIND

  • @carolinekido6125
    @carolinekido6125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video, and your soothing voice an accent gave me so much peace about turning 40

  • @Carousel5883
    @Carousel5883 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Turning I'm 40 next year..any advise.im happlily married doctor to sexy smart sweet man and child free but they are ppl who still question our choice .looking forward but still nervous

  • @TheShumoby
    @TheShumoby ปีที่แล้ว

    Hrt is great for bones, brains, and heart. Estradiol / Progesterone is key to hormone health in women's middle age.

  • @rainwater1294
    @rainwater1294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love how you shared your thoughts on getting older, wonderfully said =)

  • @aryaj1046
    @aryaj1046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful inside and out🥰🥰

  • @Art-inventions
    @Art-inventions ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful video Neha....Iove your outlook on life. :)...And also love your bougain villa pruning...that's how I stumbled on this video...Happy gardening..

  • @dnyaneshwara5339
    @dnyaneshwara5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simply beautiful. Inspired

  • @feelhappyfeelpositive6800
    @feelhappyfeelpositive6800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Age is just a number
    Falguni nayyar mam started Nykaa at age of 50..... So Stop thinking about rubbish things called age
    Travel the world enjoy life Cause you never know when God calls u upstairs

  • @shrabanichakraborty5633
    @shrabanichakraborty5633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm just searching over 40 you tuber and found your channel, this video make me so inspire because next month I will enter my 40.

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching. Wishing you a very happy 40th birthday ❤️

    • @shrabanichakraborty5633
      @shrabanichakraborty5633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nehainthebay Thank you for your reply 🙏

  • @Danyl99
    @Danyl99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As it is said u become wise as u Age

  • @kelebeksky
    @kelebeksky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! You are so beautiful! Are you childfree? 🥰

  • @sincerelyheatherlynne
    @sincerelyheatherlynne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm having a lot of the same thoughts & realizations you describe, in mu 40th year. Fear of what other people would think kept me from doing a lot of things before & now I'm finding the ability to act without worrying as much about it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about these things- I love to hear other people's deeper thoughts about life & their experiences. It's the whole reason I started my own channel.

  • @caramelcooler9710
    @caramelcooler9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this and thank you for making this video!

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for watching. 🙂

  • @Wil-70-NL
    @Wil-70-NL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:46 I would sit all day long under that tree. What a great view.

  • @loveconnection1118
    @loveconnection1118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a beautiful video thank you for the uplifting vibes 💜

  • @Mikisworld2000
    @Mikisworld2000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg you look 18. Dayummmmm😮

  • @kumokundomo9705
    @kumokundomo9705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful 🥰 I feel better listening to your voice.

  • @CeritaFandaVancouver
    @CeritaFandaVancouver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy belated birthday, Neha and you look amazing and younger than when I hit that age at one point.

  • @MomsSpecialKitchen
    @MomsSpecialKitchen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice great sharing 👍

  • @ethical_sarah
    @ethical_sarah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing! 💙

  • @joeyj5924
    @joeyj5924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video. You are gorgeous btw! You look great and have a beautiful glow to you. I'm turning 41 in October, and I(like you ) look younger than my age. I'm happy with it but really wouldn't care if I didn't. The way I see it, I think about my 20's and how much better it could have been had I had the knowledge I have now. There are a million things I can think of that I would do different. That being said, I always think about being 60 and the million things that I would have changed about myself at 40, and I try to apply some of that to my everyday life. Idk how much sense that makes lol but give me a break I'm 40 lol. All in all I believe in just going with the flow and enjoying every second that I have here on this earth. It's true that we never know what's just around the corner, but every BIG thing that has ever happened in my life is now a little thing and there are so many times when I thought the worst of my situations. But everything somehow always works itself out. So before I rest in peace, I'm gonna be thankful for all the blessings I have in my life and live in peace. Lots of love ❤
    .

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts. I think of how much better it could have been if I had known in my 20s or even 30s what I know now. Makes me feel grateful for every year and every event I went through. Going with the flow seems like the right thing to do 🙂.

  • @bruce321bruce321
    @bruce321bruce321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought it was very insightful. Thank you for sharing! You are a beautiful person all the way to the mind. 😇

  • @jessyjulie5506
    @jessyjulie5506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved your video, helped me a lot!

  • @lorenagomez7649
    @lorenagomez7649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful video💕

  • @sushantv2887
    @sushantv2887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    बार बार दिन ये आये बार बार दिल ये गाये
    तू जिए हज़ारों साल ये मेरी है आरज़ू
    हैप्पी बर्थडे टू यू !!
    Madam janamdin ki badhaiyan 🎂🎈🎈🎈
    Swasth rahe mast rahe
    gaate rahe gungunate rahe :)

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for the beautiful wishes!

  • @samb23692
    @samb23692 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, loved your video Neha. It's beautifully shot with lots of wisdom. I turned 30 this year. I am planning to stay single for life as of now. Any tips?

  • @myfarm7068
    @myfarm7068 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking beautiful 🎉 in which class u r?🎉🎉🎉

  • @anonymous2150
    @anonymous2150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U have a spiritual voice. And u look much younger then your age.

  • @carverkain5226
    @carverkain5226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She makes 40 look good lmao I thought she was my age

  • @arguswil
    @arguswil 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I too wear overalls. Thank you for the video. Helped me a lot ❤

  • @subhayanmajumder4515
    @subhayanmajumder4515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For how long how you been in the U.S?
    Do you work there?

  • @anastasiachudo4210
    @anastasiachudo4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you post please your skin care ? 😻

  • @NitaNair
    @NitaNair 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 41 and happier now than ever before :)

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad to hear! Me too 🙂

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@monitorR Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Entering 40s is a change, and I guess it all depends on how we approach it.
      I have been trying to consider how grateful I am to be here at this age, to have learned so much, seen so much. Besides, age is not something that keeps us from trying new things or new goals, or at least it should not 🙂.
      I guess, my only thought would be to enjoy this beautiful moment because it’s not coming back just as our 30s or 20s will not.
      Hope you find gratitude and joy as you enter this phase. ❤️

  • @nullenbuffeh3201
    @nullenbuffeh3201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video

  • @jenniferruip4688
    @jenniferruip4688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm fixing to be 42. 😁

  • @rosesfish6622
    @rosesfish6622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I turn 40 this February

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best wishes on your birthday! Happy 40th!

    • @kimberlyborosa5097
      @kimberlyborosa5097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! Happy birthday to us 🤗🎉🎊🎈

  • @anastasiachudo4210
    @anastasiachudo4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did you care about yourself you looks so good ? can you tell your skin care 😻I think 40 this is today is new 20 😻

    • @nehainthebay
      @nehainthebay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words 😊. I don’t have any specific skin care routine, but I do wear sunscreen pretty religiously 🕶👒

    • @anastasiachudo4210
      @anastasiachudo4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      please can you make how you clean skin or expholiation , you pm/am routine 😻

  • @amazinggrowth1407
    @amazinggrowth1407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    40 ...? 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @pankajagrawal8449
    @pankajagrawal8449 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video wish to know more about you

  • @newvision7504
    @newvision7504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am 38 year old man. But you have maintained so much. You definitely look younger and beautiful.
    Can't believe you are 40
    No matter how old you are . But staying happy is very important

  • @boomsaveanimals7503
    @boomsaveanimals7503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did you not stay in india??

  • @TheMiamixbitch
    @TheMiamixbitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lovely video, I share the same views on turning 40. we are very lucky and we now it.

  • @luvluvclaniT25-furbabe
    @luvluvclaniT25-furbabe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    true aging is just a number