TYLER PERRY WON’T HELP REGULAR BLK FOLKS BUT HE RUSHES TO HELP WHITE PRINCE HARRY & HIS D LIST BIRACIAL WIFE (who no one in Hollywood wanted anything to do with before she married that ultra privileged prince harry and who told lies to Oprah about royal family) by lending them a whole mansion to live in for free and his private jet… yet he screws BLK women over and won’t help them out. Tyler helps white rich ppl but not regular or other famous blk folks.
She just didn’t bring up the bonnets,, she brought up wearing pajamas, house shoes also. You brought up white girls. They judge them differently than black women. All she said was have some respect for how you leave the house. Shannon was not struggling in that interview, he did great and so did she.
I think her point was less about having a man but about having someone who genuinely loved her, had integrity, and would be devoted enough to hold her accountable for her behavior.
I agree she have a diamond in the rough that showed her something different and thats cool. If her life experience has been changed for the better with someone acknowledging that is whats up.
In Shannon’s defense, he keeps reiterating that he is not a journalist. Club Shay Shay is him having conversations over some drinks. Like 2 friends sitting on the back porch talking about life.
I listened to her interview at work, and it was really good. Club shay shay is now a place for people to really speak their truth. Katt set the tone for 2024
LMAOO. just wait till taraji comes on the show and “speak her truth.” eventually, It’s just gonna end up being a trend with people “speaking their truth” and start drama.
Everything Monique said about Tiffany Haddish was true; Tiffany shouldn't be throwing shade at anyone after that drama with Aries Spears. Between her and Katt Williams, I've learned a lot about how shady Hollywood is.
There are layers of power. I think Kevin really did want to help her, but he does not have the same power of the people who put him where he is, and told him who he "absolutely will not" work with. We can't expect Kaepernick from celebrities. Not everyone is willing to have their career crash and burn on behalf of anyone.
When Monique was going in on the women who passed up Stuttering Shannon was hilarious 😂 😂😂 his facial expressions had me crying laughing!! Like a momma protecting her son 😂😂😂😂 I was cracking up!! I know that made him feel so good.
The only reason why Monique said “if she had a man” was because Tiffany said “I would never have a man in my business like that”. That’s the only reason Monique worded it that way
Maybe he's not anything to brag about from your perspective but to her that man is worth bragging about and the beauty was her husband's continued love support and authenticity towards her. He genuinely loves her and supports her at the end of the day that's what matters.@@catmouse2882
@catmouse2882 you know that how? Yall be over invested and don't know a lick about these people and their personal lives. Are you something to brag about??
@@catmouse2882And your husband is? Let us happily married chicks celebrate our faithful husband without the extra goofy comments from the peanut gallery 🙄
Agreed. Hollywood is a beast. BTW, I recall "Adam ruins Everything," covering the Hollywood machine regarding the " Oscar race and the expectations to promote a film . It is best to be independent and authentic.
She tried to handle it professionally when it all started. She did Lee Daniels a favor. That is why I say friendship and business do not mix. She did the movie Precious for 50,000 flat. Daniels made millions off of that movie. If they wanted her to do press for the movie they should have at least given her another 50 thousand.
From what she said about Kevin, it seems like whoever's behind him has him scared, so he slithers and hides. A beautiful interview, and it wamred my heart to see the comment section full of love and epiphanies. Beautiful
I am having trouble making it past that part, and I had to pause. Because it’s anti-black AF. Yes, she is about a lot of stuff, but she can’t be right about everything- and that’s OK. 🤷🏾♀️
@@nwatson2773 thank you for say that because I think people who came at Monique for speaking about BONNETS took it the wrong way. We're always critique yes, but I remember being taught to be kept up and having presentation. Etiquette and not being their stereotypical GHETTO. So, when she spoke that example it resonated with me.
@@blkporcelaindoll being presentable, won’t keep you from getting shot by the police. 🤷🏾♀️ They got to see you as human first. It doesn’t matter what we wear; as they don’t see the clothes that we’re wearing. All they see our brown skin.
I found the story about why she went in on DL like that interesting. I also like the fact that she told more of her personal story of where she came from. Mo was so right about people being more comfortable seeing Black women broken rather than standing tall and strong. She draws lines really well and doesn't let people try her. That could make her seem difficult to some.
Yap they hate it when to stand on that business. I can define relate. Even family will shun u for it. U gonna be out here alone standing on business. They will nil u to the cross for real
I've realized this recently. People will try you and then when you defend yourself you're considered "difficult" and making a big deal outta nothing. It's like we're supposed to just deal with disrespect....I'm so tired of that 😔
It was deep when Monique said the reason Taraji's message was received because she broke down while delivering it whereas she stood tall and strong when she said the same thing. The message being we will give you bone only when you are broken down, but never when you are strong. Deep
I normally have to watch Shannon's interviews in intervals, but Monique had me captivated for the full interview! It was like catching up with your favorite auntie at her crib sipping wine. She was DIRECT with what she spoke on, yet wasn't hurtful, slanderous, nor insulting with the literal FACTS she came with. I'd love to see her yer in an interview where she can really GO there, cause Shannon held back for sure.
She said "a man like mine" meaning the type of person he is and throwing shade cause Tiff don't even have a man. But has the nerve to talk on someone else's man. She gathered Tiffany! 😂😂😂😂
@@dickersonr6172considering her question, she probably has morals and values, so it would be less likely for her to be a billionaire. To be a billionaire in this world, you have to be willing to step on other people, lose all morals, principles, integrity, etc.
Facts!!!! Great interview and what I liked about Monique she’s transparent and truthful. The black community have celebrated Oprah and what Monique have disclosed about Oprah is needed. We appreciated Oprah the journalist/ talk show icon but there’s a mean side of Oprah and Monique been trying to tell us for a long time. Oprah trifling and I can’t support that. Kevin Hart unfunny behind is another one that needs to get exposed.
Bonnets and pajamas outside are tacky. Period. She was talking about taking pride in your appearance. Not looking for acceptance. And she wasn’t talking about having a man. She said a man like MINE, because Tiffany mentioned her husband negatively. Shannon isn’t a journalist which he’s reiterated several times. Club Shay Shay is an intimate conversation between ‘friends’. I think it’s a great way to get to know the guests whereas journalists add/delete things to suit their publications narrative.
After watching the interview with Monique, I must say that I have gained a tremendous amount of respect for her. It's unfortunate that it took me so long to understand the challenges she has faced in the entertainment industry as a black woman, and how many other black women entertainers and black entertainers, in general, have worked against her. Her voice has been ignored for far too long, but now I am listening, and her message is loud and clear. I found her story to be compelling, authentic, and powerful. She is providing valuable insights that are helping me to navigate my own journey towards truth and setting my own boundaries. Monique is brave for speaking up about what many people are afraid to say, particularly those in Hollywood, and she is confronting the issues that have kept us in chains for over 400 years. I can only imagine how much more Monique has to say, but is unable to due to the constraints of the industry. I want to express my gratitude to her for this interview and for standing firm in her truth regardless of who may not agree with her. She is a true inspiration and a role model for all of us. I tip my hat to you, Monique, and thank you for speaking up and demanding change.
KingofReads you have always stood Ten Toes Down for Monique! I have loved you for a Third Years and I will love you a thousand more ❤ keep fighting for Black People and Black Peace ❤
It was in the same context of what she said about Shaq towards the end. About people giving relationship advice and not even in a relationship. Not that there is anything wrong with being single. She was making a point and I got it.
Correction. Monique is not a storyteller; she's a truth-teller. DL is a storyteller. Monique talked about business, and DL spoke about her appearance and character venomously. There’s a difference between a “contract” and a “memo,” you know that DL. Continue bucking for Vlad… 👀
However, it sounds like it was an error of the promoters as I heard somewhere that they both received a contract saying they're headlining. Sooooo...to bring up his daughter's sexual "A" based on that disagreement is an all time low. I like Monique but that I can't get down with. Then her and daddy in the video gaslighting trying to make it seem not that bad and demanding an apology. Naw, she better "stand on business" with an apology. I know DL's a man but since I am strong, black woman (who has also been SA'd). Monique would have to see me. It'll be some furniture moving around this m*thaf***a*. *in Bernie Mac's vc*
@@PYT.123 I totally get the angry that stems from using personal trauma against you. What I don't understand is why someone would share their loved one's trauma with the world. Some things arent meant for public consumption. When it's used against you, remember it's not a rumor and consider the source from which it came.
Katt, Monique. Honestly I think we need Mark Curry next. Monique story over the past ten years has remained consistent. Tyler need to write that lady a check and if he don’t she needs to sue for defamation.
I think the bonnets issue is about being respectable for SELF. Not necessarily for the politics. I’ve seen Monique at the Dekalb Farmers Market- she wasn’t dressed up, but definitely not in a bonnet or house slippers. Did you brush your teeth? Bathe? Are you showing up for YOURSELF? It’s about self respect and pride.
@@art2asiaright?? They literally protect your hair. That’s true self respect if you ask me, imma protect my crown no matter what strangers may think 🤷🏾♀️
@@depressedandwelldressed5489 exactly imma wear my bonnet, durag, hat, scarf, whatever the heck I want and if someone thinks because of what’s on my head that I don’t respect myself that’s they problem not mine lol I know me!
100% love your points on responsibility, sing it to the treetops! Also agree with your note about Mo'nique sitting with an interviewer who understands anti-blackness, misogynoir, and I'll add someone who understands fatphobia and respectability politics.
My grandma said don’t go outside with rollers in your hair and bedroom slippers on your feet…she said it’s disrespectful to you and the presentation of yourself🤔🤔🤔she said be a good reflection of your family and those that love you…her words not mine😊
I went to school for journalism so i get what you’re saying, but i think the beauty of SS and his interview style is that he allows the interviewee to speak. He doesn’t cut people off (which is actually something Oprah does), he doesn’t lead the interview, nor does he enforce his opinion. It also helps that the interview isn’t chopped up too much and shortened, bc then no one can say “well i meant this, but you didn’t see that part bc it was cut.” You get full context. SS has a niche. Maybe Nina Parker would be a good interviewer for Mo, bc she’s a journalist and a heavier Black woman in media.
That was a HORRIBLE analogy on your part comparing Monique's critique on bonnets with how she handles her situations with Tyler Perry and Oprah. You TOTALLY missed the point there.
About the bonnets. Monique said nothing wrong. It's about having self respect and dignity for yourself when you're out in public geeezus🤦🏾♀ These people literally be out here lookin crazy and not giving AF. Liiike. Monique ain't said nothing that my mamma, daddy, grandmamma, uncles and aunt's instilled in me as a child. And it had NOTING to do with white people. 🙄 huuuh. And what people think about her relationship with her husband is SICK SICK SICK.
That's crazy to think that any kind of PSA to Black women is acceptable. If nobody ask your comments on their appearance, you keep your thoughts to yourself. That's basic good manners. You guys pos feel entitled to talk crazy to certain groups and I am not not having it.
❤❤❤thank you I was just about to express my feelings towards what he said because I completely disagreed with him about that. Monique was saying what I had heard growing up coming from my grandmothers. Representation, looking kept, having manners and etc... I've always been creativity and love colors and fashion; but there's a time and place for everything. I've even push boundaries for drama effects because being Black around "White Privilege". But there's always a difference. Anyways, Monique's bonnet comment was spot on 💪
I agree. It happens in other cultures though. Back in the day Latina and white women walked out with a head of curlers with a scarf over it. Now, people use that look in photo shoots to convey a certain “aesthetic”. So, please give yourselves. grace. Other groups are given the benefit of individuality - a benefit not extended to you.
My understanding about OPRAH hand picking the actors for the movie was what MONIQUE said, 'but yet and still you had to audition for the part'. That still having to audition part was that the industry can treat you any kind of way, hence the way the actors were initially treated on the set of Color Purple.
Yall really dragging the bonnet thing smh am I gonna go to an interview, work, church etc in a bonnet? No. Will I run to the store, ATM, my momma house in a bonnet? Absolutely. This idea that anytime you leave the house you have to look a certain way or you don’t love and respect yourself is crazy!
@@lululawson1653 oh men can be outside looking a complete fool and nobody says they aren’t respecting themselves, other races can be outside looking a complete fool and it’s ok, but if a black woman has on a bonnet OMG she hates herself she doesn’t respect herself 🤣
@@lululawson1653 who ignores sagging? It’s just as tacky. They still do it but doesn’t negate how foolish they look. Do what you feel but they’re one in the same.
The fact that u wouldn't go out to a MANS house like that Or be on social media like that But would go out any kind of way everywhere else Is what speaks about your virtue as a woman
Katt and Mo’Nique’s respective interviews were both carried by them. Imagine those interviews with an interviewer who was at least slightly competent in journalism.
Don't look too unkempt. Don't look too put together. Don't wear weaves, but make sure you tame your fro. Be slim, but not skinny. Keep a bare face, but don't question being compared to nonblack women who wear makeup and the f***ing list goes on and on. Tge focus on bonnets is really ridiculous. It’s not about the bonnets, it's about people (including other black people) not thinking black women are deserving of basic human respect, so how dare we not show up in this world in a very particular way in order to earn what others get naturally. You don't like bonnets in public then don't wear them in public and look the other way when you see one. You wouldn't catch me on my worse day in a bonnet, but that's a choice I make for myself. You know, how other people should be able to make it for themselves. Outside of the bonnet thing, I enjoyed the interview. Just so tired of everyone taking every free moment to throw a lick at black women.
All of this love! 🙌🏾 I don’t wear sweatpants, leggings, or bonnets in public. But I don’t 💩 on other people for doing so. Because it ain’t my business and it doesn’t hurt me. Another Black person wearing a bonnet in public, isn’t going to make the whytes see me as a human. Because they won’t, and they don’t..
Right! He didnt do anything but prove Monique right about his behavior about how he was in regards to his radio show and the things they were saying and talking about.
FACTS. Shannon got some major bias he needs to work on. The “now you know you not supposed to record him” as the first thing he said about Tyler Perry SAYING he made up a lie about her. I just saw another video today of him telling Saweetie, ignoring all her other accomplishments, calling her only “the girl quavo used to date” like seriously?? How SEXIST can you beeee. Read a book. Take a class, listen to women. That’s all it takes to learn
I lovedddd the interview. I went in knowing she was being honest about TP and O. I have had my challenges with Mo’Nique because of some of her comments about the bonnets, but I definitely understand, after hearing her explain it during the interview, why someone of her generation would uphold values aligned with respectability politics. Imagine if Mo’Nique was in the airport with a bonnet, the treatment that she receives given her various identities would definitely impact the perception of her. It makes sense to me and I respect an elder telling us what she feels will help people based on her own experiences. I’m not mad at it! And she should get her just due! What I do *wish*, is that celebrities would stop taking up so much of our time and attention with their million dollar issues when people are struggling. With all this talk about *my people* I just want people with differential amount of power to use some of their social capital to help non-rich n-words change their material conditions. If we going to be about our people, I feel like that’s not an unfair ask.
And she said her security guard looked at her when Tyler did that; and she responded, “You work for me. You don’t work for Tyler. You stay here.” LOVED IT!
Hear me out here! 😭😂 Shannon’s approach speaks middle of the road and that’s why it’s successful. He is not asking you to critically think but just enjoy. He said yall can pick up what he left! 😂 Next on Club Shay Shay. . .
The kevin hart and will pakard thing was crazy, they need to be embarrassed!! I remember when that thing happened on the set of the movie and it was on the news but people blew past it because it was Monique. They probably wanted her to get blown up along with the trailer
The interviews do need to be long…thats why his channel is GOOD! We need to hear the deets in the story….his show is like listening to friends talk….that’s why I like it…plus we need to get our attention span back! And the show still got millions of views even being as long as it is! if I want an interview style where they don’t let you tell the whole story, I’ll watch Barbara walters re-runs
Justin, in the real world the bonnet is an issue. I know people in HR who have literally interviewed people in bonnets and No they did not hire them. Monique is Correct. It’s out of control and it’s not cute. I’m an 80’s baby and I don’t know anyone my age who could have left home like that
The bonnet thing has nothing to do with respectability. This is a woman thing. It’s tacky period. When any other race wear pjs and slippers outside they look a mess too. It’s not wrong to think people should pull themselves together and act like you have some decorum by not wearing bed clothing outside.
This reminds me of the 1st Black Cadet at West Point where he had to ask for permission to sit and eat dinner with other Cadets and was still denied as he moved from table to table asking for permission to just sit and eat. This is very much similar to today.
No what Monique said was Tiffany said she wouldn't have a husband like Monique's husbands. It was about insulting Monique's husband while NOT having one at all
Right! and those people need to go do some fact checking because DL was speaking from a place of guilt and lying his own self he said she was lying but wont specific about what she was lying about him hurling insults at her dont take away from what Monique said it just make DL look like what Mo nique described him to be. And for the people saying Monique was wrong for bringing up his daughter DL been spoke on the story about his daughter Mo just repeated what DL had already told the world for the people that follow and listen to him. A hit dog will holler and that's what DL did.
DL basically confirmed what Monique said in her interview, he just wanted to roast her for outing him. I stand with Monique cause her story has been consistent and she has the receipts to prove it. It's also kind of disheartening how when Katt spoke his peace almost everyone believed him off rip but when Monique does she needs proof and to let go of her issues with these people And I was happy to hear that in both Katt and Monique's interview both said that Bernie Mac was a real one 💪🏾
I loved the interview and it really spoke to me in a lot of ways, especially bc of a situation I am going through right now was a BW. However, I do think there was some internalized misogyny sprinkled throughout. I appreciate her husband helped her grow especially bc of how she said she was. But, I felt like throughout the conversation there was still this underlying thread of needing a man to teach us or train us and put us in our place. Its great when you have a man that can help you but many times its the woman helping the man, especially in our community. I wanted to just think she meant you need a strong man that allows you fall into a submissive role if you want but it felt like a little more than that. Like when she said at the end how BW are conditioned to fight BM and we have to let them be and thats why they go to WW. Ik the last part was in jest but in that comment and many others it seemed like there was some male-centeredness going on that I see a lot among BM. We get a man and eventually acquiescence entirely to a male perspective.
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TYLER PERRY WON’T HELP REGULAR BLK FOLKS BUT HE RUSHES TO HELP WHITE PRINCE HARRY & HIS D LIST BIRACIAL WIFE (who no one in Hollywood wanted anything to do with before she married that ultra privileged prince harry and who told lies to Oprah about royal family) by lending them a whole mansion to live in for free and his private jet… yet he screws BLK women over and won’t help them out. Tyler helps white rich ppl but not regular or other famous blk folks.
She just didn’t bring up the bonnets,, she brought up wearing pajamas, house shoes also. You brought up white girls. They judge them differently than black women. All she said was have some respect for how you leave the house. Shannon was not struggling in that interview, he did great and so did she.
Her interview coming right behind Katt Williams pulled everything together
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I thought the same damn thing. !!!!
I'm saying!!!!!
Exactly 💯 That's why I was so anxious to see her interview. I knew she was going to cover the things that she has been saying for years
Yesss it all makes sense 😂smh I hope they keep telling till then ppl break!!! It's just not fair
That Tiffany Haddish comment was REAL! I was done with her when she was on the red carpet with a bucket of chicken. Foolishness
It was the nasty video with Aries Spears
That was tacky!
Tiffany is a big caricature
@@vegannn7178very
@@kasiahroy2082 it was sick 🤢
I think her point was less about having a man but about having someone who genuinely loved her, had integrity, and would be devoted enough to hold her accountable for her behavior.
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Yes, Tiffany commented on the man part Monique responded based on that!
Exactly he just through that in there cuz he just clearly didn't understand
Yes, i was going to comment the same thing!
I agree she have a diamond in the rough that showed her something different and thats cool. If her life experience has been changed for the better with someone acknowledging that is whats up.
In Shannon’s defense, he keeps reiterating that he is not a journalist. Club Shay Shay is him having conversations over some drinks. Like 2 friends sitting on the back porch talking about life.
I like his reactions 😅
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Exactly. This is why people like Shannon Sharp and TH-camrs are getting more interviews than journalist with celebrities due to the comfort level.
I don't mind the length of the interviews. They are quite interesting.
Correct!
Monique looked like liquid gold. So golden brown, beautiful and regal. And she had a magnificent speaking voice.
Auntie vibes and fine as wine 🍷
I listened to her interview at work, and it was really good. Club shay shay is now a place for people to really speak their truth. Katt set the tone for 2024
Please push VLAD out of the way.
I also watched it at work yesterday and I totally agree with you. Although he says he is not a journalist, Shannon does his homework and it shows.
LMAOO. just wait till taraji comes on the show and “speak her truth.” eventually,
It’s just gonna end up being a trend with people “speaking their truth” and start drama.
Everything Monique said about Tiffany Haddish was true; Tiffany shouldn't be throwing shade at anyone after that drama with Aries Spears. Between her and Katt Williams, I've learned a lot about how shady Hollywood is.
Hollywood BEEN shady.
The Will Packer story was wild 😳!!!
Will sound like the type that can't wait to play massa AND TRUST he WILL be HUMBLED 💯
And she posted the video of those trailers
She smoked Tiffany in less then 30 seconds, and Kevin def did her dirty hes wild for tht
There are layers of power. I think Kevin really did want to help her, but he does not have the same power of the people who put him where he is, and told him who he "absolutely will not" work with.
We can't expect Kaepernick from celebrities. Not everyone is willing to have their career crash and burn on behalf of anyone.
@MPPG663 he coulda been a man and simply called her and had a convo, he jus ghosted her without explanation
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I think that Monique "knows the deal". I believe that Monique knows about the "Illuminated" ones.
It sounded very much like the Kevin hart who I see on the big screen.....lying and saying anything people want to hear even of its ridiculous
Kevin only deal with people who are secret society people and she’s not so he want nonparts
When Monique was going in on the women who passed up Stuttering Shannon was hilarious 😂 😂😂 his facial expressions had me crying laughing!! Like a momma protecting her son 😂😂😂😂 I was cracking up!! I know that made him feel so good.
The only reason why Monique said “if she had a man” was because Tiffany said “I would never have a man in my business like that”. That’s the only reason Monique worded it that way
Mo'Nique's man ain't nothing to brag about.
Maybe he's not anything to brag about from your perspective but to her that man is worth bragging about and the beauty was her husband's continued love support and authenticity towards her. He genuinely loves her and supports her at the end of the day that's what matters.@@catmouse2882
@catmouse2882 you know that how? Yall be over invested and don't know a lick about these people and their personal lives. Are you something to brag about??
@@catmouse2882And your husband is? Let us happily married chicks celebrate our faithful husband without the extra goofy comments from the peanut gallery 🙄
@@bean7629 I don't want nor need the love of an unemployed man who I gotta financially support.
Love Mo’Nique! She has integrity and a moral compass and that’s something you can’t buy
Priceless!
That's crazy she got blackballed just bc she didn't want to do free promo for a movie that she already did promo for, I can't.
Right! They wouldn’t try a white woman like that!
Agreed. Hollywood is a beast. BTW, I recall "Adam ruins Everything," covering the Hollywood machine regarding the " Oscar race and the expectations to promote a film . It is best to be independent and authentic.
The way she read Tiffany 😂😂😂
Shannon getting licks in gagged me😂😂
@@IletyouliveShannon had the death blow 😭😂😂😂
Really it wasn't a read. Monique has a hubby but can't seem to stay out of her mess. Maybe she needs a new "daddy"
"There's no such thing as an ethical billionaire" So, true. Love your videos! :)
Tiffany over there with Jason Lee getting DUIs and traveling down a weird road. Sis is down bad.
She never evolved
She tried to handle it professionally when it all started. She did Lee Daniels a favor. That is why I say friendship and business do not mix. She did the movie Precious for 50,000 flat. Daniels made millions off of that movie. If they wanted her to do press for the movie they should have at least given her another 50 thousand.
From what she said about Kevin, it seems like whoever's behind him has him scared, so he slithers and hides.
A beautiful interview, and it wamred my heart to see the comment section full of love and epiphanies. Beautiful
I agree!
Heyyy my sweet babies!!! 😂 I loved every second of that interview. Shout out to Monique.
When it comes to what's "presentable," someone will always move the goalposts 🤷🏿♀️. Remember when box braids were considered unprofessional 😐.
If it’s black, then it’s always critiqued
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I am having trouble making it past that part, and I had to pause. Because it’s anti-black AF. Yes, she is about a lot of stuff, but she can’t be right about everything- and that’s OK. 🤷🏾♀️
@@nwatson2773 thank you for say that because I think people who came at Monique for speaking about BONNETS took it the wrong way. We're always critique yes, but I remember being taught to be kept up and having presentation. Etiquette and not being their stereotypical GHETTO. So, when she spoke that example it resonated with me.
@@blkporcelaindoll being presentable, won’t keep you from getting shot by the police. 🤷🏾♀️
They got to see you as human first. It doesn’t matter what we wear; as they don’t see the clothes that we’re wearing. All they see our brown skin.
I found the story about why she went in on DL like that interesting. I also like the fact that she told more of her personal story of where she came from. Mo was so right about people being more comfortable seeing Black women broken rather than standing tall and strong. She draws lines really well and doesn't let people try her. That could make her seem difficult to some.
Yap they hate it when to stand on that business. I can define relate. Even family will shun u for it. U gonna be out here alone standing on business. They will nil u to the cross for real
I've realized this recently. People will try you and then when you defend yourself you're considered "difficult" and making a big deal outta nothing. It's like we're supposed to just deal with disrespect....I'm so tired of that 😔
Loved the interview Mo & Katt undefeated 🥰
It was deep when Monique said the reason Taraji's message was received because she broke down while delivering it whereas she stood tall and strong when she said the same thing. The message being we will give you bone only when you are broken down, but never when you are strong. Deep
I normally have to watch Shannon's interviews in intervals, but Monique had me captivated for the full interview! It was like catching up with your favorite auntie at her crib sipping wine. She was DIRECT with what she spoke on, yet wasn't hurtful, slanderous, nor insulting with the literal FACTS she came with. I'd love to see her yer in an interview where she can really GO there, cause Shannon held back for sure.
She said "a man like mine" meaning the type of person he is and throwing shade cause Tiff don't even have a man. But has the nerve to talk on someone else's man. She gathered Tiffany! 😂😂😂😂
She said “a man like MINE”. Not just a man period
You said so eloquently! Mo’Nique is not difficult to work with she is just a black woman standing on business!!! 🖤
The thought of people being billionaires sickens me, they are financial oppressors
Would you feel that way if you was a billionaire?
@@dickersonr6172considering her question, she probably has morals and values, so it would be less likely for her to be a billionaire. To be a billionaire in this world, you have to be willing to step on other people, lose all morals, principles, integrity, etc.
Bam! You answered that perfectly 🙌🏽🙌🏽@@TeeBabyXOXO
@@dickersonr6172 I would never be one, I'm not corrupt
Who do y'all think is keeping this country together It sure isn't the governments???
*I cracked TFU when she said about OPRAH with BIG FEET BIG SHOULDERS AND A BIG HEAD* 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂 TOO GOOD!!
Right!
@veronicaparker-taylor853 she ozempop lol
Black Conservativism and respectability will not get us anywhere
There is a difference. Not knowing THE DIFFERENCE will get us no where.
@@tigerlilly9038there's really no difference. They're tied together.
Could you elaborate please?
NEVER!!
A lot of black folks are conservatives and always wanting white approval, like they determine the standards we're supposed to be on. Idc for all that.
It was a great interview and shed a great deal of light on The Hollywood Machine especially with what is going on with Taraji.
Your Kevin Hart edit during the DUI part is taking me outttttttt 😂😂😂😂
I had to pause the video and laugh for a good 5 mins😂
@@user-hotchocolate I couldn’t stop laughing 😂
Same!
Facts!!!! Great interview and what I liked about Monique she’s transparent and truthful. The black community have celebrated Oprah and what Monique have disclosed about Oprah is needed. We appreciated Oprah the journalist/ talk show icon but there’s a mean side of Oprah and Monique been trying to tell us for a long time. Oprah trifling and I can’t support that. Kevin Hart unfunny behind is another one that needs to get exposed.
Bonnets and pajamas outside are tacky. Period. She was talking about taking pride in your appearance. Not looking for acceptance. And she wasn’t talking about having a man. She said a man like MINE, because Tiffany mentioned her husband negatively. Shannon isn’t a journalist which he’s reiterated several times. Club Shay Shay is an intimate conversation between ‘friends’. I think it’s a great way to get to know the guests whereas journalists add/delete things to suit their publications narrative.
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I totally agree
I can’t see another platform allowing anyone to open up like you can on club Shay.
I really enjoyed your take however Shannon Sharpe is very vocal about not being a journalist and considers himself a conversationalist
The Tiffany read sent me
How many times these people gone tell yall about Kevin Hart before yall listen?
After watching the interview with Monique, I must say that I have gained a tremendous amount of respect for her. It's unfortunate that it took me so long to understand the challenges she has faced in the entertainment industry as a black woman, and how many other black women entertainers and black entertainers, in general, have worked against her. Her voice has been ignored for far too long, but now I am listening, and her message is loud and clear. I found her story to be compelling, authentic, and powerful. She is providing valuable insights that are helping me to navigate my own journey towards truth and setting my own boundaries. Monique is brave for speaking up about what many people are afraid to say, particularly those in Hollywood, and she is confronting the issues that have kept us in chains for over 400 years.
I can only imagine how much more Monique has to say, but is unable to due to the constraints of the industry. I want to express my gratitude to her for this interview and for standing firm in her truth regardless of who may not agree with her. She is a true inspiration and a role model for all of us. I tip my hat to you, Monique, and thank you for speaking up and demanding change.
KingofReads you have always stood Ten Toes Down for Monique! I have loved you for a Third Years and I will love you a thousand more ❤ keep fighting for Black People and Black Peace ❤
With all due respect she didn’t say any man she said if Tiffany had her MAN aka Sidney that wasn’t misogynistic nor self hatred.
It was in the same context of what she said about Shaq towards the end. About people giving relationship advice and not even in a relationship. Not that there is anything wrong with being single. She was making a point and I got it.
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I love ❤️ your perspective on the bonnets. Well, Said. Many can dish it out but can't take it.
Yes she is a GREAT story teller!! Love her voice! ❤ always on point!
No she lied
Correction. Monique is not a storyteller; she's a truth-teller. DL is a storyteller. Monique talked about business, and DL spoke about her appearance and character venomously. There’s a difference between a “contract” and a “memo,” you know that DL. Continue bucking for Vlad… 👀
However, it sounds like it was an error of the promoters as I heard somewhere that they both received a contract saying they're headlining. Sooooo...to bring up his daughter's sexual "A" based on that disagreement is an all time low. I like Monique but that I can't get down with. Then her and daddy in the video gaslighting trying to make it seem not that bad and demanding an apology. Naw, she better "stand on business" with an apology. I know DL's a man but since I am strong, black woman (who has also been SA'd). Monique would have to see me. It'll be some furniture moving around this m*thaf***a*. *in Bernie Mac's vc*
@@PYT.123 I totally get the angry that stems from using personal trauma against you. What I don't understand is why someone would share their loved one's trauma with the world. Some things arent meant for public consumption. When it's used against you, remember it's not a rumor and consider the source from which it came.
Thank you for understanding this interview, it's too many ppl responding in ignorance while not grasping the weight of what she's saying.
Yes Monique has always been truthful and she's call out names! I don't care about Taraji's tears because she should have learned to speak up!
Katt, Monique. Honestly I think we need Mark Curry next. Monique story over the past ten years has remained consistent. Tyler need to write that lady a check and if he don’t she needs to sue for defamation.
Yessss👏👏👏👏Mark Curry and after him Jaguar Wright.
All the wigs got snatched.. all of them.. all of them!
I love when Monique told Shannon “don’t be scared”… I fell out!
Just finished Club Shay Shay and I'm excited to hear your review
Will Smith did the same thing, lied on Janet Hubert and said she was difficult to work with.
Unlike Tyler Perry, he apologized
@@francinehines7765 King 👑 certainly did APOLOGIZE. 😚
1:41 I was just saying this, highly successful and wealthy people didn’t get there by being nice people, and eventually one day someone will tell it
I think the bonnets issue is about being respectable for SELF. Not necessarily for the politics. I’ve seen Monique at the Dekalb Farmers Market- she wasn’t dressed up, but definitely not in a bonnet or house slippers. Did you brush your teeth? Bathe? Are you showing up for YOURSELF? It’s about self respect and pride.
I respect myself and I’ve also gone to Walmart with some sweats on and a bonnet or durag 🤷🏽♀️
@@art2asiaright?? They literally protect your hair. That’s true self respect if you ask me, imma protect my crown no matter what strangers may think 🤷🏾♀️
Did you compare having stank breath to a wearing a bonnet 😩
@@depressedandwelldressed5489 exactly imma wear my bonnet, durag, hat, scarf, whatever the heck I want and if someone thinks because of what’s on my head that I don’t respect myself that’s they problem not mine lol I know me!
This bonnet thing is such a stupid issue to me. I’m Dominican we everywhere with our tubis (kinda our version of bonnets) and nobody gives a fck
100% love your points on responsibility, sing it to the treetops!
Also agree with your note about Mo'nique sitting with an interviewer who understands anti-blackness, misogynoir, and I'll add someone who understands fatphobia and respectability politics.
Exactly!! Auntie story never change also there’s receipts out there. Just watch those gatekeepers are going to fall.
My grandma said don’t go outside with rollers in your hair and bedroom slippers on your feet…she said it’s disrespectful to you and the presentation of yourself🤔🤔🤔she said be a good reflection of your family and those that love you…her words not mine😊
Exactly
Am I supposed to care what your grandma said? My goodness.
@@mirellalastar if you don’t love your Grandmother just say that 🤣🤣🤣
@@mirellalastarexactly she’s doing a lot projecting let ppl do them in peace
Same saying I heard and very true.❤
I believe Mo'Nique 💯
I went to school for journalism so i get what you’re saying, but i think the beauty of SS and his interview style is that he allows the interviewee to speak. He doesn’t cut people off (which is actually something Oprah does), he doesn’t lead the interview, nor does he enforce his opinion. It also helps that the interview isn’t chopped up too much and shortened, bc then no one can say “well i meant this, but you didn’t see that part bc it was cut.” You get full context. SS has a niche. Maybe Nina Parker would be a good interviewer for Mo, bc she’s a journalist and a heavier Black woman in media.
Idk why that snap shot of Kevin hart and his wife had me crying laughing. That was hilarious
Dude Monique read Tiffany haddish for filth lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Right!!!! And she said it in such a refined way-reminiscent of a dignified auntie
That was a HORRIBLE analogy on your part comparing Monique's critique on bonnets with how she handles her situations with Tyler Perry and Oprah.
You TOTALLY missed the point there.
Why would Tyler Perry’s experience with Monique be considered a rumor? Perhaps from HIS perspective she was difficult
About the bonnets. Monique said nothing wrong. It's about having self respect and dignity for yourself when you're out in public geeezus🤦🏾♀ These people literally be out here lookin crazy and not giving AF. Liiike. Monique ain't said nothing that my mamma, daddy, grandmamma, uncles and aunt's instilled in me as a child. And it had NOTING to do with white people. 🙄 huuuh. And what people think about her relationship with her husband is SICK SICK SICK.
Agreed it’s out of control
That's crazy to think that any kind of PSA to Black women is acceptable. If nobody ask your comments on their appearance, you keep your thoughts to yourself. That's basic good manners. You guys pos feel entitled to talk crazy to certain groups and I am not not having it.
❤❤❤thank you I was just about to express my feelings towards what he said because I completely disagreed with him about that. Monique was saying what I had heard growing up coming from my grandmothers. Representation, looking kept, having manners and etc... I've always been creativity and love colors and fashion; but there's a time and place for everything. I've even push boundaries for drama effects because being Black around "White Privilege". But there's always a difference. Anyways, Monique's bonnet comment was spot on 💪
I agree. It happens in other cultures though. Back in the day Latina and white women walked out with a head of curlers with a scarf over it. Now, people use that look in photo shoots to convey a certain “aesthetic”. So, please give yourselves. grace. Other groups are given the benefit of individuality - a benefit not extended to you.
Monique said what she said and I agree 💯. Thanks club shay shay for letting people speak the truth unfiltered
My understanding about OPRAH hand picking the actors for the movie was what MONIQUE said, 'but yet and still you had to audition for the part'. That still having to audition part was that the industry can treat you any kind of way, hence the way the actors were initially treated on the set of Color Purple.
Monique consistently speaks truth… she never waivers and the details always match
Yall really dragging the bonnet thing smh am I gonna go to an interview, work, church etc in a bonnet? No. Will I run to the store, ATM, my momma house in a bonnet? Absolutely. This idea that anytime you leave the house you have to look a certain way or you don’t love and respect yourself is crazy!
While sagging pants are ignored. Smh
@@lululawson1653 oh men can be outside looking a complete fool and nobody says they aren’t respecting themselves, other races can be outside looking a complete fool and it’s ok, but if a black woman has on a bonnet OMG she hates herself she doesn’t respect herself 🤣
@@lululawson1653fr
@@lululawson1653 who ignores sagging? It’s just as tacky. They still do it but doesn’t negate how foolish they look. Do what you feel but they’re one in the same.
The fact that u wouldn't go out to a MANS house like that
Or be on social media like that
But would go out any kind of way everywhere else
Is what speaks about your virtue as a woman
🥳 right now Club Shay Shay got 2 Million views in 11 hours
Update: 🥳 12 Million views
I love Shannon's "interview/non interview style." I absolutely loved seeing them both be authentic ❤
Katt and Mo’Nique’s respective interviews were both carried by them. Imagine those interviews with an interviewer who was at least slightly competent in journalism.
This interview had my attention the entire time. Great!!!❤
Don't look too unkempt. Don't look too put together. Don't wear weaves, but make sure you tame your fro. Be slim, but not skinny. Keep a bare face, but don't question being compared to nonblack women who wear makeup and the f***ing list goes on and on. Tge focus on bonnets is really ridiculous. It’s not about the bonnets, it's about people (including other black people) not thinking black women are deserving of basic human respect, so how dare we not show up in this world in a very particular way in order to earn what others get naturally. You don't like bonnets in public then don't wear them in public and look the other way when you see one. You wouldn't catch me on my worse day in a bonnet, but that's a choice I make for myself. You know, how other people should be able to make it for themselves.
Outside of the bonnet thing, I enjoyed the interview. Just so tired of everyone taking every free moment to throw a lick at black women.
This! Like people are that bothered by pjs and hair scarfs and bonnets.. who cares let others wear it if they want.
All of this love! 🙌🏾
I don’t wear sweatpants, leggings, or bonnets in public. But I don’t 💩 on other people for doing so. Because it ain’t my business and it doesn’t hurt me. Another Black person wearing a bonnet in public, isn’t going to make the whytes see me as a human. Because they won’t, and they don’t..
Thank you!
DL Hughley replied and just made me dislike him more
Right I use to respect him, but seeing how he really handled things put me off of him
Right! He didnt do anything but prove Monique right about his behavior about how he was in regards to his radio show and the things they were saying and talking about.
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DL Hughley put his foot in his mouth when attempted to clap back at MONIQUE 😂
Agreed. D.L. gives off negative energy and vibes.
FACTS. Shannon got some major bias he needs to work on. The “now you know you not supposed to record him” as the first thing he said about Tyler Perry SAYING he made up a lie about her.
I just saw another video today of him telling Saweetie, ignoring all her other accomplishments, calling her only “the girl quavo used to date” like seriously?? How SEXIST can you beeee. Read a book. Take a class, listen to women. That’s all it takes to learn
I lovedddd the interview. I went in knowing she was being honest about TP and O. I have had my challenges with Mo’Nique because of some of her comments about the bonnets, but I definitely understand, after hearing her explain it during the interview, why someone of her generation would uphold values aligned with respectability politics. Imagine if Mo’Nique was in the airport with a bonnet, the treatment that she receives given her various identities would definitely impact the perception of her. It makes sense to me and I respect an elder telling us what she feels will help people based on her own experiences. I’m not mad at it! And she should get her just due! What I do *wish*, is that celebrities would stop taking up
so much of our time and attention with their million dollar issues when people are struggling. With all this talk about *my people* I just want people with differential amount of power to use some of their social capital to help non-rich n-words change their material conditions. If we going to be about our people, I feel like that’s not an unfair ask.
when mo’nique said that Tyler Perry clapped his hands and all of his employees just scattered the room.. i gasps so loud! cos ain’t no f*cking way!
And she said her security guard looked at her when Tyler did that; and she responded, “You work for me. You don’t work for Tyler. You stay here.” LOVED IT!
That was an amazing interview.
As always, your commentary is totally on point. I am so glad that I found your channel!
Hear me out here! 😭😂 Shannon’s approach speaks middle of the road and that’s why it’s successful. He is not asking you to critically think but just enjoy. He said yall can pick up what he left! 😂 Next on Club Shay Shay. . .
The kevin hart and will pakard thing was crazy, they need to be embarrassed!! I remember when that thing happened on the set of the movie and it was on the news but people blew past it because it was Monique. They probably wanted her to get blown up along with the trailer
Tamron Hall x Monique would be a great interview.
The interviews do need to be long…thats why his channel is GOOD! We need to hear the deets in the story….his show is like listening to friends talk….that’s why I like it…plus we need to get our attention span back! And the show still got millions of views even being as long as it is! if I want an interview style where they don’t let you tell the whole story, I’ll watch Barbara walters re-runs
This was a well-rounded review of interview
Monique ❤
The Breakfast Club apologized after her interview.... that spoke volume And she didn't need a journalist
Lol I almost choked on my cereal w the Kevin and his rib pic insert lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Damn that. I agree with her on pajamas, bonnets and house shoes. It looks like you didn't bathe before you left the house.
I just watched the interview and it was great! I believe her story is consistent because it’s true.
Justin, in the real world the bonnet is an issue. I know people in HR who have literally interviewed people in bonnets and No they did not hire them. Monique is Correct. It’s out of control and it’s not cute. I’m an 80’s baby and I don’t know anyone my age who could have left home like that
Can’t wait to see who’s next
The bonnet thing has nothing to do with respectability. This is a woman thing. It’s tacky period. When any other race wear pjs and slippers outside they look a mess too. It’s not wrong to think people should pull themselves together and act like you have some decorum by not wearing bed clothing outside.
Exactly. Like, why would you even want to go outside looking like that. Tacky tacky tacky
This reminds me of the 1st Black Cadet at West Point where he had to ask for permission to sit and eat dinner with other Cadets and was still denied as he moved from table to table asking for permission to just sit and eat. This is very much similar to today.
I felt that! The things some of our people have had to endure including violence and/or rejection in order to leave a mark, makes me weep!
No what Monique said was Tiffany said she wouldn't have a husband like Monique's husbands. It was about insulting Monique's husband while NOT having one at all
Now people still want to be calling her a lair because DL opened his big mouth and said so.
Right! and those people need to go do some fact checking because DL was speaking from a place of guilt and lying his own self he said she was lying but wont specific about what she was lying about him hurling insults at her dont take away from what Monique said it just make DL look like what Mo nique described him to be. And for the people saying Monique was wrong for bringing up his daughter DL been spoke on the story about his daughter Mo just repeated what DL had already told the world for the people that follow and listen to him. A hit dog will holler and that's what DL did.
Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy you cackling in that thumbnail. It's lovely to see you smile
Protect Katt Williams and Mo’Nique !!
Tiffany opened the door and spoke on Monique’s husband so she got exactly what She deserved
This was really great commentary ❤
DL basically confirmed what Monique said in her interview, he just wanted to roast her for outing him. I stand with Monique cause her story has been consistent and she has the receipts to prove it. It's also kind of disheartening how when Katt spoke his peace almost everyone believed him off rip but when Monique does she needs proof and to let go of her issues with these people
And I was happy to hear that in both Katt and Monique's interview both said that Bernie Mac was a real one 💪🏾
I loved the interview and it really spoke to me in a lot of ways, especially bc of a situation I am going through right now was a BW.
However, I do think there was some internalized misogyny sprinkled throughout. I appreciate her husband helped her grow especially bc of how she said she was. But, I felt like throughout the conversation there was still this underlying thread of needing a man to teach us or train us and put us in our place. Its great when you have a man that can help you but many times its the woman helping the man, especially in our community. I wanted to just think she meant you need a strong man that allows you fall into a submissive role if you want but it felt like a little more than that. Like when she said at the end how BW are conditioned to fight BM and we have to let them be and thats why they go to WW. Ik the last part was in jest but in that comment and many others it seemed like there was some male-centeredness going on that I see a lot among BM. We get a man and eventually acquiescence entirely to a male perspective.