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  • @zoejeza2804
    @zoejeza2804 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    This situation is deep.
    I was raised by my grandmother and believe you me...the pain of being rejected by your biological parent is a pain that cuts deep.
    In 2009 I searched and met my parents and mmmm what I can say is that I wish I had never done that.
    Because what I experienced after that is worse than when I didn't know them.
    Even now I'm with my kids and husband...my parents have other kids who hates me and my brother and there's no contact whatsoever towards me and my parents. Not because I don't want to...but the love if it's not there...there's nothing that any child can do.
    What helped my anger and bitterness is God. And church was my safe place. If it was not for that I could've been a mess by now because I know what that pain does to a child.
    Parents one day will answer to God for not playing their part in their kids life.

    • @yolisandamase1958
      @yolisandamase1958 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Uxolo maarn.... Sending you hugs❤️❤️❤️

    • @isiphilendakisa1440
      @isiphilendakisa1440 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you for sharing your story ❤️❤️❤️

    • @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6
      @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Be thankful to Almighty God that you did not turn out to be a monster🙏as people we handle stress differently 😭 now we understand why some people can behave differently from others.

    • @pertuniamalatji3315
      @pertuniamalatji3315 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Be strong God loves you my dear ❤

    • @zoejeza2804
      @zoejeza2804 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6 ooooh Yes amen. I'm grateful to God and my grandmother. Now I am married to a Pastor...I am a mother to many that had the same experience like me...and I love them dearly. I have so much compassion even for those sleeping under the bridge. My brother on the other hand...I'm always praying for him...he's a very bright guy, talented, very polite and everything, he had a good job but he ended up smoking nyaope but he doesn't steal, kill or rape...instead he has a car wash for taxi drivers and uses that money to buy nyaope...this year he really wants to change his life. We're organizing a rehab for him so that he can be a better person. It has not been easy for him but we love each other and nyani I believe he will come out of this stronger.

  • @jellybite1
    @jellybite1 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    What I find strange is how people keep talking about TB being "abandoned" by his mother when it's common practice for young mothers to leave their kids IN THE CARE of their grandparents while they go work....

    • @sbongisenincube8899
      @sbongisenincube8899 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not common practice hey

    • @jellybite1
      @jellybite1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@sbongisenincube8899 dude, it is....kids, since the ages, have been raised by their grandparents 😒.... working mothers get maternity leave for 3 months and head right back to work, leaving the new born baby with a nanny/at daycare/ with family.... it's pretty common.
      How did this woman abandon her child?

    • @giagia4631
      @giagia4631 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It’s common practice, but clearly not ok in all cases

    • @sicelomhlongo1718
      @sicelomhlongo1718 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nah she neglected Thabo. We also stayed with our grandparents but our parents would visit every time so we could get used to them, communicate with us through telephone.

    • @Sharlen_
      @Sharlen_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not okay.

  • @ZuidAfrikaanseMense
    @ZuidAfrikaanseMense ปีที่แล้ว +152

    This reporter deserves an award.only her and Groundup reporters are helping us joining the dots.
    Big up to you guys.

    • @PhumlaniSawula-kg9uv
      @PhumlaniSawula-kg9uv ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She only forgot to ask the real name.

    • @duchessdame150
      @duchessdame150 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@PhumlaniSawula-kg9uv his mother referred to him as Thabo, i was like oh it is his real name

    • @katlegomorake1297
      @katlegomorake1297 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PhumlaniSawula-kg9uv I believe his real name is Thabo, but I doubt he is "Bester" maybe he created that one himself and didn't want to use his own surname

    • @thandipiri3197
      @thandipiri3197 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Katlego Morake Bester is his real surname as the mother is saying in the interview. Its his granny's surname

  • @Controversial487
    @Controversial487 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    She is actually such a hero for refusing to have his body cremated.

  • @emmapbogatsu1362
    @emmapbogatsu1362 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    One thing that I have learned from this story is that I must start loving my kids even more ...my son and my daughter...how you raise your kids..will surely affect the m when they grow up..this is a sad story...imagine that beautiful educated woman doing all this things...a Dr iyoo...watching from Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @mapitsorangaka1030
    @mapitsorangaka1030 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Shem bester has a tough upbringing ,how on earth would the mother unashamedly say she lost track of her son since one year ? ao bathong , mme ?

    • @Coudz-x4e
      @Coudz-x4e ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Still it doesn't mean you should misbehave

    • @belleramaisa6568
      @belleramaisa6568 ปีที่แล้ว

      As if he does have a father, where is his father? He clearly lost track of him since birth

    • @Zamanda333
      @Zamanda333 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      On another interview, she mentions she was raped to get Thabo. She obviously didn't want to give up her child or abort him, but she was also going through. Rape trauma doesn't just go away....stop blaming the poor woman.

  • @mandles
    @mandles ปีที่แล้ว +64

    It's sad how Thabo became the same monster his father was😢

    • @mrsmylove8448
      @mrsmylove8448 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Generational curse. I hope he doesn't have any off spring

    • @raymondsteyn408
      @raymondsteyn408 ปีที่แล้ว

      The mother could have been prostituting how do you know. Did not register the son but blamed her employer not wanting to give her time off from work... Sounds like all these sad stories from sections of all societies trying to escape blame.

    • @mandles
      @mandles ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raymondsteyn408 I SAID DON'T BELIEVE HER!!!

  • @francinawittes5399
    @francinawittes5399 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    He grew up with anger ,that's y he hate women like that her mother didn't gives him love at all 😢💔

    • @bridges5659
      @bridges5659 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe he was born from the arse hole.

    • @jaydeKohinoor
      @jaydeKohinoor ปีที่แล้ว

      not a reason to be a rapist.

    • @talkativelindy2531
      @talkativelindy2531 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes it makes sense now that I think about it

    • @user-ez9en7vk2z
      @user-ez9en7vk2z ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It might be so. Does that justify murder?

    • @user-ez9en7vk2z
      @user-ez9en7vk2z ปีที่แล้ว

      Its like saying black people wasnt to friendly or overjoyed then whites gave them apartheid.....

  • @hannah50353
    @hannah50353 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Parents need to be held accountable for their children’s behaviour as well as the children themselves. Unacceptable to keep passing the blame one to the other.

    • @willie2036
      @willie2036 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I don't fully support u bro,children of today are different from yesteryr's. They simply don't heed their parents, atleast majority of the youths

    • @belleramaisa6568
      @belleramaisa6568 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Parents are not perfect, no one is. Thabo is an adult. He made choices. We all do.

    • @kangroupsa3558
      @kangroupsa3558 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Unfortunately parents also go through abandonment, rejection and poverty from their own parents without getting any help, hence vicious circle.

    • @nawa240
      @nawa240 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are not serious

    • @kangroupsa3558
      @kangroupsa3558 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im serious!! i pray that they all heal, so they will stop hurting each other and other people.

  • @khulekanindlovu8293
    @khulekanindlovu8293 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This woman is responsible for this character it’s obvious he hates women

    • @lovemoredhliwyo4994
      @lovemoredhliwyo4994 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      she was busy that's why the boy is ruthless

    • @luphelele
      @luphelele ปีที่แล้ว

      People have been raised by grandmothers before and didn't rape women. You don't know her circumstances

    • @jamez1224
      @jamez1224 ปีที่แล้ว

      I heard on radio that he’s actually a result of rape, she doesn’t know who the dad is or where he is

    • @Coudz-x4e
      @Coudz-x4e ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You choose how to behave stop blaming people for bad behavior and where is the father ? Quick to blame the mother

    • @khulekanindlovu8293
      @khulekanindlovu8293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Coudz-x4e me blaming her mother doesn’t mean you can’t blame her father. The guy is a sociopath because it’s obvious that his behaviour was sparked by his life experiences

  • @tearyb
    @tearyb ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Mother says she not seen her son since he was a kid, where was she all this time. She abandoned him like so many in certain societies do. Grandmothers are the dumping ground for unwanted children. Shame.

    • @dimam9938
      @dimam9938 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe because she was raped 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @truthkhala5291
      @truthkhala5291 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bester was conceived through rape according to other sources. The mother herself I want to believe was going through a lot

    • @mandles
      @mandles ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thabo is a product of rape, people deal with it differently, it could've been worse if she stayed to raise him, just have a heart

    • @simplythullyk8171
      @simplythullyk8171 ปีที่แล้ว

      She literally got raped. It's traumatic to not only be raped but to have to live with the results, in this case, in human form. That's painful

    • @EduEmpowerPtyLtd-sn1hz
      @EduEmpowerPtyLtd-sn1hz ปีที่แล้ว

      She says he was a product of rape

  • @Qveeqvee
    @Qveeqvee ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I pray this woman can be protected 🙏

  • @cliffordmulaudzi3503
    @cliffordmulaudzi3503 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The mother is not telling the truth serious

    • @thandombatha8242
      @thandombatha8242 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Which truth 🥹

    • @itueclat
      @itueclat ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My thoughts exactly. I'm also thinking she might not even be the mother.

    • @appiahallan
      @appiahallan ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @nomcebomabuza2444
      @nomcebomabuza2444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you

  • @PrincessVelaryon
    @PrincessVelaryon ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Not everyone should have kids, just because they can. It's best to ask yourself what you have to offer a child before bringing one into this world. His upbringing or lack thereof definitely contributed to who he became.

    • @LT_Just
      @LT_Just ปีที่แล้ว +18

      On the other interview, she says Bestor is a product of rape.
      I think its on Carte Blanche

    • @teeslife2408
      @teeslife2408 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@LT_Justreally 😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @PrincessVelaryon
      @PrincessVelaryon ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LT_Just that's sad. Maybe that's why she left him when he was young. Crazy how he was the product of rape and then grows up to be a rapist.

    • @patiencemncube592
      @patiencemncube592 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@LT_Just yes that's why she doesn't know the father

    • @phindidube9326
      @phindidube9326 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was raped

  • @pamellayantolo3797
    @pamellayantolo3797 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you for the continuous update.

  • @mogamatismail5961
    @mogamatismail5961 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    This is the result of kids having kids one after the other, then leave it with their grandma to raise, then move away to the big city, and never bother to even check up on the kids....until the next baby, who is also send to grandma....

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams ปีที่แล้ว

      Thabo is a product of rape, according to his mother

    • @user-ez9en7vk2z
      @user-ez9en7vk2z ปีที่แล้ว

      Its seem 2 be a cultural thing in that part of the world. If you can't add value you 4nicate....

    • @sushelarajkumar367
      @sushelarajkumar367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is nothing new it's going on 4 many decade's now n will continue 2 do so
      We need 2 appoint a MINISTER to come on board

    • @belleramaisa6568
      @belleramaisa6568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As if he does have a father, where is his father?

    • @nomsantombifuthi7792
      @nomsantombifuthi7792 ปีที่แล้ว

      I saw a clip of her saying, she was raped and she gave birth to Thabo

  • @neotsebe706
    @neotsebe706 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You're right. I've been enjoying Slidile's reporting around this. I even feel like I know her now 😅

  • @josiahmanganyi6917
    @josiahmanganyi6917 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Government must take some action to deal with parents who dont look after their Kids!

    • @neldanovela4200
      @neldanovela4200 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true

    • @silavajune
      @silavajune ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thabo is a product of a very brutal rape. The mom doesn’t know the father and barely escaped with her life. Check all your facts before judgment

    • @vusimuzisibande779sibande2
      @vusimuzisibande779sibande2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@silavajune ilike her coz she didn't abort him so lets not blame her some of you can't keep achild so dont looks innoncent here woman of these days are crazy

    • @silavajune
      @silavajune ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vusimuzisibande779sibande2 I am 32 years of age. In optimal health, don’t have kids/ baby daddy. Never had an abortion because I am careful and a prestine planner. I don’t think you are referring to me 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @lungaradebe9120
    @lungaradebe9120 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mmmm Thabo went through a lot at his young age...SA lost a brightest mind in him

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    KUNINGI...and it keeps getting kuningier 😮

  • @charlz360
    @charlz360 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was the problem kids being raised by grandparents. Old days was due to apartheid but this culture is still going on even when the parents are well off. Why don't you be a present parent, and i am speaking as well on fathers that just pay maintenance and has no involvement raising a child. And visa versa

    • @gu2755
      @gu2755 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so deep 🙏🏽

  • @pertuniamalatji3315
    @pertuniamalatji3315 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Now I understand why he is so heartless he never experienced love at all,parents give your children love so that they can grow and be able to love themselves and other human beings this sad shem 😢😢😢

    • @yoliswambebe619
      @yoliswambebe619 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, he chose to do the things he did/ doing. So many kids raised by both parents but choose to live on the streets doing nyaope, everyone of us choose to be regardless of where your parents are .

    • @amogelangselota
      @amogelangselota ปีที่แล้ว

      still no excuse for raping ppl

    • @Qveeqvee
      @Qveeqvee ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This woman loved her son, but if you've never tasted poverty, it will not make sence

    • @Kat00133
      @Kat00133 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree

  • @khosimbulawa3165
    @khosimbulawa3165 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not being raised by your parents is not an excuse,to commit crime is a choice.
    I lost contact with both my parents in 1987 when i was 10yrs,after their divorce.
    After 19yrs i met them again as a fully grown man,a wife and my children.
    I never committed crime.

    • @foundgrace82
      @foundgrace82 ปีที่แล้ว

      People are wired differently😊

    • @TempermentalTart
      @TempermentalTart ปีที่แล้ว

      @@foundgrace82 yes, and for those wired for psychopathy they need to be in prison. No excuse.

    • @TempermentalTart
      @TempermentalTart ปีที่แล้ว

      You are the voice of reason. It’s disturbing seeing all the excuses for this guy.

  • @thabanidube7314
    @thabanidube7314 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If Bester didn’t have access to lots of money, Dr Nandipha wld not be running with away with him

  • @AngelaShikwambana
    @AngelaShikwambana ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This woman needs to be held accountable for the role she played... Make contact with who for what?? She abandoned him as a baby and now she wants his money

    • @kangroupsa3558
      @kangroupsa3558 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your mom will always be your mom. Also consider the circumstances she grow under. When you know better, you do better.

    • @user-iy1xz6or9m
      @user-iy1xz6or9m ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok maybe she was raped and got pregnant. That happens so often in the black community.

    • @musajohannessithole8970
      @musajohannessithole8970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was raped when she was 15yrs old. Why not trace the rapist.

    • @nompumelelomillicent9286
      @nompumelelomillicent9286 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kangroupsa3558 the double standards i cannot fathom, each to their own i guess.

  • @sallynhlanhla
    @sallynhlanhla ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yes, Slindile is doing really well. You ladies look great.

  • @sandrahorstmann9013
    @sandrahorstmann9013 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It seems like no one is asking the true questions and no one wants us to get the true answers.

  • @makay3287
    @makay3287 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sad plight of many poor Black South Africans..especially women...some thrive and overcome but for others its not the case! #Thabo'sMother

    • @belleramaisa6568
      @belleramaisa6568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As if he does have a father, where is his father?

  • @babasimba2457
    @babasimba2457 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This story is bigger than what we're hearing
    The way they're tearing down Bester's mother 😮😮

    • @belleramaisa6568
      @belleramaisa6568 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly. As if he does have a father, where is his father? She came toward at least, and provided a roof over his head. People can be so ungrateful

    • @babasimba2457
      @babasimba2457 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@belleramaisa6568 my problem is I didn't hear her say she hasn't seen him since he was a baby

    • @HoneyBeeBee
      @HoneyBeeBee ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@belleramaisa6568 His father is an Indian man that raped her😓. So this rape thing is in his blood...

  • @siphakanyiswansebeshe901
    @siphakanyiswansebeshe901 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    So the mother managed to stop Nandipha from the process of cremation...meaning eventually the mother and family managed to burry the body of the " alleged Bester" ...how did state release the corpse to be buried while DNA results were pending. This must be a movie

    • @makgongoanaphoshoko1128
      @makgongoanaphoshoko1128 ปีที่แล้ว

      They were not allowed to take the body since the DNA didnt match

    • @andilememela4647
      @andilememela4647 ปีที่แล้ว

      Last I checked, the body was in gov mortuary & were planning to (1) send it to Pretoria lab, where they will process it further or (2) bury the body in a pauper grave

  • @kauejaovetoo4733
    @kauejaovetoo4733 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for the subtitles

  • @TumiSelepe
    @TumiSelepe ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How sure are we that she is Thabos mom??

  • @tell.A.vision
    @tell.A.vision ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The other Bester mother has a coloured accent and speaks Sotho... Hayi please respect us

  • @misjay24
    @misjay24 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What if she is not even the real mother?? As a mother you lost track of your own son for years only to see on TV. Childhood trauma

    • @Ladynilow
      @Ladynilow ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I beg , I have no idea where my half brother is - he was in and out of jail till I stopped caring
      We all had a difficult childhood with our dad dying while we were kids , but so what ? So what if you had a tough childhood??, so did half the world !! But we not out there killing and raping are we ?

    • @user-iy1xz6or9m
      @user-iy1xz6or9m ปีที่แล้ว

      she was raped and had him. Maybe she should of aborted him

  • @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6
    @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    It's a sad story and tough upbringing for Bester.😢These is a lesson to us as parents to love and support our kids, where is the father? It seems as if now the mother is carrying this baggage alone😢

    • @LT_Just
      @LT_Just ปีที่แล้ว +14

      From a Clip I saw on Carte Blanche interview, she says Thabo is a product a rape. She says she doesn't know how she even got out of that situation alive.

    • @Zamanda333
      @Zamanda333 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was raped remember....?

    • @TempermentalTart
      @TempermentalTart ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LT_Just that explains a lot.

  • @trza100
    @trza100 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just here for the power suit 😅 thanks for the awesome reporting Slindile 💪🏿💪🏿

  • @Stizo2002
    @Stizo2002 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This story gets ridiculous every day.

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Did you guys ask her to confirm if that was her son's real name?

    • @TheCrazyChannel281
      @TheCrazyChannel281 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But it's already said that Bester was a scam name that he was using on Facebook. They also said his real name on one of the News videos.

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheCrazyChannel281 The mother confirmed that indeed he was born as Thabo Bester

    • @ivodiagwala8260
      @ivodiagwala8260 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is interviewed elsewhere , she said it's his real name .

  • @tech_with_kat
    @tech_with_kat ปีที่แล้ว +14

    how can you trust someone who left a kid of 1 year

  • @ruthjonestitus-sb3jn
    @ruthjonestitus-sb3jn ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is Thabo Bester not a coloured Guy?

  • @sindimatrix
    @sindimatrix ปีที่แล้ว +7

    In North Korea she, Thabo and her mother would have been in prison!

    • @moleedaboi
      @moleedaboi ปีที่แล้ว

      Prison? They would be executed...

    • @teeslife2408
      @teeslife2408 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately this is not Korea 😅

  • @mzee5533
    @mzee5533 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    There’s nothing best for your child when as a parent abandon a year old child and go out to mjolo. She’s nonsense this mother

  • @93events28
    @93events28 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Something off with this mother.

  • @thathappened2009
    @thathappened2009 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Seriously following. We need a serious interview from the mother. Gather questions from us guys

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @sakabula2357
      @sakabula2357 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes...what is his real name is the question that comes to mind first..

    • @lulekasakwe7381
      @lulekasakwe7381 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sakabula2357 That’s question that I always ask myself,that what is his really name

    • @lulekasakwe7381
      @lulekasakwe7381 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sakabula2357 th-cam.com/video/QJfe1DlEP1k/w-d-xo.html

    • @sakabula2357
      @sakabula2357 ปีที่แล้ว

      @lulekasakwe7381 next he will be Jan van der Merwe..lol

  • @Noks-i3e
    @Noks-i3e ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Inganekwane 😥😥😥

  • @modestaavula295
    @modestaavula295 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Is this even the real mother?🤦🏾 yoh the way I’m overthinking everything, at this point they’ll find him and I’ll still wonder if his the real Thabo😭🤦🏾

  • @evolution405
    @evolution405 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Let the child brought by granny, never saw him until TV appearance.
    What a nerve😱which "mother" would want to see her child dead, don't know whom to trust.
    Shame on you old lady
    To a great extent I feel sorry for that product of parental negligence obviously not condoning his actions.

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams ปีที่แล้ว

      The mother mentioned that Thabo is a product of rape

    • @kangroupsa3558
      @kangroupsa3558 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bare in mind, nothing has been said about how the Mom was brought up herself😔

    • @truthkhala5291
      @truthkhala5291 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bester according to his mom is a product of rape. The mother wanted to give away the child for adoption n granny said no she will raise the child. Then Bester was raised by his granny until granny passed away from there onwards Bester raised himself

    • @user-iy1xz6or9m
      @user-iy1xz6or9m ปีที่แล้ว

      She was raped by a black man and had him. I don't blame her

  • @tebogomathibane402
    @tebogomathibane402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Leaving our kids with their grandmothers is also wrong.

  • @funananitshivhase2984
    @funananitshivhase2984 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She did her best as a mother,stop crusifyinh her

  • @nomzivilakazi72
    @nomzivilakazi72 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    SHE DDNT LOOK FOR HER CHILD ALL THS YEARS NXH .😮

  • @Kat00133
    @Kat00133 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was thinking the same. We have no idea what has driven him to do these crimes.

  • @fasterfene9849
    @fasterfene9849 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Like Bushiri he probably already left the country 😤😤😤

  • @emmanuelsebua1445
    @emmanuelsebua1445 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Symptoms of fatherless homes

    • @IsabellaS967
      @IsabellaS967 ปีที่แล้ว

      Symptoms of rapist fathers and women being blamed for their rape. Bester owe is a product of rape

  • @nduminjingolo934
    @nduminjingolo934 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wait a minute this is confusing kanti who is Tabo Bester! How come is this woman know him as Tabo Bester whereas there is someone claiming to have lost his id who is the real Tabo , what is all this!!!

  • @keamogetswentombela3002
    @keamogetswentombela3002 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can we please have Thabo Besters real name in the next interview with the grandmother.

    • @tabithaThabiey
      @tabithaThabiey ปีที่แล้ว

      Grandmother passed on , some other interview the mom said it his real name " Thabo Bester"

    • @keamogetswentombela3002
      @keamogetswentombela3002 ปีที่แล้ว

      Condolences 🙏
      This guy has stolen so many identities, we'll need an unabridged birth certificate 😆 lol
      This guy is not make sure

  • @Siphokaziable
    @Siphokaziable ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why didn't she visit him in prison?

  • @ChrisBrits-ms4le
    @ChrisBrits-ms4le ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where does surname Bester come from???

  • @yolandadeborahdon-pierrot2280
    @yolandadeborahdon-pierrot2280 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Show respect please.His mom is innocent and doesn't deserve all of this exposure.

  • @itueclat
    @itueclat ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So the mother confirms that "Thabo Bester" is his real birth name?🤔

    • @babasimba2457
      @babasimba2457 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂I also thought it's his rapist nickname

    • @babasimba2457
      @babasimba2457 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or stage name 😂😂😂😂

  • @combrutum
    @combrutum ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Where is pappa?

    • @katshiesumbana5133
      @katshiesumbana5133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Watch the EWN Exclusive interview uploaded 05/04/2023 for that detail.

  • @nonhlanhlamzimela-su1hb
    @nonhlanhlamzimela-su1hb ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why ubuza umama ngesingisi wena

  • @amandajanuary9338
    @amandajanuary9338 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @Sli you are doing the things girl

  • @nomsamkhize2241
    @nomsamkhize2241 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    REMEMBER!!
    SPIRITS ARE REAL...AS PARENTS WE CAN'T CONTROL WHO OUR KIDS MIGHT BECOME IN LIFE UNFORTUNATELY!!
    SORRY MAMA THAT YOUR SON BECAME WHO HE IS TODAY...😐

    • @hannah50353
      @hannah50353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are taking the easy way out, by declaring a lack of responsibility from parents.

  • @Nthabeleng507
    @Nthabeleng507 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Also… while at the interview with the “mother” didn’t they ask the real name of this person?? 😂SA is a joke. They know this guy has never used real name. We are starting to even doubt that this was even the real mother interviewed. Ay✋🏾😕

  • @Thee740
    @Thee740 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You can’t abandon your child like that and expect them to come aright.

    • @kangroupsa3558
      @kangroupsa3558 ปีที่แล้ว

      It could be that, she was young herself when she had him, with no proper upbringing or support system.

  • @belleramaisa6568
    @belleramaisa6568 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why is she holding a phone?

  • @dikeledijane8186
    @dikeledijane8186 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where's his father he is got anger of been rejected while men continues to runaway from their kids, this is the results

  • @realnews8075
    @realnews8075 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This mother is a deep liar....

  • @marvinmm4325
    @marvinmm4325 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Parents who abandon their kids deserve no remorse

  • @mcec_ptyltd
    @mcec_ptyltd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For heaven sake she is compromised after all. She is suffering from a stroke ;if it was your parents ...would you be judging them and assuming that they are guilty...??? Nonsense

  • @thembimaseko9600
    @thembimaseko9600 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's what most children are growing up in South Africa depending on their grandmother grants infact sixty percent of boys and girls their fathers are not known.

    • @Sheesh-b7m
      @Sheesh-b7m ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where did u get yo stats oe? 60%?!

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams ปีที่แล้ว

      Thabo's father is allegedly a rapist. The mother confirmed in one of the interviews that Thabo is a product of rape

  • @shelleydavis5231
    @shelleydavis5231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lots of babies are sent to Gogo to take care of unfortunately

  • @kemisosefatsane9476
    @kemisosefatsane9476 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kanthe what's this guy's Name?

  • @GossiphiveEnt
    @GossiphiveEnt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have so many questions, so is Thabo Bester his real name?

  • @lovemoredhliwyo4994
    @lovemoredhliwyo4994 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    what a corrupt country

  • @shantal1430
    @shantal1430 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Everyone keeps going on about Bester. How about putting up a post/articles pics of the victims ..headline it * never forgotten *

    • @asive_dimpho
      @asive_dimpho ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No why you want such unnecessary attention of the victims that are trying to move on from the horror and tragedy called Thabo Bester hayi anicabangi sometimes 🚮

    • @shantal1430
      @shantal1430 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@asive_dimpho you missing the point ...it not unnecessary attention...it is to remind the public of the one lost ...the see ti be never forgotten ...this doesn't shame the victim but give the family hope that justice must be served..this Bester cannot get away with his horrible crime ...

    • @PrincessVelaryon
      @PrincessVelaryon ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Shantal I get what you mean. But this world has a morbid fascination with killers unfortunately.

    • @asive_dimpho
      @asive_dimpho ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We know exactly who got lost as the public now we seeking for Thabo to serve his sentence very soon because we don't know how many victims his made within this prison break, we already know his guilty the only way the families will heal is when his found and not when their privacy is invaded by the public AGAIN. It was enough during his trial they don't need to relive public opinion again.

    • @shantal1430
      @shantal1430 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Asive Jack sad ... nobody should be judged so harshly no matter what! Non if those girls deserved to be raped and murdered no matter the person or their past, they were human beings .. Someone's child ....

  • @nwabisa2196
    @nwabisa2196 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thabo needs parental love ❤ I feel sorry for him & is in a difficult situation

    • @clivepilusa7734
      @clivepilusa7734 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me guess.... Youre a man

    • @hannah50353
      @hannah50353 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately, it's too late now, his mother dumped him as a baby and never looked back. Not even today does she accept responsibility.

  • @ferozapage7937
    @ferozapage7937 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    And confusious says🤔question..real thabo?what real name..if mother did not see him since was little...everyday becoming more confusing...🙈

  • @gcinapersevervance1504
    @gcinapersevervance1504 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Slindile❤❤. You're doing an amazing job!!🎉

  • @winstonnorton5441
    @winstonnorton5441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sound quality of the actual news is most of the time very soft compared to the ads.

  • @rare748
    @rare748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The other trauma is coming with Magudumana's children when they grow up and find out their mother dropped them off and chose to 🏃‍♀️ run away with a jail bird leaving them behind. They will never recover.

  • @tebogogladystladi7129
    @tebogogladystladi7129 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What was the reason of visiting Thabo's mothers?She said she suffered stroke because of the previous incidences. Is she not going to suffer the second stroke.?

  • @babyhuey1656
    @babyhuey1656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    south african mothers are worst they leave their kids with neighbours,grandmothers or even strangers and they go and leave in urban areas and start new lives drinking parting and even re marrying and they wont turn back everytime i watch khumbulekhaya my heart melts i then ask myself why get pregnant when you not ready to be a mother and their kids resort to drugs and crime due to pressures of life. And come to think of it the grant which they are given by the government is not enough to take care of their children Bester is an example of an abandoned child the mother doesnt even know at what point bester left her grandmother its shocking

  • @mikelkgoedi9568
    @mikelkgoedi9568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    its surprising owning a company that makes a billion lump sum but his parent lives low life, can someone explain that to me. this was plan he either moved his parent to community so tht a state cant spot his mission. arrest my case.

  • @SimpleLawinSouthAfrica
    @SimpleLawinSouthAfrica ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is not the mother to this monster

  • @lulekasakwe7381
    @lulekasakwe7381 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The mother is not telling the truth,she knew that her son escaped from prison and live lavish life,she needs to be more investigated and put pressure,coz at the end she will ended telling the truth

    • @thandombatha8242
      @thandombatha8242 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If she knew she was gonna allow cremation without questioning anything.
      The truth is not what we want the story to be its what is true😅 so we wont recognize the actual truth even if it hit us on the face in this case

    • @teeslife2408
      @teeslife2408 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎉

    • @lulekasakwe7381
      @lulekasakwe7381 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thandombatha8242 I can be sure that she knew,but it wouldn’t be easy to go and report her son,
      Am sure he did not support him to all wrong things he has done,I believe that she knew,

    • @lulekasakwe7381
      @lulekasakwe7381 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thandombatha8242 th-cam.com/video/QJfe1DlEP1k/w-d-xo.html

    • @thandombatha8242
      @thandombatha8242 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lulekasakwe7381 being sure and suspecting are two different things lol they had no relationship so its hard to say

  • @lethukuthulamthiyane1186
    @lethukuthulamthiyane1186 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bester is a rejected child...💔

  • @bandilemaphala4578
    @bandilemaphala4578 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And they they say men are trash...
    Homie was neglected and his mom didn't check on him.. from 1year...
    No guys

    • @phathuasante
      @phathuasante ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Where’s the father?

    • @bandilemaphala4578
      @bandilemaphala4578 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@phathuasante Hai those ones we gave up on long ago. But not mama guys.. 🙁

    • @elizabethbaloyi7179
      @elizabethbaloyi7179 ปีที่แล้ว

      The mother says Thabo Bester is a product of rape. I saw this in some other news Channel, where they interviewed the mother.

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams ปีที่แล้ว

      He was a child of rape

    • @CbosEasyRecipes7
      @CbosEasyRecipes7 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@phathuasante Apparently he is a child born from r@p3 as per another interview. So the father won't be in the picture I guess due to that trauma

  • @evankya1955
    @evankya1955 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rejection! He was battling rejection! Dr Nandipa should count herself lucky, it was just a question of time Bester would have harm her to death

  • @motherslovedaycare7946
    @motherslovedaycare7946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But lomama kodwa. Is she the real mom? I think DNA test must be done

  • @othomile
    @othomile ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wow this one cuts deep... oh God, Bester wa modimo was valnurable to being used by dark forces because of the positions he was put in as a baby while his brain and entire being was forming.. smh nx nx nx

  • @ntandoyenkosicele5196
    @ntandoyenkosicele5196 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No man something doesn't add up here.....wasn't he arrested in his teens and let out to be in custody of his parents? That young pic of him in the car?? Why does the mom claim he was off the radar since childhood until his Facebook crimes were revealed?

  • @feliciamuzo204
    @feliciamuzo204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The mother is responsible for his behavior...he rejected that boy.... baby boys come out correct especially if their mothers are in their lives..😢

  • @tshembhamaluleke5234
    @tshembhamaluleke5234 ปีที่แล้ว

    This one is much better because the old lady is speaking using her language

  • @bluecouchpodcast24
    @bluecouchpodcast24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So Thabo is Half Indian Half Black?

  • @willie2036
    @willie2036 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But the mother is innocent. No parent tells children to kill pipo for instance

  • @NkulleGumede
    @NkulleGumede ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can we can the full interview?

  • @freddymanochakubayi8213
    @freddymanochakubayi8213 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the lady is part of this movie , unless if she is not the biological mother

  • @azaniaplug1461
    @azaniaplug1461 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is just a plain cover up story!

  • @bennymab
    @bennymab ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would she be threatened. The only person who can threaten her is her son.