I feel your pain sister. Thank you for being vulnerable. This too shall pass. There is light at the end of the tunnel This is my story even though I’m still in the marriage. I will Dm you
My dear Augusta, i totally understood everything that you are going through as a single mother struggling with 4 children. I went through the same but trust me it will eventually get better once the kids are out of college. Try to focus more on yourself by socialize, attend parties/weddings and travel too. You might consider talking to your doctor about your feelings or it might be due to hormonal too. Best wishes 😊.
Na so life be my darling sister, i was same some times back, but now God has helped me through. God be with you and you will eat the fruit of your labour IJMN. Remain strong and stay blessed ❤
Truth be told, you said it all. It's really hard being a single mum. I am so encouraged by your various content that you are indeed a blessing to me. Thank you so much for all you do much-loved ❤
It’s called a down time Augusta. At one point or the other in our lives we all experience this situation were things are going fine in every aspect of our lives but we still feel an unexplainable sadness. It’s a phase and it’ll pass just stay strong. Sending you tons of hugs and strength sis ❤❤🫂🫂
9 years doing the job alone as a single mother,child's father doesn't want any contact with me or the child,sometimes it's heartbreaking but when i see my child i dust myself and keep moving.
It happens to most people sometimes. Certain news etc can cause this. Thanks for being open. For two weeks now I ve been in reclusive just getting out of it.
Augusta thank you for this video. Many people are struggling with these issues, both married and single. I can totally relate. Sometimes it can get really overwhelming. God help us all.
My dear only God can truly understand what you are going through. It’s truly not an easy journey and I am happy you were comfortable enough to share with us. You definitely need a break. Sending you lots of love, warm hugs and light. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️. I will put you in my prayers.
O yea Augusta , I get you,in same situation and all I can say to you is God is your strength hmm. Court case caused me over £14,000 of 5yrs dragging just because he wants to use my daughter to stay in the country (a child he never wanted in the first place) But you know what? Justice will always prevail and evil doers will get their reward it may take long but they will get it.
Don't beat yourself up. I understand exactly what you are saying, and it happens to the best of us. Thank you for being vulnerable. This is the first step to turning things around. I know exactly how you feel. Hang on in there. ❤
Sending you hugs sis. It’s not easy taking care of the children without much help. The Lord is your strength. You shall overcome and be fine. Don’t worry. Hope you’re feel better soon
My dear, we all went through all these your going through now but trust me you will soon over grown it. Do not worry thy will soon turn 18, and that is when you will start getting relief. And start thinking of going for vacation.
Exactly. My daughter is working and she's giving me little from it. And am sooooo happy even if the money is small. She said, mummy I will pay my degree fees .❤
Well done dear, Jehovah is your strength. I'm a single mother of 4 children grown up and a carer for my mum that is living with me now. I'm also burnt out now and stressed, we'll surely be fine. Take care
Take a small vacation away from family and friends , go to a small beautiful European country just be alone,be happy, eat healthy, sleep well and just enjoy those beautiful moments alone go to the woods and visit those beautiful summer flowers. I suggest Scandinavia countries like Finland, Sweden or Norway, travel and enjoy yourself and Watch over your health watch your blood pressure . Am telling you,you will notice that big change by the time you return from the journey everything will be reset. Stay strong and prayerful in the Lord at all times.
It is well, you’re a strong woman it’s not easy especially in this obodo oyibo naturally a woman was created to be a helper not to carry all the load on her head. Take yourself out, go on a vacation, just you, pamper yourself you need it.
Please always take time out for yourself it’s important for your health please I just started that and you will be surprise how much you need it and deserve it and never feel guilty for it ❤
Wao,just finished your video now and like I said same story but you need structure to be happy with 3kids. But will really like to get together and share how I navigate that’s working for me. .
Girl i feels that same way to sometimes that is why i watch you tube just to hear people talk i feels so lonley and my daughter is living with me but sometimes i still feels the lonelyness i am also a divorce girl you make me cry sometimes i turn to god
I've been there dear...I was married for 13 years before I left to be by myself and raise my daughters 28 & 22 and they are both graduates...I went through the same phase, 😘😘😘😆😆😆and it shall pass
My Sister. May the Lord help you as you go through these challenges. Listening to you, it’s all circled around the children and your marriage. Divorce is not easy coupled with the fact that only you are looking after four children Wow. Not easy for a couple talk of one person in abroad. It’s gonna be overwhelming. I will suggest you get a holiday, find time to socialise with close friends and also speak to a therapist. Those children should be a source of comfort for you. They will remember all you went through because of them in future and will reward you accordingly.May the good Lord strengthen you Sis. Be strong ❤
Leave ur kids n ‘get a holiday’😳😳😳😳 Leave ur job(s) n ‘get a holiday’🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️ Some people need 2 relocate 2 days UK/Europe, so they ‘know d coco’🤦♂️ 1💖
All of these is not about you being single, a mother is a mother , most Father's always put their jobs first Augusta you are doing well And all you are going through in your mind right now is normal
Hi Augusta. Weldone. Pat yourself on the back and exhale. You are powered by the Almighty God. I really hope my comment lightens you up. I would love to connect ❤
Am goi g through same. I haven't made videos nor posted in a while. The routine gets monotonous. My suggestions will be, get a spa massage, vacation for 3-4days then, check you hormonal profile.( hormonal imbalance can mess with a while lot than we know of,) sleep disorder, mood, being unhappy etc. Sending you love ❤️
Augusta.. my name sake … you need a change of diet. Find time to Exercise and meditate. Take away caffeine in both tea and coffee and take more protein like eggs in the mornings. I was like this the beginning of the year and as someone in the medical field nothing worked to snap me out of it but I had to go holistic and I’m feel a lot better . Trust me .
Hi Augusta, what you’re saying seems like you have thyroid issues. It does sometimes come with mood swings especially when you add some few pounds. Ask your GP for thyroid text.
Austergold, the thing is, the pressure is very high on you. Your ex. Is not carrying his weight, so, everything is on your shoulders. It is OVERWHELMING for any one carrying EVERYTHING!! My suggestion. Stop covering for your ex husband. Children are smarter than thought. You may need to sit them all down at some point and let them know how you have struggled to have their father involved with them and the reality of what is. Too much pressure is on you, so you RETREAT, and pretend with the children that all is ok. Children are smart, they feel when things are not the way you tell them things are. Take some time, perhaps, get a female experienced SOCIAL WORKER/COUNSELOR who you can see PRIVATELY, to talk through your matters. Nothing is wrong with you getting some professional guidance and support here. Think about it.HOD BLESS YOU!
My dear Augustergold ❤❤❤, I am in your shoes right now. 😢😢😢. Please can I DM you on your social media so I can pour out my mind, please. I need someone to talk to. My head is full. Thank you for opening up.❤❤
Sis, I felt exactly this way in 2020 and 2021, and recently as well. Try and check your thyroid function levels, take Vitamin D. I juggled a lot in Canada with three children, schooled 2years program, working at the same time, looking out for others and very little time for myself. Take off time, if you can travel for 3days, do, go for a walk, exercise that will help your adrenaline levels and energy levels. Just know that God loves you, Augusta. I wish you all the best.❤
It is called severe stress. You have been carrying so much. You are feeling overwhelmed and need a break. Also watch your sleep. It is possible that you are not sleeping enough. Also learn to say NO and delegate some duties to other people. Go get a massage or spa treatment. Also stop worrying and trust God
It is time to focus on yourself. If your children are old enough, assign them tasks to do and they should also learn to wait. No, you have been talking care of everyone else except yourself. Unfortunately, everyone has got used to asked you to do things and they expect immediate compliance. Also learn to be in one place at a time. If you are in a meeting, focus on it and set your phone on silent mode and only look at your phone after the meeting. Don't be afraid that something will go wrong, don't worry God will take care of everyone so don't worry. I used to feel the way you are feeling until I learnt that I am not God and can't carry everything and everybody. Sometimes, I will put my phone on silent and sleep without setting alarm
Sending you hugs strong Augusta Gold🤗🤗🤗
The Lord is your strength ❤
Thank you so much!
I feel your pain sister. Thank you for being vulnerable. This too shall pass. There is light at the end of the tunnel This is my story even though I’m still in the marriage. I will Dm you
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My dear Augusta, i totally understood everything that you are going through as a single mother struggling with 4 children. I went through the same but trust me it will eventually get better once the kids are out of college. Try to focus more on yourself by socialize, attend parties/weddings and travel too. You might consider talking to your doctor about your feelings or it might be due to hormonal too. Best wishes 😊.
I have done that.
Na so life be my darling sister, i was same some times back, but now God has helped me through. God be with you and you will eat the fruit of your labour IJMN. Remain strong and stay blessed ❤
Sending 🥰🤗
Truth be told, you said it all. It's really hard being a single mum. I am so encouraged by your various content that you are indeed a blessing to me. Thank you so much for all you do much-loved ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
It’s called a down time Augusta. At one point or the other in our lives we all experience this situation were things are going fine in every aspect of our lives but we still feel an unexplainable sadness. It’s a phase and it’ll pass just stay strong. Sending you tons of hugs and strength sis ❤❤🫂🫂
Thank you for the insight.
9 years doing the job alone as a single mother,child's father doesn't want any contact with me or the child,sometimes it's heartbreaking but when i see my child i dust myself and keep moving.
Big hug.
It happens to most people sometimes. Certain news etc can cause this. Thanks for being open. For two weeks now I ve been in reclusive just getting out of it.
You will be fine! You will eat the fruit of ur labour. Your kids must be proud of you.
Augusta thank you for this video. Many people are struggling with these issues, both married and single. I can totally relate. Sometimes it can get really overwhelming. God help us all.
My dear only God can truly understand what you are going through. It’s truly not an easy journey and I am happy you were comfortable enough to share with us. You definitely need a break. Sending you lots of love, warm hugs and light. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️. I will put you in my prayers.
Sis you’re beautiful 😊, love your channel ❤❤❤
My story. God bless all single mothers.
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God is your strength ❤❤
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Well done my sis May God protect you and your children
O yea Augusta ,
I get you,in same situation and all I can say to you is God is your strength hmm.
Court case caused me over £14,000 of 5yrs dragging just because he wants to use my daughter to stay in the country (a child he never wanted in the first place)
But you know what?
Justice will always prevail and evil doers will get their reward it may take long but they will get it.
Don't beat yourself up. I understand exactly what you are saying, and it happens to the best of us. Thank you for being vulnerable. This is the first step to turning things around. I know exactly how you feel. Hang on in there. ❤
Thanks.
God be with you Augusta
Sending you hugs sis. It’s not easy taking care of the children without much help. The Lord is your strength. You shall overcome and be fine. Don’t worry. Hope you’re feel better soon
My dear, we all went through all these your going through now but trust me you will soon over grown it. Do not worry thy will soon turn 18, and that is when you will start getting relief. And start thinking of going for vacation.
Exactly. My daughter is working and she's giving me little from it. And am sooooo happy even if the money is small. She said, mummy I will pay my degree fees .❤
Well done dear, Jehovah is your strength. I'm a single mother of 4 children grown up and a carer for my mum that is living with me now.
I'm also burnt out now and stressed, we'll surely be fine. Take care
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Take a small vacation away from family and friends , go to a small beautiful European country just be alone,be happy, eat healthy, sleep well and just enjoy those beautiful moments alone go to the woods and visit those beautiful summer flowers.
I suggest Scandinavia countries like Finland, Sweden or Norway, travel and enjoy yourself and Watch over your health watch your blood pressure .
Am telling you,you will notice that big change by the time you return from the journey everything will be reset.
Stay strong and prayerful in the Lord at all times.
Thank you
It is well, you’re a strong woman it’s not easy especially in this obodo oyibo naturally a woman was created to be a helper not to carry all the load on her head. Take yourself out, go on a vacation, just you, pamper yourself you need it.
I think there's a vacuum in your heart, and I pray to God that he feels that space for you
Relax
Please always take time out for yourself it’s important for your health please I just started that and you will be surprise how much you need it and deserve it and never feel guilty for it ❤
The Lord is your strength. I think it's just burnout. Just take care of you. Give yourself a good break.
Thank you.
You're a strong woman ❤❤
Wao,just finished your video now and like I said same story but you need structure to be happy with 3kids.
But will really like to get together and share how I navigate that’s working for me.
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You are a powerful woman. ❤
Thank you
May all your Labour not be in vain in Jesus name.The Lord will strengthen you.. Amen
Girl i feels that same way to sometimes that is why i watch you tube just to hear people talk i feels so lonley and my daughter is living with me but sometimes i still feels the lonelyness i am also a divorce girl you make me cry sometimes i turn to god
@@GloriaNoel-me9vp cyber hug dear.
I've been there dear...I was married for 13 years before I left to be by myself and raise my daughters 28 & 22 and they are both graduates...I went through the same phase, 😘😘😘😆😆😆and it shall pass
Thanks for sharing
My Sister. May the Lord help you as you go through these challenges. Listening to you, it’s all circled around the children and your marriage. Divorce is not easy coupled with the fact that only you are looking after four children Wow. Not easy for a couple talk of one person in abroad. It’s gonna be overwhelming. I will suggest you get a holiday, find time to socialise with close friends and also speak to a therapist. Those children should be a source of comfort for you. They will remember all you went through because of them in future and will reward you accordingly.May the good Lord strengthen you Sis. Be strong ❤
Leave ur kids n ‘get a holiday’😳😳😳😳
Leave ur job(s) n ‘get a holiday’🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️
Some people need 2 relocate 2 days UK/Europe, so they ‘know d coco’🤦♂️
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Thank you
All of these is not about you being single, a mother is a mother , most Father's always put their jobs first
Augusta you are doing well
And all you are going through in your mind right now is normal
Hi Augusta. Weldone. Pat yourself on the back and exhale. You are powered by the Almighty God. I really hope my comment lightens you up. I would love to connect ❤
Thank you.
THANKS VERY MUCH DARLING
Am goi g through same. I haven't made videos nor posted in a while. The routine gets monotonous. My suggestions will be, get a spa massage, vacation for 3-4days then, check you hormonal profile.( hormonal imbalance can mess with a while lot than we know of,) sleep disorder, mood, being unhappy etc. Sending you love ❤️
Please have a break, go on holiday in the sun by the seaside.
Much needed.
Augusta.. my name sake … you need a change of diet. Find time to Exercise and meditate. Take away caffeine in both tea and coffee and take more protein like eggs in the mornings. I was like this the beginning of the year and as someone in the medical field nothing worked to snap me out of it but I had to go holistic and I’m feel a lot better . Trust me .
Thank you, appreciate.
Hi Augusta, what you’re saying seems like you have thyroid issues. It does sometimes come with mood swings especially when you add some few pounds. Ask your GP for thyroid text.
Also low iron level causes that
I am doing general body check already as I complained to my GP.
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Their dad should be taking them every other week, to allow you rest
Austergold, the thing is, the pressure is very high on you. Your ex. Is not carrying his weight, so, everything is on your shoulders. It is OVERWHELMING for any one carrying EVERYTHING!! My suggestion. Stop covering for your ex husband. Children are smarter than thought. You may need to sit them all down at some point and let them know how you have struggled to have their father involved with them and the reality of what is. Too much pressure is on you, so you RETREAT, and pretend with the children that all is ok. Children are smart, they feel when things are not the way you tell them things are. Take some time, perhaps, get a female experienced SOCIAL WORKER/COUNSELOR who you can see PRIVATELY, to talk through your matters. Nothing is wrong with you getting some professional guidance and support here. Think about it.HOD BLESS YOU!
Thank you for this.
@@AUGUSTERGOLD You are welcome. I’m a retired Nursing Director and Administrator. I’ve seen it all. Take the pressure off my dear❤️😊
@@yvettewilliams5967 I will try...
@@AUGUSTERGOLD That’s all you can do. Get some exercise, join a Zumba Class and hydrate😀
You will definitely snap out of it
My dear Augustergold ❤❤❤, I am in your shoes right now. 😢😢😢. Please can I DM you on your social media so I can pour out my mind, please. I need someone to talk to. My head is full. Thank you for opening up.❤❤
Sis, I felt exactly this way in 2020 and 2021, and recently as well. Try and check your thyroid function levels, take Vitamin D.
I juggled a lot in Canada with three children, schooled 2years program, working at the same time, looking out for others and very little time for myself.
Take off time, if you can travel for 3days, do, go for a walk, exercise that will help your adrenaline levels and energy levels.
Just know that God loves you, Augusta.
I wish you all the best.❤
It is called severe stress. You have been carrying so much. You are feeling overwhelmed and need a break. Also watch your sleep. It is possible that you are not sleeping enough. Also learn to say NO and delegate some duties to other people. Go get a massage or spa treatment. Also stop worrying and trust God
It is time to focus on yourself. If your children are old enough, assign them tasks to do and they should also learn to wait. No, you have been talking care of everyone else except yourself. Unfortunately, everyone has got used to asked you to do things and they expect immediate compliance. Also learn to be in one place at a time. If you are in a meeting, focus on it and set your phone on silent mode and only look at your phone after the meeting. Don't be afraid that something will go wrong, don't worry God will take care of everyone so don't worry. I used to feel the way you are feeling until I learnt that I am not God and can't carry everything and everybody. Sometimes, I will put my phone on silent and sleep without setting alarm
Thank you so much.
My doctor adviced this.
This is a great advice.
Is good you speak it out than let it bored you down.
Yeah, thank you.
It is your hormones