I watched your podcast today that my husband showed me. I come from an age where masturbation was not used in the vocabulary. I feel comfortable listening to the two of you. I would love to hear and see further podcasts centered around women's sexual health and learning to stop feeling ashamed of my need to pleasure myself.
I find it odd that you caution against the use of erotic videos because of potential desensitization, but then promote vibrating devices. Numerous studies found that watching unrealistic videos does not reduce performance with a partner beyond the overindulgence of Os (e.g. prolactin build-up, refractory period...), or what already exists due to age, preferences etc. However, the regular use of unrealistic stimulation does cause performance issues (e.g. using the prone position and pressure when alone makes partner touch significantly less effective). And since people don't vibrate, the regular use of strong vibrating devices conditions you away from the natural touch of your partner. On top of which the 100s of strong impacts per minutes causes negative neural feedback. This desensitization is only temporary, but can remain in part for weeks. This numbing effect is why vibrating devices are used to treat superficial pain, such as after a BOTOX injection.
Blindness!!??? Don’t think so, BUT growing up Catholic, us young boys “knew” it was a mortal sin, AND dying in a state of MS meant….yup, burning 🔥 in hell forever….thank God, our hippie priest, JJ Jackson, MM, saved us all from a catholic education! 😮🤔🫣
What if only 1 person in the relationship masterbates alone? Is that common? Do you think it says something about the partner that doesn’t or they relationship itself.
I just saw your show that aired about 5 mos. ago w/ Pharmacist Tim Smith regarding a compounded med w/ cialis/viagra/and a nitric oxide component. Sorry to jump in on this show to ask you Doctor if this “green blue” pill is available at this time. Please let me know. Thank you for your very informative shows.
my wife of 40 years has parkinson and in year 5 with that , just the last year she is having more difficullty orgasming by hand or toy . any advice thank full to help her out.thanks
Hi Norman! Thank you for your comment - we appreciate you following along. The OShot is an amazing treatment for sensitivity, orgasmic strength, and more. It uses your own PRP to regenerate and stimulate. You want to ensure you go to a certified OShot provider.
Oral can help, in a good position,on the bed with the bloke kneeling end ov bed,the lady is comfortable here and without lube use saiva to stimulate her naturally.
Well if you edge about one hour per day you will boost your BPH ,but just like working out at the gym your going want to pump those numbers up to 3 hours per day (watching TV is a good time to find the time) just use a light natural lube.
The whole thing is no different than putting a worm on a hook over and over again, it's all about worm presentation to progress from a lousy baiter to a master baiter.
I have a catheter for life. Tube inserted in my penis. Two years now. My female nurse never asks about erections, or do I want one. Are nurses trained to avoid this body function completely? I want this to happen monthly. I only have the time between catheter changes to masterbate and ejaculate. Maybe 5 minutes. For 30 days of catheters. Am I out of line by bringing this up. What should I do ? Please reply.
I think masterbation is good. One thing that no one wants to talk about DNA exchange during sex. Like a women that has unprotected sex. With multiple men. There is genes from all them. In your children in future. Please look in to that. Don't use my name please
I understand what you are saying, but when fertilisation occurs, Only one sperm will be allowed to enter the egg, and it's in the DNA in that single sperm, that will produce the child's characteristics.
Questions… I have wondered if masturbating before a date will help me not want to have sex. Another question if I masturbate too much will I become used to my control and feeling and pressure and then have more difficulties with a partner. And what about using toys… well I have more difficulty achieving orgasm with a partner if I’m used to toys. As a woman can I masturbate too much? They talk about men masturbating too much, but there’s never any information about women overdoing it. If I fantasize about certain things while I’m masturbating, does that mean that I want those things? For example, I think about women while I masturbate but I’ve never had sex with a woman, and I love having sex with a man. Should I try having sex with a woman… I would like to, but I definitely love having sex with men. OK those are just a few my questions! Lol
I watched your podcast today that my husband showed me. I come from an age where masturbation was not used in the vocabulary. I feel comfortable listening to the two of you. I would love to hear and see further podcasts centered around women's sexual health and learning to stop feeling ashamed of my need to pleasure myself.
At 72, 10 years removed from “successful” radiation therapy for prostate cancer, it’s saved my sanity and my sense of wholeness as a man!!!
Both of you are helping me in my self-love journey. My ears are being massaged by your voices.
I saw a buddy of mine at the bar, pouring beer on his hand to get his date drunk.
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I find it odd that you caution against the use of erotic videos because of potential desensitization, but then promote vibrating devices. Numerous studies found that watching unrealistic videos does not reduce performance with a partner beyond the overindulgence of Os (e.g. prolactin build-up, refractory period...), or what already exists due to age, preferences etc. However, the regular use of unrealistic stimulation does cause performance issues (e.g. using the prone position and pressure when alone makes partner touch significantly less effective). And since people don't vibrate, the regular use of strong vibrating devices conditions you away from the natural touch of your partner. On top of which the 100s of strong impacts per minutes causes negative neural feedback. This desensitization is only temporary, but can remain in part for weeks. This numbing effect is why vibrating devices are used to treat superficial pain, such as after a BOTOX injection.
I have added your video to my playlist.
Thanks.
I remember at the age of 14 my dad telling me I would grow hair on my palms if I masterbated. Of course I immediately looked at my hands. Lol
Blindness!!??? Don’t think so, BUT growing up Catholic, us young boys “knew” it was a mortal sin, AND dying in a state of MS meant….yup, burning 🔥 in hell forever….thank God, our hippie priest, JJ Jackson, MM, saved us all from a catholic education! 😮🤔🫣
What if only 1 person in the relationship masterbates alone? Is that common? Do you think it says something about the partner that doesn’t or they relationship itself.
8:08 OK yes, this was two years ago… Just curious about the drip. But enjoying the masturbation conversation. Lol.
Thanks for sharing this information! ✌️👍❤️
I just saw your show that aired about 5 mos. ago w/ Pharmacist Tim Smith regarding a compounded med w/ cialis/viagra/and a nitric oxide component. Sorry to jump in on this show to ask you Doctor if this “green blue” pill is available at this time. Please let me know. Thank you for your very informative shows.
Thanks for watching Steven! You can give our office, RevitalyzeMD, a call at 865-293-5828.
@@drdebradurst hi ladies, is there such a thing as a green blue pill
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One thing forsure it will make you go bald ! It made my hair get so thin in my head I went completely bald
What are tour thoughts on the electronic device, anally inserted, kegals for men. It shocks the muscles. Does it work?
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I just learned it’s so fun but I feel bad after I don’t know why
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You both sound like you are fun to be with 🤷♂️😊
We are!😀
Can I just do it until I need glasses?
Lmao or grow hair on your palms
My mom told me if I did it 100 dd I would go blind that 101 time I was scared to open my eyes lol
my wife of 40 years has parkinson and in year 5 with that , just the last year she is having more difficullty orgasming by hand or toy . any advice thank full to help her out.thanks
Hi Norman!
Thank you for your comment - we appreciate you following along. The OShot is an amazing treatment for sensitivity, orgasmic strength, and more. It uses your own PRP to regenerate and stimulate. You want to ensure you go to a certified OShot provider.
Oral can help, in a good position,on the bed with the bloke kneeling end ov bed,the lady is comfortable here and without lube use saiva to stimulate her naturally.
Othe countries have the right idea bj bar happy ending included massages makes the whole day happier.🎉 Beautiful ladys enjoy your work
have another therapist on here says porn is destructive to the brain,
We have to disagree!
I support your post to much shame and self righteous.
If I as a man masturbate more often will it reduce my BPH?
Well if you edge about one hour per day you will boost your BPH ,but just like working out at the gym your going want to pump those numbers up to 3 hours per day (watching TV is a good time to find the time) just use a light natural lube.
Coconut oil. Extra virgin
The whole thing is no different than putting a worm on a hook over and over again, it's all about worm presentation to progress from a lousy baiter to a master baiter.
nexttime, short skirts and platform heels ✨😘 so we can self luv 😉
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I have a catheter for life. Tube inserted in my penis. Two years now. My female nurse never asks about erections, or do I want one. Are nurses trained to avoid this body function completely? I want this to happen monthly. I only have the time between catheter changes to masterbate and ejaculate. Maybe 5 minutes. For 30 days of catheters. Am I out of line by bringing this up. What should I do ? Please reply.
I love to kiss and cuddle touch each other
I think masterbation is good. One thing that no one wants to talk about DNA exchange during sex. Like a women that has unprotected sex. With multiple men. There is genes from all them. In your children in future. Please look in to that. Don't use my name please
Oooops...Ben????
I understand what you are saying, but when fertilisation occurs,
Only one sperm will be allowed to enter the egg, and it's in the DNA in that single sperm, that will produce the child's characteristics.
I'm pleased to hear that you think masturbation is good 👍
Doctors used to condone smoking.
Questions… I have wondered if masturbating before a date will help me not want to have sex. Another question if I masturbate too much will I become used to my control and feeling and pressure and then have more difficulties with a partner. And what about using toys… well I have more difficulty achieving orgasm with a partner if I’m used to toys. As a woman can I masturbate too much? They talk about men masturbating too much, but there’s never any information about women overdoing it. If I fantasize about certain things while I’m masturbating, does that mean that I want those things? For example, I think about women while I masturbate but I’ve never had sex with a woman, and I love having sex with a man. Should I try having sex with a woman… I would like to, but I definitely love having sex with men.
OK those are just a few my questions! Lol
8:08 OK yes, this was two years ago… Just curious about the drip. But enjoying the masturbation conversation. Lol.